Obfucious Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	First Impressions matter; how to bring him/her into your frame quickly Don't ruin the placebo effect for me...	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/15 01:44 PM
1	Monogamy in my LDR post college graduation (struggling with oneitis maybe?) I'm sorry but this is just wrong. You never wait for a girl to take the initiative in defining the relationship. Passively idling might get you the outcome you want (no LDR) but it's a cowardly move that reflects an unwillingness to express what you really want. Edit - you mentioned a few ideas, the alternative is what I think is wrong	/r/askTRP	13/03/15 02:52 AM
2	Inviting girl over for first date? EXACTLY. Always screen with coffee or drinks first. You don't want a crazy knowing where you live. Plus if you don't like her in person, you have a big time commitment whereas coffee is easy to just leave. Risk definitely outweighs potential reward	/r/askTRP	06/03/15 05:02 PM
1	Wife tried to force me to get her pregnant last night The problem is relatively simple. You know all the variables and recognize your relationship is at a disequilibrium. She is currently not content without another child and has expressed this to you. There still be a perpetual strain on your relationship until you either convince her of the merits of not having another or until she's pregnant. We don't know all the nuances here. You need to figure out your best plan of action, predicated on whether you can successfully convince her (and the facto…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/01/15 08:42 PM
2	At dinner party over the weekend, women says she only dates tall men Sure it's fun in the moment, but your comment doesn't embody TRP. Just because you're right doesn't mean you have to say it. All you did was bring her down and highlight that you're vindictive. I'd recommend focusing on adding value rather than putting people down. Maybe you're in your anger phase but control is paramount	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/15 08:50 PM
5	I have a female roomate Spot on, mate. She doesn't want you shitting where you eat because if something goes south she strains her relationships with friends and her living situation. Could have nothing to do with the OP. Now complaining about how much she bitches is another story, don't conflate the two. You should for sure be addressing that, like calling her out on b.s. and letting her know that if she's looking for some yes man to reinforce her beliefs, she should get a blue pill bf.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/14 04:26 PM
2	Nice guy works. How to pull it off. (I've done this many times) Wrong wrong wrong. Red pill is not about how to best coerce a girl into thinking you're someone that you're not, that's blue pill seduction and a slippery slope. Red pill is about cultivating superior alpha male habits so you don't have to misstate your intentions just to get her into bed. I get where you're coming from, but it's predicated on a poor understanding of trp. Maybe you meant it in a different way, but I can easily see many new readers taking this the wrong way	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/14 07:57 AM
1	I feel like I'm on the verge of breaking through, I just can't seem to make that pivotal move. Ever heard of analysis paralysis?? She wants you to take the lead - why are you scared? From an analytical framework, your valuing the cost of failure way too highly. Reassess it - she thinks of you in one of three ways: Friend LTR (beta), she doesn't want to give it up to someone who will just "use her" Fuck buddy, purely interested in physical action Given what you said, there's a low chance it's the first. Other two you are good to go. But it's better to go for it and find out then not. STOP …	/r/askTRP	02/12/14 10:17 PM