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I know :( HUG You can get through this. There are other, better men out there who'll love you for you. Don't settle, you deserve better :) If you need to vent and complain or anything, we're always here!
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 01:39 AM
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I'm going to be frank, he essentially said, "I like you enough to date you, and be exclusive right now, but if my parents don't approve of you later, I am going to drop you." A 40 year old man who lives with his parents and lets them dictate his romantic life is not a leader, he is a boy looking for a secret girlfriend until his family tells him it's time to marry some Afghan virgin. You are 31(about?) who has a life, deep feelings, you can't afford to invest your heart, your time, your youth in…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 01:35 AM
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It's true, they will, yes. And if you have multiple children you will have multiple opportunities. And I do at least, I love my husband, and maybe it won't be as long together as we would like, but I wouldn't trade the years for anyone. And yes, but , at least for my husband and me, him being a leader doesn't mean I have no voice or opinion. He listens to me, values me, and makes the final decision. And we are raising our children similar where a woman should follow her man, but he should value …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 11:31 AM
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My husband is 13 years older than me, and is something I've thought of too. It's scary, I don't deny it, but I think it's still worthwhile. I don't like to think in terms of a modern relationship where everything has to be perfectly symmetrical. We have our different duties, devotions, seasons of life. I do think a man who is older can give a girl so much, more than someone her age. And I like to think that when that horrible day comes, I will have my kids, grandkids, and it will pay of in old a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 10:45 AM
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I totally get it, it is so hard to feel soft and warm when you’re secretly ready to tear someone’s head off. When I used to get cheated on or passed over for promotions in my old life, I wanted to tear a head off and get 100% bitchy. But I hated how that felt. It completely makes me feel so, well bitchy, and not feminine. The best way to stay feminine in those moments is to focus on keeping your composure. You can say, "I'm not okay with this," or "We need to fix this," in a completely calm, sof…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 10:52 PM
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I want to be crystal clear, you do not get only one shot at this. There are other, better men out there. Ones you can trust and have kids with. You're only 23! You're not old at all. You're not used up. You are entirely right, he's not sorry for the betrayal, just that he got caught. And if a bump in the road is all it takes for him to look for outside validation... I promise you, high-value, traditional, faithful men exist. As long as you are pouring 100% of your energy your money, your youth i…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 09:53 PM
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Oh, my heart breaks reading this. Please, one former consultant to another, you need to look at this with the same analysis you did at work. It sounds like you are running a deficit on human, emotional investment that is bankrupting you emotionally. You are working 18 hours a day, covering his debts, killing yourself to build a life for him, while he is paying you back by humiliating you in your own community. To answer your question bluntly: no, this is not normal, healthy male behavior, and no…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 09:31 PM
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