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This is why my ex stayed with his wife so long. He knew she wouldn't leave, so he got bored of her and decided to have an emotional affair, and then accuse her of being a bad wife. She was indeed an awful person and is just as dumb (she hates gays and is a racist), though this loser straight up told me he pressured her into sex because she never wanted to have sex. Well, had I settled for that and actually married him, I'd dead bedroom his useless, shrimp dick, dying antelope flopping ass too. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:05 PM
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Me too. My mother introduced him to us, as they were former work colleagues. That's how we became friends and began dating. He was grooming me with his people pleasing and personality mirroring, and I had no idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:07 PM
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A Savior Complex and Passive Aggression. Hello abuse. If you don't let him constantly "save" you, and be your "hero," he will resent you. He'll just resent you anyway because being passive aggressive and people pleasing are the only things he knows. These men often come off as kind and caring, but are boiling pots of resentment and anger because their "help" has gone unappreciated and unnoticed. They want women to become dependent on them so they will always have control over the relationship. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:55 PM
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Same! In less than 6 months he went from an amazing, caring lovely guy that my family loved, to an emotionally abusive, negging sack of shit, who he really is. I'm so glad I recognized the signs and made him "dump" me so I didn't have to deal with the fallout of me dumping him and my family wondering why. My mom still doesn't really believe he was trying to tear me down or abuse me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:13 PM
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Yep. Sounds like my good friend and her NV husband. Met when she was 17 and he was 24. She's 32 now and everytime I talk to her all she does is complain about how unhappy she is that he doesn't do anything or help with the kids. I remember specifically one time some years ago before they were married she told me not only does he destroy their toilet all the time, but she washes his clothes separately because his underwear were always shitty and needed to be scrubbed. I've always hated this guy. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:22 AM
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My ex didn't physically cheat, but he began an emotional affair with someone and I think that's why he left his ex-wife. Same story too, just an unhappy coward who made it a woman's job to fix him and it inevitably didn't work, so of course after wasting her life and having a kid, he jumped ship and now resents her and their child, hates his life and is a miserable, childish sack no women should ever put up with. I lasted less than 6 months and was done with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:31 PM
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Wow. Did we date the same man? It is scary how so many of us have the same story with different men. A man like this is a bottomless pit of need, whether he thinks you're his "soul mate" or not does NOT matter. 100% my ex to a T.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:27 PM
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Wow. My ex in a nutshell, as is this post. 🤣😭 God he is just embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:35 AM
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I came to this realization when, at 20, my then fiance told me he wanted 4-5 kids. I was repulsed. Both of us worked minimum wage jobs, had no savings, weren't even married yet and he had no plans to ever get higher education. He is now 33 (4 years older than me) and still living in the craphole town working a crapshoot job. What he said just did not sit right with me. I absolutely hated his nieces and nephews because they were so poorly behaved due to their addicted, abusive mother. Not their f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:26 AM
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I've had this done. Guy said he was 31, I was 27. I saw his license when he gave it to the bartender. He was 42. I declined to see him again and he had the audacity to ask why. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:15 AM
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Ugh. This gives me hard ex-bf/LVM energy. This is the man who brags to the few friends he has about how great his life is because she carries 100% of the relationship work. This woman absolutely needs to get rid of this baby via adoption and run from this man or she will end up like my friend. Unable to even go to school because her loser husband convinced her she won't find better and doesn't need school, and now she's stuck in a mountain of his debt, working a FT job and with two of his scrote…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 04:28 PM
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WE HAVE A WINNER. My ex to a T. Insecure, mean, controlling and overall underwhelming, zero personality and horribly inept at life. Not to mention short, bald, and not attractive. I'm the most attractive woman he will find, I weep for the poor naive pick-me that ends up marrying/LTR with him. Barely 6 months in and he went from HV to NV real fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:50 PM
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I feel you. My ex is an absolute loser. He didn't cheat....yet. But he was horribly insecure, controlling, terrible in bed, and acted like he was some prize. He's 36, in a mountain of debt and had the audacity to say that he doesn't tell women his salary.....he doesn't have money because he can't even afford the lifestyle he lives. I know he would've cheated on me because he knows he can't find better, so he'd take any scraps he could get and then bore them to death with his ED and child-like no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:55 AM
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Same as if he says he's "broken" and tries to justify his poor behavior and seek out women to fix him. You're not a fucking Jeep Wrangler and your girlfriend ain't a mechanic, take your broken ass self back to your damn mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:43 PM
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THIS. My ex acted like I wasn't supposed to hold him accountable and continue being in his life after he did nothing but lie to me the entire time I knew him because he shed a few crocodile tears and said he was sorry. He is so deeply insecure that he turned his self-hatred onto me and when I left, acted like I slighted him because he didn't really mean he wanted me to leave, he was just "testing me." Even more of a reason to leave. He had ZERO follow-through and made everything about himself. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 03:28 PM
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I absolutely love her ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:41 AM
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Exactly. My now ex I was with for barely 6 months and the "man" she described in the video is him to a T. He paraded as a HVM, but within 2 months into the relationship he went straight back to his LVM life and began trying to break me down and questioning everything about our relationship. He lived for validation and sought it from me, and those around him constantly. I am now embarrassed I dated him at all. Even more humiliating is that he's so ugly, plain and terrible in bed, I'm not sure he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:55 PM
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Exactly. My dusty scrote of a LVM parading as a HVM tried this crap too. He cared about me so much he just couldn't lose me (Clinger). He and his son "needed" me because I'm a great role model.......and he wanted to be sure his image of being a "good guy" was kept intact and that the only hot, HV woman he's ever going to get is still within orbit to increase his value by proxy to other women. No thanks ya scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:49 PM
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Most women are overqualified- it’s the men who aren’t suitable. YES 👍 👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:21 AM
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Literally my former best friend to a T. For years he thought putting Nice Coins into me would get him a relationship. It didn't. So he raped me instead. But he's a great guy and any woman would be lucky to have his dusty, ashy, entitled, unkempt, rotten teeth-having ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:41 AM
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Exactly. My ex did this too. Except, he's ugly AF. I was an upgrade and he was 100% a downgrade for me, and he knew it. He thinks we'll be friends again in the future because he wants it. I've already said no on several occasions. He broke up with me as a test to see if I'd leave and said "I think we're better as friends...." I said "Okay" packed the few things I had and left. I lost all respect for him and my attraction was basically gone by then anyway and I was going to dump him. He was the u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:37 AM
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Exactly. He was threatened by and afraid of women like me, so dusty insecure LVM logic: Get her into a relationship and then break her down. He couldn't, and it terrified him because guess what? My self-esteem isn't dependent on him or others and he couldn't deal with it. I was on my way out the door anyway so when he "dumped me" aka tested me to see if I'd beg, I dumped his ass right back and left. I realized soon after that I was in love with and cared about his representative, not him. And th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:15 PM
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Unfortunately, they've probably broken their wives down and/or purposesly went for women with low self-esteem that they thought were subpar to them These dudes are just gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:55 PM
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Exactly. My ex thinks that because he makes more money doing a job he has no experience and isn't even qualified to do that he got only because he knew a guy who vouched for him, he's somehow more desirable. Nah, he still balded at 25, is subpar looking, dusty, emotionally abusive, lacking in every fundamental department, lazy, unambitious and LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:53 PM
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Fantastic words 👏 My ex didn't cheat that I know of, but tbh it wouldn't surprise me. However, triangulation with his ex-wife he claimed to hate who's no better than him in looks or lacking personality, and his married, pregnant best friend whom he doesn't stand a chance with (she's wonderful), and tried putting me in the middle as if he's any prize. I was like, bruh, LMAO are you serious? The only person who would still accept this treatment is your ex-wife because she's a doormat and that's wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:56 AM
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Yes! 👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:31 AM
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Exactly. I was raped last year by a guy I thought was one of my best friends. I was diagnosed with PTSD 3 weeks later and spent 4 months in trauma therapy. It didn't/doesn't give me an excuse to be shitty to other people. My exes problems are not an excuse to behave the way he does and then act like it's not a big deal because he's a "good guy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:16 PM
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Exactly. I'm 98% sure my ex has untreated PTSD/Bipolar. It doesn't give him an excuse to be abusive or so insecure he projected it at me, which is all he did. He was a terrible partner that no woman should ever put up with. His mask fell off about 2 months in and everything went downhill fast. I'm grateful he left because I was about to anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:13 PM
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This is fantastic. Once I started therapy and dealing with my trauma, my life got better and these days I enjoy and cherish time alone. My therapist told me I had a habit of running from all of my feelings and traumas (I was Avoidant). She told me to sit with them and feel them or I would never get better. Stop looking for quick fixes, boyfriends and distraction, to sit with them and learn to soothe them instead. 5 years on I am glad I did. Alone time is healthy and helps you understand yourself…
/r/seduction10/06/21 01:48 AM
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Great post. Fantastic Advice.
/r/seduction17/05/21 11:05 AM
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