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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
164	Why female prioritization is at the heart of feminism	discussion	ObeyCoffeeDrinkSatan	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/23 12:31 PM

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1	What would Violence Against Men and Boys (VAMB) look like? I point out that it's not "men" who are committing the violence. It's violent men, who make up a small portion of men overall. And the group they victimise the most are innocent men. "The human brain evolved over millions of years. I think you're capable of a bit more nuanced thought that lumping the whole of humanity into two groups of 4 billion each."	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/08/23 10:25 PM
1	What's wrong with staring at women? Staring can feel pretty aggressive. I was in the showers at my local swimming pool and some dude (I'm also male) stopped showering and just stared at me. It's an indication that they think you're doing something considerably wrong or that they have some significant interest in you for some reason. It basically screams "you're not welcome" or "I'm gonna interact with you in ways that may be harmful". Made me worry that they would end up getting physical.	/r/MensRights	07/06/23 09:22 PM
6	Demonization of Men Feminism promotes a narrative of women being oppressed by men, and implies or states that men are a degenerate gender, either culturally or inherently. It's basically a soft version of a female supremacist movement with a respectable veneer. Sexual assault is used as evidence of male degeneracy and dominance, since it's thought to be something primarily done by men to women. When faced with evidence of women doing the same to men, there is an instinctive reaction to minimise or dismiss it, so th…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/05/23 12:31 AM
2	This is a travesty! What? You mean like referring to rape as rape in their coverage instead of fling, affair or, whatever else No, I'm referring to the large number of articles that appear talking about how rape is a problem, yet only ever frame it as a thing that happens to women, thus furthering the myth that it doesn't happen to men (by women). The BBC will post a front page article about how we need to increase convictions, mentioning female victims in a way that implies they're the sole kind of victim. If 27.5…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/23 05:44 PM
2	This is a travesty! Ironically, men who are raped by women have the experience of a woman in the 60s. They probably won't tell anyone. They won't report to the police or it will go nowhere. If 27.5% of all yearly rapes are men being raped by a woman (CDC stats), yet these make up <0.1% of rape convictions, surely the easiest way to improve the experience of those suffering sexual abuse would be: Replicate CDC research in UK; widely promote the results Change the law to include MTP as rape Train police forces to tak…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/23 04:17 PM
4	Who pays the biggest price of anti-male bigotry? Hah, didn't realise it was her. She most certainly is. She keeps thinking swarms of bees are attacking her, and has various delusions about her health.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/04/23 11:35 AM
4	Vast numbers of men and women think mens’ rights are under threat…so why does no one speak out? I saw a poll where Germany had one of the smallest proportion of people identifying as feminist in Europe. Can't find the study, but it was something like 10-20% identifying as feminist, with 81% supporting gender equality. I figured it was better over there.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/04/23 11:32 AM
20	Modern “Slimy misandry” is a fundamentally different beast to previous bigotry Masculinity is defined as the traits and attributes which can be considered characteristic of men. The most intuitive understanding of prefixing that with "toxic", would be that you believe certain toxic traits can be considered characteristic of men, and you want to discuss what those are. "Harmful/unhealthy gender norms" would be unambiguous. Feminists will refuse to use it though, because it implies no negative connotations about men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/03/23 06:50 PM
18	Why female prioritization is at the heart of feminism Isn't our movement primarily needed because of feminism though? Understanding why they do what they do is important if we ever want to counter it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/23 07:31 PM
69	Why female prioritization is at the heart of feminism The whole "do it yourself" thing is annoying. We don't have a super sympathetic media full of all our friends, ready to constantly push whatever issue we campaign for. The same media would either ignore or actively smear us. "This is a white bank for white people. You want a business loan? Then have your community setup their own banks." Burns down the banks the black community sets up	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/23 02:04 PM
28	The "Gender Wage Gap" is why I was (formerly) a feminist I started the same day, in the same role, in the same company, as two other men (software industry). In a few years, I was earning 20% more than one, and the other was earning 40% more than me. My salary increase was largely down to luck (redundancy, then moving company), while the highest earner was obsessed with earning more money. They kept changing jobs if it got them a promotion or more cash. They'd put in extra hours and learn more. When you adjust earnings for basic things, the gap falls …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/03/23 11:25 AM
5	So many women seem to have zero idea what the male experience is actually like There was a fuss over a Samsung watch ad that showed women running at 2AM, because you know, women could never do that and it was insensitive to minimize that. Meanwhile, men know it's just an aspirational ad, not a guide to living your life. Few men are going to go running at 2AM with an expensive smartwatch on their wrist.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/03/23 06:51 PM
4	The reason that misandrists are fighting so hard is because the men’s equality movement is winning Yeah. It's been over ten years that I've been seriously concerned about the feminist rhetoric that permeates mainstream newspapers and the discrimination it would lead to. I felt like I was going crazy, because nobody (outside a shunned tiny minority) seemed to care. Now it has indeed started to cause noticeable, measurable inequality, and people can't ignore it. I'm guessing by 2033, it will have become more fashionable and acceptable to advocate for men, and by 2044, the kind of male-negative …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/03/23 03:30 PM
34	Speaking up about mistreatment The "never hit a girl" thing is so toxic. When I was a kid, I gently slapped a girl who refused to let go of me and was tearing at my school uniform. The female attendant chastised me greatly. A year or two later, a female bully grabbed my ankle and held my leg up at a swimming pool as I was swimming. I started to sink and then had to fight to keep my head above water on one leg. My instinct was to use my free leg to kick back at her face, but feared getting into serious trouble, so I just helpl…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/03/23 03:25 PM
4	The reason that misandrists are fighting so hard is because the men’s equality movement is winning I was rather shocked by that statistic, since it always seems we're in the minority. It just shows how much power feminism has in society - their presence in the media and the ability to make people fear speaking out. Even commenting on this sub was something I was reluctant to do, because there are hordes of feminists who would abuse me and spread smears against my character. Why? Because I want gender equality, not female priority.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/03/23 07:52 PM
9	Why the rate of single men in the US looking for dates has declined Ironically, "misogyny doesn't exist" would in itself be a misogynistic thing to say, since it tries to ignore misogyny or claim that it's impossible to be wrong in the way you treat women. Similarly, I think claiming "misandry isn't real" is misandristic. It's an attempt to get people to stop complaining about it or to ignore it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/02/23 09:48 AM
2	The Double Standards of Body Shaming Men What is "objectifying women"? Generally, it seems indistinguishable from "expressing sexual attraction to women". You're apparently "doing something" to and having an effect on a woman who you've never met.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/01/23 06:27 PM
3	What do you guys think of “Positive Masculinity”? Pretty much. I view it the same way I would if someone said "positive Jewishness". Like yeah, you obviously think Jews are bad and are trying to highlight "the good ones" as an example, so that the rest can change.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/01/23 06:18 PM
10	Man legally changes gender to win custody of his daughters: Now I am also a mother (news story from Ecuador) Women do not have the right to bodily autonomy and that is written in law. I assume you're referring to abortion. It's very extreme to say that unavailability of abortion means women don't have the right to bodily autonomy, since in almost all circumstances, they do. Also, in my country (like many in Europe) abortion is legal. Hence, since female genital mutilation is illegal while circumcision of infant males is legal, women have more right to bodily autonomy than men in my country. Things such…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/01/23 11:26 AM
9	Has the political left failed men? Women hold power in society too. When men hold power, it's generally for themselves. When women hold power, they're expected to help other women. Aside from that though, sexism is sexism; your definition is bullshit.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/01/23 06:37 PM
5	I am blown away at how many people are applauding Greta Thunberg for D-shaming Andrew Tate. Greta: Been hosted by numerous world leaders; gets ton of positive press; looked up to by many. Andrew Tate: Known for posting misogynistic videos on the internet; banned from most social media platforms; negative press; arrested for human trafficking. Should be pretty clear.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/12/22 07:09 PM
7	I am blown away at how many people are applauding Greta Thunberg for D-shaming Andrew Tate. Calling out Greta has to start by calling out Tate first. They do not have the same profile or status, so that is a silly suggestion. You're basically engaging in whataboutism to an insane degree. High profile, influential leader makes a racist comment You: "But where were you when this random homeless person posted a racist YouTube video?"	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/12/22 05:53 PM
8	I am blown away at how many people are applauding Greta Thunberg for D-shaming Andrew Tate. Downvoted. Lol. This sub is just another fragile echo chamber. You're being downvoted because you're ranting is off topic and not constructive to the conversation around body shaming. Notice how everyone here on their high horse seems to miss the part where Tate started the whole thing by mocking Thunberg? And? She still engaged in body shaming. We're talking about how body shaming of men is normalised and how Greta is contributing to that. Not to mention his whole alpha facade is built on, you …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/12/22 05:50 PM
11	I am blown away at how many people are applauding Greta Thunberg for D-shaming Andrew Tate. So you don't know or follow Tate...a man who made a career on the internet by shaming men... Yes, that's correct. I only know who Tate is because he has some news coverage around going viral and being a misogynist. I basically never use TikTok and would rather gouge my eyes out than watch Andrew Tate. but come to his defense because a teenager made a penis joke about him. You're making a couple of logical errors here. Firstly, criticising Greta Thunberg for promoting body shaming is not the same…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/12/22 04:48 PM
10	I am blown away at how many people are applauding Greta Thunberg for D-shaming Andrew Tate. Lmfao you're king just got arrested for sex trafficking. *your He's not our king. Everybody on here will think he's scum. Why not a peep about it here, guys? Because we don't follow Andrew Tate and his actions. We only heard about this because of Greta Thunberg and it being all over Reddit. Oh, and not for nothing, he started the exchange by taunting her. "I called that black man a n-----, but he was mean to me first!" This sub is now officially a joke. This is a sub focusing on male advocacy, g…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/12/22 04:16 PM
11	It's time to let go of "toxic masculinity" But we say "black person/people" and "white person/people", not "people of white".	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/12/22 10:27 PM
26	It's time to let go of "toxic masculinity" For some reason, that distinction isn’t working similarly with “toxic masculinity.” It's because "masculinity" is defined as: qualities or attributes regarded as characteristic of men or boys. Anything that comes under the term "masculinity" is supposed to refer to men in general, most men, or - at the very least - a substantial minority. Appending the adjective "toxic" before it, creates a subset of masculinity. And since masculinity is the attributes regarded as characteristic of men, the subs…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/12/22 05:53 PM