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OakTr3E/r/askTRP19/11/14 08:55 AM
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OakTr3E/r/askTRP16/11/14 11:52 AM
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Yeah because god forbid you would do something socially unaceptable behaviour just because you find it could improve your life in one way or another. Did you not realize how blatantly conformist your expression was? The fat guy is alone at the gym, hopefully because he want to get in shape. Not because society has an acceptance for fat guys going to the gym alone. It´s the same thing for OP going to a bar alone. He finds worth in doing it and doesn't care if you or others consider it normal or n…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 08:52 PM
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TRP has helped me see all the flaws in my parents. They were great, much more mentally stable and strong than most parents. But not nearly as strong as I thought. While my father had some Don Juan characteristics (and I suspect he wasn't faithful 100% of the time before my parents divorce) he still is very blue pill and has now become very pussy whipped by his new GF. My mother cuddled me very much. I achieved a lot of love. But I actually also achieved RP advice (mixed with blue pill). Most of …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 07:53 PM
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Maybe I am getting too drunk now to post (I gues it´s a sort of disclaimer). But this makes very much sense to me atm. One more thing about purple pillers (and bluepillers). I think people on this forum have problems with relying on self-validation rather than external validation. Trying to convince purple pillers or blue pillers about your world view is trying to be reasonable. "We" have tried this our whole life when we were blue pill and it hasn't worked. We have lived up to ideals of logic a…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:46 PM
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It´s only natural that the emotions of anger and hate will be prevalent in red pill swallowing men. This red pill rage coincide with the urge to discuss your thoughts and feelings. So no wonder there seems to be a lot of anger in this subreddit. We need to let men vent their emotions. Because there is basically no other place where the emotions of red pill awareness can be vented, but anonymously, online, in a forum where other people understand you. The anger will transition towards productivit…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 05:18 PM
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I have a similar approach, for both similar and different reasons. I have noticed another thing since swallowing the red pill. Mostly because of (a conscious process of) rewiring my brain to seek validation from myself rather than subconsciously from others (mostly from females and family). I notice now when my BP part start switching to validation seeking and I shut that process down very fast and think "wait a minute, what am I doing/thinking right now?". The effect it has is that I notice whe…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:02 PM
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Haha true that. Not going through that again. 30+ is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:54 AM
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I actually consider myself "being happy". Something I have strived for all my life but BP ideas made me think I "needed this and that". Sure I have my ups and downs and some frustration about stuff from time to time. But my average state of mind is "I have everything I need and I enjoy living my life now". This without getting any pussy or at least very rarely atm. There have been more opportunities to LTR girls now than in the past. But it has been counterproductive towards my goals and I keep …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:46 AM
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Not sure why you think its bullshit. In this case the "score" would represent SMV if translated to RP terminology. So how high is a cardiologists SMV compared to a janitors? Much higher. I mean, he's a cardiologist! :P You were thinking logically about the situation. Figuring that a janitor earn enough and also probably will have more time to spend on kids. But that doesn't do much for his current SMV. Women do not want to settle with "just fine" they want the top alpha. A cardiologist is highly…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 08:59 PM
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First of all: And if I didn't speak up, I wasn't just being private, I was "lying"? Of course not. You can only lie if you say something that is not truth. If you don't say anything at all you are just not sharing information. Don't get manipulated in believing that not speaking means lying. She is trying to make you feel guilty because her other tactics haven't worked. I would say, whenever you don't feel like sharing information. Use Agree and Amplify if you don't feel comfortable being silent…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:52 PM
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Well. Number 6 do exist. These types will support their man because they are interested in him for some of the various reasons a woman can get interested in a man. This doesn't mean NAWALT because if the man doesnt do his part, bringing resources and leading them forward in life (being the captain) and/or better opportunities appear for the woman, then she might lose attraction and no longer support her man. This makes her AWALT. She will support him as long as the conditions are right. But the …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:39 PM
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Of course they know full fucking well they're flirting, they're just lying about it for the survey. They probably know it when they are doing it. But when partaking in the survey, they might have manipulated their memories to "I was only being friendly (because he didn't flirt back, don't want to face rejection)" and that´s what they will answer. So they might not even be lying. Not telling the truth is lying only if you are aware that you aren't telling the truth.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:28 PM
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Agreed. But if he say it "has been proven" then of course you will get curious about the source, if there is one.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:26 PM
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How ahs this been proven? I would believe they would answer in a way that portrays them as the person they want to be, feeding their egos (not necessarily aware of the self-deception). I find it likely that this is being done to a significant extent. But proven?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:24 PM
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Yes. You were BB to her and when not giving her your bux, she couldn't find enough alpha qualities in you and you eventually broke up. There was nothing in it for her. You dodged a bullet there!
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:32 AM
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You sound like a copy of me lol. I have always had a bit of machiavellanism in me. But most of my interactions with people were exhausting because when "queueing up" explanations in my brain during a discussion (not able to dissect one topic before the one I am talking to switches over to the next). So I just added up on things to say but never got to say more than 30% of what I was thinking and never got the point. Beaten by idiots, all the freaking time! :P But post 30 I started developing my …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:34 PM
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If I were to choose one article for me 20 years ago to read. This would be the one. It would probably take some time for young me to understand it but if I knew it was "OakTr3E from the future who sent it" I would digest it over and over until I finally started to get what it was about.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 09:11 PM
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So don't miss a beat, be happy to hear from her like nothing ever happened, ask her out and act like a man this time. You'd be surprised how easily and quickly "the past" can be erased if you just do that, they do not care how you were before, or how beta you acted with her, only how you are RIGHT NOW. Yeah I have experienced this alright. I had a (long) period with high stress and very beta-ish behaviour. I was aware I was on guard (and I knew the reasons, private details, fixed now) and I saw …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 10:23 PM
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After some questioning, I learned she meant that she doesn't like when a man's traps that are so large that they obscure his neck. But even then. She might still get attracted to a guy who fit that description. I would say she is just getting ready to reject the object of interest (muscular guy in the vicinity that the message is meant for) in advance, in case he rejects her in the future. Then she can fall back on her "well you are not my type anyway as I clearly stated in the past". You forced…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 09:44 PM
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Sigh. Those evil red pillers advising young men to not drink and to stawy awy from drugs. They also give advice on self-improvement. They clearly all are just a bunch of mysogynists who can't get laid!
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 08:04 PM
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I think men need to be burned and recover from it before having the mental fortitude to not get seduced by crazy.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 06:42 PM
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We are "the beautiful ones" (referring to the famous rat study). At least those of us who go mgtow or are incels. Including BP:ers when referring to "we".
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 06:40 PM
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To be fair. To find a similar trait in men. A lot of us have a tendency to want to take care of weak women. Women who are emotional and fragile and need support. This means more work for us but we feel good helping out. One subterm of this is "Captain save-a-hoe". But it could also be true for women with less n count. As long as they show weakness/neotenous traits it affects our male instinct to get attracted to them and take care of them. Women are attracted to dominant independent men with pow…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 06:16 PM
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Needed to log in to upvote this! Op just gave out information that can be used against him. "I thought you just hated women. But now I understand you. You're right. If I were you, I wouldn't want to get married either." Means just that. "Thanks for the information, I will revise my strategy now".
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 10:09 PM
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I imagine what would happen if I got more lucky with the girls in my youth. I would have never had swallow the red pill. Or at least not until it was too late. My mind would have been distracted by attention from girls (the male weakness of irrationality when faced with the female hamster) and I would have ended up in a LTR, married with kids before any realization would kick in. All this lack of sex and intimacy had made me think and ponder about myself, women and society. Being alone more has …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 11:42 AM
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Needed this reminder. Was sitting her procrastinating, being hungover and haven't gone to the gym yet. Going now. Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:42 PM
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I disagree. Men will want to cheat. Some have the willpower to avoid doing it several times over several years. It doesn't matter if you have bonded strongly and "see her as the one". This is true for bluepillers as well. Monogamy doesn't come naturally for men nor women. But men are able to keep their emotional bond to their girlfriend after cheating, if she is "a keeper". Generally speaking.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 08:38 AM
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Feminist thinking in italic Well it´s the female+feminist narrative extrapolated unto society. Beauty is a female trait but with female hamstering men and women are alike. Therefore beauty is a human trait and women "must be forced" to put on make up via patriarchy while men get away because they are not oppressed. So the male population is both accused of oppressing women while women get the power of artificially raising their SMV through beauty products. Women - Men, 2 - 0 Power is a male trai…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:52 AM
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Im only 30+ but yeah. This sounds so very spot on from my experience too. You realize you must have game to live with a woman. If you "try to listen" and "understand her" you will get used up, turned into a tool. If you argue againts her / stand up for yourself and put her in place, you will have drama, but she will like it and respect you/get tingles for you. But yeah, you will get drama. There is no option that is both void of drama and where you are allowed to be yourself. Personally I dont t…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 11:26 PM
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Wow this was actualyl a mini-revelation for me. I probably am the "try-hard" in the gym to some people. It explains a lot of peoples interaction towards me (this is not only done by women, gyms have become so extremely feminized the last 10 years so a lot of the guys/"men" going there might have the same attitude), before they get to know me. But anyway, it doesn't matter. I might hit on girls there anyway if I feel like it. I have my priorities straight so no way I am going to work less hard to…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 11:03 PM
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Not responding to your story, just this comment: Most guys would let her have way or try indirect means of getting away from and be too hesitant to fight back The danger is that he could have been seen as a perpetrator for defending himself. People at the club will notice him pushing as "violent", but ignoring her nut-grabbing as "probably only flirting" or if it looked violent "she is defending herself". Then the bouncers would be called on him. It could have been a lose-lose situation. Luckily…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 09:05 AM
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For me. It was: Realizing that I lose power by doing so (becoming aware). Experiencing negative effects from it (remembering past memories where it served me badly as well too) Putting an effort in to shut up And now I do it a lot less. Still need more training. I do mini-slips from time to time. I think the more validation you seek from others, the harder it is to shut up. Overall, switching over from seeking validation from others and giving yourself validation (i.e through improving yourself …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 01:57 AM
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It even looked like bad game from your part (you seemed "cornered" and giving off a vibe of "shit she caught me"). But the interest you had built up leading to this discussion was too high to get screwed by bad game. (from what I interpret) She didn't care that you "got caught and got nervous about it". She wanted to convince you "she is the better one" and gave a good performance. edit - just read this: I'm not hiding anything from her. We just simply don't talk about it. I made it clear at the…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 02:11 AM
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They know they're at the top intellectually. Intelligent men need to get over their "Dunning Krugers". I myself learned what this was in my early twenties and saw it in others. Of course I knew "what's what" because I always explained "everything to everyone" and was good at it. But 1-2 more years and I was put in place by wiser and/or more intelligent people on many ideas I was confident about. This made me defensive (as usual - emotions arose) but after reflection realized that maybe I wasn't …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 01:49 AM
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Usually don't post here (man). But thought I give my perspective on this. Don't do it (send sexy selfies)! (for the reasons you stated). But don't throw off them only based on that. They want to see you (as) naked (as possible) as soon as possible. This goes for almost all type of men, "good" or "bad". Some of them dare to try, some of them don't ask (but are probably trying to figure out a plan to make you reveal more of your body). This may not be indicative of if they are good material or not…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/15 12:52 AM
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Of course at this point their very vulnerable so it's best not to lead them on as you will leave them feeling lied to etc. Good post! If you want to feel honest about how you do things. Don't use tricks to keep her when she starts to realize you really are uncontrollable and will not commit to her. Giving off signs that "you might change" just to keep her a bit longer is not only manipulative but immoral. At least up until now you have stated what you want, followed your words and she have had t…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:20 AM
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You do not reconcile it. The world is a place where those who use pointy elbows get more out of life. And everyone uses it from time to time. Trying to treat everyone "fairly and just" and never compete against others means people will walk over you, often.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:12 AM
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Had to try it myself. Got low on narcissism (11) and psychopathy (6). But somewhat high on machiavellianism (62). My machiavellianism probably was much lower as BP. After reading " It usually stems from a lack of respect or disillusionment for others." I had to look up the meaning of disillusionment: "A feeling of disappointment, akin to depression, arising from the realization that something is not what it was expected or believed to be, possibly accompanied by philosophical angst from having o…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 11:53 PM
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The closeness of the killing is also important since the woman is interested in what he could do in a close encounter (to protect her). Killing people on the other side of the globe with the flick of a switch does not impress her much because how is that indicative of his abilities to protect himself and her in close quarters?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:33 PM
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If you are aware of yourself about to "umm". You could practice making pauses instead. If you find you need to talk all the time and fill out the gaps with "umm" and "er" chances are it could stem from validation seeking because you are afraid you will lose peoples attention. Or afraid that people will judge you for becoming silent. The best way to do this is to first develop the right mentality (TRP offers a lot of advice to this already so you are probably already doing it) then detrain the ba…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:20 PM
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Hey. Nice tips! Never actually thought about this. I have no trouble reading english but find myself having a much harder time speaking it. Tried your different suggestions throughout reading your post. This is obviously the reason why there is such a difference between my skill in reading (silently) and speaking english with people. I read silently on a daily basis but never out loud. I will try this. And also for my own native tongue.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 01:58 PM
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A woman can't helt but ask a man for a drink and the men obviously take advantage of her by buying her a drink (for easier raping). Or worse, they deny her the drink, assholes!
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 01:23 PM
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"So if you ever cheat, cutting off your clitoris would be a fair punishment?"
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:59 PM
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except it takes courage for a low SMV man to approach the 10 Which can be a way for the lower SMV man to improve his SMV. Not missing the original point btw (I get what BBB2000 is saying). Just adding a detail to the discussion
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:49 PM
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One way of investing would be to avoid (stay out of) the CC. Develop a sweet feminine personality and a loyal mentality. This way a man is more likely to love her and invest emotionally in her. If she has avoided the CC her bond-forming capabilities will not be screwed up and she can actually feel attracted and love her husband in the long term. Thereby reducing her hypergamic nature and staying with her husband "because she loves him".
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:42 PM
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Since men are meant to pursue. We have the opportunity to actually go for what we want. This really is our "privelege". Not the same definition as the feminist one since to them, an alpha male who has worked hard to get that privelege, seem to them as something all ("cis-")men "are born with". Because women are born with their value (you had many examples of this mentality on your post) so why shouldn't it be the same for men? And women only see the top men. And will only percieve them as top me…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:29 PM
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Well it's the other side of the same coin. If your friend isn't divorcing and your friends friend isn't divorcing. You will not get "inspired" to do something when other people don't do it. That would require much more of an independent mind to go against what your friends do. And how independent are women? ;)
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:16 PM
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You get married (1% chance to divorce in the future) What? The baseline divorce chance is much higher. Or are you talking about a specific dream scenario with very low chance of divorce from the get go?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:12 PM
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Lol. Please elaborate. I don't think I get what you mean by that :P
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:06 PM
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How was the beta's reaction towards this? Some male hamstering of why it worked in that particular case?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:47 AM
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But this is meant literally. Not "practically". If there are equal numbers men/women then there is an "availability" of 2 men for every 8 women. For there to be "practical supply met" there would literally need to be 4 times more men than women (in numbers). Because then the top 20% men would be just as many as the top 80% women. But of course, we forgot hypergamy... If all (top 80% women) could choose from only the best men. They would want "the best of the best". Hence why settle for top 20% w…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:38 AM
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Well it could also be that since ADHD is a more common diagnose with men. Women who have these traits might be more prone to have a more male mind. I have a lesbian friend who is diagnosed with ADHD and she ofter speaks her mind without fear of conflict. She can even come across as arrogant because she isn't very sensitive about some topics. She is also very intuitive when it comes to logical skills like twisting and turning a 3D-object in her mind. Almost instantly seeing which of those dice-li…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:57 AM
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Should be a good indicator to track if your LTR is cheating on you as well. Recurrent "overtime" or "meeting with friends" during ovulation alongside a gut feeling that something is wrong? Maybe you should be more suspicious?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:47 AM
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You need to both be "the lover" and "the friend". Betas might be good att "the friend" role and that is why women think "he is the sweetest guy but..." (when ovulation comes, she wish he was more of a brute). Reformed betas (i.e many redpillers here) should be able to upgrade their beta skills and use them when needed instead of in excess. Bringing both aspects to the relationship and knowing when to, makes her see you as "someone who understands her, when she herself doesn't". It also makes you…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:33 AM
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Of course being submissive is manipulative. You are doing it to get her to stay with you and also to get sex every once in a while. You should be submissive and not expect anything from her in return. No company, no appreciation. Nothing. If you want any of those, that means you are expecting it and are being manipulative. /FemTr3E
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:04 AM
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And he got pills from the doctor to be able to have sex with a land whale of a woman. Because womyn deserves sex and attention no matter what. A man needs medication if he doesnt give it to her. Isn't prescription pills (viagra?) a lot like a date rape drug in this case? Only that it´s done by the woman. The man is aware but agreed because he was under the threat of his woman to "fuck me/be attracted to me one way or another". So he went to the doctor to drug himself for her. It also feels like …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:06 AM
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One of my biggest BP problems where falling in love easily and getting oneitis. As soon as I started to get attention from a girl who I was attracted to the oneitis-process started to kick in, losing my important peripheral view.As most other guys I labeled this feeling as "true love" or her as "right for me". With enough experience and also RP knowledge I not only know what oneitis is, but when the process starts it doesn't develop. It doesnt take long before one of these things happen: She sho…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 06:32 AM
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Exactly. You cant argue them with logic. Can´t seem to understand why it took me such a long time to understand. Yes there are a few exceptions but they aren't feminists in the first place. Not saying NAWALT because women with some rational capability isn't part of AWALT. But by default, if a woman have crazy ideas (i.e feminism) and "seem normal in all other regards" she is just a normal woman incapable of looking at life in other ways then her own (and womens) perspective. No point in trying t…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 08:22 PM
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It's message is universal. The message also seems to sprout from several sources independently of eachother (and globally). This forum or other RP-sources online aren't the only way to find the information. Men and boys start to realize it naturally by getting exposed to "female nature on steroids". I have found many different sources who come to the same conclusions that are found here, without ever visiting any RP-sites. One of the sources happen to be selfrealization about some of TRPs conclu…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 07:56 PM
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Maybe it isn't so important to focus on more traditional media. The internet is popping up with alternatives. On youtube there is "MGTOW Entertainment". Which is quite amateurish and small-scale. But everything new begins small. I am convinced more similar content will pop-up explosively since TRP sources are growing exponentially and leaking out in micro-wisdoms to many non-TRP-places. Especially to the younger generations (15+). I have some contact with guys in this age group and they already …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 07:46 PM
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I guess social upbringing affect alpha:beta ratio to a large degree. Otherwise "alpha fux" would mean more alpha men would be born over time. Alpha is far from being only a genetic component. Even if that of course is a big factor (not saying anything else). I suspect my genes being a bit more to the alpha side (some key mental qualities and physiological traits). Had a strong father but a very cuddly (too cuddly) mother who I realized betaized me. But she also blew up my confidence a bit too mu…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 12:22 AM
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Women also didn't have all these social connections before. Their mating strategy couldnt wreak havoc as easily before technology increased social connections a thousand-fold. When you don't have many choices and the choices aren't as anonymous (early civlisation) you have to think of the consequences when allowing a man to fuck you. Because you probably will need to commit to him because everyone in your tribe will know. Now you can meet someone (who is outside your social circle even) in a caf…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 12:18 AM
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We are far from half of society. We are a tiny minority. We are enlightened but understand we can only watch the societal changes and benefit from it by taking advantage of the downfall as it moves on. We don't have a say in the change. Lose your utilitarian mindset and set yourself free. Otherwise you will be hugely disappointed in society.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 12:08 AM
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Maybe this is why religion (with its morals) exist and are so pervasive? (I am an atheist btw, I know not everyone here is, it doesn't matter with regards to my point) It´s an evolutionary strategy that works longterm. Dissolve traditional (religious) ethics -> more fucking is done -> more single moms -> bad parenting -> more narcissistic women -> less attractive women -> less men interested in relationships -> those people still influenced by traditional values are doing well/still procreating …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 12:02 AM
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It doesn't go all the way really. It's a much better substitute than internet porn. But men want women to want them. A robot isn't self-aware but with high-tech technology she could create the illusion to some extent, just like an immersive movie, thereby giving men temporary relief. Future: Men would be more content staying away from women completely, but I think they still would want to find the unicorn. And with more men staying away, women would put in more effort to be feminine and pleasing…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:54 PM
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From an evolutionary stand point it would make for some interesting effects on natural selection though ;) What I mean is accelerated evolution for men. Not saying it would be better for society just that mens genes would have to adapt faster. But the changes that would be seen the fastest would of course be the social adaptations men would face. It would probably be devastating with an exponential growth in small- and large-scale conflict.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:45 PM
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They don't know shit about me So they can fill in the gaps with good qualities. Conjure up a dream man (you display good qualities and the rest is "mysterious but probably fantastic/awesome"). Women do not know what they want. Or do they? They want a flawless man. Someone who is the right type in the right situation all throughout life. The less they know about you the more potential you have to live up to the picture of their dream man. The contrast becomes stronger when they have been in relat…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:43 PM
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I notice increased libido. Sometimes being able to fap twice a day regularly and still become "teenage-horny" (I´m in my thirties) at times at work. If I don't lift my libido is noticably decreased for about 24 hours after fapping (apart from the immediate drop-to-zero). But with regular lifting and good sleep and eating habits the effect seems to be shortened to a fraction of the time. I know this probably sounds mind blowing for some fanatic nofappers out here. But my message is basically that…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:30 PM
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In sweden. The femininst party feministic initiative has started to speak about "mothering" as "an unpaid job". So if women dont pursue careers hard enough and make as much money or more as men, if feminism doesn't succeed with this, then they will start to label "staying at home" as a job that should get paid. It has already been happening covertly for quite a while with all parental leave you can cash out on. When feminism doesn't get men to stay at home as much (since women naturally prefer i…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:11 PM
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Well don't wear a condom ever ;) Of course our instincts wire us to procreate. We want to beat up the one who cheats on "our claimed female". We like it better without condom. We feel urged to come deep inside of her in the heat of the moment. We choose not to go against some of these urges because we can reason and weight the pros and cons of future consequences of our current actions. Hence many of us see that there are drawbacks to beating up your "friend". Even if it feels good in the moment…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:41 PM
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Hahaha. I know this type of girl. Quite a turn-off once you are no longer a blue piller.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 01:09 PM
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What du you guys think of this example: Intelligent girl in her early twenties (I use her for intellectual discussions, I don't validate her sexually even if she sometimes try to make me do so by "throwing me a bone") Seem to have a strong father figure but somewhat of a mean mother Have "only" (exceptions do exists) male friends "Isn't in a relationship" with one of the guys (orbiters/friends) ;) Genuinely anti-feminist (good arguments for it, knowledgeable and not a "I don't need feminism beca…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 12:47 PM
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I know one case of light misandry though. Which made me shook my head. Even this politically incorrect show had politically correct misandry humor. It´s where Jerry gives clues to him being raped by another man in his younger years and it is made into a joke (rape jokes are funny if it's a man who got raped and he is being insecure about it). It´s still red pill though since men aren't allowed to become insecure.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 11:19 AM
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how the fuck can you believe this world view and not hate everyone? Hate is normal when understanding the word. How to be able to not hate? It takes time. The hate stems from feeling tricked, manipulated and lied to. But you also realize that people aren't aware of how they function (neither men nor women) so it really isn't their fault (-ish). You should not worry over things you do not have control over. People function the way they do and you can use that to your advantage. You can't take res…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 11:14 AM
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Excellent quote. Another spin on it: "What can you provide for me, now?", "I don't care what you did before you provided me with benefit X, the important thing is that you give it to me" Se also briffaults law when it comes to "a promise of future benefit has limited influence". Because you might think that since you worked hard it shows that you "hold promise" to provide benefit in the future. Not according to this law. It´s only what you can provide now that matters. You stopped providing the …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 11:51 PM
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This is such an important part of TRP imho. You simply have nothing to gain from explaining how much you have went through to get where you are. It will only lower your status or SMV among others. I think it also is a big part in way feminists/women think "men have it easy". Because they (women more so than men) don't think you got there with sacrifizes and hard work. And if you explain that you did, well then clearly you are not top of the food chain so they will ignore you. They know men who "…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 11:39 PM
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I didn't have this extreme experience but boy was I baffled by her "polar shift" in feelings towards me. After humiliating myself by begging and crying and realizing that wasn't going to help (lol, why would it? Silly emotional me). I started climbing upwards again, realizing I had potential, saw the benefits and started reassembling my independence again. Took a year of solitude and and minimal carbon footprint. Lived a very spartan lifestyle with low average amount of work hours and high amoun…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 11:21 PM
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Cocky/funny/sweet as long as she responds well and you enjoy it. Then switching to stoic when she throws serious shit-tests at you. Showing that you have boundaries and she overstepped them and you are no longer rewarding her behaviour. You are not desperate. You can bring value for her but only if she "behaves". If she has experienced this shift in your personality before and makes an effort to keep you in a positive state you should be able to do this switch more often even for minor things. S…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 11:10 AM
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The original post is gone but wanted to respond to this: "doesn't do that" because she was drunk/experimenting/talked into it/it The quote "exploring your sexuality" or "experimenting" has always boggled me. It has been used both in sex education and i have seen people using it to say that "they might not really be homosexual/bi, they are just exploring". Well if you are heterosexual you will not become curious on the same gender!!! Why can't people (mostly women) just accept that they have some…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:27 PM
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Had a girlfriend for 6 months who were on anti-depressants. Her libido was good (wanted sex more than once/daily) but she did not want to do anal (probably because of her IBS making it more of a sensitive issue). No really big deal anyway (at least not for my former BP self). Many women don't like anal. At least not regularly or later in the relationship after it has been tried and been found to be more messy than taboo/fun. She also were very sensitive about me doing anything remotely close to …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:17 PM
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Maybe she wants you to cheat so she have an excuse of breaking up with you and/or feeling even more miserable. Or maybe she herself is cheating and want to ease her consiousness by trying to blame you for it - until you actually do cheat - so that "you're no better" and she can end the relationship. (it is one of the possibilities). Realize that your relationship is over and end it formally. The feeling you describe as "love" is more likely an affliction than a healthy state of mind. You will re…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:44 PM
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My personal opinion: If she were my girlfriend. She would immediately be downgraded to the "potential fuck-buddy" category. I wouldnt tell her this but I would rather use dread game as soon as possible with the expactation of leaving her unless she drastically change. She will however never be upgraded to girlfriend again. I wouldn't live with her but could continue seeing her on occasions as long as she craves me. IMO a girlfriend must want to crave your cock. If she doesn't it's either because…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:34 PM
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Maybe we should make a doublegendered individual and clone the fuck out of it and populate the whole world. That way we can get rid of inequality once and for all.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:21 PM
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No white knights take advantage of girls. They are trying to nice their way into their panties. Even if the subconscious plan is extremely far fetched. I.e she will see how he values commitment and not cheating around. When she leaves her boyfriend in the future, she will realize what a good man he is and engage with him. Also, he is preventing his future girlfriend from slutting around, because he doesnt want a slut. It would be painful to see your 'perfect angel' as one.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:15 AM
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Just lifting doesn't make you redpill. A lot of men in the fitness industry are very BP, my former self included. The lifting advice is given to someone who already is swallowing the red pill. It´s a component towards self-improvement. But it does nothing on its own as you said. Not sure I have seen anyone implying that either though.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:03 AM
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saying you'd drug someone, shows intent to harm. Downvoted you because of this. You need more information to draw that conclusion. Saying you would, doesnt mean you actually would or even intent to.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:56 AM
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Rape jokes aren't inherently evil. People make them all the time (a lot of kids joke about raping eachother these days). It can also be a way of living out your fantasies. Many women fantasize about being raped (many men too btw). Rape jokes do not automatically condone rape. Even if it´s in the form of "in our class, which of the girls would you rape?". These types of (private) questions are just to spin mens imagination. There is no intent of actually doing it unless you have actual plans for …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:36 AM
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Yes it does. Just that the mathematics for the whole population adds up very well. If you are having more sex than the average man and find women who have a lot less sex than the average women then it adds up, for you and your girls. For the rest of the men it screws up the statistics because you are fucking the girls that they otherwise would use to get their numbers up. If only alpha men could reject a lot more women on a global scale so women would be forced to give all the AFC:s some sexual …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:17 PM
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Well with her reasoning men shouldnt be able to cheat either. Our girlfriend/wife doesn't own our dicks nor our sperm. If she doesn't give us our blowjob or the sex is terrible, the dick will need to find another warm cozy cave to explore. It works like a compass in this regard. It just needs to be used and not controlled/owned by the woman. Let it spin free and go in the direction where the attraction is the strongest. Men can't cheat.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 10:55 PM
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Asking to bind your commitment legally (marry me!) shows a lack of trust imo.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 10:42 PM
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It isn't. Except that pure sugar does not "contain an orange around it". Just like cocaine is different from the coca plant. The comparison is of course more extreme. But the sugar (or the cocaine itself) isn't different from eachother. It's much harder to consume 200g sugar on a unprocessed diet and the nutrients you get from doing so should you succeed, can counteract the negative effects from sugar to a certain extent. If you have a diet that contains added sugar. Reaching 200g in a day is a …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:34 PM
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Would you be willing to work hard at your job — 15 hours a day, 6 days a week — if, upon return to your home, your wife was sitting there in a clean dress, smelling good and dolled up with her hair done the way you like, ready to give you an enthusiastic blowjob and a bowl of hot Campbell's Soup? No. You are exaggerating to the extreme. Now I probably don't represent the majority here when I say: I simply do not want to work more than 40 hours for more than a temporary amount of time in my life.…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:19 AM
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Part of swallowing the red pill is the acceptance for society about to come crushing to the ground. You are powerless to change this. Don't worry too much about it. Worry about you (plan and take care for you) and those close to you.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:39 AM
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I am/was(/still am to some extent) naturally the opposite! Don't want to be relationship material (BB) any longer since I learned it's both mentally unhealthy for me and my ideas of LTR are based on an illusion. I want to attract women more easily (I have had great progress so far) but I refuse to commit and work hard not to fall in love (much easier once you see womens true nature and get a better understanding of yourself and love). As people already said. "Red pill anger" is normal. Everyone …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:37 AM
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Exactly :) Women have their ways of molding you. A lot of these tactics are easy to notice now when interacting with females at work, at family gatherings and other social get-togethers. But women have so many tricks up their sleeve. Thats why LTR is "game on hardcore mode". The woman doesn't need to be crazy (by womans standard - all women are somewhat crazy anyway (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_VyKFuKYQNc)) to pull these tricks on you.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:01 AM
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it is a mutual understanding that the relationship is pragmatic and will end once it's no longer mutually beneficial Great quote from GOT: "You know nothing John Snow"
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:05 PM
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He is not a friend. He is an orbiter. He just got knocked out of his current orbit by an alpha. Even if he was a bit of a wannabe he was alpha enough for her cut communicatio with the 10 year orbiter. But don't worry! Maybe he is more like a comet now (very long elliptical orbit). Getting back later when communication signals are stronger (when she gets dumped by or dump the guy later). Then he can reenter orbit again and comfort her about the breakup with that asshole guy. Like "a true friend".
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:02 PM
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Lol! That messing with ones head.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 11:56 AM
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Plus we don't have labels for guys who like hot chicks Wrong comparison. The statement should be: "We don't label or shame guys for wanting to sleep with many girls" And yes we do. We call them players (even assholes sometimes!). We tell them to grow up. We tell them to stop being selfish and marry already! Otherwise I think the video was quite honest about the way things are.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 11:54 PM
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Being a good listener (emotinally available) are standard demands put on men by women/society. Those demands are high (we are just brainwashed into thinking it's something every woman deserves by default) and the men who don't give in to those demands are shamed until they do. If they still don't. Well, a non-controllable man is an interesting man and not a tool/orbiter (good listener). It is someone who has higher value and someone you need to prove yourself to if you want his attention. What c…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 11:43 PM
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That is also a very good point. But knowing that the emotions can change from negative to positive can serve as a motivator. But you are right. It shouldn't matter. If you want to build a wall and you know you have to lay bricks. That´s what you do :p
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 11:25 PM
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Eventually you Pavlov your brain There are other things you might start liking when making hard work a habit. Like: the feeling of being deprived of oxygen the well known "burn" the fear of not being 100% sure you can do this (you are excited to find out and being in fear) Getting slapped on your face (to induce enough pain to create primitive anger that you then can channel into willpower and focus when lifting) Just a few weird things really. In the beginning these feelings are heavily resiste…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 11:20 PM
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There are different emotions you can use to psyche up. Which one you use can be varied depending on overall mood. But your final point I agree with. I have lifted for 15 years and I have never experienced a feeling of content while training. Only afterwards. I also don't respond positively to "wow you´re strong" because I know these types of compliments will not help me get stronger. I know people are just trying to be nice and appreciate me, but I try to avoid getting exposed to those comments.…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 11:12 PM
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But she doesn't understand that she can't be a man. Her advice might be good for men. But for a woman it's a disaster if you want to keep your mental health and become happy.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 12:24 AM
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You just have to do it, sometimes make shit up, & figure it out. Kind of like when you had your first threesome. Lol yeah. Your first threesome. These things are "pretty standard" nowadays. Something everyone have. She could be theatrical to make a point here though but I thought it was funny. You’re going through the motions & you think things are okay, but eventually, you’re going to get bored as fuck because deep down, no one really gets excited to see the same dick/vagina every day. Some sel…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 12:12 AM
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One personal anecdote and a group of women to sheer on it to dispell a statement from a man. The fact that n=1 and the selection (women visiting the show are probably not representative for the group of women he is talking about). Add in ad hominem attacks ("look at what type of men we have to choose from") to reinforce the narrative. He had the odds heavily stacked against him. It doesn't matter how valid points he has when flawed arguments that "feel good" are more highly valued in that settin…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 11:39 PM
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And lo, women today truly are easily scorned
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 11:00 PM
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Love exists. You just have a fucked up view about what it is/how it works, you hopeless romantic you. ;)
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:52 PM
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Exactly. Which is why for instance number 12 can be broken in very rare cases. But usually, the rule is broken by purple pillers/transitioners who think it´s a good idea when it isn't. I have a friend who is extremely red pill (more red pill than the majority in here for sure) who I talked a little about "this stuff on the internet that has discovered all the things that you tried to teach me in the past when I was skeptic, but at least accepted that we had totally different views on women". He …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:25 PM
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I think he is speaking on a deeper level than simply rewarding good and bad behaviour. I think it´s more about trying to make her understand your insights and thereby making her your equal, self-going and never again needing to be rewarded for good behaviour because she would get a fundamental understanding of the relationship and would strive for good behaviour and do what was healthy for the relationship, without any need for guidance. And that's a BP fantasy. And why we should stop trying to …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:17 PM
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You also have to take into account sex drive and how strong her ASD is. There are countless women who seem prude and "are uncomfortable giving blowjobs". But given the right environment/men will participate in bukkakke and golden showers (ok I am exaggerating ;)). A religious girl with strict upbringing could have a high libido but have it very suppressed because of external expactations and social conditioning. Such a girl would be harder to "let out of her shell" even if her libido is high. An…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:04 PM
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And thats what Diece did to. His plan is "don't stop". He described potential setbacks (he gets lazy and thinks he is the shit and don't need to put the effort in anymore). The system he now used to deal with it was to remind himself that he slipped and why he did so. He even typed it down on a discussion forum to make the plan stick in his head more easily. That way the next time he is starting to slip he will wake up earlier and instead of slowing down to a stop, he chooses to pick up speed ag…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 08:47 PM
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I also think it´s a good idea to do it in close succession. Easier to "build up a flow" or "this-is-something-I-do-mentality". You rewire your brain to see going out alone as not just: Something I will try this time and we will see when I build up the courage to do it the next time but I am doing this. I did it last week and the week before that. I clearly have no problem going out since "I am doing it regularly" (it´s easier to percieve it that way subconsciously if there aren't longer waiting …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 08:04 PM
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The best part was strutting home finally realizing that rolling solo is much better than going out with beta friends. They are like vampires sucking the joy and energy out of you. I have managed to get an acquintance who seem to look up to me a lot and the times I have been out with him have been incredibly dull. Except for the last time. But that´s because there were other people I could introduce him too and keep him entertained, freeing myself from the negative influence of his being :P I hav…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 07:50 PM
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I wouldn't put up with that either. Having to be that stubborn to win an argument and perhaps win her over would be a huge turn-off for me. So even if I "won" I wouldnt want to meet her when she would offer me her number. Apparently this guy wasn't very excited about her number either.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:56 AM
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When you put labels on an encounter, you put expactations and restrictions (in her mind and maybe in yours too) on what will happen. If you use less information "anything could happen". That means you can "go with the flow" or actually she might feel more inclined to do so. You probably have an underlying plan but want to make everything seem spontaneous. This also lessens the risk of her feeling like "you have an agenda" and instead "everything just happened naturally". This is my personal reas…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:46 AM
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Knowing how and when to fake silence requires skill, but if you truly adopt the TRP philosophy, you will paradoxically find yourself needing to fake it less and less, because you will actually have no interest, you will be busy and you will be unavailable. This is what I have learned lately too. Transitioned from oneitis-prone, to temporary-oneitis, to several-itis and then to not having -itis at all. The "trick" was to find things to do. Improve yourself and focus on your hobbies at the same ti…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:24 AM
1

Only mostly used self-defense against boys who were violent against me when I was a boy. Never been violent against women. After the age of 8 I haven't needed to use self-defense/violence against anyone. Which is a reminder that I might have use for teaching myself martial arts should I need to in the future.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:19 AM
2

She beta-buxed you and when you transitioned back to alpha, her plans for you failed. You weren't playing the right role anymore.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:10 AM
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One semi-bad argument (but one that apparently seem to work) is: "It's not a big deal. You already know it's your baby. I don't. If you have nothing to hide it shouldn't be a big deal right? Why are you getting upset?" (shift the blame)
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:01 AM
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Wow. I almost shed a tear reading that. How could you not say "please stay" to that?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:48 AM
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Neoteny is word you can google. Babies have it. I guess girls more so. When adults women still have a good amount of neotenous traits. That´s what gives them the pussy-pass among other things. These instincts are hard-wired and of course not social constructs as feminists would have you believe. "Trying to remove the social constructs" in reality means creating social constructs to try to raise boys and girls equally. But since the genders aren't equal the outcome will not be equal men and women…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:43 AM
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Yes and lets add this: a girl finding it easy being pumped and dumped by guys is like a guy finding it easy to make friends with girls As a guy you often overvalue the fact that women can get laid easily. To them it isn't as important as it is to us. Too bad men don't exploit the fact that we are the gatekeepers of commitment more. But I guess that´s because of all this social conditioning that makes us give it up so easily (Be a good man and do the right thing, women deserve commitment from you…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:32 AM
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There is a fat girl at my workplace. Not "american-fat" but "european-fat". She is physically a 4 because her face is somewhat cute (although losing 30 pounds would certainly make her look good, maybe a 6-7). But she is confident, charming, kind and with a good sense of humor. She never seems to be in a bad mood or display jealousness. This improves her SMV greatly and I would put her in the fuckable-category (which is rare personally if you are below 6, even rarer below 5) if it weren't for the…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:19 AM
1

From a very banal, pedestrian point on why I like to be a man more - could you imagine the burden of being fucked and came in for life? I would much rather do the fucking. I think this question is pointless to ask men. The obvious reason is that we are men and are sexually wired to feel the urge to thrust and dominate our women. You should instead ask women but then of course the question loses its purpose. Or do you think women (in general, not just a few) might be fond of the idea of being abl…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:05 AM
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I had a relationship with a proclaimed bisexual woman. She had one female relationship before me (and were much more experienced with men). She was convinced that you "love the person, not a gender" and had a hard time accepting/believing I was (100%) straight. She probably thought I "ignored" my subconscious attraction for men (her sexuality extrapolated to all people's sexuality) since it wasn't socially acceptable. I think she just had trouble understanding that people are different, and espe…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 11:00 AM
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Actually it´s not entirely true for all of us. We are here for the truth. After reviewing the truth we decide what we want to achieve. For me personally, a committed LTR sounds uninteresting. Women want "all that" (from a LTR (or several relationships)). But I don't want to put the effort in all those areas of life, just to be able to maximize my chances of holding a woman committed and sexually interested for the rest of my/her life. I rather improve in the areas that are important to me. And o…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 08:53 AM
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Was about to not respond to this post. Why? Because I couldn't relate. I have never had any girl sharing similar stories. At most I have had girls telling me that their first time was painful (probably very normal to have a painful deflowering done by an inexperienced and horny teenager). So then I thought I should add that for variety. Because otherwise only people with similar experiences will respond to the thread and reinforce a scenario that may or may not be common.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 11:03 PM
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This is a bit of a sidetrack but just wanted to mention it. A comment from the GLO thread related to men/boys being naturally alpha, howeer suppressed by social conditioning: Indeed. There's many ways to let the alpha break through after all the punishing, brainwashing, attacking an alpha for being what he is. A good male role model is one way. Crime is another. Yet another is isolation. There are many paths of escape & rebuilding one's left with a strong alpha core driving the man all his life …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 10:19 AM
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I'm all for an "all man brotherhood utopia" but I don't operate in a world that exists as such so I do not think or base my actions like I live in a brotherhood utopia. And most peoples reaction (mostly outside of TRP) is a but-we-could-change-that-if-we-all-worked-together-mentality. No. It´s in our nature. Even with strong social engineering biology will always grow from within and spread into society. I agree. No need to justify. Even if I did to some extent right now...
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:50 AM
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Exactly. You fucking her just means she added another type of relationship to all the other ones she already had.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:43 AM
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open your legs as much as you can when sitting in public places An agree and amplify but in body langague instead? Sounds fun! I should actively try to exaggerate things of this nature. For the lulz.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 09:35 PM
1

You cannot change someone who hasn't got the inner drive to change. I have tried this on many occations and always failed, not only BP/RP related stuff. A BP guy who is frustrated and angry about his situation is receptive to influence. This is when your success can be used as an example and making him intersting in hearing your opinion about stuff. But a BP guy who has "accepted" his situation is someone you can't connect with. If your life changes drastically and it is noticed and sparks inter…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 09:17 PM
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Was just looking up my history of posts. I admit that my comparison was not very though-out in this case. I still maintain that porn doesn't have to be unhealthy. But I withdraw my example as a good argument against it.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:56 PM
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Bodybuilders aren't a good comparison since they are extremely low in bodyfat (not a normal physique, bodybuilders weigh less than "normal" because of a lack of fat. Extra pounds of muscle don't always compensate for this, unless steroids). I was thinking about the category "chubby". Not the modern pseudo-definition of chubby (obese or morbidly obese) but the realistic, forgotten one where a woman can be overweight but still just below the definition of fat. But yeah. I am still thinking about o…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:42 PM
1

I am beginning to think that this is what makes a successful liar. Someone who can convince him/herself that what he/she said is true. It´s easier to convince others if you believe it yoruself. Women are more "skilled" in this regard.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:35 PM
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A mindset forgotten through societal conditioning: If ObjectOfInterest = fuckable then pursue() else nevermind() end if This mindset is what males are born with (or at least get when hitting puberty). Societal conventions tell us to keep our natural actions in check. TRP advice you to rediscover your natural instincts (approach/act), but also to lift (because it supplements a lack of needed physical requirements on males in todays environment)
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:20 PM
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<drunk philosophy mode> Males who are that point are displaying a trait which sarifizes personal benefits but serves the humane genome. From an evolutionary standpoint there is nothing wrong (compare species where the female eats the head of the male during sex). But from an individualistic and intellectual view you might get baffled. Men have this weakness programmed into their psyche. That is the explanation for this behaviour. It requires rationality to rise above your emotions. If your emoti…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:12 PM
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I'm an atheist and this verse gave me religious chills up my spine :D It feels epic to read RP truths being reflected so clearly in past history. History will repeat itself. When society hits rock bottom women will compromise and settle(ish). Still for the best man ofc but they will be more loyal, less entitled and put more effort into being feminine because they will have less freedom (and less men to choose from - leaving a relationship will come with serious risks as opposed to now, she will …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 05:24 PM
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This is a good example of woman being reminded of how ignored she is: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/conn-woman-attacked-teen-drone-seeks-probation-article-1.1836545 The drone could potentially be taking pictures of beatiful women, because of male desire. It wasn't. But if it was she would not be a target. And she loathes that lack of attention.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 05:10 PM
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I would suggest that since love is different for women and men, there might be different opposites for the different genders. A female opposite and a male opposite. In the female definition, hate is closer to (female) love than it is in the male version. I am not sure "fear" is the opposite in any of the cases though. Thats my personal opinion though.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 05:04 PM
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I think we all need to get accustomed to the notion of a sound recorder as 'standard equipment' in this day and age. Consider all the dangers of living life as a man. This tool is a great insurance against false allegations. It shouldnt be this way. But it is. Anger, no matter how justified, is in itself non-productive - adapt! Just like you have done to all other RP knowledges so far. This is "just another" piece of knowledge. Turn that anger into actions that serve to protect you.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 04:43 PM
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It´s funny when the "worst enemies of feminism" are doing what feminists say they are doing.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 07:18 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if women are so good actors ("why did you throw me out" - not losing frame to logic, probably not listening to what he even says) is because they can make themselves believe the made up situation. To her the situation is preferable to getting rejected. She would rather be a victim of a violent boyfriend than being denied attention/desire. So that really was what happened to her. It will be at least if she repeat the story to herself and goes to court with it. Sticking with the…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 07:06 AM
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Consider her menstrual cycle. It is very possible that she was in her ovulating period when she allowed you to grab her ass. This is the period when women are biologically wired to be "more slutty" and have less control of their sexual impulses. I think in some cases guys fail because they take too much time to "go for it". They get positive response "all of a sudden" (ovulation kicks in). Then they build up coruage/rapport for a few days/week(s) and think her mood is constant (they don't realiz…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:44 AM
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I would also advise you to be careful. She seem to like the attention as long as "you guys sexuality is in check". The ass grabbing was "slightly over the line" and she needed to make sure you were "in orbit" still. If you are on a "collision course" she must make sure that you are confident and smooth about it. You must come off as attractive/more alpha/an alternative to her bf if you don't want to be thrown out into orbit again. Or worse - being percieved as a creep by being insecure about you…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:37 AM
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Gotta give credit to those girls who at least teach you after the fact that you failed their shit test.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:31 AM
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Exactly! Heraclitus94. The situation you describe is even better than you seem to understand. Later, she told me she wouldn't let me do it ever again. So in private with you? She had been thinking about the incident since then and felt guilty that you came unto her and she liked it. (how did you react?) She also said she couldn't enjoy it cause she has a boyfriend Wow. Anti-slut Defense. She enjoyed it very much but don't want to be percieved as slutty. Unless you "get it", pursue her and doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:28 AM
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They don't go into standby by this procedure. The testicles continue doing what they have always done. They don't keep contact with the sperm once they are realeased and know nothing of how safe their travel is ;)
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:43 PM
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Yeah but it´s silly to believe (from the companies standpoint, not yours) you can charge that much for such a procedure. Most people would not dish out that much money. With 1000$ a lot more would start to consider. Not every man is as eager as you (and me) to get sterilized. 10% is a ridicolously high expactation. At least for the next decade. Especially with 5000$ - only rich and eager westerners would pay that. Most men in the world dont even have the ability to save up for that amount of mon…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:36 PM
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I think this should become the norm. The power shift would be astonishing. Are you referring to if it "became known" that men sterilized themselves in non-significant numbers? This would probably mess with womens heads yes. But in what ways? Let's brainstorm, ideas?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:15 PM
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Yeah. But companies don't coorporate on a mass scale like that. Companies compete. Why would one company (who would make money on such a product) care if 100 others, more wealthier than said company, would lose their profit on female birth control pills? The 2 simplest answers I see are: It´s a conspiracy where <insert your power structure here> suppresses the small companies. or As someone said earlier, it´s not something that you easily make money from. No wealthy company is stupid enough to i…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:09 PM
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Good post. The psychology is interesting from an evolutionary perspective. Instinctively, the lesser males (everyone except this alpha that icamesothereforeiam is talking about) are feeling inferior to make it easier for the male with the supposedely best DNA. It benefits the human species if only the guy with the percieved best genetics (desirability is linked to better genetic quality. But the link isn't 100%) gets chances with the ladies. This is why icamesothereforeiam feel the way he does. …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:38 PM
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My 7 year LTR also broke up with me and I am thankful towards her for that. She was the catalyst to get to the tipping point to gain insight of reality. The last life experience to start reflecting and gaining knowledge about society, gender dynamics as well as my own needs and wants without a societal filter.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:22 PM
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women are good and nice because our first experience with women was out mothers who, on the whole, were good and nice and loved us unconditionally and accepted us unconditionally -- something you'll never find in another women. Hmm. I know this but I actually haven't reflected upon what impact it had made on me. Maybe this could be linked to an evolutionary advantage? The unconditional love from a mother (she is genetically wired to love her son) conditions men to hold women in high regard. This…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:08 PM
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It might be that you don't have enough positive experiences to truly believe you are worthy of not taking shit. It takes time to rewire the brain from "I am a useless beta faggot who don't deserve positive experiences or going for what I want." to "This is my life and my reality. Noone else deserves to dictate how I should live life or have any sort of unfounded authority over me". If you are consistently practicing RP. Going out of your comfort zone for a purpose (to improve yourself in areas t…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:40 PM
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Feminists/many women mistake good advice for victim blaming. We are only trying to help them by pointing out how they can protect themself in a non-utopian world. But women want to avoid agency and responsibility so they spin the advice into "you just want an excuse to rape me or help your fellow men to rape me and/or other women". Ta-da! Responsibility avoided!
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:32 PM
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Actually I am of the opinion that falsely accusing someone of rape is worse than rape. Compare these consequences: Getting raped. Extremely traumatic experience. Your perpetrator doesn't get caught. You get sympathy and support from those around you (at least as a woman) but have to live with this memory for the rest of your life. Getting falsely accuused of rape and punished for it. Your perpetrator doesn't get caught. You get abused and/or hated by those around you and have to live with this m…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:28 PM
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And you probably won't get caught until you need to use it to defend yourself. In which case you hopefully will be able to sue her for money in case you actually will get charged with a fee for "violating her privacy". "You videorecorded my setup to defend yourself against my false accusation? Ok I will have the indecency to charge you with violation of privacy beacuse I have no shame whatsoever." I guess that outcome is still much better than just ending up in prison and getting anally raped on…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 03:14 PM
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It's all actually rather sexist and manipulative, if you think about it. This is a very insightful realization that many of us have gone through. We thought we were worth some pussy after gaming her with niceness instead of just going after what we wanted. Betas don't realize that their "nice guy personality" is fake as fuck. It is not who they are and women may or may not subconsciously recognize this. If they do, the behaviour will be picked up as "needy". A man who feels he isn't worth sex an…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 11:33 AM
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It´s normal to hate the ideas here because it would, from a BP mindset almost always mean hating women (initially). But that´s only because the illusion of women "being like men when it comes to feelings and psyhcology". If you project your own man-psychology unto women then of course there will be cognitive dissonance. Having only partial knowledge will make men draw the false conclusion that women are, basically evil. Of course it is terrifying to believe that. Therefore, the red pill will be …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 11:22 AM
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This is about power. In a non-compromising way. You can of course compromise and you should. If you don't you are a sociopath :P edit: I contemplated some of these laws and incorporated them into my current job situations. I started hiding my intentions (I previously spoke about some of them, realized I did so of validation seeking). I interrupted myself when I felt like I was getting too much independence/power/(having too many opinions on how to do things) over my team leader and he started to…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:42 AM
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My responses. "10." Don't resist it In case you're wondering what this means, it includes saying things like, "Calm down," "Would you just relax?" "What's the big deal?" and, "You're overreacting." Well as a man, I can't help but to call you out on bullshit. You might get upset, angry, shocked and I will not sleep on the couch (even if you think you have the power to tell me to go there). I know your emotions will calm down so I dont mind even if you get extremely upset right now. For some extra…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:59 AM
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I believe, as a shorter guy who doesn't have issues with his height, who approaches women same height or taller than him (socially "incorrect" approach), the guy comes off as "surprisingly confident". Which could work in his favor more than it could for someone who was taller. I am a shorter guy too and never had any issues with my height (had been almost oblivious to this social concept for most of my life, thankfully!) and most of my relationships have been women who are taller than average (a…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:17 AM
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I also think that the guys who need this advice do not run the risk of going too far. So maybe a disclaimer isn't necessary when giving out advice like that. Maybe I am wrong though.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 09:41 PM
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I think the tools society has created (through innovation) is helping more people to innovate further. This effect shadows the mental decline.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:34 AM
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I guess an exceptionally intelligent individual benefitted the tribe by being more of a loner who could be "working on his project" rather than being involved in more social stuff. That person probably impressed some type(s) of females and got to procreate but with less likelyhood of becoming a BB (think aloof omega). So from that stereotypical example, those of us who are disgusted by the idea of starting a family in todays society. We should fuck around without protection and change identity e…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:31 AM
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I am so glad that you actually can generalize here on this forum without the topic getting hijacked by "not every x is y". It seems almost everywhere else people don't understand when people are generalizing or why they do it. You shouldnt need to say "of course I'm not saying that all x is y but..." and you don't need to here at TRP either. At least most of the times.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:06 AM
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Yeah I think he should have taken his old approach but be more calm and reasonable. Not just "give up" and give her special treatment because she is a woman. She needs to understand that there will be consequences. But maybe he has just "freaked out to much about it" before?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:01 PM
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I agree with you. But I also feel that "the times are a changin'". If you are an older guy trying to meet younger girls (many of us here are) you can expect to see this behaviour much more often and in a way that it is not considered a big deal. I will still not tolerate it in a date or 2-on-2 situation. Even if it really "just is for x,y or z" (and she genuinely feels that way and not meant as disrespect/thinking you are boring). Not tolerating that behaviour can also come off as both dominant …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:51 PM
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Those types of conversations are never productive. They all end the same way with the woman not understanding what the hell you are talking about. IMO you can have those conversations if it amuses you. But really it's you having a dialogue with yourself rather than with her.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:36 PM
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You seem extremely bad at reading social cues. It's harder to read body language through someone explaining everything in text (a lot of the communication is dropped out). But it was obvious from an early stage in your story that this guy "could very well be gay" and as the story continues there is hint after hint that he is. Feel sorry for the guy because he showed many IOI and you didn't start to show any signs of rejection. You still haven't and I can imagine he has got his hopes set high (I …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 01:32 PM
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Of course. You are a guy. Logic is the most obvious choice to you. Only use it in circumstances where it is of use. With women you need to be indirect, vague and display amused mastery. You need to train to avoid giving answers to these questions while at the same time not lying and package your response in a witty sentence or two.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 11:44 AM
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I talked about the red pill with other guys (and some girls, something I stopped with recently) before I even came here or knew "it" was called "the red pill" or any of its terminology. It clearly works in some environments.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 10:44 AM
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You could say it and then laugh hysterically like it was an obvious joke though. But if you really are a virgin it will of course be hard to convince her that it was a joke.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 11:10 PM
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I am lucky to be in a workplace where it still is ok for guys to be guys. There is innocent-ish flirting going on between the genders as well as professionalism when needed. Well professionalism-ish actually (it is far from perfect, but the job gets done satisfactory at least). There is also a masculine jargon going on, men being "rude" (friendly insults meant as signs of affection, fully understood by everyone) to eachother and other women, and no complaining anywhere about it... yet. My workpl…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 10:58 PM
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Maybe it takes time for preferences to change? If say chinese men will be the most dominant men for the next decade. Then maybe the global preferences for chinese men will rise over time. This because they will create a history of success (they just don't posess that history/reputation on a global scale yet)
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 10:23 PM
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So much of a mans SMV lies in the territory of the changeable. Character, status, resources, changable physical appearance. The non-changeable elements are "baseline looks" and height. Which is only a minor part in what makes up the total SMV. Women are human beings and therefore they are judged for who they are. Their looks are part of who they are. Beauty is a reflection of health and how fertile she is. Which makes men horn... I mean interested in transferring their genetic material into a hi…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 10:09 PM
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Haha, it sure is huh? :D Happens to me too. The good thing is that if you contemplate your daily interactions and came up with these comments "8 hours late" regularly. In time they will come out of your mouth automatically in conversations. I have noticed this happening more and more since I got interested in social interactions (some time before starting to swallowing the red pill). You seem to get witty if you are working on improving yourself and reflecting on your experiences in daily life. …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 09:04 PM
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Not sure if the creators were aware and did this on purpose (intentionally politically semi-correct rather than 100% honest / politically incorrect). Or if the makers of the video just have "some" RP knowledge and lacking in others.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 08:38 PM
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Countless experiments all over the world throughout he history of mankind. The experiences collectively gathered by men on this thing we call Internet. But one man and some life experience is really enough to know this is true.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 08:35 PM
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You are obviously not redpill. I wouldnt expect you to be. The important thing is that you read the information with an open mind. Then you reflect upon your life to see if these ideas reflect reality or if we are full of shit. Most men will, with enough life experience, swallow the information and feel "like their eyes have been opened". See if you do too. It may not be now, it may not be tomorrow. But I am convinced it will happen if you do not totally dismiss the information here. Which you d…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 04:21 PM
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Yeah I thought I was too in a LTR. It is very common to be blind to how she changes you. You are able to realize it only after you get time to reflect alone. It took me about one year alone to realize I wasn't living the life I wanted in that LTR (of 7 years). Even though I was convinced back then. In all aspects but one - I had doubts about monogamy. But I had the perfect girl so my thoughts on being "free" were silly, right? I am not supposed to feel this way right? This is the only aspect of …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 04:16 PM
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If I stay this way, theoretically, it would last. No because you also need to consider hypergamy. If another man can provide something of value to her that you don't (and never had). That could make her lose interest in you. Say you have high "points" in being a "provider" and friend/listener and a decent amount of points in being a "lover". But along comes an opportunity of someone with much higher points in "provider" and "lover". She will be prone to cheat and if she does (maybe even if she d…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 04:07 PM
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Is there a goal? TRP is information. What you want from life is up to you.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 03:48 PM
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do you think it is possible for a couple to last until death, mutually happy, without using the ideas put forward in the red pill? Or does that not exist? Only if the woman doesn't get exposed to situations where her hypergamy can kick in. Which is extremely unlikely for a full life time. And even if so. The man needs to have some natural RP traits or the couple will become unhappy because of her shit tests and his inability to pass them. In this day and age, any natural RP traits are heavily de…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 03:47 PM
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I seem to be slowly turning my super-beta nephew of 15 years of age from extremely BP to RP. The transition is slow. Started 2-3 years ago and he is still BP, but with a few RP traits. Since he has experienced so much of the abuse other people do to him being in the bottom of the social hierarchy, telling RP knowledge haven't been very hard to introduce him to. I haven't only given him theory. I have challenged him to try it out IRL too. He has extremely high respect for me. That's why he is wil…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 02:44 PM
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Good analogy. I have had the attitude of streamlining my daily life to reduce the amount of choirs. Basically making it possible to live life while being lazy. What happens? I get more lazy than intended, my duties towards myself fails. My life goes downhill. A negative spiral. What happens instead when I kick my own ass to improve all the time? I experience self-validation and get more motivated. I enter a flow where I get shit done and I feel happy and confident. A positive feedback system tha…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 02:13 PM
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I have done some similar things because of some BP traits trying to grow back after a while. If you reeled her in with an RP mindset and you have a great time with her. Just keep the RP mindset. Be wary when you notice that you are becoming more BP (old habits die hard). Just remind yourself that you are most important. Your hobbies, your lifting, your career, etc comes first. When you start to sacrifize things "to be more with her" your SMV declines and she will lose attraction. You may think t…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 02:07 PM
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I could only see "hard next" on the spot as the only viable option. She went with you in your car? Well she can probably find a way to get home (to her parents or a friends house, she is not welcome home to your apartment (if she lives with you) any longer)
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 01:56 PM
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Not much job to do being a good listener, actually. Yeah I realized this too in my BP LTR relationship. However, you need to know when to confront her. Because the listening part will seem like an irrational thing to do (not suggesting fixes) and you run the risk of getting used to her emotional behaviour. This in turn can make you unable to detect bullshitting (you start getting "trained" to putting up with her irrational/emotional rollercoaster). At least thats my experience. Be wary of doing …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 07:34 AM
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I can only speculate but from my experience. What made me tip over from nice feelings towards / attraction to "fall in love" before was a part of the blue pill mindset. Before changing into "in love" there were thoughts of "how we would fit so well together in the future" and "she is all that". Since I probably never will have such thoughts again (unless swallowing the BP again, highly unlikely but you can never be 100% sure) I find it hard to believe I am able to fall "in love" again.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 06:29 AM
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Exactly my thoughts. There is a difference between a "raw stupid and angry alpha" (which sounds similar to alpha 1.0) and an "enlighted smart alpha with self-control" (sounds similar to alpha 2.0). The former sounds more pure or basic (more alpha). But that doesn't mean it's better.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 06:55 AM
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Exactly. He is not exactly someone who is plate spinning around in a major city.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 06:34 PM
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Yes. Male qualities will only be cherished when they are really needed. When society hits rock bottom, this is when you will have the power to change things. Not now.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:37 AM
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This is one of the first thing I practiced. Making and holding eye contact with people. Trying hard not to show that you are nervous as fuck and have a heartrate of 120 BPM and a blood pressure around 180/90 just from talking to a random attractive girl in your social circle or at work. You are not used to it In time you subconsciously learn that it is "no danger" in talking and looking people in the eye during the whole conversation (looking away sometimes as to not make people uneasy, unless o…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 09:42 PM
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Oh how destined you are to fail if you believe you can have a relationship on equal terms. When you believe you should "listen" and "compromise". That women work differently and that you must accept their different needs even when they don't make sense (translated from BP-speak to RP -> fail shit test after shit test). I was a "great listener" in my LTR and thought I was "learning" how to be a good partner. How did it work out after 8 years? It slowly sucked the life energy out of me and she fin…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 07:37 AM
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I think you are fine. I have a few female friends too. I could and would fuck them if given the opportunity. But I do not feel the need to pursue them. I do not waste any time on gaming any of them to get inside their pants. When I interact with them it is primarily for other reasons. If sex with them is the priority (be honest with yourself!) and you don't get any you obviously need to take action and "demand" sex or stop seeing them. But if that isn't the case I just can't see any problem with…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:51 PM
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It´s too late to do something about it after you have your first experience with "woman-who-seemed-completely-chill". Extreme laws and society requires a bit more extreme precautions, sadly.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:41 PM
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Just try and find the not-so-crazy ones, it's easier than you think. It's still risky. You don't trust a woman completely. Even if she feels 100% trustworthy, she truly isn't. Thats why, if the laws are against you, you take precautions. It´s like taking an insurance. Noone tells you that "you must be driving crazy if you are thinking about taking a car insurance".
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:38 PM
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It is bullshit. http://www.freewebs.com/callaneticswestcork/photos/Dynamic-Body-Works/skeleton%20fat%20thin.jpg The size and frame of the skeleton usually varies little between individuals. Yet it seems like there is an epidemic of "big boned" people. At least the difference is small when in comparison to how big you can become as a person if you put on the pounds. A woman with a big skeleton frame (including height) does not need to weigh even 200 pounds lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 09:30 PM
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I have nothing against fat women. I do have a lot against people whining about their problems or lying to themselves and others about what they are. If you feel bad about your obesity problems either: Do something about it (I´d say do something about it even if you don't feel bad about it. Its not healthy being fat!) Don't complain or try to distort reality to make yourself feel "not-fat". Shut up about it and I will accept you for who you are. I probably will not find you attractive but at leas…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 09:25 PM
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Wow. I am not from the states. To me this mentality is just insane. A woman weighing more than 200 pounds is 95% of the time fat. Not chubby. The exception is if she is very tall. A normal height woman weighing 180 is what I think of when I hear "chubby". But even then she could be fat depending on how much is lean mass. 250 is never anything else than obese. Unless you are an amazon 6'8 warrior woman. Then you might qualify as "chubby".
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 09:19 PM
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You need to get over the "regretting your past mentality". Everyone regrets things about their past. The thing is that it isn't productive to dwell in the past and the only way to get over it is to accept what was and move on. When you do start to improve in different aspects of life you will get validation and confidence and you could care less about your boring depressive teenage years and early twenties. You will realize that you are in charge of your life, increasing your SMV while simultane…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 11:34 PM
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Societal restrictions on womens sexuality is necessary for societal health. It also benefits most men (betas are in the majority). For women it also benefits their happiness since betas work in conjunction with societal pressure to "dominate" their women. A dominated woman is usually a happier woman. A beta in a free society (our current western one) doesn't have enough dominant behaviour to dominate women and therefore cannot make them happy. I guess the only ones who benefit from more STR:s, f…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 08:25 PM
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Continue doing these things you have been doing then. Let her crave you enough to give you blowjobs and take more initiative to sex. In time she will learn that you won't leave her (if that really is the case?) just because she becomes more sexual. Then she might get encouraged to not hold back on her sexuality. And for those saying it is not your fault that others have been "one hit then leave" guys. Well you can't expect a woman to think rationally. It´s your responsibility as a man to teach h…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 08:17 PM
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Just remember. There never was any potential for "connecting on an emotional/intellectual level". Not in the "equal partnership fantasy" you have been looking for all your BP life. You can find intellectual connection with men (and even some women). The emotional aspect I have a hard time seeing though. Not to the full extent at least. Just some bits and pieces of it. The full emotional validation you need to get from yourself. Perhaps get some aspects of it from guys (talking about your feeling…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:41 PM
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Wow. I never found a descriptive article about those stages before. I have known about "red pill rage" for a long time. I seem to have recently passed stage 6, finally. Or at least to about 80% or so. I am at the stage where I have opportunities to engage in LTR with a 1 or 2 women (one of them). But don't want to because of my RP knowledge and knowing what I want/need. They are LTR material (70-80% unicorn) and this is not what primarily I seek. So I am not getting oneitis (or even twoitis :P) …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:13 PM
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I have come to appreciate having sex infrequently as I got older. Getting regular sex (i.e in an early LTR) will make the sex less interesting. Nothing beats "the hunt" (or the wait) and when you finally get to it you are filled with raw sexual energy. I do notice a change in behaviour and mental state when having an abundance of sex. And it isn't for the better. Becoming "hungry" before "eating" makes the "eating" so much more pleasurable. Don't have abundance. Have "enough" and make each sessi…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 05:53 PM
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This is the kind of "believe the victim" mentality I dislike how they make these sentences. Of course you should believe the victim! A victim by definition is someone who has been victimized. But if it isn't proven you should say "the accuser" not "the victim". The accuser can be a victim without proof. But if you don't know you just can't use the word "victim". Why does the media do this (all the time)? Even when they propose "should we trust someone by word alone" they still try to label them …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 05:40 PM
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You need to learn to live in the now and not dwell in the past. Maybe easier said than done. Meditation has helped me solve a lot of my personal issues with the past. It has also drastically reduced my need for validation from others (family, friends, females) and relying a lot more on validation from myself. It makes me feel a lot more free. And it hasn't made me a lonely weirdo. I find it easier to enjoy others (family, friends, females, strangers, acquaintances) but need others a lot less. I …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 11:49 PM
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Wouldnt the feminization of society enhance this btw? More men become emasculated betas. Only the most hardcore alphas will get through to adulthood intact. There they will be in the top 1%. The only % left that women want to fuck. Feminism is female mate selection on steroids. Feminism breed alphas by creating and suppressing betas. By breed I mean literally, it´s their cock they are riding. I am generalizing and exaggerating to get my point. It´s way more complex than that of course. But over …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 08:11 AM
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Of course he does. He didnt deny Zyzz point. He only added information on where Zyzz went too far (when it came to sacrifizing health for self-development). It's a good thing to reiterate the dangers of drug abuse. Achieving a big muscular body is much easier with AAS. You can also become bigger than without. I personally don't recommend it since you can have great improvements without it. But of course it's a personal choice in the end. I personally have put on about 35 pounds of muscle in 15 y…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 09:12 AM
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I agree. I personally dont keep track or don't even recognize failure some times. That is my psychological strategy. I try to only focus on the good aspects and also see the good things about any outcome that doesn't go as I planned. Trying to be a bit naive actually. And it works wonders for my confidence. I keep on trying to pursue things I want to pursue because I, on some level think I won't fail. When I do, I get surprised and try to find a way to see it in a positive light. Example: "Thank…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 10:33 PM
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It´s a good point. Packing on pounds of quality mass (not only muscle) but still a lot of) can be harder. I have always been in the middleground where I find it equally hard to gain as well as lose. I know it requires a lot of discipline to become big. You can't slack when eating. You have to take it seriously or you will just become "a bit bigger than before".
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 09:38 AM
1

I have heard a lot of asians actually have lesser insulin sensitivity overall. Which would mean rice is worse for them than for a typical westerner. The lifestyle (and probably appetite regulation which is both inherited and programmed by the upbringing) is probably what makes it a non-issue for skinny asians.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 09:34 AM
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It depends on the context yes. I guess it's good advice for most people here. But it´s also wise not to demonize some foods. Having options is very important when trying to adhere to a diet in long term. Unless you have the "all-or-nothing mentality". But that mentality usually is less successful when it comes to dieting anyways (works in the short term until the person screws up and goes apeshit) and should be detrained IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 09:18 AM
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Almond have much better fat composition than peanuts. They taste well on their own too (but yeah peanuts do taste better I'll admit that). Just keep in mind that the protein quality of nuts usually is of lesser quality (some amino acids are a bit lower and hard to pair up with other protein sources). But that doesn't mean it's worthless. Just pointing out the negatives here. There are a lot more positives to nuts than negatives anyway. Good mineral content and beneficial for satiety among other …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 09:14 AM
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First time I hear a "scientist" use those terms. Lol. it is overwhelming clear
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 08:14 AM
0

It isn't about subjugating the whole male species. It is to weed out the beta-males and the not-alpha-enough male. This so that women can find the true alphas easier because they will not be subjugated. There will be men left. But the women will need to share them with eachother. Or at least get fucked by them and then find their less-of-a-man provider. If he even will be capable of providing when he has been mentally castrated. Maybe they will just be single, unhappy "career" women. Like it is …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 08:12 AM
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What's even funnier is that more than half the time, they tell you they have a boyfriend after they've already fucked you. To me, this sounds like they want to make sure you understand the terms of the interaction you just had. "You were an AF I don't want you to try behaving BB and cause trouble okay?" (not actual words but actual meaning)
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 10:51 PM
2

There's a difference between knowing you will be emotionally wrecked, but be able to move on, and knowing you will be emotionally wrecked, but believing your life will be over.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 08:40 PM
0

I like to think Keep taking your red pills and your emotion-based thoughts will start to disappear. Take a look at your older relatives and how and why their relationships work or why they didn't.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 08:37 PM
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"if". Yeah that probably is where unconditional love can be experienced.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 08:34 PM
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Very good analogy! So how do you enjoy being the magician? The audience will be baffled by what you do. But you won't experience it the same way. The magician probably enjoys the show too though. Just in a different way ;)
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 08:33 PM
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I wonder if serial monogamy would be something I should consider. It seems like I function the same way as you describe and the biggest problem I have with monogamy is that I become unhappy/unsatisfied after long enough time if I am not allowed to exercise my sexual cravings (other women). I might be able to make a deal with someone I find interesting to stay monogamous (if polygamy is out of the question), but make her aware that I probably will leave her if it doesn't work out for me. I know I…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 08:22 PM
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You have interesting ideas. Hinsbock did have a very valid point though (manhood is no longer celebrated). I don't understand if you are saying that the manhatin' is temporary during the transition into the next stage of society? And by that I myself would refer to something like: Feminism imploding in on itself TRP ideas spreading online and into more than just a minority of men (and women) Upcoming societal crisis (oil, economic, conflict, food(phosforous), energy, digital and robotic revoluti…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 06:53 PM
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The thing is that men don't care much about women only spaces. And if someone actually did he would have been looked upon as a loser ("aw the poor guy want to be in a womans only space - frustrated virgin or something lol!") rather than a equal rights warrior. We want pussy from women. Thats why we have orbiters in the friendzone. Women want our attention and time. That's why they want to invade all our spaces "Hi guys what are you doing?".
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 06:32 AM
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Responded to a question that got deleted before I got to replying. It seemed to be about "telling her in advance before hooking up". At least that's how I percieved it. Maybe the poster changed his mind about what he said. This is what I replied anyway: You are not obligated to tell someone in advance on all the details of how you view relationships. You might not even know all the details of what you want early on. And why should you? You barely gotten to know the girl. We have been taught all …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 07:23 AM
6

One of the male weaknesses. Analytical retardation when judging females. Reinforced by societal programming since childhood.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 06:54 AM
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"Girls have always taken advantage of older guys resources. When you (we) were 18-20, a lot of girls the same age would not-date-you because they could use their beauty to get more interesting and mature guys, even though they had "little to offer" besides beauty. It is the girl who is taking advantage of you (the older guy) not the other way around." This is something you also could have said. It might have gotten him to boil over though :D But sometimes, telling it from another controversial p…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 06:50 AM
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Maybe it is hardwired for women to feel this way because of the potential benefits of a man who takes care of an infant. But the effect in the psyche of women is general attraction, not "oh that looks like a nice BB". The link between genetic programming and what is good for a creatures reality isn't "straight to the point" but often fuzzy and complex. The DNA is born out of randomness and applied external pressure to "perform". If a trait performs "well enough" it is kept over the generations. …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 06:36 AM
2

Being loved by a girl is exactly what FLFTW16 descibed as "pleasure from her to you". Not saying it isn't pleasant for her too because it is. But the important point here is that she will only love you as long as you have value to offer (briffaults law). When that value disappear or better value is offered elsewhere (hypergamy) she will stop loving you. So no, it isn't silly. It´s a very important point.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 06:27 AM
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Coffee has health benefits. It's not "shit". Sure it can have negative side effects that should be taken seriously (ulcers, anxiety, stressed out etc...), but it also reduces the risk of Alzheimers and Stroke. Personally I have found powerful benefits for social interaction as well as learning and thinking (it can be described as "a high level int buff" in a mmorpg). And I have also experienced negative side effects but those aren't serious enough to quit coffee. I just try to have a balanced in…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 08:43 PM
2

Yeah she judged him back then by what she wanted back then. Only fair that he does the same to her now. There is no retroactive hotness. Don't live in the past.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 12:25 AM
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Most people metabolism takes a nose dive (corrected spelling) No it doesn't. This is extremely exaggerated. But I agree with you on life. Life style factors is where it´s at. Less physical activity the older you get (most people get cars), become more gluttonous and their focus in life shifts away from things that keep BF in check. I am 30+ and am in the best shape of my life. I find it hard to even get out of shape. I eat what I want (yes that includes fast food, candy and alcohol) and weigh le…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 12:18 AM
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‘In any case, I suspect some men might be a little intimidated by my independence and my success.’ That sounds like a "call to arms" for the alpha (+ provider traits) guys out there. "I need someone who can handle me and my (new) extremely high standards. Do not pursue me if you aren't man enough". Some lyrics from NIN - ringfinger, on the theme of hypergamy (or rather "beta bucks resource extraction hyperdrive"): "If I was twice the man I could be - I´d still be half of what you need"
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 03:53 PM
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A bit OffTopic: Sometimes I wonder if the fall in amount of children / person is some grand scale complex feedback mechanism that benefits humanity in some way. It´s already proven that higher living standards reduces child birth. You could see RP knowledge as a component of "information wealth". That an RP idea that leads to less children is a natural consequence of some intricate genetic programming (too complex to "pinpoint") that has evolved long before the modern age. A more obvious factor …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 03:42 PM
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Or through irl experience anyway. I swallowed some RP truths before finding RP content info on the internet. I found this forum long after I had read/watched other online sources like Barbarossa, Sandman, Karen Straughan, how people "think" (hamster/blatant BP behaviour) on FB, RSDNation and Bill Burr to name a few. But my first experiences were the hypocrizy of feminists IRL, womens dual nature (saying one thing, acting another) and also enough relationship experience to realize something was v…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 01:57 PM
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I am not sure LTR is anything for me anymore. What I loved most about it when being BP was the intimacy. Now I realize intimacy with a woman is not genuine. Her bond with you doesn't go stronger. Perhaps in the short run (when she is attracted to you), but not in the long run. Losing attraction is almost guaranteed. It only adds to her "toolbox of manipulation" that she can pick up when she needs to. Being sensitive and emotional will in itself lower attraction anyway. It's clear from all the RP…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 09:01 PM
1

Posts like these come in droves. Are they really allowed? Shouldnt links come with at least some added personal content? Adding some value?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 08:25 PM
2

Yeah you're right. Depends on what you think is important.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 08:59 AM
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Amen to that. You don't have to get hammered and you don't need to drink every weekend. That's when it can have a noticable impact on your gains. And as posted, the cravings for fast food is the biggest factor in preventing rippedness. On the positive side though, fast food can improve recovery and performance the next day, in my and many others experience. It´s not optimal since you had more calories than needed, but at least you won't be weak in the gym. If your goal is to become ripped, it cl…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 08:56 AM
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That short movie is a very good example of how "alpha looks" doesn't do a thing if you are beta. This is my experience too. Not that I have been that much of a beta or that big for that matter. But I have been muscular for many years and I started getting a lot of nice attention only in recent years when "starting to take my pills". My physique has basically not changed during that time.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:52 AM
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I agree. I started lifting 15 years ago and it took some years before everyone started to see me as "the beefy guy". And sure it had an effect but it is only one factor. The most important factor is your behaviour. Your confidence, frame and all that you are talking about here on TRP. Being muscular will of course attract looks and spin girls imagination. But if you can't back it up the way girls want you to the look itself won't help much. On the other hand if you have some confidence, it does …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:37 AM
2

Hmm. Maybe this (extremely sweet) girl who couldnt see me for "cultural reasons" a while back isn't totally unavailable after all...
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:40 PM
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which fuels her to have more "empowering" sex to chase away those feelings. Reminds me of the (depressive) song that goes: "Can't go home alone again, need someone to numb the pain" and: "I wanna die (I really think she sings this), to keep you of my mind" Filling her sorrow with sex with a random dude. They just can't stay home, cry and then get on with their life.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:34 PM
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This picture from an article is very telling on the current "gym" culture. This "thing" was described as "perfect for the gymrat": http://www.svd.se/traning-och-halsa/4061053.svd/binary/shourouk.jpg So the average gymrat wears things like this now? In my mind, a gym rat looks something like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpqksKiImCk&feature=player_detailpage#t=137 Society sure has become feminized :D
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:07 PM
1

Lol at the asian dieselweasel brothers.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:01 PM
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That behaviour is beyond blue. That is more like ultraviolet. You did not come off as red pill. In fact, your behaviour would have been accepted in many blue pill circles. Noone would raise any suspicion by you saying "what about teh sexy time?" I know my former blue pill self would have acted almost exactly like you.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:54 PM
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The social "scientists" look like clowns compared to the scientists basically. All of them. There's your tl;dw.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:41 PM
5

Thers actually a link between a high gender disparity and equality. The more equal the country the more freedom to follow your heart (instead of what opportunities you can get to make a living). And it seems like when women can choose whatever they want they follow the most "traditional" route. Same with men. I think it also was mentioned in the first episode. Is there an interest in getting it translated? I understand norwegian.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:40 PM
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I am not sure this is a perfect idea. It could reinforce pussy pedestalizing behaviour depending on your current feelings towards women. I myself rather listen to agressive music or even watch porn (without ejaculating - scientifically proven to boost performance). Good example of both aggressive and (masculine) sexually inspiring music. Getting you into the correct state for lifting, or for socializing with women (does it for me at least): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMimeO279YE If you watc…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 08:32 AM
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Attractive women and the expactation of both pussy and/or a loving, loyal woman has been a huge primal motivator for men throughout history. Not saying men can't be motivated without good women (Nikola Tesla is the most obvious example) but it sure is a big factor wired into our DNA. It's both a weakness and a strength. If you can free yourself and find motivation from within (requires work) it will no longer be a weakness, and will probably have the side effect of attracting more women (with hi…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:58 AM
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This comment cracked me up: Maybe because she was worried you would judge (read:slut-shame) her for it. Looks like she had a good reason to be worried. So judging a person is slut-shaming? Having an opinion and feeling emotions when hearing about your partners past is slut-shaming? And then some other attempt at guilting him even more for reacting to her true nature. Apparantly men have no right to know about womens true nature. Women can't get their oh so important BB post-wall. A song related …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:16 AM
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I was also baffled by the example. I had the idea of accepting nature for what it is about 20 years before swallowing the red pill. I just didn't have enough data (experience) to uninstall my gynocentric filter back then.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 06:55 AM
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Most of the communication is body language anyway. Someone else could have been there and said the exact same things as you did and she would get creeped out because of that person "having the wrong vibe". I know a lot of innocent things I said in the past and still made girls creep out. Just the other day I walked up to 2 of my girl colleagues and told them to "use this cup" (plastic cup I found somewhere that should have went to the trash). They asked what they should do with it and I smirked …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:49 PM
1

I like typing long explanatory text messages. But I know that almost noone else does. And I know people think I am weird because of it. That's why I save those text messages for other weird people (I know a few :P) and keep it short for women and for must guy acquiantances. But this is something I need to practice more with. Not to give in to typing long messages when my fingers itch. It basically boils down to being deprived of having nice discussions with friends (other weirdos) so I take it o…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:35 PM
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Hmm. Did you miss his point? If men are the romantic sex than the blue pill fantasy of the perfect relationship could in theory be between 2 gay guys. Didn't the ancient greeks praise the relationship between men and younger guys (iirc). I am being serious btw. Not in the way of considering "becoming" homosexual ;) But for the enjoyment of discussing controversial topics! Imagine. Be born gay. Fall in love with guy, stay BP, stay dramafree and happily ever after.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 09:39 PM
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If the genders were reversed. Wouldn't the guy gain more respect for the girl for sobering up and fixing her anger problems? Have you guys ever seen that happen? I think a guy would react differently to this situation.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 07:33 AM
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Exactly. Men being polygamous (if alpha enough/having the opportunity) is comparable to women being hypergamous (given the opportunity). We are a species with clear dimorfism, different behaviour for different sexes. Can't expect the same from both the man and the woman. You need only lick one red pill to understand that we are different. After that it shouldn't be too hard to realize that cheating is a different matter depending on sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 07:22 AM
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If a girl LSNFTEs you wait for them to contact you. I guess you are right. I guess I had the idea that I could open up a new opportunity again and might as well try. Who is the girl to you The sex with her was really fun. And some other stuff. She is not that important to me I think you're also way over-analyzing everything, especially your texts. My analyzing of the situation is simply in my nature (your type of comment is one I have gotten my whole life on a regular basis). I have always been …
/r/askTRP16/11/14 08:50 PM
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Better to stand up for yourself and drop the frame than "working up the confidence to hold frame before doing it" (procrastinating). You learn from experience and you will drop frame often when you do things outside your comfortzone. You did the right thing anyway. It doesn't have to be perfect the first time.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 06:54 PM
1

I think you guys are right. I´ll just put her out of the picture again.
/r/askTRP16/11/14 05:05 PM
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The same thing could be said about when we started public libraries. When "common people" went to the library to read. They would read more words in their lifetime than everyone in their family line combined. What makes something healthy cannot be based off of what was normal in the past. Society is constantly changing and people are exposed to new things every generation. What is unhealthy requires some more thought than "we didn't do this in the past". I think JayGatsbyFan did put some good th…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 09:43 AM
2

I warms my heart to hear men sometimes "getting through".
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:43 AM
1

I think they are too much into "teach men not to rape" to like those facts. They would respond by saying something like: "That's just proof men are potential rapists and legalizing prostitution does not help. You continue the rape culture by letting men rape prostitutes instead" (the prostitutes are victims approach). Or even worse: "Are you saying that women can avoid rape by becoming prostitutes? Thats the worst victim blaming I have ever heard! <insert all male insults you ever heard and then…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:40 AM
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Wanting to fuck does not subtract from being a friend. But yeah. 99% of the time (or so) if the man wasn't interested in fucking her they would not associate as "friends" either. Women probably know this instinctively and thats why they tend to use their orbiters rather than develop true friendship. If the woman find that her "friend" feels no attraction for her she will probably go crazy and do what she can to get attention. That way she can place the guy in the correct category. And I'm not su…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:18 AM
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He is being a cry-baby. But it also is normal. Normal is not what you should strive for though. It doesn't help being normal if normal sucks. That's probably why he is here anyway. To ask for advice to work on himself to set apart from normal. To become awesome. I know you were not trying to tell him "you are beautiful, no matter what they say/in every single way..." (the song). I just pointed out the importance of not accepting the situation by thinking "well at least I am normal, better not ma…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:49 PM
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I don't even know why you're chasing pussy at your age. Why? Because he is biologically programmed to do so of course ;) It may not be rational but of course you do know. I agree with all the rest of your post. The guy just needs to work on himself and deal with the situation. Knowing things will change for the better if he follows RP advice is what will make him get through "your everyday average frustrated teenage life" and come out on top of his game on the other side.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:44 PM
2

First I must say that I didnt know about these "words" up until just a few weeks ago. But I understood most of the meanings of these "languages" since childhood. I have been a mix of straighttalker and powertalker most of my life. The powertalking aspect of me made me a good diplomat and listener. I could choose words wisely to make people comfortable (became a nice guy). What I really did was being less honest to avoid upsetting people and therefore avoiding conflict. In essence a beta behaviou…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:36 PM
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It is quite a BP behaviour to put any blame on the bartender. If anything we should thank the bartender for helping the BP masses understand the nature of women. The blame is entirely hers. The reason men do this is because we are genetically wired to excuse women for their behaviour (neoteny). The stereotypical approach for a boyfriend finding his gf cheating would be to punch the innocent man in the face (which really is bizarre if you think about it). Society has of course reinforced this beh…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:10 AM
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Does it matter? As we talked about in another topic about crying, most RPers seemed to agree to cry alone and never in front of a woman (except on funerals perhaps). You have different sides in different situations and I see nothing wrong in a bartender using his "status" to get women this way and in this particular environment. So what if he is much less interesting to women if he hooked up on tinder for dates (as an example)? This is not anyones business but the bartender. Maybe he is fine wit…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:07 AM
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I thought theoctopus post made perfect sense. No sarcasm there. I agree with him 100% in this case. If she wont stick around without a ring on her finger she is not a keeper anyway.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:55 AM
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This is very important. If you guys do not know what "butt wink" is then google it. If you have a butt wink on your squats and "feel just fine" then I can tell you that all beginners say things like that, and realize they were wrong 5 or 10 years down the road. The problems usually dont come suddenly but slowly over time. Work on form to ensure there is no butt wink. If that means not resting at the bottom but turning a little bit before then do that. At least until you imrpoved your flexibility…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 09:20 PM
1

You need essential fats too since you cant make them yourself. There are 2 types of fatty acids that you need to get into your system to survive ()you probably can survive for some time without fat but not in the long run). Just a sidenote. I don't disagree to anything else in your post.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 09:14 PM
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If you dont eat "any" fat it doesnt matter if you eat high carb, there is no fat to store anyway so "nothing" happens (extremely simplified explanation) If you dont eat "any" carbs it doesnt matter if you eat high fat, because even if fat burning remains high, all dietary fat easily gets shoved into fat stores almost immediately with baseline levels of insulin. Basically equal fat stored, equal fat burned -> again, "nothing happens". What matters is calories consumed and expended. But yes, there…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 09:09 PM
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The ass is very popular. And by training legs (squats are a great exercise for ass) you will get ass. It´s not only men who like female butts. Women get turned on my a muscular ass on a guy. And dont forget the "hip drive" you get from squatting (and/or deadlifting). Make sure your girl is safely secured, lol.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:57 PM
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My opinion from lifting for 15 years with some experience in competing and a lot in dieting: Just lift regularly and expect nothing less than becoming stronger. What type of exercises you do matter less as long as you find one or two that works and you focus on getting stronger at them every month, every year (or so). There are no "magical" shoulder exercises that make or break the development. There are "good ones" and "bad ones" (goes for all bodyparts). Pianas example here is a good one. I wo…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:37 PM
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Well its no surprise to me. And I am not even very experienced. But I have noticed that the more confident or attracted the person seem to be towards me. The easier it is to make her get there. There have been partners where you without any finesse just goes in and out and she goes crazy, cums and then you just continue pounding and she keeps on cumming until you wonder if she is going to pass out from exhaustion. Why? Because to her I was very attractive for various reasons. Then you have had p…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:20 PM
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Exactly. Not everyone is addicted to porn. I have no trouble getting horny with a woman even if I look at porn or ejaculate as much as 2 times daily (most of them from masturbation). In fact the better I feel the more I want to masturbate (even if I have regular sex) and I do wake up with morning wood regularly. It wasn't any different when I was BP. For some guys porn and fapping too much can be a problem but don't assume just because your friend is BP he is addicted to porn. Focus on the impor…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:22 AM
2

If you can do the act then yeah I can see it as useful :D
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:48 AM
1

Good post. This is something I needed to hear repeated and does explain some of my (confusing) experiences with some women. Even those who I have thought of as "genuine cryers". Maybe they weren't so genuine after all.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:47 AM
1

I´m glad I cried when my ex broke up with me. Maybe we would have run the risk of gotten back together again otherwise. She sat there stone cold while I did it as well. My old BP self needed that harsh and humiliating treatment :p But after swallowing RP. I think I agree with crying alone if you feel the need. I cry extremely rare, even when I was BP I didn't cry very often. A thought though. Crying may let go of tension but maybe it can soften you if you do "embrace it". I am not trying to be m…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:44 AM
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But the intellect of a Feminist is defined by her LACK of truth... how can that be attractive? (Modern) feminism has done nothing for improving the intellect of women. Instead it has encouraged "the feels" which leads to increased irrational thinking. Some women are smart but most have an irrational side that finds the idea of feminism appealing. If feminism didn't exist they would have been better off. More women would have educated themselves in science rather than women studies.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:20 AM
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I think there is research done that can separate most people in either category. Although some can be a mix but there is a clear distinction between "2 kinds of people" with a minority in between. Something to do with taking different pathways in the brain when it is fed input. The "introverted path" is more complex and the introverted brain is also more sensitive to general stimuli while the extroverted brain is more stimuli-seeking.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 10:20 PM
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Maybe it´s just me but apart from some of the good points being brought up here (i.e by Torquatus). I find intelligent women from time to time. No really, I do. I am an intellectual guy and find intellectual topics interesting. If a girl can give me that stimulation then she offers something of value to me. I know most of you probably don't believe they exist but maybe its just my personality that has "attracted" (not sexually) those types of girls in my life. It is a part of my personality whic…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 09:33 PM
2

maybe this big gesture will help her see how much I care for her...If I'm her friend for long enough, eventually she'll see that I'm the kind of guy she really needs in her life...etc. If he is thinking like this, which I am 99% sure he is. Then he is being dishonest. Because he is using tactics to win her over. Just like PUAs are using tactics. He is just using the wrong ones. If he was honest, which betas never are, he would not withhold information like "I want to tie you up in bed and throat…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:57 AM
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TRP existed in ancient times. TRP is knowledge. Knowledge that can be discovered by men who experience society and reflect upon it. You don't need internet for that even though it certainly helps spreading the information. MGTOW is a specific term that arose in modern day after swallowing the red pill. A MGTOW necessarily do not know the term "TRP" because its just a label. But the MGTOW have acquired knowledge in one way or another and decided to take a certain approach towards their enlightenm…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 09:55 PM
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Don't worry. You will find a way to adapt and come to love them again. The things you are feeling right now is just a phase unless you let it consume you.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 05:30 PM
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Exactly. I think it was a metaphor for BP expactation facing reality. You need to have RP knowledge/experience before you know what you want. In the transition to becoming RP it might feel that way. But then you adapt, see women differently and learn to love them again but with realistic expactations.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 05:22 PM
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Most couples are only happy for a limited time. Be it 1 year, 5 years, 10 or 20. Of course there are exceptions and you might be one of them. The important thing to take note of is the likelihood of hooking up with someone whose love/affection for you grows bigger over time and not suddenly or slowly get bored instead of being content with what you have. You cannot know in advance how your partner will turn out 10 years down the road so there is no reason for hope if the majority of cases do not…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 05:14 PM
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I do not get near my 100% blue pill mentality when these situations occurs. But since I was very blue pill, my "programming" can pull me under like a strong undertow. Thats why I must strive to stay at the surface so I won't succumb deep into BP territory (a lot less risky nowadays though). Maybe I can keep some of my BP traits. Time will tell. But right now I know I still have many BP traits I want to try scrub off and experience life without them. As soon as I catch myself in a BP-ish state I …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:49 PM
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I have met my dream girl (the "different" one) a couple of times. In retrospect they never were my dreamgirl. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:41 PM
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The teamwork skills among men is probably what feminist has labeled "patriarchy". They are jealous about men can get shit done when they work together and try hamstering it into meaning that "men suppress women and that's the reason women don't achieve great things". That's why they want special treatment and help getting to the top because they assume men "already have this priveliege becasue of male in-group-preference". Which of course is silly. Men are competetive and hierarchal. They/we put…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:33 PM
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"you shouldn't say that!!" This is a female displaying how important it is to be quiet about their weaknesses. Similar to feminists tendencies to censor things they don't like. You shouldnt... Why? Because feelings!
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:29 PM
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You displayed a higher SMV than expected. The shit test was to see if she could keep you at a lower percieved SMV or if she would be forced to move you up a point. How did you respond?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:17 PM
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I am rarely experiencing it (been lifting for 15 years). If I do its mostly a very easy shit test, or just plain humor (often from guys actually). I think guys who are insecure and try to hide their insecurity by bragging about their body will experience more shit tests and shaming. Indirect distaste for "too muscular" bodies I do experience occasionally though. Usually only when the topic is about bodybuilding or anything else related to very muscular bodies. However I rarely start conversation…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:09 PM
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When you train yourself to treat women you would otherwise love like a worthless piece of trash, so you can get her to completely submit to you, the hard part is turning that off. And that is the punishment for those of us who figured out women. We cannot stop looking at them as trash. The prize itself crumbles into dust when you obtain it. I am in the process of experiencing this. I have used this tactic on women I am sexually attracted to and it doesn't bother me too much. But when being more …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 11:25 PM
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Because being so successful in getting many partners (it's nowhere near an average count we are talking about here) implies that you probably didnt focus wholeheartedly on your career. But instead spent more time on recreational activities (a pursuit you are free to engage in!). Usually, having a great career comes with sacrifizes in other aspects of life (hence the expression "you can't eat and have the cake"). Now I am not saying it is impossible to combine those two things. Just that usually …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 10:46 PM
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This is an example of how you ruin a fun experience. It might be good for innocent first time teenagers. Or maybe its just another "women telling men what to do hoping they find those who pass the shit test". Good luck to the "bros" getting any pussy this way ;)
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 04:13 PM
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Wow. These women have horribly unappealing personalities. Is this the average american woman? :p
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 02:11 PM
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The men will be ignored/forgotten. Just like in all other areas. Gender-specific cancer reasearch, domestic violence, work place conditions (and as implied, how the judicial system treats men compared to women), etc. Making an issue a gender (womans) issue is just another way to increase female supremacy. Recent exampels of this is the HeForShe, aka BicycleForFish where Watson states that "men are hurt too" so we "invite men to the debate. You can start by..." (by shutting up and listen to how w…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 02:05 PM
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Yes. But to what extent and how much effort do you need put in yourself?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 01:12 PM
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It is cynical. If you arent devolping some cynisism when taking the red pill then clearly you are spitting it out and go about munching on blue pills before bed. So saying it is cynical really isn't any counterargument in this regard. "It's cynical therefore you should not think that way". You rely on facts, statistics, your and others experiences and base your conclusions on that. Ignoring that "to avoid being cynical" is equivalent to swallowing blue pills.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:28 AM
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So the ironic thing about that video is that it tries to be ironic, but isn't? Now that´s unintended humor at its best. The most weird thing about it was the guys behaviour of keeping a female frame. So at least that part of the video was ironic ("imagine if a white guy acted like a white girl").
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:19 AM
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Although I am sure a lot of people here are exaggerating/making things up. Being in good health certainly helps. Especially doing cardio regularly can increase your (physical) time to exhaustion by several-fold. Combine that with a whiskey-dick or just rest a bit after first session and try a second one and you can easily prolong the next session by a huge amount. At least if you want to and have the discipline to stay away from orgasm and just enjoy her moaning and going crazy.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:26 AM
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You just described "Neoteny": https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neoteny :) "Paedomorphism or paedomorphosis is the retention by adults of traits previously seen only in the young". And that statement goes for both appearance and behaviour when it comes to the adult human female.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:11 PM
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Don't even use self defense in such situations. As long as you aren't threatened of getting injured (apart from some light bruising perhaps). Turn the other cheek - don't take them seriously. This is "flawless victory". And that's exactly what Max did.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 09:55 PM
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Read up about the Shrodingers Rapist. Understands it. But what is it basically good for? I read a comparison to russian roulette. But the problem is that any individual risk needs to be assessed on its own. Russian roulette is 1 in 6. In which scenarios are Shrodingers Rapist fallout high enough to take seriously? Depends on the context of course. If you contact someone on a dating site for some "extreme BDSM" a couple of miles outside of town in a hut in the forest, with only a short chat befor…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 09:40 PM
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The more frame and non-neediness I develop while simultaneously being flirty, the more women seem to like me or being around me. Smiling more and seeking my attention. Thos girls who I suspect are attracted to me start acting a bit nervously and even tries to find things I say funny (laugh to get my attention) even when they are not. Yes they are acting a bit like I did when I was BP and early RP. Getting your life together is very important for this. Eat and sleep correctly. And lift. Embrace s…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 09:03 AM
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There are a lot more pussies in Scandinavia yes. Not all of them though. But the pussification of Scandinavia is one of the reasons why feminism has grown very strong here. I had to quit fb because (among other reasons) so many of my "friends" where manginas who supported misandry. It drove me insane to see articles telling men they "really are potential rapists and heres my hamstering for that" getting tons of likes by several of my friends. Denmark is a lot more redpill though. They had a show…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:24 AM
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This post is severely underrated. This is solid advice for bluepillers to challenge their delusional state of orbiting and pussypedestalizing. Treat her like an equal instead of a queen.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 08:57 AM
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I am a lucky guy who realized I didn't want children when I was around 20. I was blue pill back then and was for another 12 or so years. Getting even more sure of my decision as the years passed. Swallowing the red pill after those 12 years doesn't change anything actually.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 09:54 AM
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I realize now that I was revealing that I wasn’t naturally dominant and that I was trying to pass myself off as something that I wasn’t. There weren’t any repercussions, but it’s something I’ll avoid in the future. I have done this several times after swallowing the red pill. A few months ago I just realized / learned some more aspects of the red pill. It has gone somewhat in hand with my previous "need" for female approval. I.e being verbally open about myself - wanting her to be a listener / t…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:15 AM
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A mans T drops after becoming a father. The commenter clearly has gone through this and can only relate to his own situation where he was mezmerized so much by the birth and the child that he completely ignored whether he was being taken advantage of or not. He cannot see the dangers in continuing to build (slave in) a LTR with a woman who clearly wasn't loyal. The doctor of course told the guy to "man up". Telling him it's the right thing to do to never question if you are responsible or not. J…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 08:15 AM
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Spot on. One of the later red pill revelations I have acquired. Do not seek female approval. Do not reveal your weaknesses to a female. They lack the compassion to care about your feelings and will only use the information to their advantage sooner or later. Other men however, might actually give a damn about you. "We know how to be friends (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hmlPtRu1SQ)". If you have made a male friend a good favor. He might remember it and repay you when you are in need in the f…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:35 PM
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I guess there are 2 minds we are talking to here: * The feminists subconscious (the one that doesnt want easily available pussy) * The feminists "rational" mind. The smaller part that tries to spin the hamster wheel when the subconscious makes her feel uncomfortable as soon as she is about to make a logic conclusion. Maybe this mind could be tricked if you run the agenda of legalizing prostitution in a smart way? It "should" be in their best interest (if you listen to what they say rather than h…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 07:17 AM
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Exactly. That blatant double standard is not even funny. One could accuse her of being sexist towards less attractive guys. Just like SJW lash out on men who say they wont date fat women. But oh, I forgot, sub-standard men are losers while substandard women are beautiful, intelligent and strong! In fact all women are that and anyone who disagrees is a misogynist creep.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:39 PM
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I would say yes. If you do trust her (or want to at least appear to trust her) you shouldnt say "dont fool around" to her. Because that shows to her that you do not trust her. Which probably is a big turn off for her and might even increase the risk of her cheating on you. You have the power in many other parts of your relationship to make her attracted and faithful-ish towards you. When she is going out to a party you are powerless. And as in all other aspects of life, when powerless, why fight…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 08:27 PM
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I haven't experienced it myself. Rather the opposite. Regular training makes me need 9 hours of sleep rather than 8. Yes I DO need that much on a regular basis to be harmonic during the day. I can cope well with an hour or 2 less but the 8/9 hour mark (depending on regularity of training) gives an obvious focus and calmness which also hugely reduces my stress levels. Which is also good for maintaining frame (and making witty jokes on the fly) because I am much more mentally stable if I put all t…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:24 PM
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This could very well just be satire about the nature of a lot of interactions between (BP) men and women. Of course there could be hardcore blue pill beta men who nods and genuinely think "This makes sense! This is the proper way to act. I am such a morally superior man."
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:25 AM
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4-5 days / week? Wow. I would consider meeting once every weekend (for longer than the initial start period of 1 month) as something that has the potential (or danger) of turning into a LTR. I need a weekend for myself free every so often. If she is with me every weekend it would mean she is really special to me, which should raise a red flag in my brain trying to scrutinize here rigorously so I don´t do anything stupid. But we all work differently. If I met a girl 4-5 days/week I would definate…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:17 AM
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I do agree to this too. I find women can make good friends (and part of a social network). As long as you don't "actively want to sleep with them" you can keep them. This might have the effect of them getting attracted to you (because they pick up on your lack of neediness and might seek validation) and if they start to come on to you you can decide whether or not you think it´s worth it or not. This is different from being friendzoned in the traditional sense. Also. Being able to invite female …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 02:25 PM
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As you said your way of having sex were way too intellectual. I was surprised reading your "script" to having sex. I am more like your friend in that regard, although I want to make sure there is some fairness. Being spontanous is more my thing and I usually make decisions "1-3 seconds in advance" rather than at the start of the sex act. If I feel like going down on her because I am curious about her smell/taste and to see how she reacts I will do that. If I get bored or if she doesnt seem to be…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 09:51 AM
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Your story is similar to mine. How perfect my supposed NAWALT was. She was more than I could expect. The fact that I was feeling anxiety about getting judged for doing my kind of things did not wake me up. What me and my "NAWALT" had was unique. That I constantly was plagued by wanting to fuck other women did not wake me up. I have tons to say about my 7 year relationship but right now I dont have the energy for it. Long story short - Was blind to my unhappiness in my relationship. Loved my NAWA…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 11:26 PM
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I used this just to see if there might be correlation with what I picked up instinctively: http://nlp-mentor.com/eye-body-language/ "The nerdy ones" -> looking to the left with head tilt -> access rememberd sounds (not sure what this is supposed to mean) "You should give them a shot because..." -> looking down to the left -> talking to herself -> probably have bad experience with bad guys and wish she would get turned on by nice guys "give them a shot" but she doesn't of course... "The badass...…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 12:50 PM
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Exactly. I think I am aware of my failures and I try to work on all of them. Some of them are harder than others. Being short is not "a fail" so it´s nothing you can "work on". So why bother? As I said earlier I havent even "come to terms with my short height". It has never been something I needed to come to terms with. Besides. Now you all make me feel tall since you guys are even shorter than me :P Btw I should add that the average height where I am from is about 6 feet (explains why I am almo…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:09 PM
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Girls with higher SMV encouraging hypoagency in girls with lower SMV to keep ahead in the game. They might not understand it rationally, but on a subconscious level. And it also makes them look sympathetic and caring even though they are lying selfish cunts. I am so glad us men tend to say the cold hard truth to eachother. It might hurt more in the short run but it's productive in the long run. You can probably always do something about your situation even if looks are important when you are a w…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 09:36 PM
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In my experience, this is commonly something that women with especially high IQs do. I was just thinking about one of my new "friends". She is interesting to hang out with and she is very intelligent. However my attitude towards her have changed from "pursue" to "investigate". I am not interested in her "in that way" any longer since I noticed her friendzoning behaviour appear as well as her being "not in a relationship with one of her guy friends" ;) I will be her friend. Though I have no need …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 10:01 AM
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This. I very rarely go out to clubs any longer. I did go out rarely in my youth but ofc with the intention of getting pussy. Even though I hated the environment. It´s even more rare now since I just dont want to take the humiliation of going to an environment I don't enjoy simply to further womens narcissism by giving them attention they don´t deserve. If I do go out it is to places where they play music I enjoy. I go there primarily for the music (and I mean that). Otherwise it´s parties I go t…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 09:26 AM
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I am 5'9. Maybe not short enough to be qualified to be a manlet but short enough to always have been the shortest one in my class wherever I went. The funny thing is I wasnt even aware that this could be considered a "bad thing" most of my life. I have been very blue pill and insecure about some stuff about myself as younger. But my height was never an issue. And when I realized some people were insecure about their height I was baffled (this was as late as somewhere in my mid teens. Not sure ho…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 10:35 PM
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"don't have the heart to say no, or I just don't know how" Exactly. So either overly diplomatic tendencies or hypoagency is displayed. I have the same experience from discussions with females of the past and present. These seem to be common traits in girls/women. One girl (from work) I asked out to do different stuff over a period of time (maybe 4-5 times over 3 months) had a different reason each time. The last time she added "I will probably tell you if I want to <do suggested activity>". This…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 08:14 AM
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And I disagree somewhat to this. Asking several times over a certain period could also make you feel (for you) like you are begging. As a man you shouldnt have to put up with that. But I guess it depends on how you take it. I usually suggest stuff to do with women I find interesting when I am in the mood. But the more often they "aren´t available", the further apart my suggestions become. If my mood is in "I asked you twice or thrice recently and you couldnt any of those for different reasons" t…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 07:50 AM
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I think I read "somewhere" (sorry about not digging up the source) that women tend to dress up more when ovulating. This is of course not much of a rational decision but her hormone levels makes her more motivated to show off her goods. Combine this knowledge with the sometimes (I am talking about women you do not live with but meet regularly, i.e. work/school) noticable effects of PMS and you can pinpoint where in her cycle she is (if you take notes :P) If she is ovulating she will respond bett…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:17 PM
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It´s about "getting" women (i.e understanding them :p). Not necessarily getting them (as in "acquire"). Not all red pillers are interested in associating with women for obvious red pill reasons.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 09:07 AM
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"least I'm not a red piller..." Well that´s a typical ad hominem argument isn't it? Point it out to them. Add a link to a "list of logical fallacies" and educate them. Do it without any sarcasm or condescendense. Maintain frame.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 09:02 AM
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Asian women are not inherently different. If you find one and bring her with you into an environment that allows hypergamy (basically all environments except being locked up in a cellar (it's a joke...)) she will start to shit test you until her percieved value of you has sunken too far below another candidate. Then she will cheat and/or leave you. I have relatives who have found "sweet asian women" and their relationships goes to relationshits. I also have a very sweet asian female friend who i…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:30 AM
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A sidenote close to topic: If the woman have more than one male offspring, her immue system will suppress the testosterone levels of the fetus for each consecutive male she bears. This will mean that the second male will tend to have lesser T than the first born male. The third one will tend to have even less. This would have the effect of making populations with high birth rates lower in T in males in general. Or proportionally more "beta males". If a society is genetically successful (procreat…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 05:49 PM
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I find lifting regularly (and in general doing things for yourself, which you should if you have swallowed the red pill and are a MGTOW) my libido / typically male sexuality rises and my beta feelings get less distinctive. This helps a lot with being sexually aggressive/suggestive ("on the hunt") and keeps away symptoms of oneitis (something I am prone to in part because of social programming but also because of biological component that doesn't serve my best interests) as well as being more con…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:05 PM
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