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Tbh I’d say about 99% of tattoos out there are ugly. and the “artsy” ones look like they’re trying too hard to be deep or interesting. I don’t have a principled reason they’re just lame to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:20 PM
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I mean girls jokingly brag about how how tight or “fat” their pussy is. Or if a dude does nice things for her she’ll brag about how good her pussy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:57 AM
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Okay. I agree. I assumed you were one of those “misogyny is a myth” types. Because lately that’s al I’ve been coming across on that sub. I don’t condone body shaming. I quite enjoy men and their company if they’re not hateful/violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:53 AM
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Name one male specific slur beside scrote. Meanwhile you could probably make a dictionary of woman specific slurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:50 AM
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If someone uses mean words to describe Casey Anthony or amber heard I wouldn’t care tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:44 AM
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lol I love how you’re acting like this a hypothetical situation and women aren’t called loose all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:41 AM
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In the west, sure. However having equal rights “on paper” isn’t suddenly going to make everything magically fair and equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:40 AM
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Women have no systemic power over you. It is only recently women have any sort of autonomy or freedom. Women venting about being abused has no effect on you. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:19 AM
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Men commit suicide more bc men are less likely to seek help bc other men tell them it’s not manly to admit weakness. Not bc of some women calling men scrotes online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:07 AM
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Nah. Most of the posts are just like I want a man who changes his underwear every day bc a lot of grown men have no concept of hygiene. Seriously it’s surprising common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:58 AM
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I don’t care if abusive people of any gender are called mean names lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:57 AM
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I don’t care if abusive people on any fender are called mean names lo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:56 AM
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I don’t know any woman who says “washboard abs” as a requirement or preference for a partner. Rich men can be “low value” bc rich men can be misogynistic, abusive, narcissistic, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:53 AM
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Yawnnn more strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:51 AM
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I have no idea why you’re so worked up over a group of women blowing off steam online. The women who are calling men scrote have typically been abused or sexually assaulted. Huge difference from men using degrading terms against women who won’t fuck em..or even women who do fuck em. It’s a false equivalency acting like it’s a hate group as bad as mgtow. These women have no significant power and aren’t going on shooting sprees unlike angry men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:48 AM
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What a silly non argument. Pretending like it isn’t extreme common to go “lolol I don’t want a daughter I’m afraid she’ll become a whore” or “I don’t want a daughter bc I know how I used to treat women” I pointed out this is actually happening in China right now. And your rebuttal was a silly baseless statement with no facts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:43 AM
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Fucking nobody uses scrote. And it’s used for misogynistic and abusive men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:29 AM
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Is scrote mainstream and promoted by mass media? Loool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:28 AM
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Whore, slut, bitch, cunt, prude, bimbo,
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:24 AM
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Why give it any attention? Lol. People on the internet will body shame any kind of body. It’s the fucking internet lol. I don’t condone it. I don’t condone women who do that either. However I agree with the core purpose of fds which is to vet men thoroughly and not tolerate abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:23 AM
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That’s all you got? One thread? Yet it’s common place and no one bats an eye when men joke about how they don’t want daughters bc women are whores and how that’s literally happening right now in china.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:12 AM
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There is nothing advocating murder lol. If you type in murder in the search bar it’s stories about men raping and killing women. You want to be a victim so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:04 AM
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Looool ever notice how many words exist solely to degrade women yet you’re triggered by one word that is only used on that sub? You see what you want to see. You have a fixation with genital so that’s what you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:03 AM
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Whoa I just now went through your comments. You’re super fixated on genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:59 AM
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Not really I just don’t really care. I’m at work and just fucking around on here whenever I get a second of peace. You’re not interested in having your mind changed so why bother. I’m on there everyday. The vast majority of posts are calling out sexism/objectification of women by men. I don’t condone body shaming as I can’t control what others say on there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:54 AM
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One look at your profile and all your posts are derogatory jokes about pussies. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:37 AM
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Not really. Typically older women push the idea that women are nothing without a man and must do everything to please their man (such as looking the other way when he cheat).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:46 AM
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Damn straight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:45 AM
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Beat comment thus far
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:43 AM
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Not really. The vast majority of posts on there are hating on abusive or porn addicted men. I mean they’re right to be mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:43 AM
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It’s not really...trp advocates for casual sex with as many women as possible al while referring to them as bitches,whores, plates, etc while fds advocates for vetting men thoroughly in order to find a sincere man to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:19 PM
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Does your wife not have opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:10 PM
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The last line could not be more off. The whole point of fds is to learn how to vet and spot red flags and not engage in casual aex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:08 PM
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And what about you? What are your standards for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:56 PM
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1-2 boyfriends? That’s where you draw the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:47 PM
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So why do men push women for sex in every relationship and blame cheating on lack of sexual satisfaction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:34 AM
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The rich can circumvent most things would be barriers for most
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:29 AM
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A lot of women aren’t seen as human either. They’re seen as commodities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:55 PM
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More like no man today will stay with you unless you have sex with him. You know you’d do the same. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:40 PM
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Correct. Involuntary. Thank you for reaffirming my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:36 PM
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That’s not out of virtue lol. You haven’t even addressed what I said. Name one woman without looking it up who has killed her family to be with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:32 PM
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You yourself have admitted you would fuck as many women as possible if you could. Those virgins would likely do the same. Very few women think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:29 PM
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Men like you only value women for their youth and fertility yet you want to call women hyper famous and not loyal. Hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:27 PM
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Women have expiration dates bc they are only worth their sexual value. Men openly say this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:27 PM
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Because men are willing to fuck anything. If men abstained women would. And that’s nice I have anecdotes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:25 PM
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And if women aren’t attractive they’re worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:23 PM
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This is literally the exact opposite of what I said. I have no idea how you got that out of my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:22 PM
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Whoa. That is exact opposite of what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:20 PM
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Women are infantilized. Not seen as equal or capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:20 PM
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Yes women have an easier time getting men who don’t care about them to fuck em and have lower expectations since women are seen as incapable as incompetent. Bigotry of low expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:19 PM
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I’m not in favor of it. Im just saying women are seen as inferior in just about every culture. I don’t think that’s something that will ever change. Or something you can change via legislation. It blows. I wish I wasn’t a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:18 PM
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Now things are changing in favor of women. But that’s just overcompensating to make up for the lack of autonomy women have history not had. Women have been told their whole lives they have no value outside of their sexuality. Men will never understand and seem incapable of empathizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:15 PM
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Men are six times more likely to leave their wives when they are ill. I’m so tired of hearing about how men are so loyal and wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:13 PM
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So why should women remain pure until marriage? Women know subconsciously men only care about them for what they can do sexually but do this to keep men around .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:12 PM
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They cause men to cheat? Hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:11 PM
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Solid points. And thanks for pointing out that sex work isn’t empowering. I’m tired of hearing this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:10 PM
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So all you have is the draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:09 PM
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female privilege is talked about everyday on this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:05 PM
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Dr dres wife isn’t exactly the average woman. Odd example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:52 PM
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Yet historically men have caused the breadlines and famines
/r/MGTOW229/04/21 10:51 PM
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What is the reason you use females but not males
/r/MGTOW229/04/21 10:50 PM
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Lolol being financially unable to leave a marriage does not equal a happy marriage. Marriages weren’t happier then women were just complacent. Also maybe if you feel so strongly about “purity” you should abstain yourself. Women have been conditioned to think if they don’t have sex with their bf he’ll leave or cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:49 PM
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Maybe if men stopped pressuring women to have sex before marriage this wouldn’t happen. Women have been conditioned to think if they don’t have sex with their bf he’ll leave or cheat. And then are shamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:45 PM
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Cant men who are worried about this just get a prenup? Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:43 PM
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What. The whole point of fds is to save sex for a dude you plan to either marry or have a long term relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:13 AM
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Sure men do more “saving” but they also do more hurting. Again it’s self preservation sorry if it offends you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:51 PM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:49 PM
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Men do not value women. You will not change my mind on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:39 PM
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Your example was a burning building.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:38 PM
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It’s self preservation. Men for the most part don’t actually value women. A woman’s value to a man is based on how sexually desirable she is (barring his mother).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:35 PM
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They can always ask other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:33 PM
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Abosutely is relevant to the original point I was making.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:30 PM
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Women also lack the strength most of the time. I mean everyone should try to help everyone if they can. But I mean what point are you trying to make here? Do you advocate for a more egalitarian society
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:21 PM
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I don’t get what #notallmen has to do with this. Okay I phrased it poorly but now I’ve clarified what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:20 PM
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Bc men and women are not equally violent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:16 PM
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I never said any men or all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:03 PM
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Not what I’m saying. Simply stating a reason why women are more hesitant to help random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:03 PM
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I was simply saying men are overwhelmingly a danger to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:02 PM
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Fair enoigh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:01 PM
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Ted bundy is simply a prominent example. A friend of mine had a man ask her for directions he tried to grab her. This is pretty common. The fact this is like unfathomable for you is telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:47 PM
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I’m saying it’s typically riskier when a man asks a random woman for help. It’s a common ploy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:46 PM
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Not what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:46 PM
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Because typically when men asks for help he’s usually a predator (this is super common the most known example of this is Ted Bundy). Also men typically will see a woman helping him as romantic interest and will get aggressive when she rejects him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:19 PM
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Great point. Was thinking the same but didn’t know how to articulate it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:16 PM
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I mean how can women not be “gold diggers” if they don’t have a way to support themselves? Wouldn’t having her own career ensure she’s actually interested in the man she pursues and not his money? Any woman moderately intelligent would want to have the means to support herself. https://m.fooyoh.com/iamchiq_living_lifestyle/5064417
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:47 PM
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Bc men on tinder aretypically low value
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:30 PM
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Tinder is a depressing cesspool but I suppose
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:27 PM
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It’s tough with covid though.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:22 PM
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Fixing my style?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:09 PM
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My goal is to stay thin but get a nice ass.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:04 PM
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I said in the title I’m female. I’m wondering if blue collar work is seen as a negative.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:59 PM
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What I mean by ambition is someone who isn’t working a dead end job or isn’t able to support themselves. Too many guys will come up with an elaborate story for why they’re living in their parents basement (it’s temporary” when in reality they’re content to be able to play video games 24/7 and not pay rent). Women tend to be very empathetic and try to give men the benefit of the doubt and end up getting deceived and then find themselves in a ltr with a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:03 PM
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I don’t know much about H3. I mean when they say HVM they’re typically referring to someone with a good moral compass, empathetic, not a misogynist, ambitious, etc. I don’t think it refers to chads who make six figures. And FDS frequently says if you got a guy to stick around for a relationship after having sex early you’re the exception not the rule. Just wanted to say that. It’s helped me a lot so that’s why I feel the need to defend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:35 PM
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Oh my god. They never say on there the point of having a career is to make themselves attractive to men. The point is to be financially stable and not make the mistake of depending on a man who can abuse or cheat on you. This just shows either narcissism or poor reading skills if you still think women wanting a career is about getting your dick hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:39 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:36 PM
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And if it’s a stem degree with high earning potential?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:45 PM
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What are these insanely high a standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:28 PM
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What are these insufferably high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:24 PM
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I read it daily and have never seen anything advocating for fuckjng a dude on the side while pursuing a hvm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:23 PM
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Is LPN a low status job
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:01 PM
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Well thank you that wasn’t super obvious or anything. I don’t know he’s not even that attractive. Don’t know why I simped for him so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:32 PM
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Hmmm the high functioning asperger like pick me sounds like me..I think? How would you define them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:37 PM
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Who said I hate all men? You’re missing the point. Weeks before he was feeding me bs about how he thinks I’m just so attractive (so he clearly knows what I look like) then we have a formal date and he’s condescending and rude. The point of my original comment was being a pick me gets you nowhere. He knew he could treat me like shit and get away with it. We’ve known each other for a while before this date. There’s more to this but I’d really not rehash this awful night
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:56 PM
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I’m sure you’d appreciate it if on a first date she says some shit like “oh you’re fatter than I expected” with visible disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:43 PM
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Wait wut
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:29 PM
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Nice reach. Nah but it’s common sense that it’s inappropriate for a first date. I mean the tone and the face he made basically said “you look like shit”. First thing that came out of his mouth after a quick hey.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:01 PM
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I’m a former pick me. Used to text him constantly, hang onto his every word, and when he’d disappear for days I’d tell myself “he’s busy stop obsessing.” I used to compliment that hell out of him thinking he’d feel appreciated and good about himself and thus appreciate me. Anyway I put up with a lot of this shit so he knew he could treat me like shit and get away with it. He also talked to me like I was his fan. Basically all the flattery got to his head. On our first formal date the second thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:17 AM
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You literally repeat the same goddamn point despite it not relating to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:40 PM
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Man you’re a total npc. Headed to work. Good luck though!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:35 PM
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Those don’t apply to me so I can pursue better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:32 PM
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Damn right. Don’t know what the point of all those digs at my appearance and mental gymnastics to insist I have high expectations and will only fuck chads shit was for
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:29 PM
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If you’re pudgy you could lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:27 PM
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You’re projecting dude. I wouldn’t get close enough to someone who smells bad to date much less fuck them. Just cause you’re desperate and can’t do better doesn’t mean that applies to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:27 PM
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Like I’ve never had problems finding guys who find me attractive once I started dating and I’ve had multiple relationships in this short period of time. It’s just funny how you keep trying to apply red pill logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:26 PM
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Still haven’t said what these high expectations are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:23 PM
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That’s nice. This doesn’t apply to me nor anyone I’m attracted to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:23 PM
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So try and be better. That’s what I’m doing. Anyway you keep repeating yourself even though I’m young and haven’t been dating for long and don’t have sky high expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:18 PM
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Tons of things are worse than stretchmarks. Actually being overweight, bad tattoos, having kids from different fathers, being into astrology, being mentally ill, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:13 PM
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No it doesn’t make you disgusting? I just said it’s dumb to act like stretchmarks are a sign of laziness/obesity. Also I agree with trp on one thing. If you want to date better people be better. I’m always trying to improve myself. Hence why I started lifting and doing glute focused exercises since I’ve always been assless and had a runners body.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:09 PM
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I play instruments as well. Why wouldn’t I be into someone with similar interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:00 PM
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You’ve seen one picture of me. I’m conventionally attractive. I have a hard time dating cause I don’t like going out. It’s just interesting hearing you reduce everything to red pill stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:00 PM
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Again I’m pursuing average. Dudes with similar interests to me who also seem like good people are what I’m after.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:57 PM
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I don’t consider myself average. I don’t know what you mean when you’re talking about a social circle. I have like three close friends and I don’t use social media aside Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:56 PM
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Everyone tries to pursue people they find attractive. What is your point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:52 PM
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Dudes obsessed with weed annoy me. I don’t like tattoos. I like music and prefer nerdy types. Last guy I was into was a physics major in a prog metal band.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:50 PM
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Ahhh nice straw man. I don’t give a fuck about height. Guy I’m into right now is 5’6.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:49 PM
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Clearly I’m trying to appeal to chads such as opistrue. I don’t know what your definition of a chad is but I’ve never pursued what red pillers define as a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:46 PM
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Man I don’t even know why I’m discussing this with you. It’s just bizarre there are still men out there who think stretch marks or cellulite are related to obesity or laziness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:45 PM
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Okay nice anecdote. Cellulite is hereditary. I said bigger. compared to being to how flat I was six months that’s pretty damn good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:44 PM
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I’m not insecure about my cellulite. Just about every woman has it, overweight or not. Comes with getting a bigger butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:40 PM
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Still pales in comparison to male violence tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:32 PM
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Aw trying to hurt my feelings 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 01:36 PM
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I literally am not saying that and you barely even seem literate so it’s a waste of time talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 01:35 PM
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What? I get you’re trying to be clever or whatever but no one on there advocates violence and women as a whole are way less inclined towards violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 01:32 PM
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Let’s not pretend men and women have the same proclivity for violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 01:29 PM
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Still wouldn’t kill them. This is kind of a reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 01:28 PM
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This never happens though. They literally advocate for blocking men they deem low value. Not stalking and killing. That’s mostly a male thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 01:11 PM
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I’m confused do you not think women or your future wife rather will feel disgusted knowing your dick has been in x amount of women??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:49 PM
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How have things changed so dramatically since 2007
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:04 AM
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Yeah this just proves you haven’t dated men. Tons of men are able to conceal their depravity until later. I’m glad you’ve haven’t had to deal with that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:26 PM
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Also too many men bail after sex. You can’t accurately gauge a mans character after a few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:59 PM
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Men will still abuse you or cheat even if the sex is great because “muh biology”. Might as well find a man with restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:56 PM
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I don’t agree with the whole “act like you’re the prize” and expect him to do all the work in the relationship. My takeaway from FDS is vet all men carefully, attractive or not, all men are capable of treating you like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:53 PM
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Yes they are against hook up culture and modern dating which ultimately works in favor of men. Too many women get strung along for too long by a dude who’s on tinder weighing his options. Or by a dude who makes her his forever girlfriend. This approach does work well for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:39 PM
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Well sounds like these women aren’t for you and are looking to pursue men who date seriously. So many redditors have problem with this yet they hate women with “high body counts” yet get angry when women don’t sleep with every guy they casually date. Why give yourself physically to a guy you don’t fully know yet and could possibly be insane and hiding it? I’ve been there and most women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:23 PM
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Who’s to say you’re not under the halo effect? I try to have a detached and objective view towards dating. Obviously no one is 100% immune
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:08 PM
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FDS is very against sugaring and sex work.. A man who isn’t willing to financially invest a little is typically not interested in you. Plenty of women go “hey I’m not comfortable having sex early” and if he likes her he’ll stick around if not well she eliminated someone who’s not really interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:06 PM
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Now I see all men as capable of being shitty. As I said I thought if I find a nerd he’ll never be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:03 PM
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I’m not really into stereotypically attractive men. I’ve given all the men who have been shitty to me the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:02 PM
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I really don’t care to argue this with you anymore. It’s just going to be you invalidating my experiences and the all too common experiences of women. You truly are dense. Dating is not that simple and reducing it to if you’re attractive it’s easy. You sound incredibly lucky to not be able to relate to these experiences. Just about any other woman would have similar stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:01 PM
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Absolutely. You probably see all unattractive men as decent people unlike the chads and the stacys keeps going for chads only to get abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:55 PM
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He tried to fuck her in her sleep? Jesus. At the time they weren’t even dating and were trying to hang out as friends. The next morning he went “wow you’re a heavy sleeper lol” and tried to see if she would remember. And nah it’s quite the opposite I really wanted to believe most men out there are decent and as long as you’re attractive, treat him right and all that, there’s no way he’ll cheat or abuse you. I used to brush off feminists as crazy. Reality slapped me in the face and now I’m extrem…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:53 PM
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Eva Longoria, Beyoncé, all the kardashians, Halle berry, jlo, Jennifer Aniston have all been cheated on. That’s the point of FDS men will cheat regardless. That’s why they preach self sufficiency, financial independence, and extensive vetting of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:50 PM
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No. It doesn’t hold up. Logically it sounds like it would make sense but the whole “just give the ugly guy a chance he’ll treat you right” only seems to hold up in corny 90s rom coms. My sisters ex looked and acted like mark zuckerberg he never acknowledged her on her birthday or any gift giving holiday and just showed a general lack of care. We all brushed it off and he ended up trying to rape her in her sleep. I used to idealize nerds as well. First boyfriend could not have been nerdier and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:46 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:35 PM
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That’s incredibly reductive like most posts on here. I don’t go for “hot men” and most women don’t. Very few women want “chads”. The shortest man I’ve ever pursued treated me like absolute garbage leaving me traumatized for a year. It’s just so detached from reality the idea attractive women don’t get massively fucked over while dating. Men of all backgrounds and social statuses are capable of treating women like dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:33 PM
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I used to take advice from askmen “compliment him often men love compliments since they’re rare” I did and he ended up getting a big ego and talking to me like his fan. He knew I was crazy about him so he treated me like shit. I thought if he doesn’t text you often just chill out and don’t be clingy or overemotional. Just act like you didn’t even notice when he texts back three days later! I wish I had more self respect and recognized this as blatant disrespect from a man who claimed to be crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:30 PM
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Hence why women put up with abusive or “low value” men bc they know how hard it is to find a halfway decent man. Or even semi attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:23 PM
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It doesn’t matter if show you examples of that being totally false you’ll still deny it. It doesn’t matter if I point out examples of 10s who have been cheated on, abused, etc. Men typically treat women as disposable I suspect it’s because there are more attractive/dateable women out there than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:20 PM
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Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:17 PM
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Anyway that kind of content pretty much dominates the internet (beauty advice) so I feel like it’s unnecessary to post stuff like that on there. Most women do consciously or not try to improve their appearance to attract a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:17 PM
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Weird. I was always told pickmeisha is the former. I disagree with the sentiment that all women are beautiful and perfect the way they are and thus shouldn’t try to improve. But I do like that FDS teaches women to establish boundaries and respect yourself enough to not accept shitty treatment. I wish someone had taught me that growing up. My mom basically ingrained the idea that you need to do everything you can to lock down a man, regardless of whether said man is quality or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:16 PM
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The point is sleeping with any guy who takes you on a couple dates and feigns interest bc women have been told they’re undateable unless they put out. Naturally women will acquire a “high count”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:11 PM
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Not at all true in my experience. I’ve known plenty of 10s who get cheated on and/or abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:10 PM
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This is so incredibly naive....Only unattractive women get treated badly? Imagine thinking just becoming attractive solves your relationship problems. What a simple mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:00 PM
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That’s not what a Pickmeisha is. It’s more like a woman with low standards who essentially becomes a door mat bc if she voices her concerns she’ll be seen as “crazy/oversensitive/emotional”. Or someone who goes “oh I don’t care if my boyfriend follows and comments on ig model pics constantly in fact I check them out with him” which is almost always bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:58 PM
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Which ones
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:53 PM
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I don’t understand dont most men hate when women have high body counts yet they’re expected to have sex with every guy they casually date? It’s to weed out dudes who don’t actually care about you (not the paying for everything, I’m not really in favor of that).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:52 PM
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I dunno I think as myself of fairly attractive. What is the point of this question tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:34 PM
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Lol how incredibly naive. It’s not the cat call itself. It’s more “is he gonna follow me? Or try and grab me? It’s two guys vs me they can easily overpower me”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:31 PM
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What does this have to do with the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:34 AM
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Just about every woman has experienced vulgar catcalling. To deny that is ridiculous. Some as young as twelve to thirteen before they’re fully a “woman”. Also with the stalking point, I’ve had a man attempt to follow me and my mom home from Walmart. Mind you this was in broad daylight and in a relatively low crime suburb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:32 AM
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I think him stalking you is a more likely scenario. Still a valid fear. Plenty of men get violent after rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:27 AM
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Favorite type of body in a dude is covered in hair. nice forearms are a must don’t care if he has a beer gut (I guess it’s called a dad bod). Ideally has large sexy hands and a nice jawline. Height doesn’t matter. Hottest man I ever met fits this description and is 5’7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:48 PM
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Most women in their twenties have dated at least 5+ people. In relationships you’re expected to have sex and if not you’ll likely be dumped for someone who will. So unless men collectively start abstaining with people they date women are going to acquire “high” counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:18 PM
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I blame the cheater? But you have an interesting moral compass to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:13 PM
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