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| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Oh you poor miserable little short guy. I turn heads where ever I go but I understand since you only get goblinas to pay attention to you, you are full of hatred towards women. And you must have no life to put all that effort into typing all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Dating apps are hardly a representation of female behavior as most women drop off of the apps while men continue to stay on them. And if you think the fact that women bond thru sex is simply some Victorian whatever nonsense, then you are denying biology. And you very clearly despise women as you are telling only a one sided story. How about find the stats of what percentage of men simply dump women after sex? That includes average men also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?I don't even understand why you are explaining me all this, I stopped reading half way thru. The fairy tale description of that victorian whatever nonsense above about women was your assumption. I didn't even say anything indicating any of that. My only stance in this is that sex is emotional for women overall. We bond thru sex, we are wired differently and cannot separate sex and feelings the way men do. There are exceptions of course, but this is female biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?"Men like you" is a real thing. Of course there wonderful, honest, respectful men and I have plenty of them in my friend circle. They simply don't fall into the "men like you" category. "Men like you" is not equal to all men. None of your discourse has any logic and is nothing but twisting words, once again. Yes, goodbye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 11:13 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?You are quite delusional and definitely projecting. With men like you, women have no choice but to be firm and assertive because all you do is try to walk all over women with your oppressive manners. Your very initial sarcastic and misogynistic comment started this convo. I just asked if you are on drugs because you attempted to twist my words indicating a hint of belittling a woman's thoughts. After my question, you literally insulted. You are the bull. End of story. Men like you can't even com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:33 AM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Word "manly" is quite not fitting describing a girl that is thin & girly like me. Sure about your wife, I can only feel sorry for her. From your post description it's clear you are a bully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:27 AM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?It's OK, I get it. Those 5'6 guys are below my eye level as a tall girl so I typically don't even see them in public. I understand your hatred and resentment. They are waiting for you on that r/short subreddit thou. Enjoy your $2 million dollar house until your wife takes it from you one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?What insult? I'm not insulted. I got better things to do at my silicon valley job now, you can go back to the hole you crawled out of. Bye now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?How old are you? You clearly have a lot to learn about women. The only thing u got right is that my celibacy is of course voluntary and what you consider top 1% of men by lookd is certainly not what interests me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Projecting your insecurities onto others I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?What kind of nonsense is this? Do you not consider age in this equation? I drove 10hrs to get a lover back in the day too. I never stated women don't like sex. I'm 40s now and I'm only interested in genuine connections, anything otherwise is just empty. Go back to your ignorant life now. And you clearly know nothing about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:02 PM |
| -4 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyYes but most us women don't want just sex! We want feelings and commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Is plastic surgery an example of toxic femininity killing women?Botox won't kill people unless you breathe it in. It is a toxin that binds to the proteins that are responsible for muscle contraction so it only freezes the muscle it is injected to. It won't move around in your body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?The abuser typically love bombs them, puts a fake persona and picks those that are vulnerable and easy to manipulate to begin with. Isn't this pretty obvious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:15 AM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?People stay in abusive relationships because of trauma bonding, helplessness, low esteem, financial reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:23 PM |
| – | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?I barely look at FB, I don't have Twitter or tiktok but I use IG actively with the intention to document my travels and fun times for my family and friends that are 7000 miles away to follow, and also for myself to pull up and look at memories. It's a great tool to stay in touch with people. I never accept friend requests from people I don't know. So no, not everyone uses those apps for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 02:21 AM |
| – | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Are you on drugs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 02:17 AM |
| 9 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Exactly that! We are dropping out of the apps. I can't even look at them anymore, all I feel is disgust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 01:28 PM |
| 8 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Because us women drop out of the dating game and choose to remain single instead of being mistreated, lied to, cheated on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Does tattoos increase men SMV to high quality girls?Agreed, I find them trashy. My friend circle consists of descent looking people with higher education and top tech jobs and literally none of us have tattoos (both F and M). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:28 AM |
| 0 | The Stat "80% of Women Match with 20% of Men" isn't because of female hypergamy. It's because of the skewed gender ratio.That! They'll sleep with us when the opportunity is presented and ghost afterwards because they simply don't care. And no, it's not just the top 5% men, I've seen somewhat average guys with average careers and are even shorter than the girl do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | The Stat "80% of Women Match with 20% of Men" isn't because of female hypergamy. It's because of the skewed gender ratio.What you are saying is the truth on top of the facts OP is presenting. I'm a lust driven woman that literally lives for romance, yet even I'm not on the apps at the moment and am choosing to remain single because I can't stand the outcome everytime I get back on them. It is a loosing game for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?I would date a guy that makes less money. In fact I have a tech job and some of the guys I was willing to give a chance to, very likely made less than me. Unemployed; that depends. If it's someone that is transitioning to a another career field perhaps going to school and clearly has a potential, or is in between jobs, again having a useful skillset, then I would date him. But if unemployed with no skillset and no ambitions, we'd absolutely not be compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allIm single. I could have a boyfriend as of tonight but it won't be the one I want to keep, so I will remain single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:51 PM |
| 3 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractiveI was at a birthday party the other day and literally every girl (there was 5 other girls) was coupled up and all their boyfriends were descent guys but not your typical hot guy by conventional means. Everyone was from the tech field so both the girls and the guys were engineers and I'd say majority were average looking. Girls were average looking too but with the dresses and make up they looked pretty. Most of the boyfriends were actually the nerdy type but really descent guys with good persona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?I never really had a hoe phase but the only time I had a few ONS here and there was to forget someone. I soon realized it only made me feel more empty so I don't seek it anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?I love beautiful men. I truly truly truly wish men did the same things women do to enhance their looks. Skin care, plastic surgery, doing their hair, even some make up; I would absolutely love it!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Most guys hate plastic surgery and make up on women. Most guys would never get plastic surgery and do makeup to impress or compete with other guys. So why do women do it for other women?Plastic surgery is a gift from the heavens!! When it's done correctly it looks amazing. I'm very sorry for this woman, that's a rare case but sadly there are always such risks. It's not easy seeing yourself age. Typically at around age 40 is when it really hits you and you start seeing the sagging jowls and the droopy eyelids. Some days you don't see the face you are familiar with in the mirror anymore and the reality hits you. Nowadays, a lot of women get facelifts starting in their 40s unlike … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 01:55 PM |
| -6 | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?Never heard of such a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 05:58 AM |
| – | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?Obviously all the men that were super nice and sweet to me until I slept with them and coldbloodedly dumped me afterwards. What else did you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 05:56 AM |
| – | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?Because women are dating each other and are actually naturally caring creatures and unlike most men can form committed relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating?I think those are the perfect picks. I'm literally looking for exactly that plus social/educational compatability. Men that are deemed hot are never attractive to me actually. They are usually too egotistical anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?Sadly because of our experiences. Everytime I trust a guy to get intimate, soon after I realize they just played me to get into my pants. They change immediately after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?I never said "too dumb". I said too naive. Your provocation will not work. I said goodbye already mr. old man that is looking for excuses to prey on young woman. Blocking your miserable sorry ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?It is you that suggested what other decisions such as voting or driving should not be made by younger people. My argument is for romantic relationships as manipulation can play a big factor in these cases for people to make life altering choices. I'm trying to explain it is likely many younger women get manipulated by older men into relationships where there is quite a power imbalance and the men become controlling. Many women find themselves in abusive situations where they even experience dome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?You are quite an unreasonable person that absolutely doesn't care trying to understand other people's experiences. There are emotions involved in personal relationships which coupled with manipulation, could seriously clutter a person's judgement. I suggest you remove yourself from this conversation if you clearly cannot be reasonable and make completely irrelevant suggestions. Also, your judgement is very clearly biased because of your large age-gap relationship. Let's check back in 10yrs and s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?I agree with all that, people make these choices themselves. But I think a good amount of large age gap relationships are the man doing exactly all that to manipulate the woman. My case is a bit different cause there was never any extravagant dates. He took me to the beach twice in 20yrs, those were the two i remember being happy days. He was a coworker and I saw him everyday. He chased me until I caved in. Yes, he was very very smart and handsome and I basically fell for that. I barely had any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?When you are young, naive and and inexperienced, what you think is a choice you made at your free will may be a result of being manipulated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?Limerance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?At age 43 I'm still single because that guy preying on me left me with so much trauma. 10yrs was the duration of it, the following 10yrs was the aftermath where I couldn't couple up. And who hurt you so much that you are enjoying other people's pain and suffering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?You can do your best to remain youthful. Fitness, eating habits, even modern day treatments like and more; there is so much you can do. You clearly care to make it work, otherwise you wouldn't be asking these questions. Best of luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?Yep, great points! I'm my case I was very naive and inexperienced coming from a Muslim country and this guy just wondered around me, gave me so much attention that I was roped in easily. He was very very good looking at age 45 but I remember the very early days of meeting him I thought he looked old with the deep lines near his eyes. But once I fell for him (or thought so), my eyes didn't see anything else being a limerant person. I never had any kind of financial gain or ever wanted anything of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?I can only wish you the best of luck. I think age difference up to around 10yrs can have a chance. But anything beyond 15yrs would be pushing it. Mine was 19yrs difference, I was mid 20s, he was 40s when we met. After he turned 50s he started to age drastically in front of my eyes and I was blossoming into my 30s still excited about the next step in my life while he was planning retirement. We also had significant cultural differences with me being from Turkey and him being from Kentucy. It was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?There is always exceptions to everything. This depends on how wide the age difference is also. I was with a guy 19yrs older than me and things broke apart after 10 yrs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Do women see potential/future earnings in men as part of SMV?The height difference in either case and the money made now versus the potential for the future would mean nothing to me. Whichever one of these two guys vibe better with me and can form a connection, is the one I'd go for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 05:18 AM |
| 6 | Do most age gap relationships form deliberately because of the age gap?They are doomed to fail. Anyone that is in an age gap relationship and thinks they are happy, should be aware their happiness; despite possibly being true for the moment, is not going to last. The age gap in these relationships is actually the defining factor of why these people choose each other. The younger woman will likely fall for the financial security and the maturity of the older man, and the man will fall for the youth and beauty of the younger woman. Now let's fast forward 10-15 yrs; t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 04:16 AM |
| 2 | The best option for men who aren't top tier for casual sex are late 30's to early 40's womenIntellectual, overall behaviour, being past the playing phase and understanding the value of the chance they are given. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 06:46 AM |
| 1 | The best option for men who aren't top tier for casual sex are late 30's to early 40's womenOh geeez. As a 43yr old woman, I'm not interested in any of that. But then I'm not a "rebounding divorcee". I don't even find younger guys attractive. Youngest I'd go is 40 and a lot of those are even not mature enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Is there truly someone for everyone?Well, there are the poly's and the same sex people too so... But I'm probably remaining single with my luck... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | All women cheat?I never ever cheated and never would. And yes, I must be attractive as there is always men trying to pursue me but I only pursue 1 guy at a time. Can't think of any otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:39 AM |
| – | Women are way more forgiving of physical appearance than menExactly! Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:30 PM |
| – | Women are way more forgiving of physical appearance than menI know! Everyone I loved, I loved so hard. They all looked beautiful to me, until I saw the ugliness deep in their heartless souls.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:00 PM |
| – | Women are way more forgiving of physical appearance than menYes! My friends always tell me "what do you find in this guy, you deserve so much better!!"; literally to all my choices. But they always look so beautiful to me, I don't understand lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesThey are selfish and just want sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesI insist on paying for my part if I dont wanna see the guy again, not the whole thing. How is that related, seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:16 PM |
| – | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesCause I'm tired of heartbreak after another. I'm demisexual also so attraction doesn't come easy for me. Thank you for the kind words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 07:57 AM |
| – | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesSame here. I only let them pay when they really insist. I'm usually the one that first says let's split and 80% of the time they say ok. Occasionally there is a guy they absolutely won't let me and I don't fight it, unless it's someone I'm really not interested in seeing again, then I actually insist to split. I don't wanna owe anyone anything, it actually really makes me feel uncomfortable. But then, I don't go out on dates anymore and just buy whatever the hell I want for myself lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesOh honey, here they'll sleep with you, even take you multiple times in one night and never ever text again. It's really sickening to me. I'm at a point I can't even go out on any dates anymore, I have 0 trust left. Romance is truly truly dead here. I seriously consider moving to Europe sometimes.. Cherish what you have, it's so hard finding it here in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:44 AM |
| – | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesI'm Turkish living in the US and I seriously can't make friends with American women! They are so entitled. I actually get uncomfortable when the guy tries to pick the tab on a first date and more. Maybe after commitment I'd be more comfortable because I know I'll be showering him with gifts anyway. American culture overall is pretty messed up and everyone is so selfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many women expect us to understand women during their mood swings when they have their periods? Aren’t they admitting upfront that they are more emotional due to their biology?Well I'm about to have mine and also weening out from an NDRI. Normally I'm a very calm and patient person but right now, seriously I can beat the shit out of you. So maybe just stay away because it's this demon that takes over our system for a few days. Asides from the psychological aspect, it is also very painful. It's this continuous medium to high grade ache by our gut. If you can't be nice and understanding, just give us chocolate and stay away! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Do women find lottery winners attractive?If he is not someone I'd normally be interested in with a normal income, winning the lottery will not change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menI had insecurities building relating to aging at age 43 which hit me after the last guy who looked breathtakingly beautiful to me; so I didn't even blink for a second and went to see a surgeon and had a little lift done and boom; I see my younger self in the mirror everyday again now. It feels amazing!. And it's that guy's loss that he never tried seeing me again. Turned out he was more excited about banging someone new whom he dumped after 1 night also. And I'm much better off without these kin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 05:03 AM |
| 7 | Why are women often bothered by male attention, but men absolutely love female attention?Trust me, once you go thru domestic violence, your true reason is really the trauma. And if happened to a girl like me, it can happen to anyone. We are continually seen as prey by predators and there is far too many of them out there. Even if a guy's goal is not violence, there are far too many guys that want just a fuck and nothing else and will love bomb you to get what they want only to dump you and it can really break your heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:28 AM |
| – | Men don't care as much about women intelligence in dating, but they do apprecitate itReading this guy's bla bla literally hurt my brain. Intelligent women probably avoid him so he has no idea how they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Would you consider dating a man with a working class / blue collar job ?I dated blue collared men. I have couple degrees, two of which in engineering fields so as a female engineer, it was common to be surrounded by technicians and sometimes romance happens. It never worked thou past the bedroom. There was always major differences between how we processed thoughts and saw the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?Because for most us women, attraction is more related to emotional connection. I have highly desirable, what would be perceived as attractive male friends, and they are good guys that are good to me but I can't help it that I don't feel anything for them. It's never easy describing the reasons why. If it's not there, it's not there. On the other hand, when it's there, it can happen with the most unlikely person that may not even necessarily be perceived attractive physically. It's a vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 07:21 PM |
| – | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?A pilot, of course. Typical. I avoid your kind. I have countless pilots hit on me back in my aviation career, majority were married. You entitled, misogynistic person; you are so used to seeing flight attendants serve you, you think all women should do the same. You couldn't even come anywhere near me in real life. Just that comment you just made validated how selfish of a person you are. Deep inside you are worthless and the little child in you actually knows it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:51 AM |
| – | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?You are a complete idiot and clearly have comprehension issues. Try to see the bigger picture from a cultural level, not just your tiny little life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?B. End of story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 10:53 PM |
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