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| 1 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeBack again. How am I supposed to know how much sex you have? Or that you are embittered about it? I said it because 1) I had to leave the convo, and 2) the whole stereotype of a feminist is that she is angry and has no man in her life. That’s not true though. Most feminists date and marry. So it amused me to the point that out. Sorry it upset you. Also, we are talking about reproductive freedom. Without it, women are less motivated to have the kinds of sex that lead to pregnancy. So if you ain’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeGood comeback, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeWhy is it childish other than it amuses me to say it? It’s what sex positive adults do. I’m a parent. I have got the whole family planning thing figured out, thanks. I also had the foresight to make a blue state my home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeOk men, I am going to go have sex with my husband so you can argue amongst yourselves. I also may unjoin PPD because most posts are by red and purple pilled men and it gets old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeMen still have much better odds at many elite institutions. https://hechingerreport.org/an-unnoticed-result-of-the-decline-of-men-in-college-its-harder-for-women-to-get-in/#:~:text=While%20Brandeis%20has%20actually%20had,female%20applicants%20as%20male%20applicants. https://toptieradmissions.com/the-gender-gap-in-college-admissions/#:~:text=GENDER%20AND%20ADMISSIONS&text=At%20Brown%20University%2C%20about%2012%2C000,gaps%20between%20men%20and%20women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeWhat reproductive rights don’t you have? You are able to bar women from having abortions using states rights! Maybe you can someday force us to have abortions too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeWho do you think put it “in the past,” assuming that is actually true? Women fighting for equal rights that they can never stop defending. Women also fight for men’s issues as well, and have since the suffragette movement. Look at stats for rape arrests and prosecutions. https://rainn.org/facts-statistics-the-scope-of-the-problem/statistics-the-criminal-justice-system/ For you, too. Written by a man. https://nomas.org/male-privilege-checklist/ Nobody is saying you have to feel bad, but be cogniz… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:47 PM |
| -1 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeRe: Supreme Court. We know that. If I can’t get an a life saving abortion in a red state because of someone else’s religious beliefs, that’s oppression. If the state has more rights than the individual, isn’t that the big government conservatives do strongly protest? So you believe in affirmative action and gender parity then? Good. I have no objection to gender parity as needed. If more men want to be admitted to literature and psychology programs, more power to them. By the way, I NEVER said w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeThis doesn’t change the fact that women’s reproductive rights are under fire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativehttps://nomas.org/male-privilege-checklist/ 46 examples. You may not agree with or have experienced them all, but you will surely find a few you agree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeI am not seeing the stats you are because 63% of American women identify as pro-choice according to the 2024 Gallup Poll. I fail to see how one can have individual pro-choice if abortion is not legal and if that right is not enforced. There are countries where abortion is technically legal but it is hard to find a doctor to perform one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeRe-read please. Nothing you are saying here is substantiated by anything I have said. I also said I was for affirmative action but not if it is JUST for white men, which is the very privilege generations of men have gotten used to, and now seem to mourn. I’m talking about men’s paranoia and their tendency to jump to replacement theory, which has more to do with the fact that both white supremacy and patriarchal structures are in fact about gatekeeping and control. I’m talking about men’s attitud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:56 PM |
| -3 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeYou seem to be misreading the chart on women’s self-ID on whether they are pro-choice or pro-life. That was 61% pro-choice to 32% pro-life in 2025. Also, I never said it abortion was solely a gendered issue. Religion plays a large part, especially among fundamentalists and conservatives. Still, women who care about reproductive rights, REALLY CARE. You understand what parity means, right? And what would happen without those initiatives. I am actually FOR affirmative action, but not just for whit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Social skills are not actually advantageous in datingThis is one example of one guy who is admittedly and outlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneThis is very monastic. The thing is most monks are following something, and they have disciplines. It’s not just about independence and solitude and finding your hermitage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Confidence is something you are born withI know plenty of beautiful women and beautiful girls who are shy and lack confidence socially. Confidence comes from struggle and trial and error. From failing, surviving it, trying again and eventually succeeding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:29 PM |
| 8 | Confidence is something you are born withYes, I tutored for many years. Confidence doesn’t come from something being easy immediately. It comes from struggling and improving, and eventual mastery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Are the men better now or 10 years ago?While I’m happy that my daughter says she’ll never drink, she’s 18, she is really, really shy, as I was. I let my husband know that he could ask me out by hopping into his lap at a bar when I was tipsy, and that never would’ve happened when I was sober. I don’t think the kids necessarily need to drink, but they do need to go out. It would be great to bring back inexpensive shows at all ages venues and bars. My entire 20s was about seeing bands. A slice of pizza, $5 admission to see live music, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:17 PM |
| -4 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeNot all women live in blue states so I fail to see your point, especially when abortion is criminalized in red states, even in cases of rape or the life of the mother. Also, your stats on pro-choice women versus men are inaccurate, and the majority of women are pro-choice. The idea that we need to admit more to certain fields is affirmative action for men. Do you not have an issue with that if you oppose gender based affirmative action? When they do it for men, they call it “gender balance.” Als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeMany men think “women” and “feminists” are synonyms, but there are many women who have internalized misogyny or uphold the status quo because we grow up in the same societies, and most women want to be liked by men, etc. Women can be assholes too—see r/NiceGirls. That’s not feminism, that’s being awful. Also, we can all be inconsistent. There was line on a comedy recently where one lesbian women says to her straight woman friend, “You believe in things! You believe in feminism. You think men sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:46 PM |
| -1 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeYet, many women can no longer have abortions in the many states in the USA even when their life is at risk. When it comes to women’s rights, nothing is conceded without a fight. Many universities continue to favor male applicants in 2025 in the USA. We are actualky still arguing about whether or not the ERA passed. Also, women and girls matter globally. Please define “ahead” of men. If you are talking about women dominated fields like psychology, men still dominate the state boards and the journ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?No, the moderate thing is something women currently complain about. I’m not going to act as if I know every woman or her thought processes, and I would ask you to stop doing that to every woman you talk to. We are not a monolith. Also, just because you disagree doesn’t make it an “obvious lie.” If you want to use Reddit as a guide, there are tons of posts where women do have to make a difficult decision once they find out the podcasts the man listens to, or who he voted for. Maybe they find out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?I don’t think participation in patriarchal bargaining is passive at all. It’s a choice. This goes back to white women choosing to align themselves with white supremacy during slavery or Trump voters in 2016 and 2024. These are the people who did not expect the leopards to eat THEIR face. I will also say I know plenty of radical older white women. My own mom volunteered with Food Not Bombs, joined the DSA, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:14 PM |
| 8 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?I think that does certainly happen, but a lot of women will ask and will post their political affiliations on the OLD profile. So a conservative man who takes the date and doesn’t mention his politics is lying by omission. Also, I hear men now tell women they are “moderate,” when they are really conservatives. They don’t mean moderate DEMs or even neoliberals, but guys who voted for Trump for “economic reasons.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:11 PM |
| 10 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?Older white women often participate in patriarchal bargaining, where they align themselves with the men they believe will protect them, but then are surprised when they lose their rights. It’s more about dependency and not realize when they are part of the “them” in “us against them.” This doesn’t mean there aren’t plenty of left-wing older white women. I am an example, and my nonwhite husband is also left wing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:17 PM |
| 15 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?The research suggests women more strongly prefer someone likeminded politically than men who are more likely to accept a date with a woman despite her politics. One stat said that only one out of ten men would decline a date based on politics. Men are also more likely to downplay or lie about their politics until they feel secure in a relationship. I think some men become more conservative within a relationship as they age, amass wealth, etc., while leftwing women tend to stay that way, unless t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Are genuinely assertive women just a myth?Even assertive and dominant men can relax into emotional vulnerability when they need to, if there is emotional safety. I don’t think staying hypervigilant is sustainable for anyone 100% of the time. Everyone needs a soft place to fall. Everyone has doubts and needs help. I think even men would agree that making 100% of the decisions or being responsible for 100% of the providing and protecting can be really exhausting and emotionally distancing. I have known truly dominant women but they tended… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 04:01 PM |
| -3 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternative“Recent UN reports highlight that progress on gender equality is not on track to meet the 2030 Sustainable Development Goals, with significant challenges including a global rise in poverty, conflict-related violence, and backlash against women's rights.” Women in the USA had to win the right to vote, to own property, to keep property after the death of a husband, to handle money, to open a bank account, to keep wages, to equal pay for the same work, to have a line of credit, to their reproductiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.If that’s “very clear” why do men still abandon their babies or have more than they can reasonably parent? At least single women are parenting. Since you don’t like women, take it up with the men, the baby daddies. I’m sure you know that less than half of children get their full child support amount. Over 56% get a partial payment or nothing at all. There’s your bad guys, deadbeat dads. You don’t have to blame the moms and kids for that. That’s basic misogyny though. Take it out on the women and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.That’s been debunked so many times. Men absolutely can get SOLE custody if they want it and if they have a good job and the space for a child, but many men not only don’t pursue joint custody but settle for visitation, and many men also don’t pay child support. Only about half of children receive their full ordered child support amount. The courts actually favor the best interest of the child, and what you are talking about, privileging the mother, was based on the fact that mothers were once th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.That’s what this is really about. You are mad that she dated and had a baby with someone else first, because you clearly think you are the better man, except that you are not, because you are busy hating women you don’t even know. You have this fantasy where the mother gets punished for having the baby and caring for it. That’s some creepy shit. If you want to be logical about this, why not hate on men with multiple baby mamas who often don’t even pay child support? Who chronically let a woman t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.LOL, you asked, bro. Great though, you can go be wrong elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.Look up Walkaway Wife Syndrome. Most women with kids leave because they sadly discover it will be easier to do it alone than with a trifling man. Were you raised by a single mom? Do you even know what you are talking about? Most people who were are grateful to the parent who did everything alone. Also, don’t ask people to provide you with info you could easily google. I’m not your mom, teacher or librarian. And put your own damn clothes in the hamper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 03:11 PM |
| 8 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.If she is a single mom, then the dad is either not coparenting or paying child support, or they are amicably co-parenting, in which case, you have nothing to worry about. BTW, the reason women initiate divorces is that they don’t want to raise a grown man. A baby is enough. Single mom hate is a chronically online thing. Men raised by single moms respect single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 03:06 PM |
| 8 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.My problem is with the dads who bail. It takes two to make a baby. At least moms stick it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 03:03 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing women bring to the table other than reproductionYou said it yourself: Wimen do not enter the field at the same rates as men. It’s not even close. You are almost getting it. WHY is that? And why, despite the dearth of women in the field, are many noteworthy contributions attributed to women? It’s not for lack of interest on the part of women but systemic barriers that still exist today. Even the way you speak about this reeks of gatekeeping and bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 07:57 AM |
| 3 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menRandom, but I saw your username and I call my birthday “the reign of terror.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.I don’t take it personally if a man doesn’t orgasm as well. I ask if there’s something I can do to help. Can I blow him or jerk him off or let him give me a pearl necklace, tit fucking, etc. I’m still really invested in his orgasm and being an active participant because I care. I do expect that in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Women afford men grace ALL THE TIME. That’s where faking orgasms comes from: liking a man, enjoying being with him, but not orgasming with him. And not every man likes it when you tell him you didn’t come so you need to self-pleasure now, so it’s a delicate situation. Most men expect to orgasm every time, barring anti-depression meds or something like that. Most women do not. So please don’t talk to women about grace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Wow, this is a wild self-own. You can use her body to thrust but you won’t use your fingers, your tongue or a toy on her to show that you care about her pleasure? WTF? Also, just because you haven’t been with a woman who can blow you to completion doesn’t mean women don’t do it all the time. Women do touch themselves during sex, but I think what you are talking about is more parallel play than actually getting a woman off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:03 PM |
| 2 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menI mean, you can still run the bases. I don’t think I mentioned no burn, just a slow burn, letting it build. Edit: You gotta get the date too—no extended text and phone only phase. The urgency will fizzle out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.That isn’t an apt comparison. It takes two or it isn’t sex. She is lending you her orifices. You have multiple ways you can orgasm. A lot of women, the majority, have only one, so if you don’t participate in getting her there, in getting each other there, she is better off using a clit stim toy alone without you there to distract her, and you might as well stay home and masturbate. Your dick may feel nice but if it can’t help her finish, you aren’t satisfying her. I would not go around telling w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 08:28 PM |
| 2 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menI agree: I’ve met just as many awful men who were unattractive as attractive assholes. Sometimes attractive people are well adjusted and unattractive people are not—it’s very individual. I do think mutual attraction and a sense of ease together is the first green flag. Either attraction is there from the start or it builds, but it has to be there. I would not pity date in order not to feel superficial, and I would not let anyone wear you down. No one deserves to settle or be settled for. It real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:50 PM |
| 3 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menI think both can be true: Women should have the sex they WANT to have, even if it is right away, but it is also very difficult to reverse engineer a hook up or a situationship into a relationship. That either happens naturally or it doesn’t. So going for a slow burn allows for both parties to be on the same page, and men who just want sex are not going to stick around for that, while men who do want a relationship will. There are a lot of good reasons to get to know each other first. When I was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:42 PM |
| 3 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menAwww! I’m glad you yearn! Which ones do you recommend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:33 PM |
| 4 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menHonestly, I want both love and lust. There is nothing wrong with lust, it’s just that we all also want joy and emotional safety too. I’m married and I jokingly told my husband that I would like to see more yearning like in the movies. That yearning is a young people’s game and I miss it. He used to yearn! He said, it’s very hard to yearn after all these years spending all our free time together but I will try to yearn for you at work. I said, I, in turn, will try to be more alluring and aloof be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Most men can orgasm in multiple ways. Most straight men orgasm from PIV—maybe not you, according to what you indicated here if so understand correctly. An overwhelming percentage of women do not finish via PIV. It depends a lot on a women’s physiology and those subtle differences in anatomy happen for us in the womb because all orgasms are clitoral orgasms but the distance from the clit to the vaginal opening makes a difference in terms of PIV orgasms. (I’m one of the lucky women who can finish … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:43 PM |
| -2 | Feminists will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify why men should adhere to gender roles.All women are not feminists. Feminist not a synonym for women because men and non-binary folks can be feminists. Women grow up in the same societies as men, and some internalize and uphold the same toxic messages and harmful and rigid gender norms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:48 AM |
| 5 | There's nothing women bring to the table other than reproductionAlso, he completely disregards the patriarchal factors that kept women out of academia, out of STEM, and all the women who have been sidelined or have not been credited for their significant scientific and mathematical contributions. The documentary, Picture A Scientist, (2020) should be required viewing for men in sciences because that shit is still going on today. https://www.pictureascientist.com/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:41 AM |
| 7 | There's nothing women bring to the table other than reproductionYour point has been disproven though. Even Stephen Wolfram refutes you. Lovelace and Lamar’s contributions are factual, and the history of innovation is layered. As I said earlier, I worked for an early search engine in the 1990s-early 2003 before I went into academia. This was before Google. I didn’t need a Buzzfeed quiz, although I think if that kind of thing inspires curiosity to learn more, it isn’t terrible. I do find it sad that you are so dismissive of women. It reeks of insecurity tbh. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 11:53 PM |
| 3 | There's nothing women bring to the table other than reproductionNo one here said women invented computing. That’s not even in the excerpt of my comment that you quoted. It’s that not only do women work, and have always worked, but that women have historically contributions to computing and the internet that can be factually proven. I purposely chose older examples, but the list of noteworthy women in computing does go on and on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 11:40 PM |
| 12 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Umm, not if the sex was bad, and sex with disingenuous guys who don’t care if you finish IS bad sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 10:54 PM |
| 3 | There's nothing women bring to the table other than reproductionThanks to you and to u/bluestjuice for expanding so thoroughly on what I could not right before I went to sleep. As you stated, I never did use the word “invent” in regards to computing or the internet, but the idea that women don’t work “jobs” today, or that women didn’t contribute to and haven’t been working towards the very technology we are using to argue on is so wild. I used famous historical examples widely known to make a quick point. I appreciate you both. I AM a middle aged woman, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 10:03 PM |
| 24 | There's nothing women bring to the table other than reproductionWomen have always worked outside the home. OP must be under 14 and has a SAHM mom he kicks around not to know that. Women’s reproductive value is a moot point when OP’s personality is so repellent he can’t get laid anyway. That’s why he’s posting this at 1:30 am on a weekend. The irony is that OP is ranting on the internet, which he would not be able to do without women’s contributions to computing and STEM technology. See the factual information about Ada Lovelace’s and Hedy Lamar’s contributio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to WomenSame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to WomenI think confidence and a well-adjusted attitude counts for a lot. We all have our problems, but if we can bring the sunshine to someone else, if we have emotional intelligence, that counts for a lot. Women need to feel that the man likes them as a person or that he wants to get to know her, with good faith. Also, chemistry doesn’t happen in pictures on apps. It takes a little time and has a lot to do with the way someone talks and moves. Think about famous actors who are heartthrobs through the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itSingle men do this too. They pay a surrogate or they co-parent with a woman friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 08:20 AM |
| 3 | It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid.Re: No. 1: I’m never going to tell a man he’s not masculine. He’s a man. Done. ✔️ I don’t think anyone benefits from rigid gender norms. I’m a woman and I’m not going to let some man tell me I’m not feminine because I missed a few boxes here on their societal construct checklist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 12:21 AM |
| 1 | It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid.Girls WILL like you if you are extra nice to them, but that doesn’t mean they will want to date or have sex with you. The research does indicate that we are more attracted to people who are kind to and interested in us. To be fair, most of the mothers I know have taught their sons to be gentleman, to be thoughtful and socially aware, to respect women and value consent, and those young men are dating and doing fine, but at the same time most kids are starting later. I think there are too many thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 09:23 PM |
| – | Purplepilldebate women are better conversationalist than the women on askfeministsYeah, I’m not seeing what you are seeing. No makeup <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 07:19 PM |
| – | Purplepilldebate women are better conversationalist than the women on askfeministsAre you sure this is r/AskFeminists ? There are other feminist subreddits. The top posts today are about Bell Hooks, why some people believe misandry isn’t real, and the concept of the male gaze, etc. The point of the subreddit is to ask feminists questions about feminism, less to debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 07:15 PM |
| – | Purplepilldebate women are better conversationalist than the women on askfeministsI joined AskFeminists and I think it’s very well moderated, and the women are erudite. They don’t like low effort antagonism gotcha questions or questions that aren’t about feminism in particular. Not all women are feminists. Women uphold the toxic parts of the status quo, like harmful gender norms, or gender tribalism (misogyny/misandry) just as much as men do. They don’t do relationship questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | What do women like about going out on a date?So you have one made up sounding Reddit story as a counterpoint? Also, having it made was more inconvenient for the guy, and that was the point being made. It’s actually easier for the guy to just go buy a real diamond than to have one specially made. So that story isn’t even relevant. But yeah, some women are assholes. I don’t believe in supporting blood diamonds either,btw. I’m a married woman who doesn’t even have a wedding ring. It was never a priority for me and I am one of those people who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | "Rizz" is not an actual thingI know a few totally average guys who have TONS of charisma or charm. A lot of it is simply about how you make THE OTHER PERSON feel. Imagine that. If you observe someone and proceed with warmth and good intentions and little boldness, it’s not hard to rizz or be disarming. Also, it helps if you can write if you are talking on the OLD apps. Ask women about themselves and take an interest in them as individuals as potential friends, not just another guy who wants a hook up with anyone attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:25 PM |
| 2 | What do women like about going out on a date?I saw an episode of Comedians In Cars Getting Coffee with Jerry Seinfeld and another comedian. I can’t remember the guy’s name bc I was unimpressed. He whined that “Women only like gifts from a man if they were inconvenient to get. You have to go to the florist. You can’t just buy her a rose at the restaurant.” His tone was just shitty. Seinfeld looked at him incredulously and said, “BECAUSE she’s deciding if she might want to have your baby someday. She’s looking to see what YOU GOT.” He meant … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | "Rizz" is not an actual thingRizz or charisma or charm is real. Rizz is also user as a verb, to charm someone and put them at ease with you, to get them to like you. I have a guy friend who is the most charismatic person I have ever met, and he’s not tall, and he’s ordinary looking, but everyone loves him. He makes friends wherever he goes. He loves talking to people. He does really well on the apps, in person, and makes men friends easily. He doesn’t fumble. He is able to “close the deal” with women, and I don’t think it’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 02:45 PM |
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