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Oakland_dude/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:09 PM
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I disagree with this approach. Why? She knows what you you want. By trying to be sneaky about it you come off as insecure and you look like you're afraid of rejection (which is true). She is aware of your intention when you accept an invitation to her home. If you don't own up to that intention you open yourself up to being lead on and entering the friend zone. Own up to what you want and don't let her waste your time with bullshit you don't care about. If she doesn't want to fuck you, you just …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 04:37 PM
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They still need a dick inside them.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 09:33 AM
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Brilliant post, bravo. I'm so tired of the "look how women are ruining society" posts. This also sounds incredibly similar to my story. There really is a lot of value in building rapport with the staff of your neighborhood bars. One question: what brought you here? I'm always interested in hearing that detail.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 12:39 AM
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I agree. We're here to find truth and clarity. Some of this stuff is like an echo chamber for people bringing up extreme outliers.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 07:26 PM
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Anger is a signal letting you know you're expectations of the universe are wrong. If you can change your expectations, then the anger goes away - unless you're dwelling on the past.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 08:23 AM
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Anger is what happens when the world doesn't work the way you expected. (Plugged in / AFC). Transcendence happens when your idea of reality comes closer to what's real (swallowing the red pill). We're all here because we were mislead about how the world works.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 08:21 AM
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"A woman gives you shit to make sure you are the shit" - Dante Nero (Beige Phillip). It's essentially a big shit test. Men need to have the confidence not to change who they are. The man you were when she met you is the one she's attracted to. By telling you to change she's just making sure you still have confidence in your true self. A man destroys himself by giving in and becoming her bitch.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 07:59 PM
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All in my head. Everything's back to normal.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:54 PM
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That's sound advice. I get tested almost every month. It was also enough of of a scare that I'm being much more careful.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:53 PM
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I was convinced I had the clap a few weeks ago. This chick said i was the only dude she fucked without a condom. She tested positive. For a week I felt a burning when I peed. I stressed about how I was going to lose all my plates after I had to tell them. 7 days later my test came back negative. One of the happiest moments of my life. TL/DR: wait till you know for sure buddy.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 06:30 AM
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Have you tried it? Or are you basing this decision on assumptions about the app?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 01:00 AM
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This post really does not belong here.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 05:46 AM
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Nobody here read the post. We all just want to talk about our dream cars. Mines a motorcycle. '72 Ducati 750gt
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 07:48 AM
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You could haul a truckload of bitches.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 07:45 AM
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The value of a plate is that it's an option. When you have many options you have abundance. You don't need to be currently fucking someone for them to be an option (plate). You're welcome to your opinion, but read this from rational male year one before you make up your mind. http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:28 PM
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Good analogy. The guy who wrote "No more mr nice guy" said you're life is like a cake made up of all the kickass things you do. A woman (or women) is the frosting. You gotta make a delicious cake before you put that tasty frosting on.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:32 PM
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Amen. A lot of the tricks and techniques that are effective in pickup are the things you do naturally when you're in the enlightened "there is no spoon" state of abundance. Abundance is always there. Even if you're not banging a bunch of other women at the time, know that there are a billion out there. After all, a plate, as defined by mr Tomassi himself, is not necessarily someone you are currently fucking. A plate is an option. Could be a work in progress or even the other girl in the room mak…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:56 PM
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I'm curious what those guys did to inspire that sort of behavior. What are you doing to make a woman want to say you raped her? That's what the discussion should be.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 05:46 PM
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There seems to be rampant "victim mentality" on this sub. Lots of whining and bitching about shitty things women do. RP is about changing from within. You nailed it. We need to take responsibility for our lives. Respect is commanded, not demanded.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 05:38 PM
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I think OP is referring to the circle jerk jerk of posting shitty things women do. It's become excessive here. AWALT is one thing, but false rape claims are sort of an extreme situation that gets overemphasized here. There are much better things to direct your attention to. Just understand that women are not looking out for your best interest, but their own instead. None of their subsequent behavior should be alarming or upsetting. The anger phase happens because we were given false expectations…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 05:27 PM
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I don't see it as negative. Just different from what we are all made to believe. Nature is neither positive nor negative. It just is.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 10:25 PM
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This guy did. https://www.ted.com/talks/christopher_ryan_are_we_designed_to_be_sexual_omnivores?language=en
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 07:56 AM
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From "The Rational Male Year One" you should read every article there. Try this one first. http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 07:53 AM
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Totally. I wouldn't be surprised if both are true.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:22 PM
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Be patient. Don't try to be perfect. Fix yourself first, and then you can help others. Reading NMMNG is an excellent fist step. You have a long journey ahead of you. Enjoy it. Have fun. As they say in AA "one day at a time".
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:15 PM
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Yes. And if you read the article, it says further studies will try to do that.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:56 PM
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Check out this article below. It suggests that Oxytocin and testosterone work in tandem, even though they have seemingly opposite effects. http://theconversation.com/how-testosterone-and-oxytocin-hormones-interact-in-male-work-and-parenting-effort-38953
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:38 PM
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Very interesting article, and not surprising. However, your headline is incorrect. The study found a correlation, not a causation. Read the last paragraph one more time. It is possible that long term relationships reduce testosterone. Or, men with lower testosterone are more likely to enter a long term relationship.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:31 PM
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Hmm. Yes, women are different than men. You seem to be suggesting that they are inferior overall. That's just incorrect.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:25 PM
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Correct. It's Hard to imagine giving a fuck if one of my many plates bangs another dude. Abundance is bliss.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:04 PM
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Mate guarding is common in the animal kingdom, but not universal. Read "Sex at Dawn" by Christopher Ryan. He shows that humans are evolved to be promiscuous. Mate guarding in primates is correlated to small genitalia (gorillas). Promiscuous sexuality and non-monogamy is correlated to larger genitalia (bonobos and humans).
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:00 PM
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Right. And furthermore, you should take accountability for your own actions that might have led to her cheating on you. Men who get cheated on are usually blue pill beta males. Once you've swallowed the pill (and spent sufficient time and energy on self improvement and understanding the natural laws of human interaction) being cheated on will not be a worry for you.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:53 PM
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Definitely read "Rational Male Year One" and "Book of Pook". This will help you filter out some of the crappy posts that sometimes pop up here and give you an excellent foundation.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:10 PM
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Game: Upfront and straightforward -Allan Roger Currie Money: Rich dad podcast - Robert Kiyosaki Incredibly interesting and entertaining: Hardcore History - Dan Carlin Despite all the hate Art of Charm is getting here, they do have some excellent episodes. Look up one on the topic of negotiation. That is life changer.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 06:44 PM
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It's a common misconception that people get passionate about something and then start doing it. It's actually the other way around. You do something long enough and develop a connection and a passion for that thing. Instead of worrying about finding a passion, practice being curious. Practice experimenting and trying new things.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 04:53 AM
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This is a clear case of supply meeting demand. As more producers compete with each other, it's the consumer who wins in the end. However, as consumers it's our duty to upvote and downvote wisely. We must use our votes to keep a high standard of quality. Also: I don't mind reading rehashed ideas as long as there is some kind of new insight, or at least it's a high quality post. One of the ways human beings learn is through repetition.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 12:16 AM
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Don't forget "No More Mr Nice Guy"
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:55 AM
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Read "Sex at Dawn" by Christopher Ryan. He goes into a log of detail about this stuff. There's a big emphasis on why sexually we're much closer to bonobos than chimps or gorillas.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:20 AM
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An interesting thing about gorillas is they have extremely small dicks and small balls. The theory about that is they use force and strength to acquire a harem, and don't need to compete with other males fucking the same females. They basically have a monopoly on those females, so there's no evolutionary pressure to have lots of sperm or a nice big dick. Humans have relatively larger balls and penises (closer to chimps and Bonobos). Primates who are sexually promiscuous (ie everyone fucks everyo…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:18 AM
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Some of the modern editions are edited to be less racist and sexist. There's a free audiobook version of the original out there in some website.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 04:15 AM
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Look up Alan Roger Currie. Read all of "The rational Male" year one. In my opinion the best game is just being honest about what you want and having the confidence to go after it. Eliminate approach anxiety and fear of rejection. This all ties into inner game because you need to see yourself as having high value and quit putting the pussy on a pedestal. After that, it's just a matter of going up to women and without too much BS fluff talk, saying "this is what I want, give it to or I'm moving on…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:57 AM
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There's a pretty cool book about this called "Creative Visualization" by Shakti something. It's only slightly "far out". It's old too, so probably cheap. One of my old bosses recommended it to me. A dude who owns a bunch of high end restaurants.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 02:17 AM
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Bradley Manning comes to mind.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:02 PM
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Dan Carolin's Hardcore History podcast has a killer series on Rome. Pretty much all of his shit is amazing.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 08:48 AM
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Charlie Manson is a good example of this.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 06:47 AM
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You're the man. I'd like to see you do more interviews on like podcasts. Thank you for sharing your ideas.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 04:41 AM
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How about Podcasts? Here are some excellent ones: "Upfront and straight forward" - Alan Roger Curie "Theory of everything" - Tai Lopez "Hardcore History" - Dan Carlin
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:48 AM
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Thank you. That shit was getting old. Man the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:41 AM
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This is a weak, defeatist point of view. Try not to focus on the forces working against you. Build on your strengths. It's easy to make excuses. How about creating a strategy that works for you specifically? How about you quit looking for excuses? Look to capitalize on your strengths. You have strengths, I promise.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:39 AM
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This particular book isn't biographical. It's just a selection of things he said in his annual letters to shareholders in Berkshire-Hathaway. Furthermore, I don't believe you need to be evil in order to be a billionaire. There doesn't seem to be any evidence that Buffet is a sociopath. Just smart with numbers and good at determining cost vs value of investments. That said, I still haven't read the book, and as always I'll read it from a critical, objective mindset.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 10:13 PM
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Yes. This story is about O. We gain nothing from putting down V. Her's is a sad story. If anything we need to recognize that O had some influence in getting himself in this shitty situation. I want to hear the update months from now. I want to hear about O continuing to stand up for himself and about how he learned from his past mistakes. He's got a new girl already? Is he really ready for that? Is she just the next V? Let's hope not. Carry on O. There's a long road ahead of you.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:39 AM
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There's a great podcast by a guy named Tai Lopez. He brings this verse up all the time. He often follows up by suggesting a 30% rule. Spend 30% of your time with people below you ( in age / status / whatever) 30% with your peers, and 30% with people who are above you. Bottom line is we are social animals, and your fellow man is your greatest resource.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 06:45 AM
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You need to decide if you want to be friends with someone or if you want to fuck them. This is what determines your relationship. If you decide you want to put your dick in her, the immoral thing to do would be to make her think otherwise. Conversely if you want to be friends, and that is your priority, you can forget about fucking. I'm not sure why you would want a platonic relationship with a woman, but that's a personal preference issue.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:38 AM
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Im not really sure why we do this. Poor conditioning? Scarcity mentality? Evolutionary mismatch? Female imperative? I think the important thing to realize is that we need to recondition ourselves. Spin those plates. Work on your your SMV. Practice establishing your frame. No need to dwell too much on the why.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 06:51 AM
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How you should proceed depends fully on what you want from her. Know what you want, tell her in a straight-forward no-bullshit manner, and accept nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 03:23 AM
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I really don't think this belongs on TRP. It doesn't really have anything to do with intergender relations or self improvement. There's not much to gain from reading this article or discussing it.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 03:18 AM
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I've never heard of this guy. Just watched his video on how to give yourself a bowl cut. Amazing! Also, a very cool message. When you love something so intensely, it really takes a lot to reach that tipping point where you realize the good no longer outweighs the bad. It reminds me of the idea of "sunk costs" you learn in finance class.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 08:37 AM
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Bingo. Same with that post the other day about a Blue Piller who spent years creating a situation where his SO was taking advantage of him until he finally had enough and kicked her out. Now he's coming up with a big, elaborate scheme to get back at her. Why not just next her, start from scratch, and start swallowing the red pill? What is this BS retaliation? What a waste of time. TRP is about understanding how people think and adjusting our actions accordingly. It's not about being angry at wom…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 09:10 AM
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The book "Sex at Dawn" mentioned in the original post is a good example of why this is more of a modern social construct. According to Dr Ryan's research, we were evolved to be more of a cooperative society in which a child is raised by many people, and not just the biological parents. I don't mean to downplay the importance of social norms though; those are powerful forces.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 03:03 AM
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Yoga. Quickest way to a meditative state. Also acupuncture done properly will have a similar effect. The other option is running long distance. The runner's high is an excellent form of deep meditative state.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 11:01 AM
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I've had it go terribly wrong or work out okay. It's typically an awful idea. If you must, however, be super up front. Make it very clear that you just want to hook up in a casual way. That will make things much less shitty in the future.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 10:57 AM
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This needs to be the top comment. This kind of frustrated miscegeny is just a form of extreme bluepillism. Why are we trying to get back at gravity because we fell over? Learn to walk upright like a man instead.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:21 PM
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