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Why do you care about their opinion? You can't outlogic an emotional response.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/23 07:39 AM
8

Nah fam, park, mall. If I'm feeling generous icecream or coffee
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:23 PM
-4

pretty beta, but giving it to men gets you free protein, that is alpha af
/r/askTRP04/06/21 08:36 PM
3

Same issue was so worried I broke my dick then found out I needed King Size
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:42 AM
1

I want to live alone in an area where I have easy access to a gym and nightlife. Rent will make up approximately a quarter of my salary. I'm in Kenya so the cost of living is comparatively cheaper than in most western countries.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:22 PM
2

This is really smart, I have a friend who is in a similar position who took out a mortgage and is about to rent it out. He is however spending half of his salary on the mortgage and has no plans of moving out anytime soon.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 01:19 PM
2

It's not just about pussy, it's about the autonomy and freedom. If anything I can try it out and I can always move back in if it doesn't work out.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:11 AM
1

I was thinking the same. The industry I work in enables me to pick up remote freelance or part-time work. Alternatively I've been diving deep into digital assets as another source of income. My plan is to chill until my probation (3 months) is finished and to use that saved up cash to grab furniture, utensils, etc.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:55 AM
1

I experienced the same issues too. It was the anxiety of getting that first lay combined with a bad fitting condom that choked my dick and tore. Experience took the anxiety away and I found larger condoms. Also, if you're jerking off to porn that's another reason, I suffered from porn-induced ED, it went away after I stopped watching porn.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:43 AM
1

About to start a job. Salary would be enough, but there won't be much in terms of savings.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:10 AM
1

I would if I could go to the gym and dates. But still the lack of logistics would be a problem, I'm already in a long ass dry spell.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:09 AM
2

I got a job, and I plan on saving during my 3 month probation before moving out. Would this be enough for a decent nest egg?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:01 AM
0

Thanks for responding. I plan on doing it immediately after my probation so that I can grab the essentials. How about the issue of not having a lot to save?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:59 AM
1

Play golf probably
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:33 PM
1

Use the same structure of progressive overload and volume in your other activities.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:31 PM
1

Underwater basket weaving?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:27 PM
1

If you don't do it, 3 years and 6 months from now you'll still be 28 and with no degree
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:35 PM
1

I'd recommend playing golf
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:17 PM
1

He's going to stand out alright ⛺
/r/askTRP27/10/20 06:04 AM
2

You know you could just go ahead with your current pics and see how it goes. Stop looking for a buffer
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:20 PM
1

All of them, would you rather have one source of income or many?
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:16 PM
3

Banter back to see whether it's in good faith
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:14 PM
1

You're operating in the woman's frame.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:13 PM
2

The generic cold showers and nofap advice. It's makes you feel like you're doing something while accomplishing nothing.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:12 PM
2

Never talk about the game just play it, and also stop DEER'ing. Any attention to a girl is good attention
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:10 PM
56

Everybody lies on trp about banging only 8's and 9's, so you don't have to apologize for liking girls who aren't typically attractive. As for me, I'm a sucker for a fat ass, so a plain-jane or even a slightly homely girl with a great butt is fair game.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:07 PM
16

Any tips for us mortals
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:01 PM
2

All this people telling you she's just an fwb so it's fine, have their heads screwed on wrong. She crossed YOUR boundary so act accordingly
/r/askTRP26/10/20 07:23 AM
23

Keep doing you, liked the golf analogy.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 07:12 AM
1

Screen for more high interest women
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:22 AM
1

Lol, imagine thinking you are so important that everyone in the gym is staring at you working out. When you realize how unimportant you are, you will stop giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:49 AM
2

This kind of binary thinking is absolutely retarded. This things aren't mutually exclusive, you can work on your mission while still improving your game and landing girls. It's just a matter of prioritizing what's more important and using the leftover time to pursue other activities. You are only protecting your ego because you are scared of rejection, and the SMV peak doesn't mean that you can't get laid until your 35. Stop "turning your necessity into virtue".
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:42 AM
3

Think of it like this, "What's in it for you?". She gets your attention and validation when you text her but what do you get? Nothing. That's why it should be limited to mostly logistics.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:27 PM
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I know right, as much as I like to cringe at my old behaviours it bothers me more imagining what I would have become if I never found TRP
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:16 PM
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Positive visualization is good but you know what's better? Doing the fucking work.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:57 PM
2

What helped me when I was trapped in that pit of despair is the belief that doing something was always better than doing nothing. When the gyms closed down i did push ups and table rows, when I could no longer afford my whey and creatine i just stuck to eating clean and making the most with what I had. When I was laid off, I hunkered down and did udemy courses to improve my resume for the future. Whatever effort no matter how small, is infinitely better than giving up, even if it's just one set …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:54 PM
3

Why don't you go try it out and come back and tell us.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:48 PM
5

So many people in the smash bros community are having allegations thrown at them and the idiots are writing fucking paragraphs to detail their "experiences" and apologies. Literally, admitting to the crime or alluding to it happening. If anybody decides to report them to the police there case might as well be start learning how to give head.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 11:47 AM
1

If you are wanna learn how to game guys read 'How towin friends and influence people'
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:08 PM
5

Tell them they can make up for all those years of slavery... 😉
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 11:28 AM
4

It's a DHV and also in caveman days getting kicked out of your tribe meant certain death.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:41 AM
5

Can we stop with the victim Olympics
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 08:31 AM
1

Because that's usually how it plays out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:57 AM
2

TL:DR Women aren't men with vaginas
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 12:39 PM
1

Why don't you participate regularly on the TRP YouTube channel?
/r/askTRP28/04/20 06:21 AM
5

Check illimitable man's blog
/r/askTRP28/04/20 06:08 AM
1

Now all you need is consistency over the years.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:20 PM
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If only someone had written a book about what women look for throughout their lives. I wonder what the book would be called, maybe Preventive Medicine.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:15 AM
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I don't care about the other guys but all of my LTR's were with women who had sex with me in a relatively short period of time and all of the girls I didn't bang soon I lost touch with. In my experience if a girl didn't want to jump my bones it's either they had better options already, they were very religious, they weren't attracted to me or they had weird hang ups on sex. And anyway TRP doesn't advocate for marriage and if you want to prioritize your sexual pleasure over their own the sex won'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:53 AM
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Ok, you can go sit in a corner and cry and moan while taking no responsibility for your life and needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:58 PM
2

Why do y'all people act like sex isn't a mutually enjoyable experience? You act like it's a man stealing value from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:24 PM
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What's stopping the guy from leaving after that arbitrary amount of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:18 PM
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Women, always making things about themselves. Never taking responsibility for their own decisions. Lying when it's convenient. Mind games in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:05 PM
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My own tips: For a long time I thought my dick had a problem as it would start going soft once I put a condom on, until I discovered larger sizes. If you want to last longer use the same breathing technique as meditating, it's also helps clear up the insecurities. Women are externally validated thus your satisfaction is her satisfaction. If you don't cum she'll probably get offended. Sex will always be a bit awkward, so don't let a negative experience define your future endeavours. Lastly, putti…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 08:58 PM
1

The point I was trying to make is that the janitor could still get more lays than what he was having before, even if those lays won't be super models.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:09 AM
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Whenever I see a comment like this, about looks > everything. I think to myself, "so what?". Am I just supposed to curl into the fetal position and cry until women change their behaviour ? You have also misunderstood the point of TRP. Obviously, guys who are better looking will have it easier than unattractive guys but looks only open the door, social proof and preselection reign king. I have a rather plain looking friend(as short or shorter than most women) but the guy scores hot women because …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:43 AM
2

"women and children first"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:22 PM
1

Unironically compared FDS to TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:11 PM
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I initially came here to look for insightful opposing viewpoints that would cause me to question my beliefs after hanging around on TRP for sometime. Instead I found the "men are evil" circlejerk and the "women are evil" circlejerk and the worst one "I am the bigger victim, boo hoo for me!" daily thread. I am convinced no true debate goes on here, it's only people cherry picking posts or comments and using them to reaffirm their beliefs. I think all this is just another form of masturbation for …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:07 PM
1

Religion is the biggest blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:45 PM
2

Ah yes! The dream TRP lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:45 PM
5

Women are women whether she is in the Middle East or some shithole in Africa or some remote island. It's either done under wraps or done openly like in the West. Believe me, because im in that African shithole.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:26 PM
1

Why do you care? There may be a million reasons.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 04:57 PM
11

You can still keep her as a plate if you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:52 PM
1

What genuinely shocks me is that most women cannot see past their own solipsism thus can't empathize with men. Debating them on this sub is a waste of time due to that plus them actively evading responsibility for their undoings. It's always a man's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:57 AM
2

"short term exclusive dating" are you happy now?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:51 AM
1

Then, what's up with all the losers on deadbedrooms and trp
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:40 PM
1

Your comment made me dyslexic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:29 PM
2

FDS doesn't acknowledge the need of self improvement or really any active effort to acquire their goals unlike RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:08 PM
1

I don't think there a lot of women over 6 feet with a chiseled jaw and a huge pp and a high paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:47 PM
11

ITT: Men should just get it™ and not need "dishonest" tactics to solve their sexless lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:14 PM
1

Turned 21 yesterday, in the same boat OP
/r/askTRP16/04/20 05:53 AM
1

There is a whole reading list with about 50 books, floating around
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:23 AM
1

Don't respond, if there is anything I have learnt from internet drama is that any response validates the other person's position.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:50 PM
1

I want to hop on test when my natural T levels decrease when I hit 40.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:34 PM
1

Read the Sex God Method
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:29 PM
1

Read the Sex God Method
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:29 PM
6

I think the problem is that you have placed a huge burden of performance on yourself. You don't have to be the best, make the most money or be the most good looking guy. You have just have to be better than who you were yesterday. You have big daunting goals, so big that you have convinced yourself that you can't achieve them so you would rather wallow in self-pity than chase excellence. Try breaking down your goals into smaller hurdles and take a step at a time.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:27 PM
2

Learn game, approach women. Take a look at the mystery method and similar books. Treat game as it's own skill or hobby
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:19 PM
9

Any situation in which a woman holds sex for a ransom is an attempt at manipulation. If you have a scarcity mindset you will probably cave but if you have other sexual options it won't bother you at all. Don't pay and if she leaves, who cares?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:15 PM
1

Which other books do you have?
/r/RedPillBooks06/04/20 09:15 AM
1

Please send it to me
/r/RedPillBooks06/04/20 09:15 AM
7

Spoken like a true guitarist
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:03 PM
1

I don't have an abundance mindset because I have no abundance but at the same neither do I come off as a thirsty boy. I don't oneitis either.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:56 PM
1

I believe the difference between PUA and TRP is that PUA places no emphasis on self development and makes the woman the prize. I am already working on myself and becoming the prize so my question is is it worth it to also develop game as it's own skill?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:54 PM
1

Yeah, I've been working out for two years. I am trying to treat game like it's own separate skill, even though I might look great it won't help if I don't have any game to back it up.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:50 PM
1

Alright, then how should I go about improving my game if I am already increasing my value?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 10:59 AM
1

What are you reading and what skills are you building?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 09:57 AM
1

Just jerk off without the porn. Porn is bad for you.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 09:56 AM
3

Non available to non-us residents
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 08:07 AM
6

I've been following this guy for quite sometime, he mostly talks about self reliance and not to depend on employment or romanticise it, basically like the red pill when it comes to dev jobs and job hunting. This isn't the first time something like this has happened to him, he is divorced (he got married at 20, he moved all the way to Finland for pussy). He's too hang up on her. He mentions in the video he is reading a Rollo book and talking in TRP lingo so I hope he gets better and doesn't repea…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/20 05:19 PM
1

Brush your teeth
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:39 PM
3

I think he means she is his betabux
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:23 AM
3

I share the same struggle, check the living arrangements of the girls and whether you can do it from their place, if you have cash you can get an Airbnb, you can try a friend's place or car, you can also get a cheap hotel but I feel it would kill the mystery, you can get creative and do it outdoors. I once did it a couple of metres away from a nature trail. If you are feeling brave, parking lots, changing rooms and toilets are your friend but that could be illegal depending on where you live. N/…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 11:40 AM
3

How do you take care of yourself?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:06 AM
6

There are two types of women: 1.The ones I've fucked. 2.The ones I haven't yet met.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/20 08:46 AM
2

Always assume attraction, try and escalate, if she shoots you down, it wasn't an ioi, if you score it was an ioi. That's the only way to know
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:18 AM
0

Testosterone
/r/askTRP07/12/19 03:53 PM
1

You apply that to shit tests not disrespect
/r/askTRP17/11/19 07:00 PM
2

Calmly ask her whether she is autistic, then apologize and say you shouldn't have asked that. The trick is to act like your actually concerned, if you show anger or frustration it won't work, you have to genuinely believe she's retarded.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 06:55 PM
1

Apart from meeting, which other jaw exercises did you do?
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:41 AM
2

How can you be 6"2', ripped and intelligent and be a 6. The fact that you said you had your face 'rated' screams insecurity. I don't think you're very confident, or as one of the comments said you lack internal game.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:34 AM
1

I'm gay...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:12 AM
1

This sounds like too much work.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:50 AM
1

Where did you meet them?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:47 PM
1

There is an update in my most recent post
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:42 AM
1

There is an update in my most recent post
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:42 AM
1

The update is in my most recent post
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:41 AM
1

Check my most recent post
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:40 AM
1

She hasn't earned it yet. I will ignore the topic until she brings it up again, eventually I expect her to give me an ultimatum. I can't avoid it forever
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:30 AM
1

I was about to make that mistake, I was actually trying to tell her we had been exclusive from the start, but she is so convinced that she can read me and tell that I am lying that she didn't believe me. Oh well, she is gonna have to earn that commitment
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:26 PM
2

Thanks man, I am going to keep this in mind tomorrow.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:21 PM
8

Take yourself more seriously
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:35 PM
30

I was before I discovered porn
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:38 AM
1

Thanks, I will try standing
/r/askTRP18/09/19 05:21 AM
2

This sounds exactly like a close friend of mine. He is bp to the core, and whenever I try to inject some red pill insights, he shrugs it off because he is terrified of her breaking up with him.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 04:51 AM
1

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:06 PM
1

I don't know man, it just seems like your overthinking it. You're too much in your own head and not in the moment. Try mindful practices like meditation
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:05 PM
1

Make smaller and more specific goals. Instead of trying to become fit, join a gym and try and hit 4 days a week. Instead of trying to lose 20 pounds, lose 2 pounds a month. Don't be general and when you fail try a different approach.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 03:49 PM
1

Setting goals and achieving them, no matter how small they are. Even things like getting out of bed instead of hitting snooze. There's something about writing a goal down and crossing it off that makes me feel more confident. It's like instead of just going with the flow of the chaos of life, you are in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 03:43 PM
1

How do I respond to her acting distant?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:40 PM
2

Not too many since I am fortunate to discover TRP when still young. I have taken this girl out for 3 dates, tried to escalate on the 2nd date was shot down. Gave her another chance, same thing. As Patrice O'Neal said, that is how women fuck guys, so I nexted her since I'm no time whore.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:54 AM
1

Older
/r/askTRP08/09/19 03:38 PM
1

No not really.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:56 AM
1

That's what I'll be doing.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:55 AM
2

My parents are separated, I live with my Mum while my dad doesn't stay in the country and when he does, he stays in some crappy apartment. They built the house together but my dad has never lived in it. He is bluepilled and I doubt he would be thrilled with son having sex before marriage.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:08 AM
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