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Then stop bitching about it on the internet and go get professional help. And if you sincerely feel you don't need professional help, then just stop bitching about it. Get sunlight, get exercise, and find something in life you can feel passionate about.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 11:20 PM
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You are completely in control of whether or not you sleep with him tomorrow, and no amount of emotions and excitement and confusion takes that agency away from you, so you can't use getting caught up in the moment as an excuse. Remember this. If you don't want escalation, then you need to make it clear - and not just by saying 'I'm not that kind of woman' and sleeping with him anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 08:13 AM
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Academia isn't fucking around Wrong. An increasingly large amount of academia is fucking around, a fucking around that is not only forced on you but ridiculously expensive to boot.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:32 AM
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And? It has nothing to do with the fact that the only ones that want the benefits of both genders are the lumbering shebeasts that aim to compete in athletics. It's plain idiotic to try and say most 'want the benefit of both genders' when until they fully shift over they don't get the benefits of either. You can have all the distaste for their decisions that you want, but at least fucking acknowledge reality.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 11:14 AM
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No, most 'trannies' just want to be women - and plenty are able to be more pleasant and feminine then most femimist-bred women, as they're making a conscious decision to be female. The strange, lumbering beasts that go on to compete in professional athletics just wanted an easier playing field though, for sure.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 10:38 AM
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why not hold them to the same standard you hold yourself? Because it's already well established that trying to treat women like you treat men is ultimately poisonous for relationships?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 10:35 AM
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He keeps asking what you want, and apparently what you want is getting your hair grabbed and your ass smacked, so tell him that and stop playing tennis. Tell him you want dominant behavior, and then encourage him and tell him how you like it when he does it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 12:47 AM
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It's amazing how many things that allow men to choose to stop being desperate for women somehow make us less of a man.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:49 AM
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And just cause needless drama for the sake of stale, well-used pussy... And more then a small chance that she'll try and peg him for a pregnancy. Far better just to freeze her out.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:45 AM
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Agreed on TV becoming ridiculous. Everybody Loves Raymond always made me throw up in my mouth a little, and I am so happy I am almost done with my current job so I can stop pretending to tolerate Law and Order SVU.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:37 AM
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To be honest, I don't know if Reddit is becoming opposed to feminists as they are becoming opposed to Tumblr's Social Justice Heroes... And since the SJWs try and shove feminism down people's throats while also shoving triggers and respect for otherkin and whatever else, the message of feminism is muddied by that. Mind you, I am thoroughly amused by it happening, I'd just say it's less about feminism being bad and more about Reddit circlejerking.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:34 AM
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While learning to respect yourself is important, you need to stop having a stereotypical midlife crisis.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:14 AM
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And most everyone starts more blue than red, insulting someone that's making progress is unnecessarily bitchy.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 11:36 PM
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They are men that have been so emotionally emasculated that their hamster fetishizes it.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 10:36 AM
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To be fair, you're likely only going to deal with the crazy fucker with a butcher knife once. After that, you won't have to deal with anything at all.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 10:35 AM
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NEVER MAKE WOMEN YOUR MAIN FOCUS This, a thousand times this. Love a woman if you want, spend your life with someone, but the moment your life story has another person as the main character it'll all fall apart.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 10:31 AM
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There is a difference between 'assertive' and 'abusive.'
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 10:25 AM
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The best response is to delete your facebook account.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 10:21 AM
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Subversive does not mean weak, and neither does deliberately skipping the consequences of your actions - when you get into brawls, do you take each punch on the jaw like a dumbass, or do you avoid the hits? There is plenty here that was passive aggressive, and plenty that shows the guy was whipped. But you need to get some perspective.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:44 AM
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While a lot of it was passive aggressive, fucking with someone's car is pretty aggressive aggressive.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:15 AM
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Nothing worse then will happen with any other President. Nothing better, either.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:10 AM
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on the brink of losing it all It sounded to me like he had nothing left to lose.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:03 AM
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Yes, actually. Nice guys are men that have had their masculinity derided and devalued for their entire lives. They are told that things that make them men are less then worthless, and thus build themselves around avoiding those things.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 02:55 AM
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While I am sick of it, there's nothing 'blue pill' about spousal abuse and conflating the two is just as stupid as labeling any negative behavior 'beta.'
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:10 AM
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These men need to try harder This statement is as invalid in the relationship market as it is when people from previous generations use it for the job market.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 04:36 AM
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While interesting, the whole nolife comment is invalidated by the large, reddit-shaped glass house you're in.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:42 AM
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You are being willfully naive.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:04 AM
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Totally agreed here: if she's making you happy now, there's no reason to feel you needed to dump her. If she'd cheated on you, sure... But you recognize you made your bed there, and have fixed things.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:27 AM
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Is it fair that I call them fake feminists? No, because they're the real feminists.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 06:30 AM
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As a personal note, please do not take what is mentioned here to ever pressure you to sacrifice that career. My parents were very much RP with me, though I did not realize it at the time, and my mother is a lioness. Working in the medical field, she's a no-nonsense, highly motivated individual... but whenever anyone tries to note things about her family life, she just notes that her husband is the man of the house, and that means a lot more than people try to have it mean these days.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 07:12 PM
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Just remember something: you don't need to stop being fierce, you don't need to stop being strong. You do not need, if you do not wish, to sacrifice your career... Your priorities just shift towards keeping your man happy, taking care of him, and showing him how you love and respect him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 07:09 PM
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Fair enough, fair enough!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 11:08 AM
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I felt so guilty afterwards for this slip-up. And you should. If you are having difficulties in the respect department, perhaps remember that you're not just supposed to be his wallflower. By all means be your man's lioness, and sink your claws into anyone that tries to tear him down.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 10:44 AM
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Men don't apologize. This is patently false. Men can, and should apologize when they've done something egregious or offensive. This mess, however, is just flat out confusing.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 10:40 AM
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Oh my baby Jesus. No, this sub is not too good to be true. Please, don't try and ask about how to hunt for unicorns here. Flattery gets you nowhere.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 10:39 AM
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When college feminists decide that the only way to prove consent is to have a fucking waiver about it, college guys are going to just go bag other women and stay the hell away from campus. I wonder how many college girls only in it to get their MRS degree are going to realize, too late, just how badly they've let things get screwed up.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:33 AM
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I quite appreciate this post... Just remember this: while you have accepted the idea of being interdependent with your mate, remember that this doesn't mean you need to be less strong. Just let that strength show in different ways, and you'll boht stay very happy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 10:29 AM
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Sadly, you can't really return to your previous state of bliss, but it is worth noting that reality isn't n ecessarily as bad as you think. You can still be a kind, generous, and nurturing lover for your wife. You just have to do it as a kind man, not a nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:04 AM
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'Hamstering' refers to the way that people can sometimes get into self-rationalization loops that have no real basis in reality... Thus just letting their minds spin away like a hamster, refusing to accept that they aren't really getting anywhere. "She is a good sweet girl, and could never cheat on me, because she is a good sweet girl," and "Sure he cheated on his wife with me, but that's because I'm special, he would never cheat on me" are two potential examples.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 04:16 AM
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If TRP is suddenly 'ruining' your marraige, it is because it's been ruined for a good long while, and your hubby has only now found the verbage and willpower to tell you why.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 03:17 AM
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My take on it is that they're being reasonable people, doing what we should be wanting to do anyway, and I'm not sure what other takeaway there is here.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:51 PM
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Christ. As someone fighting their way past the poverty line, I really wish I could find where in the hell I need to go to collect all this privilege.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 03:34 AM
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Men do not waste their time on this trivial bullshit. I hate to have to mention this, but you're on Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:13 PM
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Feministsareugly because we live up to your expectations of being butch, short haired, man-hating lesbians! Lady, I'm not really sure what kind of argument you're trying to make here.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:12 PM
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"Just a little fucking yourself up the ass" is still fucking yourself up the ass, though. I can certainly see where you're coming from, but there's just no better way to handle the situation.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 05:54 AM
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If yhour future husband finds out you had anal and enjoyed it witth John Doe, but you won't try it with him, he's going to be understandably pissed. I entirely agree here, though I would say it goes far deeper than just angry: this kind of thing makes a man feel emasculated, while their SO who was holding out on them often struggles to understand why.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 07:28 AM
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There's nothing wrong with trying it. It just has a high chance of not ending well.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 12:29 AM
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"That's offensive. You're an asshole. Go away." It takes her so few words to so perfectly describe why men are increasingly attracted to non-American women in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 09:44 PM
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Which, given her deterioration, is only reasonable. Still, you may want to check with some sort of legal counsel as far as how you're gaining evidence - all of that sneaky phone stuff may have a good chance to get thrown out and make you look bad.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:09 AM
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In all fairness, in this time it may be recommended, or getting a PI on her... No worrying about gloating over her decline, but every bit that you can get to nail the custody case is golden.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 08:10 PM
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Here's hoping you get your kids as quickly and as painlessly as possible, good sir. They don't deserve to have to live with a trainwreck.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 08:08 PM
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Yeah, as someone that worked collections for a repo agency for a while? That has nothing to do with her being a woman. When it comes to bad debt, 9 out of 10 people just end up being giant twats.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 08:59 AM
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Needing some help in life doesn't make you any less of a RPW, certainly not when partially disabled. There is no reason at all to feel bad about it. :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 01:42 AM
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Drunk sex isn't rape. Drunk Sex Isn't Rape. Drunk Sex Isn't Rape. DRUNK SEX ISN'T RAPE. The BF needs to accept that his girlfriend quite happily went to poundtown, and has regrets afterwards - regrets that the BF found out.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 04:38 PM
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I don't know if I'd call that slut shaming. It's just accepting what each person is best for. A person that's rode the cock carousel is fun at times, but they're not someone you want to marry. Nothing wrong with that, just different desires.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 04:19 PM
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There are times where coming to TRPW is appropriate, times where a female touch is, in my opinion, far more appealing for some questions. This is not one of those times, and should have gone in TRP. Your ladyperson is just being a tramp.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 11:09 AM
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Here, we can fix your problem in two simple steps: Ask for help. Show that you are genuinely appreciative for the help, and that you love your hubby. You are making this too hard.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 01:53 AM
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There are plenty of times when coming here for advice can seem more appealing then going to TRP for advice. While there is some decent LTR advice in the main sub, it's mostly full of people that hate the idea of a long term relationship, and a few rabid second-stagers that still haven't gotten over hating the world yet. There are some questions that women, especially ones that are very much looking for long term relationships, are simply far better at answering then anyone in TRP. That being sai…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 06:15 AM
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Tell your SO that this friend has decided that they aren't allowed to go to the wedding. Then just stay at home with your SO, and involve yourself in cuddles/blowjobs/food/whatever else you do when you're having a lazy day off together. Bonus points if you make sure to make facebook posts about it during the middle of your BP friend's wedding.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 10:31 AM
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We are very open about RP, and both of our roles with it. Yeah, here's the thing, I don't think you're really that open about it. If you were open and honest, you would admit that you're currently just a very shiny plate.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 10:29 AM
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As a guy: If you try and wheedle your way into an LTR while staying a plate... you still stay a plate. Why in the world would a man commit to someone who's already proven that they don't need commitment in the first place?
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 10:27 AM
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It's just a Southern thing, like "y'all".
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 03:33 AM
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It's not a safe assumption to make in this shitty economy.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 12:49 PM
3

I'll agree that, from what we've seen, I doubt he has the attraction, or state of mind, needed to snag women for an adulterous relationship. But then prostitutes don't really care how alpha you are, and lord knows that his wife only wants him for his money anyway... So I wouldn't be surprised if he's screwed a messload of whores.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 11:23 PM
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Another entirely workable option, there, and another I can quite appreciate! If there is an adequate reason, then I can somewhat understand having different last names... but the idea of just doing it because 'mah liberation' makes me rather sick to my stomach.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 12:20 PM
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First thought: I really, sincerely hope this is a gigantic troll post. Second: There is going to come a time, later in life, that you realize that you are an idiot, and your parents' worry for you was not misplaced. You are not above working for a living.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 10:07 AM
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You are keeping your name because it has intrinsic value, not for some silly empowerment-related reason, so it seems fair enough.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 09:51 AM
2

In all fairness as far as the new Spider Man goes, Peter Parker has NEVER been an Alpha Male. While he may have snagged a hot wife, he ends up being steadily beta as fuck to the point of giving up his wife for his geriatric aunt.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 12:31 AM
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"Observation of a natural 'alpha'. 'ALPHA' is a gigantic 'SPERGLORD' that should never be in an LTR at all."
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 05:24 AM
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The fact that he has a son isn't remotely a red flag. The fact that you're using Tinder to try and find a LTR is an exercise in futility, though. And if you're using it to just try and find a bunch of quick fucks, I don't think you've grasped at the knowledge provided here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 09:51 PM
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There is the occasional bit of super-hate in this sub, but it's a minority, and from people that have just realized how messed up their lives are and are pretty damn angry about it. For the most part, it's a pretty great place to be.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:45 PM
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If she wanted a real relationship, SHE WOULDN'T BE BLOGGING ABOUT DATING 98 MEN.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:42 PM
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There are plenty of men your age wanting LTRs, and hopefully you will even realize that fact before you go and break yourself on the carousel.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 02:28 AM
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Why should the kids ever be put before your wife? You have your kids for eighteen years, and a good wife lasts for the rest of your life.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 11:28 PM
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Meh. Trying to just frame it as manipulation doesnt mean much. Everyone manipulates everyone else, and always will, period.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 01:36 AM
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How about just admitting you are upset, trying to talk about it rationally some, then just having a good cuddle? If all you really are wanting is for him to acknowledge that you are hurting, it is fairly easy to get it out of the way.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 01:35 AM
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Hitting the wall in no way means you are stuck living a life of only cats and Hagen-Daaz quelched loneliness. It in no way, shape, or form means you cannot hunt for a good man. You just have to be willing to work extra hard to better yourself. You have to accept that there is no Prince Charming out there, and no person that will be intrinsically perfect. But if you can still find someone, and if you both work hard find as close to perfection as anyone can get.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 01:13 AM
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I have to agree with Luke here... Embarrassing or teasing a man is far, far away from disrespecting or humiliating them. There are plenty of ways that I could be embarrassed, but quite enjoy having it happen. Having my ladyperson cause an elaborate, monkey-related ruckus about how awesome I am would certainly qualify.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 02:59 PM
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I really cannot upvote this enough. While you are looking for a RPM, remember that you only really need to tolerate your children for 18 years, and are looking for a man to last you the rest of your life.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 12:44 AM
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You should seek therapy, from the sounds of it. While working on said therapy, reflect on the fact that you do not NEED a spouse to have a fulfilling life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 05:03 AM
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Honestly... while you may genuinely be happy to have this man in your life, it doesn't sound like you're really happy at all. It sounds like you feel that you are settling, are angry about it, and are trying to hamster your way around it. While making sure to work out and be sexy for him could help with your sex life, and cooking wholesome, healthy meals for him could help with his health, it sounds like you feel the issues are deeper than that. None of this may be true. You may truly, sincerely…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 05:36 AM
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So, your mother in law 'is a good person', just with a crippling gambling habit, a tendency to beg for cash, and no concept of taking care of herself. Yeah... she is no stretch of the imagination a good person, and you should deal with her as little as possible. While a desire to help her is laudable, I really don't think it is realistic.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 05:29 AM
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While sometimes it may not be excellent advice, advice with a bit of bias is far better than a place with absolutely no advice at all... and that's all that TRP is to people that actually want to have a long term relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 11:59 PM
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Apologies, I did misread it a bit... but really, I don't feel there's ever anything reasonable going on for LTRs in the main TRP. An actual subreddit devoted specifically to that might be nice, I suppose, but until then there's just not much reason for people to look to TRP for advice on actual relationships. That being said, as far as questions from guys goes I'd at least love to get "how do I meet a RPW" out of here. That question seems to be asked every other day.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 08:47 PM
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"am i posting this here in the hopes ill hear easier, nicer advice that doesn't mean i have to do hard things and not hurt my wife's feelers?" Really? Everyone that posts here asking for relationship advice isn't worried about "hurting their wife's feelers", they're concerned about keeping their damn wife. TRP may have some core truths there, but the vast majority of the place is still people in stage-two, all angsty and overemotional and hating on life. Even past that, there's not a single pers…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 08:00 PM
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A thousand times this. Keep the sluttier outfits for when you're at home, and make sure to find some that he enjoys. In public, perhaps keep dressing like a lady... but find some extra-naughty undies for him, perhaps garters or thigh-highs if he enjoys those, and make sure he knows just what you're wearing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 02:43 AM
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From what you've said, you keep being miserable, and you've barely been in this relationship for any period of time. The way to fix this situation is just to 'next' him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 02:22 AM
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From a male perspective, while I'm most certainly not a fan of the concept, I don't necessarily see a problem with it. It's not necessarily a gateway between dominance or submission or anything of the like, it can potentially just feel very -good- to a person. That being said, what I, or anyone else feels about it doesn't necessarily matter here, does it? It bothers you on a very definite level, and you need to try and communicate some about that. There are alternatives that might be a happy med…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 08:56 PM
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In all fairness, keeping someone from molesting someone else sure as hell isn't "white knighting". It's just being a decent human being.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 05:03 PM
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Yes, you do.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 05:00 PM
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Well, part of the problem seems to be that you keep going down on her, when she is never returning the favor. Stop that. I do have to wonder if there isn't a larger problem here, though: It's taken you four years to decide this is a make or break situation? It seems more like this is trying to hamster your way into a justification to leave.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/14 04:21 AM
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My advice would be to talk to him right now... but don't try and do so in regards to fixing your relationship, or major life changes. Talk to him to be with him, to offer him love and support. Unconditionally, wholeheartedly. While you do so, perhaps your own inner conflict can further resolve itself, and you will show that you cherish him regardless, which I would have to think he needs right now.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 08:31 AM
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While I find the idea of paying for egg freezing to be utterly ridiculous, perhaps you are looking at paying for birth control in the wrong light, here. Consider BC a way to keep other idiots out of circulation.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 08:24 AM
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