Ocean-diver Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriage What is an “eligible man”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 01:16 AM
–	The easy fix/s I have a golf buddy (mid-30s), decent looking, who owns a place in a gated community. Beautiful home. Nice cars, makes trips to Europe for golf outings, etc. He has more net worth than I could ever hope to have in 20 lifetimes. This guy is totally dateless. Hell he might be on reddit tonight I don’t know. Same problems as the guys complain about here. Lack of access to potential partners. It ABSOLUTELY cracks me up that the waitresses that serve him steak and lobster at the club are going home t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 12:39 AM
1	Q4A What partner would you prefer to marry Exactly. They wouldn’t even make it past getting a phone number.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 10:29 PM
–	In the end, all men want is to feel needed. How do we help men cultivate a new purpose? They aren't needed as protectors because we have a law enforcement system, and people are generally less violent these days. They aren't needed as conquerors or soldiers because there are almost no wars to fight in or new lands to conquer. These are most delusional statements I’ve read on this sub in a while. Take a look around a police station sometime. Do you see men? Take a look around the world on military bases? Do you see men? What a first world, armchair sipping my latte in Starbucks styl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 08:25 PM
2	Mating Crisis: What has actually happened? Society needs to act quickly. If you don’t think America’s enemies aren’t watching the men of this nation lose their sense of meaning in modern society you would be mistaken. They would love for American men to feel powerless, and useless because those men aren’t likely to defend the nation. American women should never celebrate the defeat of American men. Freedom was not free, it was built.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 07:20 PM
2	Women constantly assert that men have inflated self images, yet it is abundantly clear that most men are desperate and have zero standards. Women, on the other hand, consistently feel entitled to men way out of their league and think they are models when they are completely average looking. but the amount of 40-something women I keep meeting who are actually unattractive at this point (at least to men under 40) who keep demanding a "younger hotter guy" who would actually generally be attracted to me or my good friends my age is just unreal. I’m a guy trying to date these 40+ year old women because they are my age. I’m financially stable, emotionally available, and I have no kids. And I think you are right, I’m too old for them now. I’ve had absolutely no success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 04:18 AM
–	If you are social, go out, APPROACH women, stop being shy and quiet then you have no arguments for not getting laid. what are you looking for? Context: I’m in a city of 1 million people. single women within 5 years of my age interested in a long term relationship. interest in outdoor activities, events, and eventually travel. I have no interest in hookups or anything casual. when was the last time you asked someone out? I asked a woman out in 2021. Turns out she had an FWB and I want monogamy. Women simply don’t show any interest. I belong to 3 meetup groups and 2 dating sites and the women I talk to show al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 02:45 AM
–	If you are social, go out, APPROACH women, stop being shy and quiet then you have no arguments for not getting laid. Single male here. Average looking, financially successful, dress well, good with conversation, and dateless. Ask Me Anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 01:35 AM
16	Q4M: an enthusiastic 3 or a starfish 10? Are the lights off or on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 04:03 PM
2	Girls aren't lying about their preferences, they just don't know guys can improve I really do want someone who is attentive, kind, and brings me on actual dates. Attractive men with these qualities (plus loyalty) are already married. Women need to either choose to accept a lack of relationship qualities or accept a lack of attractiveness qualities (face, weight, height, income, etc) I want to be pursued and wooed, but men don't do that anymore. Not “men”, but rather, “men I want”. Plenty of “men” out there would love to have a date to spoil and treat like a queen but they n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/23 03:53 PM
–	What standards are TOO high? As a man I would equate the traditional OLD experience with trying to have a meaningful conversation with a woman while standing in the middle of a football stadium full of horny guys. Almost impossible. As a man you learn very quickly you won’t be overshooting successfully. You are lucky to find a looks-match who gives you an attention span of more than a few minutes. But men don’t waste much time trying. Attractive women ignore, the guy moves on. But when women overshoot? They often end up in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 12:35 AM
–	What standards are TOO high? I think young women (25-30) looking for an LTR spend way too much time and emotional capital on men above their looks-match level. Dating apps are a candy store to them at that age and sex comes easy but rarely do I see a high value male settle long term for less than his own looks-match. This results in women chasing a fantasy and missing a lot of opportunities for happiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 11:08 PM
5	“ I would have never went out with him if I did not meet him in person and saw his profile online”. “all I can see are how they look, which probably isn't how they really look, and some random stats that it's hard to care about. “ Ummm…later in this thread you say you think men who aren’t authentic online are insecure men not worth knowing…. So…which version is your authentic self?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 05:39 PM