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its because we've found alternative, easier methods of reaching the same goals. Manipulation and coercion, along with a big dose of false projection. There is no shortcut to attractiveness, and the shortcuts you imply involve becoming a socially parasitic, emotionally abusive, narcissistic piece of shit. The mental gymnastics here are at olympic levels.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:34 PM
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You can put yourself down into the 9th circle of hell Hastings, which is evidently where your attitude crawled out of
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:32 PM
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Yikes. First of all, only 7% of women comparative to 90+% of men orgasm in one night stands, so if we're talking about who's pleasing whom, then the difference in satisfaction is undeniable.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:29 PM
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"can you, uh, tell me - in extensive detail - how much you enjoy being submissive, and uh, the specific instances you enjoy? Double spaced, pdf format, separated by chapter. For research purposes of course. Thank you"
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:27 PM
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What no but seriously tell me more about san francisco
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:26 PM
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I honestly doubt the sample size and quality of that survey.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:26 PM
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The guy I dated had the same preference. HAD I KNOWN I would've completely taken advantage of the situation because I love that dynamic. Except he didn't tell me and expected me to read his mind. So while he thought that I wasn't into it - I was simply incredibly confused about his behaviour. Don't make his mistake. Whenever i'd actually make the dominant move he'd try to win back that dominance, and I couldn't tell if it was in the context of playing, or in the context of him legitimately being…
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:21 PM
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Do you even have a life? Hobbies? Interests? This is lame. edit: I wish you turned this into a paragraph because it would've made a hilarious copypasta
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:17 PM
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Why are you blaming the girl? Also you seem naive to say that there aren't reasons you could change your mind. For example, off the top of my head: she wanted to but then had the massive, stomach churning urge to take a shit she began contemplating her life choices and realized that kissing OP might be a mistake she realized how much OP looks like her ex boyfriend and that suddenly turned her off etc. lmao So why are you blaming her? She has the complete right to change her mind. (stop acting li…
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:16 PM
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That's my problem with the concept of "escalation". If she's into it, the escalation is going to be mutual. If she's not into it, you're running the risk of looking like a moronic robot programmed for coercion. He described a long, drawn out process which could've easily taken 20+ minutes. Did he seriously not notice that her reactions were subpar that entire time?
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:14 PM
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While I agree, a simple "Is everything ok?" would be more than enough to clarify the situation without OP having to come here to ask us. OP - we don't know why she reacted in the way she did because it could've been a million reasons. It's on you to ask her.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:12 PM
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"that women are to be viewed as goddesses" <-- idk where you're getting this, as porn portrays women as objects for sex to be extracted from. Some old hollywood movie isn't going to compete with that. Feeling nervous around someone you like is normal. I repeat, there is nothing wrong with you if you notice a feeling within yourself that says "I am scared to fuck things up with this girl". No reason to shun that feeling. The problem becomes when you start letting those feelings take hold of you i…
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:10 PM
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"Attraction can be created" <-- how? through manipulation tactics affecting the psyche? That's a projection of attraction onto someone else, and ultimately parasitic form of emotional abuse. I agree with OP. If you're not attractive enough to the other from the start, then you either need to (1) improve yourself to be objectively attractive enough or (2) lower your standards and find someone who is fundamentally attracted to you
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:05 PM
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"This is one of the primary reasons guys have trouble with confidence around women. Their self-perception is one of mediocrity and inferiority." A lot of them are inferior, that's why we have the status quo and whatever falls below it. You can't force someone to change their self perception if their self perception is based in factual reality - many of the posters and commenters here are, in fact, undeniably mediocre and are looking for shortcuts to becoming attractive to someone. anyone. They c…
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:02 PM
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You have to consider if what you're doing is manipulative. If you have to force a situation to the extent where you're employing tactics like "push/pull" - that means that: (1) You're too autistic to sustain a connection in the first place and you're better off developing a pleasing personality, and (2) The person who you're trying to "seduce" is subconsciously aware of your lack of social development and sees you as a red flag, hence the apprehension.
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:58 PM
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So basically you learned how to develop social skills by applying it to picking up women. Good for you, but there are plenty of other ways to develop social skills that don't fundamentally orbit around seeing women as an obstacle to sex.
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:57 PM
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You're centering your entire esteem (and frankly, ego) on your ability to use women as a means to an end for sex. It's not the sex you're missing, it's the self-development.
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:56 PM
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I'd rather you fuck off to the depths of your basement than bring that shit to van smfh
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:54 PM
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"I’m not saying you shouldn’t address the lack of vagina on your life" Fucking cringe. You're clearly too much of a teen to be giving any advice. Maybe you should realize that women aren't merely an obstacle to "vagina" before you start preaching "inner game" (gag)
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:54 PM
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"ready to plow" fucking cringe
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:51 PM
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I disagree. Even though those are the original plans, plans can change. He shouldn't feel like he's entitled to consistently escalate if he senses that there is discomfort or not eager participation.
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:50 PM
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I disagree. He needs to be aware of the context. If she isn't comfortable, then don't pester her. I see a lot of comments encouraging to "back off and escalate again" - that can be interpreted as coercion if the one escalating doesn't take into account the context. Ultimately, you have to be aware of the comfort level and notice even the smallest signs of discomfort, otherwise you may be putting yourself in a situation where you end up manipulating the other person. Make sure she's enthusiastica…
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:49 PM
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