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| 13 | Men leaving for younger women is naturalSure it's natural. So are rape, murder, and cannibalism. Something being natural doesn't mean it's what you should do. You're right about rewards and punishment. But having a stable and loving family is more rewarding than wrecking your home | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 02:55 PM |
| -7 | Do you believe circumcision is harming males?I find the black-and-white thinking that you (and most of Reddit, tbf) use pretty retarded too. You think that "teaching your kid to wash his dick" just magically means they'll never have a foreskin-related medical problem that circumcision would have prevented? Your worldview would make sense if disabled, mentally handicapped, or immunocompromised people just didn't exist. And if circumcision weren't shown to prevent UTIs in infancy, which can be life-threatening. Fact is for routine circumcisi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 04:40 PM |
| 36 | RIP to Japan, you guys had a good runI'm pretty sure they're still dying at work, wojaking it up and drinking sake. Not sure where the money's going now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:33 AM |
| -2 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemAny PPD question could be answered with "bUt YoUrE nOt GoInG tO dAtE eVeRy PeRsOn On EaRtH sO wHo CaReS??" The specific OP asking any question is going to be irrelevant to 99.999999% of people. No shit. You're not smart for pointing this out, just like you wouldn't be smart for pointing it out on any other thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider dating someone overweight or obese?When BMI was invented, the average person was more athletic and muscular than they are today. The myth that any regular strength training invalidates BMI was made up by fat people, for fat people to feel better about themselves. Sure, lifting weights is great for you, everyone should do it, and it does give you more wiggle room for a healthy weight range, but almost nobody is getting an obese BMI just by lifting weights unless they are on heavy steroids or if they were already overweight. I don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Would you consider dating someone overweight or obese?Delusional. You think nobody could see your thighs or something? Just because nobody said you were overwheight doesn't mean that you weren't. You're right, though, a lot of people (like you) don't know what a normal weight looks like because obesity is so common now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating someone overweight or obese?No you don't lol, you just know some fat people who may or may not lift weights occasionally, and you live in an obese world so you don't know what an actual lean, muscular body looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:56 AM |
| 7 | PPD women be like:Imagine having no intelligent point, so you just make a meaningless comment with self righteous emojis If you have something against the comparison, explain. Right now you're just blowing smoke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Y'all pushed us this far.Why do you think your idiocy matters enough to affect anyone's mood? Saying "u/Eternal-Argument is doing dumb shit again" is just like saying "it's partly cloudy out today". Nobody cares that much, it's just a casual observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Who's more aesthetic: men or women?Don't think symmetry is the right word. The symmetry women have is not very distinct from the symmetry that men, or even most animals, have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 8 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyu/szclimber has a point and is giving you a chance to finish your thoughts. Now you're just being stupid. I finished reading your OP because I am interested in travel and the cultural differences I thought you were going to bring up. But you really never made your point. You don't even mention what country your cousin works in, or whether or not it's the same country you live in. You say you have come to understand the differences in dating in other markets but you don't give us a single example… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 12:35 AM |
| 15 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?girls do the exact same makeup every time and that’s basically the same look every other girls has This has the same energy as "all video games are the same, you just press buttons. Anyways, can you please pause the online game for a second" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDIt is also a benefit for the child to know the biological father for purposes of healthcare and treatments that require some kind of tissue or organ donation. This is a wacky argument. How often is a father donating an organ to a child? Extremely rare. This also requires certain antibody testing, not paternity testing. Even if you know who the father is, compatibility tests would need to be done anyway. Any transplant specialist would laugh at you for suggesting that this is a good reason to pat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:25 PM |
| 1 | The Myth of the 25-Year-Old BrainRight, and the woman counterpart in this whole hypothetical exercise doesn't just want a man who's 1 inch taller, they want a man who's 6' even if they're 5'. I don't even agree that 20 year age gaps are ever a good idea, but it's a fairly straightforward analogy that you're not fully connecting here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Sex is kind of stupid, and trying to get laid makes most guys act stupid.Without the euphoria that you're biologically programmed to feel during sex, you probably would have no interest in it. What is your point here? Without having your hunger satiated when you eat, you probably would have no interest in food. So why even eat? Let's just put starvation to the side for a second and look at it objectively. If it weren't for that pesky biological programming that makes you get tired, you probably wouldn't need to sleep. So what's the point in sleeping? Without stimulat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Male Delusion Calculator!That makes these calculators pointless though. Your real dating pool is not the entire US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 06:10 PM |
| 14 | You guys don't understand what social anxiety isI personally was imagining OP towering over some dude in a wheelchair with muscular dystrophy explaining why social anxiety is worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testingThis whole comment chain is about our disagreement on our tax dollars being spent in dumb ways. I commented in kind. Point out where the fuck I actually said this. Woah, cool seeing how trashy someone can be! Tax funded committees address problems of historic inequity Literally how you worded it. If you had said "tax funded committees address ongoing inequality rooted in historic laws and practices" it would have made sense and showed you actually put some thought into your position. "Historic i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testingTax funded committees address problems of historic inequity caused by prior government laws and restrictions I take issue with your idea that "historic inequity" is a problem that needs to be "addressed" with the boatloads of taxes I pay the government. We can't change past history. There will always be "historic inequity". No matter how much of the money I earned the government takes, there will always be a history of inequity. You have to have an endpoint for equality of opportunity after whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Small/Big Dick Energy: what personality traits do women associate with penis size?That cancelled out for everything else that could improve perceived confidence? This is such a lazy comment, and I see Redditors make it all the time. Every study explains how they controlled for possible confounding factors. Yet Redditors see this as some "gotcha" as though this isn't the first thing researchers do. Redditors say this no matter what study they are talking about - they don't know anything about research, so they assume nobody else does either, and make this comment which amounts… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?Doesn't sound like you did very good research. I bet you can't even explain how the studies you read defined "promiscuity" and I am sure you could neither explain how they defined "pair bonding" nor the methods they used to determine that it was "destroyed". Be honest. You read a blog that maybe had a link to the study that you didn't really understand, but it seemed to agree with your opinion. I'm not saying that the blog or the study you read didn't have a point. But what you did wasn't "resea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him?OPs question was do all men wish they were the ones to take their girlfriend’s/wife’s virginity So by your answer you are trying to speak for all men. You are wrong. There are lots of guys like me who don't really give a shit as long as the girlfriend/wife isn't still hung up over her ex, and as long as she isn't/wasn't a complete hoebag (i.e. incompatible views on sex). There are even some guys who actively seek out sluttier women. You can speak for your opinion, but not all men are the same he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:20 AM |
| 3 | The average men does not want the average women (in the US)Your initial comment said "more women are over weight". Being overweight is different than being "severely obese". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Are there any examples in the present moment of a bachelor tax?Who is talking about it? Monthly checks for what? This is the most vague and unhelpful comment ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 04:53 PM |
| 0 | do men find penetration degrading ? And if so why would any woman agree to have sex w themas well as mammals. thus retains the lizard brain I get your point, but it's funny to say that we're mammals and that's the reason we have lizard brains | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenThese types of arguments really only seem to exist on reddit. If you want to see reality, go to Walmart and see the couples walking around. People, who according to this sub should be incels or femcels, are getting together, having sex, and are reproducing at a rate that will far outpace the rest of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenTo be fair, the only times I see comments like "200k is middle class", it is on FDS or dating subs and it's always been a woman who doesn't earn 200k, but thinks it should be easy enough for a man to earn well over 200k to provide the lifestyle that she either grew up with or suddenly decided she deserves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | The only way to success with womenEvery single statistic points towards your claims of making 400 to 500k at 26 in medicine as a big fat lie. But I’ll take your word for it. Show me where I said this? I said you can become a doctor at 26 if you go straight through. You're still a resident making 50ish for 3-7 years, except you may be able to moonlight after your first year and make up to 50-75 more annually if you're willing to have no life at all. I said the actual money can come at age 29 (if it's a 3 year residency, which is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | The only way to success with womenAvg length of residency is 5 to 7 years even without fellowship Average is closer to 4 years without fellowship. Keep in mind plenty of physicians don't do fellowships. There’s just no way you think people are becoming doctors at 29 lmao Actually people become doctors when they graduate med school which is often at age 26. They start residency and are called "doctor LastName" every day starting July 1 after they graduate med school. I became a doctor at age 26 and graduated residency, started wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Men & Women of PPD ratingI mean you can praise, that's fine but it's a little odd that out of line 20 people only one was average and the other 19 were all above average. Edit: forgot this was an old thread linked from another PPD thread lol. I'll leave my comment anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | What is endpoint of losing weight and gaining muscle to improve your attractiveness?There's not really a defined endpoint. Being and staying in good shape is a lifelong effort. How you set your goals are up to you. 15% body fat is a good long term goal. You can shoot a little lower if you want an impressive physique. 20% is probably not a good long term goal if you are trying to be in shape. Or instead of bf% you can shoot for a weight of 185 which will put you at a healthier weight range. You're also not going to look very muscular by just doing calisthenics, but I assume you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.if you use a scale that differentiates between Brie Larson and Adriana Lima in her prime If by "differentiate" you mean the tell a 9 from a 7, sure. Brie is not the type I go after at all, but it's hard for me how see anyone giving her a 6 in good faith. A 1 to 10 scale is meant for a population. In the dating realm we're usually talking about younger people, so if you only want to include people under 35, or under 30 that's fine. I guess you could use "celebrities" as your "population", but the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.You really expect u/overandunderX to count how many vag flash conversations they've had? It was never a quantitative argument. Whatever the number is, I'll add 1 to it. If someone is sending unsolicited vag flashes, unless it's someone I already know and trust, I am 100% going to get sketched out and I will not be meeting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 01:53 AM |
| 2 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.sending a dick pic could be hypothetically used as an empathy test to filter out women who can't meet those guys halfway This is really your brain on PPD, huh. Ok, so you send her an unsolicited dic pick. She shrugs it off and keeps talking to you, to your satisfaction. What have YOU done to meet HER halfway? You can't use the phrase "meet me halfway" when you're doing nothing but sending pictures of your dick lmao How about this for both partners meeting halfway: you send her a message, she sen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 01:42 AM |
| 5 | How much backup men do you have?Which is not also a term exclusively used by people or the male sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 01:28 PM |
| 3 | FDS Users Are Mostly Low Social StatusA psychiatrist calling patients "low class"? Where did he say that? He said "low social status" which I would assume has a closer meaning to "lower class" or "low SES" rather than "low class". FDS always used "low value" and this has its own meaning which was different from the concept of class or socioeconomic status. OP may be conflating these terms but he did not call anyone low class. Also I'm fairly certain psychiatrists can't work as attending physicians, friend. You mean attending psychia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 01:29 PM |
| 11 | FDS Users Are Mostly Low Social StatusHe didn't rant about how any of his patients were little shits. He said most of them are low social status. Obviously they would be, most of the population are not doctors or lawyers, doubly so for people going to a residency-run psychiatry practice. Most of my patients are low social status too. I'm not judging them for not making tons of money, it's just how it is. It's a shit town with a shit economy (not their fault) and I take care of them the best I can. Also practicing medicine is one of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 01:16 PM |
| 0 | FDS Users Are Mostly Low Social StatusAs a psychiatrist, I would expect you Wait, you're not a psychiatrist are you? The way you worded this makes it sound like you're a psychiatrist. I'd be careful about your wording if you're not. You can say, "I would expect you, as a psychiatrist, to..." to be more understanding and less judgemental Who has he judged here? This is what makes me pretty sure you're not in psychiatry/medicine. If you were, you'd understand that you can gain an amount of experience that lets you notice trends about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | What exactly forms a man into a "natural" ignoring uncontrollable genetics and circumstances?and being the liked guy everywhere? You can't please everyone. You're not going to be liked everywhere. Nobody is. Expecting everyone to like you becomes an unsurmountable burden. Set more realistic goals to become the best (not perfect) version of you, and find your niche where your best self can thrive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.Yes, and that's a good thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.That's a bisexual woman commenting, not a straight woman. She also mentioned male attention (having them buy drinks) as one of the reasons for it, supporting OP's point. Maybe some straight women do it for the other reasons she said? That's definitely not the end of it though. Some "straight" woman I've seen do it identify as straight but are really probably somewhere on the spectrum between straight and bi. And then some straight women are just people pleasers and go along with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.181 lbs of lean mass. Sure, and if you try and lose weight, you're gonna lose some of that lean mass too. You having 181 lbs of lean mass does not in any way discredit BMI. You know who else has large amounts of lean mass? Morbidly obese people. The poundage of lean body weight doesn't mean much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.6'1 220lb and 10% bodyfat is an extreme build that is difficult to maintain without steroids. That is in no way relevant to the general population. There's nothing wrong with BMI. It's a formula that can place the vast majority of people into reasonable categories. Saying BMI is inaccurate because some bodybuilders might be called overweight is like saying the rulers by where they take mugshots of people in jail are useless because they only go between 4 and 7 feet. Sure, it might not work if yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What is problematic about the term "pickmeisha"?Well you were telling the other guy to make peace with it as though women not putting in effort is a fact of life. It's nice being in a relationship where both partners put in lots of effort and those relationships should be normalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:40 PM |
| 0 | What is problematic about the term "pickmeisha"?Mine did! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:12 AM |
| 3 | (Rating Female Attractiveness) Anecdotal look at Men vs. Women rating WomenI agree with yours except I'd add a point to #1 and #5, and I'd take away at least 3 points from #10 for obvious reasons. But more importantly, u/smarmypapsmears, where the fuck do you live where #1 is completely average? Because I'm moving there. (Haven't seen the show, maybe that's just a flattering angle for her?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 06:13 AM |
| 15 | Doctor & Entrepreneur Demands Special Unicorn Because a Normal Unicorn Just Won't Cut ItLots of doctors have side hustles. If you want those crazy seven figure salaries you either need to have a productive side hustle or you need to be a specialist working a shit ton of hours taking multiple forms of call, likely managing an office too etc. I grew up middle class and am more than happy with an average doctor salary. I do not have much of anything in common with female doctors who live the kind of life described in the profile, however I do know many physicians, some female, who liv… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/03/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Women believing that men “command respect” proves that the average man’s experiences to them are invisibleYou shouldn't conflate MD with status as though it is the same thing. MD is a degree. Physician is a job title. And a big part of that job is placing orders, which are supposed to be carried out by nurses. An MD may confer status to an extent, but I think your example just shows nurses and doctors doing their jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 01:37 AM |
| 5 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crocknot all women are hot or not all women are identical or maybe even that not all hot women are identical. So many people missing the point. Nobody is saying all women prefer it. It becomes a supply and demand issue. Plenty of women say they prefer chubby or scrawny guys, but these types are in oversupply. Plenty of women prefer fit muscular guys (more than will admit publicly) and there is a shortage of these guys in most areas. So a fit muscular guy will have many more options. The problem is wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 06:18 AM |
| 2 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockwhy do you get hurt feelings when rejected unless you feel entitlement? Because feeling sad about rejection is a normal emotion and entitlement is a completely separate issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?being nice to men is ok Being nice to men is bare minimum. Not being nice to a demographic of people is a huge red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 02:24 PM |
| 19 | How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin?HPV and herpes are very common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | There are countless ways for a man to increase their sex appealreal tan Good luck avoiding wrinkles and skin cancer then. Or you can just find a woman who knows what healthy skin looks like and appreciates it. It's really not that hard. I guess if you're looking for a certain type of woman who is into tattoos and tans, you can take the risks, but at least where I've dated (upper middle class America) women will comment on your tan but that will not suddenly make them attracted if they weren't already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Hinge experiment analysis. Are men on dating apps really as bad as what women describe?Sounds like a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Your opinions: Men using their vulnerability as a sh*t test?Just because there is some evolutionary underpinning doesn't mean that the behavior is beneficial for modern relationships, and it doesn't mean that you can't expect better from a prospective partner. I date women, not animals. To reverse roles, if you were giving a woman dating advice, would you tell them "there's no problem dating a promiscuous man who cheats and has sex with anything that moves. If men weren't driven to have sex, our species would have died out and you shouldn't criticize the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 12 | "In women, we find no such effect."...The article title is misleading, probably to get more clicks. CRP and interleukins are not the same thing as inflammation. They are considered inflammatory markers, but are not perfect, and taken by themselves, do not mean much of anything. Just because you have high inflammatory markers does not mean you necessarily have any clinically significant disease. They would need to go further and find out if more of these men with elevated markers have any symptoms at all, or if they are predisposed t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?That is not how it happens at all lmao And I'm not one to dismiss the problems porn can cause, but most true fetishes can be tracked back to childhood, not some random night jerking it on the hub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 05:18 PM |
| 3 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".Sure. You have your goals in life, which you've now shown are largely financial. A close relationship or marriage with someone as financially driven and productive as you are could benefit you by being able to share resources and ideas. If you become ill (your example at the start of the thread) you could have someone to support you. More importantly, you could benefit from having a deep connection with someone, unless you're one of the rare people who don't need any interpersonal connection at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".Ahead of where you would be without a good relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:10 PM |
| 2 | in order to form a healthy, long term relationship, you have to put "all your eggs into one basket".A good relationship does put you ahead in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 05:19 AM |
| -1 | If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselvesYes, there's been actual research done. You could ask in a polite way, or you could just Google it. Being condescending gets you nowhere when you're talking about something you don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Many of my friends are Chads and Simps simultaneously??You've been reading too much PPD my friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:19 PM |
| 6 | SHE'S TOO YOUNG FOR YOUPPD has gotten spicy today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 03:50 PM |
| – | Female clitoris is a feature not a bugIs this a copypasta? If it isn't then I hope you're 22 or 23 now. Tons of people both men and women don't have sex until around 21. It'd be strange for someone in their late 20s or 30s to still have a grudge against women because you couldn't get a fresh high school grad to have sex with you when you were 19. But you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | The tragic fate of those poor ugly incels 💔Then you can't claim to be an incel, you'd be a volcel, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 02:15 PM |
| 16 | Do you expect your man not to watch porn while in a relationship?I mean some women have certain preferences or boundaries and that's also okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 08:18 AM |
| 11 | Is FemaleDatingStrategy, ironically, conservative?Look at any of the rare green flag posts. FDS users almost seem brainwashed that a loving, caring and generous partner is the "bare minimum" and that they deserve this and more just by "being the queen" that they are. I'd argue that's a form of gaslighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 08:09 PM |
| 6 | What are your standards in a partner?Why would you think that? These are high standards, but realistic. If someone is successful enough to make six figures, which a lot of people are, they are probably intelligent, can hold a conversation, are knowledgeable about at least one topic and meet a lot of the other traits. Hell I think I meet about all of them except I'm more on the right politically. Where it becomes unrealistic is when they start expecting over 6'3 or '4, facially attractive, and earning over six figures along with all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value?Quick looks are ok. But if you unironically agree with the top comment on yesterday's prenup thread saying "if he is a HVM his paychecks would be directly deposited into your bank account" then you are a NVW | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 10:56 AM |
| 2 | This is probably one of the worst places to ask: but men/women, what types of messages get girls to actually meet up on dating apps?Best flair in the sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?Read my comment again. You've twisted my meaning beyond recognition. I said "doing everything I can to make her happy". That means giving 100% to the point of self-sacrifice. How is giving 100% the bare minimum, when it literally means I'm giving her my all? Again, all I ask for there is appreciation, I'm curious why that seems to offend you. I also implied that I was the sole breadwinner AND helping with chores (in reality doing more than half, in a past relationship). If that's the bare minimu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 05:43 AM |
| 49 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?One thing I haven't seen others mention: Imagine having a good career, putting food on the table, planning and paying for dates, helping at home, keeping in shape, and just doing everything you can to keep her happy. Just for her to refer to all that as "the bare minimum", which is what FDS women say. I want to feel valued for who I am and what I do, just like any man would. If my contributions to the relationship were "minimized", it would be over immediately. FDS includes self-improvement tips… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 08:13 PM |
| 4 | How often do you see guys significantly overestimate their attractiveness?You are not going to be obese or majorly overweight without having a lot of excess fat unless you're juicing. If you're young and active you may be borderline obese by bmi and still have a defined rectus. Chances are you have more visceral fat than you need, and that's probably not healthy. Visceral fat is supposedly more dangerous than subcutaneous fat, even though it's hidden underneath your "six pack". I've been there after a bulk. I'm sure it's not nearly as bad as being obese without much m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 04:07 PM |
| – | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Can you kindly point to where I said every woman was a trad wife? Pretty sure I didn't. Anyone can be a trad wife or trad husband if they choose. But most people will never be and could never be true leaders. Which is why it's insane to argue that a man only qualifies for a trad wife if he is a leader in his community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 10:40 PM |
| 10 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.-is a leader not only in the household but one in is workplace and community I'm on board with your others because they're fair and "traditional" men used to uphold them. But this one's pretty far out. Do you really think there were enough men who were community leaders to pair with every "trad wife" back in the day? What's wrong with having a lucrative job and being able to provide and protect? Why do you need such high status on top of that? If a woman is expecting a man who can do all that AN… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Study: No evidence for the link between women’s preference for cues of masculinity and their hormonal status, adding up to the growing body of research failing to find support for dual mating strategy hypothesis.women were given the hormone androstadienone to replicate fertility. Women did not have a preference for male sexually masculine or dimorphic faces in the hormone or placebo condition. They're trying to replicate a menstrual cycle, but it would be hard to convince me that giving a single hormone on a scheduled cycle would actually replicate all the complex changes that happen throughout a real menstrual cycle. Also, I'm not convinced that this goes against the "dual mating strategy" - it only pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 10 | If Chad is so desirable to the vast majority of women, why is he fucking average looking and below average women? Either "Chad" isn't a Chad or women aren't impressed by male beauty.You are a true wordsmith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 08:00 PM |
| 3 | The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggeratedWhat I claimed I said? Your comment makes no sense. Those quotes also look about the same to me. When doctors were sticking leeches on people to suck out toxins they weren't versed in the difference between sex and gender lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 11:53 PM |
| 3 | The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggeratedYou didn't say "men were considered the default" in your initial argument. That argument has some merit. The medical field has a sexist past, especially before it was modernized. Sometimes female patients still feel that male doctors don't listen to them. See, these are all worthwhile arguments, but that's not what you said. My knowledge and practice treating OBGYN patients is not based on male bodies in any way, I can assure you. Your focus on the history of medicine, instead of what we have be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexI've been in a few multi-year relationships and never had a woman show any signs of declining libido. The two times I ended an LTR, the gf new I was distancing myself and they tried to initiate more and more to compensate. I never had a side chick, so clearly that's not the "only solution" lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t react to static images of men the way men react to static images of women. This plays a role in why OLD sucks for many men.Obviously an upclose wide angled mugshot is gonna be unattractive/unflattering for anyone Yet tons of dudes have them on their profiles so I don't see how they aren't relevant examples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Women would prefer for men to make SUB-OPTIMAL dating choices that ONLY benefits them but RARELY do the same for menAnd you think men don't either? I never said that. I've been there. Both genders make dogshit choices when it comes to dating and if you're smart you learn from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 07:42 PM |
| 16 | Women would prefer for men to make SUB-OPTIMAL dating choices that ONLY benefits them but RARELY do the same for menWomen would prefer for men to make SUB-OPTIMAL dating choices that ONLY benefits them but RARELY do the same for men Women fall into dead-end, abusive relationships all the time. Your post focuses on FWB situations, where there is a double standard, but I wouldn't generalize it to say that women rarely make sub-optimal dating choices in general. The reason there is such a double standard when it comes to casual/FWB is there is a stigma against male sexuality in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 05:34 PM |
| 0 | Study: Female face preferences are related to partner personality preferencesWhile missing the point of the study. Why even comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 04:35 AM |
| 2 | The cost of a beautiful womanReally? I guess I live in a LCOL area but the ladies at my workplace all go to the same place for their nails and say it's 50-60 bucks, and they look professionally done (as far as my male eyes can tell). I'll admit to not knowing first hand how much the "sexy vaginal" stuff costs, I just googled it and it said 60 to 70 dollars lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Is the Red Pill fair to women?But God forbid you tell a FDSer that they are the same as TRP or vice versa... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 03:55 AM |
| 6 | The cost of a beautiful womanSo many questions. 100-120 for eyelashes? Over 60 for nails? Are all these monthly expenses? And why are you including contacts, which are basically medical devices? Glasses are perfectly fine by most men. Most men are also A-OK with you doing your own eyelashes. And a vagacial... how is it costing you that much? Are you in NYC or somewhere outrageously expensive? What happened to just good general hygiene habits for your bits? I'm not worried about you being able to find a man. I don't blame yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 03:45 AM |
| 10 | Put up with my crap... Fly for free!34yo tall HB6 wants me to be even taller so she can wear heels mfw we meet, she's 37 and doesn't even wear heels | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/07/21 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Describe the various women you would have sex with, but not commit to.Either way, roughly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 08:03 PM |
| 10 | Describe the various women you would have sex with, but not commit to.This is fun! Not have sex with Unattractive. Sketchy. Drug addict. Obese or significantly overweight. Greater than 6 year age gap. Only have sex with Not intelligent. Doesn't have their life together, or a clear path to get it together. Entitled personality, or if our personalities otherwise don't mesh great. Emotionally distant. Could be mildly overweight only if active, still attractive. May tolerate occasional drug use. History of cheating. 5-6 year age gap. Have sex with AND commit to Attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 05:59 PM |
| 14 | Is there nuance in the philosophy that "career women" are a turn-off?Not compared to most professional careers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 10:42 PM |
| 12 | I honestly don’t understand a part of the FDS mindsetJust follow FDS for a week. Or it might be in their "handbook", idk. I promise it won't corrupt you, you'll learn about their mindset and most importantly there are plenty of lulz to be had. But seriously, I already gave you two traits in the comment you're responding to. They attribute loyalty (e.g. never cheating, supporting your partner through health problems), and generosity (i.e. gladly spend everything on your partner without expecting anything in return) to HVMs. Other traits mentioned a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 10:04 PM |
| 33 | I honestly don’t understand a part of the FDS mindsetthe logic that they use is honestly terrible. They argue that women decide whose genes go into the next generation I follow FDS (opposition research) but rarely see this type of argument. The pervasive argument is that it is better to be single because being with an LVM puts a woman at risk of abuse, running into a dead-end relationship, falling behind in achieving life goals, and as far as parenthood is concerned, raising children in a neglectful or abusive household. This serves a warning to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Gender roles and double standardsSo basically you are claiming that women should stay home only if the man provides a lifestyle that top celebs enjoy WTF where did you get this part from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 7 | What is “dating equality?”Speaking for the other guy, but I imagine the point is that women (on Reddit) often using the gender pay gap to rationalize the man paying for all dates, or paying more to maintain the household. However, there is some evidence that in the younger age bracket (presumably including many of those same women on Reddit), women actually earn more on average. So you can't logically use the gender pay gap to rationalize the argument that men should pay more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Do most regular men want a woman that is 50/50?both cook and do the dishes afterwards, both work, both look out for the children.. That's the point. Both partners do what they can to support the relationship because they want to. Also, cooking and cleaning can be done together, meaning things go much faster and you enjoy the other person's company. Obviously you have to deal with logistics issues. You can't have both people cook every night if someone has to work late. The point isn't to add up to 200%, the point is both people contribute 10… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Good catches are generally not available.It matters. The real formula is: annual income + max bench must be equal to or greater than 300. Otherwise it's game over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | What are your physical dealbreakers in women?Yeah, you'd think a "brainy" person would understand how to answer the question properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Step right up gentleman! Just add water and boom! InstadadJust add water and boom! More like just add all your hard-earned cash | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/06/21 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Why do people insist that only women postpone having kids when many women risk becoming single mothers to have kids?You asked for a citation that showed a likely increase in birth defects with increasing paternal age. You got one. Nobody said it was higher than 0.5%. Use your brain. What percentage of kids do you see walking around with birth defects altogether? And while you are using your brain, learn how to interpret a scientific paper. You are picking out minimally relevant parts and trying to create drama out of them. It's embarrassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do people insist that only women postpone having kids when many women risk becoming single mothers to have kids?I'm on your side of this one, but schizophrenia is not as simple as just a birth defect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Those aren't average faces lol. They take the average of each feature, so that any unique flaw is averaged out. So they have no standout attractive features but no flaws, which is why they kinda all look the same. The average person will have flaws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 03:51 PM |
| 168 | Half naked Christian pregnant girl is not looking for hookups. Must be 5’ 11” to start off as friends.The height standard was 6'0" before she got pregnant | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/05/21 08:18 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?If that's true, which is doubtful, it's probably because they don't know better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Anyone for a bailout?I'd hit her up if she has heals. My team has enough DPS already | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/21 10:27 AM |
| 0 | Has anyone considered that women are just more physically attractive than men objectively, and that’s why there appears to be an imbalance in how many can get dates?"Economic barrier". Eating less of the same foods costs less money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 05:29 PM |
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