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Also ill point out the r/deadbedrooms subredditt saddest shit there. Like humans are designed for connection, this one of the ways to connect together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:54 AM
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I would like to say women will experience that as well, not just men. But so many women are told to have too many conflicting ideas around sex thats why you dont hear about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:48 AM
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Uuummm as a woman i completely disagree. The mental, emotional, and physical benefits are amazing. Especially when in a Consistent stable long term relationship. Sssooo idk wht the heck youve been told, but i can find a few videos explaining that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:46 AM
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As a short woman, this is not true at all. Ive known tall guys who were not "gifted" in there size even on the smaller then average. The attraction is at least for me was feeling protected and knowing someone can help me reach the top shelf. Hahahaha thats just me .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:55 AM
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Thats horrible. I know many people who judged me for dating what many would consider unattractive partners. Ive told them in no few words to kiss my ass and that i date who shows care and kindness. I dont give a shit about appearances because I know when i have a child ill change physically, i know as i age i change, i know i will look different in 5 yrs then 10 then 20. People are such assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:37 AM
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Well to be honest what is acceptable and unacceptable male behavior? Lets go through a list. 1 wanna watch sports on a religious day, that is not acceptable 2 don't drink or drugs or other substances 3 women in those communities expect little to no body count of there future spouses i.e. these men with more then like 1 other person good luck. Sure you can lie, great way to start a marriage 4 be prepared, alot of those communties are not involved in city life, they believe a way to protect the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:43 PM
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Honestly hopefully you find a woman who you can be open with. And demonstrated your sexual ability in other ways. In reading your comments, I am so sorry…. I know me personally would be open to explore a relationship with a man with no penis. But I would be more mad if he simply did not tell me. I have dated individuals with what we could call micro penis and we figured it out…. This is a normal part of the human sexual spectrum and human body spectrum. Maybe a woman who is asexual or a woman wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:16 AM
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Married woman. But im going to say this from what my father always said. My father was a player. I mean a player. I am one of 4 sisters, all different moms. He got around. My father would always say "i know when im married to this person, im committed they are committed. Sex when married is about me and my wife." My father is old around 64. But ill references a more modern thing Living Single by Big Sean "We get ahead, yup, she give me head, damn right You know it ain't right if she ain't by my …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:32 PM
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I dont think its wrong but what is hard though because we might set the boundary but others wont, and thats messed up. And then the larger conversation of conset in those circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:45 AM
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Oohh yeah it can be hard. My husband and i did something super crazy and got married while in college. We avoided a hige amount of debt doing that. I think debt load is changing what is acceptable and what is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:43 AM
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I actually agree with the point view you have, ive seen alot of women be upset by that. I think the more ethical issue at hand is in the case of the possibility for DV in those relationships are high and language barrier. Thats were i have a problem. But if a man finds a woman he loves who shares his values in another country i dont think thats wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:10 PM
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Honestly something i would like to point out about sex tourism is also where often men can pursue sleeping with underage girls. Which is extremely immoral and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:08 PM
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Red flag. Tracking your location all the time and going through your phone. Saw a guy friend start dating a girl, he married her and at his wedding not a single one of his friends showed. Everyone said she was crazy and he should be worried. He didnt listen, she went through his phone everyday, tracked his loctaion and muliple times he spoke his native tongue to his mom she would flip out and demand to know word for word what he said. It was sad. I was one of the last friends to be let go as i w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:01 PM
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Dude your some of the best entertainment ive had today hahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:31 PM
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I dont think it's less attractive as it's more shamed. As a woman who is with a more masculine man in a lot of ascepts, women who find that attractive can be shamed for liking it. I know i was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:01 PM
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I can definitely agree with that. I think the tides are shifting. With so many Millennials and Gen Zs still needed parental support with the crushing weight of student loans. Alot just stay at home. But whats hard is the way dating is set to be like its implied to be Financially ready. Which definitely makes things harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:57 PM
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Damn so aggressive man you need to learn to chill, did your gf not give you a "reward" for today hahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:22 PM
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Ummm if you have seen my comment history, im married for a little over 5 yrs and im the rare gem of a woman who has a higher sex drive then my partner..... hahahahah but i do appreciate you think im single and that i do "reward" my husband with sex when he does chores. Oh well twist my words to fit your world view.... let me know when you make it the long haul.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:55 PM
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Dude you can keep that mind set all you want. If thats what helping you get laid i guess? But if your in a committed relationship with a partner, then why not want to be there for you partner? Oh well dude, good luck with your journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:45 PM
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You think ita jump through hoops, or you can look at it as alot of women have carried the loads for a long time and that this a partnership not a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:27 PM
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Honestly as a woman who knows some women who still live at home with all the support from the parents. I think its weird, like your talking to someone who got married at 20, lived from home since 15 in dorms and even left my home state. A woman who is almost 30 still at home is the oddest thing in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:53 PM
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Totally agree!! If a man wants a woman to be in the mood, then look at the house and do the dishes, make the bed, start the laundry. Etc. Those things getting done will allow her to relax and be in the mood. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:50 PM
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Any person i have met that did this. Ended up the long term relationship with the "player" and he was a shitty bf. 25F. A personal rule i have had and have told my friends to try and have. A. If a man has the balls to ask you on a date, say yes, be nice and polite and kind and get to know him. B. Dont pay for a date, instead if you plan a date, cook for the date. I wont deny it im old fashion, and i dont say everyone needs to follow theses rules, but i personally did in dating. And i had a very …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:27 PM
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As 25F, in a religious community there are things that i have to say i appreciated in the convo around sex. Im especially Unique as i was from a medical family so sex was disccused which is not common in religious backgrounds. One thing i stumbled upon was a few individuals describing that women desire sex but its not at the forefront of there minds, if man wants a woman to desire sex then he needs to realize the foreplay starts in the kitchen or in the morning with helping with the kids. So if …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:14 PM
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Hahaha you can definitely say that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:48 AM
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Thats a simply numbers game. men want casual sex > greater then > women who want casual sex. Creating a selection pool for women that is huge if they want casual sex. Since more men want that when compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:35 PM
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I know i am! 😎 hahaha my poor husband says i drive him up the walls tehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:12 PM
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25F, well if im honest then most guys would be able to approach me. I find in general guys attractive. As a girl with curves i just dont like super skinny guys, because if my thighs are bigger then your legs together, its not going to work for me hahaha in all honesty it seems very few women really appreciate the cold approach and that is okay, most women arent like me where i find that in general extremely attractive. Even if the guy knew whether or not a girl found them attractive i dont think…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:51 AM
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Thank you!!! I wish you best as well! It was interesting topic to sit back and think about. :) best of luck on the weight journey its an adventure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:31 PM
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I meant in this subreddit someone brought up some character being a bad boy and why are women into it.. Thats what i meant responding in the same vein. My "bad boy" phase was on relationship that lasted a few months before i went a 4 yr college and met my husband. Ssoo yeah. Sorry if that wasnt clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:25 PM
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Then that might be a regional thing. Im from the west coast and ive heard more towards men being stated "you need to man up." While at women it was stop being a child or a brat. I have never figured out why those terms that virtually mean the same thing, someone is acting what others consider below their age, were in a way gendered. Men need to man up, while women needed to stop being a baby etc terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:23 PM
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Oh i wont disagree. And whats crazy about him, is he was dating a woman he never hurt while simultaneously killing like crazy. But lets not forget he is an extreme example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:56 AM
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Your not wrong, thats a real possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:54 AM
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25F, as I feel like i just responded to something in the same vein. As a woman who dated the bad boy. There is something just attractive about a man who is dangerous and bad but would never hurt the girl. So yeah. it’s like I am taming the monster and he is there for me. I think of the Beauty and Beast story. (My personal favorite story and Disney princess).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:20 AM
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Well to my last of known of my ex-friends, they are sadly not doing well. I personally think the games they played has taken a huge mental toll. It’s never wise to lie to people systematically. It’s dehumanizes everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:12 AM
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As woman who at one time pursued a guy, I woke and realized no, I am the prize. Stopped that, and got in a relationship with my now husband. The guy I pursued at one time suddenly became interested when no other girls were available anymore and realized I would make “wifey” material. I dont think it’s about punching up or down. I know for me personally I cared for that guy, outside of his ability in sports, I cared about him. He just didn’t realize it till i moved on to a man who sees my value a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:04 AM
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I find being honest and upfront has benefited me more than playing the game unfairly. I.e. I got married young, and still am married versus some of my ex-friends who played a lot of guys, are still single now. I could have easily played more people if I wanted to. But I wanted to treat men how I would want to be treated. I have more respect for the guy being up front I am looking for a lay then a relationship then a guy who plays games to just have sex. So I made it clear if you dated me, I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:54 AM
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As a woman, I have a lot of guy friends who were the “nice guys.” I’ve been honest with them and told them they need to hit the gym, not for crazy change but they just weren’t cutting it in the physically attractive market. It was not like they had unattractive faces, they just had some weight to lose. That is being said by a girl who can also hit the gym, I am lucky though I married a gym bro who doesn’t mind my curves but would also love a gym girl. So for the guys out there, if you have some …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:50 AM
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Dick size is not that important. I will tell you now, as woman, every other woman is jealous of the girl who is with a guy who satisfies her on the regular. I know of a few women very jealous of some of the partners I have had because they knew I was a sexually satisfied person. Nothing to do with dick size, never even said what the size was of the guy and ladies wanted him cause they knew he could please. So men, if you satisfy her and she just glows after, women will want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:44 AM
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Umm I think I must have missed something. When I have done a lot of research on the rise of poly, a lot of individuals chose poly due to rising cost of everything, not because they wanted it necessarily, they aren’t upset by being poly but a lot more came at play besides “sex with hot guys.” Due to rise in student loans and child care cost. It is a lot easier to survive with 3 incomes and one stay at home parent, then the traditional model of 1 parent working while one stays at home. So… I bet i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:37 AM
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I agree completely but i will point out, i have met women who honestly enjoy being called brat, spoiled, baby etc. I think it comes from certain media like different shows and such praise the brat/spoiled figure. My background is unique to say the least were i was in private schools while simultaneously not always having even decent clothes to wear, so if someone called me spoiled i would offended on muliple levels due to specific struggles i experienced. So i agree apart of it is maturity issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:47 AM
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I think so! Like many woman in my personal circle would be very offended if someone said your acting like a brat or spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:34 AM
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The stalking, i have never understood when i watched my friends go cyber stalking on a guy they liked. And I am not meaning just look at his FB page, i mean like they scanned every photo found his ex’s profile stalked that then stalked this person and a line of other people to “get to know him” instead of idk crazy thought, just talk to the guy himself. Idk it gave me weird vibes, i have looked through someone’s photos on social media but that’s it, I’ve seen girls figure out what the guys mom l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:08 AM
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Well if you never heard it, I’ll say, my husband makes me a better person. I came from an extremely rough rough background, my husband had a more idealized up bringing, he is a lot more emotionally stable then I am (I am a very hyper aware hot head, working on it though). My husband is a peace maker, I am a shit stirrer. My husband is able to be friends with anyone, i tend to be friends with people who also have a rougher background then most. So yes my husband makes me a better person, and he h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:54 AM
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Try to understand women (being said by a woman with friends who are blue, red, etc pills) that’s something i have heard them all say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:32 AM
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Okay when I was 15, I was in a relationship with a guy who I ended up dating for almost 3 years, when I was 18 we broke up. My dreams during that relationship was a degree in education to be a teacher, him to be in computers or nursing, to get married after high school, and to try and buy an orchard of orange trees, and have like 3 kids maybe? By around 26 to 27… When we broke up I did date other people till college when I met my now husband. Things had shifted. I really started to thrive in col…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:00 AM
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As a woman, I’ve honestly heard calling a woman a baby. Like “stop being a baby” or “stop being a child”. That is the closest i have ever heard to be an equivalent. If you’re looking for a term that is being more gendered i.e. woman-child versus man-child, i think it just dont catch as well in the English language so people will simply say she is a baby or she is acting like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:28 AM
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I am personally neither a red or blue pill woman, some of my way more blue pill friends think I’m red, and my red pill friends think I am blue. I am very much more in the middle. So I would put out a few ideas. As woman I have married a more traditional man in many aspects but not all. Growing up, my grandfather had a secret family and left his family for his second family. My father watched his mother struggle to provide for the 3 kids she had with this man, she worked as a migrant field worker…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:00 AM
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Hello first I am honestly surprised you responded to me. I stated that as I saw that said in some of the other comments. People were trying to claim women aren’t interested or desire sex. I do no think that is true. I think if risk that was associated with sex was lower, and men made sure women got off, then I think more women would be willing to participate in casual sex. I worked in food for long time. We had some very very attractive men who were able to get more girls then even coworkers in …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:31 AM
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Dont fuck every woman who gives you a chance to fuck. As a girl i told this to a bunch of freshman guys who became friends with my friend group. Dont sleep with every girl who gives you chance to sleep with. And that school year muliple guys where kicked out for title 9 accusations. Not a single guy in my friend group. Like i tell girls be careful around guys you dont know. I told guys be careful girls you dont know. So for the guys who worry about being falsey put as a baby daddy. I agree with …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:16 PM
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Uumm girls do want sex, but the orgasm gap is a real thing. And most one night stands dont care at all if the woman gets off. So why sleep with strangers if you're still not going to get an orgasm? As someone who has been married to my spouse for over 5 yrs. Im the woman who wants sex more than him, and he is always exhausted by it hahah. If i ever lose him and have to be in the dating game now. It looks like it's filled with hooking up with guys who dont care if the girl gets off. Yeah, no. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:40 PM
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