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Some people have standards, bro. And not a lot of money.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/26 10:05 PM
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Bruh, most men go years between having sex. Obviously, that kind of scarcity is gonna wreck 'em.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/26 01:38 AM
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People confuse many of life's journeys as a destination or a single "point" to attain. The reality is much of what TRP is about is a vector towards something less concrete. A "journey" if you will. It's the same concept of conservatism vs liberalism. Both ideas have a vector towards something. Many people put themselves on the extreme ends of it because they think the destination is the goal. It's not. It's the journey. TRP teaches that it's your job, as a man, to figure out how to live in the j…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 06:11 PM
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PUA was a failed ideology? Seems pretty damn successful to me.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 10:49 PM
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Good read. I needed the refresher. I've been out of the game too long and broke frame recently. Girl last-minute decided the night turned out to be a "girls night" instead. I'll be back into it soon enough.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 03:38 AM
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Read the blog about intergender friendships. What do you say about women who claim to simply get along better with men?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 08:48 AM
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Good work and great read. My only comment would be that this: I realized that in order to fix this one, I would need to stop giving a fuck. Kind of ironic. Sounds like there is some BP residue. What's to fix and why fix it? Not "giving a fuck" would mean you'd be unfazed about the current relationship; you've learned, accepted it, and moved on. Instead it reads like a typical beta screwed up and, after some RP enlightenment, chased after her less beta than before. (Though it could just be my mis…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 11:40 PM
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Even if ugly men started suddenly removing their limiting beliefs and became these amazing people, the attractive men would still be available to these women, and they have game, too. Even if the dork from Nebraska stopped being a dork, he would have to present himself as a better option to the other attractive, alpha males in her life. I'd give it a one in a million shot, but not realistically. Did you ever see that show "Average Joe"? Did you ever read how the first couple of seasons ended?
/r/seduction23/02/11 08:39 AM
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Also, I would love to try this experiment, actually. Unfortunately there's no enough ugly looking men willing to put themselves on the line with extremely beautiful women to try it. I would LOVE to see a TV show where they take some master PUAs and give them a real chump. I mean, someone who is genuinely average to below average. Spend a year with him. Then let's line up and see what kind of women he can pull. Every in-field footage I've ever seen would be inspire average looking men to get aver…
/r/seduction23/02/11 08:33 AM
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LOL. Money, power, status, etc., especially in combination, can all overcome any deficiency. That's why there are gold diggers and prostitutes. It's an evolutionary instinct in women. Take away Hugh's power and status and he's an ugly, wrinkly old man with no playmates.
/r/seduction23/02/11 08:29 AM
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Oh, it doesn't do anything for me personally. I'm well within reach of seducing pretty much any woman I want. But I'm tired of shams and seeing people get taken for thousands of dollars when in reality, they will be more successful once they come to terms with certain realities and they will feel better about themselves. This is why bald men are able to joke about themselves being bald. And because this forum is littered with confused people. The reality is that game cannot and will not always w…
/r/seduction23/02/11 08:24 AM
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Don't think about her. Don't be clingy. But be direct. Think of it this way: she wants you. She needs you. You don't need her. Get in your head that you're the amazing, awesome one that she should be dying to be with. Once you've got your mind set, send her a text and say "Meet me for dinner/coffee/drinks at Xpm."
/r/seduction23/02/11 08:12 AM
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"Thank you!" "You're right, I'm hideous!" "But I'm still cuter than you."
/r/seduction23/02/11 08:08 AM
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I know plenty of attractive yet insecure women with unattractive men, but they are exceptions. They also aren't the quality women I'm after nor is that a positive way to begin a relationship. And one important point is that this is relative to how she views herself and how she views other men. Victoria Secret models have the best looking, most successful alpha males around them at all times. They're also confident. They know what quality truly is. No dork from Nebraska is going to hook up with a…
/r/seduction23/02/11 07:57 AM
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Well of course I don't need him to answer any of them, nor did I expect him to. The point of the exercise is to see how he thinks and how he would react when faced with a closed-ended question that challenges the very premise of his livelihood.
/r/seduction23/02/11 07:11 AM
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There are lots of high valued men not giving a fuck in their lives. It's not like we're the only awesome people on the planet. The fact is that I don't know who these men are and while I don't particularly care about the other men specifically, I do care that she recognizes me in the way I fully intend her to and that is as I see myself: a high value man. You can only be seen as a high value man relative to the other men in her life. If her life is full of these kinds of men, I want to know how …
/r/seduction23/02/11 06:07 AM
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This is ironic, because the entire premise on seduction is that there is something from which to lure a woman to and from, which means there is an inherent competition that even makes seduction possible to begin with! You use of the term "abundance" to me just seems like a more precise shotgun; just keep moving on until you get one!
/r/seduction23/02/11 05:54 AM
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I copied and pasted my question from the Savoy thread that was never addressed so I didn't change any of the terms. I had a feeling David would get hung up on it.
/r/seduction23/02/11 05:52 AM
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Absolutely agree but I also believe there is a realistic, concrete boundary in which no amount of game or 'communication' skills can overcome a particular margin of difference in physical attractiveness. Extreme example: There is no amount of game that can cause a woman, who sees herself as a 10 and a particular man as a 1, to choose to be with that man. His game might bring him to a total 6 or 7 in her eyes, but there is at some point an absolute minimum standard that she will set for physical …
/r/seduction23/02/11 05:51 AM
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An honest answer? Something like... "Yes, physical attraction is a very big factor in seducing women. Good looking men don't have to try as hard and therefore are inherently going to have an easier time attracting beautiful women. But physical unattractiveness can be overcome with confidence and good 'communication', even to seduce women who most would think are 'out of their league'. All things considered, if I had to answer your question directly, I would say that the good looking guy with ave…
/r/seduction23/02/11 05:45 AM
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I ask tough question because no one else is. It's how I make sure that we're not just dealing with people who make a living off selling material that prey on insecure, lonely people, regardless if the outcome is building stronger, more confident people.
/r/seduction23/02/11 05:30 AM
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Realizing I'm this amazing, high valued person just helps me not give a fuck if she calls me back or not. It doesn't, specifically, help me win her over David.
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:46 AM
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This doesn't mean much unless we know what kind of women they were. I'm about finding quality women. The best...in the world. That means I'm competing with the best men in the world. So be it... I could whore myself out to 300 women if I cared to, but that's not what I want. I want the most beautiful, amazing women to fall all over me. Was that your short, fat, bald roommate?
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:43 AM
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That's a good way to put it. I was looking for specifics on how to do something like that. How do you do something like that, specifically, when you're dealing with possibly several other men who you know nothing about? Specifically. Here's an example. Say David and I are going after the same woman. He doesn't know about me and I don't know about him. How would he advise me to "project" my value so that she would choose me over him?
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:24 AM
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This isn't about me. My ultimate goal is to be positive in a very real sense. There are many frustrated men out there because the advice they're receiving leads them to believe they can land any woman and now we have people with down syndrome trying to pickup super models. This just isn't reality and no one is calling out the b.s. What helped my game the most was when I started setting realistic expectations for myself and challenging myself to exceed them but learned not to be miserable if I co…
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:13 AM
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Call it what you want, terminology doesn't matter except to make sure everyone's on the same page. I see it as all being the same game in different colors. We're all here to learn how to be successful with women.
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:03 AM
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Sorry for using unfamiliar terminology, but for all intent and purposes it works for conveying the right ideas. Call yourself what you want.
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:02 AM
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I understand what you're trying to get at, but it's impractical for the purpose of conveying that to her in the context of (potentially) THREE highly valued people (you, her, another man) competing for each others attention.
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:00 AM
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So mature, beautiful women will sleep with ugly men?
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:59 AM
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Overweight != unattractive. Plus, being overweight/underweight is very subjective. Obesity less so. Crooked teeth, acne, unsymmetrical features, etc. are not. And, at the end of the night, if we say that "looks don't matter" means an ugly person can score mediocre women, then I suppose I could agree with that.
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:57 AM
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Fluff. I have lots of beautiful women in my life, and they don't sleep with ugly guys. This is what happens: they hold out until they find a good looking guy with a shit personality and no game whatsoever and just fuck them. David may very well be able to captivate a woman in a fat suite, but she's not gonna go home with him. EDIT: Don't get me wrong: money and status can make up for anything, but for your everyday men and women I think overall attractiveness plays a much bigger role, and we're …
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:44 AM
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Really, if a girl smiles, doesn't cross her arms, and looks like she's friendly then that's all there is to it! If a girl really wanted to be noticed, go stand somewhere, alone and flip your hair a lot, looking around and smiling just enough. You will be gobbled up!
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:34 AM
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Explain some of your biggest failures while being a MPUA and what you've learned from them. Could you have always done something different/better? If so, give examples.
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:28 AM
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Many men struggle not with their game, but competing with the other men in these womens' lives. When one is after a high value woman, how does one make sure they are the best, most interesting option in their life? Specifically, how does one do this without coming off pushy, over the top, needy, or clingy? Any specific tips on how to supersede what other plans they might have with other men in their lives?
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:28 AM
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How much, in reality, does physical attractiveness matter when picking up women?. Who has the best chance of getting laid by an HB9/HB10 (attractiveness and PUA skills from 1 - 10in parentheses): Unattractive guy (3 or 4) with exceptional PUA skills (8 or 9) Average looking guy (4 or 5) with good PUA skills (7 or 8) Decent looking guy (5 or 6) with above average PUA skills (6 or 7) Good looking guy (6 or 7) with average PUA skills (5 or 6) Very good looking guy (7 or 8) with low PUA skills (4 or…
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:28 AM
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Who wants to bet it gets rescheduled?
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:21 AM
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Many men struggle not with their game, but competing with the other men in these womens' lives. When one is after a high value woman, how does one make sure they are the best, most interesting option in their life? Specifically, how does one do this without coming off pushy, over the top, needy, or clingy? Any specific tips on how to supersede what other plans they might have with other men in their lives?
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:01 AM
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Are you going to link to the thread from here? Hope people see it in the r/seduction list? Post it in the sidebar?
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:00 AM
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Just tell her, "Hey look, I really do need to study and I need to get some serious sleep tonight." As for the relationship, I wouldn't say she's "clingy" but she definitely feels committed. Just keep going with the flow and wait it out. Eventually you'll have a conversation about it when it feels more natural.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:36 AM
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That gets her to kiss you how, exactly?
/r/seduction21/02/11 08:02 AM
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If you think this is creepy then half the CnF shit people post must be. And of course there are plenty of ways to get her to kiss you. We share our experiences to help fill our ammo boxes.
/r/seduction21/02/11 08:02 AM
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Haha, love it!
/r/seduction21/02/11 07:57 AM
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It says a lot that you don't recognize this as a shit test. This is one of the more subtle ones; it is definitely an attempt to qualify a man, and is therefore a shit test (whether she knows it or not).
/r/seduction21/02/11 07:56 AM
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You can be very helpful! Go get some college girls, and share. There are plenty of us here who would love to score more college girls. ;)
/r/seduction20/02/11 11:23 PM
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Not sure why you aren't asking for numbers. If you're as comfortable "flirting" with girls as you say you are then it shouldn't be that big of a step to just ask for her number. So without more specifics, I'll have to assume that "flirting", to you, is probably not the kind of flirting that builds the attraction and comfort you need to move forward. In other words, it's probably not really "flirting". In general you have to escalate. The earlier and smoother you can do it, the better. Right now …
/r/seduction20/02/11 11:16 PM
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Isn't the entire volume of PUAs' material dedicated to answering questions like these? Is it me or should we ask something a little more specific or tough that isn't addressed in the thousands of pages of material littering dozens of sites already?
/r/seduction19/02/11 12:02 AM
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Not all women are looking to get laid at on any given night out and sometimes no amount of game can pick them up. Do you agree with this? If so: What are signs to look for in order to determine if you're dealing with one? Any key pointers on how to deal with this fact? What percentage of women do you think fall into this category (from experience)? If not, why do you disagree and how would you explain the women who never go home with anyone and turn down even the strongest PUAs?
/r/seduction17/02/11 10:38 PM
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Explain some of your biggest failures while being a MPUA and what you've learned from them. Could you have always done something different/better? If so, give examples.
/r/seduction17/02/11 10:36 PM
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How much, in reality, does physical attractiveness matter when picking up women?. Who has the best chance of getting laid by an HB9/HB10 (attractiveness and PUA skills from 1 - 10in parentheses): Unattractive guy (3 or 4) with exceptional PUA skills (8 or 9) Average looking guy (4 or 5) with good PUA skills (7 or 8) Decent looking guy (5 or 6) with above average PUA skills (6 or 7) Good looking guy (6 or 7) with average PUA skills (5 or 6) Very good looking guy (7 or 8) with low PUA skills (4 or…
/r/seduction17/02/11 10:36 PM
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Your status as a master-pickup-guru-dude is totally irrelevant to getting laid. I disagree. To me this isn't about just getting laid or racking up numbers. It's about landing quality women. To me, you are a MPUA if and ONLY-IF you can land the hottest women available. Average people get laid by other average people all the damn time with no game, no technique. If I'm trying to learn from someone, why do I care if they were able to lay some fat broad? Those techniques probably wouldn't work on th…
/r/seduction25/01/11 09:10 PM
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People who want to know if these FRs and techniques actually work. If you're banging a bunch of HB9s (to you) who are really 300lbs bull-dykes then your techniques means jack shit to me and I don't care to learn from you. I want to hear from the guys landing the hottest women available on the whole damn planet.
/r/seduction25/01/11 09:07 PM
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There's the rub. Half the FRs I read I'm thinking to myself "this would never work on any of the beautiful women I know". I can only conclude that we're just dealing with different women. It's great to hear of an average guy getting a cute girl. There's always something to learn in that, but most importantly it makes him feel better and he's becoming successful with women. Now here's the problem trying to learn which techniques work on truly beautiful women. If the FR I'm reading says "Saw targe…
/r/seduction25/01/11 09:03 PM
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Of course there aren't literally half a dozen women physically hanging on me. As soon as I walk in I can spot at least that many eye-fucking me. It's obvious they want me to talk to them, but they're average or above average at best, so I don't. Several times there will be women who will position themselves next to me hoping I talk to them or ask them to dance. This is what I meant when I said I don't have to do anything. And I don't fuck supermodels all the time. I have high standards and there…
/r/seduction25/01/11 08:53 PM
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Who has the best chance of getting laid by an HB9/HB10 (attractiveness and PUA skills from 1 - 10in parentheses): Unattractive guy (3 or 4) with exceptional PUA skills (8 or 9) Average looking guy (4 or 5) with good PUA skills (7 or 8) Decent looking guy (5 or 6) with above average PUA skills (6 or 7) Good looking guy (6 or 7) with average PUA skills (5 or 6) Very good looking guy (7 or 8) with low PUA skills (4 or 5) Super hot guy (9 or 10) with very low PUA skills (3 or 4) Elaborate on your th…
/r/seduction25/01/11 07:24 AM
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Explain some of your biggest failures and what you learned from them. Could you have always done something different/better? If so, give examples.
/r/seduction25/01/11 07:13 AM
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Not all women are looking to get laid at on any given night out and sometimes no amount of game can pick them up. Do you agree with this? If so, what percentage of women do you think fall into this category (from experience)? And what are signs to look for in order to determine if you're dealing with one? If not, why do you disagree and how would you explain the women who never go home with anyone and turn down even the strongest PUAs?
/r/seduction25/01/11 07:12 AM
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Along these same lines: I'd like to know what the biggest challenges will be in the future. More and more women are becoming shut off and aware of this community. What are the newest and best tactics to use?
/r/seduction25/01/11 05:54 AM
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She's moving out of town and tries to wheel you in with a line like "why is there a reason for me to stay?". She's not looking to just fuck, she's looking for something serious. That's why there are mixed signals. Not every girl that takes you back to their place (or goes with you to yours) is primed and ready to fuck. Sure, you could have escalated it and played her but then she'd be looking for the next level.
/r/seduction24/01/11 08:10 AM
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I generally agree with all of this. People like TofuTofu are probably not picking up the girls dancing on the dance floor in groups. Your best bet is to work on the smaller sets just watching or drinking and look like they just want to have a good time. Unfortunately those are usually the more average women. If TofuTofu thinks hitting on the dancing group of girls/girls night out crowd is a personal problem, I'd love to hear his strategy and call B.S. on it. Their fuck buddies are not random guy…
/r/seduction24/01/11 08:02 AM
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For those who don't want to listen to the 50 minute lecture: According to sound research, the three big reasons we are "attracted" to others (be it physical/personal relationships or platonic): Physical attractiveness. We identify success and things that are good with that which is physically attractive. Similarity. We are attracted to others like ourselves because they validate us. Propinquity and Mere Exposure Effect. Accessibility and exposure makes it easier for us to like someone. The lectu…
/r/seduction08/09/10 04:29 AM
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If you have any inclination to dance, then ABSOLUTELY. I recommend swing, specifically West Coast Swing, than anything. Dancing has done more than anything in my life to improve my confidence. Here's why: First, dancing is a perfect excuse to meet and touch women. Second, women love dancing, so they're always around and will always want to dance. If you can become a GOOD dancer, you will be a magnet for HBs and they'll start coming to you. Once you've become comfortable dancing and are welcomed …
/r/seduction08/09/10 12:57 AM
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