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FundamentalsObjectSpirited494/r/seduction14/06/21 05:55 PM
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ObjectSpirited494/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:23 PM
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ConversationObjectSpirited494/r/seduction02/05/21 09:21 PM
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Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too BroadObjectSpirited494/r/seduction02/05/21 07:59 PM
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-1

Alot of gym girls have an extra attitude because they have a good body and they know it
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:29 PM
19

Number 1 skill is eye contact
/r/seduction20/08/21 07:39 PM
-4

'Thirsty' is a nonsense term
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:29 AM
-5

Not true
/r/seduction19/08/21 12:29 AM
5

It's highly subjective. Women like Scarlet, Margot don't wake up like that. Alot of '10' have had surgery how ever minor. What makes a woman a 10 is her social status, not her beauty in my opinion. Most women are an adjustable 6-8, with the right make up, clothing and femininity.
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:58 PM
14

Make sure you get her signature, passport, driving licence also
/r/seduction15/08/21 12:15 AM
3

Based on what I have seen and heard, none
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:48 PM
12

You sound like a 12 year old high on sugar
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:24 PM
0

I agree
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:38 AM
2

The perspective is is extremely narrow minded and does not take into account many different factors. If we take texts for example, texts can be automatically generated, you can text while doing other things, hell she can text while on the d1ck of another man! So how much interest can one gauge from a girl replying to a text?
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:43 AM
2

So called valuable girls (so called models, IG girls, social influencers) nothing but time on thier hands and they expect you to pay for thier time.
/r/seduction01/08/21 11:56 PM
43

First, I never said I had any issues at all with her, or she had any issue with me. Second, dating a heath worker during the biggest global heath crisis in a generation is not easy, regardless. Your blanket OP doesn't take into account the nuances of professional people, jobs, cultures, religion, family, health and many other factors that cause many women to say the are 'busy'
/r/seduction01/08/21 11:25 PM
98

Not necessarily, I was dating a nurse. Especially during last year when covid was worse, her schedule was extremely hectic. 'Busy can mean alot of things, just use some logic, intuition and common sense.
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:40 PM
6

I have seen men with all four fail, and those with none succed. I will say one thing you need is perseverance, because you will get rejected. Its about what you do after.
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:20 PM
3

Years of practice. A woman that wants a man just for money, will show her hand pretty quickly if you know what to look for.
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:09 PM
4

I'm in my 30s, the good thing is when I approach the 9s and 10s I can work out pretty quickly what kind of man they want. The good news is alot of them simply want a nice respectful guy.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:04 AM
39

If you are taking about nightgame specifically its alot easier, alot of women are already in thier sexual frame already. Hair, male up, dress etc. Dancing is a good way to esculate.
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:58 AM
9

Money, looks, height, charm, dick size, charisma, high school sweethearts, friends with benefits.... from the outside it could be anything. Its best not to assume how / why people are together, just focus on you.
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:07 AM
1

Only the 8s, 9s, 10s would notice, the top 15-20% of women worldwide. They would probably initiate more.
/r/seduction30/07/21 04:32 PM
2

For some women, rubbing the clit is like a cheat code for gaurenteed orgasm.
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:57 PM
1

Develop hobbies, interests, passion for something. Music, arts, films, sports anything. Find like minded friends, improving your social circle
/r/seduction27/07/21 05:37 PM
3

I always open indirect, a comment of what is wearing, what she is doing, if she is in a coffee shop reading a book, I'll comment on the book. Things like that. And eye contact is important, it's more important than what you say
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:32 PM
5

In my experiences festivals
/r/seduction27/07/21 12:30 PM
5

Cold approach has no age limit, prime age, perfect age, average age. I'm in my 30s, never did any in my 20s due to confidence issues.
/r/seduction27/07/21 12:26 PM
3

Gotta get back training. Like any athlete, you don't wake up in peak physical and mental condition. What ever you were doing before, you need get back at it. Gym, diet, hobbies, cold approaches etc.
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:06 PM
29

Curiosity, potential
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:55 PM
1

Very specific, yet very random. Never had this problem. Depends what kind of class of women you are dealing with. Personally I don't differ my flirting based on race, all women respond to a confident, respectable men in more or less the same way.
/r/seduction15/07/21 06:21 PM
2

Be rich
/r/seduction14/07/21 10:34 AM
1

Maybe, if you buy her enough gifts
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:53 AM
2

Completely different. Just look at the girls in the pop and rnb music video in the 90s vs now. Massive difference.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:42 AM
1

Excellent point. BBL has become one of the worlds top surgeries now.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:35 AM
8

That's fair enough. But to come on here like a giddy school boy high on sugar, fawning over women for features that other women have is funny to me that's all. It's like getting excited for PS2.... some of been playing PS2 for years it's not big deal.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:34 AM
8

Black, Latin and Arab women been having ass since before it was popular.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:26 AM
0

No
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:37 PM
2

Per 10 approaches, 7 or 8/10 I close with numbers, Instagram, email etc. Of those 5 are usually 'dates'. of those 5, 4 or 3 leads to sex
/r/seduction13/07/21 01:17 PM
1

Interesting
/r/seduction13/07/21 01:14 PM
5

Mastering eye contact
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:02 AM
8

Well its up to him
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:59 AM
27

Listen, pay attention to cues, be ready to do something you might not want to do. Don't assume every girl wants to be fucked the same.
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:59 PM
9

Improve with people, then focus on girls
/r/seduction11/07/21 01:40 AM
1

Dating coach is a misnomer, you can't coach someone to date. However, he she may be able to improve your social skills, styles and help you in ideas and places to meet women
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:50 PM
2

Precisely what I was coming here to say
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:49 PM
4

Interesting philosophy
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:44 PM
1

That's bs
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:38 PM
2

Teeth and nails is a massive. Consistently, women who are 9s and 10s will all mention what they like in a guy, nice smile aka good teeth. It's a massive indicator of hygiene.
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:46 PM
4

Peer pressure is a mother.... Im the same age as you, depending on what kind of girl she is we would be in a relationship or just casual sex. Too young, too old...irrelevant. You are two consenting adults.
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:41 PM
11

At that age I didn't really 'approach' pe se. It just mutual connection as young people, I can't really explain it. We hang out at lunch, go home together, things like that. HR doesn't need to know, nobody does. It depends on your mentality, I have no problem seeing someone I had casual sex with. But at that age, I was leaving jobs quite quickly. They were just low paid retail jobs and weekend work. I didn't want to be there, the girls didn't want to be there. Losing the job wasn't the end of th…
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:35 AM
12

My peak years were 18-25. Nearly all were co worker's or fellow students.
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:28 PM
1

Quality is better than quantity
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:19 PM
2

The only PUA book I read was the mystery method, it definitely helped.
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:22 AM
5

It doesn't become easier, you become better. Cold approach is never easy, but experience and confidence will make it better.
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:20 AM
1

I'm not taking about age, I'm taking about environment. Depending on your environment, the mentally of women change dramatically. Race, height, cars are less relevant when dealing with quality women.
/r/seduction06/07/21 09:18 PM
2

As a Black guy from the UK, I don't let race affect me to point where I doubt myself. However Arab and Asian women have a clear preference for white men for what ever reason and that will not change. But having said all that the game of Seduction is not played in textbooks or racial studies and I have have dated all women. As an individual, I'm confident of pulling any woman. Keep pushing yourself, hobbies, career, job, friends to the best you can and the women will notice. Cliche but true, your…
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:34 PM
4

Health > family > job / career / money > friends > travelling > hobbies > girls
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:09 PM
1

It means no sexual attraction was generated
/r/seduction05/07/21 01:07 PM
2

They are ',easier', thier SMV is lower and they know it. They don't have the luxury of relying on thier youth and looks to entice men. Having said that I went through a mlif / cougar phase. They are more mature, engaging and confident then thier 20s counterparts. Women in thier 20s 9/10 have nothing to offer other than thier looks. Older women you can have guinunely thought provoking, interesting conversations and fun relationships if you are that way inclined. There is also less bullshit, if th…
/r/seduction05/07/21 12:19 AM
5

Good advice but personally I don't get caught up in trying to remember 'tips' and 'fundamentals'. Like sports, anything can change in a second. Being dynamic is important.
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:09 PM
1

Ah yes. Many ways to do it.
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:40 PM
2

Why is that, I'm dead serious
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:28 PM
2

Believe then achieve
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:28 PM
2

Your attitude seems wrong. You need to work on yourself first.
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:54 AM
63

You use one against the other or you get both to invest see who is more receptive. Not impossible, but tricky
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:53 AM
2

It does work.
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:49 AM
2

Depends where you live and where you want to go. I live in the UK, I can be in Paris in 2 hours for £100 or less, which is nothing. From there I can be in any European capital quite cheaply. You don't need to be a high earner to travel.
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:53 AM
3

Yes there is. But it's far deeper than looks and social status. Generally people date on thier level / league, especially women. Women don't date 'down'. Someone like Beyonce won't date a guy that works in Burger King. No matter how tight is game.
/r/seduction28/06/21 09:00 PM
2

First then I did changed my job. New people, new environment and most importantly new women.
/r/seduction26/06/21 11:52 PM
16

You have a 42% success rate. With MANY variables. It is not an exact science, some days will be better than others. But your success rate will be 0% if don't approach.
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:11 PM
4

In my 20s I was the nice guy, the best friend, the 'you're like a brother '. I watched as all my male co worker's and friends causally bagged 8s, 9s and 10s. I would listen to girls moan about thier boyfriends to me....'I wish they were more like you'. Fast forward 10 years, I studied 'the game', I'm still a student but I would say I'm intermediate / advanced. I changed my habits, lifestyle, job. I still get AA, but I'm bagging 8s, 9s, and 10s. I am now sexually desirable by women, not just a do…
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:07 PM
1

I always use phones, paper just seem so ghetto, almost unprofessional. Plus it's likely to get lost. If she is interested, I'll put my number in hers or pull out my phone and she can put her number in mine.
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:51 PM
1

Eye contact
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:46 PM
5

Why are you ashamed? Plausible deninabillity? Will that apply in the bedroom too? Ridiculous
/r/seduction22/06/21 01:14 PM
2

Cocky is putting your accomplishments, achievements and material things first. Confidence is putting yourself first and letting your accomplishments, achievements and material things speak for you.
/r/seduction21/06/21 11:47 PM
2

I have no idea, maybe it's fake. I don't watch enough to know.
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:54 PM
4

I did very light daygame in Medellín 4 years ago. I wouldn't risk nightgame, I have heard the same stories. It's a shame because the women are stunning.
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:44 PM
1

Is there a reason?
/r/seduction18/06/21 06:39 PM
2

Men should pay, not because thier men.....but you 99/100 you are asking her out. She is giving up her time for you. It's an old an antiquated 'rule' of dating unfortunately. I always pay.
/r/seduction18/06/21 06:23 PM
4

Women are everywhere
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:59 PM
3

Energy, spirt, aura are very vague words. Unless you can quickly and consistently back it up, to make sure its tailored specifically to the girl you are speaking too.
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:28 PM
1

I had similar is issues before. Beautiful Lebanese girl, I has to close early. The conversation went way left about God and reincarnation, I had to close early with just the Instagram.
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:05 PM
4

She only gave you the instragam to be polite probably. Overly deep conversations about life, existence, religion and so forth don't usually bode well for Attraction / Seduction.
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:56 PM
7

You sound young, I went through the exact same thing. But if you stay on your grind, look after yourself things will improve
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:47 PM
10

Personally I find it better to be more observational. Say you like something that that she is wearing, eye color, hair style, jewelry etc. She is more likely to believe it, as you are nice / pretty / beautiful she has more than likely heard a million times.
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:44 PM
2

Depends on the context. Age, family, culture, religion can play a part in things like that. It's happened to me a few times.
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:00 AM
4

Daygame is essential, you want that cute blonde in the red dress? You have to approach.
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:30 PM
3

What was the context of the conversation?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:47 PM
20

You are going from zero to hundred to quickly. Improve your social skills with people in general, get hobbies that are interactive with other people.
/r/seduction17/06/21 02:15 PM
0

It's a fantasy for most. Older women, quick lay. Most men also assume older women are somehow automatically more mature. I prefer younger women, younger women prefer me. Society and biology dictate this.
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:58 PM
3

Direct approach usually works better during nightgame. I stopped nightgame for various reasons. All of my approaches are done during daygame, indirect. For me its better results.
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:54 PM
2

To be honest all pua books are the same. You should be reading things like The Art Of War.
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:41 PM
1

You have to be an attractive person. Be passionate about your hobbies, take care of yourself be a fun person to be around
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:24 PM
1

We have it 1000% harder in the pick up game
/r/seduction17/06/21 03:34 AM
-1

Why do you want to be a player?
/r/seduction17/06/21 03:00 AM
4

Population
/r/seduction16/06/21 07:42 PM
1

If enough sexual attraction is built, the kiss will feel natural on both sides
/r/seduction16/06/21 07:26 PM
1

9/10 once you are in the friend zone, its over. Unless you separate for a good few months even years, the attraction is simply not there. See doesn't see you as a sexually attractive man, she sees you as a brother especially.
/r/seduction16/06/21 07:21 PM
4

Well what ever you do, that's opening
/r/seduction16/06/21 12:07 PM
4

You see a woman on the street, beautiful. How do you approach her?
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:27 AM
1

I have has success on Instagram, but it's wild and erratic would not recommend
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:02 AM
11

Attraction is not always physical, especially for women. Remember that. The way you articulate yourself, your demeanour, even your accent can attract women.
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:01 AM
4

Opening & closing, direct or indirect. The stuff you have so far on the list is all mid game
/r/seduction16/06/21 10:59 AM
20

You sound like a fan of hers
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:35 PM
2

No doubt having female friends is a bonus. They can be a great pre selection assessment. They can help bridge the gap in opening, the can help in social skills.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:00 PM
2

Daygame, cold approach, in direct openers.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:39 PM
11

Cougars are very young mentally. They are 20 year olds trapped in a 40 year old body. they chase younger men to recapture thier youth, or just to get fucked by young guys. They have a low SMV and they know it. If you are just looking for sex, that's the way to go.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:16 PM
7

It depends. If she is a 'Cougar' or she is a woman you met that happens to be older. There is a difference
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:09 PM
1

What is the context of this question? What are you looking for exactly? Relationship? One night stand?
/r/seduction15/06/21 04:35 PM
3

Don't underestimate the power of eye contact, I did at first
/r/seduction15/06/21 04:26 PM
5

I agree, but it shouldn't be made into such a big thing. Approaching women should be like charging your phone, getting on a bus, going to the gym.....no big deal, its just something you do. I know its not the same for all and it's easier said then done.
/r/seduction15/06/21 03:17 PM
1

Well if you follow the 80:20 rule, let her do most of the speaking if she is into you.
/r/seduction15/06/21 03:13 PM
3

There is no minimum or maximum, it really does depend on so many things.
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:00 AM
2

Personally, scripted or canned openers are not for me. I don't usually go direct either but it depends. We have met up since a few times.
/r/seduction15/06/21 01:41 AM
2

I didn't say anything, didn't even say it way wrong. I have no sisters, I don't think I'm missed out on anything in terms of dealing with women.
/r/seduction15/06/21 01:38 AM
0

I have heard that, a gross over simplication.
/r/seduction15/06/21 01:29 AM
4

Well, for me observation is key. She was by herself, her laptop was on but she wasn't using it. I noticed on the table she had a book... The Devil Wears Prada. Now, I have a vague knowledge of the film but I'm by no means an expert....so that was my in. So I stood up, calmly approached and I said "Have you seen the film?" In the 30 seconds or so it took for her to say her response, I pulled up a chair sat next to her....we spoke about book to film adaptations, general chit chat (where we are fro…
/r/seduction15/06/21 01:18 AM
1

8 or 9 million according to Google
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:17 AM
1

Alot.
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:13 AM
1

Never happened to me.
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:05 AM
3

I don't, it's that very extra energy that I need to do daygame and approach women
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:05 PM
1

Porn ED
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:14 PM
4

Seduction for me anyway is more like sports than sales. Having a script is fine, if you know what the other person is going to say. I can be quite robotic as you are treating everyone the same. Sports is more dynamic, you change and adapt on the fly according to situation and you have tactics for every situation.
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:49 PM
0

You mean practice on female friends?
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:17 PM
3

Well, I'm in London right. If you have never been, trust me when I say every race, nationality and culture is here. You can speak to woman from Spain, the next woman will be Lebanese, next Swedish......So I'm leaning towards conversion around her origin country. Typically I will try and guess where she is from, or a comment on her exotic looks or accent. If she is native it's improvsied 100%
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:16 PM
9

Yes and no. You are assuming your Female friend has the same taste as you. Female friends often will try and hook you up with who they think you want, not what you want. However, if you are on the same page, she can be a great pre selection asset.
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:02 PM
1

Sure
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:22 AM
1

I have no idea about PrEP. Personally the worst thing I have caught from a woman is a serious cold. In my experience I find that girls 18- 25 sleep around more than 25+. I'm looking for 25+, usually they are quite 'adult' about things, because let's be honest nobody wants HIV, but they want a good time.
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:01 AM
8

I stopped Nightgame specifically because of alcohol, either on my part or hers. Stone cold sober daygame, now that the days are getting longer, sun is out is the way to go. Daygame, depending on how early I wake up and job commitments, I can do 10-20 approaches a day. Anywhere from a train station, bus stop, shop, on the street. My last successful one she was sitting in a coffee shop by herself, I simply had to approach
/r/seduction14/06/21 07:49 AM
2

Typical daygame, I'm always strapped up. If we decide to be exclusive or in a LTR, then I bring up STD testing.
/r/seduction14/06/21 07:42 AM
-2

100%. The term now is men of high value. Basically means rich.
/r/seduction14/06/21 12:21 AM
25

Eye contact. It improved everything for me. Do not underestimate looking a woman directly in the eyes, its powerful.
/r/seduction13/06/21 09:00 PM
1

What ever comes natural, ask her name, compliment, joke. There is no set thing to say
/r/seduction12/06/21 08:33 PM
16

Women that say ewww, you probably want to stay away from anyway
/r/seduction12/06/21 08:32 AM
6

Never to late. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:22 AM
1

Fitted, clean plain clothing, no religious or sporting attire. Usually jeans, white t shirt / shirts.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:03 AM
1

You are going to get days like that. Just keep focused. You will get nervous if the girl is 10/10, it happens. Believe it or not, hot girls don't get approached that much. Be confident and consistent. Do at least 1-3 a day. It doesn't have to be an approach, if she has a nice dress on, tell her. Then walk away. If you think things are not working. Don't be afraid to switch it up
/r/seduction12/06/21 12:23 AM
1

Nothing you can do, if you hate women then you hate women.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:58 PM
2

Depends, what one considers 'alot'.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 12:43 AM
8

You are in the wrong place
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:21 AM
2

I have noticed, the ho years the dick can be any colour. But in the end, she usually marries white
/r/askTRP24/05/21 07:27 AM
1

Bang, move on
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:07 AM
1

In the animal kingdom certain species are Alphas or Apex Predators, top of the food chain. Lions, for example. But that's more because of size, strength and brute force.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 12:31 AM
1

If is not genetic, its social, environmental
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:16 PM
1

It's not genetic
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:04 PM
1

If its strictly about getting laid, women who are in thier 40s are amazing for me. Im in my 20s It seems to be a natural connection, for me anyway. cold approach, direct openers. The sex is fantastic, they are not as emotional as thier 20s counterparts, straight to the point.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:14 PM
7

What if that bitch is his wife?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:32 PM
7

Never
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:49 PM
2

Depends, the game is fluid, different variables on the night can change things. It's about how you adapt.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 01:46 AM
1

Never stick you dick in crazy.... I can attest to that. Many dudes my age loves older women, as do I. But there is a habit guys have that they are this perfect speicem of women. I was fucking a 46 year old for weeks, divorced twice, sex was off the scale but it turns out she was batshit crazy.
/r/seduction18/05/21 12:34 PM
2

Ok
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:17 AM
1

Sometime, don't knock it until you try it
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:16 AM
3

Not necessarily. Rejection can be complex
/r/askTRP17/05/21 02:00 AM
-2

Escort are good option
/r/askTRP16/05/21 07:28 PM
2

It's a abstract concept, I don't really follow it
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:56 AM
5

Collect the stones, rebalance the world
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:26 AM
8

In your circle of friends maybe, not mine.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:46 PM
5

So many reason, work, money, social status, mentality, attitude, fitness. Usually all are in a better place at 30 than 20.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:34 PM
1

I know what you mean
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:55 AM
1

They do have bigger dicks, let's be real
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:54 AM
4

Personally it makes no difference to me. I do cold approach, direct openers. The masks, we can even make jokes about it. Its all in the eyes, tone of voice and body language.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:13 PM
1

I second that
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:11 PM
0

No condom, lots of lube
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:42 PM
1

Why do you hate it?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:36 PM
1

Have you?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:04 PM
14

In my experience, Asian girls are the tightest.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:42 PM
4

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Good luck, son
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:53 PM
1

If you value the friendship don't bother, from day one you should of shown your interest
/r/seduction11/05/21 12:46 PM
1

Alot of 'men' out here are like this
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:42 PM
1

I'm a cold approach, direct opener kinda guy. Long hours, too tired, not enough money, too short......... there is always an excuse for something.
/r/seduction10/05/21 10:05 PM
1

Some men have such limited mindset. There is no place that exists saying 'meet women here'. Women are EVERYWHERE.
/r/seduction10/05/21 09:43 PM
3

From when you leave your house to when you come back, literally anywhere
/r/seduction10/05/21 09:17 PM
5

Then your job is the least of your worries
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:59 PM
1

Good stuff
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:53 PM
2

Certain types of women (gold diggers, h0es, jump off's) then that's probably true. I'm guessing you don't want those types of women anyway. A good woman will be attracted to a honest, hard working man.
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:50 PM
2

The word 'date' puts alot of pressure on things. However, what ever date you want to organise, make sure to pick her up in what ever transport of your choice (or walk). After all is done, drop her home, if enough attraction is built she will invite you in 99/100.
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:47 PM
6

Any man can attract any woman, regardless of profession
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:42 PM
1

Sure
/r/askTRP10/05/21 05:37 PM
1

Not really men becoming weak, being a h0e is not as bad as it used to be. Just cold approach, direct openers.... stay wrapped up, have fun. What mind of women are you looking for? Does race matter? Where in the UK are? You can pm if you want if you don't want to answer here
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:02 PM
4

Sexual liberation mixed with a bratty feminist I can do what I want attitude. Alot if these girls have dudes on the side, don't think you are the only one breaking her back, but it's like I said, it depends what you want.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:53 PM
2

These women are perfect for FWB, but you and about 5 other dudes will be hitting it. You don't need social media at, cold approach, direct openers is all you need. These women are perfect for that. I live in UK also, but it's not a UK problem, its a western problem.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:47 PM
2

Like the NYPD, I stay strapped, son. Even though its hard (literally) and some of these women look so good, I have had 3 pregnancy scares at a young age.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:25 PM
3

Depends what kind of women you are looking for. Those don't sound like the women most men are looking for. Leave them be, let them have thier fun. When they reach 40 -50, no man, no marriage, children, wasted youth... then they will stop thier fun
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:19 PM
2

Eye contact. The eyes are the window to the soul, with or without a mask you can tell everything she is thinking through eye contact.... or lack of it
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:10 PM
2

Well said, now I think about it, same with me
/r/seduction10/05/21 12:45 PM
-3

People like you are the reason low self esteem. If you don't consider yourself a prize, don't put People down that do
/r/seduction10/05/21 12:42 PM
1

So what do you then?
/r/seduction10/05/21 12:39 PM
151

You are the catch you are the prize. Rejection is part of cold approach, its inevitable. But you are already doing better than 99% of men who don't approach, be the 1%
/r/seduction10/05/21 02:12 AM
8

9/10 I'm using direct approach. Direct approach at times can meet with instant rejection. When you walk up to a woman and reveal romantic interest in her, you force her to make an instant choice of flirting back or reject you. It's high risk, high reward. I prefer this. I do indirect approach, very rarely. It buys me time under the pretext of normal conversation. But I'd rather her know I'm interested. Indirect approach if done right ensures that everyone will have a good time even if the approa…
/r/seduction09/05/21 06:46 PM
1

Ha why not. Life is way to short, you gotta live it as best you can. I have been doing cold approach before I even knew what cold approach was. Sexual desire, direction, passion and confidence is a amazing combination when used properly.
/r/seduction09/05/21 01:18 AM
2

You need balls, big balls. You see that cute little blonde in the coffee shop, sitting by herself drinking coffee...are you going to walk away? Or are you going to approach her, see what book she is reading?
/r/seduction09/05/21 01:08 AM
1

Height, V taper, shoulders. In today's world social status more than anything
/r/seduction05/05/21 06:01 PM
3

The title..... im just here for the answers
/r/seduction05/05/21 05:58 PM
0

Nothing wrong with approaching women wherever you you see them. Nothing wrong with cold approach. But 'Pick Up' has not always been creepy. It used to factor in things like self improvement, health, improving social networking. Now it's just a bunch of horny guys, telling a bunch of desperate guys (mainly) YouTube how to kiss women, charging $$$$. Alot of these guys have thier 15 minutes of fame, then another one pops up, then another...... to point where many are find out to be using actors.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:55 AM
1

You put it in her stomach, she won't forget it
/r/seduction04/05/21 04:06 PM
1

You lost your money, get over it.
/r/seduction04/05/21 03:45 PM
1

You realise that you are paying 400 for a BJ at this point.....
/r/seduction04/05/21 03:34 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/seduction04/05/21 03:23 PM
6

That's too far dude, I can see why she left you if this is your attitude
/r/seduction04/05/21 03:14 PM
1

You can meet women literally any where you go, there is not a select or special places. It depends on your mindset.
/r/seduction04/05/21 12:54 AM
0

For the purpose of the discussion, I'm using 'western' as pretty much North American. Women who adopt culture, fashion, language, music, ideologies from America. I don't class European women as Western per se as historically and culturally there are differences between white native American and white native European women. However, most Western women are feminists to some extent. Many are self proclaimed, many are through association because their favourite celebrities are. It can be very subtle…
/r/seduction04/05/21 12:51 AM
6

I live in England, 100% women who are not from the West or Westernised are nicer. Western women are seemingly feminist from birth and are anti man then ever before. European women raised in European have a more calm feminine demnour. From my experience the women on average that have the trinity of things are Arab women, beauty, femininity and personality.
/r/seduction04/05/21 12:26 AM
1

Between 18-30, I felt exactly how you felt. But I kept my head down, improving myself, improving my mind body spirt, credit scoring, Jon prospects... the higher I went, the less competition I had from other men and the more access to women I had
/r/seduction03/05/21 11:39 PM
1

Focus on yourself, you sound like you are an excellent place in life. Keep on your trajectory and less and less quality men will be in your way and more and more quality women. They will be after you, trust me. I was in your shoes
/r/seduction03/05/21 10:13 PM
2

Depends, if you are at her place, your place, neutral place
/r/seduction03/05/21 10:09 PM
1

Every big city is the same. Women are having kids younger, the state helps women more with kids, no social stigma about being a single mom, women making horrible choices in men PLUS people are getting married younger and having more kids
/r/seduction03/05/21 10:06 PM
1

They are not emotionally involved with the guy, women cheat because of emotion.
/r/seduction03/05/21 10:02 PM
2

Fantastic post
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:05 PM
1

You think Bill Gates was thinking about pussy when he invented Microsoft? You think Neil Armstrong was thinking about pussy when he was walking on the moon? I'm talking about high value men, billionaires. Pussy will come to them no problem. I'm not talking about Derek who works in accounting who wants to fuck Amy at the Christmas party, those kind of men think about pussy every second. In talking men who have / can change the world.
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:56 PM
1

No they don't what?
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:50 PM
2

Well, I see what you are saying. But men are not motivated by women for the most part. Space exploration, inventions, wars, medical breakthroughs, buliding skyscrapers.......things of this nature have nothing to do with women. Man wants to advance the world, for everyone, not just women.
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:40 PM
2

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/r/seduction03/05/21 11:55 AM
1

Sure, but my social doesn't benefit me at all in approaching women. My friends and dating life don't mix. However, women do appreciate a strong social circle if the relationship gets serious. It let's them know you are not a loner weirdo. Be happy with who you are, nobody is perfect. Develop hobbies and be passionate about them. Passion is an underrated quality in attracting women. And you see what you want, go for it. You will get rejected, many times, but keep going
/r/seduction03/05/21 11:34 AM
1

If you live in the UK, I can tell you where to buy them, 100% legally.
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:42 AM
1

That's true. Tell her something sincere, if she has nice eyes.... then tell her she has nice eyes. You don't have to be 'blunt' per se, but let her know that you are interested in her
/r/seduction03/05/21 03:16 AM
1

Let her know that you're interested, in a flirty way. Be strong, sincere but cool. If not she will put you in the friend zone QUICKLY. Hang out after work, walk home with her, go on lunch with her if possible.
/r/seduction03/05/21 03:11 AM
21

I don't date friends of friends, I don't date co worker's. Friends often misjudge what you like with what they THINK is best for you. Those can be two wildly different things. Most of my friends are female, they are ALWAYS recommending thier friends to me. My social circle is strong but small. For me, I see a woman I like on the street/bar/club/shop wherever, I approach, no hesitation
/r/seduction03/05/21 02:55 AM
0

I see what you are saying, I don't take it as gospel or treat it as a bible. Like anything, you take what you need and leave the rest. Back when 'pick up' was less commercial.... and before everyone on YouTube is claiming to be pick up expert and sell you everything, it was a good entry point for me and proved successful.
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:21 PM
3

Agree. 3% chance of something, is better than 0% chance of nothing.
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:13 PM
3

That's why you focus on the 3%, nothing is impossible
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:06 PM
2

England is exactly the same
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:03 PM
0

Not honest and genuine? It sense is it not? What is?
/r/seduction02/05/21 10:59 PM
1

His name is Erik Von Markovik
/r/seduction02/05/21 10:53 PM
1

Depends what you class as 'hot', your age, what you want in a woman, and if you want a long or term relationship.
/r/seduction02/05/21 09:51 PM
2

You didn't build enough Seduction or possibly the conversion was to 'comfortable' like chat enough friends, not enough attraction.... without seeing you in action, its hard to say exactly.
/r/seduction02/05/21 09:35 PM
4

Agree
/r/seduction02/05/21 09:22 PM
24

Alot, like alot BUT high risk high reward. I met all my girlfriends doing cold approach.
/r/seduction02/05/21 07:54 PM
2

The harsh truth is you need to get over it, or you will die a virgin. Keep yourself inshape, get a good job, have a good social network, get and delvolp hippies, talk to any girls and anything. Easier said then done, inbox me for me details I went through the same thing
/r/seduction02/05/21 07:51 PM
2

Let her know straight away you are interested in her sexually, otherwise she will put you in friend zone quickly
/r/seduction02/05/21 07:46 PM
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