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| 1 | Divorced Dad here. Need dating advice.Basic.. enjoy the power dynamic. Dont get remarried. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Anybody find a good AI tool (more specialized than Chat) for intensive ex-wife management? (High conflict, parental alienation, etc…)Try this app. A great AI tool that will help create a filter to lower your stress Our Family Wizard | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/26 03:10 AM |
| 6 | Ex wife want to move on with another guyCheating? Shes your exwife | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/26 12:26 AM |
| -6 | Help pleaseSuggest to her to each take a twin, and switch them every month. While this is a bad idea in so many ways, it will effectively make her head spin. Goal achieved to make her think deep and realize that her decision is not that easy.. and is way more complex. This puts you at an advantage, imo | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Stay away from alcoholI would need the opposite rule. Only drink alone. Im around friends in most of my waking hours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Stay away from alcoholThis! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you find shit to do?So were you unhappy before is the point of my question. You can still golf and hang with your kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you find shit to do?I agree with you. I just wanted to point out a commom misconception around what an introvert is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 03:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you find shit to do?Being an introvert doesnt mean you cant talk to people. Being an introvert means where to you get your energy from, being around others or time alone. The introverted social characteristic is that people who are introverts may get exhausted from social gatherings and favor or gravitate to being alone. Extroverts will gravitate to socialize. Being home alone will be exhausting and they thirst connection from others. Personality can be a spectrum, just like anything else. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you find shit to do?The only thing you did before is spend time with your wife? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Wife is thinking of leaving. How do I avoid alimony?Listen to this guy! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/26 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet women - Hot YogaI too am almost 57. Same club! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/26 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Where to meet women - Hot YogaAll the gfs and exwife have been full and natural, ive always been curious how fake is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/26 12:50 AM |
| 2 | I need advice on protecting myself from false accusationsTime to start teaching the seniors how to dance. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/26 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Ex wife invited me to Christmas day activities.All's fair in love and war. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/25 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Ex wife invited me to Christmas day activities.Hey now.. if someone is in this sub, they are prob not fans or friends with their xwives | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/25 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Ex wife invited me to Christmas day activities.Bring your girlfriend, and if you dont have one, get an escort. Make things fun and awkward! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/25 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Women Silently Emotionally Disconnecting and Checking Out Is CowardlyCatch 22. Either silent checkout or blindside if they take action | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/25 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Divorced, childfree men with a vasectomy: How has the "snip" changed your post-divorce dating life?I may have to see what my hs girlfriend is up to and what assets she has now | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/25 05:32 PM |
| -1 | Should I Do It?You made a vow. Go to couples therapy. Put in the work. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/25 02:41 PM |
| 2 | The New Divorce Surge: Why 2025 Will Be the Year of Strategic DivorceWhat is it that ruins a woman for you about being married? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/25 06:31 AM |
| 1 | The New Divorce Surge: Why 2025 Will Be the Year of Strategic DivorceImo its just a piece of paper. Im not sure your age, but younger adults have high body counts compared to when i was younger (app culture) some college body counts are averaging in the 50+ now days. Having a divorcee could cut down the number of previous partners if that is something that bothers you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/25 04:56 AM |
| 4 | The New Divorce Surge: Why 2025 Will Be the Year of Strategic DivorceIm a glass half full guy... this marks new women entering the dating pool! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/25 10:53 PM |
| 8 | Google Trends Shows a Massive Rise in “Divorce Lawyer” Searches. What’s Going On?Oh good.. unpopular opinion, but i dont mind searching for a divorced rich woman to supplement losses from my divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/25 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Any last minute advice, Texas default divorce. 15 hours to goMaybe she is under 18? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Feeling foggy after choices I made this weekhttps://open.spotify.com/playlist/6UvwdWmFH58cFaGHwLosAZ?si=ZcDmw21KQAOUkWfeaG9IwA | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/25 04:34 PM |
| 4 | WwydBecome best friends with the dude.. she will surely leave him then | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/25 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Nuclear bullshit.Time to move on an date a younger woman. Double down and be happy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/25 12:24 AM |
| 4 | Here we go again. Divorce number 3Sounds like you are a talent scout! Keep it going. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/25 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Here we go again. Divorce number 3Oh come on.. find the craziest one of them all. Yolo! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/25 04:52 AM |
| 8 | Here we go again. Divorce number 3Keep your head up.. get married again! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/25 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Struggling today to let go. Could use some words of advice.You have a quarter century until you are my age, and i can guarantee there are tons of babes in your future. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/25 08:11 PM |
| 10 | Want to know how the majority of women, at least on Reddit, think about us?Sounds like all these women married the smart men who had prenups, and are bitter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Getting a roommate after divorce?No brainer. Do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/25 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Seeking stories of couples who are on indefinite separation for the sole purpose of not getting divorced. How did you pursue this? How does it work? Please read body text.Oddly you meet more woman that are interested in you when you are married, but as divorced they take pause. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/25 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Be careful of religion poachingBut preaching on Reddit is much easier than riding around strange cities on mountain bikes with your partner Bryce, knocking on doors. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else experienced this sudden 180 from breadcrumbing to intense sex + emotional whiplash?She probably finally broke it off with the other men she was dating, or they dumped her | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Picked up a college girl, as a late 40s guyI've been trying to popularize "the late 1900s" as much as possible!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 04:17 PM |
| 9 | Picked up a college girl, as a late 40s guyexactly. it's only a flex in your late 50s | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Was served today, I am fumingLol, i say this all the time to my therapist friend to get under his skin. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/25 05:25 AM |
| 2 | My Wife is Emotionally DetachedKeep going with the kids. Is now her sole purpose. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 04:13 AM |
| 15 | Have you had any luck meeting big booty latinas in your post-divorce life? What helped you succeed?I have avoided them. I divorced a big booty Latina. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 10:43 PM |
| 12 | Moving - was there anything you got for your new place to “soften the blow”?A new girlfriend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/25 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Saw this nice house and got annoyedNew partner, new second income. Problem solved. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Seperated, soon to be ex wife is pregnant with another mans child. How to proceed in court so I don't have to pay child support or spousal support?Draw up a MSA, lawyer check, noterize, submit to court in the process | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/25 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Seperated, soon to be ex wife is pregnant with another mans child. How to proceed in court so I don't have to pay child support or spousal support?Ok.. you are completely fine.. your money is yours https://selfhelp.courts.ca.gov/divorce-california/summary-dissolution/qualifications | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/25 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Seperated, soon to be ex wife is pregnant with another mans child. How to proceed in court so I don't have to pay child support or spousal support?How many years have you been married? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/25 03:13 AM |
| -1 | Unable to Move on- Ready to DieTry visiting Thailand. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/25 11:21 AM |
| 3 | I’m worried I’ll never have kids now…Dont worry.. there are millions of young women that want kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/25 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Wife stole my free play and is under investigation from Casino and local policegotcha.. just wondering, i've never heard "access to money" on players cards. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Wife stole my free play and is under investigation from Casino and local policeAren't you just getting more benefit points on your players card? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/25 11:42 PM |
| 5 | 20 year marriage = magic number for divorce?True. at 20 years money is good, it's time to live better or the money is a struggle, it's time to live better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Wife wont move out of the family home that I own.Get a new girlfriend and have her visit often and overnight | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/25 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Should I block her number after all this is done?You should create a hotline and a joint credit card to make transfer of money less stressful. Definitely stay friends; you never know, it's a great opportunity if you ever get back together. /s | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/25 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Should I ask for alimonyExactly! The longer you dont get alimony or retirement, you are missing out on compounding interest. If for some opportunity you could get more cash than what retirement cut is worth, i would go for that.. stock market is down ... you may be able to buy stocks with the cash and get more value. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/25 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Question for Women in this subWho knows.. i think its mostly just torchuring his ex, so that they miss the deadline, and have to pay the lawyer and service more money and effort. (His explanation, even says he would prevail in court) rent goes up, she comes after him. He has a prenup that protected his assets, but exwife support aka child support cant be avoided. Its not a criminal trial. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/25 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Question for Women in this subI work next to a playground and know fellow divorced friends with kids and brutal custody battles. (I had to help a good friend out this week ducking being served papers by the sheriff in efforts to drag him back to court to squeeze more money from him) I can say that walking by that playground, makes me happy I dont have kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/25 12:31 PM |
| 17 | I married a single mom. Did I screw up?This is the literal text version of all the stereotype single mom memes i see all over the internet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/25 06:34 AM |
| 7 | Gentlemen, I'm filing tomorrow. Wish me luck.Exactly.. get the MSA ( Marriage settlement agreement ) drafted, and lawyer reviewed for notary and get her to sign asap!! have your plan B carrot ready, in case she waffles.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/25 01:54 AM |
| 6 | Gentlemen, I'm filing tomorrow. Wish me luck.be sure you hire an escort/stripper to serve her divorce papers. First impressions!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/25 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Divorce in TexasShe sounds like her getting the D will cloud her mind...draft up a marriage settlement agreement to leave with own personal belongings, no 5050 on the house or stuff. Get 5050 with kids and a agreed follow up arrangement 2 years out. Offer a carrot of cash or something small to get her to sign. Of course.. the MSA notorized and reviewed by an attorney to be binding and not challenged at a later date. If she wants out.. make the door out easy | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 09:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys handle the financials during a divorce?Date up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 11:20 PM |
| 6 | Keeping your last name.I live a pretty small town. It doesnt really bother me, but it was annoying when i meet new people and they know her, but ask me when they hear my last name if we are related. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Should I attend my STBXW surprise birthday party?Hire a hot escort as your date! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/24 09:37 PM |
| 3 | What’s a good passive-aggressive xmas gift for the STBX?Buy her a gift certificate for base jumping. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/24 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Spouse not paying her half of mortgage/bills.No big deal.. dont stress. Just document everything. She will be back-billed for everything in the final judgement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/24 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Wife had an affairIm in Ca... we have a no fault state too. I say blind side her and have a marital settlement agreement drawn up to expedite everything | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/24 03:41 AM |
| 17 | Wife had an affair"Play dumb for a bit, get her to confess?" NO... Texas is a no fault State.. blindside her with divorce with zero explanation. Don't bring up why. Silence. Hold your cards close and give her no clue. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/24 02:07 AM |
| 2 | No fault divorce and 50/50Im talking about pension, not alimony... but i guess when you think about it.. its money paid to her and money lost for me. same same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | No fault divorce and 50/50Im talking about an actual prenuptual that is drawn up and signed by both parties. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/24 05:50 PM |
| 5 | No fault divorce and 50/50I live in a no fault state, and was cheated on.. divorced. Now she gets a pension for life as if she had my job for the vested 5 years. All i can say is, I believe that they should make a law that requires a legal pre-nup in order to recieve a marriage license. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/24 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Those who remarried after divorce…Yup. Agreed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/24 07:42 PM |
| 7 | Those who remarried after divorce…After my divorce I got a girlfriend (and have been with her almost as long as my ex-wife) My current GF wants to get married. She has never married before. She feels like it's unfair that I am "jaded".. but honestly I haven't found any benefit to being married. We have no kids or planning on it; too old for that. She asked, what in the world would make you remarry. I said, I might if the woman was a billionaire or heiress to some fortune...but that's about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/24 05:29 PM |
| 11 | Thinking about getting married againUnless she is rich... there is zero advantage for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/24 01:49 PM |
| 2 | House vs 401KWhere i live, that rent price existed in the mid 1990s | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/24 03:44 PM |
| 2 | What do you wish you had asked for during divorce/mediation?In my case the only thing fleeced was my public retirement pension. We had a marriage settlement agreement, and there are hurdles in place that she would have to sign away her community property away for the pension, but there was one thing I did not learn until after it was all done. For me I lost 5 service years at my job. The only way I could actually buy them back was if she moved her non-member retirement money out of the public retirement system into her own retirement account. THIS is wha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever asked for the value of their spouses ring to be considered in the assets and split 50/50?Should have compared her to a car. Tell her that you have no idea that she would be worth more as a classic car, and that more often new cars will come along and be better, faster, and worth more. Cars are like women; a depreciating asset. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/24 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever asked for the value of their spouses ring to be considered in the assets and split 50/50?True. you can argue that it is not a gift, but as a "purchase for us" i know its a stretch. Most young people believe that thinking/planning about divorce means jeopardizing the relationship, hence prenups are rare for young couples without assets. Personally I believe that if marriage licenses are required for legal reasons, so should prenups be required to get that license. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/24 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone ever asked for the value of their spouses ring to be considered in the assets and split 50/50?Great suggestion to new couples. Give cheap promisary rings during the engagement and wedding, and follow up with that "expensive" and "meaningful" ring for the first anniversary. Call it "our ring" and if things fail, it becomes community property (male rings are typically cheaper) | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/24 03:36 PM |
| 11 | Who initiated the separation/divorce? You or the wife?I initiated the divorce, she initiated an affair with a total loser. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Be honest did anybody cheat at their bachelor party if so to what extent?Im just a simpleton, my sonos surround sounds pretty darn good for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/24 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Be honest did anybody cheat at their bachelor party if so to what extent?should have gone wireless.. would that be cheating? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/24 08:25 PM |
| 13 | Alimony 11,000 a month for 5 years 10,000 /month 5 yearsBuy her basejumping lessons. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/24 11:08 PM |
| 3 | What do you do with yourself?Your life is going great, you have kids, in great shape and a job. You have completed your starter wife and can now truly enjoy stuff. Meet new guys, travel, buy vacation property, hang with boys.. hire a hooker if you miss sex. Your next real relationship will be true love and foundation you have never had before. Dude you are set!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/24 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Wife gave me an insight into her angle to get more money during divorce.Time for a proper prenup for this slippery soul. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/24 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Considering divorce how bad/good can this get?Dont stress... just divorce her and marry up. Your next woman may have a job and retirement built up (and maybe half of her last man's money) | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Wife trying to come back after leaving me for affair partnerNope.. just use her for sex after you divorce.. and do not live with her.. date others | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Please kick my ass. 2.5 years since divorce, and I still feel like crap and miss her this coming Thanksgiving.Time to relocate | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Do you have to be fully divorced to post here.Its "divorce" men, not "divorced" men | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | my wife is an incurable cancerGet her base-jumping lessons for her birthday. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/23 04:31 PM |
| 4 | Woman I met said we have to be exclusive to have sexYou are still married. Sorry bro. She is right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Divorcing Wife Vocabularyupvoted. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/23 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Kevin Costner's STBXW says $248,000 in monthly child support isn't enough. Men, here's yet another shipwreck on the rocks whose only purpose now is to warn others.Women make money now too.. as a man you should only marry women who make more than you (im guessing that historically men werent "marriage material" if they made less than a woman or had no job) Things are changing, women have higher graduation rates in college.. and as women are filling roles of power so will hiring more women to hirer paying jobs... | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/23 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Kevin Costner's STBXW says $248,000 in monthly child support isn't enough. Men, here's yet another shipwreck on the rocks whose only purpose now is to warn others.how hard is it to keep a rich man happy with one woman? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/23 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Kevin Costner's STBXW says $248,000 in monthly child support isn't enough. Men, here's yet another shipwreck on the rocks whose only purpose now is to warn others.If you can bank $248,000 in child support.. its a valid reason to get married ( and divorced ) | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/23 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Still friends?Ive only seen it work when BOTH people have moved to someone new and BOTH people are happy with their new relationships | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | She’s moving onHave sex with another woman | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/23 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Divorce will be finalized today, I feel sick to my stomachTime for champagne | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | There really is no upside to marriage, is there?Depending on where you live there is benefit of perception of being more stable. Finding rental housing or jobs where you are preferred over other applicants for stability. I know first hand when i looked at house rentals when i was married. "I'm looking for me and my wife" had much more weight than live-in girlfriend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/23 08:26 PM |
| 3 | She’s on a path of destructionThis is literally a dream divorce situation.. right up until the part where you mention you share kids. ouch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Shame and deathAt least find a good home for the cats first! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | what would you do in my situation?Fight for for full custody, and be happy you have the kids.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/18 01:57 AM |
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