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| 1 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?If you're not rich, yes. The dating problems we see today are largely influenced by finances and so the middle and lower class gets the worst of it. From my experience as a middle class guy slowly working his way up, it's the only way for us to get treated as equals bro, women in the middle class want the guy who's already at the metaphorical finish line, thats why more of them are dating older men now. Hypergame is the name of the game and women make the rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on "strong" women?And here I was thinking I could finally come out as guy who likes female body builders 😩💪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:52 PM |
| 7 | Men are afraid of dating and marrying single mothers because they could be on the hook to pay child support for children that aren't theirs if the relationship end“Saved game” lmao sheeesh, hoe$ mad 😡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:26 PM |
| 2 | The same behavior that caused me to get friendzoned by women I was attracted to is the same behavior that causes women I'm not attracted to to want to date me.All the PPD women will tell you you’re shooting out of your league, it’s a lie. They’re just all being hypergamous and gaslighting all the men to get away with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:31 AM |
| -1 | The same behavior that caused me to get friendzoned by women I was attracted to is the same behavior that causes women I'm not attracted to to want to date me.It’s more below his league and the girls are punching up but okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | N-Count Survey of the USA (2021) ResultsWomen underreport, men overreport. So it’s even worse than the stats show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:20 AM |
| 2 | HOW TO EFFORTLESSLY & SUCCESSFULLY APPROACH ANY WOMAN AND GET HER NUMBER/DATEOk Chuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:18 AM |
| -3 | Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved?So the sex should be withheld until the other two have been acquired from a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:17 AM |
| -5 | Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved?You just said that men are the ones who say they get into relationships for sex and then in the next sentence you said you view men as “desperate, sniveling things” who exchange commitment for sex” ….so actually no it’s not us saying that, it’s you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:13 AM |
| -4 | Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved?Pretty much yes. Sex is so easily accessible for them that it goes beyond worthless and into the realm of a negative thing. That’s why they say they have to have a deep emotional connection to enjoy it… that’s the only way around their guilt of previous promiscuity. Or even the abundance of opportunity can negatively effect how they think about it even if they didn’t act upon it. Hopefully not as much.. (shout out to the girls who don’t chase chads, lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 12:05 AM |
| 2 | If men want relationships with women more than men, doesn’t that mean women face little to no difficulties in dating?No. This is just flat out wrong. The difference is that most men still value, respect, and acknowledge the importance of sex in a relationship while women do the opposite and try to diminish its value. We have to find a balance or relationships won’t happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 11:53 PM |
| 4 | If men want relationships with women more than men, doesn’t that mean women face little to no difficulties in dating?“Aren’t fit for them” aha. And here we have the Hypergamy outing itself once again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 11:51 PM |
| 0 | If men want relationships with women more than men, doesn’t that mean women face little to no difficulties in dating?This guy gets it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 11:48 PM |
| 7 | The idea that women hold off on certain sexual things with a guy because he’s “boyfriend” material is an utter load of crapI’ve heard it firsthand from female friends more than once. They put out for the guys they don’t really like that much because the relationship isn’t as important to them. The guys they really value the relationship with, they refuse to have sex with because it’s too risky and they don’t want to potentially lose the guy as a friend. Women will be honest about this with their friends. The problem is they don’t realize that men will react accordingly when they see the asshole guys get sex and the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Men are having less casual sex than ever. And it's a good thing.OP is a female that’s how | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 12:48 AM |
| 0 | Have you tried therapy?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Have you tried therapy?Hey I take what I can get. Reddit randomly came up with the name I just made the numbers fit my favorite record label | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Have you tried therapy?“Alphamaker420” lol nice throwaway troll account name | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 12:28 AM |
| 30 | How do you feel about guys wearing shoe lifts?There are some dope platform shoes out there (I own a pair of these ) and if a girl thinks I’m insecure for wearing them then she doesn’t know how much I like shoes. I do it for me (the added height is also convenient when reaching for things on a tall shelf) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Most men don't get laid because they don't approach and talk to enough womenOkay boomer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 09:43 PM |
| 15 | Good guys of PPD, what good things do you do?I once stopped a girl who was pulling out of a parking lot and forgot she left her pizza on top of her car | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men.Yeah it’s almost comical how women complain that men “only want them for sex” and then turn around and only want men for friendships and the free stuff they get out of him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?Testosterone plays a big role in sex drive and men on average have roughly 10 to 20 times more than women coursing through our bodies all the time. Then you add all the societal pressures, the shaming, and the large numbers of women who seem to either ignore or actively hate men who try to speak up about it. It’s more important for us because women care and society cares, men who go out alone are considered potential threats. Men who go out with a girlfriend or with their wife and kids are consi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 06:36 PM |
| 3 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?It goes back to the common trope of “nice guys finish last” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:18 PM |
| 18 | How bad is it being a tall girl romantically?Keep in mind that the guys who are interested but aren’t taller than you might also assume you’re not interested. It’s not exactly common for any women to show interest in the men who aren’t tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Do you think social isolation is damaging the relationship between genders?“Sad because no one loves you? Just get Xanax.” Brooooo lmao 😂 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 05:01 PM |
| 17 | Except for sex, men are doing better than everThe same applies to everyone. Modern life has eliminated many of nature’s threats, why are you only acknowledging this for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned.Such strawman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??The men who have lots of women interested are happy being single, arguably more happy than the women all chasing after those few (often rich) men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?This should be top comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:10 PM |
| 10 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Men that aren’t having sex can’t “start having sex when they want to” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:55 PM |
| 8 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Just imagine if society treated women’s issues the same way………… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are no longer the "prize" by default due to the rapidly changing landscape of womens' rights and equal pay, and they're now having to be equal partners and hate they it.Men used to be taught to become fathers for women and children by acquiring resources, don’t blame men for dismantling that structure, and don’t blame us when women can’t find any value in us without it. You made your bed now lie in it, I’ll be sleeping on the metaphorical dog house with the rest of masculinity and an Xbox | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 05:28 PM |
| 3 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?I might at least have the option for one… can’t say if it would appeal or not until you tried it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL straight men and women who are single. Why are you not dating your attractive single friend of the opposite sex?They’re all married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites?Yes and yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenYeah it’s nearly impossible unless you stand out somehow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenShhhhhhhhhhhocking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:24 PM |
| 0 | The idea that men glorify players is wildly incorrectWomen glorify male players, men are either indifferent (because their needs are being met elsewhere) or contemptuous (because the player is taking attention away from the non-player types) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.It only shrinks because they refuse to date down, highly successful men have no problem finding partners cause they aren’t exclusively looking for someone equal to or greater than them in success and education level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:54 PM |
| 8 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menThe female gaze is different then the male gaze, it is much more analytical (and judgmental) of things like income, education, social status, confidence, etc. looking good is just a part of it and the things women value most in looks are genetic (height, facial structure, race, etc). so most guys realize it’s not worth it to bother. Women don’t care as much about looks as men unless we’re famous actors or something… those guys do do all these “looksmaxxing” things. (Inb4 deleted cause of “incel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | The main reason I only want to seriously date a virgin is ego and i feel 100% justified in that fact.Nice troll 🧌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with?Yea, I think birth control is causing a lot more of an effect than people realize, there hasn’t been a lot of studies on it yet but the few I have seen show that it does cause effects on what women find attractive in a man on a subconscious biological level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 09:59 PM |
| 4 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.Overweight women cause more of an imbalance on the dating market than overweight men because what the opposite sex finds attractive is different. Looks are more important for men. Stability is more important for women. So fat guy can still get a hot wife if he takes care of other aspects of his life. But a fat woman who takes care of other aspects of her life is… still a fat woman, and a lot of guys don’t want to ‘settle’ in that aspect. It’s similar to the way a broke guy who’s in shape still s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Anyone watch/used to watch Fresh and Fit? Love him or hate him but you gotta admit Myron is smart, a great debater and never really lost a debate beforeI bought one of their shirts and the print came off after like two washes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How common is soft ''racial prejudice'' in dating?Extremely common, often overlooked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:42 PM |
| 3 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.The biggest hardship facing women in 2022 is their own body weight. It sure must be hard not to shove food in your face 24/7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:40 PM |
| 5 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.If you’re guaranteed to lose, the only way to win is not to play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:24 PM |
| 2 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.You can do this if you want. But the chances of success are extremely slim and the amount of effort involved is quite high, not to mention the toll that repeated rejections take on the psyche. The dating scene is much worse than it used to be, and it’s more rewarding for most of us to not bother with it. The guys who women want already know they’re desired, so posts like this are really just trying to get men back on the plantation like some plow horse working hard for nothing while the breeding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | What do you think actually helps men date?The biggest things that help men date are genetic. Be tall Be white Have an attractive face Strong jawline Come from a middle class family or better Be in shape (some genes make this easier) Don’t wear glasses Have a huge cock (improves confidence, big dick energy or whatever women call it). Then epigenetics come in. Then after all those uncontrollable factors are accounted for, it can give a little boost if you have some social skills and take care of hygiene a bit… by no means is this a deal b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Evolutionary psychological findings on sex differences could be interpreted socioculturallyThe orgasm gap might not be as much of a thing if women helped men learn, but when they exclude large numbers of the male population and keep having sex with the same few chads.. well those chads know they have so many options that considering if a woman orgasms is pretty low on most of those guys priority lists, they will straight up admit to it too. You can’t really expect any man or woman to be really good at sex without some practice first, and yet that is exactly what women expect. Guys who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 09:22 PM |
| -2 | So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame?Yep, this is the best and most well thought out comment. Thank you sir. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 06:14 PM |
| 10 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.Yes you can, it’s called cultural conditioning, beauty standards etc. The majority of people conform at least somewhat to the norms of their society and culture in order to avoid being ostracized. The white blonde blue eyed person isn’t actually more beautiful, but they are perceived that way because we grow up our whole lives being told that we should think they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 04:22 PM |
| 4 | A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys.The older I get the more I realize that it’s a waste of time trying to get people to see and consider things they don’t want to. People are biased against this stuff to the point of not being able to see it clearly or analyze it objectively. It always devolves into “hurr durr those guys are just losers and losers don’t matter.” Except if women are losers it matters, if children are losers it matters, if elderly are losers it matters… the double standard is obvious as heck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Are there immoral dating standards/dealbreakers?I have personal experience with the last one. It’s a really complicated subject cause it feels immoral for me as the victim, but it’s culturally normalized and really not something I can argue against as a multiracial minority. It’s not immoral for anyone else, (in the area where I live) quite the contrary, it’s more like immoral to go against the conservative norms. Can the culture change enough to change what is considered moral vs immoral? I used to have high hopes for that but as I’ve gotten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 12:29 AM |
| 5 | women have no trouble determining if a man is insecure.Uhh… I hate to sound like all the other “just go outside” types but… I don’t think TikTok and social media are good methods of judging character, it’s all far too curated to be genuine representations of themselves.. social media profiles are more often who they want to be seen as, not who they really are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | What do you advise a young men (18-21) to do?Yeaaaaah I touch grass every day at 4:20… still no gf though, odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 10:34 PM |
| 17 | women have no trouble determining if a man is insecure.What world do you live in where young women are brought up to be insecure? Please loan me your time machine. Everywhere I look I see the opposite; boys are constantly doing things wrong and therefore made to feel insecure just for being ‘boyish’. Meanwhile the girl power movement is at an all time high, I know a lot of people and meet a lot of people through my work and let me tell you… the only girls with insecurity are really fat, (maybe it’s not PC to say that but it’s true.) all the rest of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 10:15 PM |
| 10 | It's easy to know if you date down or up by how much you get rejected or dumpedIn some cases you can be rejected even though they consider you attractive (cultural differences, their family doesn’t support race mixing, etc.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Do men want career focused women?Dating a woman who earns a lot more than me would be fine, maybe even quite enjoyable… but it might be awkward when she wants to go out or go shopping and the usual places for her are way out of my budget. One gender norm that hasn’t wavered in the years is the perception of a guy who can’t “keep up” financially being basically a loser and not worth a woman’s time, that stereotype might get in the way when the situation is like, you pretty much have to pay for this guy if you really like him whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 09:56 PM |
| 12 | Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men doThe part about body fat is so true.. it applies to men too but I see so many more fat guys with hot or only slightly chubby women, I don’t think weight matters as much to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Does having regular girlfriends cause a man to have a higher income over time?Young women want the top 20% of young men to have motivation, they reward the efforts of those men. I’m pretty sure the rest of us just look like we’re trying to compensate for our lack of success and natural attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standardsI would definitely not date any girl who watches Mr.Beast. But I probably wouldn’t want to be friends with any guy that watches him either. If they like the album Mr. Beast by Mogwai though?… now we’re talkin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Lowering ones standards is impossibleCan confirm. Tried to fuck a woman I’m not attracted to, dick wouldn’t get hard. “mEn jUsT NeEd To LoWeR ThEiR sTaNdArDs” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menBased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 10:11 PM |
| 3 | What do women think of guys who grow up in constant adversity and turmoil?On behalf of all the guys you just described, thanks for asking this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 10:00 PM |
| 0 | What do women think of guys who grow up in constant adversity and turmoil?This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.I just had a couple cute girls show up and knock on my door, right after I went inside and locked it. We’re closed. (I own a coffee bar and I live above it) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Women HAVE to be told to “pick better” because kindness, chivalry, and gentlemanly behavior doesn’t turn women on IN GENERAL as much as it shouldLast time I did something nice for a girl not expecting anything in return, just sharing in kind and she straight up laughed about me “being a nice guy” to her friends when I was still standing right there, after accepting what I was sharing with the group… That’s the sort of negative reinforcement that makes a guy never do nice things for an attractive young woman again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:18 PM |
| 24 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableI blame both. It takes two to tango. Women need to vet better, and shitty toxic men need to stop having their behavior rewarded and validated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Study about female pair bonding?Things like tattoos, piercings, dyed hair, etc are signs of low impulse control which is a red flag for a lot of men when considering a woman, especially for long term… It seems like it’s not as much of a red flag for young women though, I see a lot of them chasing after tatted up, criminal bad boys and getting pregnant with them too 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | The fact that in almost any discussion about dating there is an overriding implication that women are the prize and men are lucky to win them suggests women are superior to men and is symptomatic of the misandry and gynocentric sentiment that is rampant in western cultureYup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | The RP/Manosphere is making the Beta Bucks an endangered species and many women are going to be screwed.This. People want to act like young men have no value, but they’re in denial of the fact that everyone has potential value and for a culture to only bring out the best for one gender and not the other is bad for everyone involved… give it time, they’ll acknowledge this after it’s too late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 11 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBNo. Women can get jobs and educations now, the vast majority do not actually need beta bucks, they just want them. The feminist movement has achieved its goal of liberation and freed them from dependency on men. You can be a beta if you want, I choose not to. If that means being single forever so be it… also transactional sex is unlikely to be as good, and that’s kinda what this is even though it’s not overt. I think even the guys being forced into a beta bucks position still want genuine affect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 06:31 PM |
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