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FundamentalsORIONFULL23/r/seduction26/08/21 03:34 AM
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5

Ask her out, that's it, if she into you, she'll accept or schedule something , if not, she'll decline and life goes on
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:38 PM
1

Let's assume that she doesn't have a boyfriend unless she says so, ask her out and see how she reacts
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:20 PM
1

Lmao, then chill the f out, im sure you can handle radio silence for a while
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:47 AM
1

She's up for fun but not for a relationship, you sound like you're more into her than shes into you;
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:25 AM
6

She's telling you that she's not ready for a relationship but maybe she's up for fun, dont overthink this, just hang out have fun, and if she's ready to get serious with you she'll communicate it, for now just enjoy the time you got together and don't try to force things
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:52 PM
1

What's the virgen sub.?
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:44 PM
7

Oh yeah, they are very aware of that, generally speaking a woman will have more options than men, some women would try to impose restrictions and/or threat of leaving, however you shouldn't be afraid of what a they say or do
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:35 PM
2

You got this!
/r/seduction02/07/22 08:56 PM
25

Dude, dont be insecure come on, let her miss you, enjoy your vacation and text her when you're feel like sharing some pics or things from your time off.
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:57 PM
2

Why do you want to be liked by them?
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:46 AM
2

Tell us the joke
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:45 AM
2

Dm her right now my dude, ask her how is she doing and see how she's responding, if you notice the conversation is going well ask her out, and if not, she's not that interested in you
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:25 AM
16

Good point
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:54 PM
1

Do nothing, she's not putting enough effort to start something with you
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:46 PM
2

Have you ask her out ?
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:00 PM
255

Maybe she's flirting with this guy as well, dont take it personally, as long as you guys are not exclusive this is fair play, just match her energy and dont put all your eggs in one basket
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:48 PM
1

Can you tell us what happened that make her losing respect for you?
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:40 PM
4

Tell her that you're gonna x place and wondering if she wants to join , if she accepts you need to escalate things physically, you don't need to tell her that you like her, chances are she might already know
/r/seduction12/01/22 04:04 PM
1

The best course of action was not to respond to her question and instead ask her out, op what did you end doing ?
/r/seduction06/01/22 12:18 PM
0

Every single women play those kinda games, they aren't upfront, you don't wanna play games? fine, date a man
/r/seduction30/12/21 01:17 AM
15

If you really want her to define things, dont invite her anymore. Let her ask you out.
/r/seduction29/12/21 03:25 PM
51

Dude play the same game, when she's being nice to you, give her your time and presence and when she becomes flake or rude you step back and give her space. She's not that into you that why she's acting like this
/r/seduction29/12/21 03:05 PM
1

No, instead you should get more busy, people will know that your time is valuable and wont mess it up, on the contrary if youre always available people wont see you as a priority instead they will see you as an option more.
/r/seduction29/12/21 06:08 AM
3

Why should they care ???
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:59 PM
1

Ok, lets then ask her out, and in your first date, just focus on having a good time, dont rush for a kiss build first a good experience
/r/seduction20/12/21 03:54 AM
1

Have you kiss her?
/r/seduction19/12/21 11:51 AM
1

Ask her out.
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:58 PM
16

Yeah,play fire with fire, she's not interested on you as you'd like.
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:17 PM
1

Read, 'how to win friends and influence people'
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:08 PM
1

Work on your self-image first.
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:32 PM
4

Before text him, make sure you got a good profile,you know a couple of pics, and when you text him you could say something like "hey i saw you performing the other day" i bet he will respond
/r/seduction09/12/21 02:31 AM
1

Hey op what do you think it would change once she becomes your girlfriend? It's Okey to ask as long as you feel that you and her are in the same page
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:41 PM
2

Why you do think that you're "entertain him", why you do think that hes playing games? Looks like you enjoy his company
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:44 AM
3

You have 2 options, either you start to fade away and kill any possibility of have something with him, or you start making some moves and find out what lies on the other side.
/r/seduction03/12/21 06:32 AM
2

If I'm understanding this correctly, you guys haven't have any physical action ? Am I right ?
/r/seduction03/12/21 06:05 AM
3

How long since you know this guy?
/r/seduction03/12/21 05:38 AM
9

They're simping, they think that their personality isn't attractive enough for a woman so they have to fake it.
/r/seduction03/12/21 05:22 AM
3

Hey question, why don't you make a move on him? Men also fear rejection
/r/seduction03/12/21 05:13 AM
6

This dynamic is simple, let her make an effort to have you, seduction is like a dance, you get close and then you step back So when you start escale things physically and emotionally, you make your move and see how she responds, women also escale things, if she likes you, she will respond or/ and escalate things probably not in the pace as you'd like This is game, obviously youre doing things right but at some point you're making enough mistakes to kill the attraction
/r/seduction03/12/21 03:34 AM
28

You just answered you own question, dont let her have you, simple as that, the dynamic that you want to create with women is that they will have to make an effort to have your presence/attention. If you notice that she's making less effort to be with you you will give her space, if she wants to know things about you, you wont answer their questions, Women have a detective trait, she will investigate you but you need to dont give information about you (even your feelings) so easily, let have her …
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:17 AM
2

Before you dm her, notice that a couple of likes in your photos doesnt mean nothing, that doesnt mean that she want you to dm her, a lot of guys take the slightly sign to try to make a move, wait for her to show more interest, your attention shouldnt be earn with so little effort
/r/seduction03/12/21 01:59 AM
1

A few things to consider, first when a woman gives you her number doesnt mean that she wants to have something to do with you, in many cases she gives it to you to get rid of you when you approach them, second when you're texting them what are you sub-communicating? Do you give off thirsty vibes? Do you ask for a date without creating enough rapport? And finally I personally take some days to start texting after I get the number not because I'm not interested but rather because its not a top pri…
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:11 PM
-1

Just remove it when you talk to them
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:37 PM
54

Approaching girls at the gym can be a little bit tricky, women are used to get approached almost in every place and situation, so for that reason they have a "social shield" now, they have that "shield" more active than ever at the gym cause a lot of thirsty boys, but don't worry, the only thing that you need to do is build rapport, when you leave the gym or you get to the gym and you see her, try to create some rapport, a simple whats up can be enough, and you need to observe how she reacts to …
/r/seduction30/11/21 04:14 AM
16

Two things will help you, give space meaning don't call nor message everyday, its for the best to have those conversations in person, and if you're already living with that person, take one or 2 days for week to do your own things, and the second thing is uncertainty, dont do the same things over and over, dont let routine kill the relationship, if every Friday you and her go to the same place after work, that experience would become dull, for that reason change things a little bit after some ti…
/r/seduction30/11/21 12:49 AM
1

To adding to all the comments, give them space, if she's really interested in you she will make contact with you
/r/seduction25/11/21 02:11 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/fc2xdw/stop_chasing_people_do_this_instead/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Let me know what you think
/r/seduction19/11/21 03:14 AM
1

Generally speaking women are not gonna say that they are not interested in you, but their actions will tell you everything, she said one thing and then do another thing, if she was interested in going out with you she wouldn't have flaked, now don't text her again that would lower your value.
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:37 AM
1

Go to see a doctor
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:12 PM
2

Dude, that sounds weak as fuck, why wouldn't you be enough for them?
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:57 PM
3

Ok I'm going to tell you want I think you're doing wrong, notice that your approach hasn't worked and you need to change something, Now let's get into it, more than 2 hours in your first dates is just too much, your first dates with a woman would be because she's curious about you, so if you spend 3 hours talking to them, you're killing the curiosity by answering their questions, therefore reducing the attraction. when they start asking questions about yourself, just play a little bit with the i…
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:59 AM
1

How long do your dates usually last? Whats your 'goal' for the first date? Are you telling your dates everything about yourself or you keep the mistery on? After the date how much are you texting? When do you ask for a second date?
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:40 AM
2

13 things that mentally strong people don't do
/r/seduction22/10/21 09:20 AM
1

Before texting think about your profile, after you've established contact they are gonna check your profile out, if your profile doesn't make them curious about you they will dismiss you in that moment, When you text them, dont text to get her sympathy, teaser her a little bit, After you've text them, you need to wait and see what's is their reaction, if they leave you on seen, they are not interested so dont double text and move on into the next one
/r/seduction22/10/21 08:58 AM
1

Women can smell your desesperation, they can tell right away when a dude lacks femenine attention, to prevent the odds of getting ghosted, take your time between interactions, give them space, learn to know the signs of low interest, know when the convo has died, don't ever write after they leave you on seen or delivered. And finally get focus on improve your lifestyle
/r/seduction22/10/21 08:39 AM
1

Its been weeks since you have been talking, its too soon, let thing flow if she's interested in you, you'll know
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:41 PM
1

Tease her, most guys reply stories to get her simpaty but you don't want that. Example if she post a pics where she wears boots you can reply with, where's your horse?
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:24 PM
1

Te recomiendo que revises el contenido del temach
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:14 AM
2

Let me ask you, why wouldn't you like to be alone again? Probably you're not missing her, but rather you don't wanna be "alone", now you need to know that this new guy didn't appear 1 month ago, this guy met this girl while you and her were in a relationship, you can get her back but not right now, what you need to do is to cut all contact whatsoever and transform yourself in another man, cause right now, you're unattractive to her and in that state you will never ever get her back
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:13 AM
2

If she wasn't doing this in the first six months and now she has changed, chances are that she's losing interest and thats why she takes her time to respond, what do to? Do nothing and doble take her time to respond, i know that you wanna call her out but that would be unhelpful for you, she would feel a" pressure" and move farther away from you
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:43 AM
0

Call her out, tell her that you're not interested on hearing that.
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:11 PM
1

Believe what she does not what she says, her actions tell us that she doesn't want to go out with you, stop stop asking for dates and move on from this girl
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:07 AM
-3

I've been kinda of busy, but what if you get together next Wednesday?
/r/seduction03/10/21 09:44 PM
1

Besides their job and family where else do they spend their time?
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:32 AM
53

Give her space, keep the mistery on, dont feel afraid to contradict her, put her in a roller-coaster of emotions, dont be predictable meaning dont call or text her always at the same time
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:31 AM
1

You need to broke the monotony, give her space, change your routine and don't tell her, dont share everything with her, become a little bit of impredecible, when you've been together with someone for a while, you guys start to know too well thus killing mistery
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:25 AM
1

Have you escalated physically things up?
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:39 AM
2

She knows that you wanna get out with her,but she's not enough interested, what you should do is to keep it cool and wait 1 or 2 weeks to ask her again
/r/seduction30/09/21 03:57 AM
3

You should go out and work in your social skills, go outside and explore the city and talk to anyone
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:56 PM
1

Right now, with how many girls you're talking to ?
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:02 PM
1

Im doing x activity next Friday, wanna go ?
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:35 PM
4

4 hours is just too much for a first date, it's better to have short interactions and let the attraction/curiosity increase, on the contrary if you spend 4 hours talking you're showing all your cards thus decreasing the attraction.
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:10 PM
1

How long was the date?
/r/seduction26/09/21 01:56 PM
0

Dude, why would you take her to a cool restaurant? She's not even your girlfriend, take her to something cheap
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:57 PM
4

Dude she has canceled you twice, she is not interested in you,
/r/seduction23/09/21 02:09 AM
1

You need to become a hotter man, give her space focus on your things, but if you notice that this isn't working forward, you should end it
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:34 PM
4

13 things that mentally strong people dont do
/r/seduction21/09/21 09:21 PM
1

Oddly specific dude
/r/seduction18/09/21 09:25 PM
1

I generally do it, there's nothing wrong with letting them waiting some hours or days for your response.
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:00 PM
1

Ok when you're using those dating apps, you need to get her number ASAP, set a time limit, let's say 2 weeks and a half and if you haven't got her number by that time, youre losing your time Now, she's gonna give you her number if you're able to make the convo interesting, so your interactions need to be in a playful way and don't answer all the questions that she asks. Most of the woman who use tinder are bored/looking for a ego boost, so most of the time you wouldn't get her number cause they …
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:04 PM
1

Naa dude, they started dating others guys not because they assume you weren't interested, its because they felt more attraction towards the other dude, so no, and just in case you didn't notice women from all ages play "games" even if they're not aware.
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:24 PM
1

ignore them and see what happens, doesn't happen what you said
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:26 PM
2

She's not enough interest in seeing you, dont know how many times you've dated this girl, but it has to be a consequence, remove your attention toward her
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:24 PM
1

That kind of girl is gonna take advantage of you, they know that guys will invite drinks in hopes to escalate things, dont be that guy
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:22 PM
1

She has lost interest for you, so called her out wouldn't make a difference, match her effort
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:04 AM
1

You're gonna put her in a lot of pressure.
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:06 PM
1

If you see her and approach her, please don't make things awkward and complain about why she left you on seen, keep things cool
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:05 PM
1

No no no, thats unattractive dude, you want her ? You go and directly conect with her
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:02 PM
1

Because women are used to get treated like queens, and not be responsible for what they want in a relationship, look around, they can be making bad decisions and people are gonna clapping them 👏
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:21 AM
1

At the gym.
/r/seduction13/09/21 10:08 PM
0

Tell her that you're busy and that's it. She is not your girlfriend so there's no reasons to demand time from you
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:55 AM
0

As long as you guys are not exclusive, she got not business getting mad
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:46 PM
1

Yeah they like when a guy take the wheel, but not in this case, that girl that you're talking to is probably talking to 5 or 6 guys more, if you try to formalize the relationship, she's gonna think that you don't have options that youre easy to get and thats boring for them. There's no need to hurry things up if you play this well.
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:06 PM
0

Noooo you never said that you want a relationship with her, if you're making good moves she's gonna ask you that and if she doesn't ask its because she has not enough attraction for you
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:50 PM
3

Sure
/r/seduction10/09/21 08:07 PM
1

Talk to other girls
/r/seduction09/09/21 04:21 PM
1

No its over don't message her again, do you have idea how many guys send likes and compliments to this girl ? Probably a lot, and then you don't have a good profile, you need to level up your profile and if its good enough she might send you a message.
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:49 PM
2

You need to make a peace with that idea, women have always dudes on their dms, but don't worry, they don't connect with every guy who text them.
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:00 AM
1

Take the upper hand in the situation and reject her first, tell her that this isnt working and dont contact her anymore.
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:02 AM
0

Instead of physical compliments, be playful and teaser her, physical compliments dont work, women are used to get compliments all the time, they know they are pretty so getting compliments have zero to none value
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:44 AM
7

Naa you're doing okay my dude, woman are used to get men who are pleasers, when in reality what they want is a challenge, she sent you not one but two pics, you ignored them and she still talking to you, so dont worry, keep playing the game
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:28 AM
2

I know how it feels my dude.
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:04 AM
3

Dont ask, women enjoy the game of seduction, for now, it looks like she is not enough interest on you, just play the same game, get close a little bit to her and then you step back
/r/seduction08/09/21 12:55 AM
1

She is losing interest for sure, the more you text her the more you're chasing her out of your life, dont text her anymore, until she start the convo first.
/r/seduction08/09/21 12:45 AM
3

Naaa don't reach out, she would leave you on read again, give her tons of space, and when she finally message you, you're gonna leave her on read.
/r/seduction08/09/21 12:33 AM
1

Lmao thanks !
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:24 AM
3

You need to provoke curiosity, your message needs to be a little spicy to make them think about you
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:13 PM
1

Just text her, what are u up to ? And make a small talk from there i dont recommended calling her, its been 8 months, chances are she's not gonna answer your call
/r/seduction06/09/21 04:03 PM
1

Well casual, like when you speak to friend, make a small convo and talk what things have you been doing and then you walk away,
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:20 PM
2

A normal tone works
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:18 PM
3

When a woman left you on read that just mean that you already mess things up, you text her too much, you don't have more options, you seem more into her than she is into you, etc things like that kill attraction little by little, for now, you must wait for her to message you again, dont message her again, if you do, you're gonna look more desperate and that's unattractive. If she message you, you're gonna left her on read the same time that she did to you. If you run into her, don't make things …
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:06 PM
1

You need to wait some days before you message her, the first date in many cases its cause the girl got curious about you, so your convo needs to be positive,playful. And you need to say things that provokes curiosity, dont message her too much tho just enough to make a connection
/r/seduction06/09/21 11:13 AM
5

Withdraw all your attention toward her, for now, you need to wait and let her engage with you again, if you text her again, youre gonna communicate that its okay to leave you on seen and you will tolerate that
/r/seduction06/09/21 11:03 AM
1

Yeah. My bad.
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:57 AM
2

Naaa my dude, with fomo you don't need to try harder on a girl, on the contrary, its about trying with other girls, Op needs to project that he is doing things that are exciting/interesting or that he is hanging out with more girls. And then the fear of mission out would kick in, even if she is not interested, she might get curious and think to herself, " am I missing something here?"
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:46 AM
1

Whats your definition of fomo?
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:10 AM
1

What are you talking about?
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:02 AM
1

Message her the day of the date just some hours before to confirm, something casual like im ready for that coffee at 3
/r/seduction05/09/21 11:15 PM
2

Tell me you're doing things wrong with women without telling me
/r/seduction05/09/21 11:13 PM
3

Yeah, very likely this guy was talking since June and never meet her 🙄
/r/seduction05/09/21 11:12 PM
6

Got more options dude, talk to at least three girls at the same time, if you do this, you won't be bothered when one of them stop communicating with you
/r/seduction05/09/21 11:00 PM
3

Naaa give her space but don't message her the next month, wait until she message you first and when she finally message you, you're gonna take some days to respond, dont give any attention, 0 checking her stories, nothing, you need to mirror what she's being doing to you.
/r/seduction05/09/21 10:52 PM
0

Keep it cool my dude, use fomo (fear of missing out )to force her to make a move
/r/seduction05/09/21 06:18 PM
1

Wait some days and then you make a convo.
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:37 PM
8

Noo my dude, approach them! Just level up your social skills to prevent awkward situations
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:07 PM
3

Flirt at the same level that she does, when she is flirting with you, you do the same, and then you act indifferent Remember the seduction is a game and in this game you need to get close (flirting/teaser etc) and then you step back (act indifferent)
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:38 AM
2

She is interested in you but not enough to go out, so you need to play the same game that she's playing, youre gonna teaser/joke/flirt/ her but the next day you gonna act indifferent towards her and withdraw all the attention. So some days it looks like you're flirting with her and some days its like she doesn't exist You need to create the same emotions that she is provoking to you, that would make her wonder about you (in the same way like you're feeling right now) Don't ask her out until you …
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:18 AM
5

Ask her out, that's the only way to know
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:04 AM
4

Unsend it, and don't contact her anymore,
/r/seduction05/09/21 12:56 AM
5

Na, let the sexual tension build up (if theres any) dont say how you feel, use your body language to communicate your intentions.
/r/seduction04/09/21 09:01 PM
12

Let the tension/curiosity build up
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:20 PM
2

Just be yourself and they will love you
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:06 PM
1

Naaa my dude, once you get how women communicate its easy peasy
/r/seduction04/09/21 03:58 PM
3

Don't be afraid. It's just a different scenario.
/r/seduction01/09/21 09:33 PM
2

I agree!
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:42 PM
8

Your best 4 times to approach a girl at the gym are the following When she is drinking water When she is resting after her set When she is leaving And when she is getting to the gym You are gonna get close and say " hey i see you all the time and I was wondering what's your name?' Say your name, compliment her routine or outfit and then close the interaction with 'hey have a good day' or something like that and you walk away. For now, what you want is to build trust between you and her, through …
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:41 PM
1

Your fist date is always a dinner ?
/r/seduction01/09/21 02:01 PM
3

She is hanging out with you but as a friend, you need to be clear in your intentions, ask her out directly and tell her that its gonna be only you and her. And see how she responds, if you got chance with her, she would accept,
/r/seduction01/09/21 02:00 PM
1

Make an approach, next time you see her, get close and say, "hey long time no see! My name is" or something like that.
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:37 PM
1

As long as you're not exclusive you did nothing wrong, she got not business complain about what you do, plus you don't know if she is talking to more guys, tell her "Hey we're talking and getting to know each other, we don't know yet if we're gonna be exclusive " Don't let her pressure you, if she wants you to stop kissing more girls, she would progress the relationship.
/r/seduction01/09/21 02:06 AM
6

Sometimes friendzone is unavoidable, now all your actions and words need to comunicate that you're not looking to be her friend and you never will, avoid what a friend would do, texting every day, helping with tasks, being too available, etc when you get together you should escalate things and if she say that you're her friend or something like that, you need to draw the line and tell her that you have enough friends and you don't need one more.
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:14 AM
1

Na its okay, just don't give everything in the first date, let them wonder about the next date, and don't text them too much
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:59 PM
1

You obviously got game since they are willing to start sexual things, which is a good thing, but what if you keep the tension for the next date? Woman really need time to process their emotions and they might feel like you're going a little fast.
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:43 PM
3

When in doubt ask them out
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:22 PM
2

Before touching her, you need to open her up emotionally, and when you start touching, start with hands and progressing from there, if you notice some kinda discomfort, it means that they're not ready to be touched and you need to stop and come back to the talking state
/r/seduction31/08/21 08:42 PM
27

Women enjoy having options, you're just one option more for her, she's not gonna close the door or progress the relationship, cut her off
/r/seduction31/08/21 08:03 PM
1

Ok this is a unlucky coincidence or you're doing something to scare them away Whats your approach? How long do you text them before ask them out ? How much do you text them after the first date? Do you comunicate your intentions from the beginning? Do you try to escale things physically from the first date? Think about that
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:35 PM
2

There's two ways to handle this either you start saying that you don't use social media or you start posting good photos ( photos where it shows that you're having an amazing life )
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:19 PM
3

They let you for sure escalate things physically
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:15 PM
2

On the contrary, her curiosity will raise, most men start texting and texting right after obtaining her contact and if a woman is not interested in you that will come as desesperate or too strong. You need to project that you got more things to do that texting a girl, im sure you don't believe me , but try this approach
/r/seduction31/08/21 06:16 PM
1

Give them some space, usually speaking your first date with a woman is because you provoke them curiosity and comfort, after you get the contact, wait some days to start a convo, make it fun and then you ask them out and when you got the date, dont message them more.
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:44 PM
1

You're gonna reciprocate less than they give you, they text you 10 times you're gonna text them back 5 times, the point is that you're gonna be chased and you're not gonna let them caught you, because if they got you and you start reciprocating more than them , they are going got bored and leave
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:58 PM
2

Ok dude, you need to learn this lesson for your next romantic conquest, after you get rejected by actions or words, you shouldn't say or do anything that communicats that youre gonna wait for her, that puts you in position of option for her, and that's exactly what you did, you need to learn how to pressure women, once you got rejected dont stay around, go out and talk to more girls, that would teach women around you that you're waiting for no one Now what you need to do is not to talk to her, i…
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:03 PM
1

In essence you haven't dated this woman? And how did you let her know "that the ball was on her court"?
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:14 PM
1

Leave on seen doubled time that she leaves you
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:47 PM
1

Don't write to her unless she does, post photos in your Facebook/instagram where you're having fun (preferable with other girls) , you need to create the ilusion that she is losing something worthy
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:42 PM
1

If you wanna get pussy, you need to play this shit just saying 😏
/r/seduction30/08/21 04:33 PM
1

In all your activities you do them alone? You can't have friends ?
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:55 PM
9

There two possibilities, either she had another guy in her playfield or you did things that turn her off. The thing about seduction is that its a game, and its a game that you MUST play it, even if you don't want it, why? 'Cause women play this game all the time, even if they are not aware, and i give you one example, in your post you say that there shouldn't be nothing wrong with showing interest, but women don't feel the same way, when you show a lot of interest to a woman what you're communic…
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:36 PM
2

Lmao you dont need to be gentle with them, you only need to understand how they operate and thats it .
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:49 AM
1

You need to change your lifestyle, what are your hobbies? How good is your social life/social skills? Are you working in personal goals?
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:01 AM
1

You need to become aware of your thoughts, when your about to approach a girl, what thought comes to mind? When you got rejected what thought comes to mind? When you feel anxious what thought comes to mind? Every time you hear to some negative thoughts you lost a little bit of self esteem You need to use positive self-talk to combat your negative thoughts
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:57 AM
1

Take a walk, take a pebble, and then you say 'i forgive myself for all the missed opportunities ' and then you throw your pebble the farther the better, repeat it for some time until you feel better, if you can't do this, say the same thing in front of a mirror,
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:37 AM
5

Honestly my dude you need to forgive you, whats done couldn't be undone, and at this point in your life worrying about all this shit its not gonna help you. You need to consider that things are not gonna end well with every women that you find in your way. Learn from your mistakes and keep going.
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:36 AM
1

How was it ?
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:24 AM
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Yeah I need to clarify that, when I wrote that op needed to look again, I was thinking like after some time has passed (like 30 min), my bad ! And another thing that we need to take into consideration is that op is coming from a religious place, a place where it looks like woman's expression are forbidden, so they need to use their body language to comunicate interest.
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:21 AM
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20 seconds is what is recommended my dude, maybe you don't feel comfortable and that's okay. Please read https://classroom.synonym.com/long-should-eye-contact-be-9937.html
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:08 AM
-4

Maintain eye contact for 20 to 25 seconds then you look away, after some time has passed repeat the process with the same girl, if she maintains eye contact for 10/15 seconds she might be interested.
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:29 AM
6

Look for eye contact, if some girl looks back at you a couple of times, that's a green flag.
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:20 AM
2

Ok, dude you need to practice talking to women to the point where it would be effortless to start a convo, you had the chance to get close to her and get her number, for wherever reason you didn't do it, then when you came back to her place, you gave your number to other dude, which puts you in a position of disadvantage, what if this guy talked shit about you? Keep practicing and approaching women
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:14 AM
24

Dude, women have zero game when it comes to approach man, they do silly things like bumping in you or maintaining eye contact, you need to make a move, Get her number and ask her out. If she is interested she would accept.
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:08 AM
6

Naaa play dumb and ask both out, put them in competition mode, just don't play in their terms, change the place.
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:59 PM
6

I get what you're saying, but this shit doesn't work like that, if you behave like a someone who can be diminish, people and special women will step on you, on the contrary if you behave like a king, people will treat you accordingly. You need to work on your social skills, are you talking to more girls ?
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:06 PM
1

Text her again this Thursday, make a small talk and invite her to a date the next Sunday, if she agrees there's no need to text her more, Remember in texting less is more, use your phone to either set dates or have a brief interaction
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:53 PM
1

How did you meet this girl ? Its out of discution to run into her? How was your interaction with her ? Was it good, was it briefly?
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:49 PM
25

No dont say that, its better is to learn the signs of interested If you're talking to a girl and say things like "hey its okay if you say no instead of ghosted me" what you're communicating is that ghosting is a commun practice for women towards you and that would be a red flag for any women, cause in their eyes they don't ghost people out of nowhere, Before inviting someone lady to your place you need to create a connection, because if a woman goes to your place that means that sex can happen a…
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:40 PM
3

If you're having sex, yeah, don't cut your date off, but in my experience its better to have fun short interactions and keep the tension for the next date, if she had a good time with you, she will start fantasize about the next date and that would help you to build the sexual tension, in the contrary if you spend too much time in the first date, you might tell her everything about you and that would kill that girl's curiosity. Remember seduction is a game and its better if you don't show your c…
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:51 PM
9

She found you attractive enough, and she is a foreign, maybe for her standards you were hot, if you got her number dont contact her, wait some days and then you ask her out and that way you'll find out if it was a one stand night or she wants more.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:06 PM
2

Yeah its possible, its possible to date younger girls, its possible to attract a girl even if you hadn't been able to to so. The first step is improve your lifestyle, if you drink stop drinking if you watch porno stop watching, etc you get the point right? Go to the gym,take dance classes, do things that add value to your life, make your more life more interesting. Next thing would be to improve your social skills and you do that by talking a lot with everyone. That would help with with confiden…
/r/seduction29/08/21 06:56 PM
2

Ok look, when a girl likes you it's cristal clear, she would do things to be with you, and when it shows mixed signals means that she is interested but not enough, that would be for a lot of reason, she has another dude in the picture, she doesn't see you as attractive enough etc etc, and at that point you need to let her to come to you. Give space and work in level up your social value
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:55 PM
1

For your next date, instead of wait until the end of the date to touch her, start touching her during the date, start with her hands and go progressing, if you notice some sorf of discomfort stop, go back to the convo and try again in a few minutes
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:45 PM
5

Dude you need to learn how to express yourself and use your emotions to do so, remember, emotions are contagious and jf you're able to wake emotions up, they will enjoy the conversation, practice in front of a mirror, pick two or three anecdotes about yourself and tell them to your family.
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:58 PM
9

A guy with more options is more attractive, just saying.
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:23 PM
10

Yes, you need to show her that you're not gonna sit and wait around for her, in this point she invite you as a friend so there nothing wrong with bringing another girl, if she feels like she might losing you, she will prompt to action And if you go alone, limited your attention toward her, the less the better, go and talk with more people
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:16 PM
10

Act normal around her, enjoy the party and if possible bring another girl
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:05 PM
2

You need to forgive yourself thats the first step, this is gonna take time, and you need to know how to play the game of seduction, for now, note what you did wrong and try to understand why you did it
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:03 PM
2

You don't even need to know the language, get close and try to communicate, ask something and add that you're learning ( don't worry about your broken Turkish) if they are open, they will help you to communicate, and if they not, thats your sign to walk away.
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:47 PM
3

Approach them Approach them!!!! Women are more open to get approached while in vacation, just read their body language and make a move
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:41 PM
1

How long did you spend with this girl? Girls at parties don't want to spend all night dancing with the same dude
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:33 AM
2

People resent other people's success. They do that cause its an easy way to justify their weaknesses, indiscipline and life's choice and this feeling is kinda common, I read somewhere that when something bad happen to rich people, it cause some sorf of satisfaction in people who are less successful. So dont let it affect you, there will be always people who aren't happy with your success.
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:56 PM
2

Have you read the book How to win friends and influence people?
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:31 PM
1

Get fit, start a business, get better at your job, have nice car, improve your social circle, travel, have hobbies, learn more skills (anything goes) have more girls in your life in essence anything that projects that you're a catch Women in the other side the only thing that give them social value is how pretty they are. So if you know a woman and you feel like she is in another league, work in yourself to the point where you can start fucking girls from that level.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:35 PM
1

Dude, level up your social value, the good thing about being a man is that you have a lot of ways to increase your social value. Just don't let society pressure you, you still have time
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:04 PM
1

Hey!
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:46 PM
1

One day or two per week it's okay to hang out and any interaction is an excuse to flirt
/r/seduction28/08/21 10:03 AM
3

You shouldn't try again, because if you do, you're gonna push her more and more out of your life, you need to let her come to you, for now you should stop interacting with this woman in your social media, remove all your attention toward her, if she comments don't respond, start posting photos having a blast, you need to wake up her curiosity and fomo ( fear of missing out); she needs to think that she got a chance with you and that she lost it, right now she doesn't feel that way cause you look…
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:56 AM
2

You can't build attraction without spending time together ( and giving space), but what you can do is to wake up their curiosity for you, thats why its important to have a good profile, post photos where you're having a blast that will help you, let your socials work for you and you should make a small talk with them and then ask them out. One more thing, in texting less is more, so just text a little bit more than the other person.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:30 AM
1

I mean the ideal is that you have her in your instagram, but since that's not the case, we are use the people to talk about you, she is gonna hear that and when it happens her curiosity is gonna wake up, and she needs to think something like "whats this guy up to?" thats why your photos need to be astonishing.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:13 AM
2

Ok, like other hace said dont contact her, instead you need to wake up her curiosity, women like to investigate and gossip, upload photos where it looks like you're having a blast, even if she can't see it, your friends in common are gonna help you.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:03 AM
1

Do you have her in your Facebook/instagram?
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:42 AM
3

She gets closer to you, put things easy, she treats like a King etc etc
/r/seduction27/08/21 10:56 PM
1

Love is a game, darling.
/r/seduction27/08/21 07:23 PM
2

Which is a good thing! You jump into the next one
/r/seduction27/08/21 07:19 PM
3

Good post op, Id just add that when someone is less available becomes more valuable, and its not like you're ignoring people instead you're busy with your life Keep it up op
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:37 PM
3

Your approach is okay, you get what you're looking for ( her number), however refrain of saying "cant wait to know you better ' or similar stuff, by saying that youre putting innecesary pressure in the convo because they don't know you,, you don't know if they're feeling the same. when they ask questions don't give the information right away, play a little bit with it e.g -you how old are you? How old do I look? And then you give a little bit of clue, make it playful, In texting less is more, do…
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:48 PM
2

Could be just a coincidence or you're giving them bad vibes After you get a number do you text them the same day? How much are u texting them ? Is she being open to talk or takes hours o days to respond?
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:11 PM
1

Reaching out will make her more distant, you need to give space as much as you can, you need to give space in orden to process her emotions and miss you, if you reach out you're not letting her miss you.
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:33 PM
2

You two live way too far be realistic
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:19 PM
2

Sometimes women react to your photos to see if they still have you, you should've not reacted to it, plus she did leave you on seen for some time. When you activate your accounts, there's a chance she might try to come back, dont put things for her so easy
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:15 PM
0

Question, how much did you guys text each other? Did you ask her out ? Maybe she was expecting you to make a move, maybe she got bored, unfortunately at this point nobody knows
/r/seduction27/08/21 07:13 AM
1

Excuse for what ? Come on its not a big deal,
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:46 AM
2

'Ah I didn't notice i follow you more than once'
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:44 AM
4

Don't explain anything to her
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:41 AM
1

It was just an accident
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:40 AM
3

Push and pull is when you create some connection and then you step back and let the other person come to you, in your case you havent create anything with this girl.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:56 PM
1

Nooo my dude, never bring if she has a boyfriend, she is gonna say yes and will use it as an excuse to no interact with you, use another phrase , make a small talk and get the number
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:46 PM
25

Its just your first date, some topics can be left for another time
/r/seduction26/08/21 08:38 AM
11

It's your first date, you don't know if your date is gonna be good or bad, plus she most likely hasn't done anything to get gifts, so let keep it casual.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:56 AM
2

Dude I'm sorry this happen to you, take your time to process this and don't hold bad feelings. Now, for starters, women are never ever gonna tell you that she is not interested, let's say it again, they are never gonna tell you that they are not interested, even if you ask them, this is how they operate and you need to make peace with that. women play games and you need to learn to read the signs of low interest (takes days to respond, makes things hard for you, always have an excuse to not hang…
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:07 AM
2

Just a casual how have you been?
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:21 AM
2

Anywhere outside, go to parks, join public activities etc
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:15 AM
3

First of all, you should have a good profile , cause after you try to establish a communication, they are gonna to check your profile out and it needs to looks astonishing, Second I recommend to not give likes or reactions, tons of guys do that and get nowhere with the girl third there's two ways to make your first approach, either you start a casual convo or you comment in a photo, the comment in the photo needs to be something that creates curiosity or something that she wasn't expecting. e.g …
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:45 AM
1

🤣 🤣
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:22 AM
41

You completely destroy the vibe, never ever send another dick pic even if you feel like it, she was trying to spice things up and you should've said something that increase the sexual tension There's nothing to do for now, wait to hear from her again. And when she text you, dont respond immediately
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:20 AM
1

You need to pay attention to your thoughts, what things triggers you ? Become aware of what causes you to lost it and you'll be able to combat it I
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:13 AM
2

There's one way to know for sure if she likes you (which look like she does) and its to ask her out, tell her something like, have you been to x place ? Wanna go ? Or this friday im doing x activity would be cool if you join me. And for texting, less is more, dont tell everything about you, save some things to say it in person
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:08 AM
5

Dude, you can't control what's she doing, so relax, but if for some reason you find out that she was unfaithful while in this vacation, you break it up with her. So either she behave well and stay with you or she lost you forever, either way you win.
/r/seduction25/08/21 05:34 PM
0

I dont know how old you are, but playing games is literally what seduction is about
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:27 PM
2

Don't overthinking things, you did something to scare her off, or she didn't feel like talking to you anymore
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:06 PM
3

Don't propose, nothing is gonna change if you add the labels
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:52 PM
1

Wait some days 3 o 4, then make a small talk and ask her out something like ,im doing x thing in Sunday wanna join?
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:50 PM
2

He is not gonna do anything.
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:05 PM
2

A lot of time you're feeling this cause you don't have more options
/r/seduction25/08/21 12:47 PM
2

If this guy had more options, he wouldn't post this
/r/seduction25/08/21 11:48 AM
1

Call her, keep it simple and go to the straight to the point, dont chick chat
/r/seduction25/08/21 04:38 AM
2

My dude, you need to change your approach, you're putting this guy that you don't even know in a position of power over you, think as him as just another dude and have more control about the situation than the other dude
/r/seduction25/08/21 04:32 AM
2

Don't miss the chance to ask her out just because you don't have a license, choose an activity and tell her where you will see her and thats it, keep it simple
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:17 AM
2

Ask her in a casual way E.g Next sunday im doing x activity ( something fun) wanna go ? If she is interested she will accept and if not, she will give you an excuse and at that point , you will know what level of attraction she has;
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:59 AM
3

There's only one way to know if she likes you, ask her out.
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:48 AM
1

There's a lot of situations but in essence you're gonna change the framework always in your favor, sometimes in a playful way, sometimes a little bit direct; E.g. her: show me that you love me Him: treat me better then Now, not everything is a test and you need to know when its a test and when is plain disrespect.
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:22 AM
1

Woman are always gonna test you, even if she has not enough interested on you, you need to make peace with that idea, if you don't want to be tested date a man, otherwise learn how to deal with tests.
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:03 AM
14

Make her laugh, listen to her and create complicity
/r/seduction25/08/21 12:46 AM
33

Women don't want to feel "used" just for sex, if everytime you two get together there's sex but it takes a lot of work, most likely you need make her more comfortable about you, dont make all your interactions with this woman about sex, focus on open her up emotionally and she will be more willing to have sex
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:55 PM
60

I mean she is already your friend with benefits isn't she ?
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:05 PM
3

Usually guys are clueless when someone likes them so you need to be a little bit obvious Suggets places to hang out,( e.g would be cool to see x place ) get emotionally closer use compliments, use your eyes and body to make him question what's going on.
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:49 PM
3

After you match in tinder/bumble you need to get her number ASAP, woman always have many options and in dating apps its more evident So your first step is to get her number , when you get her number (in the app or irl) dont text them the same day, wait one or two days to initiate a conversation, now in this step you should close the deal and ask them out, when she accepts the date, there's no need to text her anymore, if she give you an excuse, you're gonna continue with the conversation and ask…
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:00 PM
4

You should've gotten her number, even if she was interested, woman are not gonna text you first ( unless she is really really into you) cause they don't want to look easy, by asking and getting her number you're eliminating this pressure from them Next time you see her, make a small talk, get her number, and don't complain about why she didn't text you.
/r/seduction24/08/21 09:38 PM
4

Nooo unless they ask for it
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:40 PM
2

Invited her to play a guessing game, tell her that you won't share your last name until you see each other but that she can guess it, and you give her a vague clue If she keep insisting or she doesn't want to play tell her that your last name doesn't matter for now
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:40 PM
1

He is not gonna be more attractive on her eyes if he doesn't go but he will draw the line between hang out as a friend or hang out as something else and its not him that will "lose her" its the other way around, he wants to have something with this chick and she doesn't.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:39 PM
4

No my dude, she knows that she got a date with you, you don't need to confirm anything, If she values your time either she will come or text you
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:16 PM
16

'I'm kinda busy and honestly I prefer to talk in person with you' Or just take a long time to respond and do it briefly
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:07 PM
4

I'm your best bet.
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:57 PM
1

You mess things out, you shouldn't create a false account just to chick chat with her, that was innecesary The only way to know if you still a chance is to ask her out, women don't fall in love through text. And for your future relationship , be upfront and ask woman out, dont tell them what you feel instead show it with actions
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:21 PM
2

Dude, he has tried already twice, going into that meeting wouldn't change a thing, especially with more people around. I get your point of risk and stuff, but the thing is seduction is game, and you need to know what the play is, to act accordingly, not everything is risking it all and see what happens.
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:12 PM
14

You need to show him a teaser of what life with you would be, besides treat him with love, use compliments and fantasy, the fantasy has to be always fun nothing serious, suggests activities where fun memories are guaranteed to happen. Play with his memories ( remember when we did x thing ?)
/r/seduction24/08/21 12:53 PM
3

I disagree with your approach, even if those guys are betas or gays, she is trying to put op in the same group, women do that, they reject you and and put you in male orbits group When you tell something to a woman in many cases she will test you, now, op has told her through actions and words that he is not interested in a friendship and in responds to that, she is inviting op to hang out as a friend. If op goes to the meeting he is accepting the friendship even if he is not aware of the situat…
/r/seduction24/08/21 12:03 PM
5

I bet that girl didn't respond to messages or some similar shit
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:31 AM
2

Don't go my dude, this girl invited more guys and that would put you in a possible competence , you don't know if those guys are trying with her as well
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:23 AM
16

Nothing my dude, this girl and you aren't exclusive !
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:10 AM
2

Its not about the questions, it's about the emotions that you made her feel, give her a fun time, give her space, focus on having a positive time together.
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:27 PM
6

Let's try another approach, after you get a number, dont text her right away, you're gonna wait 3 days to text her, when you text her, you're gonna make a small talk and set a date, after you got the date there's no need to text her anymore, if by this point she wants to texts you, just tell her that it would be better to talk in person.
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:02 PM
1

After some months and only if she ask, and for your first interactions, she doesn't need to know your fear/insecurities what she needs to know is that with you she will be have fun
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:47 PM
3

Always share positive things about yourself first and then when you've developed a connection you can share your insecurities as long as you're willing to work on them.
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:38 PM
6

Its just a test, and you did it well, she did that to test if she got some power over you. Good for you If she wants to come back to you, she needs to do the effort
/r/seduction23/08/21 03:16 PM
2

Noo my dude,don't do it, the only thing you're gonna get is losing her friendship. You don't talk about sex with a woman unless you have a very strong relationship with her or she brings up the topic first otherwise you might come as creepy.
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:00 AM
1

Ask her out again, but in 5 days.
/r/seduction23/08/21 09:37 AM
2

Good for you! However that's not the case for everyone, not everyone is gonna be around for so long.
/r/seduction22/08/21 11:16 PM
3

Look the effort she is putting into you.
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:19 PM
2

Some men don't know when a girl is not interested and they think that can change her mind if they are persistent enough ( which is not true )
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:15 PM
3

There nothing to do , you texted her and she hasn't responded for 2 weeks, we know already what that means, she is not longer interested on you, she might come back at some point, if she does take some days to respond
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:02 PM
1

Do you know her in person? Dude have you ask her out ?
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:29 PM
1

Dude, you need to change your framework, she dumped you and after some time you reaching out and by doing this, you have lowered your value and you don't want that to happen, for now you need to give her space until she made contact
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:20 PM
1

Make a small convo and if you feel like it, ask her out If she is interested she will accept or reschedule the date
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:01 PM
1

What end up you doing op?
/r/seduction22/08/21 01:59 PM
2

There is nothing to do by now, you confessed your feelings and she didn't reciprocate them For your next relationship, you never ever confess your feelings, instead, ask them out and try to seduce them.
/r/seduction22/08/21 01:57 PM
2

Thanks, didn't get it
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:24 PM
5

Yeah, thats another reason why some women don't reject a guy with a direct line, some men can't handle rejection
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:23 PM
6

Its not rules my dude its just signs.
/r/seduction22/08/21 05:51 AM
7

No, its when you write a message, they read it but they don't respond
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:09 AM
2

Its part of the game, sometimes girls will be more into you and sometimes they are not and sometimes they are not interested in the same sense as you are.
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:42 PM
25

I agree and I should've clarify that when you notice those signs doesn't mean that you should abandon the game altogether, it means that they aren't that into you
/r/seduction21/08/21 07:36 PM
1

Anywhere outside, what things do you like? What are your hobbies? I'm sure that you would find people alike to you if you know where to find them. And for the friendship part, I recommend reading ," how to win friends and influence people "
/r/seduction21/08/21 03:35 PM
6

First of all, you need to put that woman down from that place in your mind, she is not that special, what you're feeling is not love, its obsession, you're in love with the idea of having something with her, but that's no gonna happen. I guarantee you that there are a lot of women who would be reciprocate with you, but as long as you keep this fixation for this woman, you can't move on to meet more people
/r/seduction21/08/21 03:01 PM
1

Keep setting dates, escalate the physical part, dont use your phone to talk too much, and let her worry about the relationship status.
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:41 PM
1

Start texting her more friendly, and if she responds positively, then you ask her out.
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:35 PM
1

Yes it is! Think it as a practice
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:04 AM
1

For the future, dont confess your feelings to a girl, instead ask them out
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:02 AM
1

▪︎Body language ▪︎Voice ▪︎Actions
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:01 AM
8

Mixing signals? = she is not interested
/r/seduction21/08/21 10:59 AM
1

Make a move, that's the only way to know if she is into you or not, ask her out.
/r/seduction21/08/21 10:57 AM
11

Dude at least you realize that you were acting desesperate, in the future just don't make this mistake
/r/seduction21/08/21 10:52 AM
1

Op correct me if I'm wrong but have you given this girl too much? Id say 80% of the time when a girl say she is confused its because the man has showed to her that he is more into she than she is into him.
/r/seduction20/08/21 05:07 PM
0

If you're gonna ask, ask in a confident way E.g "are u gonna kiss me or what?' "This is the moment where you kiss me" "Get over yourself and kiss me"
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:23 PM
2

Whats your approach? What things are you saying ? Where do you approach them? When you notice that she's not interested do you keep the conversation or you end it all?
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:07 AM
1

It honestly depends in the situation, sometimes you gotta do a bold line , sometimes you make a comment about her clothes etc , you could for example ask her about her routine, now listen, if you try to make a convo and she is responding with monosyllabic responses or with 0 enthusiasm ,its not the moment to ask her out cause she is not interested.
/r/seduction19/08/21 11:48 PM
1

Its better to do it in person, make a small talk and then you ask her out, dont say nothing like "im nervious" or stuff like that, instead just say, will you free this weekend , I know of a place...?
/r/seduction19/08/21 07:30 PM
1

Na my dude if she were really out of your league, you wouldn't stand a chance! But by acting like that you're putting her on a pedestal change that mindset
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:31 PM
1

Yes, she has lost interest for you, and every time you've reached out you're moving her more and more away from you. If youre planning to see her tomorrow, be aware she doesn't want to see you, so dont be surprised for how she might react
/r/seduction18/08/21 11:25 PM
4

You don't need to show it off, woman can smell desesperation if you really got more options you would behave in a way that doesn't show scarcity of options
/r/seduction18/08/21 09:02 PM
1

This is a good tip https://www.reddit.com/r/LifeProTips/comments/iaae0b/lpt_walk_with_confidence_even_if_you_have_none/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/seduction18/08/21 04:54 PM
1

Dude, women don't know how a man would react to a "No", they rather play it safe, for your next adventure, learn what a woman who has high level of interest would do for you.
/r/seduction18/08/21 02:08 PM
2

Negative beliefs about yourself makes you feel trapped and in consequence you're using alcohol to escape reality, besides the obvious, get someone who you can talk about how you are feeling.
/r/seduction18/08/21 01:22 PM
1

Nooo my dude don't abandon the game, there are two main factors that gets you ghosted, one is her, probably she wasn't in a good mental state, or you, you did too much, too early, too often, etc ,so tell us which one is it ?
/r/seduction18/08/21 01:11 PM
1

In our mind we're having a debate all the time, but most of the time we're not even participating on it, there are some recurring thoughts that makes us feel and act in a certain way, to eliminate this we need to participate in the debate, and we do it by having a self-talk, Self-talk has to have three characteristics: positive, specific and present tense. (You don't just think you say it) So next time that you're doing something in automatic and you wish to change that bring the self-talk to ac…
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:32 PM
3

Don't do it my dude for your own mental health.
/r/seduction18/08/21 03:03 AM
1

Ok, it took me a while lol, but I read all your profile, You need to understand that women wanna have fun, always all the time, and to be honest with you, your profile looks kinda boring, in dating apps you need to sell them the ilusion that they are gonna have fun without commitments. In the section about me, all the things that you wrote are way too generic, (growth, passion, daily challege-seaker ) i guarantee you that when a woman read your 'about me' it doesnt generate curiosity in them, yo…
/r/seduction18/08/21 01:47 AM
1

Allright my dude, you should ask a woman only ONE TIME, if she is interested she will accept, and if not she would do what this woman did to you and at the end of the day that was just an excuse. You don't keep asking, that just decreased your value in her eyes, in February you asked and we're in August and you still don't get that she is not interested in you Most women won't even tell you that they are not interested, they are not confrontative and they have learned that men don't understand w…
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:45 AM
2

Introduce the idea to whom? The boyfriend ?
/r/seduction17/08/21 09:22 PM
1

Its okay, take your time, do it when you feel like it, just don't let happen too much time before you try it.
/r/seduction17/08/21 08:16 PM
7

No its not but if you can't kiss her at least in the third date, that thing isn't going nowhere
/r/seduction17/08/21 08:07 PM
1

From the first excuse, after you got a no, thats it, you don't need to ask more, cause every time you ask after getting a no, your value decrease in her eyes.
/r/seduction17/08/21 06:28 PM
1

You shouldn't rush things, think as woman as boiling water, they need time to get to that point where penetration is desired, so before sex you need to warn them up, you do this by touching and kissing, do it slowly and making progress if you notice that this girl puts some resistance (verbally or physically) go back one step in the process of touching and try again in a couple of minutes, learn where she likes to be touched and do it gently There's a lot of info in the internet, so check it out…
/r/seduction17/08/21 05:10 PM
2

First of all, she wasn't into you if she was she wouldn't have ghosted you, for now , there's nothing to do, don't check her stories or whatapp status, keep dating other people; when a woman is into you she makes things really easy, she makes time for you, she textes you often, she doesn't give excuses etc
/r/seduction17/08/21 02:59 PM
1

My dude, watch out your language, come on! 😠. Just by reading what you post I can tell that you got zero game when it comes to women, instead of thinking like that, force yourself to say/think that you're in the process to become more confident and attractive Dont talk negative about yourself, even if that's true, your subconsciente is looking for proof all the time of what you're saying to yourself.
/r/seduction17/08/21 10:08 AM
2

Yes it does, even though its an old book many principles from the book are timeless,
/r/seduction17/08/21 12:12 AM
3

Great book ,can't recommend it enough
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:41 PM
1

Ok, just don't trust women. Its all a game, and you need to play it.
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:31 PM
2

How you rush things? You start texting too much? You fall in love right away? That kind of rush?
/r/seduction16/08/21 10:59 PM
26

Confidence comes from actions and practice, you wanna be confident? Start doing things that are outside your comfort zone, e.g. talking to a stranger makes you feel uneasy? Practice talking to strangers to erase this feeling
/r/seduction16/08/21 01:31 PM
1

Alright, what about this? Women don't fall in love by texting them, if you're texting her more than she is texting you back, you're walking straight into the friendzone. What to text? Something funny and impredecible, make a small talk, and set a date.
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:00 PM
1

Where to go? Outside, any public place How to get one? Just tell them, for this one, you need to practice, some women would give you their phone and some don't, you need to learn to recognize the signs.
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:57 AM
2

With everyone, 20/25 seconds for each one, then switch to the next guy.
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:04 AM
1

Treat them as options, you're probably treat every women that you come across as if they got a golden pussy and that makes you come way too strong with them.
/r/seduction16/08/21 01:14 AM
2

There's only one way to find out, set a date and have fun Just dont over text her, its better if you guys spend time to get to know each other instead of texting.
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:34 PM
1

How is that?
/r/seduction15/08/21 09:56 PM
1

I'd go with texting her the Wednesday in the afternoon, just make a small talk and set the date, after your proposal has been accepted, you don't need to text her more.
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:09 PM
12

" hey something tells me that youre gonna be free this weekend and we should hang out," "This Friday im doing " x" would be cool if you can join me" . I have a suspicion that you like (pizza ice cream ect) and it happens that I know a good place Wherever you use, just be confident in your approach and get to the point
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:04 PM
2

My highness! May I come closer to you? Since the other guy deleted his comment, lmao
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:46 PM
3

Alright, look after you get a girl's number dont text her the next day, wait some days and then you text her, make a small talk and then you set a date, after you got the date there's no need to text her more, until the day of the date. Remember women don't fall in love by texting or talking in the phone, the more you text to a woman before the date the more chances are that you ended up boring her thus making it really hard to set a date In this case just tell her, hey this Sunday I'm going to …
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:36 PM
0

Thats a lot of fun, they are not looking for something serious rn, just don't get attached to her, just let her chase you and everything will be fine
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:09 PM
2

Then you can't progress to intimate relationship
/r/seduction15/08/21 05:46 PM
4

Since most of the time men are doing the approach, woman don't have practice thus they have zero game, so dont expect that they say/do something as elaborate as men do. They shoot their shot by laughing at your jokes ( even if they're bad), giving compliments about the way you dress, touching your arms, making time to see you etc and in general, they seem happy and open when they are around you.
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:21 PM
2

Don't do that, you never ever write again after she leaves you on seen,for now just wait and when she finally writes , you're gonna play the same card that she played with you, you're gonna open the message and leave her on seen, if she leaves you 5 hours on seen, you're gonna leave her 10 hours. If you write immediately or very soon after she writes you, she is not gonna respect you.
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:41 PM
2

Ok by know you know that she is not interested, just do as they do, if she takes 6 hours to respond, you're gonna take 12.
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:22 AM
3

Have you tried to make a move..? Have you set dates ? You don't need to explicitly tell her that you like her, what you need is to escalate things physically
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:15 AM
1

Women usually dont text first to a guy, unless she's really really interested.
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:53 AM
1

The line "i thought you were cute" is a little bit overuse, you can still use it for sure but what about "hey are you free this weekend ? I know a place .... " And regarding your question, you gonna know if she is into you when you ask her number and she gives it to you
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:37 AM
1

What about your hobbies, family and friends ?
/r/seduction14/08/21 09:50 PM
2

Make sure shes texting you 70% of the exchange, dont respond immediately and set dates at least 1 per week She's interested in you so it should be easy
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:31 PM
1

Wait some days 3 or 4, then youre gonna say hi whats up? Or something casual
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:27 PM
30

Dude, 'if she wants me back'? She didn't want you for starters
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:08 PM
1

Dude, what if she cold with you ? Guess what you have be colder; you gotta teach her that you are not to be messing around. If she ignores you for 3 days, you gotta ignore her for 6 day. Even If this is her first relationship, they know how to play this game, i can guarantee you that there are more dudes on her dms, in consequence they can know when a dude doesnt have more options, for that reason you need to be less available, text her less and you need to behave as if you have more options ( e…
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:34 PM
1

Naa its the opposite of nice guys
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:11 PM
4

Na don't go, cancel that date, always always go on dates with people who are excited to be with you She is not interested and if you go its gonna be super boring 😴 😒
/r/seduction13/08/21 01:43 PM
5

If she lost interest there's nothing to do, sometimes they don't connect and that's okay.
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:09 AM
1

Just by forcing things like that you're shooting yourself in the foot, there are only two types of men that would be looking for something serious without spending time together first, they are desperate or really into you, and time will tell you which one is it.
/r/seduction13/08/21 09:58 AM
2

There's nothing to do, if you mess things out with that girl, just keep your distance, don't be that guy who doesn't understand when its not welcomed, otherwise you're chasing her right out your life And for the people that have contact with you and her, act as if you were okay.
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:57 AM
1

Yes do it, that adds social value
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:30 AM
46

Can you tell us what's your approach ? How do you start conversations? Why do you think things are going well but they don't respond ? Theres something that you're doing and its wrong
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:20 AM
2

Well, the easiest way to change this to change what we do, if you change your actions, you will change how you feel, and if you change how you feel you will change how you think. One step at the time is enough to make changes.
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:25 PM
2

Ok this what i thought, growing up men don't get a lot of love, society acts like as if men's feelings don't matter, then when women comes along and throws us a little bit of sympathy and attention, we become crazy about that, I used to think that i wasn't worthy of being loved and that I should chase women to make her love me. Another thing is that if you pay attention to movies and songs, many of them talk about chasing woman and sell us the fantasy that we as men should be chasing them.
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:46 PM
0

Let me ask you this; do you workout ? Do you study or work? Have you approached woman ? whats are your hobbies? Have you find out your mission in life? Think like those questions like a system of points If you're fit good, but you're doing well in your job or school even better.
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:30 PM
8

Just go out for an ice cream or something that isnt expensive, dont be nervous, chances are she is more nervous that you, and focus on having a good time with her
/r/seduction12/08/21 06:30 PM
2

Have you kissed her ?
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:53 PM
2

She is into you but never have time to go out with you? She is not that into you, if she were, she would have time to go out every time you asked When things are going wrong in a relationship, women start to look outside for posible replacement, at this point, you don't know if she would come back with her boyfriend or if there's another guy in the picture and you don't want to be an option for her, you want to become a priority for her. this a process, let her ask you out, she did that on the p…
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:51 PM
1

You dont Dude, nobody is looking for a formal/serious relationship, at the beginning everyone is looking for a casual relationship, After some time has passed you would meet with pressure, they would start asking questions such as 'what we are' or where is this going, etc, you don't panic and you say something like we are not in ready for that step yet, but maybe in the future we will After some months they would start asking those questions again, and if you're still not ready/sure you should t…
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:01 PM
1

That's because you're thinking this shit wrong, You're thinking as if you're flirting with a man, but woman and men fall in love from different perspectives, Let woman come to you and don't give in so easily What we want to create is doubt, curiosity, fantasy and challenge in the mind of a woman.
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:46 PM
1

Woman need time and space to process their emotions, sometimes they tell you something but its only on that moment, its for the better if you let her start to wonder about you, a lot of men make a lot of texting after the first dates thus making obvious mistakes. You can be genuine just don't show all your cards, just don't tell her that you don't have more options, it's better if you're not that easy. And finally, woman don't fall in love by texting them, you don't need to text her everyday
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:50 PM
4

My dude, you gotta be honest with yourself, you know damn well that this relationship is not gonna work, She leave you (possibly for this guy) and when things didn't turn out well for her she is making her 'come back' but in reality, she isn't interested in you, she knows that can have you at any moment, you are not a priority for this reason, You need someone who really love to be with you, I know you wanna make things work with her, but that's not happening, drop her ass.
/r/seduction12/08/21 03:53 AM
1

My dude you need to practice and you need to do it a lot, your social skills sucks, im sure that there a lot of people who would like to meet you, and you need to get out of your comfort zone
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:27 AM
4

Ah, thats a problem, you shouldn't spend more than 1:30 hrs to maximum of 2:00 hrs, cause for that time that you're spending with her you're walking right into the friendzone, remember less is more in this case, less talk and more action. And if you notice that she doesnt want to participate in the conversation (only talking about herself) then you need to end the date cause its going nowhere
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:18 AM
1

Another thing, after the fist date you don't text them, if they send you a message you should wait 3 or 4 days to respond, and if they don't send you a message you text them after a week and ask them out
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:07 AM
1

I'd say no, looks to me that you jumped some steps, of course you can do it, if she got high interest in you, and in this wasn't the case since she didn't care to know you.
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:02 AM
7

When you're texting them, you need to take your time to respond and your texts should be putting her on mistery .e, " -what do you do? - I sell things for internet' what things ? ' and then you don't respond or change the subject After you set the date, you don't text her anymore, its for the better. Before getting physical, you need to open her up, make her laugh, be ready with one or two anecdotes and especially, let her do the talk And for the contact part, the rule is two step forward, one s…
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:40 AM
1

Respond to her tomorrow, not early take your time, and remember every interaction is an excuse for seduction
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:12 AM
3

Got questions, how much time passes between they like you on social media and you ask them out ? How much texting are u doing ? If you feel like she is being comfortable with you, why you don't scalate the physical contact? When they communicate that want you as a friend how are u reacting?
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:58 PM
4

She just did that to you Dude, you gotta understand that seduction is a game, and this game, you MUST play it, a lot of people like you say 'well I dont like play games' guess what? You already fucked up cause women love to play this game, the prettier she is, the better she knows how to play it. By being always available, you're saying that you don't have more options, you come off as needy, as someone who doesn't have an interesting life etc etc and you woman don't like that.
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:23 PM
5

No no no, that's soo unattractive, how tf are u always available for her ???
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:08 PM
6

Naa, you gotta practice, start small, when you got close to a woman just say hi, then when you feel confident enough, start making small talk, and then when you feel confident enough, start asking for numbers (even if you're not planning on texting them) and just like that, it's a process to become confident. Also, one thing that can help your self confidence is your body language, you should be walking with good posture, look people in their eyes, and don't be afraid of people.
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:03 PM
1

Yeah that approach isn't wrong, but the thing is that to make a woman want you again you have to improve your life in some way, she hangouts with you but you still the same
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:24 PM
10

You gotta understand that she is not interested in you, you had two dates with this woman and nothing has happened, stop wasting your time and date someone else My tip to not come off as needy is treat woman as options (even if you don't have more options) And please learn to know when they are interested and when they are not
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:12 PM
3

Noooo move on, she is not interested, next time to not be confused about what she tells you and what she say, pay attention on what they do I.E. She can say things like 'id like to hangout with you ' but in action she never make time and stuff like that
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:33 AM
2

You should ask her out only ONE time, if she is interested she will either agrees or schedules the date and if not, don't lost your valuable time
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:26 AM
5

Yes, don't use it to find the love of your life, use instead to improve your social skills and your approach to women
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:24 AM
1

Good recommendation
/r/seduction11/08/21 02:51 AM
10

Your thoughts are problematic, be careful about how you are talking to yourself, my dude, there are so many woman who are ready to meet you but with that attitude SMH. Believe me, start small, one step at one time and you'll dicked them down in not time.
/r/seduction11/08/21 02:30 AM
8

Woman are used to get approached by strangers, they won't bite you, just make small talk, that will help you with confidence, ask their number until you feel confident enough You need to build your confidence to talk to them and there's one way to do it.
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:49 AM
1

Remember, girls shoot their opportunity by laughing at bad jokes.
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:04 AM
1

Hey op for the first date, how difficult was for you to set the date, you wrote she was hard to reach out and im not sure what you mean by that.
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