OUcommawinkyface Archive

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1	Q4Men: You find out that your girlfriend was ugly 3 years ago. She shows you an old picture of herself and tells you “you wouldn’t have liked me back then, I wasn’t pretty”. How do you react? Additional questions inside. I think he means it he found out someone he was attracted to wearing jeans had hairy legs under those jeans he'd still be attracted. As opposed to finding out someone you're attracted to has a cat butthole tattoo on their belly and no longer feeling attracted to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 07:07 AM
1	CMV: Baldness will eventually be cured, and this will change the SMP considerably, since baldness is the main threat to a men's looks as they age. Hormonal changes affect the way your body holds muscle and fat. Excluding fat deposit and skin changes, you still have this to contend with: (Sarcopenia)[https://www.webmd.com/healthy-aging/guide/sarcopenia-with-aging#1] isn't so bad in early stages. I don't know how much of the changes are due to fat/muscle/skin changes but a guy I know in his 40s is no longer 'fit shaped' despite spending a lot of time on exercise, he's not a barrel but he's lost the taper and is softer/less defined around his…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/18 12:45 AM
2	Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character. I think it's partly that and it can help early on. People 'like' each other more initially if they're both in a good mood. Happy people are receptive people, being rich won't buy you love, but it will usually make the first few dates easier. I haven't been on a date in a while, but the last one I went on started with him being 15 minutes late because of the buses so I missed the first 10 minutes of the movie because he then wanted to get a drink and snacks and ended up with us awkwardly hanging …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/18 11:29 PM
1	Is It Difficult to Not Be Creepy? I got off a bus at ~4pm, a guy (bigger and stronger than me) got off at the same stop and started chatting to me. I told him I needed to get home and he grabbed my arm. I hadn't noticed him paying any unusual attention to me on the bus and he'd made no attempt to talk to me up to this point. I couldn't easily pull my arm away and there wasn't anyone that close by(some houses if you walked across a small park with no one in it, a couple of takeaways that weren't open yet and some terraces and sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/18 10:38 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you date a single father? It would be a massive hit to their RMV in my opinion. To start with assuming the mother is somewhat present the relationship includes a third partner who I'm now accountable to. I get attached and getting attached to kids you have no legal claim to is risky at best. A responsible rather won't introduce you to the kids until things start being serious, if the children are impossible for me to get along with, that's a serious time and emotional investment down the toilet. I wouldn't want large age…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/18 10:08 PM
1	(Q4BP) Lets look at the school of hard knocks I think cheating is based around deception, you know if she's not having sex with you and have the option to do something about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/18 07:27 PM
2	What are the Pros/Cons of Having a ‘Review’ function on Tinder? Reviews would be inaccurate. I don't date much, but my last one he thought I was great until I told him I didn't want a second date. You'd also get a lot of people giving a good review to get a good review.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/18 05:30 AM
3	The "woman shortage" problem They're talking about single men who used to be married/ltred vs single men who have never been ltred.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/18 08:28 PM
2	Do women cheat more than men? If not, are women more loyal than men? Not a study, but one thing that affects it is not that it isn't necessarily people that sleep around a lot when single cheat but that people who don't cheat don't get the opportunity to sleep around as much. The only way that cheaters wouldn't have a higher n is it they actually slept around less when single as they have more time to add to it. Assuming two people sleep with a new partner every 6 months when single get into a relationship, and n=number of sexual partners at start of relationship…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/18 07:53 PM
3	Do women cheat more than men? If not, are women more loyal than men? An issue being that cheaters will almost always have a higher n. Jane and Jess both sow their wild oats and have an n of 6 when they get into their first monogamous relationship having already slept with that partner, after 3 years Jane has an n of 9 and Jess has an n of 6. Assuming that cheaters sleep around the same amount when single as non-cheaters, they will always have a higher n as the faithful hit the pause buttons on their n count for months-decades at a time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/18 07:48 PM
1	Q4women: What is the weakest thing a man could do? Tell your partner you're unhappy about the amount of sex, ask what the problem is. Try to fix the problem without further entwining yourself (if you can afford to pay a little extra for month to month then don't sign a year long lease renewal), if your partner is unable/unwilling to identify/fix the problem in a reasonable amount of, decide whether or not you're willing to be in a sexless relationship taking into account the resentment that tends to build up. You probably won't be because sexles…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/18 09:15 PM
5	[Q4ALL] Would you let your son wear dresses? Routine humiliation of children is bad for them. This is a way for parents to inflict harm without visible damage leaving a child who is unable to seek help without extending their own humiliation. Where parents use it to simulate having a daughter the treatment of the son like he is inherently inferior because of his gender and lack of control over the most basic things isn't exactly the recipe for a healthy child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/18 08:54 PM
2	Don't believe the Red Pill? Read any popular romance novel, you'll see how true the philosophy is. I'm going to assume you have read maybe a couple of forum posts and a blurb, unless you're trying to argue that losing your head over a girl and doing anything for her is RP. Twilight: The main guys are 100% for Bella. Edward not only doesn't want anyone else, but is over a century old and a still a virgin, Jacob is also presumably a virgin although this isn't explicitly stated. They both look like hot teenagers, with Edward looking the same age as Bella and Jacob being slightly younger than her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/18 06:04 AM
4	male birth control pills or vasectomies? I think men's reluctance/lack of motivation to take hormonal birth control is largely based off of women having it available. It depends on the woman, it didn't improve my skin, but did give me hormonal headaches (frequently) and make things less pleasurable. Apart from the contraceptive aspects I think BC is usually a net loss in terms of water retention, weight gain and lower libido. There's a reason that most women don't use it when not sexually active, some experience benefits like lighter p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/18 05:33 PM
7	male birth control pills or vasectomies? Hormonal birth control in women is correlated with depression and bad things as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/18 05:05 PM
1	Which traits would you prefer? For a man: Sweet (cuddly, friendly), facially attractive, fully employed (a flat around here costs like 75% of minimum wage).	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/18 05:00 PM
1	Why do you think women are less likely to get re-married? In this context: guy who comes by to bang, often some shallow romantic connotation, so flirty, maybe some datelike behaviour but without the prospect of moving in together/developing into a serious relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/18 07:26 AM
2	Why do we punish shallowness in friendships but not relationships? Because your friends are your friends and your partner is your partner? When your friend loses their job very little changes for you, when your partner loses their job everything from plans for kids to education to 'are we going to get evicted?' A friend with mobility issues leaves you maybe having to pick restaurants carefully and help them with doors, a partner with mobility issues leaves you with almost all the housework, having to schedule around driving them, changing the layout of everythi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/18 09:51 PM
1	Q4All: What wouldn't you tolerate from your partner's past? ....it's missing an 'of' between 'bit' and 'pixie dust '....	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/18 09:27 PM
1	Q4Men: Have you or your male friends/acquaintances ever been called a "rapist" or formally accused of rape/sexual assault for merely approaching and talking to a woman? Combined with you asking her out, she probably noticed you more than other guys so it 'seemed' like you were around a lot, particularly if there were some coincidences thrown in as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/18 07:27 AM