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Dating apps are horrid. Dating apps as a man are appallingly abominable. From what I have heard, their golden years were pre 2018 or so. Now it's all just monetized gambling for the most part.
/r/seduction16/10/24 11:33 PM
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Lift weights, get confident, get money, get funny
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:09 PM
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Likely lower quality then. If you actually have standards it’s rougher. There are 10 girls for every guy on apps.
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:30 PM
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That’s just the overall experience of dating apps as a male. You literally have to be a 10.0 Chad or a clear millionaire to get a lot of success.
/r/seduction11/05/24 06:08 PM
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That is not the only reason. While my OLD account didn't get a ton of traction, I ended up dating an Eastern European, while there, and holy shit that woman was so nice, patient, measured, and compassionate. Nothing like a lot of the American and Australian women I've dated. I also fell in love with a Bulgarian that was checking me into a hotel 10 years ago. Still think of that lady to this day.
/r/seduction19/09/23 02:37 PM
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Good foundational step. It’s kinda funny looking back at interactions and realizing “I totally should have got her number”. I’m visiting a friend in another state. I saw this 9.5 hot blonde at a restaurant, she had her friend and dog w her. After 5 minutes I was thought I needed to prove to myself that all the reading and work I’ve been doing translates to real life. I went up and talked to her about her dog and I noticed almost immediately she was very open, took her sunglasses off so I could s…
/r/seduction04/10/22 11:35 PM
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This is very true, something I had to learn. Still do. Being super rational and needing to think step by step hinders you. Have a drink, and try to emotionally move a woman.
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:50 PM
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100% agree. Literally got almost nothing of impact from it.
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:09 PM
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He is being a bit pedantic, but I think you could have just introduced yourself and said I'l l see you around. You know you will run into her again... make small chat in those situations you do see her and build a bit of a relationship where you can build attraction. Then maybe the 4th time you see her say something like "I'm going to be at ____ tonight, I know you mentioned you like ____, you should meet me there". If it would have been an approach that you never expect to see her again, then y…
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:36 PM
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Qualify
/r/seduction21/04/22 12:51 AM
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This is a great answer. It gets you in the door, but if you have bad game, or even one segment of your game is not good, then you can still struggle. My problem is that I have high standards. I have plenty of girls just below my line (7s and 8s) that I am not really interested in but are really into me and want relationships. But all the 9s that I want I must game really really well, and I can struggle with that.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:03 PM
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I’ve had the same issue. Start by asking them to a coffee??
/r/seduction09/03/22 12:01 AM
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Look for lots of green flags and little red flags, protect your assets, have her sign a pre-nup, move to a state with equal parenting as default and no spousal support, take pre marital counseling, stay engaged as long as possible, consider not getting married plenty of times…. And then if you pull the trigger pray daily.
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:09 PM
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If the weather checks out I could. Belgrade was a cheap flight. Where specifically would you suggest? I’ve been to Sofia, Belgrade but would like to add the other ex Yugo states in too..
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:05 PM
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I’ve lived in 5 cities across 3 separate countries. Quality and quantity of women everywhere are different. My current location and location for the next 15 years is bottom of the barrel.
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:16 PM
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I would just reply with something simple like.. “I’m sorry you feel that way but that is just not who I am. I agree it’s probably best to take a step back. See you around” Don’t contact her till she gets ahold of you next. Keep moving on with your life. Stop chasing her and next time try a dinner date
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:34 PM
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Lived in Australia. Had girls (and guys) as me JM to just talk, they didn’t care what I talked about, they just wanted to hear my accent
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:32 AM
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“Trust me Covid is the worst of your worries w me” … beautiful
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:55 PM
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Then maybe he probably just isn’t interested in you? Or perhaps you are being too open and it’s a turn off?
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:15 PM
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I've put 5 pictures on there in the past trying to figure out what to use for Hinge. They got 7.2, 7.4. 7.8, 8.0, and 9.5. So basically what you can learn is you are probably some where + or - 2 points from there haha
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:16 PM
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The prettier you are the less you will be approached. Fear of failure is the main reason guys don't approach in general. The guys who DO approach, a good amount of them are probably over confident or narcissistic. Where are you going to in your free time? Guys are constantly being told that approaching girls you do not know is creepy. I was just having this convo with some coworkers last week and all the girls were acting like only serial killers do that.. I haven't read all your posts to get co…
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:57 PM
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Women are more emotional, less rational than men. They don't complain about things because they want you to help them fix it. The complain because they want someone to listen to them, someone they know will emotionally support them. Trying to help them figure out how to fix their problem, in the moment while they are upset, is just going to drive them away from you. Empathize with them in the moment. You can try to help rationalize and fix it outside of the moment.
/r/seduction03/12/21 06:10 PM
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Have you read No More Mr NiceGuy? I feel like that is a good one to realize things you may be doing wrong once you get into a relationship.
/r/seduction03/12/21 04:41 PM
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Lmao I was literally swiping left 300x before swiping right one time. Lots and lots of whales I think the midwest
/r/seduction20/11/21 06:10 PM
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So what did you learn as to how you had to communicate to land solid interest back
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:48 PM
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Its ok, some of us are doing all of them right and still struggle lol.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:56 PM
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Game = confidence
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:31 PM
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This. You're friend probably has a goal of getting them into bed. You probably have a goal of trying to entertain or placate them to get them into bed.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:30 PM
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He isn’t claiming the opposite tho, just that supersets can help achieve hypertrophy
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 06:02 PM
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It’s called intermittent reinforcement in behavior analysis.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/21 01:41 PM
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I read this book and it was slightly life changing. Nothing you do for this women will make her happy. You need to focus on yourself. If you can be happy hopefully she can meet you in the middle l. But you are not a servant and your job is not to meet her goals snd keep her happy. It’s a miserable existence and ai am also in it as we speak.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/21 07:34 PM
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Pretty big reasons. You want to fight for full legal and/or physical custody. You have to have a very strong case as a male.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/21 09:07 PM
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Very expensive. Make sure you are sure it will come out in your favor.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/21 08:59 PM
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What are the cliff notes?
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/21 08:53 PM
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IF you need childcare your ex should still have to split that with you. But you get them when you are off work.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/21 08:45 PM
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