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Question for RedPillOdd-Fun-9557/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:26 AM
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Question for RedPillOdd-Fun-9557/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:41 PM
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When I used to work at restaurants some restaurants would require you to wear make up because it gives the impression you care about yourself Men don’t have to do that I’ve heard men say body hair on women is unhygienic ( which isn’t true) and that women who don’t keep up with their body hair don’t care about themselves Within my culture ( I’m black ) having your hair and nails done are an indicator of taking care of yourself and caring about yourself Men aren’t expected to do any of those thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:20 PM
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Not having the ability to support one’s self is not a privilege Y’all made that decision Further proving my point Lmao women created this thing that men decided 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:16 PM
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Please refrain from historically inaccurate information. Patriarchy is the doing of white supremacy not women . White men ruined it for y’all and rather than solve it you men get emotional and say illogical crap like this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:55 PM
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A preference is not a deal breaker Example I prefer to date people that play guitar but I will still date a drummer A deal breaker I only date guitarist I would never date a drummer To say that you wouldn’t date a bi man is a deal breaker and that is biphobic I’m not saying people need to go out there a do this or they are problematic But if everything lines up and the only issue is that the man is bi you’re being shitty That’s just not right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:00 PM
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Swinging isn’t a sexuality though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:57 PM
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You rock
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:09 PM
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Let me start by saying im dating two bisexual men right now . So it’s not homophobic it’s biphobic and unfortunately this is kinda .. at least within my own communit( I am black ) I’ve heard a lot of black women say they wouldn’t date a bisexual man because they’re secretly gay .. which ties into the biphobia
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:33 PM
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Men have a choice too lmao Yeah honey that’s not at all how that works So I’ll explain in for you. Women couldn’t work or own banks or their own home men set that up Men set up the structure where their role is provider that has been perpetuated throughout history. If you’re going to provide you would need to have the money to do so . Men set up that structure and now you’re complaining about it. Things are different now but the fact that men still make more money than women and the fact that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:42 PM
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I’m not stop projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:37 PM
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Really the only share those things with people they feel comfortable around Gtfoh I’m a whole woman 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:37 PM
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Again do you talk to people because I’ve had this conversation with so many people not just women about who they would date and who they would what is a deal breaker for them and what isn’t . Like that’s an extremely common conversation for people in general to have irl and online Taller by whos standard ? Taller than the woman …. Typically men are gonna be taller than women Like women may have that as a preference sure but not a deal breaker . Most women would rather date a short guy that has h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:20 PM
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Because people talk about their interests and things they like People talk about what they look for in a partner It’s ideal if you’re dating knowing what you’re looking for Like do you have friends do you talk to people ? Examples I know my boyfriend like athletically built women and thick some I know my best friend likes men that are more on the chubby side Ect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:09 PM
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Well if the man is working and the woman is staying home wouldn’t the person working need to support their family ? Is that what they like and want or is that what they’ve been raised to do ? Why is it structured like that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:37 PM
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Why do you think they do that ( allegedly) because I have never in my life met a woman and talked to a woman that has said I would never date a short man . But why do you think women want a man that makes more money than them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:59 PM
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No fr cause like what is this post even ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:55 PM
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But women didn’t create those structures dawg we live in a patriarchal society
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:52 PM
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I had a guy make fun of me for getting abused earlier this week I can back that up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:16 AM
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Because they live and exist within that society and it effects them too .. just because someone is mentally I’ll it doesn’t mean that they’re incompetent. It doesn’t mean they don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:24 PM
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Is it more selfish to not have a child or have a child knowing that you are not equipped to have one ? By equipped I mean financially stable , mentally stable ,emotionally stable , and physically stable .) Children are expensive and when you have them your life your responsibility is to ensure that that child has the best chances of growing up into a healthy functional adult. Some people have a hard time feeding themselves. Some people have mental illness where on their best days they are able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:16 PM
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I’m a childless cat lady and a teacher That has issues with fertility how about that whatboutism Girl jd Vance is a closeted woman hating homosexuals who doesn’t give a shit about you and is actively doing thing to make it more difficult for you to have children girl please sit all the way down If you want to just say “ selfish women “ who don’t want to have children just say that then we can start the real discussion about why you feel it’s every woman’s right to pop out a child despite the fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:53 PM
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I mean genuinely you don’t have to listen to anyone really but like damn some people can’t have kids Besides by that logic don’t listen to a teacher that doesn’t have kids or someone who’s spent their life learning about the development of children if they don’t have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:44 PM
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Initially I joined this subreddit to lurk and try to understand the redpill perspective because my boyfriends little brother had been going through a mental health crisis and in the process of that declared himself redpill . I wanted to understand why he felt the way that he did and understand the discourse surrounding it so that we could have a decent approach and understand him and where he was coming from and how he perceived himself . ( my bf and sere friends for several years before we date…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:48 PM
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I genuinely don’t understand what you have an issue with . Again you’re saying I’m dishonest with my intentions how ? Based off the internet you don’t know me .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:42 PM
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Honestly dude this is part of the problem . You’re on the internet you don’t. Know me or what I do in real life . Now I’m giving an honest answer here . It’s fucked up that men will be perceived weaker for a human thing to do like crying . It doesn’t do men any good . It’s fucked up that men have an extremely difficult time being acknowledged genuinely when they are being abused . It’s fucked that men’s sexual assault isn’t taken seriously or that someone can ruin a man’s life with a lie . I’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:28 PM
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How is it condescending ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:10 PM
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I think that we should work on male friendships and uplifting each other . I think that the idea of what it means to be a man and let go of the thought of having to be tough or having to be strong . Because it gets conflated with this idea of not showing emotion which is limiting for men. How we raise our young men up thinjing critically of the way that we engage with them in comparison to little girls . In the sense that of not over hyping relationships with other women , letting them feel free…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:21 PM
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Where was this when people were making fun of me for getting abused
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:25 PM
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Can you read ? I said that it was irrelevant to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:59 PM
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Gotcha thanks 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:56 PM
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Marriages and first dates are very different things Op is talking about how hard it is for things to progress from a first date to a relationship Not an established relationship into a marriage or what goes into a marriage So if someone is getting a divorce they obviously made it past the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:52 PM
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Cause this has nothing to do with what op is talking about I’ll give some random statistics More men kill women than women killing women See how irrelevant that is to the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:51 PM
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Just say you don’t like women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:50 PM
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Y’all love that statistic don’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:49 PM
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What does that mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:48 PM
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Do you only think in extremes or are you just stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:52 PM
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I’ve done that so what’s your post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:42 PM
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Never said that. I were not talking about men in that situation because the circumstances are different on the way people interact and perceive male abuse . It’s a different topic completely in the way society handles that .. however that’s not what I’m talking about so answer the question .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:15 AM
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You’ve almost got it Once you know what the pattern is but this is my point you don’t know with that situation until you get more context You’re right on the money thank you for answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:31 AM
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Everyone should go to therapy But therapy isn’t always accessible. Personally when I went through this situation I didn’t make enough money to pay for therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:30 AM
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Do you date men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:06 AM
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You’re wrong because it depends on the person I’ve heard all of the above be described as attractive qualities by women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:05 AM
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Are big noses attractive Are balding people attractive Are big for heads attractive Are big lips attractive Are tiny noses attractive Everyone has different taste
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:03 AM
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Thank you for answering the question I really appreciate you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:21 PM
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They aren’t though All women want is a man over 6ft What about all the men under 6ft in happy loving relationship All women want is a rich man What about the men who aren’t rich with happy love lives
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:20 PM
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Apparently more than you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:47 PM
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Lmaooo So abusive parents have low iq?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:08 PM
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You don’t get it that’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:53 PM
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Idk the species that actually fucks women and can keep a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:44 PM
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Yeah they obviously can duh I’ve seen that and helped men get out of that situation first hand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:34 PM
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So a woman getting beat is because of her bad behavior ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:32 PM
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The topic isn’t about the abusive relationship that was an example it could be a number of things I’m not saying women deserve relationships based on sad stories I’m saying that saying choose better is a thoughtless cruel thing to say It’s an example about how I see in this sub a lot of red pillers make sweeping generalizations about women with out thinking about the context of the situations they are describing Choose better is unhelpful and ignorant That is the point of this I don’t understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:23 PM
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So stay on topic If I wanted to ask about men I would have but I didn’t so tough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:17 PM
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And I do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:15 PM
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Yes because abusers have that written on their forehead Im in a loving relationship now thanks for asking😘 Wbu ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:13 PM
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He never got violent with me before that he would throw things when he was upset but not directly at me . He has autism so he would do that during meltdowns I think the biggest red flag was him thinking I was lying about my anemia and that I was just lazy He didn’t take it seriously until I was hospitalized
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:08 PM
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Dawg I’m providing you actual history Like that’s why the stereotype exists Like most stereotypes they don’t just come to be independently there is context behind it and a reason why Also black people not blacks that’s dehumanizing af
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:33 PM
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But we’re not taking about men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:28 PM
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You realize men hide that shit until the woman can’t leave a lot of the times right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:27 PM
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Well when my fiancé cheated and sucker punched me that’s when I started saving money and I bounced The time before that I had to get help from family and it took 3 months for me to actually leave because the guy had control of my money So every situation is different
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:26 PM
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Well when my fiancé cheated and sucker punched me that’s when I started saving money and I bounced The time before that I had to get help from family and it took 3 months for me to actually leave because the guy had control of my money So every situation is different
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:26 PM
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Hi I don’t have to do that I’ve lived that and escaped thank you no duh she has to want to leave but again maybe it’s money maybe it’s housing maybe it’s kids or just stability as a whole you don’t know why so who are you to pass judgment with out offering an actual solution The reason why I asked the initial question is because you see a situation you personally haven’t been in and and just go for the most first Brain solution as if the person hasn’t thought of that Just leave … okay where does…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:24 PM
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that is until they learn but they don’t learn from people just saying do better choose better It’s like telling someone who doesn’t know how to read just learn to read with out showing them That’s my point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:22 PM
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Stereotypes exist because they are perpetuated with no thought For example The stereotype about black people liking watermelon ( I am black by the way so don’t try to call me racist I’m only using this for an example) It’s not that black people just love watermelon it’s because watermelon was easy to grow and post slavery black people would sell watermelon on the side of the road they were demonized by white people that were unhappy about the end of slavery therefore that stereotype was created
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:20 PM
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Start hiding money Start making an escape plan Find people you can trust that the abuser won’t manipulate - signed a woman who escaped
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:17 PM
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Saying choose better leads one to believe she knew that the man was abusive before hand and chose to be in a relationship with him . Choose better is a victim blaming mentality because 9/10 a woman isn’t going to go seeking out someone who is going to abuse them And when y’all sit here and perpetuate that thought you’re not solving the problem you’re not helping you’re to telling her something she doesn’t know you’re punching down . So what’s the actual point other than being cruel and ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:16 PM
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Organize to help get her out of the situation Don’t blame her and say that she’s choosing to be abused
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:11 PM
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Please stop playing dumb Getting away from an abuser isn’t as simple as I’m just gonna walk out the front door and it’s just done
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:06 PM
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It’s not charity to think before you speak The issue is that y’all will sit there and blame a victim of abuse for being a victim of abuse rather than asking why things are like that . No one is saying you need to save this hypothetical girl . I’m saying that y’all will act like the woman likes the abuse or is just stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:03 PM
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It does because y’all act like she just ran into a situation knowing she was going to be abused So is she supposed just up and leave ? Also do abusers just walk around declaring that they are an abuser ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:58 PM
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That’s not women’s dating strategy. Every woman is different . Do y’all really think woman are just like oh all these other women want this man I want him too I hope he picks me ? Like bffr The bar is in hell for men because y’all get praised for treating women like people and doing basic life skills I saw a woman the other day brag that the guy she’s dating can cook like bffr
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:36 PM
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Narcissist tend to be good looking ? Where is that in the dsm 5 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:46 PM
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Why are y’all acting like lesbians Or women that love other women are unicorns
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:39 AM
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I like her tbh it’s vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:38 AM
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I find it creepy when men don’t take no for an answer I find it creepy when they keep driving things to be sexual ( I actually matched with a guy who thought was super hot. , I was looking for an Fwb or some casual dating and the dude just kept saying graphic sexual stuff I told him to chill out and that I thought he was hot but I didn’t like the way he was talking to me he kept going so I just blocked him . Him not listening made me feel like he didn’t give a fuck and if we met in person he was…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:25 PM
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I don’t disagree tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:22 PM
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Depends on what you define a drama ? Cause life be lifing sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:21 PM
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How is he supporting himself ? I mean there isn’t a lot of context my assumption is that it’s kinda strange to be in your mid 30s working part time getting minimum wage it give ambitionless At the same time who the fuck wants to work anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:11 PM
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I don’t think a man would do that in that scenario like that’s straight up sexual harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:32 PM
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What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:37 PM
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So make this make sense for me The thing that men created you are mad that women are doing it ? Your issue isnt with feminism it’s the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:20 AM
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Incorrect Why do you think prostitution became a thing ? We’re women just out there soliciting other women ? No ofc not it’s due to a the patriarchy which negatively impacts men and women . You think ( key words think ) feminism is all about hypsexualizing women and putting down men but it’s about dismantling systems . My original comment says that a contributing factor is that these types of men don’t listen . Y’all never think about why something is the way it is but are very quick and o try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:50 AM
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No not all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:35 PM
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Who has been advocating for men’s mental health , or sexual assault against men (independently I might add) Prostitution predates feminism dude so sex work isn’t a new thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:35 PM
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Incels exist because y’all refuse to see women as people and you have to lie to yourself about why women don’t want to date you . It’s always women want 6’4 chad with muscles and an animal salary of 2000000000 . When that’s not the case . Y’all have a black and white view of the world and that’s not the case . Y’all can’t take accountability and think damn I could be the problem . While women ( for years) can’t be to skinny or too fat .The need to have no ass they need to have a big ass. They ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:21 PM
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Tell that to the guy I’m seeing lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:18 PM
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They don’t I’ve never had my bmi calculated and had my race involved with it Signed a black woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:31 PM
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People can be fat because of their medication (anti depressants make you gain weight) Women who have pcos may be fat because they have insulin resistant pcos Some one could have a thyroid problem Those make it hard for you to gain or loose weight Some people live in ( at least in America) in places where there isn’t access to grocery store there are just convenient stores and fast food places near by ( look up the girl who got scurvy because she was in what’s called a food desert ) Some people a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:24 PM
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It’s not it’s based off only Eurocentric males. Women have fat that men don’t have . Also different ethnicities have different builds and body types . In order for there to be an average race/ethnicity is a big factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:36 PM
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What’s a normal weight ? Don’t say bmi because that’s horribly in accurate. You can’t assume everyone that is fat is just fat because they can’t control themselves around food . Honestly who is this for men ? Men being fat has never been a problem . Peep big boi by sza ik it was an sln skit but people really got behind it As far as women goes men have always had shit to say about women’s bodies . People love fat people not publicly but that’s why the bbw fetish exists That’s why fat sugar babies…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:27 PM
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I’m not trying to be rude at all But I think you’re misusing the term whitewashing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:14 PM
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Nope sorry little bro a preference is something that you would prefer to do but you would still do the opposite either or is fine, but there’s one that you just like more a dealbreaker some of that you would under no circumstances do whatsoever. That is the difference you are acting as if being short or being 57 is a dealbreaker as a nobody would date you, as in women would never date a man under 6 foot four as you like to sit there and complain about that is not the case as I said, the only peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:58 PM
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A deal breaker means you wouldn’t date them A preference means that you would Idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:39 PM
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I am keep up . You clearly don’t know the difference between dealbreakers and preferences. You’re treating men’s height as a dealbreaker when it’s not at all for most women The only people that complain about mens heights are other men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:30 PM
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Yes . Y’all seem to not understand a preference and a dealbreaker. Dude you had no credibility to start with . Have you ever been a woman in an abusive relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:21 PM
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Are you a moron ? There is manipulation and abuse in abusive relationships If the woman goes against her abusive partner in this situation what do you think is going to happen ? Maybe if you actually listened to women and stopped fixating on how short you were you could actually get some where with a woman The only person that gives a shit about men’s height are men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:09 PM
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Okay no As always very bold assumptions about what women want . You can sleep with someone and not want to date them period
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:06 PM
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That’s in accurate. I didn’t have to convince myself of anything I experienced it realized I didn’t like it and went for something else that’s more suited to what I like . Things change people get older and learn about what makes sense . To be honest ( I already hear the trolls) I fed into the “ you’re so mature you need an older man to truly get you “ mentality. I dated a man that was over 10 years older than me Worst experience of my life . He was controlling , belittling, abusive and then I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:17 PM
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What do you mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:24 PM
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I feel that . I’m gonna be real with you dude . You gotta stop looking at everything in dating like it’s again because the people that treat it that way aren’t cool. I’m not gonna deny that they exist . However people learn and grow . In my own experience in my early twenties I dated to find the one . I dated to marry settle down and have kids . A few of my friends did the same . We ended up in really toxic relationships. Some of my friends ended up in toxic marriages. It took me until I was 26 …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:21 PM
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Dude how are you gonna tell me a woman what women think and do ? Like you’re part of the problem you shit on men that grow up and act human . You are so concerned with a game that no one is playing but you And where do you fall ? Are you the toxic guy or the lonely guy in your equation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:01 PM
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I’m a woman dude and I’m literally telling you once again You learn as you get older . “ the lonely “ guy worked on himself and that’s why she’s choosing him because she’s learned what she wants and what she’s valued Men aren’t in your face toxic at first it takes time to show
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:48 PM
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Does it ever occur to men that women aren’t just going for the toxic guys until they’re ready to settle down As you date you learn about yourself and what you want and don’t want out of a long term partner . Y’all are so quick to think that some 21 year old woman is like “ yeah he’s toxic but I just wanna have a little fun in this relationship I want to be abused I want to add on some trauma !” No they aren’t The type of man I would have dated at 20 is very different from the man I would date at…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:42 PM
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As a femme going into my 30s I would be a better parent mow than in my early to mid 20s I make more money consistently now than in my early 20s I am more stable now than in my early to mid 20s I’ve been able to go to therapy and work through a lot of my trauma from my childhood ( everyone has trauma ) I’m more equipped to be a good partner to my partner now than in my early to mid 20s I had to live and learn before I was ready to do those things and I still wouldn’t say I’m in the position fully…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:26 PM
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Yeah no This is a really tired narrative women do tell men what they like but just like every other guy on this sub thinks they understand women just from misguided observation. If a man feels like sex is a huge part of his relationships then communicate the calmly like an adult preferably at the beginning of the relationship. You know when you talk about boundaries and expectations. However that situation is rarely handled like that . In my experience myself and seeing the other women in my lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:44 PM
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You think women are mostly borderline asexual ? Quit being a baby you’re not tortured by not having sex. Yeah that sucks but don’t insult people who have had to deal with actual torture Not every man or even most men are motivated by sex Y’all keep trying to push this narrative and honestly y’all just sound homosexual Literally if you feel tortured go sleep with a man life with out sex is torture right Like come off it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:02 PM
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But if they still date the opposite gender it really doesn’t matter does it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:21 AM
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Dawg do pansexual and bisexual people not exist to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:51 AM
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You can be queer and still like the opposite sex and or date the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:59 PM
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This is a valid point I see a lot of that in this sub too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:58 PM
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I feel like there is context missing in your points . Vasectomies are significantly less invasive and more effective that getting your tubes tied and there is way less of a stigma and pushback around it Not everywoman can take birth control but putting on an wearing a condom has far less draw backs and issues than birth control . Also in my experience men ask to fuck raw and cum inside women so much as if that’s not how a baby is formed but then will swear up and down they don’t want to have kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:47 PM
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The way they think most women are juggling guys still messing with their ex when they’re on a date . Not all but most woman have an “ endless supply of dick” as someone else put it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:23 PM
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Ew do you hear how you’re objectifying men ? Jeez “Access to a near endless supply of men “ Okay first of you realize disabled people as a whole but women get raped right ? What a weird thing to say Second if that’s how you think of it you’re always going to struggle cause you’re more worried about who you’re imagining she’s talking to vs what’s actually happening
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:16 PM
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No fr . Like it’s so apparent they don’t actively interact with women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:04 PM
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Once again y’all just assume that women are drowning in dick playing multiple guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:43 PM
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I agree with this hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:41 PM
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Girl dinner is not women saying they can’t cook for themselves it’s them being tired or just enjoying charcuterie All of the things you listed are infantalizing If you’re aware of the potato trend on tiktok that infantilizing and there was discourse about it so what’s your point really ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:19 PM
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I love this 💜🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:43 AM
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Women aren’t turned on by it . Men lie . Are you serious ??? Men will literally act normal and loving until they get you in a position that is hard to get out of and then will start beating you . It’s not like women have some magic detector to know a man is abusive As an actual woman who has been in an abusive relationship before and watched other women go through the same shit , women ( people in general tho) are more likely to be and stay in abusive relationships when their home life and child…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:03 AM
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You know what I mean don’t be rude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:43 PM
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Men literally rape women. My point mens downward is a different realm than a woman’s downward Woman would rather not that turn to that That’s my point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 07:01 PM
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My point is men already go downward
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:40 PM
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Men fuck inanimate objects Men fuck animals so like …. ? I’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:52 PM
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Omfg what’s the average man ? Is it a man that’s not 6’4 and isn’t rich ? Like y’all keep saying the average man when average men are in relationships and married . So who are the non average men who are the average men . Are they average to you or do you think they are average to women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:51 PM
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You’re good I feel you though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:49 PM
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Yeah again as a woman I have and women do communicate that . A good man will listen and communicate. Out of all the men I’ve slept with let’s say like 30 less than 5 have actually listened and attempted to give me an orgasm Most of the time I’ve had men get upset with me for not cumming or get upset with me for even saying anything , get upset with me and tell me not to use toys so like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:46 PM
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That didn’t answer either of my questions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:47 PM
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Why does promiscuity have to be a shameful thing ? Why does sex and enjoying sex have to be a shameful thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:33 PM
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No I’m not cutting men slack . I’ve met so many men that don’t know that women have a separate urethra from they’re vagina . Some men think the clit is a myth What makes a man bad at sex is literally not attending to his partner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:18 PM
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You mean the expectation that men set up for themselves ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:46 PM
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This post : men strong women weak Women are proven more likely to help in given situation What a weird take
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:45 AM
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Okay so 1.) raping and stealing isn’t in your hormones . Anyone is capable of doing that . Literally women have testosterone that’s not making them rape or kill anyone . I a female human have a hormone disorder where I have higher testosterone I don’t rape or kill anyone 2.) if you don’t do that just listen and be supportive, non judgmental . 3.)listen to women and if you hear or see someone doing the things they describe ( because rape is more likely to be someone you know or someone in your ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:37 AM
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Yeah sure because weaponized incompetence means love Also lmao the husband or man isn’t a leader y’all are spouses equals
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:43 PM
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You’re speaking so generally about women . I’m gonna say it for the people in the back Women as a whole don’t give a shit about your night If a man is terrible rich and hot he’s still terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:57 PM
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Society tells women to not be assertive . The whole be a good submissive woman thing isn’t a joke . When women are assertive they don’t even get to be that they get labeled as bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:01 PM
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Where are the quotes from this subreddit saying that men should be with younger women because they’re “ unburdened with baggage and haven’t turned into bitches yet “ or the ones about how “ when you date a women in her early 20s you get to teach the girl what you like “ Like gawd bless . As a woman that’s been in a few age gap relationship it’s always about the power dynamic . I’m relatively young looking for my age and I still have older men approaching me thinking that their going to give me l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:20 PM
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It really isn’t most women don’t just look at a guy and are like “ yes I would 100% fuck this guy” it’s unrealistic to think that .attraction is so much deeper than that . It’s also to say that attraction can be affected by so many thing pattern familiarity .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:11 PM
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Dawg I’ve had this same conversation with so many women it’s a shared experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:28 PM
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That’s very fair but it’s not talked about as much and we’re just taught that women hate sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:17 PM
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Damn dawg not every woman wants to fuck men right away . Like not to mention men are scary like bffr
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:16 PM
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Not particularly. When I was in the sugaring scene briefly fat girls were the ones getting the money . So slim and petite are out . I pull hard I’m neither slim petite or genuinely fit ( I haven’t worked out at the gym in like 5 years )
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:49 AM
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No because even if both party wants the baby sometimes shit happens and puts the mothers life at risk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:04 AM
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I can see that however they are not comparable. There are so many resources for men’s mental health . Where are the resources for women with ectopic pregnancies. If you don’t want to pay child support sign away your parental rights , or don’t put your name on the child’s birth certificate. It’s not even close to the same thing be so for real .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:24 PM
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Okay then get a safer job ??? Like it’s not that complicated. Go be a waiter I used to make 3-400 bucks per night . Damn imagine what it’s like caring for a child as a single parent if work is making men depressed . Again it’s not the same thing because you have option the abortion ban takes away options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:17 PM
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Where has anyone’s cause of death been child support as the direct cause of death in the same way that this abortion ban has caused deaths To answer your question some people try to manipulate the system and use child support as revenge then I went on to say that the abortion ban is killing women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:12 PM
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Yeah dude comparing child support to abortion is really dumb . Can you die from child support ? Does a father that has their shit together deserve losing a wife and a child at the same time ? No . There are bad people everywhere and people who try to manipulate the system especially as far as child support goes but women are dying because of this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:03 PM
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Of course honestly with the right wording ( the way you worded it earlier was really good I just mean verbally) having conversations like that with women is a great start to really uniting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:28 PM
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There isn’t a lot specifically . I know what I personally like how every it varies .I’ve dated men under 5’6 , I’ve dated men with a skullet, I’ve dated a lot of men with big noses , I’ve dated athletic men that spend hours in the gym , I’ve dated fat men that don’t like the gym .With women I’ve dated mountain bikers , swimmers, plus sized women. Women with big butts and small breast women with big breasts and small but . I’ll say I’ve dated more plus sized women than petite woman as I prefer wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:25 PM
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Kk dude whatever you think . I’m going to go enjoy time with my boyfriend and my girlfriend . Cause actually understand men and women have fun being bitter 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:30 PM
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Well considering I’m a woman I have women friends I work with women I’m in spaces with women and big shock we talk to each other . It’s really childish when men assume they know what women want . You can talk about coulda and woulda all day long but I said what I said and what happened happened . What data do I have look through this sub . You just want to complain cause you get no play but when women explain things you act like a stubborn baby because the thought that you are underdeveloped and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:20 PM
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So every person with an asymmetrical face and body is “ ugly” and most people are repulsed by this is what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:05 PM
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I feel you 100% that makes sense I’m not trying to make it the oppression Olympics That is a really uncomfortable feel I empathize with you that’s what it feels like with guys sometimes and that experience is felt universally . I think it’s awesome that you bring attention to that because that’s something to unite on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:37 PM
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Okay you’re saying that women want all these things are you sure ? The power imbalance comes from the life experience. When I was 20 I dated a man 13 years older than me and he would flat out tell me things like “ you’re 20 you don’t know anything I’m older than you , you should listen to everything I say because I know better “ I had the opportunity to date some one a man younger than me ( I am now 30 and he is 20) I declined because I know he still has stuff to figure out and I wanted him to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:26 PM
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The reason why women say this because obviously it’s not every single man is a vicious violent rapest. However there are some men that fit that description and there are a lot of other men that wouldn’t do that but would support another man that would . With in our society there are a lot of men that are complicit in rape culture where no they aren’t raping women but they are victim blaming women they are dismissing their experiences. So when a woman says you’re a good one they’re saying you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:19 PM
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That’s flat out incorrect. Women’s lives aren’t taken seriously if they were roe v wade wouldn’t have been overturned , women’s health would be studied more Your issue is a health issue and a you wanna have a victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:03 AM
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No one said it’s good for you . I’m saying that your initial statement is contradictory. It’s not an issue with men itself as more of an issue with the way we treat addiction and how it’s not helped within the healthcare industry . The reason why men are more likely is because they don’t have enough programs and monitoring once they’ve administered the drug the fact that they suffer from it more than women is because women’s pain isn’t taken seriously . You don’t have to bring a comparison to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:25 AM
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So you acknowledge people are treating men and giving them painkillers when it’s harder for women to get them . Especially black women Opiate epidemic isn’t specifically a men’s issue it’s an issue as a whole with healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:36 AM
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Define what is ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:49 PM
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That was the point I wasn’t saying that one was attractive and the other was ugly . I’m saying that those are two men I’ve heard women say are attractive . I’m a woman I don’t find either of them attractive . You can’t just assume that everyone has the same taste
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:49 PM
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It really doesn’t I’ve had people tell me they think I’m a 9 or 10 and some people tell me I’m a 5 or a 6 Everybody has a different taste I have different types that I like and it’s insane to think that women only think Timothee chalamet or Channing Tatum is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:21 PM
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God y’all think everyone thinks one of two ways . Attractive is subjective, not every woman cares about money , a lot of men like fat obese women , everybody interests are different . Average man /average woman can be so many different things because we all have different perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:17 PM
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No . I’m aware and I’ve encountered women that are into hypergamy and 90% are unsuccessful. The hypergamy isn’t the reason they aren’t in my social circles it’s for other reasons . What is valuable in a relationship differs from person to person . Most of the women I know in hetero relationship aren’t with their partners because of their status or money by a long shot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:38 PM
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I’m not saying that I’m saying you’re being contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:03 PM
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I know not a single woman practicing hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:49 PM
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I disagree with monogamy being the best to structure relationships. It also shouldn’t be the norm . Polyamorous relationships can be very successful just as monogamous relationships both need good communication to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:48 PM
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How is it bs that they are able to get pain killers but also more likely to be addicted and o them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:45 PM
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He’s a cutie why are people so mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:33 AM
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There really doesn’t . Don’t cum inside of a woman wear a condom . If you feel this strongly y’all should advocate for male birth control . Also in a lot of states abortion is not accessible so I don’t really see why you bring that up . If you don’t want to pay for child support relinquish your parental rights and your problem is solved
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:30 PM
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Abandons but doesn’t give up parental rights ????
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:27 PM
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Preferences and deal breakers are not synonymous. A preference is something that you would still do a dealbreaker something that you would not do a lot of people use them interchangeably and that’s just not accurate, because preference when it comes down to dating somebody who is tall or short if you prefer tall people, you would still date a short person. It just means that you naturally go for tall people the same thing with like wait. My main issue is just like the dealbreaker versus preferen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:44 PM
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Again it’s not the same . A woman walking alone at night isn’t the same as a child at school . Once again I am a teacher there a protocols and different things put into place . For fuck sakes there are cameras in my classroom for this reason exactly. The amount of times an inappropriate relationship happens between students and teachers ( not to mention women do that too) is far lower than the times a woman has been harassed on the street / assaulted on the street / followed home Stop trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:29 PM
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That’s not even comparable dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:03 PM
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Dawg it sounds like y’all view teaching as a woman’s job and y’all are salty about it . It’s not like I don’t go to conferences and interact with other people. This isn’t an experience thing this is a we gender things that don’t need a gender and then cry about it thing . The only time people think a male teacher is creepy is when they’re creepy .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:45 PM
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No one does that like I’m literally a teacher all of the men here people love them . They’re in active relationships the kids adore them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:42 PM
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Lack of tan too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:41 PM
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You’re right it can but not with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:52 AM
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Dude no you can’t use children to help make yourself okay . I am literally the product of that . All it does is just put unrealistic expectations on a developing brain. You’re using them to fix problems that they can’t fix a child will never be able to fix that and when you realize that after having the child, you’ve just brought another life in the world that didn’t need to be here they didn’t ask to be here and is now meant to be serving you in some sort of way like it’s abusive .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:37 AM
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A partner isn’t going to help you feel better or be functional either . If you aren’t functional and together on your own no one wants to be with that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:14 AM
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Bruh children are just that kids baby humans . If you’re expecting a child to save you that’s a huge problem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:10 AM
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A child is not a tool for women to use to get men to functional people . That’s literally what therapy is for . Therapy works when you apply the tools given .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:08 AM
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Women and children don’t do that Going to therapy and working your shit out will help
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:24 AM
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You shouldn’t have children period
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:24 AM
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Imagine a reality of men getting a high paying job…. You mean historically …. You mean currently Be so fr dude .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:55 PM
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Yeah dude that’s how life works .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:22 PM
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It’s more like men have said women are overly emotional and can’t control their emotions and men are told the only emotion they can express in anger The reason why men aren’t perceived as empathetic is when women try to explain how a situation made them feel ( which something all adults in relationships of any kind should be able to do ) they are met with defensiveness rather than empathy ( understanding someone else point of view )
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:32 PM
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Bruh same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:40 PM
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I mean idk vet people. The same thing is going on with the alt community as well but like talk to people . I prefer to date people that have half my interest that way we can try new things together or I can teach them about my interest and I can learn about their interest. Like me and my boyfriend both game but we play completely different games . Sometimes we’ll just have a day where he walks me through his games and I take him through mine . Or I do arts and crafts and I teach him how to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:42 PM
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I graduated high school over ten years ago my experience was identical to yours
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:49 AM
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Okay ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:52 PM
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I love the way wrote this .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:00 PM
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That’s because they don’t want to actually do the work themselves. They say women pick bad men and women want the bad guys . Ok so women work on themselves go to therapy learn how to set and enforce boundaries . Now you’re mad cause women won’t date you .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:02 PM
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Dawg 💀💀 That’s fucking hilarious. I see why you’re lonely. Good night 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:16 AM
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Why are you bringing up your assault ? What does that have to do with anything ? Dude the only reason you’re bring it up is to gain sympathy rn . Idk what to tell you about that press charges . Instead of bitching about why women don’t like you why don’t you advocate for men who have been assaulted rather than bringing it up as leverage in an argument. Please make it make sense to me how women have this systemic power over men when they don’t even have rights to their own bodies . How do women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:00 AM
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I’m not going to listen to anyone generalize an entire gender
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:44 PM
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Dawg you’re speaking from a place talking about then men you know being a man . You are not a woman men don’t treat other men the same way they treat women they are dating . So unless you’ve been in an abusive relationship as with a man unless you’ve had an abusive boyfriend you don’t have that experience therefore you have no relevant point of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:28 PM
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You do because you’re speaking on something you’ve never experienced first hand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:17 PM
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Yeah don’t mansplain the sub to me I can read . It’s not which is why you’re crying on Reddit about how you have no bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:13 PM
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So what you’re saying is women chose to ignore those signs . While lacking the actual experience or perspective of a woman .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:12 PM
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Dude literally how ? Do you think men walk around boldly proclaiming they’re a pos? No obviously not . Be ffr . Like do you really think women seek out abusive men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:00 PM
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Cry me a river dude . Woman are in demand because half of y’all want the world to belive y’all are feral animals that are controlled by your testosterone. News flash women produce testosterone and men produce estrogen. Women don’t hate men or the “average man” whatever that is . You’re generalizing a whole as gender based on echochamber research from lonely dudes who don’t know how to socialize and think critically .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:43 PM
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What is a lower quality man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:45 PM
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We do but y’all don’t listen . You insist on knowing more about women than a women and become your own self fulfilling prophecy. As if women are too incompetent to understand themselves and how social situations work . There’s only so much you can do before it’s wasting your time talking to a brick wall
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:41 PM
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This is a human skill not just men or women everyone should be able to be empathetic not just women .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:38 PM
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Women who want to show off their status wear expensive clothing .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:31 AM
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Well after years of being shit on for not having kids by 30 I guess we’re doing something right then huh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:02 PM
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Jesus . Once again not every woman feels the same way . Women don’t even all find the same men attractive irl. I’m not talking about celebrities I’m talking about people they actually date . Honestly I don’t just look at a guy and think omg he’s so hot I wanna fuq , purely based off his looks . I won’t really know how I feel until I have at least a baseline conversation with him . What is he passionate about , how does he interact with me , ect . That can be determined in an evening . Work on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:21 PM
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Lol you’re not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:38 AM
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I am a Non white woman who thought she was funny . I agree with spitting on that thang . I can vouch that a vast majority of women don’t really care about her . Wake up dude people like to suck dick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:28 AM
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Thank you for your thoughtful input 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:03 AM
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Lol okay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:06 AM
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Is that you’re take away from the article ? What led you to believe that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:01 AM
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https://www.forbes.com/sites/maryroeloffs/2024/07/25/ballerina-farm-controversy-times-profile-hannah-david-neeleman-airline-fortune-epidural-trad-wife-tiktok/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:54 AM
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What men like you don’t seem to understand is consent . Comparing people wanting a higher wage to men wanting sex . I know people who feed into this bullshit in real life . The whole red pill thing is a red flag . If women in general don’t want to sleep with you it’s because more than like they either just don’t find you attractive or think you’re a creep . Having access to healthcare medicine foods that fit into your dietary needs these are some of things a hire wage can provide you ( I say thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:10 PM
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You and your partner can disagree about someone’s behavior. What op is describing is a fucked up situation those people were the other duress friend first
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:42 PM
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Yes I understand that Still shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:39 AM
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Yeah dude it’s shitty at any age high key
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:36 AM
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She’s right though . You’re just moving the goal post to suit your self deprecating narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:03 PM
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Men lie women avoid the screamingly obvious terrible men . You don’t know a man is going to cheat on you until he cheats you don’t know a man is abusive until it’s happening. People lie isn’t that a crazy concept . People can be dishonest and not show you their true self to you until it’s too late . A lot of abusers wait until their partner is locked in the relationship ( married or with babies) to start revealing themselves. So saying pick better really isn’t an option . Do you think bad men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:09 PM
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What if the guy is the shit tho ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:14 PM
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Omg this so much that shit be irking my living soul
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:08 PM
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It’s cute and it makes you feel loved . Banter is just so much fun especially when you and your partner play off of each others humor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:08 PM
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The societal thought is that girls like dancing and guys don’t so if a guy goes to the club it’s to find women to sleep with . That’s just like the quiet part out loud but clubbing obviously doesn’t mean you’re fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:14 AM
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Bahahaha that’s funny this is a joke either that or you’re a clown
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:18 AM
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You have a better odds of pulling someone if you don’t hate yourself and know how to communicate properly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:05 AM
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Is this a joke ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:59 PM
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Then stop acting like it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:23 PM
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That’s the point she survived. She didn’t die from lack of fuck. Like y’all are suggesting . For the love of god your erections are not anyone’s problem but you’re own . Y’all post creepy shit like this and wonder why women don’t want you .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:21 PM
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Because I’ve seen 3 men in the last week on this sub and irl comparing not getting laid to dying from starvation/dehydration
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:17 PM
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Me all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:43 PM
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You were in context I was making jokes in the thread but you said something serious and genuinely helpful . I interpreted it as you being helpful directly to me but I don’t have balls but I’m super appreciative of the knowledge .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:28 PM
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lol i explicitly said I don’t support that action . Tell me you don’t have reading comprehension skills without telling me you don’t have reading comprehension. Also a woman having her cleavage out is your own personal issue . I’ll save you time on this subreddit you have an issue dating women because you are so fast to talk about abusing them and causing them direct harm . The part that you’re quoting is me quoting the article I read detailing what op was talking about . So take you’re 2nd read…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:26 PM
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Where did I defend that action . Ofc now you gotta bring black people into the discussion. My guy can you read
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:18 PM
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I mean 100% that However I was joking as I have to dysfunctional ovaries
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:16 PM
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Are you literate or do you lack comprehension skills Read the next sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:14 PM
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Everyone gets go to the gym and be more confident as a remedy for difficulty dating . Personal advice go to therapy and invest in a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:41 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:40 PM
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I haven’t nut in a week I’m heading to the doctor rn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:52 PM
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Damn y’all ever heard of someone dying from lack of a nut ???? I’ve heard of people dying from dehydration
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:07 PM
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misinformed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:54 PM
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Lmaooo bruh bffr I would rather not know when I’m being miss formed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:54 PM
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I’m not gonna argue about astrology with you but if you’re gonna base your argument in nothing I have nothing to say to you . Stay ignorant 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:36 PM
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Exactly !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:33 PM
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Baby just google how the patriarchy effects men it goes everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:24 PM
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Same I will say this . From everything I’ve observed the reason why women lack empathy over the situation is because of the way that it’s brought up . I feel you on coming in hot because you feel defeated as if the public and women don’t care and you aren’t trying to be dismissed . I am not trying to dismiss you . This may not individually be you however a lot of times what I’m seeing is mens issues being brought up as a counter attack to something women are struggling with . There are shit tier…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:54 PM
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Wait to jump to conclusions don’t get so hysterical buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:06 PM
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Did I say it was specifically you vDon’t name call me sweetheart . I did look up Earl Silverman and in the process of that you got your panties on a bunch . So your issue is with the government in that one not women. He didn’t kill himself because women he didn’t it because he wasn’t able to get help it’s not the fault of women in need it’s the issue of the government doing what ???? Upholding the patriarchy and not supporting its people . Sounds like you just want to blame women for everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:06 PM
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Because as previously stated y’all bring it up to piggyback off of womens issue and diminish them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:00 PM
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Link the story I have yet to hear about . You’re gaslighting yourself if you think women aren’t fighting for men . One of the biggest L of the patriarchy is the red pill people . Those people are the main ones gaslighting themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:56 PM
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No a singular woman did that . There isn’t a horde of women doing that under the guise of feminism . Just one looney. She also diluted it so it would leave a stain and not harm the men . I don’t support that at all . However I’m saying go talk about men’s misuse individually and stop piggybacking it off of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:15 PM
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No one cares about manspreading . Women do advocate for your rights and fight against the patriarchy for you . That’s the stuff like real men don’t cry , you can only feel anger and horny , if you’re not fucking everything something is wrong with you , mens s/a ect . The issue , from what it seems to me , men don’t care about their own issues enough . I say this because I rarely see men advocating for their mental health , abuse , & s/a and only seen to bring it up when women are talking about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:07 PM
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Can you give us your definition of sane ? I’m just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:46 PM
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For real. The whole post just reads like op has only learned about women in theory and the theory is told by and echo chamber of men that don’t regularly interact with women . Most women I know that are in relationships aren’t with men over 6 ft with a chiseled jawline. The women that I have met ,how op describes all women , are few and far in between and bitterly single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:04 PM
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It’s wise to use both logic and emotion to navigate life . There’s a place and time for both
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:08 AM
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Who does this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:13 AM
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Most relationships fail no matter what the gender of the people but pop off Ig
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:55 AM
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🙄 I’m a woman dating another woman numb nuts . I have experienced everything y’all have described dating women and men. You’re speaking in hypotheticals I’m speaking in terms of actuality. Just because you are not in the spaces . Truth is you don’t want to listen to women in any capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:57 PM
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You’re dead ass saying that women lack self awareness to the point that they cannot articulate nor navigate their needs and wants in a relationship. Believe what you want buddy I’m gonna go cuddle with my girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:45 PM
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Lmaoo sure buddy . Women need a big strong man to tell us what we want and feel .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:38 PM
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Sorry I could have been more clear You’re right They are proving me point sorry 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:35 PM
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You’re absolutely right . I’m like you’re just proving me right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:31 PM
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Me or op ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:57 PM
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I’ve met men and women that didn’t know what they wanted and were flakey . I’ve also met men and women that have long unrealistic lists of what they want from the opposite sex as a partner . That being said there will always be flakey people that expect too much but summing every woman up just because you’ve dealt with an asshole By that logic I can say the same thing about men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:53 AM
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Again very broad over generalization I’m pretty sure everyone wants those things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:20 AM
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I feel like a lot of the issues with this whole conversation is generalizing both parties into such limited binaries . When I’m truth every woman is going to want something different. Every man doesn’t want the exact same thing . Taking actual dating advise from women really does help a lot of the time it’s not articulated well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:20 PM
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Women aren’t just claiming or accusing every man of s/a every single woman I know has been assaulted. Do you think that they are ALL just lying about it for attention ? The things that men as a whole do and or allow to be done to women is inhumane.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:35 PM
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Having a hobby gives you something to bond over . Like a lot of girls I’ve dated have enjoyed just sitting down and painting together . Canvases from the dollar store and 50 cent apple barrel paint from Walmart . Cooking together is another good hobby . Women are looking for you to have something that you are passionate about and enjoy . That’s really attractive to a lot of women . A lot of women would be thrilled to have a parter with the same hobby but sometimes they are just happy about your …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:33 PM
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I like surprises if that nature . It’s such a treat when I find out a woman likes me but I usually assume not cause of me yk the tism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:50 AM
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They get called out honestly it’s just a preference yk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:22 AM
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I mean the ones that do do. I get what you mean though . They don’t because they get labeled a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:16 AM
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Let’s look at this logically though the main expectation that men have is to be providers … so why is this a surprise . Personally I think every relationship is different and what makes sense financially for one couple may not work for the next . However with the fact that women didn’t have the same rights as men for an extended amount of time and they are still climbing their way through the latter , wouldn’t it make sense for the alleged average woman to want a man that has a decent job . Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:08 AM
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