OddGovernment1602 Archive

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0	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this	ADVICE	OddGovernment1602	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 02:14 AM

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3	Alimony laws force men to provide after the relationship ends. Men seek sex and affection. No laws force women to uphold that role in or outside of the relationship. Alimony if granted applies when there is a spouse who was economically disadvantaged by the marriage. In no way does being married and then not being married disadvantage anyone from getting sex and affection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 01:08 AM
1	The best way for men to weed out the inauthentic women is to get separate orders on dates. This is hilariously stupid 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 09:14 PM
3	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this Good perspective. I can certainly wear it I just didn't want to have a discussion about it in front of the others. I'll discuss with my fiancé on what he's told her so far and probably I will reach out to her in private beforehand to thank her for her beautiful gesture and although it's very beautiful I really wanted a more simple ring chosen by him and I, and that if she's ok with it we can try to incorporate the stones in the band to still honor his family. Just to smooth it over without an au…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 10:11 PM
2	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this No, it does not pain me to frame things gently when having a tough conversation with him- I said " i go through pains", sorry it was late and I was exhausted- I meant to say "I go through lengths" meaning, I really take care to frame things gently and thoughtfully because I'm aware he gets hypersensitive at times. For context I tend to be very straightforward favoring a direct style of communicating. It's how I'm wired. All I meant to say is that I didn't attack him on this at all, to the contra…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 08:58 PM
2	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this Thank you for the advice, this is what I was seeking help with, guidance on moving forward now and not harming the relationship with her. I know it's really important to have one.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 07:02 PM
3	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this Lol thank you and I agree. Ironically, she fashioned her own ring as a tacky replica of Diana's. You're completely right, this isn't a prized heirloom passed down for generations. She likes to rework old jewelry and that's great, she could've had a gorgeous ring or pendant necklace for herself that reminds her of her grandmother and then pass down to her daughter. Or I would've loved having the ring from her as long as it was just a gift from her- not my engagement ring. Some of the comments are…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 07:00 PM
1	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this Thank you for validating how I feel and I agree. Ive always been picky with jewelry even since I was a child and I used to wish I wasn't like that but at this point I've accepted it's just how I am for whatever reason. She knows this. My aunt went through an antique charm bracelet phase and gave me one for a birthday as a kid. I tried to get excited for it, I even added some charms of things I was into at the time like basketball and gymnastics but as much as I tried I didn't love wearing it, it…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 06:11 PM
2	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this Thank you for your kindness, truly. I don't mean to offend anyone who perhaps has an heirloom ring and it wasn't about the cost of anything. He went all out on the actual proposal and it was stunning, but if it were up to me, if he did it in our backyard I would've been just as thrilled. I am simple and I don't expect much or ask for extravagance. I barely even celebrate my own birthday but I'm very thoughtful when it comes to giving with both him and his family. There is a lot of background on …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 05:52 PM
1	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this I'm not making the assumption, I'm merely speculating as to her motive. She does constantly talk about sales and deals and saving money, so for me trying to make sense of why she wouldve assured him not to buy a ring for me- that she would get one made out of a single (1) earring she inherited... it seems very makeshift for a family that presents like they have more than I believe they do because they value surrounding themselves with a level of society that's just on a level way above them, and…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 04:17 AM
2	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this Not at all. I'm just bringing that info in because I think it's a red flag if he is exorbitant with everything else in his life with only our engagement ring as the exception and as a result I'm left in a very difficult spot with her because I will not allow her to hijack my engagement. I'm 34 years old, I'm an adult, I don't do things* I do not want to do, don't go along with situations that disregard my feelings to "be nice" anymore, and I think I'm within my right to a ring that considered my…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 04:04 AM
-8	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this That's not the point re. her daughter. The point is this is not type of family where you can see they sport heirlooms. And again- an engagement ring is not a welcome gesture nor the mil's responsibility, unless the groom could not fulfill this one gesture that he should be happy to do for his woman.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 03:27 AM
-5	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this How so?	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 03:12 AM
-3	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this Also, welcome to the family being one thing and that would make sense. It would make a lovely cocktail that I'm sure I'd be happy to wear on occasion. Here, she purposefully created something that is 100% her, her style (with no regard or input on if it's something I'd like or not- and she knows I wouldn't have picked that), and with something as significant as an engagement ring, most people would at least try to get something they'd like to wear right?	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 02:37 AM
-5	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this Because I've never seen the mother in law provide the engagement ring for her son when he's established and they're not even that close personally, and literally tell him: "don't worry about it- I've already got something for her".....OK, even if this was an option, why discourage him from going to stores to look, finding out from friends and my family the styles I would like? Her daughter doesn't wear these "heirlooms," and just simply it creeps me out she "took care of the ring" for my fiancé,…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 02:27 AM
52	Women Breadwinners and How to Get Energy This man's behavior is manipulative and it sounds like he's using you. You clearly have a lot going for you. Two great books that shed insight and advice on similar situations are Women Who Love Too Much and Why Does He Do That.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/25 11:32 PM
1	Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy. I don’t give a damn about the “collective” because I don’t buy into regurgitated narratives that blame every problem in my life on the “collective other.” Of course it’s fucking suspicious, manipulative and creepy for men to “announce their status to pre-qualify themselves” (wtf?). It’s never about [whatever we’re lambasting women for today]. There’s always an underlying angle about getting an upper hand on or access to women, and they will also throw in some disparaging and degradation in the p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 09:19 PM
11	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate Sara Blakely, Amal Clooney were both considered “spinsters” for choosing to build superstar careers and wait for the right man. They turned out ok. Enter the rp ire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 10:58 AM
1	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate Genuinely curious, what are some examples of delusional standards and the serious issue(s) in dating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 10:47 AM
2	Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy. Agreed. Nor do women automatically reject men who don’t go to therapy. This is absurd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 04:00 AM
7	Yesterday, men used women as their therapist. Today, too many men are in therapy. One article by a writer at Vox based on personal anecdote? Is that really your basis for the argument that “many women don’t like men who aren’t in therapy?” No, I don’t see that “many women don’t like men who aren’t in therapy” because of one woman. As for anyone (not just women) who would avoid someone who publicly parades their therapy-going, or shares this with a complete stranger, that’s their prerogative, and probably a wise choice as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 03:48 AM
1	The blue tax Imagine having to pay for something!!	/r/MensRights	16/08/24 04:11 AM
-2	The blue tax When was the last draft in the US?	/r/MensRights	16/08/24 03:47 AM
3	Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it. Not really though. TRPs say the same thing about being short. I know plenty of both short and/or ugly dudes with game who get girls. The ones who aren’t losers hustle and are confident and that’s attractive to many women. Personally I like them better because the typical “tall/attractive” guys have zero game and are uninteresting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 11:21 PM
0	RP theories lack nuance and draw extreme conclusions. So not accurate lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 05:53 AM
-3	Let's have this discussion, whom does society favors more? The last draft call in the US was in 1976..	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 03:39 PM
1	Redpill vs Reality Everything under “what redpill taught me” is literally all my brother talks about for the past 3/4 years	/r/ExRedPill	19/11/23 06:46 PM