OccultEcologist Archive

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2	How and where did you meet your partner? You need to quality how long and/or how serious the current partnership is to get full data, I feel. Like does a cold aproach resulting in 2 dates really count as a success? For some people it does. For others, not so much. I've had plenty of "flings" from cold aproaching, but I've had four serious relationships. Of those, only one was a cold approach, and that resulted in the only ex I do not have any contact with what so ever. All my other exes and I are on decent terms. The other three long t…	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/26 06:48 PM
22	I can’t tell if my belief that “warmth/showing interest = unattractive” is true or just something red pill content installed in me — and now I second-guess every warm thing I say The honest answer is that YMMV, however most healthy relationships want a warm, responsive and open partnership. Currently my fiancé asks me to marry him about 3x a day and I could not be more smitten, but then again I ask him just as often. The entire reason I asked him out was because throughout our initial friendship he was consistently trustworthy, reliable, and empathetic. So. I guess what it comes down to is what do you want your partner to value? Currently by being a cold fish you are sel…	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/26 08:41 AM
3	Red pill cooked me, alot The idea that you got into redpill at tbe start of the movement is ridiculous, before it was openly hateful towards women even more so. I'm in my 30s and it was quite a thing already when I was finishing highschool - though it was somewhat still branching off of general InCel and MGTOW shit. You were oblivious and likely being actively manipulated - something that manosphere spaces have been doing since the rise of the internet, but make no mistake that the indoctrination and manipulation of mal…	/r/ExRedPill	30/07/26 01:34 AM
6	Why is it redpill guys tend to have more hookups or more causal sex partners ? If you are looking for just sex, you are explicitly not looking for someone who will catch feelings or vice versa.	/r/ExRedPill	19/03/26 02:52 AM
0	What do you think about TikTok's relationship standards? What do you think about the idea that these standards should be respected? The content you consume, and espcially the content that upsets you if you engage with it at all, is the content you are going to be pushed though TikTok's algorithm. It's all about maximizing your personal consumption of said content. As a result, you aren't citing 'TikTok's Relationship Standards', you're citing the relationship standards TikTok presents to you because that's what you engauge with. With that said, it should be noted that there are two huge biases here outside of your own: 1) Pe…	/r/ExRedPill	27/01/26 11:40 PM
14	What main reason why women divorce ? Overburdened is an incredible understatement. It can be doing her half of a relationship for a woman who has agreed to a traditional arrangement. However, that traditional arrangement also involves the man providing all the household cash and working long fucking hours for it. Most modern relationship have a close to egalitarian default to income, with men earning a bit more in general, while women still do the bulk of the domestic labor. Essentially the men are doing 48 hour weeks when househol…	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/25 01:27 AM
15	What main reason why women divorce ? Every person I have talked to who has had parents "stay together for their kids" has wished their parents divorced. Meanwhile, the people I have talked to with divorced parents are kinda split. Most commen sentiment is "the divorce was the right move but the trying to punish eachother durring the divorce fucked everything up for everyone involved". Anecdotal, but that's what I got.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/25 01:23 AM
7	Red-Pill Leaning Guy Looking for Honest Discussion 1) Online dating made the survival bias involved in dating much more apperent and inescapable in dating for all genders. That is to say that dating apps are filled with people looking for new partners, and as a result, people who are good at long term relationships (get in one and stay there) are only on dating apps for a very short amount of time. Since you are a man looking for women, this seems heavily biased in women's favor, but this is very much an effect experienced by everyone. Admittedl…	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/25 08:03 PM
2	How does a guy navigate being short(er) in todays dating world? That's exactly my point, though, that my evaluation of "hot" isn't really related to height at all. Where we're at it, I think 6/10 are overweight, too, with both of the two you asked about being properly fat and one of them having pretty bad acne. None of them have fantastic jobs, either, they're literally just interesting and kind people. Admittedly one of the guys towards the bottom of my list is almost 7' tall though. Honestly it's probably his worst feature, like the dude can't stand in my …	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/25 07:22 AM
3	I don't understand how people are attracted to personality Gotcha! That would make a lot of sense, based on what you've said. Nothing wrong with that, IMO. I mean, I know a lot of autistic people and probably am one myself. Plus one of my longest friendships is with a girl with diagnosed ASPD. She definitely struggles with it and can be a bit hurtful, but end of day, she and I both like to go out to the same restaurants and talk about the same podcasts, so it's a sustainable friendship. She has said in the past that "it's weird I've stayed friends with …	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/25 05:51 PM
3	How does a guy navigate being short(er) in todays dating world? I'm not going to lie... I am maybe just a little bit disappointed that you and your husband don't sleep in a queen-sized coffin together. That would be funny as hell. Reminds me of this episode of Kinf of the Hill. Also Ayeeee good to meet you! Me and my partner are also into alt culture, too. It actually really surprised him becuase a reoccurring theme of my life is that I apperently seem "mousey" and "conventional" at first. I don't exactly know what that means, tbh, but it makes enough sense …	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/25 04:38 PM
6	I don't understand how people are attracted to personality Hi. So I think most people have commented on the bulk of topics I would here, but I'm going to give you my thoughts as well: See, at first I was reading your post, and I was like "Oh, this guy is just aromantic. That's got to be it, right?" But then I got to your comment about only ever liking one other person, your cousin, and... Well. That's really atypical. Don't you have friends? Folks you play video games with becuase they're fun? A coworker you shoot the shit with while taking your lunch b…	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/25 03:52 PM
29	How does a guy navigate being short(er) in todays dating world? Being short is going to eliminate a small but surprisingly vocal minority of women from your potential dating pool. I wouldn't worry about them, they're generally not that fabulous a partner to begin with. Trust me king, you can do better. Something to note is that height, dick size, and finances are 'easy targets' for mean people trying to chip away at a man's self confidence. The fact that it's so culturally accepted as a stereotypical trait that determines attractiveness contributes to this l…	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/25 10:22 PM