| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 78 | Toxic advice in the book "models" | Resources | OSRS_Satriani | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:01 PM |
| 34 | You're talking to a girl you approached and her boyfriend appears. What do you do? | Fundamentals | OSRS_Satriani | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:49 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | For men, being able to shrug at rejection is paramount in datingI've asked out six women in person this year and they've all rejected me. It bruised my ego at first but now I don't really care anymore. I'll keep trying while keeping my expectations low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 06:49 AM |
| – | When did you realize you were unattractive and doomed in the dating world?It doesn't come back on them. Studies have shown that bullies usually do well romantically and professionally, more so than their victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Random chick showed me her Tits after I gave her a ride home.A woman recently flagged my car down and asked if I could drive her and some guy downtown. She said I could see her boobs if I agreed. I felt really sketched out and drove away. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are really getting out of hand with demands... what about us?I've never been DMed or approached. Life is brutal. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 10:16 AM |
| 1 | 'Dating apps have become the kiss of death for male reproductive success'Is this true? I don't use any apps and feel totally screwed | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Did my first true cold approach and oofWell done, even if it didn't go perfect it's still better than not trying. I'm in the same boat as you, it's so awkward but you just gotta keep trying. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Valuable lesson on lonelinessThe only validation you should need comes from within | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 12:31 AM |
| 33 | The end of an era? Bumble is crashing down, losing 80% of its value.A haircut every two weeks and a gym pass cost a fraction of the price each month and will get you far better results | /r/MensRights | 07/11/23 02:56 PM |
| 24 | The end of an era? Bumble is crashing down, losing 80% of its value.Damn, I recently got a "h". Couldn't even be bothered to add the i! | /r/MensRights | 07/11/23 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?I'm in my late 20's and I can relate to people who are teenagers and people who are senior citizens. It's always possible to find common ground if you have social skills. Think FORD: Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Men don’t get to have male spacesMen like to spend time with other men. What about guys that watch sports together or play video games as a group? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:58 PM |
| 8 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldMy brother is 6"4 and good looking and has never had a partner at age 30. He is very shy though and afraid to show women interest. I see women checking him out but height only gets you so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVMaybe not :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:11 AM |
| 6 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVI'm 6"1 and have never been approached. My 7 foot tall friend gets approached and talked to constantly (mostly by guys asking him how tall he is and if he plays basketball). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Outside of dating apps, how are you supposed to start a relationship?It's unfortunately true, at least in the early stages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Outside of dating apps, how are you supposed to start a relationship?Well you have to approach people and build connections. It's not enough for a guy to show up and expect women to reach out to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:57 AM |
| 1 | "Romantic" movies can't be used as an example of what women find romantic, because... they are not really romantic.I just watched all the Divergent movies this week, it has a rommance that is pretty much resolved early on with no ensuing drama. The Hunger Games was worse with the "which guy will it be?" trope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:01 AM |
| 7 | Y'all pushed us this far.So someone who experienced trauma isn't a good person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Do men like plus size women?Yeah 5"2 and 170 pounds is very curvy, 250 is just morbidly obese at that point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.My girlfriend is autistic and she doesn't understand my humor at all which can be frustrating. Sometimes it's fun to have to read between the lines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 08:09 PM |
| 8 | The mockery directed toward's peterson's crying on live Tv is proof of women's loathing of weak emotional men.Yeah women have usually reacted super positively to me crying because it's so rare. I imagine if it happened all the time they would probably just roll their eyes at me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 08:56 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.Some women are unattractive or suffer from trauma/disability/mental health issues which makes it difficult for them to find a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Men are often richer for doing controversial non-nasty jobs that women don't want to doI studied Psychology and make a good living with 0 debt. Took me a while to get there though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 06:15 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Dumping awkward or unattractive guys into the Alaskan wilderness in late winter might make them more attractive.It's like a 14-year-old just discovered Reddit after watching hundreds of Andrew Tate videos and thinks he's some sort of genius | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:56 AM |
| 3 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherJon Hamm is engaged to an actress who I wouldn't say is below his league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What's the problem non-MRMs and/or anti-MRMs have with gym and physical exercising?Yeah I don't get OP, sure going to the gym is good and works wonders for your mood but working out won't necessarily cure mental illness. Lots of super fit people struggle with mental illness and need therapy and medications. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/22 12:33 AM |
| 9 | What movies or shows should I actively avoid watching?To be fair women in that show pretty much only exist to produce children so it's not very great to them either | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 11:15 PM |
| 9 | Why are Incels sometimes Shamed in Society?Lots of people imagine violent and hateful men when they think of incels, but plenty of incels are just men with mental health issues and a history of trauma who are unable to find a relationship | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Canadian men. Be careful. If you cohabit for a certain time it will be considered common law marriage.A lot of the times cohabitation agreements won't even be recognized in court. Both parties need to have consulted a lawyer at the time it was signed for it to be valid or else it can be thrown out in court. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Germany: Men who eat meat should be BANNED from having sex to save the planet, animal rights group claimsThere's always a loud minority | /r/MensRights | 23/09/22 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Toxic advice in the book "models"It's from page 26 in the recent edition! | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Oh ok that makes sense! | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 10:34 PM |
| 8 | Toxic advice in the book "models"I knew a guy who was 6"2 and 250 lbs and he would put his arms around random women moments after meeting them at parties. You could see the fear in their eyes when he did that but they wouldn't say anything. He didn't do very well with women. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Thank you! That makes sense! | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Toxic advice in the book "models"On the other hand, being physically assertive and sexually forthright triggers a woman’s sexual arousal and makes her want to have sex, often right then and there, and often even if she rejects your advances two or three or ten times. This paragraph seems very predatory to me | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Yeah you're probably right, I will keep reading! | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:39 PM |
| 25 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Your bold and aggressive pursuit of her often turns her on to the point where she comes around and wants to get to know you. On the other hand, being physically assertive and sexually forthright triggers a woman’s sexual arousal and makes her want to have sex, often right then and there, and often even if she rejects your advances two or three or ten times. I don't know, I feel like if someone gets rejected several times you should just move on? Seems predatory to keep going at that point. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Haha | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Thank you! | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Toxic advice in the book "models"People here praise that book as gospel so I'm giving it a read. The quoted paragraph gave me literary whiplash so I'm just asking people here for thoughts about it! | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Thank you | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Thanks for clarifying! | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Fair enough, the author should've added that last bit! | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:59 PM |
| -4 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Seems pretty straightforward to me, what am I missing here? | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:59 PM |
| 10 | How to meet girls on a cruise?Just a regular one, LA to Mexico | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 01:10 PM |
| 158 | How to meet girls on a cruise?I went on a cruise a few years ago and women approached me out of nowhere and I never get approached. It's a different environment. Alcohol helps for sure! | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 05:19 AM |
| 6 | Really struggling with cold-approach. I'll notice a hot girl I want to speak to just as she's passed me and then I struggle to turn back because I've already made eye-contact/smiled, etc.I feel like this advice works if you live in an enormous city. If you live in a small town where everyone knows each other you can't really afford to waste opportunities with anyone. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 10:28 PM |
| 13 | As a man, I see dating as mostly a skillset. What do women see it as?"Don't try to find love, it'll find you" says the woman who gets approached by several guys weekly and picks the best of the best | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 04:40 AM |
| 10 | Day gaming at grocery store?I have hearing loss from years of playing electric guitar at full volume, so even a quiet bar is terrible for me. I'm constantly leaning in way too close and going "huh?" and "can you repeat that?" and just nodding my head pretending like I heard what they said | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 05:06 PM |
| 3 | how to handle gf tantrumsI dated someone like this for 2 years back in the day. I cringe looking back at all the abuse I tolerated. I have a friend going through the same and it's difficult to watch. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Tinder makes me depressed!Yeah having them as a "supplemental" to real life was detrimental to my mental health which led to poor confidence. They definitely do more harm than good. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Tinder makes me depressed!I feel so much better reading this, I've been getting no matches for months on the app which led me to think that I wasn't good looking even though I do well in real life. Glad I deleted that app. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Tinder makes me depressed!Yep, it used to be very easy for me to get matches and go out on dates with attractive women. I haven't gotten a single match in the two months I've been on it now, I don't know what went wrong. I've decided to ditch the app and approach women in person. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 04:16 AM |
| 5 | You are enough to take action as you are right now. You don't need to be perfect or maxed out at everything, life's too short for thatThe endorphins/energy/better posture are what helped my confidence the most | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger womanYeah it's easy for women to have experiences when they're young since so many guys will chase them regardless of who they are and what they're like. For a guy, you really need to have insane confidence to get with those types of girls. So it makes sense that you'd want to chase what you missed out on. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 10:58 PM |
| 17 | Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger womanI know a girl who met her husband when she was 18 and he was 65. Her dad had recently passed away. They were married for 5 years, had a kid, and recently got divorced. That seemed pretty messed up to me. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger womanHow does one even find a younger woman to date? | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 10:49 PM |
| 8 | Why “nice” isn’t attractive, and why it actually makes senseI think you're referring to being assertive. Back in the day people lived in small communities and had to help each other out. If a guy only looked out for himself and didn't help others out as needed then he wouldn't be liked by the group. You have to strike a happy balance of being kind to other but still having boundaries so that people don't walk all over you. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Its amazing how much difference height makes in how women treat you, even in non romantic settingsI knew two guys who were fairly homely and 5"5 and 5"6 in university and they were both hooking up with 6"+ girls. They had no sense of style and I found their personalities repulsive because they were arrogant bullies. But their unbreakable confidence allowed them to ask out tons of girls until they were successful. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:35 AM |
| -2 | Its amazing how much difference height makes in how women treat you, even in non romantic settingsI'm 6"1 and women don't treat me specially. I know tons of short guys who are successful with tall women, confidence and charisma can make up for any height disadvantage. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Will not accept.Browsing Reddit isn't any better, most people browse /r/all slackjawed day in and day out laughing at the same reposts over and over again | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/07/21 10:29 PM |
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