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Question For MenObvious_Smoke3633/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:47 AM
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Innocent until proven guilty is a legal term. Intended for legal consequences. The court of public opinion doesn't have rules. Using a real rape and torture ring to discuss false accusations is really low, scum of the earth behavior. There are hundred times more rapists who lie about not being rapists than there are women who lie about being raped. You personally sre 200 times more likely to be raped by a man than be falsely accused. I'm not going to entertain this discussion any longer because …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:31 PM
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Think of the poor helpless billionaires :/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:05 PM
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Vibes? The fbi has millions of emails, photos, and hundreds of reports of accusations from hundreds of people all over the world ? Over 10 million fbi documents are "vibes"? You're disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:04 PM
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Imagine being so indignant and self-serving that the exposure of a 20 year long child sex trafficking and torture (possible murder) ring perpetrated by some of the richest men in the world with hundreds of victims leads you to think about false rape accusations. It's like bringing up body positivity when talking about starving children in impoverished areas. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:25 AM
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Most memorable? I was at my local bodega paying at the counter when a 60 something year old man started talking about how good looking I am to all the other customers in the store as if I couldn't hear him. He ended up blocking the door so I couldn't leave and said "hey ma where u from?" I told him "excuse me, none of your business" because he trapped me inside of the store and wasn't letting me pass. He proceeded to call me a bunch of names and like "whore" and "stupid bitch" saying I think I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:50 PM
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No. I knew back then how men were and didn't consider any of my boyfriends as "husband" material. We were kids, and I knew they were more immature than me and not ready for what I wanted at the time. Young men tend to partake in a lot of behaviors I wouldn't forgive or overlook long-term. They were learning experiences only.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:43 PM
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People also claim the earth is flat and women were created out of man's rib.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:47 PM
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It's weird how men believe that testosterone is the only hormone responsible for libido. That is true in men, but not true in women. Estrogen is just as important as libido in women, which is why womens sex drive declines so much after menopause. Also, things like progesterone, cortisol, and dopamine affect libido in that they lower it. It's just a reflection of how women aren't studied in medicine and everything is seen through a male lense. Testosterone is not the be-all and end all of libido.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:46 PM
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Not 1970. At least in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:58 AM
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people can't just cater to women then turn around and treat men like trash... This is the problem with young men these days. The level of delusion. Men treated women like trash for all of eternity. Rape, murder, beatings, forced pregnancy, sex trafficking. Women were property forced to be broodmare maids and cater to men who treated them like trash. YES you DO have to cater to women if you want one to like you. That's exactly the problem. You don't get to own a woman anymore. We have to like and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:51 AM
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It's a classic golden child/black sheep dynamic. One of the writers/creators clearly grew up the black sleep of a narcissistic family.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:16 AM
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Can you guys stop the bullshit pretending men pay all the bills? Like seriously it's so fucking annoying. Most people split their bills IF they live together. The only men I know paying all the bills are married with multiple children and the wife still works part time at least. Most men cannot AFFORD to be providers anymore. Please get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:40 PM
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Where? Pvc can't rust. That's why they use it for plumbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:42 PM
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I bet most men agree with me. And that's why there's a male loneliness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:41 PM
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You mean lugnuts or bolts? The only thing on my car that has screw is the plastic lining over the frame body and the seat tracks. No one is doing that 🤣 you literally have never done any of the things you're describing so inaccurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:41 PM
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Unless he wants to discuss the character arcs of avatar the last airbender then no leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:15 AM
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I know you don't have a therapist now, but I feel bad for the court ordered one that has to interact with you in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:13 AM
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I don't think any men really respect women. Willing to marry and have sex with yes, respect? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:27 AM
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No, and he's never done any of the things he's talking about clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:26 AM
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In my entire 32 years of life living with my father and on my own ive never a pipe leak that required anything but tightening the connection. Most men don't own their own home to even have a pipe to fix. I don't know where you live where people are welding pipes for plumping. Most are PVC and sold in set sizes at Home Depot unless you're a professional builder doing a custom job. Screw head for what? Hanging a TV mount on the rented apartment wall once every time you move in or out? You're liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:29 AM
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Be heterosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:20 AM
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Taking the car to the mechanic, calling the HVAC technician, and removing the snow off of cars 5 times a year isn't "a lot of stuff", they're seasonal and occasional chores. Most young people rent, they don't do any of these things ever and just send a text to the landlord. Cooking and cleaning take hours per day. It takes me 6 hours a week to meal prep and would take even longer if I cooked different meals every day. Throwing some salt on the path before a snow storm =/= daily cooking and clean…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:14 AM
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If women ARE supposed to be good at cooking, why is cooking a profession dominated by men? Women are only "good" at cooking if you don't have to pay for it. It men are single, and they have no problem paying other men to cook for them, but when a woman does it, it's an obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:09 AM
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Personally, I've never met a man who respects women the same way he respects men. I know men who are respectful to women, but at the end of the day most of you think men are the better, more logical, more powerful gender and women are weak, emotional, needy and childlike creatures. I agree that all men don't think or do all of these things. But all men think or do other problematic things that are similar. This sub is a testament to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:57 AM
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I think he meant getting sexual pleasure out of sex, not the entire relationship. Even with all the love and emotional intimacy in the world, I would still require orgasms from sex in a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:54 AM
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He doesn't want to buy flowers or plan dates. He just wants a friend who is nice to him and shares hobbies without him having to put in any traditionally masculine romantic efforts or gestures (known to red pill as "simping"). Preferably, she is into kinky sex and likes to cook for him without demanding anything in return besides his presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:49 AM
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In my experience, most men will happily be in a relationship whether they want one or not. They will take the relationship for now and continue to cheat on the side. They don't like to lose access once they get it even if it involves some lying and manipulation, they have the time and energy because the idea of having two women or more at once is too much ego boosting to soothe their low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:43 AM
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Vetting for months or years ?! My great grandparents arranged the marriage of my grandparents via letter from Greece to New York city. They never met and didn't know each others families. They sent their 19 year old daughter on a boat to New York to marry a 41 year old stranger who beat hear everyday. You have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:39 AM
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Because I've noticed a lot of men speak in code. Loneliness = not being granted access to sex. Respect = authority. Love = ownership. A lot of these lonely men could make friends but just want sex. Even when men do get to have sex with women, they don't care about the woman's pleasure. Loneliness, imo is not a real problem. Especially not when mens behavior is a lot of the reason why so many women are opting out of dating. I think the red pill for women is accepting that most men will never see …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:56 PM
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Even "good men" don't empathize often with women. I've overheard men talking about pregnancy and childbirth in such disgusting ways. Calling pregnant women fat & lazy. Judging them for not snapping back to their prepregnancy body when they still have a dinner plate sized wound healing in their abdomen. Talking about a woman they "love" like that 😣. The way some sexualize children. The way some men like to threaten women with rape and death threats in gaming and online. The way men have tried to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:16 PM
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Girl, speak for yourself. If my man never made me cum I would leave him so fucking fast. There is a massive gap between "only sexual pleasure" and "zero sexual pleasure".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:02 PM
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I've said so many times on this sub that I genuinely believe ugly people tend to be less pleasant to date. I think being insecure/lacking confidence/positive social feedback causes a lot more negative behaviorsl patterns in people than being attractive. All the attractive people I know are typically very sweet. The worst behaved people I know usually are pretty hideous. My worst experiences with men were the uglier/overweight ones. I also think attractive men don't need the social validation of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:14 PM
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I think this is his version of erotic literature
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:11 PM
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Then who is Tyrone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:07 PM
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Yeah because you're describing "chad" behavior. Chad is a good looking man who can easily get women because he's attractive. Chad doesn't describe a personality. The scenario you're describing is just as common in uggos as it is in Chad. You guys just project all bad behavior onto Chad due to insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:06 PM
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They're usually cheaters. Adding to an already high body count while in a relationship is a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:01 PM
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We like good sex absolutely. That's not what most men offer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:16 PM
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So we are supposed to be psychics? You don't know if someone will nut in 2 minutes until after it happens. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:53 PM
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I personally have all female doctors and have never had a problem. I've been seeing the same primary care doctor for 21 years, and she's awesome. My gyno is also super awesome. My only bad experiences with a doctor was with a male ER doctor. I was bitten by a cat and my hand swelled up to about 150% the size within 2 hours. The cat ended up basically injecting the tendons of my wrist with his mouth bacteria and it was really badly infected almost immediately. I did everything I could but needed …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:41 PM
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I have a degree is nutrition. Please explain to me the very basics of metabolic function so I can see how stupid you actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:08 PM
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NEWSFLASH: UGLY MEN CAN CHEAT. UGLY MEN CAN LIE. UGLY MEN CSN ABUSE AND MANIPULATE JUST LIKE GOOD LOOKING MEN. more at 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:00 PM
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Do you dentists spar in a boardroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:20 PM
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Normal men are actually the worst at sex in my opinion. You can't communicate that a man shouldn't nut in 2 minutes, that's fucking obvious and by the time it happens it's too late. Never met a chad who wasn't decent in bed. It's usually the insecure normie guys that have hang ups and insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:13 PM
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For men it's rare and pleasurable. For women it's abundant and usually pretty lame. You forgot that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:08 PM
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A site strictly for people looking for relationships. For example, an opt in setting for every person you message. Opt in and you can talk about whatever you want, send pics etc. Don't opt in and the first sexual message is blocked and the account is automatically deleted permanently. Anyone who immediately says "hey let's meet up" without a conversation, removed from the site. Pumped and dumped a girl after telling her you wanted a relationship? Reported and removed. Bots automatically removed.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:01 AM
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Genuinely, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:49 AM
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I have a degree in dietetics (nutrition for the layman). Hormonal issues trump CICO.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:44 AM
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There is no time period. It's occurrence of cheating by age group. All it does is show the prevalance of extramarital sex of people in that age group. The age doesn't mark the time period- actually "the age marks the time period" has no actual meaning in the English language. That entire sentence has zero logical meaning nor understanding of anything, at all. Read a book. Maybe 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:50 PM
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I have thyroid problems. I was diagnosed by a doctor and confirmed every single visit for the last 6 years. For me to lose weight I have to eat 1200 calories a day. For me to not gain weight, I have to eat under 1800 calories despite burning 2500 calories a day at my high intensity job. I work out 5 days a week and am 23% body fat. Some days, I burn 2900 calories or more depending on if I walk more than 35k steps, which happens about once a week. You got your medical degree at retard school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:46 PM
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If he wants a wife who puts out whenever he wants, why would he be jerking off to other women? If woman's husband decides when and how she has sex (rape) then a woman can demand that her husband has sex when and how she wants it as well. Which means no jerking off to freshly 18 teens or onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:42 PM
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Oh well too bad so sad. You want a hot submissive wife then you should be a hot and rich man with self control and self discipline. If you want a wife who puts out whenever YOU want then she wouldn't want you wanking off to other women. If you want someone to have sex when they don't want sex then it would only be fair. Who cares if balding is uncontrollable? Women who have kids can't control If their stomach is sagging due to diastasis recti or if they have stretch marks either. Both of those r…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:41 PM
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Yeah exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:28 PM
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Will he remain fit with a full head of hair, not watch porn, pay every bill and eat pussy on demand?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:27 PM
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Do you think this is a chart of the same people cheating over time? It's % of partners who had extramarital sex by age. Not over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:26 PM
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Did you mean to respond from your real account or your alt account pretending to be a woman? I could say the same. No man on earth deserves what you're describing, so why would women do that for a chubby balding man who makes 50k a year and she also has to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:24 PM
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I used to puree veggies and add it into sauce like my ex was an actual toddler. I always gain weight in relationships because of the fact they constantly want take out. For lunch today I'm having one roasted Japanese sweet potato with seasalt and olive oil. My breakfast was 12 oz of cottage cheese and an orange. Everytime I eat take out I pretty much bloat immediately. It's insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:44 PM
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Definitely does. They still made it past the threshold, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:42 PM
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Delf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:41 PM
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Every man I've ever dated ate a ton of junk food and excess calories. I went to college for nutrition and culinary arts. Tbh, sometimes I meet men who literally disgust me with their diets and sheer quantity of food. I hate living with men because they eat absolutely everything in sight. Men typically eat portions 3 times the size of what I eat. That's also why I'll never go 50/50 with a man because I'm never eat 50% of the food. The obsession with meat and disdain for veggies also annoys me. En…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:50 PM
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Unless a man is over 6 foot, pays every bill plus fun money, doesn't need viagra into his old age, maintains a full head of hair, and eat pussy like it's his last meal, why would a woman do this for an average man? There would literally be zero incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:40 PM
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Few? Less than 1 in 10. Maybe 1 in 12 or 1 in 15. 1 in 4 is a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:36 PM
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If you actually read the words he wrote it 100% does. 26% is 1 in 4. That's way too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:32 PM
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I don't think you know how to read graphs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:31 PM
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So the tens of millions of people who don't want to get married or have kids should do so, because psykotyrant thinks so? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:31 PM
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How else would they measure this? Put private investigators on thousands of people for 35 years ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:30 PM
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Because you said 95% of men can't get their foot in the door. But it's not 95%. It's just you and some others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:28 PM
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If you narrow it down to people in their 20s who probably shouldn't be married anyway, then yeah. That still means 50% of men or more will marry at some point since divorce exists, and so do multiple marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:43 PM
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He called himself an incel and shot 2 girls because one of the girls wouldn't date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:42 PM
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His words, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:42 PM
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<image> Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:41 PM
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I kind of disagree with the part that it's a reflection of how people will behave online or offline. I used to use hinge and bumble where you can kind of see a quick message of someone who liked your profile before you matched. I would have hundreds of fat or hideous men leaving me really deranged comments like "so when are we gonna fuck?" These men would absolutely never approach me in real life, nevermind say something that disrespectful to me. It just wouldn't happen. A lot of men are embolde…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:30 AM
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50% of men are already married....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:16 AM
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Clitorises don't self lubricate. Vaginal secretions reduce acidity and thickness during ovulation. Otherwise, the rest of the cycle vaginal secretions block sperm from moving and kills sperm with its acidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:54 PM
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Child support is not an example of misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:31 PM
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An incel just shot 2 girls in my neighborhood, and it didn't make national news.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:27 PM
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As a woman, my male role models are Robert Irwin and Mr. Rogers. They're not traditionally masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:16 PM
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That is true mainly because men will have sex with people they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:10 PM
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Why would men build a cruel natured world to begin with? Men can't be the problem and the solution at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:42 PM
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Do you realize how nonsensical it is to say that they need to measure pregnancy mortality rate in men? It would be like measuring outcomes of prostate cancer in women....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:34 PM
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it's not the Disney lie we've been fed since we were born So you're trying to tell me that real life women don't live in the woods with 7 dwarves or in a castle with their wicked stepmother, stepsisters, and mischievous obese cat? I don't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:51 AM
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I personally don't know any woman that would want a fuckbuddy, as clarified in your previous comments. A friend's with benefits would be friends that hang out and know each other decently well and also have sex. There are some women who are open to this. A fuckbuddy is basically a booty call. There are very, very, very, very few women open to this. Typically, ime, a fuxk buddy is an ex-boyfriend or someone you've already had sex with and determined you're incompatible on a personality level. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:45 PM
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No they're not 😅 I don't want any dynamic of power or control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:02 PM
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I'm not into kink. Most men into kink are dominant and I don't do that whatsoever. I hate the kink community. I just want vanilla sex that is longer than 10 minutes and is exciting with foreplay. I'm not into slapping Choking or domination.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:38 PM
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This is so ridiculously true. I have a really high sex drive and like to try different things in bed. Men will talk a big game about wanting to do x, y, & z. But God forbid I actually initiate x, y, & z in bed, then they judge me so harshly or reject me. They're more comfortable doing a, b, &c. They don't want to try anything new, or if they do, they judge me harshly afterward. It's weird because I'm actually pretty vanilla compared to people who are into bdsm and things like that. Yet I still g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:04 PM
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Men on this sub: you should have chosen better! Women can't vet to save their lives!!!! Didn't you see the red flags?!? Thats why you all get pumped and dumped by Chad. Stupid women. AWALT!!! The same exact men: putting in effort to show a woman you actually care about her is a waste of time. She should be chasing me and not vetting me for my level of interest or effort at all. Women who really like you will chase YOU!!!! So we're simultaneously supposed to be chasing men who are basically stran…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:06 AM
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Men suffer, and women suffer at the hands of a society built by men. I lack empathy for men who suffer from patriarchy because you guys enjoy the benefits of patriarchy just fine. I empathize with other women who suffer under patriarchy because we don't get the same benefits you do. You have to go all the way back to 1945 to talk about men having negative effects of patriarchy. I don't have to do that. I can name multiple women suffering from patriarchy now. What about the woman in Georgia who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:15 PM
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Even with lions females do all the hunting. The males just lay around and wait for breeding season. Elephants. Orcas. Whales. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:04 PM
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Being hot is expensive. You're not gonna get a hot woman for free. Even if you, she won't be hot very long. A hot woman will have all the options in the world. Why would she choose a man who sees her as a bang maid when she could find someone rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:26 PM
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Tbh, my hookups were the less attractive ones. I wouldn't get into a relationship with a guy I don't want to be seen with in public. Sometimes I just needed someone to eat my pussy and go home after. I only date the attractive ones. I can overlook a guys looks for night, not for months to years on end. A hook up is just that. A warm body with a usable tongue and fingers, didn't really care about the rest of the man. I have way higher standards for boyfriends both in looks and personality. You gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:03 AM
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Because men lie to other men. The women they're in relationships with get to see them 100%. The little secret 10% they hide from friends, family, and coworkers is usually pretty dark or toxic. I've never met or dated a man who didn't end up having a major issue. Obviously, there is going to be some outlier. But when you look at statistics, there is really not many man "good men" left. The percentage of married men that watch porn, pay for only fans, are on dating apps.... the stats are bleak. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:53 AM
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Seems that every woman I know that's in a relationship is dealing with some shit like this. Even my boss is married to a bum. I honestly don't know any women that don't have a similar complaint about their husband or boyfriend. I've never been in relationship where a guy didn't have a similarly problematic issue. The issue is always different but usually a deal breaker level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:48 AM
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I've met in every way possible. At work, dating apps in the past (haven't been on in years), school, the gym, the grocery, yoga & pilates class.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:01 PM
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Men in their 50s and 60s cheat more than any other demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:33 PM
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Tell that to 3 out of the 4 men I've been in LTR with. They all argued about it and refused to wear the slippers I bought them and would get in my bed with grey dusty feet. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:21 PM
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No I don't think most men are attractive because they're not. Clearly a lot of women feel the same way or you guys wouldn't be on here whining about 80/20 for the last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:16 PM
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Yeah but zero married women cheat with strippers. Every married man at a strip club cheats at strip clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:29 PM
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I can be happily single and still aware of my surroundings. I had to cut off a bunch of female friends because all they do is complain about their husband/boyfriend but won't leave. It's exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:29 PM
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I'm not making myself available. I genuinely don't care if I find my dream man. Being single has been the most peaceful time of my life. I'm not a man. I'm not desperate for a relationship. It would be nice to find a partner that isn't a burden on my life. I am content to live the rest of my life completely single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:22 PM
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Married women usually cheat with coworkers and not strippers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:20 PM
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I'm not delusional. I don't like men enough to approach them. They're not attractive enough to attract me. I'm simply not interested. There is no delusion there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:17 PM
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Okay that's her opinion. I'm giving you mine. Different women have different opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:14 PM
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Going on a couple dates = dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:12 PM
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That's where we go 🤷‍♀️ i don't purposely go out to bars or restaurants to meet dudes. I'm not into masculine hobbies so I don't do that. I would love for someone to ask me out at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:12 PM
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No one in the story did she get free rent. I've had men pay my rent before. But only because I paid for all groceries, cooked all the meals, cleaned the entire apartment, did all laundry, and had to cook 4x the amount of food I would normally cook for myself because men are endless pits. I was spending $300 a week on groceries with my ex when I spend about $75/ week to feed myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:58 PM
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Not fat. Lives alone. Not in debt. Not a gooner. Doesn't gamble, use drugs or smoke. Financially responsible. Can cook and maintains a clean home. Basic hygiene and style. Apparently this is very above average. Some people are commenting my standards are high some are commenting there are plenty of guys like this. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:56 PM
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Tbh that's very possible. I do know some men that would fit about 70% of the standards I meet but they are tok unattractive for me to consider them for a LTR. I can't imagine waking up to a face I'm not attracted to. I think face is more important than fitness tbh. I'd be happy with a not fat not in super great shape guy with a decent face card.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:54 PM
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We're at the gym at 4 am. Or taking ourselves out to dinner. Otherwise the only other place I go is the grocery store 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:51 PM
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I don't live in France. I live in the US where the average income is 45k. I live in a HCOL area and $45k would you get a room and 2 roommates. I'm fine with a guy who has roommates but I want someone who can afford vacations and day trips like I can. I will pay for my half idc, but I'm currently planning a 5 day stay in Mexico in the summer and absolutely no one I've dated recently can afford to go with me. It's literally $1200 round trip travel, food, and hotel. Men will spend 5k a year on spor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:51 PM
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So the guy she was dating didn't charge her full price? And she has friends to help her move? I don't see how that's pretty privilege. My male coworker dates a baker and she's constantly making free desserts for him to give out at work. Does that mean he has pretty privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:48 PM
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They won't spend $20 on a Walmart bouquet for a woman who birthed them 2 children but will hand over an entire paycheck to fan duel sports club or for a custom video from Becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:46 PM
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My best friends husband has gained over 100 lbs since they got married 6 years ago. He's 5 foot 9 and 320 lbs. He had a stroke at 31. He refuses to diet. He has uncontrolled diabetes. He can't fuck her due to his health issues. He gets jealous if she uses a vibe and she caught him sexting a coworker. My other friend is married to a man who makes t shirts. She has to pay all the bills, pay for childcare, etc. She's a nurse and works 60 hours a week with 2 kids under 4 years old. He makes t shirts…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:45 PM
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Right, I can be healthy at 150 lbs without abs, though. Instead of I choose to be 135 and hot. You can healthy without being hot. I want to be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:16 PM
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I know plenty of women like me. You won't find us in the club or on onlyfans though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:15 PM
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Statistics decide what's average. A woman who is 135 with 22% body fat, owns her home, and makes $75k is above average. I don't approach men telling them I'm awesome. I let them decide for themselves. I don't think I'm super awesome. I think I'm regular. But I can't meet a man who meets the same standards that I meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:12 PM
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I have an associates degree in nutrition and spent the majority of my youth bartending and working as a medical assistant. I have managed to get a 75k job in warehouse logistics. I'm not asking for a millionaire. How about a man who makes 60k a year and doesn't blow it on sports betting? That would be fine with me. I don't need a supermodel. But he can't be fat. I'm not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:10 PM
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I'm sure there are people I'm incompatible with. But I don't use drugs, drinks, gamble, spend frivolously, I don't watch porn, I don't have unrealistic expectations for physical appearance besides not fat and not super below average height. The only thing my exes ever complained about was that I was super clean. I don't want a man getting in my freshly washed sheets after the gym without showering first and I don't think dishes with food on them should pile up in the sink when the dishwasher is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:07 PM
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It's pretty much impossible. Most guys you're describing are already married to divorced with multiple kids. Or they're addicted to porn and want to do some weird sadistic sexual shit. There is always a catch and it's not a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:06 PM
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My standards are literally low. The fact that so many men can't be financially responsible, have morals, and not be fat is so insanely sad. I'm happy to be alone my entire life. I can't tolerate mediocrity or laziness. I'm not looking past anything. Same way a man has never looked past anything about me. I won't give them grace they don't give me. Even though I'm fit and attractive, men will constantly berate me about stretch marks, the size of my breasts (too big apparently), or judge my cookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:55 PM
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What about above average women? Should we settle for average Joe because there is a lack of above average men? Should we settle for average beta bucks (if he's average, he probably doesn't have money though) we're not attracted to just so he can have access to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:46 PM
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You do realize that current workers (18-65) are paying social security for the retired? These women are 70+ years old and grew up in a time when they couldn't open bank accounts. The working person today is paying benefits for people who literally weren't allowed to work? Also the boomer population is much larger than any other singular generation since. The minority is paying for the poor majority. This is really useless data.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:42 PM
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Loss of masculinity isn't a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:39 PM
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I don't approach men because I've never seen a man who was good looking enough to make me want to. Is that honest enough for you? If rauw Alejandro walked by I would definitely say hi. Otherwise, I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:38 PM
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It's a delusion. Their moms, sisters, friends, grandma's didn't get this kind of treatment. They ignore their entire life experience because they're actually low key jealous of female sex workers. A lot of men think being a high end escort is the best possible life to live and think any woman who "isn't fat" can be fucking billionaires on yachts for a Bentley, which clearly isn't true. They are jealous of promiscuous women and also delusional that men just handing over tens of thousands of dolla…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:36 PM
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90% of my female friends are just like me, except they settle for guys who aren't on their level and live in constant misery. I actually feel exhausted living with men who ask me to cook every day, clean up after them, lend them money, or try to move into my condo. If living in a clean home and being financially responsible is exhausting, then I would think that person has difficulty being an adult and issues with self discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:29 PM
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I think you're wrong about the princess treatment stuff. A lot of guys have thus unfounded ideas that women live this wonderful life of constantly being spoiled. They think men are sending us money, buying us gifts, paying our rent, opening doors for us, and treating us like delicate little flowers. This doesn't happen, IRL. Yeah, you can find a guy to pay for some dates, but that's about it. A lot of guys these days come online and say things like they want these things but 99% of women aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:47 AM
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Here's my honest response to this question: how women have so many options and are still single: Me: I want someone on my level in most facets of life. I can't find it in single man on this planet and never have. Me: I work out, in shape, very long hair that requires tons of maintenance, nails done, hair done, fit. I own a condo and a regular car (nothing luxury). I can afford a 5 day vacation to Mexico or Puerto Rico once a year. I'm bilingual. I'm a fantastic cook. I'm very healthy. My home is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:23 AM
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Married men cheat with coworkers, sex workers, and friends. It doesn't have to be an affair between 2 married people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:07 AM
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I can promise your homeboy aren't advertising to you that they're thirsty. If they were, you wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:05 AM
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My parents divorced because my mom is permanently disabled and had to go on Medicare but didn't qualify with my father's income. But nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:41 PM
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Don't feed the trolls. These men are so lonely that they comment nonsense on here just to get a crumb of female attention. He knows his argument is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:37 PM
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My parents were married until I was 10 and I lived with my father from 10 until I was 25 lmao. My dad loved me. Sorry if I struck a nerve 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:36 PM
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Dude, most men aren't good-looking. Even actors. I could watch 100 romance movies and still not see 1 good looking actor. Women and men sexually do not have the same tendencies. Men are very lustful and lack discipline. Women are typically not like that. We do not lust after men in movies. You're the one who responded to me with nonsense. If you don't like my response you can go back to jerking off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:24 PM
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If all women stop having sex then how will your mom pay the rent so you can continue living in the basement....?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:21 PM
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Older women are watching k dramas? What a gen z thing to say. Older women who watch romantic movies usually watch them for the romantic story line. They're not lusting after the actor. Women cheat about the same as men in their 20s, and every decade after that the gap grows wider that men cheat more. The older the man the more likely he is to cheat. Men are not polygynous. That would require loving multiple women. Wanting to fuck multiple women or actually cheating is just a moral failure and la…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:27 PM
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A crush isn't love. It's attraction. Love is a word with a definition. "Crush" is not a synonym. Like =/= love. It definitely takes months to fall in love, unless you have an emotional disorder. Ime you can be with someone for multiple years and still be falling in love with them because you're still learning new things about them. Sex is not an emotional need. Sex is a physical need. Love is an emotional need. They're still not needs in that you wouldn't die without them. You don't need sex or …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:24 PM
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Men are just more lustful. The gap increases with age. Older men cheat a fuck ton. Even the loyal men are lusting over instagram girls and porn stars. Their partner is never enough for them sexually. Men will always be seeking out other women's bodies no matter how attractive, kind, or loving their partner is. It's just how you guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:00 PM
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Men tend to cheat a lot more later in life after their wife has already dedicated her entire life to him. Men by far, have more wandering eyes than women. Most men are following thirst traps and watching porn even if they're "loyal". We are never their first choice. They're always fantasizing about instagram baddies and porn stars. God forbid a woman with a fat ass walks by a man he will stare like he has no self control. Women never get this experience you claim we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:59 PM
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You can't have sex with emotion with someone you barely know. It takes months to years to fall in love with someone. Unless you're willing to wait that long to develop an emotional connection first then you make zero sense. Also you don't need sex, you just want it really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:32 PM
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So many men cheat. We never get loyalty from men. Even the loyal men stare at women in public and follow thirst traps online. What you're asking for doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:15 PM
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I'd rather be someone's best partner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:40 PM
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I don't. I see how men think and what they believe about women. Even the "empathetic" ones don't really care, and I don't expect them to. I acknowledge and understand that men won't empathize with me no matter what I go through and adjusted my life accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:25 PM
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But it's another dudes penis which makes it gay according to you. That's what you basically just replied to my other comment and now you're switching your stance because it doesn't support your narrative....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:16 PM
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Pictures of women is porn....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:15 PM
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Nah I'm bi. But I don't enjoy watching the women anyway. Bodies don't really arouse me like that. The difference in some lesbian porn (most of it is for men anyway) is that women are thinking about the sexual acts in the scene and that what's being done is actually pleasurable. Jack rabbiting a woman after no foreplay isn't fun to watch nor is it fun to participate in. Most men I've met watch gay porn or something else. Trans porn, incest, gang bangs. My fantasies are basically innocent and pure…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:14 PM
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Because women aren't homophobic. Also because heterosexual porn is clearly fake and not pleasurable for the woman involved. Maybe if men/society focused more on making sex enjoyable for women and stop pretending the penis inside the vagina is the be all and end all of pleasure. Clitoris is the analogous part. Not the vagina. Why would I watch a man have a great time at a woman's expense if I could watch 2 women actually enjoy themselves? I don't watch porn but If I did it wouldn't be that fake s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:25 PM
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With that logic, women should have higher body count. If it's so easy for women to get sex and so hard for men. For example Samantha and Samuel both have 10 past partners. Samanta rejected 90 men and slept with 10. Samuel rejected 0 women and slept with every woman who gave him the opportunity. Samuel would be morally, worse than Samantha. Samanta has some standards and Samuel doesn't. Also Samuel worked very hard to get those 10 bodies, he's purposely lowering his value. Samantha is actively re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:38 PM
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It's somehow my fault that most the guys that live in my area have kids? Lmao yeah totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:54 AM
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Yeah I live in a large city about 25 miles from one of the largest cities in the country. Unfortunately everyone here has kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:53 AM
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Yeah I'm 32 and only chose to be childfree in the last 3 years. I know way too many people with kids and only 2 or 3 of them are married. The others all tend to have multiple kids or multiple bms/bds. I want no part of that. I have a pretty high paying job so a lot of people I come into contact with can afford kids but I still don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:23 PM
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I'm 32 and I know plenty of 27 year olds with children. My female coworker is 33 and has 3 kids aged 5-14, 24 year old male coworker has a 1 year old, my 26 year old best friend has a 5 month old with her 27 year old husband, my 31 year old male friend has 2 kids, 6 and 2, and another male coworker is 28 with a 2 year old. I don't think I know anyone without kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:49 PM
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This is how I feel about my personal dating life whether men choose to agree or not 🤷‍♀️. I own a small condo, have no kids, and have roommates, a slightly above average salary job, work on my fitness, am a good cook, learning a new language. Every guy I meet is below me in multiple facets. Multiple kids, low paying jobs, dirty home, eats take out, if theyre into fitness they're not natty and end up having emotional problems. I can't imagine how men can't succeed in a world they built and design…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:28 AM
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A lot of guys here are debating over income etc when I'm talking about physical peak. An ugly guy isn't magically going to become hot because he moved out of his moms house and got a promotion at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:23 AM
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The last bad date I went on was like this. He wasn't a super hot chad that I just overlooked him being selfish, quite the opposite. He was a nice guy in text and on the phone. We chatted a little and just did some basic getting to know each other. In person, he could barely speak. He was so insanely boring. No follow-up questions, nothing. I was trying to bring good energy to the date, and he was just putting me to sleep. He apparently thought our date went really well and couldn't understand wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 06:47 PM
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They become more desirable in that they're not acne faced adolescents who live with their mom and play video games. Theyre not actually desirable. They're just less undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:33 PM
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I think the economic factor is kind of a red herring. There are some women, mostly who want to be SAHMs who would get married and have kids if the economy was better. On the flip side, I think a big division in dating now isn't financial, it's emotional. I'd personally go 50/50 with a guy who cooks, cleans, plans dates, and is emotionally intelligent and kind. I've resorted to not being a 50/50 girlie because of the lack of the other traits. Money won't fix the emotional divide. Most women want …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:27 AM
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Right, but those same men still won't be attractive at 30 or 35. Their personal peak will be when they have the most hair and the least amount of wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:09 AM
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23-28 saying social dominance is hilarious. I'm 32 now, but when I was younger, I bartended for 8 years. A lot of men who are 23-28 still have a teenagers mindset. They drink at bars, gamble, play video games, and go to work. That's it. There is nothing socially dominant about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 11:04 AM
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No! I don't mean the lunchly thing. His entire attitude about her pregnancy was repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:53 PM
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You clearly didn't see any of the content he made while she was pregnant. I would have literally kicked him out of the hospital room if I were Nina.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:07 PM
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He's not weird. He's insufferable and insane. He was awful to her during her pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:11 PM
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I don't watch porn. When I did when I was younger lesbian porn didn't appeal to me because 99% of the time they're catering to a male audience. I know that the stuff they're doing doesn't feel good at all and is completely fake. Seeing 2 "lesbians" with long coffin shaped nails is a dead giveaway. I don't like porn in general, they're always doing male centric acts that don't appeal to me at all. It's weird to watch when the whole time I can't stop thinking "wow that looks like it doesn't feel g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:37 PM
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I'm 32. Work School Mutual friends Dating app School
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:10 AM
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She's in a relationship with Logan paul.... that isn't delusional enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:09 AM
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You're comparing apples to apples. A black man does not spend as much time on his hair as a black woman. Also, it's socially acceptable for a black man to have a short hair cut that has minimal maintenance. Generally, black women are frowned upon for wearing very short natural hair. Societally at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:09 AM
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When I was on dating apps, I would swipe through profiles, and half the guys would get rejected because despite having plenty of photos, I couldn't actually tell what they looked like. Being mysterious online in your photos is too much. Just show what you look like, what your vibe is. That's it. It's not that serious. Also I went out with a guy before who was really handsome but didn't smile in his pics. On our date I found out why, he hadn't been to a dentist in years. His teeth were caked with…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:38 PM
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I highly disagree. Yeah, your hair takes time compared to a white man's hair. Compared to a black woman's? They go to get their hair done and sometimes take 12 hours or multiple days to do their hair. Most women aren't effortlessly attractive. You're just not giving them credit for the effort they put in. You're not even aware enough to know if a woman put in effort or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:30 PM
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I don't hate him. He's a hypocrit who complains about women like his wife then gets mad when people call him out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:06 AM
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I would sell my grandmother to the cartel for rauw Alejandro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:05 AM
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I don't know any men that get a biweeky mani/pedi. If they do, they're not getting gel which takes 2 hours. I don't know any men who spend 5 or 6 hours at the salon per month to dye their hair. Some black men with dreads or braids might come close but other men, no. I don't know any men who wash and blow dry their hair 4 times a week taking over an hour each time. I don't know any men who have to eat 1400 calories to maintain a slim waist. I don't know any men who wear fajas or waist trainers on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:04 AM
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At least at birth 😅 later in life is questionable. What men dont have on their head they usually make up for on their back or nose in their old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:40 PM
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Except for coach of the new England patriots who pays to play with his 24 year old girlfriend. Oh and also sherrone Moore coach at Michigan state who just ended up in jail after crashing out after being caught fucking his subordinate at work. Plenty of "coaches" pay to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:38 PM
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They only hate single moms and prostitutes who won't fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:36 PM
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Exhibit A lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:33 PM
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The blue pill "fantasy" is that two people who are attracted to each other enjoy each other's company and have similar values to get together if they choose to. Another blue pill fantasy is that if you can't find someone to partner with that you work on your mental health to accept being happy single. By your definition, blue pillers state that women should date homeless men if they are "nice" which they clearly don't. Women aren't to start dating losers because you're personally unhappy being s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:29 PM
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That's why you like your girls barefaced & bald. Society says otherwise though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:17 PM
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Right, but if she dates a man who is good-looking with no money, she's chasing chad/Tyrone. If she dates a man who has money but is ugly she's a gold digger. If she dates man who doesn't have money or good looks but treats her well, he's a simp and she's too masculine because she's the breadwinner. If women are going to be judge for ANY scenario we might as well pick one that benefits us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:16 PM
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Nick jonas Kendrick Lamar Daniel Radcliffe Justin beiber Bruno Mars And the sexiest of all rauw Alejandro Are all 5'9 or under
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:13 PM
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This is why women really don't care about men's opinions. If a woman has standards for who she sleeps with, she's a gold digger. If she doesn't, she's a stupid whore who should've "chosen better". There is nothing we can do to make you guys "approve". Broke men think women are gold diggers because they can't afford to court the women they're attracted to. Newsflash, there are plenty of women who don't care about a man's income or paying for dates. They're not going to look like Sydney Sweeney or…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:56 PM
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What you're describing is called masking and isn't necessarily a symptom of psychopathy. 1400% ? You're just bullshitting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:34 PM
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You're also minimizing the fact abuse happens BEHIND CLOSED DOORS. most people do not find out someone is abusive until you've moved in, gotten married, or gotten pregnant and they feel they've trapped you enough to abuse you and get away with it. My ex waited exactly 3 days after moving in together, after 2 years of dating and 15 years of friendship to put hands on me. They wait until there are no witnesses. It's literally how abuse works. That's why you don't see abusive men beating the shit o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:17 PM
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Narcissism manifests differently in men and women due to societal influence. This is a well studied phenomenon. Yes, there are women with NPD. But even men without an NPD diagnosis are way more likely to exhibit narcissistic behaviors. Please read some research on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:15 PM
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Bro, it's not the women!!! It's the men.. it is NOT easier to be comfortable with other women. Sex is always a vulnerable position to be in. I'm personally more comfortable with sex with men. Please stop telling women were broken fixtures and realize their operator error. Men are obsessed with putting their dick in you. That's NOT how most women cum. Some men also get angry if you want to use a vibe or use your hand to cum. The problem is the MEN are inattentive and selfish lovers. Please grow u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:13 PM
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5'8 celebrities: Robert downy Jr. The weekend Zac Efron Mark Walberg Tom Holland 5'7: James McAvoy Tom cruise Mark Hamill Jeremy Allen white Rami Malek All of these men are seen as conventionally attractive. Iron man, mission impossible, and Luke Skywalker are all below average height and very successful. Men do not get reprimanded at work for being fat or bald. Please stop making things up to try to prove a point. You're just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:10 PM
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are men expected to be tall? Are men expected to be muscular? Are men expected to have hair? Are men expected to have a defined jaw? Not really. Some of the "best looking men" In Hollywood are 5'6-5'9. It doesn't hold them back. A lot of them don't have chiseled jaws either. Everyone has hair, the difference in maintaining long healthy hair and a short typically male hairstyle is multiple hours per week. I have long hair and just washing and blow drying takes 2-3 hours. Styling my hair can take …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:00 PM
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I've had sex with 3 women, and we both orgasmed pretty much 90-100% of the time. I've had sex with women a few hundred times but only with 3 partners. Lesbian women must be born lucky then because they're orgasming at twice the frequency of heterosexual women. It must be biological and not a result of having male partners 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:55 PM
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7% of men have NPD. That's exactly 1 in 14.2. I was generous. Even more men are not diagnosed yet still exhibit narcissistic tendencies. We're probably looking at closer to 1 in 10. You have access to the same publicallt available information that I do, check for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:05 PM
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First question: no. Society doesn't hold men to the same standard. Even a good looking man who puts in a ton of effort isn't putting in as much effort as an equally attractive woman. The societal expectations for women is just higher. Men aren't expected to wear makeup or have intricate hairstyles or long, hard to manage hair, and also be hairless otherwise. Some may choose to, but it's not expectation. An attractive man body is just a strong muscular man. A woman has to be simultaneously thin i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:01 PM
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He's like a kid begging for a puppy he knows he won't take care of but wants a plaything anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:54 AM
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1 in 15 men have narcissistic personality disorder. They're not brilliant manipulators they're mentally ill abusers. If you know 50 guys, then you know 4 men like this and probably 5 more who aspire to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:53 AM
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Your gf can make herself cum but you can't and your the best sex she's ever had. Please tell on yourself more 😅. I typically have a 100% orgasm rate from sex. The only times I haven't orgasmed is because a man refuses to listen to my directions. I don't have any mental blocks. Some men are just absolute trash in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:51 AM
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I usually have more sex at the beginning of a relationship because that's the only time men think they need emotional connection to preceed sex. After a few months, it just becomes expected. I'm not a man. I don't get a boner because I saw a pair of tits. If a man doesn't have the energy to be affectionate, he doesn't have the energy to be sexual. The bait and switch goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:49 AM
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The 2 that I dated did. They were offended I would even suggest that they were bisexual because they were just straight dudes who liked to fuck other dudes and weren't "faggots". They both said almost the said thing verbatim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:47 AM
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I actually believe all men are whores. Bi men just have more access to sex because the other men are whores too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:46 AM
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I dated my best friend of 15 years and didn't know he was a huge piece of shit until we moved in together. Absolutely no one in our friend group knew or thought that he was a domestic abuser. I knew a few of his ex-girlfriends, and none of them ever said anything to make us think he was a bad guy. He wasn't a piece of shit to everyone. He was actually extremely cold and calculated and could switch his mask on and off the moment he knew we were alone. Please touch grass. Anyone you ask to to this…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:38 AM
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I agree. If he doesn't have $15-20 dollars for social activities, how can he realistically date? Even if he finds the world's most boring woman, eventually, she will want to see a movie or get dinner together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:06 AM
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It's common sense that when someone is talking about a specific scenario that it not implying "all" people do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:25 PM
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Anyone can be anything. But If bisexual men hate themselves and won't even admit they're bisexual, why should I like/trust them? I personally have nothing against anyone bi, gay, or otherwise. But I definitely shouldn't trust men who lie to me about their sexuality and hate themselves for it? Should women trust men who suck dick then turn around and call a man at the bank with nail polish a "faggot" in a 15 minute tirade after making a withdrawal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:59 AM
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I can make myself orgasm 5 times in an hour. If a man can only get me to orgasm 49% of the time that's 100% a skills issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:56 AM
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Of course not. But I'd rather have more non sexual affection and sex than just sex. In every heterosexual relationship I've been in after the honeymoon phase , sex can become like a chore. Not because I don't want to but because it's constantly expected and the affection fades away. It's not fun having a guy grab at your breasts while you're cooking dinner on a hot pan and pawing at you like a desperate cat. I'd rather have meaningful affectionate sex a few times a week than feel obligated to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:55 AM
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Self-control and other priorities probably
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:04 PM
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I already expect to orgasm 100% of the time. My pussy isn't a soup kitchen I don't do free giveaways for the less fortunate. Make me cum or get the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:02 PM
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If I only orgasmed 49% of the time, I would never speak to another male again for as long as I lived. These stats are abysmal 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:39 PM
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Sidestory: every bi guy I've dated has been closeted and also homophobic. Same way women can be misogynistic, bisexuals can be homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:53 PM
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I did casual dating when I was younger, but it was never an ONS, and we always hung out/went on casual dates beforehand. Men are not that good in bed to just have sex with them once and feel satisfied. Most partners don't learn what you actually like until the 3rd or 4th hook up. ONS would be agreeing to be a guys masturbatory aid and I don't consent to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:36 PM
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51% of teen mothers are impregnated by a father at least 21 years old and have an average age gap of 6 years. This stat wouldn't really cover teenage boys anyway, given the fact a lot of girls are impregnated by pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:32 PM
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My issue with bisexual men is that I've dated them before. Multiple times. They're always sneaking around on grindr or meeting up with dudes at the gym. I don't have trust issues, but I can't sit around my whole life wondering if my boyfriend is sucking dick instead of bench pressing. Both of my bi exes ended up catching syphilis from unprotected sex with other men they had while cheating on me. Men are just more sexually risky and unsafe, and I don't want to risk my physical health and safety a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:00 PM
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Absolutely the fuck not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:00 PM
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In my experience it's men who want 50/50 on finances, want sex on demand, don't reciprocate orgasms, then expect me to do all the grocery shopping, meal planning, cooking, cleaning, laundry, and date planning. Meanwhile, they just work and relax and partake in their hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:59 AM
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Not really. I'm like a peahen. I need the male to display his plumage and do his little dance to impress me before I'm interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:54 AM
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I have a super high sex drive and am not a prude at all. I still wouldn't sleep with someone on a first date it's just weird and uncomfortable. Not even the second or third tbh. Sex is fun but not with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:26 AM
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Yeah I'm not gonna keep going I don't have any more weight to lose that wouldn't impact my bone density or menstrual cycle. I'm not cutting for a body building competition. I was recovering from an illness. But 44% body fat on a woman just looks chubby. Even 35% body fat can be a thin and attractive woman. For me to get thinner I'd lose my menstrual cycle (I know because I've been thinner before and had low vitamin d, calcium, and iron along with amenorrhea)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:44 PM
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The average woman and average man are equally as fat, except breasts and hips are only considered attractive on women. A fat guy has way less attractive features than a fat woman. That's just sexual dimorphism. If I want to date someone with b cup breasts, it better be a woman. I personally don't like skinny guys or guys with super low bf% but obviously most women are going to be attracted to a man with male features and not female ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:42 PM
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Yeah, but clinically obese and physically repugnant are 2 different things. Most men are pushing over 25% body fat and can still be attractive. If I do a caliper assessment, it comes up that I'm way less body fat than the times I had a scan done because they're not assessing ass or breast tissue. When I get a caliper assessment, they tell me I'm 21% body fat. When I got scanned, the lowest I got was 25 or 26%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:28 PM
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These are my progress pics. 40% body fat isn't that high on women. For men it's really high. *
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:27 PM
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Yeah, that photo isn't particularly accurate. This woman is almost 30% body fat. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:54 PM
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Dominance =/= manipulation. His manipulative tactic was framing himself a few things he wasn't 1. A loving & responsible father 2. A loving man. He was writing her love poems and shit and scheduling play dates with their kids. He wasn't a manipulative master mind just a guy pretending to be loving when he's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:03 PM
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About 6% of women have borderline, and 3% have bipolar disorder. 8% are alcoholics. 23% of women have generalized anxiety disorder. A guys chances of finding a woman with some mental health issues is like 1 in 4 or 1 in 3. It's not an outlier. You think I don't understand what love bombing is lmao. He was the opposite or dominant he was a total pussy and a total loser. He just can't get women any other way so he resorts to love bombing and manipulation because he's physically and personally repu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:17 PM
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I was reading this like this kid just got high for the first time and thinks he discovered the lost civilization of Atlantis or something. I've been smoking weed for 15 years and never had the paranoia he's talking about. I only have deep introspection like he's describing when I take psychedelic mushrooms. Kid just doesn't know how to hang.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:10 PM
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Well, back then, it wasn't common for men to have low testosterone and b cup breasts like they have now. Half the guys who ask me out have bigger tits than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:06 PM
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<image> This is 40% body fat btw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:03 PM
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Bro, I've known so many women who have been physically or emotionally abused by absolute goblins. We used to make fun of my one friend because she was dating the biggest loser I've ever encountered, and he looked like a thumb. He was cheap, ugly, boring, and mean. But the cheap, boring, and mean didn't come out until after the love bombing. She has borderline personality disorder and would admit she has no reason to be with this guy but emotionally wouldn't let him go for months. He was literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:00 PM
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Logan Paul is married to Nina Agdel, who has a network of 12 million dollars. 1. They're both rich 2. They're both delusional weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:56 AM
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<image> At least a few parts of the highlighted sections are lies. 6 figure net worth, model face, and couldn't land a girlfriend. I highly suspect at least one of these things is highly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:46 PM
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That's my real-life experience. I've been asked out by many men just to find out later that they live with their mom or on a friend's couch and get way too curious about my living situation. I've had 3 guys in the last 3 years ask if they could move into my condo when we weren't even in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:06 PM
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That would also probably be creepy. I'm 32, so I would be a 25 year old man as a child more than a prospective date. The creepy part is more so the watching for 45 minutes than the asking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:04 PM
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50/50 would be okay if both partners earn exactly the same, consume exactly the same, and do the exact same amount of chores. Otherwise, there has to be some taking and some giving. I've lived with men before and shared grocery expenses 50/50, but I have never eaten 50% of the food. A man will typically eat portions twice as big as mine for meals and snack a lot more. If we're going 50/50 on bills, I would only pay for my own things. Not cover half of whatever he eats.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:42 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:54 PM
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I had it saved to my phone but it's lost in my screenshots from work I have to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:47 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:40 PM
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I see you struggle to understand what 92% of violent crimes actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:31 PM
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Plenty of men do that. I've had men who never laid on hand on me but broke furniture, threw plates around the house, and one ex literally pulled my door off the hinges. Even when they're not physically abusing you, there are plenty of nice decent guys who use physical intimidation as a manipulative tactic. Not all men are abusive, but plenty are. Women know men are stronger. We just don't care. Womens sports are for women to enjoy their sport, not to compete with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:30 PM
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56% of men cheat during their marriage, so most men do cheat, statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:23 PM
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No, I don't expect any man to die for me. With that being said, I hope no man ever expects me to risk my life in pregnancy and childbirth to provide him with a legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:19 PM
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We know men are bigger and stronger. That's why men often use aggression, acts of violence, or threats of violence to abuse women. That's why men commit 92% of violent crimes. Can't discuss mens strength and power without discussing the bad parts, either. Yes, women are physically smaller and have less muscle mass. We also do not, en masse, use our physicality as a weapon like men do. You guys often use your "powers" for evil instead of things like dominating competitive sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:18 PM
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If my neighbor walking, his dog says hi that's normal. If a 55 year old man watches me work out for 45 minutes, then motions me to take my headphones off at the gym so he can ask me out that's creepy. Context is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:06 PM
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Nah, I say no. I almost got assaulted by a 60 year old man at the grocery store because I told him to leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:05 PM
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I'm personally not the type to date a man based on how I "picture" him or his "potential." Unfortunately, men know this, and they lie. Men who don't have kids who actually have 3 kids. Men who claim to be divorced and just got separated last month. Men have lied about what they do for work for months on end. I've dated men who lie about being bisexual. I've dated men who treated me like a princess for 6 months and then completely changed when they think I'm attached. No more flowers, no more lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:24 PM
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To me, creepy is when I say no, and they keep bothering me. No means no means no means no. It's not an invitation to convince, coerce, or debate me on why I said no. I'm not saying "I have a husband", "I'm married" or anything else besides "no". If they want the true explanation, it's typically because I don't date old men, ugly men, or annoying men. But if I said that to their face, they'd lose their mind. No is no. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:18 PM
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They apparently don't care they do it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:45 AM
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If women who get into relationships with provider men are prostitutes, by that logic all provider men are tricks and johns.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:16 PM
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It does happen. Hence the hobosexual epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:13 PM
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Yeah, well, the male coworkers are beating each other up and threatening to kill each other. It's not less drama if anything it's more violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:34 AM
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Yeah those guys exist but they're few and far between and usually terrible people otherwise unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:30 AM
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Desire could be mutual if you guys learned how to eat pussy and made sex enjoyable for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:29 AM
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Women know men are dangerous..... you guys commit 92% of violent crime and are the #1 cause of pregnant women. It would be a logical fallacy to say that women don't want relationships because the chance of abuse is high. Plenty of women still want to live normal lives DESPITE the fact there are abusive men out there. You're not making a logical argument at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:28 AM
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Every scienetic study ever done has shown that men lie more than women..... https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S2352250X22001828 Women told more "white" (harmless) lies. Men tell more lies overall and lie about more impactful things. What a whacky way to spinach reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:26 AM
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Hot guys = bad/immoral/abusers. Ugly guys= angels/loving partners. Got it.n
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:34 PM
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Testosterone isn't what makes men violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:46 PM
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You think women are scared of men based off if their hot or not? Most women are assaulted by men in their family or their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:45 PM
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How often do men jerk off to porn? Most you say every day...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:44 PM
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I'm just using your logic against you. Doesn't sound logical, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:47 PM
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I don't speak redpill. Can you translate into English
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:45 PM
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You're just making stuff up now. Women in Sweden not having casual sex isn't a problem. Just because something hurts your feelings =/= societal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:45 PM
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Why would I, as a woman, get into a relationship with a man who will have sex with me and then go home and jerk off to videos of other women who he will then compare my body to after ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:44 PM
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We like sex with men who are good at sex. So, a minority of men. It's mostly a skills issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:33 PM
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Women not fucking you isn't a problem either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:32 PM
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I mean, if you're not super hot, why would a woman have intrinsic lust towards you? What is sexually attractive about the gender with hairy backs and beer bellies? I think you guys think that women get that treatment from men, but I don't think that's realistic, either. Men are constantly comparing us to porn stars and instagram girls. Even beautiful women don't live up to photoshopped/edited images that men jerk off to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:30 PM
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The sex probably isn't that good. Also, Sweden has a population the size of New Jersey. It's not a great example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:51 PM
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I work in a male dominated field for 8 years now. I think we're 95% men at my current job. Working with that many men is pretty awful as a woman. Before I got into management I was one of the fastest machine operators at my job. I consistently scored in the top 5 and my last 3 year i was always in the top 2. The other woman who operated heavy machinery and I were the only 2 onsite to never have a crash our entire tenure. Also, I was constantly sexually harassed. It's good money, but dealing with…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:49 PM
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Men are more likely to be victims of violence, yes, but they're also more likely to have a man perpetrator 🤷‍♀️ most violence against men, women, and children is perpetrated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:45 PM
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News flash: ugly men are just as dangerous as good looking men. Just check your local news for mugshots. Being ugly =/= being moral or good. There are plenty of hideous looking evil disgustingly behaved people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:12 PM
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I think most people respect other people in general. The issue is when some men use the word "respect" but expect to be treated like an "authority". Authority is earned. Basic respect should be a given unless someone did something that shows they don't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:10 PM
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Women died via childbirth and man-made wars, assault, and rape for millenia to create the entire human population. They create every single human from cells in their body using their blood, nutrients, and literally stealing calcium from her bones. Women created every single person on earth and then breast fed or fed that child in general for about 18 years. Multiply this by every human on earth. Men should respect their creators and stop being ungrateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:08 PM
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Life experience.....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:31 PM
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A lot of conservatives only pretend to like women because it suits their conservative narrative. Source: grindr crashes every time there is a republican convention of any kind. The straight half will find a girl from nowhereville who has never left her home state and make her a stay at home mom with an etsy bracelet store like the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:27 PM
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You just described nursing which is a female dominated career field.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:14 PM
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That's the average experience for most women. Sorry If that hurts your feelings. Men aren't the sex gods they wish they were. Most are just some guy who wants to have sex and learned all his techniques from porn (fake)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:10 PM
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Women are more likely to be harmed by someone they know (exponentially) like a husband, boyfriend, or friend than by a stranger in the street. Immigration =/= safer lives for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:08 PM
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I got pregnant on birth control (proper use, it was the nuvaring and only needed to he changed every 28 days) after having sex 1 time after a year of celibacy. I've been on the nuvaring for 13 years. It happens. Not often but it happens. Unfortunately we also used a condom. Trust me I was flabbergasted and so we he 😫. Birth control and condoms are like 96-99% effective with percect use over a year. So out of 100 sexuallt active women using birth control perfectly, 1-4 women can expect to get pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:06 PM
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I think the average woman likes good sex as much as the average man likes any sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:01 AM
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The kind of sex you get from a boyfriend ✅️ The kind of sex you get from a hookup 🚫 Guys aren't having good, mutually pleasurable sex with ONS and hook up girls. There is no benefit to being some guys masturbatory aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:00 AM
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That's quite an exaggeration. In this economy even someone making 100k could be living paycheck to paycheck or not qualify for homeownership. Private jets and stuff like that would be for people who have tens of millions of dollars. My exes grandfather invented printable holograms and had about 50 million. They still flew first class and owned 3 homes and 6 cars. Still not rich enough to regularly fly private jets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:57 AM
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There are teachers, managers, nurses, blue collar women, etc who all make around this amount of money. $45k is the average income in the US. Anyone making more than $45-50k/year would statistically be above average. Most people I know working in retail would be making closer to $30-38k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:55 AM
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I think most women want a man in their earning bracket or slightly higher. For example, if I'm making $65k, I'd be looking for a guy in the $65-$80k range. He would just absolutely need to be a good cook and tidy person to live with. Neither of us would be making "stay at home wife" or "hire a maid/personal chef" money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:52 AM
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Not to mention, you need to be married for decades to qualify for any alimony typically. Depending on the state. I think it's 7 or 10 years minimum, and you get alimony for like half the time of your marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:48 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:49 PM
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Good cause I'm picturing him as Aaron Taylor Johnson the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:43 PM
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I hate "kinks" I wouldn't indulge any kind of kink for any man unless he was a master at eating pussy and made me orgasm like 10 times a day. Otherwise it wouldn't be worth my energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:39 PM
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Men dont grow on me. If anything, in my experience, they're the best when they're on their best behavior in the first 3-6 months. It's usually downhill from there. Without a threshold of attraction, there is no relationship for me. Usually the guys I "gave chances" to (meaning I wasn't physically attracted as much as I would have liked to have been) displayed all the same behaviors as men who I was initially attracted to. There is no point in being treated poorly by someone you're not attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:42 PM
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The vulva doesn't have any infections. Little girls can get yeast infections and BV, which are vaginal infections. And UTIs that aren't in the vulva either. UTIs are common in little boys and little girls. Yeast infections and bv are usually not due to hygiene problems but exposure to fungus and bacteria or antibiotics use.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:28 PM
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Well for whatever reason little boys have a hard time doing that. Never seen a little girl with anything but a uti.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:26 PM
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It's a form of body modification done without the child's consent. There is no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:25 PM
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The #1 common denominator of criminals is gender. Why won't women raised in single parent households commit violent crimes? Who cares about the parental status. Crime is a mostly a male issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:20 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:17 PM
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Right. That's why women don't have casual sex in general. Most men don't listen and aren't attentive lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:16 PM
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Tell that to the kids who love me and chose me personally to draw their blood because I would sing nursery rhymes and give them stickers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:15 PM
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Most little girls do have their ears pierced as a baby, including myself. So that's a moot point. Or parents could enforce kids cleaning themselves so they don't end up with scarring and stinky schmegma.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:14 PM
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3 that i remember had severe scarring and ended up getting circumsized as an older child. Since balanatis isn't deadly I wouldn't suggest it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:13 PM
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Some lack the ability. I'd say most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:12 PM
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I'm not asking anyone to circumsize their son. I'm asking them to stop pretending they can not circumsize their son and ignore that part of their body until 10 years old and it becomes infected. Which in my experience was very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:12 PM
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I can't force a man to eat my pussy properly, that would be sexual assault. If I have to give myself the orgasm I don't need to have sex with any man ever. Useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:08 PM
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I can't have PIV orgasms without clitoral stimulation, so no. There is no type of orgasm that makes me feel connected to a partner. My partner being loving and caring makes me feel connected to my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:55 PM
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I'm not saying to cut them. I'm saying their more prone to issues. Pretending this doesn't happen is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:30 PM
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Yeah, it is hygiene related. Those are the numbers of men who are not cleaning their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:27 PM
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They're not having orgasms lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:27 PM
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Tell that to all the kids who ended up getting circumcized at 9 years old due to poor hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:25 PM
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You don't understand that erect penises stretch out the skin and you can't tell it's uncircumcised unless the penis is flaccid?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:23 PM
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It's not necessary I'm not saying it's necessary. I'm saying a lot of little boys don't possess the mental fortitude to wash their dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:37 PM
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Infants boys don't need their foreskin cleaned either. It doesn't retract for a few years. It doesn't change until age 3 or 4 depending on the child. Labia don't become infected from not cleaning. The vagina is self-cleaning. Unless your wiping backwards it's not the same for girls at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:36 PM
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I guess my life experience working in pediatrics was just 100% incorrect then. We got an uncircumcised boy with infected foreskin at least once a week. Never saw this on an female child or circumcised boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:35 PM
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Then why do so many young boys not clean it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:34 PM
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You can't see that some men in porn are uncircumcised because their penis is erect 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:33 PM
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Okay tell that to all the kids with perfectly brushed teeth and chronic balanitis then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:33 PM
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Of course. Children from previous/multiple marriages or multiple women. Child support payments/alimony. Poor health like obesity/diabetes/heart disease (more common in men aged 35-45 than you'd expect), entitlement rooted in age & gender (thinking they deserve more control or power than has been earned), sexual stagnation paired with erectile dysfunction, past relationship trauma (very common in divorced men).The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:31 PM
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That's so dirty. Imagine I proudly came on here saying I only washed my ass for the first time in my early 20s. No one told you to clean your dick ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:43 PM
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From google: Children: About 4% of boys get balanitis, mainly under 5, with rates jumping to 25% if they have phimosis (tight foreskin). Adults: 11-13% of uncircumcised men experience balanitis, but this rises dramatically for diabetics (35%). Specific Clinics: One Scottish study found non-specific balanitis in 22% of patients at a penile dermatology clinic, mostly uncircumcised men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:42 PM
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Those kids are experiencing foreskin infections at similar rates I'm sure. 80% of the kids who came to my doctors office with this problem were immigrants given that most Americans are circumsized. I'd day about 60% were from India.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:40 PM
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It's because girls don't develop inner labia until puberty.... yes. Changing a babies diaper is very different from retracting a 9 year olds foreskin and cleaning it. Boys don't need their foreskin cleaned as an infant because it doesn't really retract until their older. You can't pull a babies teeth because they don't have any.... I'm using the children's laziness. No parent should be in charge of a 9 year olds genitals unless they have something medically wrong with them, of which a foreskin i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:39 PM
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They know how to clean it they just don't care to. Most parents aren't going to check their 10 year olds foreskin daily to make sure their son cleaned it properly. Once kids get to a certain age, the parents aren't going to check their genitals. You can say its "bizarre," but it's 100 times easier than chasing around a little boy to check his penis for a decade until they're old enough to actually take responsibility for cleaning themselves. I think it's more bizarre that a child's crotch smells…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 12:08 PM
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I worked in pediatrics, and I'll tell you what it really is. Little boys don't really need their foreskins cleaned until their a bit older, 3 or 4 or 5 years old. Foreskins are obviously natural but require a bit of maintenance. Most parents aren't going to hold down their child every night, retract his foreskin and clean it. A 6 year old boy is not going to retract and clean under his foreskin. In only 3 years at a pediatric office, we saw so many 5-9 year old boys who had NEVER retracted their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:35 AM
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n sexual relationships, men and women give each other at the same rate. But at the beginning, it would be man who gives more. Not If you go by # of orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:28 AM
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All I did was answer your question. Never asked your preference on masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:22 AM
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I don't think those things are considered feminine. If they were most men would be considered extremely feminine. 75% of men in relationships would be single if they weren't manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:21 PM
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I'm 32 years old and attractive. I am beautiful, fit, make good money, am completely financially independent, I get very thoughtful and expensive gifts for men I date/care about, I'm a fabulous cook, maintain a beautifully decorated and immaculate home, I smell look, look good, and am enjoyable to be around. NEVER in my life has a man asked me to go 50/50 on a date. Even the guys who didn't want a second date insisted on paying. You have to realize that women like me and attractive women in gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:28 PM
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A man has never inspired physical lust in me just by looking at him. What inspires list in me is the baseline of physical attraction and the ability to treat me well. When I was younger I had dated some guys mostly based on personality, they were sweet and charming at first. Typically, very kind and sensitive types. (Dating this way didn't save me any heartbreak, btw. These men ended up being very insecure and mean with time). Now when dating personality and social skills are extremely important…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:14 PM
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Tbh, this is going to depend on a lot of factors. If he looks young and is unattractive, it won't mean anything. If his hairline is receeding or completely bald, he 100% looks his age regardless of skin and body maintenance. If he looks young and is really attractive with a great head of hair that might attract some slightly younger women. I'm 32 and look younger and prefer men my age that also look younger. But just because someone looks younger doesn't necessarily equate to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:58 AM
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"Men are working on their emotions by themselves !!!" proceeds to describe an adolescent ability to deal with emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:48 AM
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It's because you have to date yourself. Take yourself out to a nice steak dinner alone and have a book or interesting article lined up to read while you eat. Go to the barbershop and get a new haircut. Get into the gym and make a structured workout schedule. Meal prep every week and make a day out of it. If your self-image is only bolstered by external validation, that's not really a great form of confidence. Confidence is internal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:44 AM
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Then why is it called the male loneliness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:50 PM
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Yeah I'm comparing it to real life humans and actions and not written down fantasy about fictional characters that don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:50 PM
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If men were shaped by what women like then male pattern baldness, hair backs, micropenises, gynecomastia, short men, and ugly men would have been bred out of the gene pool centuries ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:50 PM
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The fact that 60% of men can't meet the standard of "not fat, over 5 feet tall, and makes average income" isn't sad to you? Like why would a woman choose someone that can't even meet a bar this low? Most men are already married! Clearly it's not that hard since 60% of men are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:42 PM
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Women aren't having a loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:40 PM
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I posted that too. Including married men it's 29%. Men don't realize that there is a large percentage of men that are completely undate-able. Most men are married. Even the short ones, fat ones, and broke ones. Not being able to get women isn't a class or looks issue, it's a skills issue. There are plenty of married fat losers out there. Women aren't chasing the top 20% the actually attractive men are probably closer to 1% of the population if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:39 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:22 PM
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Women aren't the ones claiming that men only want to date the top 20% of women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:22 PM
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The vampires are Roman now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:21 PM
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Twilight is not a porno....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:51 PM
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. <image> If you add "not married" it drops to 12% 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:49 PM
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Add in "emotionally intelligent" and there you go. Only 30% of men are above 5 feet tall, not obese, and make the average 45k/year between ages 20-45. Men genuinely have no idea how low the bar is for men, because if they admitted it, they'd have to come up with reasons why they're personally inadequate. *
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:49 PM
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Please tell that to the 60% of men who are already married/in relationships. That would mean according to red pill logic that 60% of men make up the top 20% that you cry about so much. Red pill math isn't adding up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:13 PM
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Men dont show women their porn. It's in their search history. Men who claimed not to watch porn at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:33 PM
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Right, but clearly, women aren't going only for the top 20% of men. It would be statistically impossible since 60% are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:15 PM
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I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:14 PM
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I don't watch porn and don't really care who does. I just think people lack discipline. I personally have a very high sex drive and can have sex multiple times a day. I've never needed to read or watch anything. The gooning is getting out of control. It's taken over everything especially social media. People are just lazy and boring imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:51 PM
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Fake centaur vs real piss? Yeah real piss is 100x worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:49 PM
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Idk. Every time I've ever checked a man's phone, he was watching some freaky shit. Mostly incest, barely legal, and a lot of trans stuff but claim to be 100% straight. That's the thing with porn is that with overuse, guys need to watch weirder and weirder shit to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:43 PM
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Right but there is a difference between a fictional person and a real person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:40 PM
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I don't think most womens complaint is that men masturbate and fantasize while doing so. I think the complaint is watching real live actual humans being degraded and having sexual attraction to it. Not to mention other problematic themes involving rape, dominance, incest, and "barely 18". It's common sense to know something bad happening to someone in real life is worse than something bad happening to a fictional nonexistent character.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:22 PM
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That's weird because 60% of men are married or in relationships. What's wrong with the 40% that can't manage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:19 PM
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Yeah a fat guy messaging you something like "so when are we gonna fuck?" When you have "looking for a relationship" on your profile is pretty nasty work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:18 PM
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It's not porn if it's a fictional novel. There are men watching people gang bang and pee on each other on real video. That's weirder imo. I think vampires are a way more popular theme than centaurs btw. I don't know anyone into centaurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:18 PM
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Okay so then it's the same experience for men and women yet there is twice the amount of men on the apps. They apparently don't seem to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:16 PM
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If you look at bugs and rats they're having hundreds of babies every year. If you look at species like us that need to care for their children long-term to keep them alive, they don't reproduce for years. Orcas reproduce every 3-5 years and elephants every 5-10 years. A baby elephant only needs 3 years with the mother to survive infancy. A human needs 18, minimum. If you look at gorrillas it's 4-6 years. Human women would probably most be dead if we reproduced like cats and rats. Medically, it c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:15 PM
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I think a lot of men want sex and are angry they have to go through women to get it. They want sex really badly but think that being nice to a woman they're trying to sleep with is "simping". They want to control how they get sex and who they get it from without centering the actual human being attached to the vagina they so desperately crave. Not only that but they want these women to be instantly lustful towards them while not being attractive, charming, or kind. It's a cycle of failure due to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:01 PM
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Percentage of men that watch porn 91% (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30358432/) Percentage of women that read smut is unknown but estimated around 20% regularly and about 50% of women in their lifetime. Men: smut is a major problem affecting all women and making dating hard for men 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:54 AM
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Yeah but they're not drowning in fresh potable water. They're drowning in sewage and used heroin needles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:49 AM
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Well since 80% of men can't meet those requirements I'd highly disagree. 60% of men are overweight which already leaves not being fat putting a man in the top 40% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:43 AM
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We mean "not throw tantrums over his favorite team losing a game" and "have basic empathy".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:42 AM
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For a man to be considered a top 20% man all he needs is to not be hideous, not be too fat, have a job, support himself, have a running car, have emotional intelligence, and not be a criminal/abuser. The bar is actually in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:36 PM
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I really don't think the demand will be as high as people think. They will 1. Be expensive 2. Not be a human. There are so many men here saying they won't use escorts because we want a woman to actually like them. Buying a robot will not fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:27 PM
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Without men, who would women need protection from?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:41 PM
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I think if anyone is going to get ai robots it will mostly be very, very lonely men who want something to control. And single mothers who want an ai robot to cook and clean for them while bot having a "romantic" relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:55 PM
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Men made more because women were literally property. Any money the woman made belonged to her husband. Of course, men made more when women weren't allowed to do anything their husband didn't allow....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:38 PM
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If you have to use .0001% of the population as an example you definitely don't have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:37 PM
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It's not sexual triggers. No one wants to date a bum who can't put money towards rent and can't afford a few date nights out every month or maybe a yearly vacation. Especially for women who want kids. Who is gonna pay bills while she's getting her body split open and has a dinner playe size wound in her uterus for 2 months? You need money to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:15 PM
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Do you know that your flare says complaint instead of compliant?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:14 PM
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Yeah highlight the shaming part though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:02 AM
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Can you highlight where I shamed anyone? And clearly yeah a man who risked his life against a man with an assault rifle to save innocent people definitely deserves praise, he's literally a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:01 AM
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You had to go back to 1987 to find 1 study? New research shows links in testosterone along with low cortisol can correlate to violence but there is no research that states causation. Also it only correlates to violence in certain situations like challenging status, not robberies, murders, or sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:59 AM
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That's your perception. I never once mentioned women in my original comment. Just that men are biggest threat to safety of all humans including women, men, and children. If men are so good at protecting, why do so many get murdered by other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:17 PM
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Please quote where I said, I will wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:13 PM
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That means absolutely nothing. Do you have a study that shows that violent men have high testosterone ? Because in fact there are lots of studies showing the male brain is more prone to violence due to brain differences. Hypothalamus and violence: A study found reduced volume in specific hypothalamic subunits linked to violent behavior (in offenders). This region is involved in hormone regulation linked to aggression. Hypothalamic subunit volumes & violence (European Archives of Psychiatry) Neur…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:13 PM
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I am, but the one you put forward is pretty simple and nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:10 PM
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Well, thanks to weapons, women could be as deadly as men and don't chose to be as often. Most men are also using weapons and not murdering with their bare hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:09 PM
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All I did was give examples of 2 different men and what they did. You just hallucinated the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:01 PM
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Men have lower testosterone than ever and still commit 90% of violent crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:00 PM
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I don't need evidence for something I never said
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:00 PM
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They're not "natural" protectors. Some are protectors and some aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:00 PM
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Yes, that's because men typically aren't in close proximity to their very small children. When it comes to murdering children, men are always #1. 2 women might slap or push each other or even engage in more harmful domestic violence. But men are still #1 when it comes to murder and putting people in the hospital. When men attack, they are extremely violent. The #1 killer of pregnant women is the father of their unborn baby, even higher than deaths from birth complications. Men are 90%+ of murder…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:59 PM
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Men aren't natural protectors. Men are the biggest threat to other men, women, and children on the planet. We don't need some random girl on tiktok that you dislike to tell us that. That being said some men are natural protectors. Compare the man who hid behind a wall while his female partner got attacked in Colombia vs the man in Australia who disarmed the gunman at Bondi Beach. Some men are, most aren't. That's fine. We don't want mens protection. We wouldn't need it if other men weren't so vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:36 PM
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Aw he has reading troubles
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:00 PM
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Dread game is about instilling a fear of abandonment. Mentally sound women aren't afraid of a guy who treats them like crap abandoning them, we welcome it 🙂.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:44 PM
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I've been a manager for years 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:59 PM
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This only works on women with borderline personality disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:59 PM
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It is the physics of sex, but it's not the chemistry, and it's the chemistry that matters for most sexless men. If it was just about the orgasm or the feeling of human skin, masturbation would be enough. Most men don't offer chemistry or orgasm to the women they have sex with. Most men have sex like they're fucking a prostitute even if you're their gf or wife. Welcome to womanhood, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:51 PM
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I've met quite a few who are and so have my friends. Most men will have gay stuff in their porn history if you actually dare to check. In my experience like 1 out of 4 "straight men" are watching 2 men fuck regularly. I was an operator and trainer but I am now a manager but thanks 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:45 PM
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Why would a woman to he ally to man who is secretly cheating on her with men? Most women are not homophobic. Doesn't mean we will accept being cheated on with men or women for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:41 PM
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The trend has nothing to do with any of those things you listed. Mostly it has to do with women who found their partner on grindr, watching/collecting gay porn, or actively cheating with gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:40 PM
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I don't like men. Why would I want to entertain them with pictures of my body? Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:24 PM
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Because remember that " we should have chosen better" but simultaneously "not all men!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:50 AM
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What men actually care about and what they admit to caring about are two different things. Yeah, there are different kinds of men out there. Some are good partners, some are gold diggers, and some want to control a woman. Never said otherwise. But there are plenty of gold digger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 09:38 PM
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There are women who care about a man paying and there are women that don't care about a man paying. I've seen multiple threads on Facebook or tiktok full of pick-mes making comments like "I always go 50/50!" Or "love coffee/walks dates! Takes the pressure off!" Which is fine. No one has to pay for anyone. But in reality, when you click those profiles you're gonna see a bunch of ugly and overweight women. Why is that? Because that's the kind of men they can get. Never in my life have I seen or he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:27 PM
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Even when women don't fail and have to deal with men's failures it's still a woman's fault. Terms like "daddy issues", when being a bad father is the failure of a man. The rhetoric about single mothers (Men not being active fathers) is seen as the failure of a woman. The high prison population is blamed on single mothers despite it being mostly men that commit violent crimes. Everything is seen as womens failures. If anything men are coddled in this aspect. Especially when it comes to SA. "Why d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:21 PM
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They most definitely do. A lot of men love the idea of a woman they don't have to spend a single penny on. They still want sex and cooking and cleaning, but also don't want to financially support a woman in anyway. I make decent money. Not that much as I make under 100k, but when I tell men my job position they tend to start expecting me to pay for certain things or let them move into my place because I own a condo. Men are just as big of gold diggers as women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:17 PM
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I did I think they were banned
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:32 PM
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Meanwhile, I had to put my setting that no one can message me because men from this sub were threatening to kill or rape me. You'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:15 PM
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By "better one," they mean one they can afford. They could find an American golddigger, but it would be expensive. They just can't afford an American gold digger with American currency so they opt for women from impoverished countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:19 PM
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The system doesn't give women anytime off besides 6 weeks of disability. It's not even for bonding time it's because pregnancy is considered a disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:11 PM
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Actually studies from European countries show men are less likely to use their parental leave and return to work willingly despite having more time off available.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:09 PM
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I'm a childfree millenial (32f) and I make 10k more per year than all my coworkers because I have more experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:43 PM
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For me the top traits would he self discipline, honesty, and similar life values. That would mean someone politically progressive, hard working, and not lustful, someone looking for a partnership and not a bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:16 PM
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I mean, I've had multiple men tell me to take the day off of work to spend time with them before. At least 10 guys have asked me out, and when I said I would be working at that time, they're like, "Just call out 🤪 I know you want to see me." As if I should be losing out on income to spend time with some guy. This isn't a woman thing it's a people thing. It's fucking annoying imo but I work regular hours. If your hours are crazy it's going to exacerbate the people who are already like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:45 AM
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People can't afford homes because they're being purchased by multbillion dollar companies and rented out. Millennials have nothing to do with it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 07:11 PM
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So not a single example then. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:58 PM
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Probably "not having sex with him"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:27 PM
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I swear I meant to comment on someone else's comment but I appreciate your response 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:16 PM
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I'm a woman who never plans to have kids. I love children. Adore children. I wish I could have some. I highly value motherhood. That being said, I don't think men value fatherhood. They value having a wife and children. But don't value being a husband. I refuse to become a single mother, or single married mother working 40 hours hours just to come home and cook and clean. When men step up to their role I may reconsider. Until then, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 03:56 PM
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Realistically, at least in the US most of our migrants come from north, central, and south America, also some carribean islands. A lot of people from that area are very religious/conservative. They have tons of babies and most don't practice abortion commonly. Latinos are the fastest growing population for a reason. That being said, it's pretty normal for the men and women to both work and participate in the home. Those families also typically value extended family very much and have a lot of su…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 03:52 PM
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This has some truth to it. When I was younger and casually dating, guys would make it clear I'm not their gf, yet get very jealous and even angry if they thought I was "cheating on them". Which wasn't possible because they're the ones who made it clear it wasn't a relationship. Some men want the opportunity to have sex with multiple women without committing and want those women to be committed to them. In other words: delusional. That being said I never dated two guys at once casually or otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:21 PM
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I don't care about your argument because it's dumb. I don't care to counter it or even really read it. Don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:18 PM
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Right, the men now are also addicted to porn and only fans. The chance of a spouse cheating increases over time. We won't know how many men out of gen z or millennials will cheat when they're 50 years old because they're not 50 years old. You're asking women to ignore the stats and predict the future? No. Also that's not normal. Husbands are allowed in the delivery room either she banned you or the hospital did. For a reason. Not sure why but that's not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:18 PM
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I would have agreed with this 10 years ago. Most men do not offer those things either, unfortunately. Especially the sympathy and affection part. Definitely not loyalty either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:31 PM
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The context is clear. Your lack of reading comprehension is now also clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:29 PM
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I was talking about prison population which is what this post is about. If you want to discuss other statistics I recommend making your own post about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:46 PM
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Nothing you said changes anything I said. I never said most men commit violent crimes. Most violent crimes are committed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:43 PM
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Your dad is wild. I loveeee sex. Would NEVER have kids. There is nothing a man could do that would change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:12 AM
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Accountability, in that case, would be divorcing your husband and taking all his money if he's abusive. I'm on board with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:15 AM
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That's not what accountability means
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:11 AM
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Any woman who gives a man children out of wedlock (especially a broke man) is retarded. Hence the declining birth rate. Men are finding they can't have all that actually, hence why there are so many incels now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:50 PM
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Okay so the man's behavior is ALWAYS the woman's fault got it. If he wasn't good to start with she picked badly, if he was good to start with then stopped putting in effort it's because she's not worth. Another reason for women to stay celibate and leave men alone entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:48 PM
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56% of men will cheat at some point in their marriage. So it's over a lifetime or across multiple marriages. If men are killing pregnant women, who else's fault would that be besides men.....? Like possibly who else could be responsible for that? It's 2025, women have their own money. It's not very appealing to think that if you get married and have kids with someone that there is a 56% chance of him cheating and that your husband is a bigger threat to your life while your pregnant than the actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:47 PM
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That's why "nice guy" and "kind guy" aren't the same guy. Nice guy is specifically used to describe the guys who expect something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:36 PM
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The divide hasn't arisen. It's always been there. We just didn't have social media to see the gravity of it. I will trust men when they're not 92% of rapists, 80% of violent offenders, the number 1 cause of death to pregnant and post partum women, and when the 56% of men stop cheating on their wives. Men are afraid women won't fuck them, and women are afraid of being abused and being seen as accessories or outlets for violence. When men in society as a whole start seeing women as human beings I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:33 PM
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According to my Google search, women are mostly committing property and drug offenses. Most womens crimes aren't violent. Men commit 80.4% of violent crimes and 64% of property crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:26 PM
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If you're an animal, get off your phone. Take your clothes off, and go live in the woods like you're supposed to and then die in your mid 30s from vitamin deficiencies or a mild infection. Please stay away from the humans in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:23 PM
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More likely than men? Who get away with it more than 90% of the time??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:07 AM
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This guy wants women to be rapists so badly it's not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:45 PM
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92% of rapists are still men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:45 PM
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Your screenshots are fucking annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:29 PM
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They're planning to implement a draft system in case of war. Not mandatory military service.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:34 PM
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Bro more than 90% of sex offenders are men. Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:33 PM
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If only men stayed consistent in their relationship efforts over time...... the guy she met in their 20s isn't the same guy who's 35 and comfortable in his relationship. A lot of men will romance a woman for years and stop putting in effort later when they think they "have" the woman. Unfortunately relationships take ongoing effort and men can't cash in effort from 8 years ago for bonus points.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:29 PM
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Just to drive across Texas is about 7-8 hours or more. The United States is vastly larger than European countries. I had to take a flight from nj to West Virginia which is 2 states away, my drive home was 9.5 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:26 PM
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Austria has the same population as new york city in case anyone was wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:23 PM
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They won't mention how 1 in 9 men and boys will be raped by other men though. That rape doesn't count apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:22 PM
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Well first your dad, then your grandpa so maybe like 2
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:30 PM
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I've been with men who had very large penises. 8.5 inches + and I like my cervix too much to call them back. Thanks for telling me what I like though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:56 PM
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Lol thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:28 PM
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Personally, it sounds like you're describing men. Men are the main consumers and producers of porn. They're the only casting the big dick actors and men are the ones jerking off to it. Women mostly prefer girth over length anyway. T
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:54 PM
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I'm allergic to adhesives, latex condoms, and spermicide. There are some condoms that work for me though, they're just really expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:15 AM
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I've never met a man who willingly wears condoms. It always takes convincing. I personally take birth control because I have heavy periods and don't want to get pregnant. But don't pretend it's not a two way street when it comes to irresponsible sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:14 AM
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I prefer men who are 5'8/5'9 so I find that hard to believe. I'm 5'4 so an average height man is perfect for me as long as he's not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:59 PM
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Probably exactly how some of the other men answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:40 PM
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I can guarantee you most women don't care about how "nice" a penis is 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:34 PM
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That's assuming he'd marry you and not ask for a prenup. You're using the richest man in the world as an example when in reality you'd probably be lucky to find a guy making $170k/year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:06 AM
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If that's the case, why are most marriages between people who make similar amounts of money? Clearly, there aren't that many men who want to fund a woman's lifestyle. The ones who do typically want to fund a very beautiful woman, not an average one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:02 AM
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He's not a little nerd anymore hun. Remember you helped him glow up... now he's muscular and makes a lot of money. He could find someone better looking to give his money to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:39 PM
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Yeah I do. Most people, including men, have a lot of flaws. So if you find a guy who is exactly what you described he may come with some baggage. Multiple baby mamas, habitual cheater, etc. That being said my standards are a guy who is 5'8, not fat, preferably speaks some Spanish, makes $65k or above, loyal, likes to cook, likes to work out, isn't addicted to porn, has a car, has his own living situation, no kids. I can't find one who fits that 100%. If they're loyal, they're fat. If they're han…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:31 PM
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You could tell a man 1,000 times what works but they don't typically care to listen. (Ask me how I know)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:26 PM
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Well, 57% of them manage to do it. Regardless of the reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:26 PM
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You're not an ugly man but not Michael B jordan level at all (no offense, he's just really good-looking and has a 10/10 physique) he would be in the .001% of men due to also being a multimillionaire. Despite that, even good-looking women don't typically pull the top 5% of men given there are a lot more beautiful women and competition for these men is high. I'm a pretty good-looking woman who has dated very rich men before, and the juice typically isn't worth the squeeze because they're more like…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:20 PM
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Men who cheat typically report being happy in their marriage. So the guys who do this are the exact guys who have someone stable and loving, they just want variety after a few years and don't care if it blow up their life because they're not expecting to get caught. 57% of men will cheat in their marriage. So it's about a 60/40 chance that this would happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:15 PM
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You'd be the woman in this scenario. Also I think girth is more important to women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:38 PM
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Female arousal takes on average 10-20 minutes. Men is about 1 minute for full arousal. If anything I think you'd be worse off as a woman in that regard. The vagina needs time to double in length from 3 inches to 6 inches. It's different for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:53 PM
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I think once a man feels what it's like to have sexual intercourse as a woman he would change his mind immediately. It's not that good typically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:51 PM
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I think you're underestimating the dating market. Men with looks and money like that are very small subset of the population probably closer to .001% of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:50 PM
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Unfortunately that's how a lot of women end up single moms in their 30s with little to no work experience. These are rhe women ppd men tell to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:49 PM
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When I used dating apps years ago it didn't matter if it was hinge, bumble, or tinder. Most of men were looking for casual regardless of what their profile said. I remember matching with a series of men who said "looking for life partner" and then they would just ask me to come over to their house that night for sex. A lot of men just want a booty call regardless of what they put on the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:27 PM
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Not just wars. Exploration expeditions also. Recruit a group of young men, throw them on a ship, and tell them to go travel the world. Most of them never returned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:59 PM
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So you think this is worth the risk then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:55 PM
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What happens when you meet a man with potential and he never reaches the potential you saw in him? What if he actually regresses in his looks and financial status? What If you're by his side for years building him up, then once he reaches his potential he trades you in for a younger, hotter woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:53 PM
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Right so "anecdotal but interesting" wasn't clear enough for you... got it 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:51 PM
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Let's say you did all this for your man, and after a few years, he's richer, better looking, and more confident. Now he decides he can get his pick of the litter and leaves you for a better looking woman. Where would you go from there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:19 PM
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Let's pretend your answer makes any sense. What if you weren't beautiful enough to obtain such a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:16 PM
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So less than 1% of the population of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:14 PM
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Same 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:06 PM
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Let's say you find this man at your peak and he makes a lot of money. Would you be willing to sacrifice your body to provide him with children? Stretch marks, hair loss, weight gain, tooth erosion (my mom had to get dentures from acid erosion from really bad morning sickness, I destroyed her teeth)? Sacrifice your job to stay home? What if he cheats? Would you be willing to have sex you don't enjoy to provide these children?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:02 PM
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Unfortunately, men have so much more upper body strength that even a man your size could easily overpower you. I'm 5'4 and I lift but I had an ex who was 5'6 and skinny and could basically grab my wrists and there would be no escape unless I had a weapon. Unless you found a very tiny man or were a very large woman, any man could overpower you at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:00 PM
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I think a saw a tiktok where men were asked what they would do if they woke up as a woman and some of them said they would fuck all their homeboys, start an onlyfans, one guy said he's get a train ran on him 😅 obviously anecdotal I thought found it... interesting to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:57 AM
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So basically, you'd go for one of the most sexually desired men on the entire planet? Even as a good-looking woman, that would be quite a feat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:56 AM
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What you're referring to as the "cock carousel" is just dating. It's not collecting anything. It's getting to know people, having relationships, and finding out your incompatible. How would I know that I hate ham unless I tried it? Knowledge and wisdom are based on learning from different experiences in your life. Learning experiences. No one is riding a carousel. They're dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:13 AM
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No it isn't based on getting to know the person. If a guy tells me he's looking for casual and I'm looking for a relationship, were never getting to know each other because I'm not wasting my time. That's not how that works. If you're looking for different things you more incompatible. Once you both establish that you're looking for the same things, that's when you get to know the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:39 PM
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No, because you guys say on here that you can "just tell" if a woman has a high body count. If anything most men actively seek out the women who tend to be slutty and wife them up no problem. I don't know 1 "slutty" woman or single mom who is single. Despite all the rhetoric these women always have men lining up to be in relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:27 PM
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There are plenty of men that do, though. Slutty women are always in relationships. All of these men aren't settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:15 PM
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Some are married, and some have long-term relationships. They're definitely not single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:17 AM
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That's already womens experiences in real life since age 12 and dating apps. Out of the men that hit on me, maybe 1-5 a year, aren't bald, obese, ugly, or old enough to be my father.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:17 PM
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Men can wear condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:55 PM
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Never. The second a guy gets a hot woman, he thinks he's the king of the world instead of being happy with what he's got. Low-key broke men are the same. If you "build" with a very broke man he will leave you for someone else the second he gets money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:33 PM
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Every "slut" I know is constantly in relationships. Men love sluts and refuse to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:22 PM
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The worst guys I dated were the average/ugly ones. I think it has a lot to do with insecurity. If a guy is good-looking, he doesn't get into a relationship out of desperation. He's with you because he wants to be. When the guy is average (especially when the woman is more attractive), it creates a lot of jealousy and insecurity. I have been cheated on by 100% of the men I've dated who were average looking. Usually with women who were morbidly obese. It's so backwards to me how an average guy cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:30 PM
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There is an entire industry of feminine soaps and sprays. Summers eve, monistat, etc. Even lysol and clorox were marketed as feminine washes in the past. For the sole purpose of convincing women that their vaginas are dirty and smelly, and to keep men happy, they need to use toxic chemicals which cause infections. Causing women to buy more product because these products cause and exacerbate infections and ph imbalances. Men have nothing like this. There is no multibillion dollar industry markete…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:07 PM
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To everyone who knew him he was a nice guy. Not a criminal, baby daddy, thug like some guys here suggest are the only ones capable of being bad boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:23 PM
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Unfortunately, some of the worst men I've dated were the ugly ones who faked a good personality. The hot guy = bad guy thing needs to stop. It's not real it's a cope and everyone knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:24 PM
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It really sucks you guys have to lie about rape because none of that matches the statistics from the NISVS website. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:22 AM
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7% of of the 16% of men who experience rape are assaulted by women. Comparatively 25% of women will be raped by a man in their life time. You don't see why that doesn't qualify as "a lot" right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:12 AM
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There are literally a bunch of virgins who frequent this sub that come here to describe all the ways they're going to mistreat their hypothetical girlfriend. A lot of men can't or don't get women unless they lie. It's their MO. Yes all humans lie. Commonly, heterosexual males lie to open doors to access to women. We know it. It's basically a tenant of red pill. Please stop denying the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:14 AM
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victim was too drunk, high, drugged, or passed out and unable to consent" I agree this is rape. With that being said, almost every sexually active man on a college campus would be considered a rapist in these circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:50 AM
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76.8-93% of men are raped by men. If you narrow it down to "forced to penetrste" only it's 78% female perpetrators. But overall about 80-90% of men are raped by men and men are 97% of rapists. This is data from RAINN. Yes men can be raped by women. But it's not common whatsoever. Most men are raped by other men and most of it is committed against boys under the age of 18, not grown men. 1 in 6 men will be abused (by another man) before the age of 18. Please stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:47 AM
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I come here to see mens inside thoughts come to the outside. I know there are good men out there, but I used to think it was a higher percentage. I thought I was just picking "bad men." It turns out the guys I picked were pretty alright compared to some of the hateful, cruel people I see posting in here every day. I used to think it was like 50% good men, 30% mediocre and 10% bad. Now I see the bell curve. More like 10% good, 80% mediocre, and 10% should be locked behind bars and never released.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:41 AM
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Have you ever dated a man for 5 years? Lived with him? Slept with him? Probably not. I doubt your friends come around and brag about how they're lazy and don't cook or clean. There would be absolutely no reason to, it would be humilating. Your guy friends probably also don't tell you about the times they couldn't get it up, times they farted and it was actually diarrhea, or times they didn't brush their teeth for 5 days straight. These are kinds of things people don't see unless they live with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:33 AM
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Men lie, babe. It's kind of the modus operandi for men to sweettalk and manipulate women with love bombing, attention, and gifts until they feel the woman is attached enough to let the mask slip. It's a well-known phenomenon in psychology. Usually, this is the MO of narcissists. Although it's the go-to method for anyone looking to manipulate and the most natural progression of manipulation learned from childhood. Humans aren't that creative. Our brains are all wired, generally the same. Have you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:30 AM
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All I did was answer your question about how many men are in relationships. Tbh I know men lie, which is why I don't have sex with men who don't give me money and treat me well. I'm not gonna be anyone friend with benefits. I only accept benefits. The way it works is that you find someone looking for the same thing as you. The reality is that all men say they're looking for a relationship, love bomb the woman, get sex, the woman thinks the relationship is getting serious and the guy plays her be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:25 AM
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The self proclaimed misandry. Men constantly talk about how horrible men are and don't even realize their doing it. "All men watch porn". "All men want threesomes." "All men cheat" "biology says men should spread their seed" "a man is only as loyal as his options" "All men are attracted to teenagers, it's when women are at their physical prime". You make excuses for your severe lack of emotional maturity and self control, without realizing that you're describing men like they're wild beasts who …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:16 AM
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Check out her comments section on tiktok. There are hundreds of women who have this exact experience. I follow her. Also, as a woman, this is pretty much 100% an expectation from every man I've ever met. Even ones I've been on one singular date with will ask, "Can you cook?", " the way to my heart is through my stomach", "when are you cooking for me?". Every man I've ever lived with has stopped doing any chores about 6 weeks into living together. It's always expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:08 AM
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52% of men are legally married, and an additional 10% are cohabiting with a woman they're in a relationship with. So at minimum 62% of men are in relationships. That doesn't count dating but not cohabiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:02 AM
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Don't you think it's strange that men refuse to accept the concept that a guy could be a good guy to his friends and family yet be an absolutely terrible partner? That's typically the case. Not every woman getting her heart broken is dating the modern day version of the Fonz from happy days. One of the worst partners I've ever had was a college educated, overweight, nerd who liked to cook and loved his family. TERRIBLE boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:55 AM
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I've been abused by 5s and 10s. The 5s are always more evil and more hateful. I'm not a 5, so I probably wouldn't settle for one. But I'd rather be with someone who's attractive and treats me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:23 AM
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Omg that's absolutely awful. I've also heard through my friends who are nurses that their jobs push back against pressing charges and make excuses for the patients all the time. It's basically expected that nurses are abused and forced to accept the abuse. It passes me off so much that people get into a field about caring for people just to end up as patients themselves. But men are so delusional they just assume a guy in a hard hat is more likely to experience injuries because they're working a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:51 AM
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You're conflating hard jobs with dangerous jobs. Some of the most dangerous jobs are food delivery and nursing. Nurses get assaulted constantly. You just don't actually know the stats and think "cop" and "firefighter" are the most dangerous when they're not. If anything sex work is probably the most dangerous job on this planet since like 80% of them are raped or physically assaulted. You guys just like to say stuff without any knowledge about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:49 PM
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Yeah a lot of women in my moms generation were raped by a dad, brother, or uncle. It's not uncommon. They're just not telling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:22 AM
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What you're not realizing is that a lot of them were.... back then it was legal to beat your wife. It was also socially frowned upon for women to complain about it. A whole lot of out grandfathers legally abused their wives and no one talks about it. Marital rape wasn't a crime in my state until 1993. These things were happening and considered mens legal entitlements. Men legally could abuse or rape their wives. It wasn't a crime. No one would help her if she asked. That's why when marital abuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:10 PM
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I don't have to think I'm better than someone to choose not to be mistreated by them or decide we are not compatible long term. Just because someone is an option doesn't mean they're someone I'd want to spend the rest of my life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:39 PM
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Women spend all their money on the HOUSEHOLD. including buying food for their husbands. Men are more likely to spend money on THEMSLEVES. Google it. I would not cook and clean 18 hours a day for a weekly date night or vacation. Would you work 60 hours a week if your boss paid you with a dinner date on Friday and a week long vacation in july? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:37 PM
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Well according to google like 80% of single women can cook. It says only 50% of single men can cook, up from 23% in 2003. Women are also cooking 75% of meals at home for families. When I date it's almost imposible to find a man who can make more than pasta or eggs. Cooking is a traditionally feminine role in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:31 PM
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Common sense and history books.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:28 PM
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Because a job pays you, gives you benefits, and after work you get to clock out. Being the default parent/homemaker is 24/7. No pay, no benefits, no vacations, and you're always on call. Usually on top of a full time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:28 PM
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Cooking is masculine when it's paid. Cooking is feminine when it's not. Women are expected to cook at home. And most "chefs" are men, despite not being as good of cooks as most grandmothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:16 PM
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Well my grandma was a traditional housewife. All of her children were concieved vía rape and my grandfather beat them daily. She wasn't allowed to do anything. Couldn't drive, couldn't wear pants, and couldn't learn english. She says She doesn't regret her marriage because she loves her children but despises my deceased grandfather and never dated or married since he died in 1984.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:54 PM
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Women disagree. It doesn't even out the difference. Working 8 more hours for pay doesn't feel equivalent to being to the default parent/homemaker 24/7/365 no holidays or days off. It's not equivalent at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:52 PM
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It was exactly like slavery 😅 women were considered property of their husbands and couldn't leave. Forced to bear children and work in the home. Slaves were forced to bear children and work in the home or outside. Also considered property. Besides cotton and tobacco Slaves were also brutally raped and their children sold off of another form of income. There is no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:28 PM
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In my friend group? Never. Womens standards are pretty low in general. My friends who aren't married are happy with guys who aren't disgusting, have a job, have a car, and live on their own. Most women I know settle for even less than that like single dads, fat guys, or broke guys. The bar is usually in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:54 AM
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Why would women prefer to be mistreated by an ugly man? Like what would be the benefit of that? Most women would prefer a man not mistreat them at all, but given the choice of being mistreated by an ugly woman or a gorgeous women what would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:14 AM
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Idgaf, what you expect. It's not even you're opinion, its Andrew's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:34 PM
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Because andrew is not only a terrible debater but also a poor excuse for a man. He's a total loser who has a smug attitude and never presents actual facts. He would be laughed out of an actual debate and resorts to attempting to bully only fans girls, but couldn't even bully a pickle jar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:55 PM
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Andrew Wilson, the guy who didn't possess the force to open the pickle jar 😅... I guess he means other men and not himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:17 PM
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Okay but almost 70% of men are already married/dating. You're in the minority. It seems women actually find 70% of men attractive enough to marry/date and it's the bottom 30% that are struggling. Quite the opposite of 80/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:05 AM
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As a woman, if I could afford a robot wife I would buy one 100%. Id program her with all my family recipes. Come home after a 10 hour shift to a clean house, laundry put away, and my grandmother's recipes hot and fresh out of the oven. Between my rose and robot wife I'd never speak to another man again for the rest of my life unless it's at work or a customer service person. Sounds awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:44 PM
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Well, pew research shows only 31% of men aren't married or in a relationship. (Way larger percentage than the top 1% you're claiming). So 69% of men are able to date/marry. Another study shows 35% of single men are currently sexually active. So, the men who aren't getting laid/relationships are closer to 20% of the population. Does it make men feel better to identify with the fake 99% you guys made up instead of admitting you're actually in the bottom 20% when it comes to getting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:31 PM
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Right, but I can't extrapolate information off of a false premise. I wanted clarification on how this fantasy works, but if you can't even explain your delusion, then there is nothing to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:23 PM
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Let's assume your premise is correct (which it's not). Why would women all date the same men? What's wrong with the other men that they never get chosen? Would you be complaining if you were one of the men who gets dates? Or is this entire post a premise that you assume is true because you're one of the men who doesn't get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:49 PM
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Women statistically underrate their appearance and men statistically overrated their appearance. Women know this because we have been getting approached by old, ugly, bald men since before puberty and well into adulthood. There is a saying "I wish I had the confidence of a mediocre man" for a reason. Men tend to overshoot their league very often, a lot of times to a level of delusion. Judging attractiveness: Biases due to raters’ own attractiveness and intelligence. Cogent Psychology, 2(1), 9963…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:50 AM
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To accept women are also human beings, not a hole to be chased after. If you can't get someone to agree to have consensual sex with you, then that's a personal problem. If I can't find a man who wants to pay my bills or have sex with me or start a family, it's also a me problem. The problems in your life do not mean someone should be forced to solve it for you. I get its lonely and sucks not be attractive, but if that's the card that life dealt you, you have to work on it yourself. There is no c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:14 PM
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If it was really consensual, they'd do it for free. It's not that consensual. "Well compensated" how much would you accept for risk of stds, pregnancy, rape, and assault? Surely not a few hundred dollars....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:50 PM
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Who is everyone? Everyone but the prostitutes right? Being a prostitute is a horrible life path and I'm so tired of men here discussing paying for women's bodies like it has absolutely zero negative effect on the women themselves. Prostitutes are HUMANS with children, with families, most of them do thay type of work because they are poor, mentally ill, or drug addicted. Legalizing prostitution would cause a lot of human trafficking including CHILDREN. No prostitution should not be made legal. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:02 PM
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My 18 year old grandmother was shipped off to the United States to marry my 37 year old grandfather who beat her daily for what would be about 1500 dollars today, paid to her father. This was in 1964. She now hates men and has never remarried or dated after his death in 1986.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:22 PM
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He probably couldn't get enough women to qualify as a whore tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:49 AM
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It's weird you say that because I'm very successful and get whatever I want from men. Sounds like a scare tactic to get women to treat you better than you treat us or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:41 AM
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I'm just listening to mens advice. If a man is only as loyal as his options, who am I to behave better than a man? You guys are the leaders after all right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:25 AM
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That's why I always cheat on my boyfriends. Women always have options so it's basically a fun game rigged in my favor 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:18 AM
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Did God also give you a fragile ego, or did you build that all on your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:35 PM
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I can't really even respond because you're confusing the word "respect" with authority. Authority is what people in the military have. The military literally ranks you in a hierarchy, and those above you decide your fate. au·thor·i·ty /əˈTHôrədē/ noun 1. the power or right to give orders, make decisions, and enforce obedience. "he had absolute authority over his subordinates". re·spect /rəˈspek(t)/ noun 1. a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:44 PM
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<image> 15-20% is my ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:22 PM
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I'm a gym girlie who has dated bodybuilders and I'll tell you... I fucking hate it. I'd rather someone less lean with decent amount of muscle. Men sub 12% body fat are too vascular its weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:21 PM
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Male pornstars are physically disgusting. None of them are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:45 PM
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My therapist told me I'm amazingly well adjusted for someone with my upbringing 😅 I think it's just matter of the other adults I had in my life. My ex boyfriends mom is pretty much responsible for all my success. My dad had money because he stole it from his mother. She doesn't read English so he had her sign her house over to him when he was 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:43 PM
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See notice how you had to say "Hadid sisters" that's a household name. Hers is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:34 PM
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My dad kept a roof over my head. That's about it. He didn't buy groceries. Pawned me off on his mother and girlfriends. Never spent time with me. He's dead now but couldn't tell you what day my birthday if he was alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:33 PM
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Probably because that's what you watch. I don't actually watch porn so I don't have any cookies or history saved to make recommendations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:32 PM
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I don't watch porn. But if you go to any porn site that stuff is on the front page. So books are disturbing, concepts offend you? But real life abuse and disgusting actions are fine. The hypocrisy is WILD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:01 PM
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Yeah, absolutely no one knows who they are or any of their work outside of "Leo's newest 20 year old gf". They're not supermodels. Just women who are models. After a Google search his last gfs biggest successes were the cover of vogue (turkey) 2016 and she played supporting roles/extras in some indie films and Netflix original movies. None of these women are known for the modeling or acting 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:59 PM
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I was raised by a single father who was literally never around. I had to teach myself everything about being a woman/being an adult. Makeup, driving, rising a bike, financial literacy, how to shave, how to cook, how to clean, I even taught myself how to tie my shoes from a children tv show I loved. If men can't teach themselves to be normal functioning adults then they're definitely not the gender meant to lead and provide. If someone has to hold your hand to get you to learn basic life skills t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:56 PM
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Okay so regular porn is a goblin looking man with a face a mother couldn't love and a red inflamed penis having aggressive sex with a woman with mostly fake body parts. 98% of the porn I've seen looks actually miserable for the women and they have to do disgusting degrading things. Even those videos where the spread the women's butthole open. Wtf is that???????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:45 PM
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He has to be a really good cook, be into fitness, and have immaculate hygiene. Like really strict hygiene and super clean home. Fifth and odors really repulse me. Even disorder and mess is a turn off for me. I hate laziness so I prefer a guy who keeps himself and his space orderly and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:40 PM
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In this specific context it's women who get paid to go on yachts and have sex with the men who own the yachts and their rich friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:36 PM
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I mean you can google the leo dicaprio lore if you want. The theory is he's gay, he's been living with a man for 15 years and he pays escorts to be his beard. All contract expire when the beard turns 25. That's a theory. But also, the women he dates are low end models, unknown women, who happen to model, and also happen to escort since low end modelling doesn't pay well and escorting for millionaires does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:34 PM
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She probably wasn't attracted to you......
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:55 AM
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He paid her once for the sex and once to keep quiet about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:28 AM
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Most of them are known for being "yacht girls" aka escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:28 AM
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There are like 5 arcades within a 10 mile radius of my house. 3 of them sell beer and pizza. One is in a downtown next to a witch store, public park, about 30 different restaurants, a movie theater, skatepark, and record store. All of these businesses sre booming. Not sure where you live but that's not necessarily true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:23 PM
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Men actually do less housework when the wife is the higher earner. Link to the study is in the article. University of Bath, UK. https://www.bath.ac.uk/announcements/married-mothers-who-earn-more-than-their-husbands-take-on-an-even-greater-share-of-housework/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:14 PM
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Lol. I'm 32 and never in my life have I concerned myself with who celebrities date or fuck. Too bad you couldn't come up with a realistic example (because there isn't one) so you had to resort to celebrities and are still incorrect. Women don't lust like men. We don't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:07 PM
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He literally pays yacht girls (prostitutes). Those women are high-end escorts who get long-term contracts. They're barely "girlfriends."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:04 PM
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The type of woman waiting 3 months probably isn't hooking up at all....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:25 PM
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Title is misleading because women don't want revenge on men they don't want..... they don't care about them at all. If anything, we feel bad for the younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:15 PM
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I didn't have sex with him until we hung out like 7 times over a month 🤷‍♀️ he didn't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:12 PM
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I just love the conflation men make with romance novels and porn. 25% of Americans read a romance novel every year. 80% are women. So like 20% of women read at least 1 novel per year. 98% of men watch porn on a daily or weekly basis. One is definitely more problematic than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:26 PM
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I was in a 2 year relationship with a hot guy that started as a hook up. But I'm good looking. A lot of relationships start as hook ups or casual dating. It's not uncommon. Are they supposed to prefer s relationship with a guy they're not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:22 PM
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That's really not a major factor in why it's it's many men who lack these skills. It's a matter of socialization. A lot of guys don't even consider that they should do these things because society doesn't push it on men. Mostly just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:50 PM
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Any style a guy likes. Something planned and put together. Like you purposely chose those clothing items because they match and represent your personality. There are thousands of different styles. Business casual, country, urban, goth, clean cut, athletic. Whatever style the guy chooses. Grabbing whatever looks clean and is suitable for the weather is lazy. I have a guy at work who wears orange sneakers, those swishy pants in royal blue, and a hot pink polo. He looks like when a child colors a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:48 PM
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Men could just use some toners and sunscreen and style their hair. No one is expecting men to wear makeup. There is zero reason why I see so many grown men with yellow teeth, unwashed skin, and absolutely no clothing style besides sweats, basketball shorts, and cargo pants. There is also zero reason for so many men to have c cup breasts. There are different standards for men and women in case you weren't aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:21 PM
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To be fair, I think most people are ugly. As far at attraction, I see like 10 gorgeous women a week. I see about 1 gorgeous man per year. Socialization plays a big part. There are men who could be better looking, but they don't have great skincare, hygiene, or style.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:28 PM
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I personally think most celebrities that women find attractive are hideous. For example Adam Driver. The only actor I personally find attractive is Aaron Taylor Johnson. I don't think most male celebrities are actually hot. They're just slightly above average and have a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:04 PM
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There are definitely some good looking actors. Most sre not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:29 PM
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Studies actually show that sex doesn't sell
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:12 PM
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Then why are most male actors actual goblins?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:11 PM
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"What does feminism offer to men in comparison? That, if they're a good ally, they might wife up a 35 yo feminist woman who is finally ready to settle down?" Yep. And most women might be able to get into a relationship with an average bald, slightly overweight and balding who makes 50-60k and still expects her to pay 50% of bills while doing 85% of the cooking and cleaning. Welcome to reality. Sorry that you're not entitled to a 10/10 bangmaid just for being born with a PP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:51 PM
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Staying calm during an argument or fixing problems is emotional intelligence. You described a man managing his own emotions. This is something we expect children to learn. Emotional intelligence is expected of adults. It's the baseline. When men don't do this, they get labeled things like "man child." Emotional labor is more of the emotional work needed to maintain relationships with others. It's not just remembering birthdays. Emotionally intelligent people will remember a birthday, take into a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:27 PM
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Clearly, you're not happy with yourself because if you were, you wouldn't be offended by me saying that. You're back to the consume thing, which I already rebutted by saying personal growth can be completely free. Clearly, you have internet, so you have the same access to information I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:21 PM
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A hug isn't feeling someone up. White people in the US have a very weird thing where everything is gay to them, including hugging a friend. It's hypocritical to say touch is your love language, then refuse to hug your friends. Saying hugging a friend is "feeling someone up" is kind of a symptom of that mindset. Men can hug their friends. Its allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:56 PM
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White isn't the national culture of America. There are American citizens who actually are native Spanish speakers and latinos, a lot of them born and raised in the US. They don't have to bring their culture here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:54 PM
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No but it is one of the most common scenarios where abuse begins. Marriage, moving into together, pregnancy. Male abusers all typically have a pattern of behaviors. Removing the mask when they feel their partner is trapped or vulnerable is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:13 PM
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You're a black Norwegian?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:05 PM
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Yeah that lack of affection is due to social conditioning, that's what culture is. Hence why I said white male culture in the US is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:01 PM
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Hey so puerto ricans are americsn citizens. Spanish culture is american culture. White male american culture is boring and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:41 PM
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Then don't experience any growth. Stay just like you are for the rest of your life. Enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:04 PM
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Latino men in america touch each other all the time...... it's a white man thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:03 PM
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Yeah that's a white American thing. Thats a weird concept that men have been socialized their not allowed to touch other men. That's why you're all so damn lonely. Grabbing someone's butt is sexual, whether you choose to make it so or not. Yeah a lot of men only want to touch a woman when it's in a sexual manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:02 PM
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Yeah no. Whiteness is an american concept. It's not universal. Americans are so detached from their ancestry they have to identify as a color. Europeans identify as their culture. White American culture is absolutely nothing like any of the European cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:47 PM
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This is why I don't date white men anymore. There are too many rules and regulations that no one on earth follows besides white American men. Latinos and European men hug and kiss each other on the cheek. I see spanish men hug or walk with their arm around another's shoulders, just bullshitting and chatting. No one perceives it as weird or gay or uncomfortable. It's just a hug. If you're uncomfortable hugging a friend, then you're too uncomfortable to try to kiss me (a total stranger) on a first…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:48 PM
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I am a person who believes in constantly bettering myself. Physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually. It doesn't take money to make some resumes online and apply for better jobs. It doesn't take money to learn that I need to strengthen my piriformis muscle and learn some streches online. It's completely free to do some yoga in my living room off youtube. It's cheaper to buy healthy foods and cook at home vs eating out. I read free books online everyday. I spend 5.99/month online lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:27 PM
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Someone said if a man's love language is physical touch, then he will be hugging his friends when they first see each other or say goodbye. He will be rubbing your back, your feet, giving you a lot of non sexual touch. Men often say touch is their love language but specifically mean when a woman touch their weiner. I hate when men do this. My love language is gift giving and I buy gifts or make food for all my friends. It's obvious when someone is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:21 PM
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Ugly, broke men are not less lustful than good-looking men. All men behave similarly in relationships. You just have to pick someone you can tolerate. Most women can't tolerate a broke lustful uggo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:32 PM
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I wouldn't do that. I'm saying that many men have this problem. Not the same person had this problem over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:13 PM
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Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:57 AM
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My sample size is a lot bigger than 2 🤣 they're not averse, just lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:56 AM
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Chad doesn't have to because he's socialized and charming. He will find a woman at some point. That's not saying 100% of women he approaches will actually go out with him. It's the average guy who likes to try to cosplay their fantasized version of "what chad can get away with" . Then end up cockblocking themselves immediately instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:12 AM
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Women who want families & security aren't wrong or bad. Especially in the current economic state. If our biology was swapped I could guarantee men wouldn't risk their lives being ripped open from clitoris to butthole for someone who couldn't provide food and shelter for them and their offspring. That's not selfish whatsoever, it's common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:57 AM
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Saying I don't date men that much older than me doesn't make me bitter, it just shows I have two working eyeballs which can easily see wrinkles and sun damage. Not into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:31 PM
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When I used dating apps, it was mostly the regular guys who would say creepy shit. Never had a chad ask me about kinks or push for sex, they don't have to do that. This behavior is way more common in desperate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:29 PM
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Swiping right would mean you like me 🥀 I know you meant left but your subconscious took over and stopped you from lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:17 PM
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What if I just like the very basics? And after showing someone where my clitoris is dozens of times, he still can't find it? Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:47 PM
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Whenever they come up 🤷‍♀️ I've seen patterns in behaviors from my experiences, so when something comes up, I usually just become more observant until I feel satisfied that there is nothing horrendous going on. It's not really a fun position to be in because relationships don't always feel safe or secure. The truth is that relationships can blow up anytime, even after minimal red flags and years of what seems like a happy, honest relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:45 PM
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I'm sure you're not hence why I wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:16 PM
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My experience is just that at s certain point in a relationship with men, a mask slips at some point. Revealing s person I didn't know. My current relationship hasn't hit that point yet. It may or may not at some point, I can't tell the future. All I can do is watch for red flags and enjoy the good times in the mean time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:11 PM
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All of my romantic relationships have more memorable negatives than positives. I had some fun times for sure. But overall, men would try to financially, physically, and sexually abuse me. Not to mention the negging, lying, cheating, and gaslighting. If my current relationship ends similarly I'm not dating again for a very long time. I've lost my sanity, self esteem, tens of thousands of dollars, had a miscarriage, a few std scares. Not to mention how much time and emotional energy Ive poured int…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:23 AM
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I fit your requirements and would never go out with a 38 year old 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:13 AM
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-Between 5'7 and 5'11 -In good shape -Immaculate hygiene, smells good -Makes at least $60k -Not a big smoker/drinker -No drugs/gambling -Not a gooner/lustful -Handy around the house -Likes to cook and does it well -Kind/respectful -Loyal/honest -Not conservative -Not religious -No current or desire for future children -Speaks English & Spanish -Not too many tattoos -Romantic -Funny/outgoing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:11 AM
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I'm anti-porn. Not a Christian. I find porn viscerally disturbing. Most porn is a disgusting old man having aggressive sex with an actress who's most likely on coke or Molly. That's the reality of the industry. It depicts a bunch of sex acts that are male focused and mostly likely provide minimal pleasure for the woman in the video. They do disgusting acts and portray it as fun and normal and pleasurable. I think porn has warped the perceptions of a lot of men. I find it disturbing when a man tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:08 PM
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Therapists don't prescribe medication. Psychiatrists do. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:25 AM
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The girls are learning.... what do boys need to learn and behave properly? Why are the boys incapable of learning when the girls are?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:37 PM
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But research shows boys don't perform better when they have male teachers. The only research I've seen that shows boys performing better in school is that boys get better grades in coed schools, and girls get better grades in girls only schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:04 PM
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Where was the dad??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:29 PM
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I doubt it. The #1 indicator of abuse in a home is the presence of a step parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:05 PM
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Nah my stepmother was a druggie who overdosed in our home in 2009. I needed my mother, but my father was so hell bent on not paying child support that he spent 50k on an attorney.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:37 PM
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Studies show "single fathers" usually have a gf or wife that's not the child's mother. It's actually a fact. And since single fathers are only like 10% of single parents, they're the outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:36 PM
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My dad had custody of me and left me with ny grandma and he'd visit sometimes. Then he got married and moved me in with him and his new wife. Most single father "household" are men pawning their kids off on a gf, new wife or family members. I saw my dad maybe like 6 times a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:55 PM
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Because before solving a problem you have to acknowledge it exists? Think logically here....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:31 PM
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Validation comes first because this is a relationship, not a scientific research study. Men love to say their logical and women are emotional but forget that relationships are built on emotions and sustained by hard work. Not the other way around. Personally, I don't want to come to a resolution with someone who can't empathize with me. The #1 factor in determining if a relationship will last is the level of contempt. Validation during a disagreement is step 1. On the other hand, I will say men …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:15 AM
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Hate: misogyny, the expectation I will fulfill a man's sexual desires when most men are selfish/sexually incompetent, cheating Love: when men cook
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:37 PM
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I would never date either of these two types of men tbh. If I had to choose I'd probably pick the NBA player simply because of money. If I had to interact with someone so disconnected from my interests I'd choose whoever could benefit me the most
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:01 PM
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I like men who are 5'9 with caramel skin, curly brown/black hair and brown eyes. Blondes repulse me. I would absolutely never date a blonde man under any circumstances. I'm happy with a guy who makes $65-85k because I also work. So those statistics mean nothing to me. I like Latino men and don't know a single woman who is attracted to blondes but that's just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:20 PM
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That guy has previously been charged with indecent exposure. He's a flasher. He left his pants off with the front door wide open while waiting for his female doordash driver. Maybe research stuff before twisting stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:05 AM
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I make 200k a year, and can support both of us on one salary, Are you shooting your shot rn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:29 PM
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I would love for man to compromise his life dreams and goals to financially support me. I can be a dependent on his taxes. Compromise & dependence 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:28 PM
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I'm 32 and hot, the "wall" hasn't hit yet. Don't want kids. Don't care how you treat women, not my issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:16 PM
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If you like Myron and Andrew so much then YOU can go suck their dick? Not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:11 PM
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I couldn't care less about anything on this planet than what you just wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:11 PM
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If you aren’t manipulative & come to men in good faith as a respectable woman, it doesn’t matter if a man has been red pill for 2 decades. Don’t be a piece of crap & you won’t have any issues. That's not my problem. I will spend my life counting grains of sand before I give my attention to red pilled man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:31 PM
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If men won't be "partners" we have absolutely no need for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:27 PM
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I've never seen that. My father and uncles were conceived via rape. My grandfather was 39 and my grandmother was 19. He died when she was 30 years old. She never remarried and never wanted to date again. My own father financially abused my mother after she became disabled during her pregnancy with me and she had to move 3 states away because my father was an influential police officer and local courts were on his side despite mountains of evidence of abuse. Before, women didn't have a choice. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:24 PM
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As a woman in my early 30s, I think most women my age and older have learned when men lead they lead us into despair. We want partners. Also redpill has become mainstream and women know the tricks. We don't want to end up with a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 05:24 PM
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I mean, there is already an associated risk of c section to mothers pregnant by fathers aged 35-40. Fatal is the extreme. Why would a woman choose a man who will make her pregnancy miserable if she could choose a young healthy 25 year old instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:26 AM
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That's been my experience mostly, but I'd say bi and straight men are on par. Bi men just have more options when they cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:07 AM
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I used to think dating a bisexual man meant maybe they would be more empathetic or respectful but bisexual men will always care more about the opinions of other men than caring for a woman they claim to "love". You could be the kindest, most understanding girlfriend/spouse ever, but when it comes down to it, bisexual or not, men are still men and will always put womens feelings/lives/opinions on the back burner. Again, this is just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:40 PM
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Yeah well the average man today has lower testosterone than his grandfather and is overweight with mild to moderate hair loss. Should, coulda, woulda.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:35 PM
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I'd say the body giving up on reproducing when the eggs/sperm are mutated is more biologically efficient than impregnating someone and causing them to die from childbirth complications like pre-eclampsia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:34 PM
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I can't tell you if straight women are easier to date than bi women because I'm not a man. When I date women, it's usually pretty upfront and easy. Women communicate really well. Also ive nevet been cheated on by a woman. For me, the only difference between dating a bi man and straight man is that the bi man will cheat with men and women, and the straight man will just cheat with women. The relationships I had with bisexual men were straight up traumatic. One of the bisexual men i dated had deep…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:32 PM
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No it doesn't. A lot of stuff online is fake, photoshopped, etc. I don't compare myself to edited images and women with plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:19 PM
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As a bi woman I HIGHLY disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:20 PM
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Why are you comparing IVF to natural conception.... those eggs have been frozen. Of course some of them are damaged....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:24 PM
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If you're using women as a tool to impressive other men, what is heterosexual about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:23 PM
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Because you're reaching to prove a point that isn't real. Creep =/= criminal it means socially unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:22 PM
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That doesn't mean he has quality sperm or that the child is healthy or the pregnancy wasn't effected 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:04 PM
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You're taking it way too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:03 PM
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No I didn't watch the video. I read the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:54 AM
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I have nothing against gay people. But this guy clearly hates women. You don't think a man who cares more about the opinions of men might have some homosexual tendencies.....?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:53 AM
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Right the health of the mother is linked to age for sure. But not the age of the eggs. You're arguing a point I didn't make. I actually said the health of the mother, of which common sense dictate that older women have more health complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:52 AM
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Yeah but they're not autistic and unattractive? If you don't have looks, money, OR personality why would someone choose you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:51 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:52 PM
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The studies just released in September of this year are saying exactly the opposite of what you're saying. The eggs don't age like other cells in the body and they are way less at risk to have mutations similar to the mutations seen in sperm. While sperm mutates faster than other cells in the body or at the same rate, eggs do not. They are finding that the risks in geriatric pregnancy are more related to the health of the mother and age of the father than age of the mother. I will attach a scree…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:51 PM
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Andropause begins at age 35/40........
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:38 PM
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Fatherhood after age 35 is called geriatric paternity. The studies are also showing a bunch of pregnancy complications are due to poor speem quality including recurrent miscarriage, pre-eclampsia, premature labor, embryo development issues, and placental abruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:38 PM
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I'm very pretty so I don't have this problem. Will wait for the uggos to show up and respond...... 😒 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:33 PM
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I don't want a relationship. I just want sex and arm candy so other men won't make fun of me for being a sexless loser. I want to live alone or with other men. I only want to be friends with men. Have you considered that you might be gay? Feeling like this about women is not normal for a heterosexual man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:38 PM
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Can you explain why a woman would ever want to date a man with limited empathy? Given its one of the most basic skills to relate to another person.... why would any woman choose to be with an unempathic partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:33 PM
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Back in the day your grandma could have kids by the mailman, the milkman, her husband, and the neighbor and no one had a clue 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:38 PM
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I don't think anyone thinks that's creep = dangerous as much as it equals someone causing a visceral action of repulsion. If a woman says a guy at the bar was creepy, most people would infer that he wasn't abiding by social norms or taking no for answer, not that he's a dangerous criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:16 PM
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Legalizing it doesn't make that go away it makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:14 PM
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I'm on 2x and I'm a hot, fit, feminine feminist with 1 cat and all my bills paid by a man 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:13 PM
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"Creep factor"... believe it or not, a man can be a deadbeat dad without being "creepy." A lot of guys who end up like this are very charming and manipulative. My old coworkers husband up and left after she gave birth (very planned and wanted pregnancy), and he moved states, and she was granted a divorce eventually because he never showed up to court. He seemed like a perfectly normal, socialable guy who just decided he didn't want to be a dad after convincing his wife he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:21 PM
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I have a different understanding of the research than gpt. Men psychologically will admit that they want more partners. Women are more likely to get bored of monogamy. So If the men aren't as bored of monogamy, are they really craving it psychology? Or are they just socialized to think that way despite reporting higher sexual satisfaction...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:29 PM
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This whole male obsession with "variety" (even though women are scientifically proven to crave more sexual variety and get bored with sex partners faster) and sleeping with multiple women. If a man can sleep with multiple women in real life, it's not enough. They will always want more. A man could have 200 partners in his lifetime and still seek out more and more and more. It is never enough. Their sexuality is a bottomless pit that can never be satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:49 PM
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Imo it's a matter of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:26 PM
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The fact that there is no maternity leave, 30k after insurance for a vaginal birth, $100 copay for each OBGYN visit, the fact the last time I was pregnant I had extreme morning sickness and couldn't eat or go to work, my mom losing all of her teeth due to me stealing her calcium and 9 straight months of acid erosion, the #1 cause of death in pregnant women being MURDER, not to mention the fear of being a married single mother like I see most of my friends. Is that enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:47 PM
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Porn =/= women. Even men who get women use a lot a porn. Porn for their fantasies and real life women for ego. Men that have a lot of sex also watch an insane amount of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:01 PM
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The steadily declining birthrate is showing that women care less now than ever before about having children. As a kid I always imagined myself growing up to get married, happy husband and kids, white picket fence, etc. Now the idea of destroying my body and possibly becoming incontent and covered in stretch marks to create a child repulses me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:41 PM
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The men who sleep with a lot of women also watch a lot of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:48 PM
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Women can have empathy for socially awkward men and still want to date, have sex with, or be creeped out by strangers who approach them. Of which they have no information to know If this stranger is awkward, creepy, or a complete pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:39 PM
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It's really a combo of all of these behaviors that make someone suspicious. You guys keep breaking it down point by point when it's really 4 or 5 of things combined that make it obvious someone is hiding something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:07 PM
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I don't think sex work could ever be legalized. I've had this debate on here before and it went on for days. Just to keep it short, sex workers cannot be protected like other jobs. Any other industry with exposure to bodily fluids requires PPE. Legal, safe sex work would have to basically be done in a hazmat suit to comply with OSHA standards. Herpes and syphilis can be transmitted with condoms. Women who are prostitutes don't want to be prostitutes. It's not a fun job. It's unsafe. It's degradi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:15 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:14 PM
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None of those things are really the signs of a cheater. They can be more so the signs of a guy who just wants sex. Signs of a cheater 1. Can't text or call at certain times 2. Phone on DND 3. Won't add you on social media 4. Can only hang out at certain times/days 5. Keeps their phone on silent 5. Keeps phone screenside down 6. Won't connect their phone to Bluetooth in the car 7. Refusal to commit to times/dates for hang outs because they're not sure who they're gonna be with that day 8. Can't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:23 PM
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I think this clip aligns with your comment https://youtu.be/SMsnKFxjxSw?si=kzfcv8kWE2AxWZqC
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:10 PM
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I wash my hair. That doesn't mean I blow dry and style it every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:08 PM
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Because Bobs issue are repulsive to women and he probably won't find one willing to deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:07 PM
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If bob wants to find the perfect partner for him I would highly recommend grindr. I don't think he could find a woman willing to deal with his issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:00 PM
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Trump proposed cuts to an agency that oversees some protections. Respirators are still osha mandated..... you guys can't even find data to back up your nonsense. Coal is a dying industry and needs to go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:52 PM
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I guess all the boyfriends I've ever had who had their own homes, cars, good careers and are good looking are children. My current boyfriend just said "coffee dates are for fucking losers", I'll let him know you think he's a child and report back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:51 PM
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Never said that. Just said they both get raped all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:48 PM
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Actually porn stars get raped all the time. Google it. I think the stats are like 70% of sex workers get raped and 90% of them physically assaulted. I haven't looked it up in a while but it's pretty bad. There were entire franchises of porn that got put in prison for trafficking and rape so 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:42 PM
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Nope :) I'm hot I don't need to justify a $60 dinner. The men I date also don't expect a housewife for a $60 dinner because they're not delusional so it's not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:40 PM
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I've never had a man ask me on a coffee date or an ice cream date so I don't think I'd ever have to worry about that :) I don't date losers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:28 PM
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Does your job fuck you then nut on your face? If so then yes that would rape. All profesionals in any setting where they encounter bodily fluids have to wear PPE. Doctors, nurses, hazmat... etc. There is no job on earth where irs expected of someone to expose themselves to disease and assault without training, protection, and legal regulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:25 PM
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They allowed dumbass 18 year old women to join the military.....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:23 PM
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I'm not going on a first date with my hair in a ponytail. Idc what the man thinks. I'm the one who cares about my personal appearance/presentation. I don't actually give a single fuck I'm not going to a coffee spot ever for any reason on a first date ever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:29 PM
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I will never wash and dry my hair for a coffee or ice cream date. I'm 32 years old. I don't drink coffee on weekends and I don't eat ice cream or froyo. If a guy wants to go on a date we can go for a simple dinner. I'm not going on walk or a hike either. I usually text or FaceTime guys a lot before we even get to the point of dinner because I also don't like to waste my time. Also I've never been asked on a coffee or ice cream date since high school so it's not really a problem for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:48 PM
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Okcupid used to let people message whoever and I ended up having like 9,000 messages and deleted the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:45 PM
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Pornography =/= prostitution but both can have pimps/managers. You think a woman being trafficked willing created her onlyfans page of which the profits go to her "manager"? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:44 PM
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You think women on onlyfans don't have pimps? Lol. Newsflash, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:43 PM
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I don't plan on getting married but if I did I'd want a rose quartz ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:43 PM
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It's usually a transaction between 3 people. The sex worker, her pimp, and the John. Be so forreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:36 AM
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Most prostitutes are not willing. Most sex workers are trafficked or have a pimp. Even in strip clubs they import foreign women and hold their passports from them. Even some women on onlyfans have pimps/"managers".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:35 AM
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Sex workers get raped, murdered, and trafficked. Most people who don't believe in sex work being ethical also don't believe that children should die mining diamonds. I really hate how you guys use apples and oranges comparisons and assume women who don't agree with sex work think that child/slave labor is ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:33 AM
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Awwww no response now ? Just a downvote because you don't like being wrong :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:28 AM
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I never said women were perfect. But we know from stats that men who earn 80% of the income do the same amount of housework as men that make 20% of the household income. Women become resentful of being treated like am indentured servant to their loved one, which explains a lot of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:02 PM
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Married men take the cake. When you narrow it down to the only demographic of women that outnumber men then yeah. Otherwise it's men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:00 PM
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You think your male friend is going to come up to you and brag that he doesn't clean his beard trimmings out of the sink? Or that he refuses to put the laundry IN the bin? Why would a man ever admit such a thing to another man, these kinds of things usually stay a secret in the relationship until the woman complains to her female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:56 PM
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For me I don't even need kids for that. If I'm going to cohabitate with a man at all it has to go as follows: he agrees to pay the rent/mortgage and I will contribute whatever I deep fair after seeing how he cooks & cleans. I don't mind cooking and cleaning for man, but not after paying 50% of the rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:54 PM
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This was the norm for East coast american, suburban millennials growing up. Our dads "worked" and mom was super woman, working, cleaning, cooking, driving kids to sports, doctors appointment etc. Every older woman I know had advised me not to get married or have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:57 PM
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I grew up in a community with a bunch of dads who went to work. Married to moms who worked full time and did all the cooking and cleaning. My own father never did a single house chore, NOTHING, he would pay for the lawn/pool, etc, while his children did all the cleaning and cooking. My father never grocery shopped, washed his own laundry, or cleaned his own toilet until his third wife passed away. I have also experienced this in relationships myself. When my stepmother died my dad left me to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:41 PM
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In my personal experience, this shift happens quickly and quietly. One day you wake up and realize you're in charge of washing all his dishes, if he cooks he used every single pot and pan in the house and didn't wash as he went. You go to clean the bathroom one day and realize there is urine all around the bowl and sometimes on the floor near the base of the toilet from him. You go to brush your teeth and the sink is full of beard trimmings. You ask him to pick up some ingredients on the way hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:26 PM
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Most women don't care if it's occasional. The issue is when both partners are working and one never picks up after themselves and expect the other to pick up after them. This type of thing usually takes years to build resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:45 AM
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Where are these men who settle for relationships where the woman does nothing? I need to find one. I've always taken on the majority of relationship burdens. Cooking every single day, cleaning, grocery shopping, laundry, taking care of a pet that isn't mine. Planning dates, picking out our outfits for a date or event, making any reservations, planning all outings, most men won't even call their own doctor to make an appointment. Most men aren't romantic. Most men aren't that good in bed either. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:04 AM
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That's statistically untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:35 AM
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Well, a lot of men cheat, so yeah, that would eat up a large percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:48 PM
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The men who see women as beneath them, have deep disdain, resentment for women aren't worthy of womens attention. Any man whos ever sexually assaulted a woman or child. Any man who has ever committed physical abuse against women. Also, cheaters. Height/status/looks are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:45 PM
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If I were a SAHM stuck at home with a bunch of screaming kids, cleaning up poop and food bits all day without any interaction with other adults or time to take care of myself, I'd probably never want to have sex ever again for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:26 PM
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If you think social media has fried womens brain wait till you hear about men and pornography
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:50 PM
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I'm just picturing a baby boomer on the verge of retirement in the office with the good old boys talking shit saying something like "ya believe it or not Nancy asked me to marry her in 1982. I didn't want to but ya know how they get. The old ball and chain" while scrolling facebook in extra large font
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:37 PM
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I'm not really into casual sex but I've known men that were very charming and attractive that I've had sex with but not wanted to date. Just one example was a guy I used to work with in my early 20s. He was super chill and always made me laugh. We hung out and hooked up a few times before he moved states for his masters program. It might have turned into something more serious if he wasn't moving, but he was, so we enjoyed each other in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:14 PM
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Sure. Let's follow that up with the death penalty for men who cheat, commit domestic violence, or have children outside the marriage. Along with a $10 million dollar insurance policy that pays out to the wife in those circumstances. And any young single men who don't want to get married have to live in work camps where all their income goes to fund the insurance policy pay outs 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:58 PM
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In jail? They were strangers in CVS, shop rite, at the park etc. This was before cellphones were popular. Nothing ever happened at all. There was no way to identify them or call for help before they were able to get away. One guy did it in front of my step-dad and got his ass beat while I waited in the car. But that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:05 PM
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Stats show over NINETY percent of men who ask for custody get it....? Most custody is agreed on by the mother and father. The men who don't have custody literally didn't want it ....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:51 PM
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Not fucking men we don't desire isn't "blame" 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:49 PM
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Strange men even looking at me slightly in a sexual manner immediately sends me into fight or flight mode. I have huge boobs and have been groped and harassed by adults since I was 11 years old. If it's someone I'm in a relationship with, that's appreciated and completely different. From strangers, absolutely NOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:45 PM
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I'm pretty sure the fathers who are delinquent on child support aren't the fathers fighting for custody of their children
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:31 PM
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Right. But the money isn't granted because of SINGLE MOMS. It's because a man isn't supporting his child. Men who don't pay their CS and force their BM into welfare should be forced to work to pay back the government?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:54 PM
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Men for all of history: women are inferior to men Women for the last 10 years: Men dont really like us that much, maybe I'll stay single and focus on myself Men now: what a bunch of unempathetic c*nts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:53 PM
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At least 9. Not a single one has asked me to stimulate her cervix. Men have such annoying fantasies you project it onto women. Most women orgasm clitorally. An extreme minority of women say they can experience a cervical orgasm. More often than not any contact with the vagus nerve will ever painful and can cause someone to completely pass out. It's why so many women lose consciousness during an IUD insertion. Even for the women that experience those types of orgasms it can be extremely painful t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:46 PM
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Well you guys commit 90% of violent crime and 98% of SA so at least you have that in common
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:40 PM
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Is the funding for single moms or is the funding for hungry children who's father is 3 years delinquent on child support payments
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:38 PM
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Right has nothing to do with the personal dynamics of men. Its just these men are so awful I'm having a outlier experience 🥴 sure ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:53 PM
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I've been with plenty of women and funnily enough I also am a woman. 1. A woman enjoying pain doesn't mean it's not painful? It means their psychology is atypical. Most people don't like pain. 2. A lot of women fake orgasms. Studies show 25-75% . It's funny how men argue about female genitalia and how it functions. Getting punched in the stomach is painful. Just because some whacko has the psychology that they enjoy the pain of getting punched in the stomach doesn't make it less painful. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:26 PM
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You're right "touching" it doesn't hurt but jack rabbiting it with your penis is extremely painful. It's extremely sensitive to pressure and times when someone hit my cervix I ended up in the fetal position with terrible cramps for like 15-20 minutes. Why do men have to constantly tell women what feels good for us? Like seriously get a grip. All the nerve ending that can provide pleasure are located in the internal clitoris (gspot) and external clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:20 PM
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I wonder how many people in this thread have confused themselves being unattractive with being "nice" since RPers love to conflate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:16 PM
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You're probably just hitting the internal part of the clitoris and not the cervix. Cervix is always painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:48 PM
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So what made the 39% of men fat? surely not pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:59 PM
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It's discipline lmao. I come from a fat ass family. Hypothyroidism in every woman on my moms side. Diabetes and heart disease on my dad's side. The men in my family don't live past 55. Despite having high hemoglobin a1c and PCOS I eat clean and work out to maintain my weight between 130-140 lbs. My dad died at 230 lbs after getting a gastric bypass at 340lbs. My mom is probably close to 300 lbs now. Unless you're on some type of steroid or hormonal medicine there is no reason to be fat. It might…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 05:58 PM
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I think it's a "sour grapes" response, particularly in this sub. Men on here groan about how evil "chad" is, but most hot guys are actually nice. People tend to believe whatever doesn't hurt their self-esteem. There are plenty of hot intelligent women, and hot, kind men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:41 PM
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Men are just as fat as women.......39% of men and 41% of women. And men didn't even experience pregnancy to gain that weight. Just a proud display of lack of self discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:38 PM
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Assuming that women desire "more experienced" men is already wrong. I can't respond to a question based on an incorrect assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:52 AM
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The things you listed are all things men do to help THEMSELVES 😅 if you work to be emotionally and financially stable no one is forcing you to have a wife and kids. "WeLL if mY wIFe wOnT bE tReAtEd lIkE aN iNdEnTuReD SeRvAnT I'll JuSt bE BrOkE aNd eMoTiOnAlly uNsTaBle" as if 80% of men don't already fit into this category?? Lol what a strange false equivalence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:50 AM
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They're not fresh out of high school. Most of the men I work with are 30-60 years old. We have one 20 year old who does maintenance and another machine operator who is 28 and just immigrated here from Ecuador. Nothing that you said applies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:03 PM
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Yeah, they lust after you, but don't see you as a person or care in any way besides feeling like they're gonna "bag the hot girl." I've gone through this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:24 PM
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This is my account exclusively for PPD. I put that pic up so loser men would stop rebutting with "cUz uR prObAblY uGlY aNd fAt!!' Instead of engaging in actual conversation. No one has accused me of being ugly and fat since that pic went up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:40 PM
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That's not what made him my favorite. He just happened to make a lot of money doing sex work. It didn't bother me. He did all of those things because he loved me and I fully reciprocated. Funny how once I tell you that I don't give a fuck you move the goal post and make assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:21 PM
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I don't want a short term relationship anymore than I want a hemorrhoid. Guys wanting to use my vagina isn't flattering to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:51 PM
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Partially. I'm half puerto rican and only date latino men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:01 PM
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I got it from a girl on tiktok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:03 PM
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Kevin Samuels died while fucking a fat prostitute. I've ever seen a single red pill influencer who's married or in a relationship with a nonsexworker. Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:02 PM
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You can be wrong all you want. I've never done onlyfans. I don't even have a instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:01 PM
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You can judge me however you want. I've never gone more than 5 months without a boyfriend. I have no problem with you having your opinion. People are allowed to judge. I never gave an opinion on men using sex workers. Just said it's apples and oranges because it is. 99% who have used prostitutes still wouldn't date an active sex worker. I have dated an active sex worker. I'm not in a position to care about the opinions of sexually repressed or insecure men because I have dozens of options that d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:01 PM
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I'm a bit more north than you and it's not really a problem like that. Most women I know aren't "sluts" being abused. Their faithfully married women or in relationships of varying degrees of happiness. I knew a girl like this she lived in the trailer park and had a lot of emotional issues due to her parents drug use. But as an adult she is married with 2 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:57 PM
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Statistics are presumptuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:41 PM
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I can assure you 99% of women aren't asking those questions or creating hypothetical scenarios up in their mind where this upsets them. I personally dated a bisexual man who was actively doing sex work while we dated. I don't fucking care. He used all the money he made letting guys suck his dick to take me on multiple international vacations, gifts, and paid my bills. He's literally my favorite boyfriend I've ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:40 PM
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The equivalent would he a woman who uses sex workers. A woman who has had more partners than you deem "acceptable" is not the same as a man who thinks he can buy consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:38 PM
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Why do you surround yourself with "sluts" and abusive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:36 PM
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Both fresh and fit guys (I call them Timon and pumba) got caught using escort and sugar daddy websites and one got caught up with a sex worker I think she ended up pregnant or something. Andrew taint is a cyber pimp who uses the lover boy method to lure women into pimping them out to do online sex work where he takes all the money. That's why he was charged with international sex trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:35 PM
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That's honestly a once in a lifetime experience though? Most women are sexually harassed weekly/daily/monthly. No one should be robbed at gunpoint but the prevalence of that is so low compared to sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:33 PM
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As a woman who has been verbally berated and followed by 4 guys I rejected in the last 6 months, it's not statistics that scare most of us. It's our lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:53 PM
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You're allowed to feel however you want. I'm allowed to think you have a lot of sexual repression and insecurities based off your opinions 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:36 PM
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Apples and oranges. I've never met a man who assumed I was a virgin. I've also never assumed the men I date are virgins. Most well adjusted people don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:24 PM
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I'm 32 years and this has never come up once in conversation with a single man I've ever met in person. If anything all the slutty girls I knew are now married with kids. Most men love sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:24 PM
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Think of it like this. You're a rich man with a 65k watch. When you walk around then living your life you get some compliments on the watch which feels nice and you say thanks. Sometimes men twice your size ask you about your watch and when you won't give them your watch, they become aggressive and threaten you. Sometimes people while walking around people try to grab your watch to snatch it off you wrist. Multiple times in your life a group or single man has tried to get you alone to take your …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:15 PM
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As a woman I've never met an honest man. When a man meets you he will paint himself out to be the best guy ever, which is never true. That being said I've never actually had a man ask me about my past and would consider it a red flag if he did. Any guy who's insecure about my past needs to get the fuck away from me as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:09 PM
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Rape is about control and inflicting pain on the victim. It's not about actual sex. Rapists don't want CNC.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:16 PM
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The issue isn't the man's quality of his own life. My equal would be a 5'9 attractive guy who works out, has his own home, own car, and makes slightly above average income. I could find like 45 men just like that right now. The hard part is finding one who is loyal and doesn't expect me to cook and clean for him like he's my child while paying half the bills. Men aren't bad on paper. They just have expectations of women that are unrealistic while they don't really offer much in return besides 50…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:57 AM
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Yeah but most men do just want one thing and men agree with this. My dad, uncles, older male coworkers, male friends my age, and every boyfriend I've ever had has told me to stay away from men because they just want sex. Does my 65 year old married male coworker tell me men just want sex because he is a sad, lonely, and rejected woman? Or is it because men have spent millenia trying to get sex from women by any means necessary? Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:30 PM
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If a picture of someone's face makes you think that someone is asking for attention that's actually really embarrassing. Most the men on here would post pics too if they weren't goblins. I ended up putting a faceless pic on here because all the redpillers wouldn't actually debate and would just tell me I'm fat and ugly. So I put that picture up to make you guys shut the fuck up and have an actual conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:45 PM
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The men I want, want me. As well as a bunch of other guys I would never consider. Never have I seen a single woman complain that men don't want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:40 PM
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I actually hate attention from men in public and can feel their eyes glaring at me in normal clothes. I dress like a homeless person when I run errands and still get harassed. The few times a year I do dress up nicely it's because I like to feel nice. I wear nothing at home. If men didn't exist I would barely wear clothes outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:40 PM
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You can listen to advice from who ever you choose. That doesn't make it good advice. Not to sound corny but there are lots of fish in the sea, and they're all caught with different bait. You can listen to a guy and catch 1000 minnows. You can't catch a tuna or a salmon the same way you catch minnows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:46 PM
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The majority of red pill coaches use desperate men's money to buy sex with prostitutes. Look at andrew taint and fresh and fit. They only sleep with sex workers and are found repulsive by women.n
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:41 PM
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Attraction =/= love. Love is something you build with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:25 PM
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I'm not talking about children I'm talking about adults looking for life partners and living together
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:49 PM
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Right now women are splitting bills 50/50 and do 90% of EVERYTHING else. If men want to attract women they need to adapt. It's easier as a woman to do 100% of everything for yourself than 75% of everything in a relationship with another adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:13 PM
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Absolutely. People need to start raising their boys the way girls are raised. With empathy, home skills, cooking, cleaning, and set up them to go to college. If men want to engage with more women they need to provide things woman want. Since men can no longer provide they way they used to, women want to be treated like partners and not a submissive bang maid who is also expected to pay half the bills. Men need to lay off the manosphere and porn and take a look at reality and adapt to it. Women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:29 PM
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I've never met a man who had any type of discretion with who he slept with or how early. 99% of men will have sex if it's available no questions asked. I wouldn't expect any man to behave better than this. Which is why I would never get married or have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:23 PM
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This is why women now are asking for men who cook, clean, and are active parents. One big reason for the male loneliness epidemic is that men aren't able to provide financially yet refuse to help in the home. Men could provide in other ways and actively choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:14 PM
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That's not romantic, it's weird and delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:15 AM
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Loving a person who doesn't love you back is genuinely so entitled and embarrassing unless you're in middle school. Who thinks like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:11 AM
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There is no one meaner, angrier, or more disrespectful than an ugly insecure man and no one can change my opinion on this. This applies to women too. Ugly, resentful people are usually insecure and take it out on everyone else. Hot men are actually the nicest in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:08 AM
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They mean the women hot enough to catch their attention and everyone else's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:03 AM
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Most women are raped by a family member or boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:01 PM
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Why would a woman want to be with a man whos more attracted to internet whores than her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:19 PM
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Men absolutely love sluts. Check their following on Instagram and internet search history. Full of sluts. Men actually dislike chaste women if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:50 PM
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Current stats are showing men want children more than women. The birth rate is declining not because men want more children but because women are taking birth control or getting sterilized because women don't want to be parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:13 PM
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I actually read a really interesting research paper on this. The summary was that historically when societies had too many young men they would basically sacrifice them in wars or send them on "expeditions" overseas hoping they die or never return. Turns out once there are too many "surplus males" violence skyrockets. I believe the paper was called "surplus of men, a deficit of peace".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:39 PM
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It's 2025. Most men today can't change their own tire. Never mind replace parts In appliances or renovate their own home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:32 PM
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Money is only one currency. Personality and looks are also currency in the dating market. You're gonna pay with some form of currency no matter what, so if you're broke in personality and looks, then you need money. Women have no incentive to date men who offer nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:27 PM
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Surrogacy exists
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:15 PM
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Okay so why argue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:03 PM
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Gold has an inherent definition. Something expensive, valuable. Things like expensive cars, designer clothes, bags, shoes, jewelry and real estate. Men with money never complain about this. A woman cannot dig gold from a man who has pennies. A dinner at applebees or a 500 dollar gift or loan is not "gold digging".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:14 AM
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What other choice do you have ? You can't create options that don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:10 AM
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Probably because when I met him I was 11 years old and we were classmates. Idk any 5th graders who are moving in with their classmate. He lived on his own and his apartment was fairly organized but could use some dusting. Video games weren't the issue it was him being lazy, entitled, and physically and verbally abusive. We dated for 2 years before moving in together. The messiness was the least of our problems as he tried to choke me out the first night in our new house. You can be really good a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:08 AM
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Because they can and want to have fun. If that's not your cup of tea then don't take a sip. I can tell you I was in a "serious" relationship at 20 years old and within 2 years we had grown to be completely different, incompatible people. Starting a serious relationship before you even know who you are a person usually just results in heartbreak and disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:14 PM
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No. They usually start out being normal and then wait until they think you're locked in (just signed a lease, just bought a house, just had a baby) before they start showing their true colors. I knew a guy for 15 years and literally the day we moved in together was the first time I met the real him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:10 PM
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As an attractive woman who was once 20-24. Men aged 20-24 do not offer love. They offer a VERY short time of entertainment and then usually heartache, pregnancies, or stds. It's better to have fun and hopefully find love in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:37 PM
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So out of the 55% who are "breadwinners" how much of their incomes are going towards the household and how much less does their partner make? Are their children involved? No one enjoys paying half the bills and doing the cooking and cleaning. 0%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:49 PM
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Right by the comment you replied to it's not really an assumption to presume she'd prefer an equal partner over a traditional guy who expects a mommy-bang maid. On average men earn like 5k per year more than women who are childless. Most men are not providing the majority of income for the home. Men are not providers anymore this is a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:11 PM
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I know way too many married women who would have more free time if they were single. Most women end up taking care of the house because children are involved or because they don't want to live in squalor themselves. Look at the divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:07 PM
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Also probably way more pedophilia than we know of
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:53 PM
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Just because something isn't your fault, doesn't mean it's not your problem. If a guy can't get laid to save his life, he's the only one required to come up with a solution. Whether it's his fault or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:32 PM
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Your point is illogical. Most women can't be gold diggers because there is not enough gold to dig. Absolutely any man can be a lazy bum who doesn't wash dishes. Literally anyone is capable of that hence why it's more common. Use your coconut 🥥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:29 PM
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There aren't enough men with gold for women to be gold diggers hun. Gold diggers on on yachts and in Dubai. They're not meeting up for a $55 dollar at Applebee's.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:13 PM
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Because it's most men !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:14 PM
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And onlyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:14 PM
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As someone who's been in plenty of relationships with men, most men are like this. If they're not like this in the beginning they become like this over time. If all women had the standards you're suggesting then most men and women would be single, which I agree is better than being in a bad relationship. But the 50/50 men mostly just mean financial not cleaning cooking etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:13 PM
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Capable and willing are very far apart 😅 all men are capable, few are willing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:11 PM
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I am a trainer and operator of heavy machinery in a warehouse. You're so wrong it's actually insane. If you cannot do your job safely, you have every right not to do your job at all. Men just like to take more risks and become comfortable taking those risks until it results in termination or serious injury.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:56 PM
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If a man/friend wants to sleep with me I would avoid him even in a group setting 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:20 PM
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That list shows the jobs where the dangers inherently lie in the work itself and not the actual risk associated with the job. Delivery drivers and nurses are more likely to be die/be assaulted than police officers but because it's considered assault or robbery and not a risk inherent to the job they're not listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:18 PM
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If you're an attractive woman, then 100% of your males friends want to sleep with you. Which is fine. People can want whatever they want. But this is why I don't have male friends anymore. I like my friendships strictly platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:18 PM
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Men are not twice to three times the size of women. The average woman is 5"4 and 160 lbs. The average man is not 10 feet tall and 320 lbs. That's absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:04 PM
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Every guy I've ever made out with but said no the sex, begged, kept trying to take my pants off, or kept asking until I had to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:32 PM
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Yeah it's called dating. You meet someone, hang out for a few weeks, get to know each other, possibly have sex in the meantime. And things end for whatever reason before you become exclusive or in a relationship. Sometimes you meet someone and you realize you're incompatible in the process and move on. Whether it was the sex itself or different values/personality traits. For example I really liked a guy in my early 20s but he lived about 40 minutes away. We hung out about 5 times in 8 weeks and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:12 PM
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Most of my hook ups were with guys who were interested in having a relationship and it didn't work out. Most of the time I wasn't interested after having sex because it was bad sex or over a few weeks didn't feel compatible. I don't actually seek out hook ups. For me a hook up was just a failed dating prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:43 PM
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You just took about 100x as many words to say exactly what I said but worse. Yeah most liberal women are anti trump the racist, rapist, 32 count felon, the overturning of roe v wade etc. Most people genuinely do not give a fuck if you believe the rich should be taxed at 40% and someone else thinks 60%. Most women are anti trump and his cronies. Please read the entire thread before writing me your life story.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:40 PM
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You maybe correct. This is irrelevant to the current dating landscape of liberal women not dating conservatives, which is the topic being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:10 PM
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It's not a mystery. Just because you don't know something does not make Jr a mystery. The clitoris is analogous to the penis and uses the same type of nerve endings to cause orgasm. There is absolutely nothing mysterious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:08 PM
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First I want to know which "women literature" you're talking about? Since you said it's so common, please provide 5 examples of literature or media that perpetuates this oddly specific and curiously insecure narrative ....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:06 AM
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How do I debate something that makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:15 PM
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It would be impossible for MOST women to be in a relationship with the top 1% of men statistically lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:45 PM
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I think that's a fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:48 PM
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Probably because wealth isn't important as RP makes it out to be and there are less wealthy people than ever. Most women would rather be alone than date a man they don't have an emotional connection with, regardless of the man's income.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:47 PM
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Jack Hammer is terrible. My worst nightmare tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:52 PM
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Would you be in a relationship with him in the first place if he was a selfish jack rabbiter who used your body to masterbate ? Why are you applying my comments about sex in general to a relationship? Would you be comfortable being in a relationship with a man who you're sexually incompatible with and doesn't please you ever? Do you think all men give a single fuck about a woman's intimacy or smell? Or that they're just looking for a hole to stick it in? Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:40 PM
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I've personally turned down like 40 hot men who have conservative views because most body builders are Republicans and I'm a body builder. There is a huge difference between believing in fiscal responsibility and being a racist, misogynist, 34 count felon best friend of epstein the child rape ring captain. I think most young women despise magats and their views/rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:37 PM
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If they stick their tongue in my vagina I'm fucking leaving I hate that shit it's so fucking disturbing and annoying. I got mad just thinking about it 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:34 PM
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I'll let my boyfriend know when he's down there to make sure he cleans everything up for me 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:33 PM
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The clitoris is external, babe. Tongue length is irrelevant. Not everything is a metaphorical dick measuring contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:31 PM
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Right "couples". I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone who can't eat pussy in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:29 PM
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I didn't support John McCain but there is a huge difference in decorum and presentation between MAGAts and traditional conservatives. I don't think any women were lusting over John McCain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:28 PM
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You think I'd wife up a loser who can't eat pussy? Please. The guys who actually put in the effort got to pay my bills and take me on dates until I got bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:23 PM
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1-3 inches away made me lol cause at that point they're in belly button /butthole territory 🤣 like bro why are you sucking on my labia majora for 6 minutes I'm so fucking bored ?!!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:20 PM
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I'd rather die alone a cat hoarder in a piss drenched mobile home with wooden teeth and a colostomy bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:19 PM
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Use some common sense. If my pussy stank id be crying about how men don't like to eat pussy. Not that 35 different people went down there enthusiastically and had bad technique. Use your big brain and not the small one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:17 PM
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If everyone is just making themselves cum then what's the point of fucking over masterbating tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:14 PM
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Literally no one asked this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:11 PM
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If I have to make myself cum why involve another person at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:10 PM
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Oh.... honey. Bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:09 PM
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Yes but not a maga conservative. He was really cool with Obama and stood up for him when other people said racist things about him. Trump spent 8 years calling him a muslim from Kenya.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:07 PM
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I can't eat my own pussy. If I could I'd never even look in a man's direction again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:05 PM
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You're really bad at reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:04 PM
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I see it like this. Especially in a hook up context, I'm there for pleasure. If they're not going to do what I want they can find someone more compatible. There are men who insist on eating and actually enjoy it. If a man isn't offering what I want he's not getting access to my body. We're not charities for horny men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:40 PM
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Hey so I just looked up the study and it said women prefer PIV only when they're on top 😅. So yes I was correct most women prefer clitoral stimulation + penetration combo. Not just penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:38 PM
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Maybe you suck at eating pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:36 PM
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I used to be like that too until I met someone who actually knew what he was doing. ( BRANDON BABY YOU CHANGED MY LIFE 💕) Having to lay there and pretend you like what someone is doing is even worse than not getting oral at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:36 PM
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If I don't cum it's 0/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:34 PM
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I guess you will never find out huh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:32 PM
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Thats why guys who don't eat don't get to have sex with me. I'm happy to reciprocate but I don't even get aroused without oral so the sex without oral would just be boring/borderline painful with 0% chance of orgasm. It's a hard rule for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:31 PM
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A lot of men saying this. No women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:29 PM
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No one asked :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:28 PM
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Yes I'm very selfish 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:27 PM
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She probably cared more than she let on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:25 PM
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That's something you have to work out with your partner as it's very personal but I can guarantee 0% of women orgasm from aggressive suction of the pussy lips (which i have experienced an alarming amount of times). They just fuck around down there with no goal whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:08 PM
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Vaginal intetcourse with clitoral stimulation probably. Most men can't eat pussy of course women aren't orgasming from it 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:06 PM
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I've told multiple men that I don't like oral because they were so bad at it I couldn't tolerate their attempts any longer. There are about 30 men out in the world who think I don't like being eaten and irs a BLATANT LIE. It's my favorite thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:05 PM
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I can't speak for others, only myself and I've been told I'm quite talented. Either way I'm not putting in effort for a guy to jack rabbit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:03 PM
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Most men lick aimlessly to the point its annoying. Yes women are different as far as techniques but our clitoris are all located in the same area. If they can't find the clit then technique is obsolete. Imagine a woman licking your balls, abdomen, and shaft for 15 minutes while ignoring the head of the penis. That's what oral sex is like usually. I have communicated and they don't listen 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:00 PM
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Conservative used to have a very specific meaning and its been completely bastardized as far as politics. Trump makes George w. Bush look like a socialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:53 PM
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For me it is. Who are you to speak on behalf of women? No eating no beating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:51 PM
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My stats: 3/35 guys could eat pussy 5/10 jack rabbit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:51 PM
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My point was really that conservative moderate or liberal doesn't mean that much when the 2 parties in power are Democrat and Republican. Most young women are voting Democrat. I think mainly because the current republican party is actually the MAGA party which most young women either despise or fully support. People can identify however they want but the current political climate is divided by "we fucking love trump" or "he's a nazi" followed by "doesn't effect me so idc". Most women I know avoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:49 PM
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What I'm capable of and what a guy experiences in bed with me is going to depend on his behavior. If a guy can't eat pussy and tries to jackrabbit me (that's 80% of men) then he's going to get nothing. If he's good at what he does I will return the favor. Men will always cum whether I put in effort or not, I'm not going out of my way to provide a 10/10 experience for a 3/10 effort guy when he's 100% going to cum and I'm 100% not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:44 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:51 PM
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Okay so brown hair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:03 PM
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You may know how to read but clearly not how to comprehend. The y chromosome is weak. It cannot exist without an X chromosome. Not only that but the y chromosome is getting smaller and smaller. The y chromosome is the reason why boys are more likely to have genetic disorders and pregnancy that results in miscarriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:03 PM
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Logistics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:01 PM
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So men are spending more but women are making less lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:42 AM
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My response is really about your disclaimer. I've been working in a male dominated field for 6 years now. Just yesterday, we had to send two men home because they almost got into a physical altercation over the arranging of some small carts that we use to transport merchandise. I've had guys get into screaming matching over forklifts. We have men at work in cliques, the cliques have rivalries. They badmouth guys from the other groups constantly. The way they talk about each other and some of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:30 AM
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I bet you $100 your hair is light brown. Post a pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:12 PM
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<image> This is sandy brown hair, not blonde
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:09 PM
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27+16 isn't 50. Also black hair was the #1 choice ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:07 PM
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We're north talking about Asia. 90% of this website is Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:05 PM
1

Most adult men who were blonde as a child turn brown. The remaining adult blondes have blonde/white eyebrows. There are virtually no adult blonde men who don't dye their hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:36 PM
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Ask a Russian, Greek, or Italian woman how she feels about men with blonde hair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:35 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11127901/ There is actually hundreds of studies 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:34 PM
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The 1% of adult men who are blonde are usually facially repugnant and have white eyebrows. The women who date them usually are a lokksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:33 PM
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50% of women said they proffered brown or black hair. 1/4 isn't the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:32 PM
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Idk when I looked up threads on reddit about blonde men the overwhelming majority of women said they preferred black or brown hair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:31 PM
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He was cute for like 4 years he's been obese and facially repugnant for 2 decades now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:31 PM
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My Latina friends are with Latino men and crush on rauw Alejandro and bad bunny
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:30 PM
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Then go to Asia? Most Americans aren't into blonde men just because their tall over a brown haired man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:30 PM
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Idk why my image isn't posting, he is literally a brunette
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:29 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:29 PM
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<image> Where
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:29 PM
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He's not considered more attractive when he's blonde though? Brad Pitt is just as hot brunette. He's been his natural color for years now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:28 PM
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In the USA part time employment doesn't provide benefits. Most women are employed full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:50 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/slightly-blighty/201509/which-hair-color-induces-the-strongest-physical-attraction/amp This is the only study I can find on men. All the research was on women. Men with black hair were the most attractive, followed by brown, followed by blonde, followed by red. Blondes are 3/4 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:14 PM
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I'm sure his brown hair is still sitting there in the coffin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:12 PM
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In general, blonde men are not considered attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:06 PM
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In general, blonde men are not considered attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:06 PM
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No it's not 🤣 most Europeans have brown hair by adulthood. 90% of the blondes you know are bottle blondes. The average adult blonde man has see tbrough eyebrows and is ugly. Naturally blonde adult men are like less than 1% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:05 PM
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Brad Pitt has brown hair and he used to get highlights lmao. Leonardo dicaprio is HIDEOUS. Paul walker also has brown hair 🤣 couldn't even think of 3 blondes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:02 PM
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No it doesn't lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:01 PM
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White women like blondes. Literally no one else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:01 PM
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It's really going to depend on so many other factors. I don't know any women I to blondes. If anything it's a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:00 PM
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I would go for a 5'8 stocky guy with curly brown hair and brown eyes 100 times over before I even considered any blonde at all. I think you're projecting male preference onto women. Blonde men are extremely limited in their dating pool. They look bald and old which is inherently unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:34 PM
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Because we don't think they're disgusting, we just don't want to date them. Whining about other people's life choices is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:32 PM
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The divorce rates say otherwise lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:27 PM
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Blonde men are not considered attractive. Tall DARK and handsome is a stereotype for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:08 PM
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Most women I know who aren't bodybuilders still have most of all the other achievements I have. I don't know any men my age even close to our level. They might have a high paying job but are obese and unattractive. They might be attractive but are making $40k a year. They might be making $60k a year, not obese, average looking guy but he can't cook and lives in an apartment with no furniture. Most women I know are excelling in multiple ares while men are are limiting to being capable at 1 or 2 t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:52 PM
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Yes I want 50/50 everything. Food Rent Utilities Car Looks Cooking Hygiene Cleaning Emotional support Grocery shopping Planning dates and events Sexual effort For now, I can only find men who offer money and time, so until I find a man capable of all of the above, I will settle for a provider who pays bills can eat pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:35 PM
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Female bodybuilders are not that rare. If anything, the women at my gym are in better shape than the men. I don't compete. I just hobby lift. If I date men who were beneath me in some sense I would be single for the rest of my life. An amazing man is just an average woman. I make good money, I'm beautiful, I'm caring, I'm smart and also funny. I have a great credit score and own my condo. Most men my age literally cannot compete with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:14 PM
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What kind of sick fantasy are you projecting onto women? The only reasons I've ever broken up with someone I dated for longer than 3 months was because of cheating, lying, or physical abuse. No one is leaving partners so we can wait around for chad. I've made more or the same financially as everyone I've ever dated. My last 3 boyfriends were between 5'7 and 5'10. The tallest one was obese. The other two were body builders like me. I've never met a man more emotionally mature than me who isn't in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:21 PM
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We aren't looking to submit at all. Most of us are looking for an equal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:33 PM
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You have access to google lol. The y chromosome is very weak in all species.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:38 PM
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The y chromosome has a high mutation rate and some animals have lost so much y chromosome it fused with the x chromosome creating an autosome. You do realize not only humans have y chromosomes right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:15 AM
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They're not confused. They use bad logic to try create "gotcha" moments that aren't based in reality because otherwise they can't make any argument at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:51 PM
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Even if a woman had a threescore most women aren't getting double penetrated. I've had a threesome with 2 other women. There was absolutely no double penetration involved. I know maybe 1 woman who has had a threesome with 2 men and there was no double penetration. It was more like one after another.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:54 PM
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Yeah, but in that system (where everyone suffers more), he thinks he's more likely to get a bang maid. She might die in childbirth or lose 4-5 kids to influenza before they turn 5. He would probably end up being sent to war to die for richer men, ending up in a work house, or work an extremely unsafe job like mining or factory work that could cause loss of limbs or black lung. but thats a risk he's willing to take
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:30 PM
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How about the fact the average life expectancy of a porn star is 37 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:27 PM
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That chances you're ever faced with with scenario are so stupidly low that you're clearly porn brained to even consider this being a problem for you 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:25 PM
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People tell other people that "looks don't matter" to be nice because the person is ugly. Anyone who can't pick up on this has comprehension problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:17 PM
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90% of the "manosphere" is mostly pick up artistry and complaining about not getting laid. As far as fathers rights and stuff no one lumps that into the manosphere genre. People lump inceldom, red pill, and conservatism together because 99% of the discussions in those communities boil down to "no sex women bad :("
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:52 PM
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Too bad the $8 you saved not shaving made you totally unbangable:/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:03 AM
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I still don't think you're understanding what you're saying. 1 birth = 1 woman. Most men don't work dangerous jobs and most work related deaths are car accidents. In reality, a very small subset of workers take most of the risk because an office worker is never going to get killed by his desk no matter how many years they work in an office. You're still wrong 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:01 AM
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Not getting laid is not a legitimate topic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:54 PM
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Where the fuck did you extrapolate that from. I have long hair because It's beautiful and I like it. My hair is longer than most men even desire the most compliments I get are from indian and korean aunties at the super market.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:06 PM
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I use mens razors but I have to go through more of them because I shave my entire body and not just my neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:03 PM
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Even if you look at 5041 deaths out of 86.3 million male workers only it still only comes out to 5.4 deaths per 100k workers. Meaning pregnancy is almost 4 times more deadly. You're not correct no matter how much you cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:01 PM
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That's not how that works. There are 18.6 maternal death per 100k births. As per your statistic there is 5041 workplace deaths per 163.1 million workers in the USA. That's 3.0 deaths per 100k workers in the us vs 18.6 maternal deaths per 100k births. You don't understand what "times more likely" actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:59 PM
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Men are statistically less likely to die in their lifetime from a job related injury than a woman is die from childbirth in her lifetime like 10 fold. I've been working with heavy machinery for 8 years now and we had 1 recordarle injury in 2 years out of 3000 employees. Most people don't get injured at work in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:51 PM
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Men are so bad at oral that half the time it's not even worth the risk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:49 PM
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Men dont get injured at work every year unless they're retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:28 PM
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I have 30 inches of hair growing out of my head and if I used 3 in 1 shampoo I wouldn't be able to get a comb through it. My shampoo and conditioner are about 10 dollars each. Then you need hair oil because long, dry, hair literally fall off and breaks at the ends. Unless you're okay with a woman with a buzz cut that is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:27 PM
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We know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:24 PM
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"Men work more, sleep less, and die and develop disabilities from supporting their families at higher rates than women are from working and giving birth." You're 10x more likely to die from child birth than a workplace injury? Men have shorter lifespans when they're single. Not when they're married. Men that support their families live LONGER.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:19 PM
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Most men don't spend money on those things because they use a $4 3 in 1 body wash, shampoo, conditioner and have been using a cologne from high school that their mom bought that they use twice a year maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:09 PM
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I definitely do not starfish. I am very aware of how I orgasm and how to make others orgasm. I've never had a single complaint ever in my life. If anything I have to tone it down, or men will prematurely ejaculate. If men really were sexual and not just selfish you all would be masters of the bedroom. The only thing you guys master is masterbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:20 PM
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Lmao, yeah, you are. I always make my partner orgasm and can go like 10 rounds. I will fuck for HOURS and still want more. A man who is good in bed can basically provide 1 orgasm and go to sleep. You guys aren't more sexual you're just more desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:51 AM
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If men are so sexual why are most men so bad at sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:49 AM
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Yeah, well, if you denigrated your friend, it would be one thing. If a wife does it to herself, she's "disrespectful" and "nagging." Then the next step, "the divorce came out of nowhere."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:56 PM
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Please look up the definition of weaponized incompetence before using it as a counterpoint. Weaponized incompetence is called such because the idea is fuck something up so badly, ON PURPOSE, that you won't be asked to do it again. It's feigning incompetence as a form of manipulation. My dad did this with everything and it was a fucking nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:25 PM
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That is a lie men tell themselves to feel better about not being a partner to their wives lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:23 PM
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Most men know how to do these things. They let these things fall on their wives because they simply don't want to do it. It's not a matter of competence it's a matter of respect and expecting servitude from their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:25 PM
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I don't think men actually care about other men as a group. There are individual men who care very much but as a group not so much. A lot of men only bring up mens issues as a whataboutism when womens issues are brought up. The men who cry about womens month when we also have a mens month is embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:03 PM
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I get asked out in public places like the gym, the mall, the grocery store, etc. The issue is 50% of the time, the guy isn't polite. They approach an unpleasant/approaching harassment type of way. Okay, so I'm still getting approached by some guys who are polite and pleasant. A majority of those guys aren't going to be an age I would consider. I'm 32 and look a bit younger. I get asked out from men aged 18-60. I'm only interested in men aged 30-38. So I'm getting asked out by maybe 3 or 4 of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:21 AM
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I don't use social media. Don't use dating apps now. I did years ago and wouldn't give out my number unless we met in person first. Why? Because I don't want to. I don't know the guy and don't necessarily want to. Just because a guy may or may not be attractive doesn't mean he's a person I'd trust with my phone number. What motivation am I supposed to have to chat with a guy just because he's attracted to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:35 PM
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You can't produce a single piece of data from any country in the world that shows more female on male violence than vice versa,
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:27 PM
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I wouldn't ever give my number out to a guy who cold approached just for the number, ever. There would have to be a lot of conversation beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:58 PM
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How can I debate someone who dismisses facts and argues based on their hypersensitive feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:55 PM
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No one cares about the dryer. The fact that porn emulates incest and pedophilia is sexually deviant. Those are real women and real men on camera engaging in deviant sexual acts for the purpose of making a quick buck. So that you, can get an oxytocin release and become less and less aroused by normal sex acts, constantly seeking out more novel and deviant things to achieve the same level of arousal. There is data to support this. Go watch porn, idgaf. Men get so butthurt when women find men who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:51 PM
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Most women are raped by boyfriends/husbands/family members. Not strangers at bars or clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:43 PM
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Most women don't masturbate to books. Sex itself isn't deviant. Watching some fresh 18 year old get gang banged by 15 dudes is is deviant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:47 PM
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We're not as likely to beat, rape, and murder our partners. Male on female IPV is an epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:33 PM
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I have no problem admitting men have their own issues in society like homelessness and stigma around mental health. But I don't think you can empathize with women at all, which is exactly why I say men are cruel and disrespectful. This sub isn't about homelessness its about red pill vs blue pill ideology which is the topic at hand. I never even saw your deleted comment but good luck with all the resentment and anger you have built up deep inside. 🍀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:31 PM
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Depends on how deviant it is. If writing is vulgar and disgusting then yes. If it's like a romantic/sexual novel then I don't mind. I don't like deviance or vulgarity. Romance/sexual literature is fine. Porn is real people. Romance novels are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:28 PM
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I never hated men. In fact, the men who treated me the worst were the ones I loved and gave my time and effort to. Men are the #1 predator of women in the world. Aside from basic cruelty and disrespect, we are constantly harassed and physically abused. It's tiresome trying to find love from people who subjugate and abuse you. Sorry if I responded to the question asked and not your person feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:01 PM
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I hate that we live in a society with such little expectation of men that we have to praise the men who aren't awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:59 PM
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Most men are sexual deviants. They watch porn and masturbate to it, yet most can not successfully satisfy a real-life woman. I would not tolerate a man getting his nut to other women when they barely can make a woman cum. It's embarrassing and lame. The type of porn men watch is typically not normal sex acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:58 PM
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Porn is sexual deviance. I have an extremely high sex drive and don't goon to porn to masturbate. Lack of self discipline and control are failures of character. Not a single man on earth would be happy with their girlfriend or wife watching BBC 3 times a day secretly unless their a cuck which is just another form of deviance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:22 PM
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I always wondered why men hated women so much and I like to hear it from the horses mouth. Here, incels and red pillers have no shame. I don't agree with them but at least I can hear their reasoning. I spent my entire dating life wondering why men are so cruel to the people they're supposed to "love". I know that love is real, because I feel it, yet in 32 years I have seen less than 5 men actually display it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:14 PM
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Because if being a stay at home parent without your own income was easy and fun, men would have monopolized on it millenia ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:45 AM
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Same things as a man. -weaponized incompetence -laziness -unhealthy lifestyle -porn use -drinking alcohol more than rarely -smoking -aggression -lack of manners -sexually deviant - lack of motivation -picky eater/doesn't know how to cook -poor hygiene -cheating -has kids -divorced -religious -obese
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:41 AM
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The equivalent is male breasts. I see men with big ass tits everywhere. Some could fill a C cup. Men walk around their with shirts off all over the beach and boardwalk, big titties just FLOPPING. disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:19 AM
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Yes because men are more attracted to that than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:15 AM
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You don't need dress clothes. Just style. My best dressed ex shopped at Walmart and old navy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:05 PM
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Women were considered property of their husbands and fathers for most of recorded humanity lmao. They never had a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:57 PM
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50% of the chores in a combined household is exactly the same amount of chores we'd be doing if we lived alone. You don't make less mess because you have a partner, and you don't make more mess because you don't have a partner. If everyone is cleaning up after themselves then it's exactly the same amount of effort lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:50 PM
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Since gender and gender are different you're not making any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:47 PM
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Yeah it's pretty delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:46 PM
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"Women and children first" was first coined during the sinking of HMS Birkenhead. The passengers of the ship were soldiers, their wives, and their children. The captain ordered the men to help THEIR OWN WIVES AND CHILDREN aboard the life boats first as the men were soldiers. The idea was for the men to make sure their wives and children got the lifeboats first. This was not a cruise. The women were dragged along. There were 643 passengers and 26 of them were women and children. 193 passengers su…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:40 PM
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"Anyone who gets more pussy than me" -most guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:13 PM
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Obviously you can't pick where you were born or who you were born to lmao. Talk about apples to oranges. But you can choose who you are and how you identify. For someone who claims people care too much about this, you seem to care a lot other people gender a suspicious amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:45 PM
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And then some of them will end up remarried, particularly the men. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:25 PM
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If chad is slang for "easy target" then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:25 PM
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I'm not really invested in any of it tbh. But to say that intersex people have to identify a certain way is weird to me. If you're a mix of male and female why do they have to pick one because you say so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:24 PM
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There are people with xxy chromosomes and genetalia that's a mix of penis and vagina. There are literally people born who are not typically male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:00 AM
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Chad is paying for sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:01 PM
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Most average people are married....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:00 PM
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Every guy from my hs (graduated in 2011) who was good looking and made music is a druggie now still living with their moms. I can think of 4 examples off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:49 PM
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I changed my mind about men in general, if anything im more misandrist than ever. I like to read the inside thought typed out sometimes because it really makes it clear that a large percentage of men (sexually successful or not) really don't like women at all unless we're spreading our legs for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:49 PM
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Look up 90 day fiance anfisa and Jorge. Perfect example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:17 PM
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I've had situationships in the past that said this kind of shit to me meanwhile we both know that were never going to be in a relationship. Men love to pretend to be in love with you to gain maximum benefits from you until they're ready to find someone else. I've had guys ask me to quit my job and be a SAHM on a first date. He was handsome and very rich but he was a fucking whacko, clearly. This stuff is par for the course for men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:16 PM
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Depends on how ugly and who they're saying it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:04 PM
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Lies like "I love you", "I want to name our first son Randall", "my mom said you were the nicest girlfriend I've ever had" and "you're the love of my life".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:51 PM
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Ime attractive people are nicer in general. People with a lot of insecurities usually behave like insecure people- unpleasant. I've noticed the worst people I've ever met look like the worst people I've ever met. There are outliers for sure but in general I would say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:06 PM
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Female is an adjective, not a noun. She used it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:03 PM
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Western women want a man who is not a fucking loser. Not because he's rich and buying her expensive stuff but because life is expensive and especially if she wants children, a good mother would want security and resources for her child's success. The type of women that get with passport bros are the ones who do the actual gold digging and prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 10:36 AM
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You already gave up on dating. I wouldn't consider sex tourism dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 10:33 AM
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That is factually incorrect. Patriarchy teaches men that they are leaders and their partner is supposed to submit to them. To me personally, all the things you said are useless. What I see in men is that they want a woman who looks up to them. Find him sexually desirable, smart enough to defer to him in decision making, trustworthy enough to have children with, possibly give up her career in the process, someone who is subservient. Women don't want to be subservient. We want partners. Someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:15 PM
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Why are you angry? If "high value men" and hot women go together what's the issue with hot women wanting high value men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:06 PM
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Probably same reason "high value men" think they deserve hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:55 PM
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The divorce rate, average income level, and birth rate are showing otherwise. You can adapt or be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:34 PM
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This is exactly why I refuse to have children. There is no reasonable amount of money I would personally accept to endure pregnancy and childbirth. I'd have to marry someone with tens of millions of dollars to feel like the destruction of my body, health, social life, and 18 years plus of motherhood is worth it. Despite theoretically wanting kids I have refuse to lose myself at the expense of carrying a child that a man could simply walk away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:15 PM
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They don't gaf about your genes. They want your money. If you're the kind of guy who thinks like this then that's exactly why western women don't want you. You can learn to adapt to the society you were literally raised in or you can travel somewhere far away where your dollar holds more value. Realistically if you got rid of that disgusting victim mindset and took control of your life you could find a partner in the states , or be happy being alone and accept that not everyone gets to feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:09 PM
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Men can be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism by offering more things of non-monetary value. Such as: emotional intelligence, being physically attractive and hygienic, and true 50/50 partnership, including things like: cleaning, cooking, planning, being romantic. Most of all a lot of men have to stop deluding themselves into thinking that they need to be "better" than their partner. Men love hierarchies and desire to "feel" above women. Understand you're going to be in a partnership,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:04 PM
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Personally I don't think about passport bros. The only things about sex tourism that I find problematic is 1. These are the same guys who villianize western women as gold digging whores just to go to another country where they can afford said "gold digging whores" 2. A lot of those women are trafficked, exploited, or abused. Realistically, if american women actually cared about "passport bros" we would be sleeping with them and they wouldn't exist. No one cares about passport bros and that's pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:10 PM
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While its possible that your wife prefers chocolate to really good sex, she may just prefer chocolate to the sex she's currently having. My personal experience is that even the men who put in effort in the bedroom genuinely have no idea what women actually want and enjoy. For me, bad sex < yummy food < fantastic sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:57 PM
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I would argue the opposite. I can't control WHEN OR WHERE I ovulate. Women typically release 1 ova per month but might have a general idea of their fertile days or week. Men can absolutely control when they ejaculate, where they ejaculate, and will 100% be aware they are ejaculating. I can get pregnant 3 or 4 mystery days out of 28. Men can impregnate women 24/7/365. A man could theoretically impregnate 1000 women with a single ejaculatation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:00 PM
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I wish this was true but I've been played by men who did all of these things plus more. The obvious fuckboys are obvious but some men love bomb and fake their entire personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:38 PM
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If you want a more general example then we can look at the 1.5 birth rate for the United States lmao. Women don't want kids anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:48 PM
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90% of the men on tea are hideous. Being a lying cheater doesn't mean you're attractive. One of the most disloyal, misogynistic, nasty men I've ever met is fat af and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:36 PM
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I wouldn't spend more than 30 seconds with a man if he was disrespectful so for me its the most relevant thing. Looks get you in thr door and personality keeps you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:35 PM
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Yeah, I'm bi and traditional. Women offer emotional connection and good sex in a way that men don't. If I was in a relationship with a woman it would actually be 50/50. With men I'm usually forced to have traditional expectations or be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:31 PM
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I'm proudly child free, and the last 3 guys I dated tried to change my mind, get me off of birth control and have their child. There are plenty of men who want kids more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:29 PM
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There are plenty of people who love their children but regret parenthood. Regretting being a parent doesn't necessarily mean disdain for their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:27 PM
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The biggest fallacy I see displayed on here by men is that hot guys are all assholes. There are guys who are hot and nice. Nice ugly guys don't have a foot in the game compared to men who can do both. The options aren't just ugly nice guy and hot mean guy. There is also ugly asshole and nice hot guy. They just project that if they were a hot guy they would use that as an excuse to be an asshole so they pretend the hot nice guys don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:56 PM
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I think it's because most men will say yes when we express interest whether they really like us or not because they might just take the opportunity to use us for sex. Women who are looking for a hook up don't mind approaching guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:25 PM
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In the US, that's literally not true at all lmao. I gave the definition of defamation. You have the same access to the internet as me, yet you refuse to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:52 PM
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That's the legal definition, babe. If you don't like it then I guess write a letter to your local representative 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:18 PM
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The girls I know of are slightly above average looking, but idk all of them personally or what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:15 PM
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I couldn't care less. If a guy wants to choose to be with someone else, that's his right. I don't compete, and I also don't concern myself with nonsense like that. Realistically, a man could have all the options he wants if he lowers his standards enough. Still don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:14 PM
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The only man who ever laid his hands on me was below average in looks, obsessed with anime and video games. There is no "abuser" uniform. Being a nerd doesn't make someone harmless, and being "cool" doesn't make someone an abuser. That's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:26 PM
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Uhm, they literally prescribe methamphetamine salts to children and adults with ADD and ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:14 PM
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Most of them are slightly better looking then him but apparently he love bombed the fuck out of them. Apparently syphilis can take months to show symptoms or can be asymptomatic, so he kept passing it around and continued to even after one girl came up positive, he just blamed her for "cheating."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:56 PM
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Depends on if the gender would cause the statement to be sarcasm or actual opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:54 PM
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Actually you have to prove 1. That it is FALSE and that it caused you 2. Monetary loss 3. That you have a substantial reputation that was harmed due to a FALSE statement. The accusation being TRUE is actually the main form of defense against libel or defamation. This is true is all 50 states.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:53 PM
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He's literally 300 lbs and facially hideous but okay I guess you've seen him physically and I haven't? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:51 PM
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No tf we don't, thats men projecting. That's why 10k men will apply to be one of the cucks lining up behind Bonnie blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:26 PM
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All the men planning on suing for defamation better get their evidence ready because you can write whatever you want about anyone online as long as it's true. I can't wait to see men show up to court and lose their cases for doing exactly what they were accused of 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:23 PM
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My loser coworker with no social media is on there because he's had syphilis for like 5 years and keeps spreading it around and won't get treated. Someone had to get the CDC involved 🫣 this guy is hideous yet still managed to spread it to at least 3 women in 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:21 PM
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That already happened because the men were posting revenge porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:18 PM
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Because the creator got mad that the men were posting revenge porn and shut it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:16 PM
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Men say stuff like this then wonder why there is a male loneliness epidemic. They also get mad when women deny access or charge for "milk".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:14 PM
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Rejecting men for various reasons isn't "behaving the same".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:08 PM
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