Obvie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Was she interested: Initiating contact after 6 months?		Obvie	/r/seduction	09/09/17 08:18 PM

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2	How much of a turn off is inexperience to a girl I also had my first sexual experience in 20s, a bit older than you so I see where you're coming from. Personally, I think it depends on the girl and the vibe you give off. I feel like if you give off a confident and a bit cocky vibe, she will get turned off by your inexperience. That's because she's attracted to your manliness and confidence and feel like that crumbles once you open up about the inexperience. Don't worry about the "not getting erect" thing. It happens to a lot of guys when they'…	/r/seduction	09/09/17 08:25 PM
1	Is approaching a woman you work with different to normal approach? I always see the "don't shit where you eat" comment posted. But what if you "eat" at most places you frequent? I see that sentence said for work and school, but what if that's where you are 80% of the time? Not breaking that rule is almost impossible. You're bound to meet a girl you'll want to seduce.	/r/seduction	07/06/16 06:53 AM
2	[FR] What I learned from going in 5 minutes from "hi" to a blowjob. Forget this chick. I've dated a girl like that, and it's really not worth the time. Girls that obsess over their ex are the worst. They THINK they are in love with their ex, but really they've just built this idea of what their ex is in their head. The fact that he dumped her also hurt her ego and some insecure girls can't seem to recover from that, and that's why they're always stuck on that ex. Forget her. Know that she is nothing special. There's litterally millions of girls like her out ther…	/r/seduction	07/06/16 06:49 AM
3	What's your guys opinion on RSDTyler? I think he's great. He's the best guy out of RSD in my opinion. What I like is that he's not only focused on pickup, and actually encourages people to improve their lives in every aspect. I don't see how anyone can be against what RSD teaches. Most of what they say can be summed down to a couple sentences: Go out, approach women, be yourself and eventually the results will come and you will improve. The "be yourself" part is the trickiest though. Being shy and social anxiety prevents you from sh…	/r/seduction	23/12/15 03:45 AM
4	What do you do when you're interested in someone who has no game? It could be that he's a reserved type of guy. He'll open up with time if you give him a chance. Obviously if you think it's boring when you're together then maybe you don't click that much. I'd stay give him a shot a s see where it goes.	/r/seduction	20/09/15 09:39 PM
1	Meditation I'm relating my experience as well. I've never gotten formal meditation training, but I have read books about it and read a lot of articles on the internet teaching how to do it. The most important part of learning is to just do it. Over time, you will realize what you are doing wrong and will auto-correct it. I don't see meditation as something as hard to learn as an instrument. It's mostly about having the motivation to constantly sit there for however long you determined and to focus on your …	/r/seduction	14/09/15 06:09 AM
1	Meditation I don't really agree with this. Yes, it cuts your learning curve if you find an instructor, but you can perfectly learn meditation by your own.	/r/seduction	14/09/15 05:29 AM
2	[FR] A great success that was really a great failure... It's possible she made a mistake, but also possible she gave you a fake number. Some girls will makeout with you hardcore in the club, but you try to text them the next day and they're not interested. Things like that happen and it's frustrating but sometimes we can't do anything about it and got to let go. Look at the positives. You did a great job leading those girls and getting them attracted to you. They would never have spent that time with you if they weren't, so don't be disheartened if y…	/r/seduction	14/09/15 05:16 AM
4	I've decided to stop being a greedy bastard and share a tidbit that has worked for AA I think in the best case scenario, you would hang out with a friend who is better than you, a friend who is your equal, and a friend who you are better than so you can teach things to him. I forgot where I read that. There's also one of my favorite fighers who said that what he does to challenge himself is to Train with people who are clearly better than him so he can learn a lot. Train with people at practically the same skill level as him, that he can beat but has a hard time doing so. Train w…	/r/seduction	14/09/15 05:09 AM
2	This is how embracing my 'introverted self' worked when seducing women. Good post. I see one contradiction however. You say you go out of your comfort zone, but you avoid places you're not comfortable in. I think it's true that if you don't like a place, you shouldn't waste your time going there. However, there are some environements you're not comfortable in simply because you have not been exposed enough to it. I was like that when first going to a bar, or going clubbing. Basically any place with a lot of people, I used to feel like everyone was staring at me or p…	/r/seduction	14/09/15 04:58 AM