OceanFlex Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Female manager demanded I stop sending her "old white men" to interview If her/team is productive for its size, and you're willing to negotiate, offering to add an internship position to her team if she hires a qualified candidate for the existing vacancy might be worth considering. What she's doing is still extremely annoying and illegal, and interns are never productive, but having an interns can help aquire junior level talent in the future (either keeping the intern on, or possibly hiring their friends).	/r/MensRights	17/03/21 12:39 AM
-23	Wife stabs husband after seeing her younger self in old photos, thought he was cheating No, that's not literally what he said. He literally said "I think it's very bad form to offer it up with no other information as an excuse for a woman's actions." Which is the opposite thing.	/r/MensRights	25/01/21 01:16 AM
1	Doors are oppressive What if I told you I hate when people hold the door open for me, because then I have to use my voice to thank them. I still hold the door open for everyone myself though, because I assume nobody else is as petty as I am.	/r/MensRights	04/10/20 01:32 AM
5	Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cut It would be unethical to not disclose alternative procedures, absolutely. It would be antithetical to evidence to ignore studies of all procedures and their outcomes, still with you. But you can't say with certainty that not a single case ever would require amputation, or be preferable to the patient compared to some alternative. You're not every man's doctor, nor are you every man. Simply declaring that there are "no medical reasons under any circumstances" for it doesn't make that true. If you…	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 01:11 AM
5	Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cut You've entirely missed the point. Adult circumcision is rare, but is done for medical reasons. Scarring or other skin deformities can tighten the foreskin such that infections occur (since it's too difficult to clean when too tight). Hence, medical reason.	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 12:41 AM
5	Respect should be given according to a person's behaviour not gender. No, were not cherry picking one definition. We're using both, and using whichever one fits the context best. It's pretty common for words to have more than one definition, and for both to be actively used. Sometimes by different cultures (European vs American, boomer vs gen Z, etc), bit not always. And sometimes, both definitions can apply, like "respect wildlife" or "respect firearms", you can mean "admire nature" and/or "don't destroy nature". You can mean "guns are awesome" and "guns are dang…	/r/MensRights	16/05/20 01:42 AM
0	Respect should be given according to a person's behaviour not gender. That's only the first definition. Respect Noun due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others. Meaning, don't infringe on their rights, don't trample on their wishes or feelings. I don't admire people for existing, but it would be rude, immoral or even illegal to disrespect them.	/r/MensRights	16/05/20 01:33 AM
28	Flex Seal Supports Single dads Something like flex-seal, you'd prefer to have a box on-hand in case you do need it, instead of needing to take a trip to the store.	/r/MensRights	12/05/20 01:21 AM
1	Why are men always expected to prioritise women's comforts over theirs. Another clear example of people wanting respect but being show only respect.	/r/MensRights	20/01/20 03:27 AM
2	Found this gross sign at a shop yesterday, I always just imagine the backlash if the genders were reversed Benefit of the doubt, plus I assume people have my motivations, cause that's the easiest guess to make.	/r/MensRights	02/01/20 05:54 PM
1	Feminists who demanded that girls be allowed to participate in Boy Scouts now starting “all girls” Cub Scout packs. Insanity! I'm pretty sure most packs have very little diversity, since usually most everyone in them belong to the same school or religious center, because that's what sponsors the unit. I don't see anything new here. Plus, I'm pretty sure that's exactly what national intended for cub scouts, and probably boy scouts. I dont think anything will get co-ed until council events, or 16+.	/r/MensRights	12/10/18 02:30 AM
1	Feminists who demanded that girls be allowed to participate in Boy Scouts now starting “all girls” Cub Scout packs. Insanity! That must have been either decades ago, or your troop leadership were being jerks. National and (my local) council care that a scout is reverent, not that they're Catholic.	/r/MensRights	12/10/18 02:25 AM
1	England moving to only jail women for serious crimes. I'm all for this, but I hope they'll apply it to me too	/r/MensRights	06/07/18 02:50 AM
0	The New York Times thinks that all boys want to (and I quote) ‘murder their fathers and sleep with their mothers.’ Opinion means it's not the New York Times, it's just some random person who thinks that.	/r/MensRights	02/05/18 10:36 PM
4	Good news men, we can't experience trauma. Maybe that's why our gender is the one with power? According to this talk by Lisa Feldman Barrett, emotions aren't universal. They're built from each person's past experiences. They're a desperate attempt to explain why we feel how we do. They're absolutely real, yes, but it can be impossible to interpret someone else's, or even one's own emotions. That might be why some of these "feminists" believe men are emotionless, they don't see in us a mirror of their emotional reaction. When they see our entirely unique, custom built emotional reaction t…	/r/MensRights	25/01/18 12:55 AM
7	Results of a search on how many boys are circumcised. First result is about how it affects women...WTF? I only know it's an important city in the middle East because I play EU4	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 08:56 PM
37	Results of a search on how many boys are circumcised. First result is about how it affects women...WTF? I only know it's an important city in the middle East because I play EU4	/r/MensRights	13/10/17 08:55 PM
11	Suicide rate for teen girls hits 40 year high Holy shit, it's at -1 jpg level	/r/MensRights	17/09/17 08:52 PM
18	Man serves 4 YEARS in prison for a fake rape accusation until it's discovered the woman lied. He gets $90,000 as a "compensation", she gets a 2 month weekend service-only sentence. YouTube bumps up visibility when people vote in either direction.	/r/MensRights	15/05/17 04:43 AM
10	TIL mods delete post about a scientific study that shows male victims of domestic violence are more likely to be arrested than the ones beating them. • /r/undelete Yeah, but officers in states with "Predominant Aggressor" laws only need their assessment of the situation as evidence to arrest for Domestic Disturbance calls that turn into alleged mutual domestic abuse/violence calls. That means they take statements form all parties, assess injuries (defencive vs offencive, and severity), potential to cause future harm (including weight and height), reletive expression of fear or control, and any threats made. I assume most of the time, the potential to do ha…	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 06:22 AM
7	TIL mods delete post about a scientific study that shows male victims of domestic violence are more likely to be arrested than the ones beating them. • /r/undelete I've updated my post with references to Alabama and Wisonsin state laws, as they were the first and last in the list posted by /u/futureruins. See Alabama's law or Wisconsin's law on the topic of Predominant Aggressor.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 06:04 AM
5	TIL mods delete post about a scientific study that shows male victims of domestic violence are more likely to be arrested than the ones beating them. • /r/undelete OH! "TIL mods" means "the mods of TIL". That makes much more sense.	/r/MensRights	10/02/17 04:47 AM
-20	TIL mods delete post about a scientific study that shows male victims of domestic violence are more likely to be arrested than the ones beating them. • /r/undelete Being screamed at doesn't mean one is not a domestic abuser. Being in jail doesn't mean one is convicted or charged.	/r/MensRights	09/02/17 11:41 PM
33	TIL mods delete post about a scientific study that shows male victims of domestic violence are more likely to be arrested than the ones beating them. • /r/undelete Predominant Aggressor laws are generally mandate that a police officer makes an arrest if they believe that domestic abuse would continue. They also allow the officer to judge which party seems more fearful or controlling, which party is making more threats, which party is capable of doing greater harm to the other party (including height, weight, etc), and which party has more defencive wounds or more offencive wounds. See Alabama's law or Wisconsin's law on the topic. These things mean that an…	/r/MensRights	09/02/17 11:38 PM