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| 6 | My ex ruined my lifeMy Dude...you don't need psychotherapy (unless you mean you're under the care of multiple mental health professionals already and not just a "psychotherapist"??), you need a psychiatrist. I'm serious, you need medication to regulate your depression, anxiety, ptsd, cptsd. I'll be honest, you don't sound like a bad guy, you sound like someone who was at a mental low point 2+ years ago and let her slither in and ruin your life. When someone is in that kind of state of mind, it's extremely easy for … | /r/MensRights | 19/04/24 08:45 AM |
| 4 | My ex ruined my lifeAnd intelligent 👌 Compared to what, I'm not exactly sure... | /r/MensRights | 19/04/24 08:05 AM |
| 19 | Talking about sex"I just miss feeling desired/pursued..." Its only been a few weeks. Maybe he likes feeling desired and pursued also. If hes receptive when you initiate then perhaps he was giving you a sign that he doesnt want to always be the one to get things started. He wants to know your attraction is there, that you are turned on by him as much as he is by you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/23 12:07 PM |
| 15 | What is realistic to expect?I'm not trying to be mean, but you do come off shallow in your post, as if all that matters to you is that you're adored and feel that "spark" that so many people leave healthy, happy relationships to go searching for. But your comment here contradicts that immediate impression of shallowness. It seems you really liked this man, enjoyed spending time with him, and found him easy to just BE with. Everything you listed is something you're attracted to about him, and could SPARK an even stronger at… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/23 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on your man going out all night with friendsAs long as this isn't an all the time thing, I wouldn't be upset. The one thing I'd ask of him is that if he's out, and it gets to a certain time (for us it's 2am) and it's looking like he's not coming home anytime soon, and there's a potential after party, etc. then he needs to let me know there's a chance he's crashing at [whatever friend he's with] place. This way I'm not going crazy if he doesn't come home. My partner has never done anything to break my trust and we communicate very well so … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/23 03:35 AM |
| 4 | How important is it for you to have a partner who has high vetting criteria?The way you write this is as if you feel it's "wrong" for him to have that outlook. You feel by him "admitting" this means he'll just date anyone and doesn't have higher standards-and you don't want to be included in that group. If this is something that's going to eat at you going forward then this is not the man for you, regardless of how many boxes he ticks for you. If you have the mindset that a man needs higher vetting criteria, it's all you will be thinking about and you WILL one day resen… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/23 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Questioning my femininityYou don't need to redeem yourself for anything. You don't have to live your life like a Stepford Wife to be feminine. You're not just a woman, you're a human, and you are not required to be "on" at all times. You have to allow yourself to have that "off" time especially when you're in pain. There's moments where you won't have it all together and that's ok. Do you want your bf to only know and love the "well kept image" of you, or do you want him to know the real you, ALL of you, and love and ac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/23 04:13 AM |
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