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ObjectionTrue/r/RPChristians10/05/23 02:26 PM
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ObjectionTrue/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/19 07:12 PM
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Your immediate problem is that you are looking at this from the wrong end. You are asking, "Will I get sex from my wife at my age if I put in the required work?" You see your focus is your wife, which is wrong. The focus you should have is "Will I become a better man at my age if I start on this journey?"" Do you see the difference? You don't need your wife to fuck you, you need to become the man woman want to fuck. Get out of your wife's frame. I'm 61. I discovered MRP about 5 years ago. Since …
/r/askMRP09/09/24 10:08 PM
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Really not "reading in" much at all, just drawing obvious inferences from human, female nature. Whenever women undress, they are very conscious about not being seen. Do you think Bathsheba could not see the roof of the king's palace and did not know the King would walk up there? Additionally, she became pregnant from her adultery with David, so we know she was ovulating. Women are much more likely to engage in prohibited sex during ovulation. Bathsheba is one of the central characters in the sto…
/r/RPChristians29/01/24 09:51 PM
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"Cultures have always had a preferred sex. In some eras, men are celebrated; in others, it is women. There is no equality in prosperous cultures, only a cooperation where one sex recognizes the superiority of the other. To realize which culture you live in, ask yourself who it is more acceptable to criticize. The sex it is least acceptable to criticize is that culture's preferred sex."
/r/RPChristians27/01/24 09:46 PM
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Oh, Alpha Bunny, that's nothing. When I taught men in my Church Men's Retreat, I said Bathsheba, who was in her fertile window, was purposely making herself visible to David (hypergamy), did not resist him at all, was later shown to be calculating, etc. There's no way she didn't realize she could be seen bathing, as women by nature are very careful.about not being seen by any (Beta) males, but will reveal themselves to the Alpha male. Additionally, loyalty is a male trait, not a female trait. Sa…
/r/RPChristians27/01/24 04:45 PM
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Women make rules for Betas and break rules for Alphas . . .
/r/RPChristians17/01/24 04:26 AM
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That article is good; I like this from it (referring to submission of a wife to husband): "Stop rebelling against me and lie, saying you submit to God. You submit to me only when you agree, but true submission is when we disagree." After my teaching at the retreat, one of the persons who complained said, in writing, that one of the shocking things I taught was that wives should submit to their husbands "even if they disagree!" In reply, I pointed out that submission occurs ONLY when there is dis…
/r/RPChristians17/01/24 04:07 AM
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Send him to military boarding school. I did with my son 10, 11 & 12th grade. He grew up, learned to fight, learned to lead, learned discipline. Best thing to ever happen to him, even he says that. Mommas are going to coddle and baby their boy no matter the age. Camden Military Academy starts in 7th grade.
/r/askMRP16/01/24 04:51 PM
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A few years ago, I was the speaker for our church's (PCA) men's retreat weekend. I am 60, been an ordained elder in the church 12 years (plus 15 years previously in a sister church), am a lawyer, and have a Master's Degree in Theological Studies from Seminary. I've preached at our church many times and taught many SS classes and was recognized as the best lay teacher in the Church. Over 5 sessions, I taught basically RP truths from the Scripture about how men can be better husbands, fathers, lea…
/r/RPChristians14/01/24 01:30 AM
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If you're living on her dime, then you're living in her frame. Money from others rarely comes without strings . . .
/r/askMRP23/08/23 04:38 PM
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No matter how perfect our Churches were, my guess is it wouldn't make much of a difference. Why? Most people spend 1 hour a week (2 or 3 at best with a Sunday School and Wednesday evening) at church; how can 1-3 hours compete against the cultural onslaught all the other hours in the week? It can't. When (~1715) J.S. Bach was writing a new cantata every week!! for his church, the Sunday morning service was 4 to 6 hours, plus multiple other times of meeting each week . . .
/r/RPChristians12/05/23 10:09 PM
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There's no ARP church near where I live. I agree with you on the PCA denomination-- the handwriting is on the wall, things are going downhill fast. I have little hope for it. While my local PCA Church is conservative, it's still a fact that it (and almost every church) has been fundamentally feminized and they don't see it. Someone said 100% women and 90% of men born after 1965 are feminists even if they don't realize it (I was born earlier than that).
/r/RPChristians11/05/23 05:46 PM
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Erskine Seminary, but I got a Masters in Theology, not an M.Div. so I didn't take any counseling courses. As far as preaching RP from the pulpit, I just want them to teach what Scripture plainly says. But they won't when it comes to passages like 1 Tim. 2:11-15, 1 Peter 3:7, Eph. 5:24 etc. Even in the conservative church I'm in they won't really address what it says, if at all. They're too afraid of the women being upset!
/r/RPChristians11/05/23 01:42 AM
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Thanks for your reply. I know Doug Wilson and, though I like him and what he has to say, he probably wouldn't be known to most of the people I am referring to. I think he is probably known only among a certain group Christians (i.e., unknowingly manosphere oriented) and not mainstream evangelicals. As far as the "beautiful marriages" among "elderly men" in your Church, I would say the reason for that is because these men are married to "elderly women" who have not been infected by feminism. Elde…
/r/RPChristians10/05/23 08:23 PM
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When I say from other men, I mean in competition, teamwork, etc., that is "against" other men. Not hoping some man will say something nice or notice me.
/r/askMRP03/05/23 05:18 PM
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The way I interpret your question is you are saying that you get no validation from these non-romantic females. My response is that men shouldn't seek validation from any female, romantic or non-romantic. Men should find their validation in (1) other men, (2) from within as a result of working on personal goals, and (3) God. Women look to men for validation, not the other way around. Love flows downhill, respect flows uphill.
/r/askMRP03/05/23 03:02 PM
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My daughter says every time she gets pulled over by a male cop she says (in tears) sheis just starting her period and was trying to get home. Cop gets wide-eyed and uncomfortable and immediately says to go on . . . the ultimate pussy pass
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/22 01:19 PM
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AKA, women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas
/r/askMRP27/05/22 05:46 PM
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BTW, I lift heavy and run. Running fries your CNS and challenges you, In different ways than lifting. If your trying to win lifting competitions then I can understand not running. But if you're trying to be in overall excellent shape, then I think you must run and do HIIT.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/21 03:46 AM
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In Georgia, if you can prove adultery than the at fault spouse (the Adulterer) cannot be awarded alimony.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 02:00 PM
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Well, it'd be hard for me to give you anything but a general answer--laws differ in every state, and are applied differently in local jurisdictions; local attorneys who regularly practice domestic law in your jurisdiction would be the best source of an opinion as to what is likely to happen. In general, though, if she always out-earns you throughout the marriage it would be unusual for you to pay her anything in the nature of alimony; if anything, if the marriage lasts long enough and all that t…
/r/askMRP18/03/21 01:15 PM
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Her being legally blind is a two edged sword: yes it makes her more dependent on you; but also it greatly enhances her awareness of her need to be taken care of, so this makes her hyper-aware of your faults and MORE likely to monkey branch to someone that will take care of her. Hypergamy is a bitch. What you are saying is "she needs me because she is blind" instead of "she wants me because I can provide and am an alpha." Because of her unique weakness, how much more attractive to her is a man wh…
/r/askMRP17/03/21 04:59 PM
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I think you are overlooking something. I practiced divorce law many years. One common theme was women that outearn men lose respect for them and divorce them. Yes, they may be "strong, independent womyn" but they will nevertheless expect to be supported by a man. Its feminine nature. Its hypergamy. This women has lots of assets, Income and a career. You're a convicted felon with no assets, income, career and a large IRS tax debt. She initially got with you because you were the bad boy alpha. But…
/r/askMRP16/03/21 07:57 PM
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"Part of me wants her to initiate" -' forget that, it's your need for approval seeking. The male needs to initiate, deal with it, and do it. That's the males role. She needs to know you desire her. Not the other way around. "Men dream of women, women dream of men dreaming of them."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/21 05:42 AM
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Currently I've seen great results from "volume training" - lift 60-80% of 1RM, higher reps, and track total volume for each main lift; then, increase total volume over time. Very noticeable hypertrophy and strength gains. Focus on main lifts (BP, DL, OHP, SQ, Pullups/rows), with some accessory work. Very taxing on body, so get adequate rest and don't overtrain (age 57, work same lift no more than every 5-6 days).
/r/askMRP03/12/20 03:53 AM
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Research shows that during ejaculation, men release a cocktail of brain chemicals, including norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nitric oxide (NO), and the hormone prolactin. Masturbation is a physical chemical addiction of powerful drugs, as well as a moral issue. You need to understand and deal with that. You need group therapy, you can't beat it (no pun intended) alone. Check out "Conquer Series" program and go through it with other men.
/r/RPChristians10/10/20 05:52 PM
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Just don't expect your wife to encourage you!
/r/askMRP28/08/20 02:10 AM
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This is so true. In 2.5 yrs I've lost 40 lbs, 11%BF, waist is smaller now than in high school, I'm 57 years old and all my lifts are stronger then when I was 25 (110+ Symmetric Strength score), get up each day at 430am to lift, HIIT (F3) and run. Married over 30 yrs, 3 kids. My SMV has rocketed past wife, dread has had its way--I get sex now whenever I want and whatever kind I want (things I didn't get 1st 30 years). I turn her down now if I'm not in the mood. I can definitely see her admire and…
/r/askMRP26/08/20 10:57 PM
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That is the quote of the day, for sure. Excellent and so true.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/20 05:06 PM
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You reek of validation seeking -- https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/ab7vt5/validation_needs_that_can_poison_your_sex_life/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 07:58 PM
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The original RP advice, before there was RP -- James Dobson, Love Must Be Tough
/r/RPChristians12/05/20 07:43 PM
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100% men should be utilizing other men to lean on. Isn't that what MRP is all about? Find other RP men to lean on don't waste your time on BP men. One difference between men and women is that men will use other men for support, while women just hate each other.
/r/askMRP03/05/20 04:51 PM
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Find an F3 bootcamp workout near you. It's free, open to all men, outdoors and peer led. I've been doing it over 2 years (plus lifting), and it incorporates excellent bodyweight work: https://f3nation.com/workouts/ And you'll meet some great guys
/r/askMRP15/04/20 01:11 AM
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It's not a question of whether I'm "happy" or believe you -- I could care less. This is OYS and when I read your weight/height/BF% I said BS. You can be defensive about it, but it is what it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 07:25 PM
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Unless you are a muscled freak, there's no way you are 9.8%BF at 192lbs and 5'7". I'm 5'9" at 176lbs and ~10-11%BF (Navy Method) with a symmetric strength score of 110.1 (https://symmetricstrength.com/). What are your lifts, what is your symmetric strength score? A scale can't tell you anything accurate about BF%; absent a DEXA scan, your lifts and Navy Method measurement will be far more accurate. 9.8% is much more than "a little low" -- that's BS, at your height and weight I'd guess 16-23%BF (…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 05:03 PM
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Typical female who is either unregenerate or acting as if she were-- she takes no responsibility for her past actions, none of it was her fault, as she tells it she was abused. BS-- that's her hamster justifying her past actions by creating a new reality in her mind. Dump her fast, this is not the type of woman you want to be involved with.
/r/RPChristians23/03/20 08:33 PM
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"Warning: Use of even mild Dread during pregnancy has been reported to be fatal to a marriage." https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/
/r/askMRP24/02/20 09:44 PM
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Situation Normal: All F***ed Up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/20 02:06 PM
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Thanks for taking your time to share this with your insights. Look forward to seeing it.
/r/RPChristians10/02/20 12:41 AM
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As an Evangelical Christian, Seminary trained, it is my opinion that the Red Pill description of human nature and especially female nature and inter sexual dynamics is very much what the Bible teaches. The problem today is that the glaring scriptural passages that are RP are glossed over as inconvenient and all other passages are taught through the lenses of the prevailing feminist hierarchy and by Blue-pilled Pastors who do not know any better. If we believe that scripture is a true depiction o…
/r/askMRP25/01/20 09:29 PM
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It's not you concerned for her, but you concerned for you: You're seeking validation in giving her the O. Something I was once told by a wise man who had been with many women-'"Each partner is responsible for their own orgasm." Quit worrying about hers; do what she asks for or what you think might help her, but DNGAF if she cums or not. I've been married over 30 years and it took me a long time to get to that, but its liberating. It's very Beta to be so concerned about her orgasm, and women can …
/r/askMRP06/01/20 03:05 AM
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I'm 56, been on Keto 18 months, currently do each week: 3-4 lifting sessions, working each major compound lift 1x per week, plus some accessories. Lifting fairly heavy: BP 225-250x4-9 reps; Squat 225 to 275 for 6-10 reps; deadlifts 315-350 x 2-6 reps; OHP 135-170 x 4-8 reps. So once each week (Squat & deads same day leg workout). 45 minutes HIIT training (bootcamp F3) 2-3X week Road run, 3-6 miles 2 x week Most training is early morning, 5-6am. Strict keto <1800kcals/day (175lbs, 5'8" try to get…
/r/askMRP19/12/19 07:53 PM
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Great post, one of the best I've read. Thank you for the reminders.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/19 01:10 PM
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Coconut oil after shower and shaving on face, scalp and hair, but most importantly eat a low carb, no sugar diet with plenty of good fats. The diet has reversed a lot of skin problems that come with age (56), such as flaking, dryness, etc.
/r/askMRP17/12/19 02:25 PM
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Married 30 years, Red Pilled 18 months. Wife had complete hysterectomy over 13 years ago (after 3 kids). Thereafter my beta self got infrequent sex (2-3x month), and her lack of hormones didn't help. Few years after she started HRT, including some testosterone: this helped the quality of sex (wetness) and a slight increase in desire. Fast forward to 2 years ago when I started dieting, lifting and found RP. Lost 40 pounds. Now I'm 12% BF and all my lifts are advanced or elite (102.9 symmetric str…
/r/askMRP07/12/19 02:59 AM
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Once I quit seeking validation in wife initiating and realized she was responsive and I was responsible for initiating, it was a game changer. Now I am always initiating, even when I'm not really interested in sex. She says, "sex is all you ever think about." I used to deny it, but not I AA. Now, understanding her responsive nature, I can pretty much get sex whenever I want by initiating and pressing. Men, you have to sexualize your relationship--sex is what differentiates your SO relationship f…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/19 11:21 PM
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An important part of the M/W Complex is that women have conflicting feelings of M/W -- they want to be seen, generally, as a good girl (Madonna) but their sexuality wants them to be a wild Whore, to let loose. A man needs to understand that his wife has both impulses, but because she will claim to be a M, the Blue-pill man believes her, and treats her a such, fearful of transgressing her M image. The RP man understands that his wife has the W desires and acts accordingly, sexualizing his wife an…
/r/RPChristians07/10/19 09:55 PM
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"My 1RM BP is 192" -- yeah, right, like any gym has weights that would add up to a number like that.
/r/askMRP18/09/19 01:27 AM
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She's a "Nutritional Nurse" but only has an Associates degree. That means she's not a Nurse at all, she just delivers meals to patients.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/19 02:36 PM
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Agree with your first point, but not second. It was my lesson: don't put it in writing. But I didn't put it in writing to the pastor. I only discussed the materials that he already had with him (from Niner's wife). I am not afraid to discuss with him, once he already had the materials. He respects me, I am older and more educated and successful than him. In the end he agreed with me.
/r/askMRP25/07/19 09:39 AM
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Don't talk about fight club story: 8 or 9 months ago I shared a lot of RP materials with 2 friends who were in a Bible study with me; one hadn't had sex in 9 years with his wife (call him "Niner"), the other (call him "Doc") was on IV drip and very frustrated. I printed 100+ pages and put it in a notebook for them. I told them, 2 rules: 1. Don't talk about fight club, especially to your wife, and 2. if you share this with anybody do not tell them it came from me. They both agreed. Well, Niner to…
/r/askMRP24/07/19 08:14 PM
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Workout "Sometimes" -- That means she went to the gym once which in her mind extends to forever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/19 10:34 PM
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I (55yo) have been doing HIIT 3+ hrs/wk and lifting 3-4 days a week for 18 months, along with strict diet, with great success: lost 35lbs and lifting more now than 30 years ago. Key is go heavy with 4 main lifts, but each lift no more than 1x per week. I alternate days between HIIT and lifting (occasionally I'll actually lift immediately after 45min HIIT routine). My goal is 12%BF (currently 15-16%); first 14 months I did keto (but didn't count calories, did some 1-2 day fast fairly often). When…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 10:47 PM
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Yes, things change. No sex in over a week (I had the flu but now back at work), wife calls at work says we'll have some free time tonight (daughter will be away for 2 hours). But she said no kissing, afraid I might get her sick. Used to be I'd jump on it. Started thinking I'm not settling for "limited" sex. Texted her that I don't want to be blamed if she gets sick and I'm not doing limited sex, we'll wait to the weekend. I'm not accepting charity sex. Complete attitude change for me: OI, no mor…
/r/askMRP06/03/19 09:51 PM
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