ObviouslyNotALizard Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Did I just friend zone myself?		ObviouslyNotALizard	/r/seduction	09/10/17 04:35 PM

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75	How do I avoid boyfriend vibes? This statement is basically saying “if you try hard enough you can be my girlfriend” My go to is “I’m not really in a season of my life where commitment makes sense right now” They like that cuz it sounds like some shit they read on Pinterest once and it’s open honest and accurate.	/r/seduction	26/10/21 05:05 PM
1	I already scheduled a date for the weekend but the girl still initiates conversations on text. STOP BEING A FUCKING AUTISTIC WEIRDO OP AND PRETEND TO BE A HUMAN YOU FUCKING WEIRDO.	/r/seduction	07/10/21 01:04 AM
6	[deleted by user] A random is being aggressive in a bar. That’s his problem not yours. He’s going to look silly screaming at a block of ice if you keep your cool. Literally nothing to be gained from interacting with someone like that. It’s just going to be 1. Annoying 2. Get you kicked out of any decent venue 3. Make girls uncomfortable. If things turn physical thats different but in 90% of cases randomly overly aggressive guys are just peacocking and won’t really do anything. Ignore them, deny them what they wan…	/r/seduction	04/10/21 10:51 AM
49	[deleted by user] All that beta and alpha stuff is nonsense used by weirdos online to sell you bs self help courses. Learn about things that interest you and do them. Take care of your hygiene and health. Don’t dress like a peacock or a mall ninja. Do these things and you will be well on your way to a happy and healthy dating life. There, I just gave you better advice than weirdos on the internet who will call you a beta or whatever. If you want feel free to venmo me $300 and I’ll send you an email telling you wh…	/r/seduction	01/10/21 04:42 PM
7	How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward? ITT: OP develops a cuckold fetish and doesn’t even know it.	/r/seduction	21/09/21 03:29 PM
2	How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo? Step 1. Go to a bar Step 2. Order a drink Step 3. Decide if you like the bar enough to hang around for awhile. Step 4. Have a good time.	/r/seduction	20/09/21 07:21 PM
21	What makes some guys don't care when they get rejected and others think about it for weeks? Abundance mentality. Real story from my life that happened a day ago. Had a date setup. Place, time, plan everything. I forget if we said dinner was at 6 or 7... text her asking at like 1. No response. Shoot her a Snapchat at 5 asking the same thing. Left on read.. Now I could have been a sad sack and just stayed home playing video games... But I didn’t, I was like oh well, I guess I’m free tonight messaged some friends who weren’t doing anything and reached out to a tinder match I never message…	/r/seduction	19/10/20 12:14 AM
6	Stealing girls from other guys I was out on a first date with a girl and she was approached like 3 times by different guys! Like I had just met the girl (tinder) so I didn’t really have ground to interdict I just sat there like a goober trying to insert myself in the convo until they left, then SHE apologized to ME!?!? Like I get why but you don’t have to be sorry for other guys being nozzles	/r/seduction	01/04/19 10:30 PM
3	30 First Date Conversation Starters That Will Kick Awkwardness In The Butt As a professionally trained interviewer (Journalism degree and did the interviews at my old job) the difference between a interview and a directed conversation (which is basically what you want to get out of using a list like this) is three fold, 1. Don’t rapid fire questions; ask question LISTEN to the response, and either expand on that statement or contribute your own RELEVANT contribution. 2. Allow her to ask questions back of you. 3. Be open to the conversation naturally branching off into …	/r/seduction	25/12/18 03:35 AM
-2	How to prevent false rape charges? I have been sexually active and flirting with women in all sorts of places and climates (even in extra progressive social circles) and this has never happened to me or anyone I know except one guy in highschool because the girl had a previous grudge with him about something. Best way to avoid rape accusations? Don’t rape people and you should be good.	/r/seduction	18/11/18 06:30 PM
1	Does the "stop caring about girls and just have fun" thing work? As someone who routinely goes out with the intention of hitting on girls and meets mixed success. The ONLY times a woman has approached me instead of the reverse were the few times I went out not intending to hit on girls.	/r/seduction	05/10/18 11:36 PM
3	Asked a girl out in person for the first time Hell yea. Keep it up bud!	/r/seduction	03/07/18 07:17 PM
2	Getting a girlfriend from work My last serious girlfriend was from work. But she made the first obvious step (matching with me on a dating sign and then flirting) be cool, be low key, and it'll work out. DON'T GET ALL WEIRD AND SHIT	/r/seduction	15/11/17 04:55 AM
2	I [27M] was invited by a girl to watch a movie at her place. Need some tips. Yea man. Blankets improve like 80% of life.	/r/seduction	22/10/17 03:48 PM