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| 2 | Almost all Chads are taking anabolic steroids. You can't really ever hope to be a Chad unless you take them yourself.Body matters much less than face/height for men. Most woman like lean but not super muscular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Women who are ugly have no saving ground50 to 80% might be unattractive to a single woman but they have different types they prefer. If you take a large number of woman the amount of universally unattractive guys is much less than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Annoying TV Trope: model-tier nerd-girl doesn't get any attention & sex from the boys.Its the same with guys. Give them glasses and a turtleneck they are now nerdy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How many men out there do you think would gladly take a life that involves literally *only* fucking supermodels 24/7, and doing absolutely nothing else? (no friends, family, job, hobbies)That would sound like fun until you go one round then want to do something else.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | If you want to date 9’s and 10’s, daygame is the way.Or you could just not care about getting 9s and 10s.... Woman do not want to be approached by random people and if you are not hot you could potentially get the cops called on you. You think a 5'2 balding guy is going to get a model just because he acts confident? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Should cosmetic surgery be encouraged more for men struggling to meet the physical attractiveness threshold with women?Only if you have a deformity should cosmetic surgery be used and leg lengthening should never be used it is a waste of money and not safe. No one is going to get a jaw implant and go from a 3 to a 8 it just doesn't happen only for defects like a broken nose or heavily recessed chin should it be considered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Why the sexual market place will ALWAYS be skewed towards women in a free society.I dont think it has much to do with sex drive its just the average man is unattractive. Men need to be above a certain height, have an good dick size and in good shape or skinny with an attractive face to be considered hot even by gays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 2 | the proverbial "bar" for a 'sexually successful' man is a man who has had (or can have) a threesome (MFF)3some apps exist they are not that difficult to get tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for womenHeight is relative. If every guy was 6ft tall then 6'5 would be the new minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Are Sugar Daddies considered Winners or Losers?Any guy who needs lots of money to get a girl is a loser period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?Porn, Video games and feminism is the cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 07:17 AM |
| 9 | How to take sexy Tinder pictures that actually get matchesYet everyone on reddit says the opposite (no shirtless pictures unless at the beach and no photos with other women). Which one is it? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/21 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?Im 5'5", autistic and have undesireable facial features (round eyes, round skull, big nose, ears that stick out). Also I look like im balding due to hair pulling which never grew back. Also have a 4" penis at best. Would rate 2/10. I used to be incel but I have found other interests and dont care much atm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Do you feel bad for only having sex with a girl who clearly wants commitment from you?I guess guys who break up with attractive girls feel bad but if she is below average going for models only no she doesnt deserve any commitment from guys who have better options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:14 PM |
| 3 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?It will never colapse because sex is not a need you can 100% be happy focusing on other things the problem is the culture being too focused on sex making people feel lime they are missing out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:09 PM |
| 12 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Neurotic nerdy average looking guys are unattractive. Attractive guys who are autistic do fine believe me im autistic and short while I know a 6'5 autistic guy that gets lots of attention from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | If personality matters more than looks then why are most couples looksmatched ? Doesn’t that mean looks is the main currency ?How is talking about something your genuinely interested in a turn off? So you would rather he was insecure about his interests and had a fake manufactured personality that is not genuine? Most guys have things like this they are interested in the only people who don't are not being genuine or have no peraonality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 08:36 AM |
| 16 | When is ‘confidence’ actually confidence and when is it arrogance or fake?Confidence = attractive arrogance = unattractive. Just type in "confident man" into google all that pops up are white tall attractive men in suits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 07:43 AM |
| 0 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?Also dont be trans (Must have a vagina), have a cute face, wide hips, big ass, big boobs..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t most average men “looksmax”?Getting abs helps but unless your overweight it will not make you go from average to hot. Getting "ripped" is also largly generic some people such as myself carry lots of water under their skin making them look bloated no matter how much they work out or diet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do men factor a woman’s body into her overall attractiveness more than women factor in a man’s body ?Eyes are important in men even more so than jaw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menA guy who writes this will get matches from nerdy girls if he is hot but hot girls will be turned off by this for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menIt is for the top men who have lots of options. These guys dont want nerdy girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for menHot guys can still be creepy it just takes a higher level of weird behaviour from a hot guy than from an ugly guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 11:36 AM |
| 1 | There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society."You mean Raj, the 5'2 balding skinny-fat indian is not creepy for hitting on you while brad the tall, white blue eyed guy hitting on you is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society."Its based on how attractive you are if a guy is hot he can get away with much more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society."A guy in a wheelchair is percieved as more creepy than the tall white athletic guy it has nothing to do with size/strength its based on looks and how likely you precieve that guy is weird or cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society."You mean Raj the 5'2" skinny balding guy is not going to be creepy while brad the 6ft white blue eyed cute guy is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 12:53 PM |
| 0 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.Need some proof for that even looking at statistics does not show this is the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:48 AM |
| 0 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.In real life it is not true personality matters much more. Only online dating does looks matter but even then face structure does not matter much its mainly about lighting, facial expression ext. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:47 AM |
| 0 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.Whats hot for one woman is average to another. Some like large guys, others cute guys, some like ethnic guys, others bald guys ext. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:45 AM |
| 2 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.Just want someone to debate my view not a troll post I could say this is a troll comment (adds nothing to the discussion). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:44 AM |
| 0 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.Yeah but different types of men appeal to different woman. If one woman likes 5% of men attractive another might find a different 5% attractive with some overlap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:43 AM |
| 1 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.Online dating is used by one subset of woman though and does apply to woman in real life. If 80% of the casual sex is had by 20% of men that proves nothing when you dont know how many men/women actively seek casual sex in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:41 AM |
| 0 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.Because woman dont know what 6ft is they think someone who is 5'9" is 6ft. Not because they actually want someone who is 6ft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:38 AM |
| 2 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.What kind of effort? You mean effort to grow taller and grow a larger dick? Not possible unfortunately only thing you can change is body fat percentage and muscle definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:36 AM |
| 1 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.Most only care if you are taller why whould they care about how you look with other men. Shorter girls usually date shorter guys as a general rule although some very short girls like very tall men most just want someone taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:35 AM |
| 0 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.Its more men than woman using online dating is like 30% woman and 70% men. Not all "hot" guys are using online dating, its not all the top 20% using it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:33 AM |
| 0 | 20/80 rule makes no sence when you think about it.They all look very different. How do you define "good head shape" and "impeccable facial structure" when all these guys have different face shapes? Seems like very subjective ways to describe something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.It is their own fault they are not even putting any effort in. If your fit, average height and face you can find someone even using online dating its that simple. Most guys would rather just spend all day playing video games with no exercise, watching porn and eating shit food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 06:28 AM |
| -3 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.Its mostly because men are socialising less and spending more time playing video games not because men are unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 06:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's not much proof behind the "80/20" rule.If you are fit, average height and 5/10 face you are in top 20% easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 06:21 AM |
| 2 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women?They do it when asked of course but what they do and what they say are very different. You will not admit it because you dont want to admit being shallow but being creepy is direclty related to how attractive you are. If a balding 5'2 Indian guy said your cute he vs a white 6ft blue eyed guy you will react very differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 08:42 AM |
| 4 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women?Im sure thats why people like Chris Brown are loved by so many women even though they abuse women. What woman say doesnt matter only what they do and how they act and ive seen guys who would be labled creepy get away with much more just because they were good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 08:33 PM |
| 11 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women?Creeper = unattractive for the most part though. If a hot guy told you while alone he was only attending to meet woman im sure most would not see anything wrong with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women?The ratio of male to female gamers is heavely skewed and how do these types on introverted people even meet? I doubt they are using tinder which is full of people partying and acting as extroverted as ppssible. Gaming clubs are also not very common other than expos and animecons but these events are full of woman only their to advatise their socials. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women?But the point is the advice is given if your below average very often. Attractive people can just use online dating and have success but for a below average guy can show more of his personality than with online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women?Then why is it by far the most common advice given wheras cold approaching is heavily looked down on and makes you look desperate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women?This is the advice commonly given to guys who are average and below but aren't social. A Average and above can just use online dating to get relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible, that in future somehow gender dynamics, where women are dominant and men are passive, will be common and accepted? Will passive and feminine men be accepted?Testosterone levels have dropped as a result of diet and lack of excercie nothing to do with men becoming less masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible, that in future somehow gender dynamics, where women are dominant and men are passive, will be common and accepted? Will passive and feminine men be accepted?Feminine men by western standards have already happened look at asian countries outside the West like Japan where the idea of masculinity are very different. Its not about being strong and dominant rather femine men are prefered over their and the influence of Kpop are already affecting western standards of masculinity. Its therefore clearly not completly evolutionarily it mostly dependants on culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Has modern dating gotten worse?Face is more important than physique unless your overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Has modern dating gotten worse?Bars and clubs are even worse for average looking guys at least average guys can get fat girls online. If your below 6'3 in a club unless your very attractive your basically invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | The reason for high male celibacy is mostly due to video games and porn rather than dating appsIts the cause for sure what else is going to be causing it? The majority of women in real life don't go for these chads with perfect face, height, money ext. if it was the case most men would be sexless but this is not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | The reason for high male celibacy is mostly due to video games and porn rather than dating appsMost women are not like that though they are not going to call rape for just talking to them its just what people think. Most also dont go on about how horrible men are just because someone on Twitter said something about men doesnt mean the majority actually believe it. Girls do not have impossible standards its just a few once again the majority of people in a relationship are just average guys with genetic flaws and problems and most definatly are not suger daddies like wtf this applies only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 12:22 PM |
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