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Never said, or meant "all". There's always variance.
/r/MensRights08/05/25 03:32 AM
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One of my good friends had sex with a 3rd grade teacher. He was in 8th grade, 14, at the time. I only bring this up to say that it oftentimes does affect young men differently than women. At the time, we all thought it was crazy, but awesome, as I think many young men would. We thought he was "the man", and were very excited for him, as was every other boy that found out about it. As an adult, many years later, I can obviously look back and realize we were ignorant, as you are at 14, and knew no…
/r/MensRights05/05/25 03:24 PM
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Dude, I was a poor young man when I had a girl lie to me about birth control. She then told her friend about it who then told me. She wanted to lock me down with her. It's not always about money (but oftentimes it is). There's stories galore about hoes wanting to get pregnant by rich athletes or musicians. They get a kid to raise and are set for life. Shit happens all the time.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 12:29 AM
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Tell your friends she's right - you thought about fucking her, and figured going gay was a better option.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 09:26 AM
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You're right. As men, we often bristle at name calling. It's one of our many faults. So when these lunatics call us incel over and over, and the connotation is always someone not worthy of existence, it's bullshit. If anyone ever calls you an incel, then just know they are fools. You may have issues to work on, but they definitely aren't the ones to judge you.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 02:28 PM
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Yep. I remember being on forums way back in the day and it was tossed around, not really with hate. Now they've twisted it and try to label us with it. Fuck their labels.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 01:45 PM
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No hate to you, man, but incel is such a dumbass term they assign to us. I don't view any man as an incel. We are men.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 01:43 PM
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It's a stupid ass slang that I won't even acknowledge if I hear it. It's made up garbage.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 04:21 AM
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Hey! You leave Dark Souls out of this!
/r/MensRights26/02/24 03:01 AM
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She must of groomed the shit outta that kid.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 08:43 PM
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To be fair, if you're a red head, you have reason to be pissed. My condolences.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 03:52 AM
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No, the problem is people who are not able to seperate a "saying" from a literal meaning. No one (meaning hardly anyone, just to be clear) hears "big dick energy" and automatically thinks "Wow, he must actually have a hog in his shorts", and vice-versa. Guys in the past have valued big johnsons, for whatever childish reasons. Many women talk about wanting one - hell, just listen to half the female hip hop songs out these days. So became jokes about being angry if you have a bitsy, or happy if yo…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 03:35 AM
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I think he was joking. Edit: Welp, no. He was not joking.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 03:25 AM
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I was about to say the same: "Model" lol
/r/MensRights02/02/24 09:42 PM
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This wasn't me, but my old roommate had a girl he rejected (it was a bar hookup). Shortly after, she kept pressing him with phone calls, showing up at his job, etc. Eventually he just stopped answering. The following week, we both took the week off and hosted poker games at our apartment. We basically never left the apartment for 5 days, ordering delivery and partying when not on the table. Well... on the 6th day, the police showed up with my roommate's brother. The girl had told his family that…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 07:25 PM
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As it should be. If you ever agree with someone on everything, then something is probably wrong.
/r/MensRights23/12/23 09:26 PM
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Fucking Christ, this is bad. Are we missing some context, or something?
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:02 AM
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God, I hope not. Just let the bullshit fade away as people come to their senses. I don't need protests or political rallying points or anything like that. Just quit your shit, fix what you broke, leave me alone and let me get back to livin.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:00 AM
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Big surprise. Wiley has gone on a rampage lately against mainstream media.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 02:42 AM
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I was with you until Rihanna. Unless I'm just totally off on my memory, she got pummeled in that car with no attack by her, according to the facts that came out in court.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 07:08 AM
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Fuckin A, man.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 05:10 AM
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Of course, there are. There will always be outliers that take it too far. They exist everywhere and will never be gone. The fear is when the minority that go too far become large enough that it grapples with the majority for power. This is what is happening in many anti-men circles, and is what we fight. But there will always be extremists, even here.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:36 PM
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They kick you out real quick. They'll treat you for immediate needs, and that's it. I'm American, had a super shitty parent and moved out when I was 14. I was poor for a looong time, and I got booted out of hospitals when they found out I didn't have insurance. Also, wanted to add, that's a very small reason why they charge insurance companies so much. As for the "so much" part, they charge insurance companies a fraction of what they charge people for much of the services. I remember when I disl…
/r/MensRights22/08/19 05:32 PM
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You mean, like, under the 300 pounds?
/r/MensRights22/08/19 05:26 PM
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A lot of people subscribe to subs of opposing viewpoints for a variety of reasons. At first I thought that extension sounded great, but then I thought about it.
/r/MensRights22/08/19 04:17 PM
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Exactly. I wish all violent people wore shirts that said "I love attacking innocent people". It would make it much easier to keep an eye on them.
/r/MensRights02/07/19 06:17 AM
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I'd love to see someone wearing this shirt. It would alert everyone as to what type of person they were, and they'd have a helluva time accomplishing anything because of their idiotic views. I fully support the right for morons to broadcast their views out loud. It helps the rest of us.
/r/MensRights02/07/19 06:15 AM
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I support this shirt, and similar shirts 100%. I wish all people would label themselves this way, so I'd know who to keep away from easier.
/r/MensRights02/07/19 06:11 AM
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I'd wear a shirt that said "My brother is stupid, throw rocks at him", and if anyone actually did, we'd both beat them down for being so stupid to take it literally. It seems to be the trend to take attempts at humor, literal. If someone who had no intention of doing so, suddenly saw that shirt and said "Holy shit, I need to throw rocks at boys, now!" then they are a complete moron, and it was just a matter of time before something happened, anyway. Dumb shirt or not, I am not in favor of attemp…
/r/MensRights02/07/19 06:09 AM
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Let them chuck rocks at the boys. But they are not allowed to complain when boys pick up the rocks and chuck them back at the girls. And, on average, boys can chuck rocks a hell of a lot faster. I'm fine with this scenario. (Btw, if you take this post literally, I pity you. I'm not for chucking rocks at anyone, but I do support stupid shirts that anyone can or cannot purchase by choice).
/r/MensRights02/07/19 06:03 AM
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I think it's a bad petition to sign. I'm tired of petitions and protests, especially ones aimed at sarcasm or comedy. Most of them are aimed at us (men), and I hate most of those, so I'll not hypocritically do this one. I'm not hating on anyone that does, btw. Just be sure to not complain when it happens to us (which it does, times one thousand, it seems). I'll protest by not buying it, just like I'm sure there are others protesting and not buying a shirt I saw online the other day that said "If…
/r/MensRights02/07/19 05:55 AM
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Just keep in mind that a lot of the assholes we encounter on a daily basis aren't really assholes. They are good people, similar to us, that are just having a weak, fuck-the-world moment where they do/say something hateful. I've had them, you've had them, a lot of people have had them. There are assholes, too, and fuck em. Listen, I'm not one to preach. I just know that if I can pass on some bit of experience that I've had, then I should do it. Volunteer with a kid - somewhere in some situation.…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 11:15 PM
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I absolutely understand why people would want to die if they were massively disabled. I didn't say you were wrong. I disagreed when you wondered how you could possibly enjoy life if you could only think. People think about suicide all the time. You're not talking to one of those "glass is always half full" people, either - I think people should have the right to choose. But you think you're the only one to think about suicide? If you really get down to it, not many people haven't. Most pull out …
/r/MensRights23/04/18 11:12 PM
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I would agree with most of what you said. I think we teeter on the point of if it takes "incredible people" to be a home caregiver. Of the two people I know, one of them I'm actually not too fond of. He has some distinctly racist views, and is not what I'd call "a giver" when it comes to others. He found a balance with homecare for a family member. Instead of incredible selflessness, I think it takes work; not unimaginable, nose-to-the-grindstone work, but work relative to the care you feel towa…
/r/MensRights20/04/18 02:00 AM
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Someone downvoted you for some idiotic reason. This is proper discussion - better than 90% of the posts here. I still disagree, though. You say that there is no "life debt", and that it should have tapered away by now. I feel that "debt" for a selfless act that helped you should never die away, especially if it saved your life. Debt to the person next to you has helped armies band together against all odds - putting your life on the line because you know they'd do the same for you. Agree or disa…
/r/MensRights19/04/18 11:00 PM
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I respectfully disagree. I don't think this is one of those "right or wrong" situations. It depends on your morals, beliefs, etc. I know people in similar situations who made it work. They thought positive and worked hard to make it easier later. I also know others that were very self centered and only thought of how hard it was for them, and clung to that until they couldn't take it anymore. It's not wrong, per se, it's just they way they are. Admitting it, I guess, could be commendable? Either…
/r/MensRights19/04/18 10:24 PM
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Moving the loved one to out of home care is a great idea in many cases, especially if it's making both of them miserable. Hell, just because a guy is paralyzed doesn't mean he's going to enjoy a miserable wife around him 24/7. It's a great option as long as the family that was working to care from him at home doesn't forget about the work still needed. They should feel blessed to have help, and spend tons of time with him at the out of care facility, realizing that even hours every day is less t…
/r/MensRights19/04/18 10:09 PM
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Fucking A. You actually think suicide is a good idea because you can only "think"? Holy shit. I mean... holy shit.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 10:04 PM
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I like your attitude. Have been looking for you for a while. Marry me.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 10:02 PM
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It doesn't mean 2 lives not lived. There are tons of options for homecare givers. There are support groups. Heck, there are subs on redditt for them. There's financial help, there's shared duties among family - the list goes on and on. I think that's the problem with the woman in the OP. She just sighed, gave up and had a woe-is-me attitude. It's selfish, especially when the other option was death by baseball bat.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 10:01 PM
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Yeah, I mentioned this in an earlier post - it was noted earlier that he had told her to move on. Maybe the disabled person in the OP is not someone we should feel so sorry for. Maybe he's realized the true nature of his wife, and passive aggressively gave her an "out" by suggesting she leave. Maybe he realized he was never going to have a chance to be happy with a dismal, pouty, woe-is-me wife hanging around him all day, sighing everytime he needed help. If he's telling her to leave, he obvious…
/r/MensRights19/04/18 09:49 PM
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A good therapist would recommend help, outside her specialty, to work out their problems. There is special counseling for home caregivers, disabled people, etc. If she truly loved him, then that love should still be there. Her therapist should help her find avenues to reconnect to it. Then again, her therapist could be saying "This lady's a cunt. There's no way she's going to be happy having to work to help her husband" and then, she's probably correct in saying "leave".
/r/MensRights19/04/18 09:44 PM
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Someone said in the comments that he had told her to move on. There's a chance that after he got paralyzed, he realized her true nature - her attitude towards him, her obvious disdain at having to help him do stuff - he might have realized that he is no longer in love with her. Maybe him telling her to leave (passive aggressively) was his out, too. Maybe he's more stable than we give him credit for, and having an obviously miserable person around 24/7 is killing any chance he has for happiness. …
/r/MensRights19/04/18 09:38 PM
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There are options. A coworker I know is on foodstamps with two kids, and they found out of home care, coupled with family care for their father that was paralyzed. She's back to work and going to nursing school, while helping take care of her dad. Another guy I work with has a brother with Autism who needs full time care. He got training and became a caregiver (or whatever you call it) and now his other job is getting paid to watch his brother as a caretaker. He has a girlfriend, goes on vacatio…
/r/MensRights19/04/18 09:24 PM
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In fairness, a guy could write the exact same book and get on TV as well, like Dateline NBC, containing taped footage from his jail cell.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 02:13 AM
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You don't see how many are blaming her for reporting to the police that a man made an awkward advance by kissing her hand/shoulder??
/r/MensRights11/03/18 07:42 PM
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For those who don't know her, she's a commentator/insider for an esports league. Some of the replies to her on Twitter were idiotic, and sexist as hell.
/r/MensRights09/03/18 12:08 PM
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Not sure what your definition of "hot" is, but this is the pic I found of her. If I was 16, I absolutely would have had a go with her, if given the chance. Edit I understand she got fat later, but I don't know how fat she was when the sexual stuff happened.
/r/MensRights13/02/18 12:01 AM
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We have to live with women. It stands to reason.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 01:10 PM
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You should have gotten up, punched the presenter, and said "That's BULLSHIT", then walked out.
/r/MensRights25/10/17 10:53 PM
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I wasn't clear on why the comment bothered me, purposely, because it's not smart to make broad statements like he did. But since you bring it up, I wasn't talking about the "know it all" part, I was talking about the part where he assumed I was American. Also, again, the only reason I needled him with spelling is because he came out with the "fucking" this and that, and I figured I'd poke him a bit. It was low hanging fruit, and I shouldn't have done it.
/r/MensRights17/06/17 04:55 AM
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Yeah, I'm seeing that. I'm getting downvoted for saying I didn't like the "warm hole" comment, and that there seem to be some good people here.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:52 PM
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Yeah, you're right. I should have left it alone. When he came out with the "fucking" etc etc I knew he was the type to get easily riled up. I dislike it when people are needlessly aggressive and think they are right (like his "fucking know it all Americans"). He was an easy target, and I needled him. He's a prick, and I became one by egging him on. Lesson learned.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 08:05 PM
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Sorry for your loss. Your reply actually reminded me that I need to get checked. I'm at that age where it's recommended.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 07:55 PM
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If it's as you say it is, then that's bullshit. Using children as weapons against an ex-spouse is evil, and if anything, shows who the real problem was in the relationship. If you're a good father, then keeping the kids from you is hurting them more than it is you. If you've got the money, then I'd fight it anyway, even if you think it's fruitless. If money's tight, and you know it'd be a waste, then I understand, as well. But fight it if you can. At least if you tie her up in court every time s…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 12:09 PM
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I stand corrected. By your response, I can totally see why you would agree with the quote in question. You seem to have the comprehension of a box of rocks, so I'll try to explain why the first [sic] was more of a question of if the word was misspelled or if you were from another region, and the second was sarcasm made to rile you up, since when you used a "s" again in patronise it was obvious which it was. Relax man. I know typing all those "fucks" on the internet helps you feel empowered (you'…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 12:00 PM
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Sorry, I guess some context would help. The NFL is American Football (played by men, and watched predominately by men), and one month a season they have "Breast Cancer Awareness" and players are allowed to wear pink uniform items to support Breast Cancer - which in-and-of-itself is a good thing. But the NFL isn't doing it out of the goodness of their heart - it is purely a promotional thing for the NFL itself to bring in more female viewers. They sell jerseys, socks, wristbands, etc (at full pri…
/r/MensRights16/06/17 11:43 AM
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They only sent one to jail because she ate the other 14.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 11:21 AM
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Whenever I hear or read this stat, it just reminds me how full of shit the NFL is.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 11:14 AM
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I'm backing out of this one. Somehow you took [sic] to mean I was patronizing you, then totally breezed by my point, took offense (somehow) and still have a pinpoint, argumentative view. Btw, now I'm "patronising" you. [sic]
/r/MensRights16/06/17 11:11 AM
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Jesus christ, there's a lot being read into a picture with no context. Some of you are worse than the overly-righteous women on the other end of the spectrum. Maybe you're spies!
/r/MensRights16/06/17 11:00 AM
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"It's a perfectly personalised [sic] insult" ... that uses a tired, old chauvinistic cliche that attacks her gender instead of her lack of intelligence. It's almost as dumb as the original blurb he's railing against.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:53 AM
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I wouldn't be against insulting her, if that's what he felt was warranted - I just disagree with the insult. Something directed towards her specifically would be much more effective, e.g. "she's a fucking moron". The "warm hole" is too broad a brush. There's a lot of the opposite sex that doesn't agree with her post, but calling her a warm-hole makes him sound petty and belies his point.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:19 AM
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Everybody knows you never go full retard.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:09 AM
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Yes! I didn't know this reddit existed until I came across this thread randomly. I thought to myself "I wonder if this is a reasonable bunch" and lost all hope when I got to the "warm hole" line. About to leave, I decided to see the comments, and was pleasantly surprised to see sensible responses. Subbed!
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:05 AM
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