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Then people wonder why men arent more involved in these steps. You see this happen the first time youre much less likely to wanna go through it on your next kid. It also shows how the hate for men and fathers are institutionalized
/r/MensRights07/03/26 02:39 PM
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Was talking with a girl for about a week. Online dating. We had a lot of sexual talks and decided we would hook up. Had sex i left. It was fun but a girl like that im not looking to take seriously. She starts messaging me saying she just didnt want to be uust a hook up. Then it was she thought it was too rough. Then it turned into it shouldn't have happened and she didn't want to. I kinda just stopped engaging with her and then a week or two later shes messaging me to come back over and hookup a…
/r/MensRights09/01/26 09:18 AM
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Dip your toe in r/womendatingoverforty and you'll see true misandry
/r/MensRights22/11/25 05:13 PM
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Are we talking about access to sex or wife material? Because there are ugly over weight chicks with thousands of likes and matches on Tinder that get ran through. In western and modern society women are the gatekeepers to sex and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:27 PM
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The issue here is people are having their face, name, location and sometimes more being exposed. Some people stay off the internet and are having that forcefully taken from them. Could lead to stalking, mass harassment etc. Most other forms of this app dont allow you to post personal identifying and doxing information. People are having phone numbers, picture, name and address put in their. Sure if everyone on there was an abuser or something detrimental to society its cool. But people that may …
/r/MensRights31/07/25 06:48 AM
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The app is for doxing men and gossip. Ypull probably find one post related to safety out of every 10,000 about a bad date or someone coming to terms with they was just a fling. If its criminal go to the police. There should be specific categories of assault or negative actions. Not just "hes an asshole". "Hes a cheater"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:07 PM
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The girls loving bad boys thing was always a thing. It's just now being fought so hard because they don't want to admit they are the problem. The term fuck boys came about because those are the guys the women are fucking. They created that archetype. It's just way worst with social media. Admitting it's on them is something they will never do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:12 AM
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This us a ridiculous post that's vastly outdated. If this was made 20-30 years ago sure but not today. Being physically stronger doesn't amount to much when sports are segregated and their are systems in place that stop being strong just meaning you're highly more advantaged. Patriarchy is not really a thing in western society. DEI favors women. Women are still a protected class over men. Women have all the support and lifelines in the world. Men don't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:31 AM
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Because they often don't truly believe in what they say or live by the same codes in which they speak on. They are doing it simply to grift and to be a relatable girl. 90% of the internet is just people saying things they think others will like for social points.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:38 PM
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Your single cuz girls just have better options. It ain't some magic answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:53 PM
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Most men who are married fall in the provider category. If they're working and paying for everything while the woman is the primary caregiver, once the woman has cancer the man is now the sole provider with the excess of medical bills and everything she was in charge of he now is. When men get sick the woman can still be the caregiver and you rarely hear about the woman getting a jump in salary and now being able to take care of all bills and medical expenses without him. As the provider and on …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:03 PM
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Many women gravitate to all the negative traits they condemn in public. It's why that one guy has all the baby mommas. It's why women complain about fuck boys after they let them fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:37 PM
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It's not misunderstood, women just don't want to concede to the truth because it makes them look bad. You hear the rhetoric all the time about how men are dogs and fuck boys, it's just to always avert blame from themselves. Women will in one breath say a man will fuck anything to disparage men and in the same breath want to not be judged for letting a bunch of dudes that'll fuck anything fuck them. Fuck boys are fuck boys because they are fucking. Which means women are into fuck boys. Women don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:15 AM
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That's how they programmed people to think. Just like how abuse from women on men is more acceptable for that same reason. Wrong is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:02 AM
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Fuck boys are called fuck boys because they are fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:43 AM
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Your question is very easy to understand and it's asked at nauseum. Women I fact do desire men with high body count, they just seem to disregard it. A man with attractive qualities and good looks will have a lot of sexual access and typically have a higher body count than a man with unattractive qualities and bad looks. Idk if you even understand what you're saying. Most guys aren't telling their girls they aren't the best sex they've had. They are lying and saying the opposite. Also unless you …
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 12:49 PM
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You discounted everything the guy above just said. Men and women have different values. Women want men with experience and men want women they can coach. Women get upset when they are with an inexperienced guy that can't get them off or please them. Men however typically don't care about a woman's initial skill set at first. Also have been many studies/discussions on how promiscuity effects both genders. There's also the evolutionary aspects and just how our anatomy are. Male species can often b…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 12:25 PM
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Men and women do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:36 PM
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Comes from a place of both emptiness and vanity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:05 PM
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Yall gotta stop asking stupid questions and thinking people will answer honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:26 PM
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Good luck with that these days
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:54 PM
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You talk to most women that were in toxic abusive relationships and they will tell you that shit was addicting and that's why they kept going back. Women rather passion than safe/boredom. Even if that passion is toxic and abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:28 PM
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Fuck boys are a thing because they are fucking. The term wouldn't exist if women weren't fucking these guys and then getting ghosted. The toxic masculine types are what most womengo for. We live in society where people want excitement over stability. It's common these days for someone to break up because their partner was "boring"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:42 PM
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Fetishisising over something and seeking an actual partner ain't the same. Some people watch granny porn. You think someone really wants to marry someone 30 years older? Stop it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:01 PM
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They already are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:52 PM
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Their loneliness is mostly a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:23 AM
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99% of the posts on that sub are baits for attention. Most of the women on there probably have DMs flooded from men on that sub as well as any dating apo they are on. It's pretty easy to see a lot of people that post in there aren't remotely ugly. Some pretty attractive. It's attention bait. I know girls that are conventionally unattractive and they get flooded, so there's no way average and above average girls on there or having zero responses or interactions with men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:54 PM
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Red Pill only gets bad on the extremes like everything else. A lot of the core ideas are solid. Kinda like OP said the more interactions you have with women it kinds just naturally develops. That's what drove me to the red pull. I had a lot of observations and thoughts I just couldn't externalities or put into words. I found out about Patrice O Neal and he was saying everything I was thinking and it just flowed from there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:04 PM
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Most women that claim demi, sapio or anything like that just want to sound special.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:49 PM
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Many women leave decent men because they are "boring". Men are financiers and court jesters
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:58 PM
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Depends on age to me. If she's high 20s to early 30s and still living at home with her parents because she csnt afford to get a roommate or a place of her own that's a red flag for me. If she can't contribute anything of notice financially then home duties gotta be damn near impeccable. Different relationships have different needs. You gotta identify what you need in yours and find someone to provide it. If they are bringing things you don't need then what are they there for in the long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:26 PM
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When did people become do delusional and brainwashed by popculture? If he's given you everything you need/require to the point you want to marry him then why be so insecure that he can still find other people attractive? You've never lo9ked at someone else other than him and thought "he's cute"? Love goes beyond physical attraction and a wandering eye. If he's not acting on the wandering eye and giving you everything then I don't understand the issue
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 07:55 PM
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I feel for you but what does this have to do with being a redpillwoman? Red pill on both sides have turned into people that are just completely lost and don't even know what it means. If you think being belittled, embarrassed and abused has anything to do with being red pilled then I'm sorry someone led you astray. Most posts I see in red pill community for men or women are just some straight toxic shit or people letting themselves be abused. If you need advice on what to do after a man or woman…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 01:16 PM
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Messed around with a friend of a friend and anytime the girl I was messing with was bought up it would be followed with "I hope you guys aren't talking about me". Then further devolved into my friend trying to turn her against me and going on a tirade on how she feels like our friendship has taken a hit/backseat to me and the girl and she feels I used her to fuck her friends. Egos will always be at play
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:11 PM
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Real life is often not that far off. I've gotten numbers/snaps/etc at the gym, bars or store and that doesn't guarantee these women aren't already in relationships or not still swiping on these apps. You just got added to their pot. You get a slight boost possibly. But a MUCH higher chance is debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:04 PM
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People are just going to make excuses for her. She was an adult and made those decisions on her own. There was no duress. She's a woman and attractive. They always get off easier than most
/r/PussyPass03/11/22 03:35 PM
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Healthy is subjective. Many relationships are long term due to one's success because the divorce gappens due to debt and money issues. Character goes out the window when finances are an issue. Many divorces happen from finances, this isn't a personal claim being made but simply a fact about factors that determine if a couple will last. TD Ameritrade has the number at 41% other polls give it 50+. If you think the evidence is irrelevant then you are simply misinformed. Many people of bad character…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:48 PM
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Depends on the level of flexing. I got a boy in IT that's 23 making over 6 figures, just bought a house. Owning a home is a huge flex I'd say. Especially compared to others in his age group. With that same money he coulda got a nice ass car. Coulda wasted it on some trips/vacations or a 400$ steak. Is it enough to be flexing 24/7? No. But it's enough to flex every now and then and that's all you need when you can post to the gram
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:12 PM
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Still think that's false. Women are born with inherent value that they can still enhance. Hence the cosmetic surgery boom. Women are also born with a much lower standard for what is even considered to be valuable. Let's not pretend overweight women, single moms, women that are much older aren't still being wifed up and fought over in the dating market. Something can't be "largely immutable" but then you also say it depreciates. Immutable is unchanging up or down. You also take away from the fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:02 PM
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I wouldn't say all but vast majority mainly due to societal changes that have been to the detriment of both sexes. As to why people still chase? Biology, loneliness could be many reasons. It's like asking someone why they still show up to a job they may dislike. At the end of the day they still need a job, they still gotta play the game. These subs and conversations often go nowhere though because people never want to be truthful about how society is shaping the youth and dating. You go on male …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:49 PM
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The issue is most people take these posts as attacks on them. Just because you may be a woman that cares about a man's character doesn't mean you are the norm. Toxic/abusive relationships are prevalent for a reason. Divorce rates are through the roof for a reason. This is short term and long term relationships. There's a reason why people like Chris brown could go out and will have infinitely more options than a regular guy. There are reasons why there are all these studies that show most women …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:43 PM
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100k in the US puts you in the top 10% of wealth. It's not filthy rich but it's definitely well off compared to most. At that point you're making practically double what the average person is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:35 PM
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This is all false. I won't say all but the VAST majority of people, not just men, appreciate humor and want a partner that can make them laugh. Relationships aren't 1 dimensional though. Cuz I can guarantee if you were with the funniest man in the world but he was broke, fat, ugly, smelled bad and had no ambition you wouldn't stick around. So let's not pretend guys are actively running from humorous women. As far as women insecurities, both parties should be working at it. You have to take agenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:32 PM
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He's literally retarded. Don't even engage man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:27 PM
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This may be the worst arguement I've ever seen. Truly don't even know what you're arguing. If they start with a million and aren't allowed to work they still have a million. They can invest in safe dividends and have enough money to live for life. They can get a couple properties. So many ways to flip and maintain that million. Starting from nothing being homeless, jobless, creditless and unskilled you are infinitely more disadvantaged. Life isn't like the movies. It takes money to make money. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:26 PM
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Women are sought after just for existing. A woman's job is to simply retain their value while a man's is to create his value
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:19 PM
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Yes
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/22 09:25 PM
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It means they want a man to show more emotion about the woman's emotion. It's not about the man being more emotive about his own life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:30 PM
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Idk what this post is even about when there's tons of studies and science that already prove high body counts=less lair bonding
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:11 PM
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This sub is starting to just post extremely obvious things. They go out for attention, post on socials for attention. Wear makeup for attention. Most things most women do are for attention and social validation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:31 PM
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This isn't news. Majority of women have preferred toxic men since the dawn of time. It's why the bad boy trope exists. Why the nice guys finish last thing exists. Why there are so many single moms. Women get attracted to the negative traits while also thinking they can "fix" them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:25 PM
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Literally everything comes down to social media and how it's warped women's perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:07 PM
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It's the only thing that holds them accountable and calls em out on nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:55 PM
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Attracting a man and keeping a man are very different things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:16 PM
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That video has already been debunked. She was lying. Men showed up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:09 PM
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Also I think you don't know the definition of sympathy. Or maybe you just lack it. Sympathy is just what you're describing, feeling or caring for someone that's going through something you haven't yourself. Asking how are women supposed to care is like saying they are not human. Should people who never lost a loved one not care about those that have? Should women that have never been raped not care, u derstand or sympathize with women that have? Should white people not care or support the Civil …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:57 PM
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Men and Women just have different things that factor into happiness I guess. People always want to disregard biological differences and are pushing women to be more like men when its shown that makes them miserable. Professional focused women that dont pursue families are generally unhappy. Here's an article from a psychology newsletter https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america%3famp
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:48 PM
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Men are not sexualized and objectified? The difference is a man can see an "ideal woman" a porn star etc and understand that may be out of his league and settle for something in his realm. Women see that "ideal man" and no matter where she is on the totem pole will believe that's what she "deserves"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:40 PM
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I feel this post encapsulates being clueless and not sympathetic at all. It again jumps to the incel strawman. First off FDS is all about hating men where you have women calling men scrotes. So think of how extra annoying it is to hear about these issues from a privileged class. There's hate on both sides that really aren't warranted and people get so caught up in being offended they often miss the root cause. OP kind of hit on it but yall are creating the incels. This whole post OP laid out in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:37 PM
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Depends on when you were dating. There was a shift not too long ago. Just a few years really. You mightve been dating when things were easier/different. It's sounds like it just from the not shoehorning every person into a relationship because that's almost standard these days
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:09 PM
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There are literally studies that show this. Happiest people are married men and unhappiest are unmarried women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:04 PM
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Set your expectations accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:52 PM
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Dating is a game of luck where the numbers simply aren't in your favor. Play the game enough you may win. But you'll also probably lose a lot. It'll heavily depend on many factors depending on the type of person you are chasing. Location, age, looks, personality, income, free time. You may have all and certain people may still not want to date you for one reason or another. Experience is the greatest teacher. Just go out there and see for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:51 PM
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Women have it so fundamentally different they usually don't or can't understand the issues men have with dating. They often try to push generic platitudes as dating advice which usually just don't work. Its just a different reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:56 PM
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Move on and try to keep the past in the past. As long as you don't have anything following you from then you should be fine. Just don't ever go into great detail about it with your partner unless yall are extremely secure. Hell maybe even not at all
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 05:33 PM
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I don't get why people ask questions like this expecting truthful answers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:18 PM
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You can't. Like you can't talk about most men's issues. It just devolves into the oppression olympics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:07 AM
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Lower your standards. Wether that be looks or accepting someone with a ton of baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:33 PM
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If a man loses his masculinity and becomes more feminine he is deemed weak and a plethora of other bad words. If a women sheds her feminine side and develops more masculine traits she is usually deemed strong, independent, feminist, and a plethora of other positive or neutral traits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:44 AM
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An extensive sexual past is usually an indicator of many other red flags that most wont want to deal with. Some sort of past trauma, lack of self/impulse control, daddy issues, emptiness they try to fill with sex, mental health issues in general, all those partners and nobody wanted to settle with her also may mean there's something bad there not visible on the surface. Someone who's secure, fulfilled, happy and has their life together in general would not have the need to sleep around and have …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:40 AM
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But you are. The women that have bad taste are the ones that are going for the fleeting characteristics like only physical attractiveness. It's a fallacy that people make up to feel better and excuse bad behavior that women hookup with bad dudes but hold out for good guys. Guaranteed if they didn't get ran through they would stay with those guys they hook up with. The reason they hold out on the "good guys" is because they aren't as interested until the guy has to prove himself while the others …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:34 AM
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I lot of this based of nonsense. Many women are with deadbeats. Toxic relationships are likeba drug to many. Women aren't having casual sex with guys they don't think anything of and holding out for guys they think are good. Horrible arguement and a way to validate bad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:47 PM
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Won't argue that but then where are the statistics of women that do use them compared to women that don't in regards to assault, rape, etc? The sample size is smaller but not insignificant and there should be a proportionate stat. Dating or not with most violent crimes the perpetrator is usually within the circle, male or female. I don't believe there's this wide ranging epidemic of rapes and assaults stemming from OLD that overshadow the proportion of those that come from within social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:48 PM
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It would be proportionate to the numbers. Women are still dating so the number would be proportionate to the amount. I'm not sure where this evidence is coming from either. Both genders are extremely careless about meeting people. Not sure how old you are or when you've been in the dating market but it isn't uncommon for people to meet first time at one or the others place of residence. The caution or carelessness about meeting often goes right out the window if there is any sort of attraction a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:42 PM
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Yeah I wonder what the statistics are on this because everyone keeps saying this to make it seem like women have such a hard time dating because of it. If there are no statistics and OP is simply referencing the fear of these things happening and not them actually happening then it's a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:38 PM
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Not always. I've seen it rationalized as the man is paying to even have access to her time. Not paying because they are superior but paying because they are inferior and that monetary incentive and free food is the only reason to give it a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:21 PM
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Lots of lost souls of all ages
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:38 PM
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Usually sunk cost fallacy. They ignore what's there and see what they want. Thinking they can fix or change someone instead of accepting who they are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:20 AM
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Gotta fix that. Get some of the venom out of ya
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:17 PM
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I respect it. How's that working out for ya? What's your cats names?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:11 PM
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You actively pass comments? Wtf are you talking about. And all of your posts are seeping with mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:10 PM
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Oh man so clever love. You pick that one up in Jr high? Or you some middle aged lonely cat last still stuck with the mind of a child
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:09 PM
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Oh come on now sweet heart. You're not lurking if your actively posting shit that feeds into their echo chamber of nonsense. You are an active participant of that cesspool. And some others from your post history. Just embrace it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:08 PM
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I had an actual response. You did not. Soooo nah not like me. Good try though sugar tits
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:05 PM
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So you're just a troll? FDS and incels are so interesting. Self absorbed and with over self worth. Living in highly delusional echo chambers. Yall are like climate change deniers or flat earthers. Possibly worse. I would love to sit in one of yall therapy sessions and just see all the crazy come out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:04 PM
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Lol you didn't call anything. Anyone can pull random shit out they ass and say nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:02 PM
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Oh nevermind you are very delusional just going off your post history. You're one of those gals that live in the fds echochamber
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:05 PM
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You sound delusional. If you don't tell people the truth then they will continue to make the same mistakes and fall into the same patterns. You are the sole factor in the situations that you're in. If you're bringing nothing to the table but sex and using sex to entice someone in the first place then of course you're going to be used and wanted for nothing but sex.i don't know why people like you get all offended by basic shit. If you feel like you're getting used for sex then gee idk stop sleep…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:03 PM
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I tell my female friends this all the time but they think I'm being mean. If you consistently only get used for sex then you kinda gotta take a step back and see why that is. If you were offering more they wanted there would be more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:07 AM
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