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Lol have you and your lawyer plan the separation then. Don't bother trying to share custody with someone who doesn't want it. The kids losing their mom is gonna suck, but being around your mom after she told you your existence isn't convenient for her and she'll only be your mom when she feels like it, isn't having a mom either.
/r/MensRights26/11/21 06:52 PM
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Yeah shared custody with someone who doesn't really want it must suck. Though I'm sure her idea of freedom includes being with her kids when it's convenient for her, enough to snap some social media photos and claim to be mom of the year
/r/MensRights26/11/21 06:49 PM
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Onomatopoeia
/r/MensRights26/11/21 06:46 PM
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the problem with that is often, it's not her specifically that he wants, it's anyone he can get
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 06:09 PM
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yeah in this context i just meant is as "not passive"
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 05:29 PM
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I think people who 'play games' like this don't ever stop. it's not a one time thing. part of it is their ego has a need to be appeased. the other part is that they are addicted to drama and they will invent something they know will cause a fight because they get a high from having something to yell and cry about. it's never 'ah okay you proved yourself to me permanently! <3 <3 <3' it's always well what have you done for me lately?
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 05:15 PM
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yup. if you 'pass a test' you know what your reward is? another 'test' that involves you sacrificing something to make her life better, over and over until you get fed up, she finds a fresh new guy to break in, or you die miserable with stockholm syndrome.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 05:13 PM
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the real test is just what they do every day without you forcing anything. if someone cares for you it will be very obvious.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 05:11 PM
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girls have no idea how effective being aggressive instead of passive with guys can be. it doesn't make them cheap it makes them valuable that they care enough and are willing to risk rejection to have a shot with you.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 05:10 PM
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yeah relationships can be like friendships. i didn't stay best friends forever with all the guys i thought i would be growing up. but our time together was still great.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 05:07 PM
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I don't think it's just the movies etc. It's that a lot of guys are so thirsty they WILL pressure her constantly, and they think the guy that pursues her the most ridiculously aggressively is the one that wants her the most and is therefore the best for her. Most girls have so many guys after them (because many single guys are going after many girls at once) that if they play hard to get with some guys and they back off they'll be replaced with more suitors immediately.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 05:04 PM
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playing hard to get is basically the woman saying 'you're not good enough for me and i am not enthusiastic about the idea of a relationship with you.' even if the guy COULD force that relationship to happen it would basically just be one where he is being used and the woman is ready to discard him any time and is not willing to invest in the relationship in the slightest.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/07/21 05:01 PM
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Seen this over and over ever since learning about relationships in general well before MGTOW, red pill, etc. stuff like that was a thing. Just guys talking about breakups in the early 2000s. Help a girl through school or something, she hits a milestone, the guy basically gets a pink slip and is told thank you for your service but you are no longer needed at this operation, have your desk cleaned out by noon. Guys always say I should have seen the warning signs in the weeks leading up to it but t…
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 02:40 AM
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I would say Limitless kinda falls into this category. Guy becomes a supergenius and ends up basically destroying his personal life for the sake of gaining the money and power to make the world a better place.
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 01:45 AM
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If it makes you feel better, a lot of sites like that are scambait where the guy 'giving' the girl money tries to get her account info, get the girl to send money for various scam reasons, etc.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/21 03:39 AM
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Bi weekly as in you become more bisexual by the week
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/21 03:36 AM
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Pretty sure couples who sign a prenup have a lower divorce rate. I advised one of my friends to get one using this point, with his wife there as well. She didn't go for it lol. They seem alright now but I do wish they had signed one, my friend is such a bro, he doesn't deserve to get wrecked in divorce court after having had to watch his parents get divorced
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/21 03:34 AM
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The pop song "Follow Through" by Gavin DeGraw was very striking to me. I don't like the song musically. But I think it is the ONLY popular song I have heard about a man having standards for a woman's behaviour in a relationship. "So, since you want to be with me You'll have to follow through With every word you say And I, all I really want is you You to stick around I'll see you everyday But you have to follow through" You definitely hear tons about expectations a woman should have. Looks, money…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/20 06:09 AM
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Sounds right to me. One of the hardest parts of growing up as a male is losing your 'automatic personhood' you had as a child. I'm sure women experience a similar thing as they get older, but man as a guy you sure turn invisible and are assumed worthless and hostile until proven otherwise quick. "What's it like getting older? You're still you--but nobody cares."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/20 06:01 AM
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The androids in Blade Runner aren't even androids. Replicates are literally humans, just artificially made. People just treat them like robots because of their origin. The effect is so strong, people can watch the movie and not even realize replicants are humans.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/20 05:57 AM
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Metaphors are analogies
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/20 05:54 AM
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Relationships do just happen... to women. They kind just sit there and pick from among the dudes constantly hitting on them. It's like the employer vs. employee disparity. An employer might say "how does an employer vs. employee relationship start? Well, all you gotta do is just sort through the applications and pick the best one." To an employer that's exactly how it works. To an employee it's not so simple. But an employer doesn't understand that because it never works that way for them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/20 05:44 AM
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People don't hate incels because they're wrong, they hate them because they're right. People don't want to admit that life isn't fair. That a person can be a very good person and still not be able to find love. If the stuff incels generally say is right then it interrupts their just-world fallacy, and they don't like that. Incels are not a new thing either really. It's just 'guy who can't get laid' which has been around forever. The internet just helped them all get together and figure out the t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/20 05:36 AM
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My money, my choice!
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/20 02:38 PM
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Ah man I always thought it was sun roof can open, moon roof can't
/r/PussyPassDenied15/06/20 04:10 AM
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Maybe his name is John Funeral and that was his home
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/20 03:21 AM
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I have seen this so many times, I feel it's basically guaranteed that if a guy loves a girl, they live together and he pays for her degree, she will leave him a note when she graduates. Thank you for your service, please have your desk cleaned out by 11 am. Worked with a guy whose gf was trying to talk him into moving into a middle of nowhere city away from his family so he could pay for her to do a nursing program there. Talked him out of it and felt relieved when he actually listened to me.
/r/MGTOW23/03/20 01:44 AM
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All social media is already an escort services app. Everyone has their price
/r/MGTOW23/03/20 01:12 AM
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I think most guys are better off just giving up on trying to get non-prostitute sex at all. If you're in say the bottom 30% of looks it's pretty hard to get yourself into the TOP 20%. It depends on what your physical flaws are in terms of looks... some have very effective and simple surgical remedies, like if you just need a rhinoplasty or sliding genioplasty you will probably get very good results and will allow you to have easy casual sex with women. One the other hand if your skull is too nar…
/r/MGTOW23/03/20 01:07 AM
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men being thirsty is very much nothing new, perhaps it intensified but even before the internet men were widely regarded as "whipped," doing everything for their wife and getting nothing but occasional mediocre sex in return. calling men cucks wasn't the norm but there was a reason there were all those jokes about their son looking like the milkman. i think it will get worse before it gets better.
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 09:10 PM
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No, they're calling someone a virgin as a way to call them ugly without saying it outright
/r/MensRights02/09/19 01:17 AM
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In terms of fertility, it's a slow decline. In terms of social/dating/romance, it's when he starts balding more than a little bit or goes broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 02:28 AM
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Because women actually are acceptable to men the way they are. Some guy will date the overweight, jobless girl with no ambition or talents or sense of humour. Many guys would be thrilled to have her. She won't snag a turbochad but she can have a decent fuck buddy or a good boyfriend. Men on the other hand aren't regarded as "good enough" if they are average. Men need to make enough money to take care of like 5 people to be a "good provider." Men need to be in the top 20% of looks to be attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 02:23 AM
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There might not be dudes who appeal to every woman. But there are definitely dudes who appeal to zero women. Though I do think one good take-away is that men should focus on women who show early interest when looking for a partner and dismiss anyone who doesn't. If she actually likes you she will make it easy for you to feel like you have "a good moment" to ask her out. She will say she has no plans that weekend or she wants to see that movie you're talking about wanting to see or wants to try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 02:15 AM
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Here's 'Alpha Behaviour' that matters: Looking down at her from your 6ft+ height Lifting her up with your strong arms Talking to her in a naturally deep, manly voice Charming her with your handsome smile Not being intimidated by other men because you could easily take them in a fight due to being taller, bigger, and stronger than them, especially because of stronger facial bones like a strong jaw and cheekbones and a brow ridge that protect your eyes Being rich or of a concrete high social statu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 02:03 AM
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I think many, many more men won't be keen to be "good stable providers" when they find out just how many women don't really LOVE these men, only use them. Also, divorce is fucking NASTY for men. I know a lot of dudes are already way way more wary of it marriage than they seemed to be 20 years ago. A woman might not marry a man intending to divorce him. But divorce is SUCH a good deal for women in general. It's like if someone came and offered you a million dollars to not hang out with your best …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:58 AM
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Yes I think that is a huge problem it creates. It is also going to undermine the faith employers/clients have in the graduates of these programs. Sure, people can assume a white male got some sort of job or education because of white privilege or male privilege. But women in these programs DEFINITELY got it because of privilege.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/19 07:49 PM
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pretty sure this is an anthony hopkins quote, not k-dawg
/r/MGTOW19/05/19 08:15 PM
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I think single-gender teams are vastly under-estimated these days. I think a team of ten men or ten women can do a whole lot more than the same teams plus one person of the opposite gender. When the opposite gender is introduced all kinds of bullshit power dynamics start propping up. Put one girl on the team and half the guys start acting like one-upping, ego tripping morons, trying to "subtly" put down other guys to impress the girl. The guys are reluctant to criticize the girl and more likely …
/r/MGTOW03/05/19 04:36 AM
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People don't naturally get that much smarter over time, they only develop the mental abilities and personality traits they need to get by in life. Most things we think of as positive like responsibility, rationality, and hard work do not come naturally to people. Most women in our society can get through life on half a brain. They skate through the school system given easy high marks. The glass for prevents them from having to take tough jobs. Finding a dedicated spouse requires little effort. T…
/r/MGTOW09/04/19 05:34 PM
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I have yet to read a story, real or fictional, about a guy who paid for a girl to go to school who did not get dumped when she graduated. "Thank you for your years of service, have your desk cleaned out by noon" is pretty much how it goes.
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 07:00 PM
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Women have spent the past several decades unified to advance their own agenda, men spent centuries doing the same thing but collectively stopped.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 05:04 AM
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It's a symptom of how men's lives are harder and worse than women's. No matter how hard you screw up as a woman you basically never hit rock bottom. Extremely unlikely to end up homeless or in jail even if you do the same things a man would do. Society would rather have a man die on the streets than a woman sleep in her car for a week.
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 12:32 AM
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A lot of women really do avoid anything resembling responsibility though. Get pregnant, get married, be a stay at home mom for 20 years, maybe get a low-wage, low-hours, low-stress job after that, all subsidized by a man you barely do anything for. Harp about how being a mom is the hardest job in the world when the requirements for getting fired are like, being so incredibly abusive CPS takes your kids away.
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 12:22 AM
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Because people are obsessed with the just-world fallacy. They want something they can point to that anyone can do and say "this will fix your problems" so they can continue thinking life is fair. So things like, hit the gym, shower, dress nice, be confident and smile, are the advice given to men and treated as a panacea for any problem they have getting women. If this does not work then it is not, in their minds, because things like an ugly face or short height matter, it is simply because they …
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 06:14 PM
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You need to have your own vision of who you want to be and how you want your life to be. Other people come and go. Even your family and close friends might end up losing touch with you, or dying well before their time, for any number of reasons. But you will always be you. So you need to think, I only get one life, and I'm stuck with myself and the decisions I make. YOU are the person whose approval you really need. This doesn't mean, ignore everyone else and have no social life, it just means, …
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 06:09 PM
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Things like responsibility, respect for others, civility, and work ethic, are not natural human behaviour. They are taught to you through deliberate lessons, but mostly through the way the world treats you. Children are irresponsible and rude because they don't know better. Their brains are still developing, thinking in certain ways just isn't going to happen. Then after that age, they might still not happen, if they never need to do those things. People only really develop the personality they …
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 04:38 AM
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I've never seen that phrase before, "lifestyle resume." A pretty clever rebranding of "conspicuous consumption" I suppose. A 'lifestyle resume' a girl has is getting drunk in various instagram-worthy locations.
/r/MGTOW06/07/18 04:06 AM
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I agree, if she didn't leave him at the altar, imagine having all those in-laws willing to show up to a wedding they know isn't going to happen just to see you sad. It is hard to get a group of people to do that though. Now that I think of it she probably made up some bs about him cheating on her.
/r/MGTOW17/06/18 03:33 AM
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Well, you could get a chiseled jawline with jaw implants or fillers and not shoveling ice cream down your throat. Jaw surgery is hard through. And ice cream is really good.
/r/MGTOW04/06/18 12:54 AM
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I think this is a very important point and am glad it's getting a lot of attention. Guys, we didn't have it good in the 1950s. Being able to provide for a family with one job is nice. But HAVING to provide for a family with one job, is not nice at all. The people who are the best manipulators arne't the ones who coerce you into doing something you know you don't really want to do but end up doing it anyway. The best manipulators are the ones who make you think you're getting everything you want,…
/r/MGTOW04/06/18 12:50 AM
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de jure is like a written policy or law, as opposed to de facto, which is more like "in effect, whether by official rule or not." So for instance a group could have a de jure leader and a de facto leader, or a de jure policy and a de facto policy that counteracts it.
/r/MensRights10/01/18 01:57 AM
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I agree but it's not like Pitt is still in his prime either. But hell if I were 54 and had to "lower" my standards to hot actresses that aren't as hot as they used to be I'd be over the moon.
/r/MGTOW08/01/18 04:57 AM
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Well when you're very busy business dinners are semi-necessary because you need to eat while still working. Granted few people work all that hard at a business dinner but it is a way for two busy people to meet after office hours to discuss work.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/12/17 05:05 AM
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I think a lot of women are just there as chair fillers. The studios decide what gets made and the image of each show, and "it's by a WOMAN" is a selling point for a particular brand of media, mostly targeted at women. The writers and directors do have creative input but the main shape of the final product has been decided for them by studio executives and market research.
/r/MGTOW31/08/17 03:16 AM
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Imagine your celebrity crush comes up to you, hits on you, wants to suck you pff, wants to be your girlfriend, etc. Plus, she is REALLY hot. A lot of guys will say stuff like "that celeb isn't that hot, I see hotter girls in real life all the time." You don't, really. People look better in real life than in pictures or video. Just like a girl's facebook pictures don't live up to seeing her in real life, Amber is probably mind-bendingly hot in person. There are many celebrities that aren't outrag…
/r/MensRights10/08/17 11:55 PM
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You can be a huge feminist while also being against sexism towards men.
/r/MensRights23/05/16 01:56 AM
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Most of the come-ons in the video were completely harmless but a couple where the dudes were really persistently following her were unnerving. Then again just walking and ignoring everyone as part of a social experiment is also unrealistic, she didn't even give these guys a "I have a boyfriend" or "No thanks" or "go away please." People say "If she engaged that would just make it worse" but they didn't show that happening.
/r/MensRights08/11/14 08:07 AM
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You might also like to know that "The proof is in the pudding" used to be "The proof of the pudding is in the eating."
/r/MensRights08/11/14 08:02 AM
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