OddPreparation3247 Archive

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3	In all seriousness, Men what do you want from women in regards to solving the modern dating problems ? I’m genuinely curious. Then I'll answer genuinely although I know I will be ridiculed for it. There is one main thing that would help and wouldn't be a loss for women: Don't spread this stereotype that being unattractive is a moral failing. It is not. There are many good people who are involuntarily lonely. Wet pussy is not a compass for ethics and morality. Just stop saying that or implying that and that one thing would improve things for everyone. I think many men are in a situation of lonelin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 10:48 AM
2	Aside from "Women's standards are too high or No more good men" Why do you think YOUR single? I'm too old to open myself up to a woman. I like the intimacy and dates and flirting but I'm not tall enough to be valued in a relationship. Being with a woman should be pleasant, calming and inspiring for a man but honestly, I feel as lonely now as I was in relationships but without all the stress, guilt and hassle. In short: sex is great but relationship is hell on earth for a man like me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 04:48 PM
1	Where have all the good men gone? My family isn’t wealthy. My parents were on welfare when they had me and since then we are middle class. To be clear, this assumption was about this coach guy you talked about and his arrogant remarks about young men, not you or your family. These girls really are very good. I grew up with them and they all follow the rules of the community to a T. My sister for example hasn’t even kissed a boy yet at 19. She was senior class vice president, competed in pageants, and is an amazing cook. Funnil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 01:40 PM
3	Where have all the good men gone? They bring up that all their daughters are smart, hardworking, kind, and beautiful while a lot of the boys Of course! Every father will think that about his little princesses, yet they don't know everything about her, so this is observation is veeeeery biased. My own dad mentioned my bf and how lucky I was to find someone like him. And how proud he was of my brother (17) for staying driven and doing well both academically and socially. ... and ... He’s nervous about her marrying that young but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 09:26 AM
4	Actual evidence that women are treated better than men overall ? The reason men choose more deadly means is because they want to be sure they will die. Because if there is something worse than death for a man it is being a burden to everyone by being rescued and incapacitated. Hell, even when rescued and recuperated compeletly he will be berated, humiliated and hated by everyone for daring to sufferr a little bit less. Women will receive support, men will be avoided like a plague and left alone to die, but more slowly and with more sufferring. Besides, most m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 11:45 AM
2	Men who want to move abroad to find love - why? I(M37)'m from East Europe, rather large old city with universities, tourism and active night life. When I was studying (c. 2006-2012) there were lots of drunk Germans, Brits and Yanks comming here to drink, fuck and shop. There were always women around those guys. TBH, if those guys were young, they were taller, healthier and more attractive than an average man from here, but most importantly, they were wealthier and exotic. Some girls loooved to show off their foreign boyfriends. It was also fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 12:40 PM
1	What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship? The circumstances of my father's death and how it affected my childhood, youth and adulthood. There was crying, because it was very painful for me. No yelling or aggression. She asked me because I get very silent and reserved when my father's death anniversary comes. The relationship was not healthy but I was too young to know. She didn't break up immediatelly but lost respect for me. Started treating me like someone inferior than her, mocked me in front of her family and friends, started fights…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 02:24 PM
1	Men are worse people morally than women Life is not fair. Women should just stop whining, start grinding for money, become physically stronger, more courageous and stand up to those evil men. Women should also call out other women (minority) for going after rich, powerful, psychopathic men or fucking violent criminals, alcoholics and drug dealers. Oh, and since some women have access (as wives or mistresses) to those powerful men who start wars, supress women's rights etc. why won't they just poison them or something? Surely, their st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 05:33 PM
2	Women complain the most about male horniness and yet they benefit the most out of it No. Many men are damaged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 01:14 PM
2	Women complain the most about male horniness and yet they benefit the most out of it The reason for this you gave is incorrect, imo. Its not about being horny. Many men (good and decent men) were conditioned throughout their lives that they don't represent any value as simply existing/being so they need to prove their usefulness to be admitted into society. And even when they're in, this admittance can be revoked any moment, so they will need to prove themselves constantly until they get enough self-love and self-respect to just be comfortable being human (it mostly happens arou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 10:55 AM
1	What are some examples of shit tests? I think "shit test" (I don't like RP terminology) starts when playful teasing becomes unpleasant for the other side. Examples: Playful teasing: you have a fun date and you have nice back-and-forth with a guy. You connect and feel like you knew eachother for years. You find him really hot and you want to make him a bit jealous, because he knows you like him and is a bit overconfident about it, so you casually say that some other guy nearby is really hot. Your date knows that you like him so he re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 06:15 PM
3	Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating? I feel for you. My short bros have it really hard. For what it is worth, women in my culture (East Europe) are known to be particularly height-centric (and money-centric for that matter) and height is my big insecurity, so I tend to notice it a lot. Best of luck!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 12:32 PM
10	Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating? I know 2 men who are not only "good overall people" but exceptionally good people, loyal friends, good heart, supportive, gentle (but tough in traditional masculine sense e.g. did hard manual labour, survived dangerous situations, can handle themselves in danger). They are among my best friends. They have close to 0 success rate because of their height. One is just short (160 cm) the other has a hormone disease that stunted his growth when he was a teen. Both also have darker hair and brown eyes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 09:44 PM
1	The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives... Nah, most of my male friends and relatives pull their weight in a relationship and are good, considerate and gentle people. Even those that are perpetually single add value to the lives of their close ones and friends. Most men are ok. Most women are ok. I think you believed all those sitcoms and ads that portray men as lazy bums and women as angels (Family Guy, anyone?). Also, women love to bitch about their SOs, but everyone needs to bitch about something from time to time. It doesn't mean tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 02:53 PM
–	This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective). I reread your post, as you advised. There is nothing there about being in relationships for love. It seems that, according to your post, women want a provider as a baseline and nothing particularly impressive, but then also require additional "features" to the mix. As you said, having an ok job to pay for your wife/gf is the bare minimum and being an "emotional provider" is now required. "Will you actually listen when we speak? Are you an engaging conversationalist? Are you funny? Do you have a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 10:07 PM
–	This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective). So, basically: Now that we are no longer needed, we should just kindly f*ck off. “Having an ok job to pay for your wife or girlfriend is no longer impressive, it is now considered the bare minimum." "Women are not bound to men for survival. If you have nothing to offer that we don’t already offer ourselves, that’s likely the reason you’re single!" Nothing really changed except you don't need us. I have always suspected that we were never really loved by women and all this "romantic" stuff was ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 04:53 PM
2	Which privileges aren’t women able to see? "My point is that being a man or woman isn’t always the most determinant factor in someone’s life" I completely agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 06:53 PM
1	Which privileges aren’t women able to see? Does it apply to her simply because she’s a woman though? It is never easy to tell with large and diverse groups but I think it does when it comes to violence and life expectancy. It seems universal across many cultures and ages. Perhaps we, as men, are more prone to certain illnesses and this will always make our life expectancy shorter. That is possible or even likely, but I don't think I have enough knowledge about it. I was referring to simple statistics that are, I thought, pretty uncontrov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 10:28 AM
1	My boyfriend of 3 months consumes Red Pill Content Your guy has been hurt and has deep problems, although he is by no means unique. You clearly aren't equipped to help him. He might be a good guy, just hurt. 3 months is not that long. It would be better for him if you moved on. If you really care about him, you should remain a friend so that he isn't left alone with this, but mind your boundaries and don't enable him - basically, it is not easy to be a friend with someone deeply hurt, so it is not your duty or anything. You should realize that y…	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/23 12:32 PM
1	What do you guys think of “Positive Masculinity”? I'm distrustful of it. It sounds to me like "convenient masculinity", namely "convenient-to-others masculinity". So, in the end, nothing really changes. Same old song.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/01/23 12:23 PM
2	Which privileges aren’t women able to see? Regardless of where or when she lives, Mary is less likely to be killed, maimed or physically hurt. She is more likely to survive to an old age and have children. She will have a better and healthier life than her male counterpart, assuming he survived his youth. Enjoy and live your life :) Mary won :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 09:34 AM
1	Losing a husband to RP The guy seems unappy in this marriage. Happy people don't get that deep in RP. If you don't feel you are able to help him then leave him. I assume you tried to get into possible underlying issues he might have and failed. If yes, there is nothing you can do. You were not meant for eachother. You will be fine. Him? Probably not. Good luck anyway. Nothing wrong in chosing your own happiness over mutual misery.	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/23 02:19 PM
-1	Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process. It is because most of them (RP/Incel) guys have more serious issues than simply "not getting any". When you talk to them there are ALWAYS hints of some issue: they say RP/BlckP stuff but they will drop hints in there about a loss of a friend, being abused, experiencing violence, being unemployed, being treated badly by their family, being seriously ill, experiencing racism. They are probably not able to talk about those things with anybody because nobody cares. So they post incel rants because t…	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/22 01:48 PM
2	Men and women over 30--how did your confidence progress over time? 37M. After many years at the bottom in my 20s I had 0 real confidence. Confidence I had was a defence mechanism to somehow function. Blamed everything on myself, hated myself for not living up to standards that were put on me and not being able to cope with problems that seemed to come up one after another. It all changed when I got a first steady job. Got really lucky and had to work my way up for many years enduring humiliation, unconstructive criticism and work overload to the point of total …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 12:35 PM
6	The Y-Chromosomal Bottleneck Probably Wasn't Caused By Extreme Polygamy I agree with you and OP. Although I am somewhat understanding to some RP theories and accept treating them as something like educated guesses or interesting insights, I cannot stand when people treat evopsych and RP theory as science, esp. when there are numerous other explanations possible. Someone once said that evopsych is "just so stories", one explanation among many others. Natural selection + sexual selection + heredity is our best explanation to how species came to being and how they chan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 01:12 PM
1	Genetic research suggests that in prehistoric human hunter-gatherers, more than four women reproduced for every man From the chart you can see that the disparity persisted even after humans migrated to the various different continents. Migrations were happening long after humans crossed specific continental barriers. E.g. the fact that homo sapiens entered Europe does not mean they stopped migrating inside Europe because they crossed some symbolic border and said "OK, that's it!". Sedentary lifestyle is a very new thing in our history. Again, "my" explanation is only a possible one but it is still better than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 07:14 PM
3	Genetic research suggests that in prehistoric human hunter-gatherers, more than four women reproduced for every man This subject is very interesting and we should note how little is known about it and be very careful in assigning causes. Big Y-Chromosome bottlenecks exist in our past. However, there might be many explanations and let me just propose one (not saying it must be true, but I think it is at least plausible): My explanation is for pre-Neolithic bottleneck: 1.Founder effect + 2. scouting groups containing more males. when it comes to genetic fitness a good strategy is simply being somewhere first. H…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 10:34 AM
1	CMV: Men have an easier time when it comes to long-term dating For me, a male, LTRs were mostly draining and destructive because in my 20s I was very lonely, poor and am not very good looking, so I was an easy prey for any woman that wanted something from me. If I had more options I would have avoided many unpleasant experiences and setbacks that pushed me back in life bc I would be more comfortable casually dating and getting to know eachother without serious commitment (as did my more attractive male friends). All in all, relationshps with women were net …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 02:12 PM
1	Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals? It is more about indoctrination into a hero myth. Societies teach young, mostly poor and underprivileged, boys that you are either a hero or you don't deserve a place in the community. In my opinion it stems from viewing most males not as humans but as machines/beasts of burden, whose lives and well-being are valued less than lives of women, children and few men on top. "Low value" males should abandon this notion of so called "love", as it is monstrous and inhuman to value your own health, bodi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 08:02 PM
2	Men look down on and laugh at women mostly because of their ineptitude as warriors and insulation from the act of war. But the only reason war exists is men. Why do we have a hierarchical structure in our society where women are on the bottom and men at the top? Mostly, I would say, because women have been barred from practicing magic for millennia thusly allowing those with more brute strength to take over. Hello, males, how's the weather up there? Am I still a male if I'm at the bottom? They say when you take your hand off the golf ball in the glass of water, it floats to the top. Will we, one day? You? Oh, for sure! Men like myself? I doubt it. Hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 05:38 PM
2	AF BB is the best dating strategy for men and women I'm not RP, but tbh I don't get how a judgment by a random guy is going to "hinder" some random woman's AF phase, esp. when she wouldn't like to be with such man or fuck him anyway? Women can do whatever they want and men can have any judgement they want. Men should also be able to express their feeling of being left out, lonely, sad, depressed - and other people will (and should be able to) judge them for those feelings. Many men are considered losers and everyone can pass judgement on them. Am…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 04:52 PM
1	Is TRP only or mostly a thing on Internet or you see redpilled men in real life too? I live in East Europe and I can spot some men like that. Many come accross TRP after some life hardship and then seeking self-improvement content. Having said that, I would be more worried about internet and recommendation algorithm that tends to show red-pill content along with harmless-looking dating or life advice.	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/22 09:04 PM
7	"MGTOW is disliked by women because the concept of men not putting up with them anymore scares them!" No, it's because you never shut up about how awful women are and how much you hate them. They are just another group of men at the bottom used for political ends. That is how fascism is built.	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/22 08:52 PM
2	One of the latest studies on the outcomes fatherless families, shows that what matters more are positive male role models more than a mere father at home. I lost my father when I was 11yo so I find the results of this studdy pretty obvious. I was surrounded by many men who helped me and "bridged the gap". I found throughout the years that if I wanted help I should ask a man because they were willing to help. Female relatives just expected me to "suck it up" and be "responsible", quiet and "not to be a burden" for my mom. Female teachers just treated me like damaged goods, like I was already lost. And I would be lost if not for the men I encounterr…	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/22 08:45 AM
1	What value does a man bring to a modern relationship? I want to tell you that you ARE to be loved, Thanks for kind word, man. I'm afraid I'm too old for love now. I go on many dates, too many to manage sometimes with a job and life but I've been through too much shit in life to find a connection with a woman. We would mostly spend a nice week or two together, make out, fuck, have a good time, but they all want something from me in the end and mask drops off. If I were in my 20s I would probably go for it but I'm too far gone now. Paradoxically, bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 10:13 PM
2	What value does a man bring to a modern relationship? Men were rarely loved in the past. They were needed. The ones that were not needed were cast out. Now that most of us are not needed women won't be with most of us. Even as a lower class we will provide and boost women in our lives and society because that is what we were taught to do and the more we provide, the less needed we are. Future is female. We should just stop bothering happy people and go die alone, preferably mad. I realized lately that never in any of my relationships was I really l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 08:46 AM
1	Can we talk about women with BPD. Is this thread a joke? Nearly everyone blames the guy and justifies the abuser. Why is it so hard to believe that: many abused men turn to redpill female abusers face less consequences for the damage they cause abused men are ignored, ridiculed and required to fix themselves Jesus, this is ridiculous. OP, take care and don't listen to those who try to make you sound crazy. Trust your perceptions. Trust your instincts. Protect yourself at all times. Slowly heal yourself and try to find joy in lif…	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/22 09:04 AM
1	For those of you who had fatherless homes, how did it affect you negatively? 37M, East Europe. My father died when I was 11yo after two years of horrible disease. The main thing was that there was no one to protect me from my mother. I needed to be well behaved, protect her reputation in public so that no one accuses her of being a bad mother, listen to her problems, watch her relationships with men she didn't love and humiliated, and somehow manage to do normal child/adolescent things like growing up, figuring out friendships and dating, school. I got used to always pla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 10:50 PM
3	Do things like this confirm the redpill narrative? Try a thought experiment. What would be a version for men: "When looking for a life partner, my advice to men is to date all of them: crazy chicks, cheating chicks, gold-digger chicks, hot chicks that sometimes chase you with a knife. Crazy chicks are good in bed but not always wife material. When it is time to settle down, find a good and caring woman, who thinks a man can have emotions and be vulnerable, who will support you and be on your team, who will love you. Those women exist and, trust …	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 09:46 PM
2	I’m falling back into the red pill due to being jaded that I have to do all the approaching That's just dating. You are attracted to someone -> you approach. OLD makes it easier when the woman is attracted to you, but you still have to do something, if she doesn't write first. I don't think redpill can crack this particular old chestnut. Sorry I can't give you any usable advice. Take care!	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 08:17 PM
2	I’m falling back into the red pill due to being jaded that I have to do all the approaching I get a lot of matches on dating apps but I have to manage the entire conversation. No reason to mix redpill into this. Perhaps you simply don't like texting? How about proposing a meetup in person as quick as possible (e.g. after 3 texts)? You can tell her honestly that texting is not your thing and you prefer to talk IRL. If she is not up for it, then she will ghost or decline and you both save yourselves some time. You should also verify your profile and not present as "too good to be true" :…	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 07:40 PM
2	If I'm to be frank, I think a certain selection of people here do not host an environment that's helpful for Red Pillers to detox. What I think is the worst "commandment" of TRP is "don't be mad at women". If you read their theories, after paragraphs about "female toxic nature", "female manipulation" etc. there is always something like: "But don't be angry at women, simply accept these facts and try to use it to your advantage". But what if you have a right to be mad at women that wronged you? What if you want to see women as moral agents, full humans? Doesn't that imply that you also "get mad" at them for certain actions? …	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/22 11:19 AM
2	Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy? I think you are conflating getting a LTR with finding love. I think that many men here don't believe they can find love anymore, and think they will end up in a LTR with a partner that won't love them, won't support them and will only put demands on them for emotional and material support. To be frank, women often overestimate how good of a partner they are, and how much they give to a man, so they will be baffled why men would rather have some semblance of love by being sexually intimate instea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:06 PM
1	Why men prefer younger women None of the reasons that RP gives for that are valid. I like younger women because I feel good in their company and I find them attractive. Perhaps it is due to social change but young people tend to be more open and compassionate than my cohort, so it is easy to find common language and values with women 5-10yrs younger. Single women my age and older tend to be more focused on strict gender roles, money, and required more unreciprocated emotional support from me. Younger women only wanted to kn…	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/22 04:58 PM
-2	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? Firstly, men do not have a monopoly on loneliness, nor are the highest rates of loneliness concentrates among men as a broad category. Elderly people, people with disabilities, immigrants who are not fully fluent in the country's dominant language, teenagers, homeless people, those living in institutions etc. have higher reported rates of loneliness. This is not a good comparison. We should be comparing reported loneliness of men to other genders, not mixed-gender social groups. Fair comparison …	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/22 08:09 PM
7	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? Your thoughts resonate with my experience. Loneliness seems inescapable at this point for me. Nowadays I am quite happy overall, learned to cope with it and find joy in life by being good at things and proud of myself and of what I have achieved. I sometimes joke to myself that 10 years ago I would never even expect to be in a place I am now. My life had so many unexpected and unpredictable twists and turns that a young me would be in shock of what he will be capable of. However, there is someth…	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/22 05:32 PM
1	Young, hot (and submissive) women are at a major disadvantage when it comes to finding a LTR compared to older or less attractive women "Add in submission and agreeableness, chances they're going to end up with the wrong person because they will say yes to one of the guys swarming her, who is only pretending to be nice or interested in the same things as her due to wanting her body." Submission and agreeableness are not virtues. They are common in cowards, conformists, lazy people and are always doing more harm than good. Submissive and agreeable women are harmful for society and almost always end up supporting evil men with the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 02:01 PM
1	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Most men are socially conditioned to bind their self-worth to being validated by a relationship with a woman. Men are trained from young age that there are only two ways to be valuable to society and, therefore, worthy of existence in a civilized society: To start a family, have children and provide for them. To be at the top of one's field and therefore provide something to push the society forward. Our society, of which women are an important part, views a man who lives for his own happiness a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 12:17 PM
1	Women in Ukraine should've fought Russian soldiers. Sorry to jump in. TBH I find it hard to believe, but this topic interests me so I would be grateful for sources - they are hard to find, admittedly. I checked sex ratio by age for the Soviet Union after WWII and there is a big drop in M/F ratio, esp. in the ages around conscription. SU is a good example bc. the war was waged on their territory, it was total and deliberately waged against the civilians, so one would expect gender ratios would be less skewed. However the effects of war are seen ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 01:28 PM
4	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? Some solutions: Don't reinforce the idea that a male's worth is dependent on his romantic/sexual success. When talking about some guy who is lonely in his 30's or 40's refrain from describing him as "creepy" or "weird" or stating that "there's probably sth wrong with him". Some comments can really harm a person if they get spread around. Try to not imply that romantic failure is a moral/ethical one. Esp. don't teach that to young boys, bc it will be harmful in the long run. Acknowledge that you,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 08:38 AM
2	Why this misconception that less attractive men will treat women better? When it comes to personality, unattractive can mean emotionalimmaturity, It can. People come with various personalities. But from my lived experience unattractive people need to mature emotionally fast to survive in social context. You need to be very aware and emphatetic to other people if you are unattractive. you spend more time considering other people's emotions, beliefs, desires. And you need to be better at setting boundaries and spotting manipulation because many people will try to use y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 10:08 AM
2	Would you marry a chronically ill woman that may die at any time? I was with a woman with CF, wanted to propose, had a ring and all. Was in love, she was not. She was beautiful (I am average) and she was the one that initiated our relationship so I don't think I was using her for sex. Broke up with me after I told her I had struggled with depression and suicidal thoughts some years before. I guess she feared that I will be a burden to her with my own problems instead of being able to take care of her. Told me I deceived her by not telling her outright before s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 06:04 PM
10	I'm really glad this subreddit exists There is no help JP or any Red Pill peddlers can give to men. Notice how they use the same tools as abusive women do: shame. You are shamed for having full range of human emotion, for not grinding enough, for having been wronged. They cast women in a role of some kind of Darwinian monsters, supreme infallible arbiters of your worth as a human being. Your ultimate goal in life should be either to trick them (RedPill) or impress them enough (JP) to get your "male-justified-to-exist" card. And, rem…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/06/22 12:31 AM
1	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think You wouldn't believe how many women argued with me AGAINST the right to safe abortion. Despite being a LVM with little money and little romantic success I always support bodily autonomy for women (or anybody, for that matter). Last year there were one of the biggest protests for women's rights in my country in history. I saw many men there, as many men as women I might say, many of them probably not quite romantically successful (just like me). Many of those men got beaten up by the police or vi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/22 07:37 PM
2	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think I decided my needs and my well-being are most important to me - basically I started to think like a woman and like every person should think. No more RedPill. No more BlackPill. Just hiking, training, music, books and friends. I don't need no woman to be happy, I don't need to love them nor hate them. It was all lies :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/22 06:23 PM
4	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think As a man near the bottom I was told by polite society that: my body is to be used for profit of men on top my body can be punched, kicked and mutilated and it was funny my health is to be sacrificed for "higher purpose" of society's well-being my mouth must not complain my life can be sacrificed anytime some psycho man on top decides it my time is to be wasted to give happiness to others I am not a man unless a woman decides I am a man by choosing me If I am not a man and not a woman I am nothin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/22 05:28 PM
1	How can I stop feeling resentment and jealousy towards women? So since you critique TRP and TBP, what would you advise the typical young non-Chad man do? I wouldn't dare give someone any general advice because I know how annoying it was for me to receive it. But you put me on the spot so I would say: For me it took just a few weeks without scrolling (basically, detox) for my overall mental health to get better and obsessive thoughts to loosen their grip. If you don't poke the wound it will heal. There will be scars but they don't hurt and look cool :) So, …	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/22 06:44 PM
2	Is this sexist? You are clearly looking for a verbal fight. You started with a fairly normal post (no sexism in preferences) and then went on to escalate. There is no indication that you are looking to escape the Red Pill, so why waste your time here? There are guys here that are genuinely suffering and trying to escape. You are not one of them. You probably fell into the RP bog somewhere in the previous decade and might be too far gone. Hope I'm wrong. Take care.	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/22 03:59 PM
2	How do they convince people it works? Just to add something positive, things really seem to be changing. Despite all the talk in the media, young people really give me some hope for the future. Even young men, who are bombarded with all this RP poison, constantly want to break free. There are many right here, struggling, but still fighting. Young women are more open-minded and understanding, despite being punished for their empathy. As a guy in my 30s I honestly admire you all for not giving up. I observe young people at work and in…	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/22 01:51 PM
5	How do they convince people it works? The short answer is "Boomers be entitled". The long one: it is easier to teach a dog to speak than to make an older guy from the West be a little bit self-aware. I see it over and over again in my country (Eastern Europe): old ugly fat fucks from US or UK, yellow corn-like teeth, mantits, always drunk, coming over and hitting on young women. I remember having a beer with my good friend when a fat drunk boomer from the US approached us and after some small talk asked with a straight face if my fr…	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/22 10:59 AM
3	How can I stop feeling resentment and jealousy towards women? You cannot simply stop feeling something. Feelings and emotions are there specifically to override our rational brains and spur us to do (sometimes) stupid shit that might have given us some evolutionary advantage in the long-gone past. If you are in therapy then you were probably prompted to name the emotions you feel, because you mention resentment and jealousy. But is it all? There is a strong emotion that is very common in human males that gets overlooked in therapy, namely: feeling of injus…	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/22 09:08 AM
2	Men who escaped the Redpill or Inceldom, what's the biggest advice you would give for the ones who are still struggling? Don't try to "escape" because it will make those beliefs even more powerful. Rather try to integrate them and "outgrow" the ideology by growing as a person. I would also not recommend forcing yourself to "understand" or "empathise with" women - it will only make you more angry. If you are in a hole you are in no position to be supportive and understanding because it is YOU who needs help. Just leave them be for you have your own battles to win that are unique to men. Understand that women are no…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/22 09:45 PM
19	How can you tell if a channel is RP or Men's improvement? I don't think it is that hard to recognize RP content. All those channels have certain aesthetics and language patterns to them. Listen for words like "love", "friendship", "compassion", "dignity", "joy". RP content creators have a real difficulty with those words and, if they even say them, they do it with cynicism and vitriol. Simply put - they treat them as lies. Second thing, the biggest one, is that they hate YOU even more than they hate women. They can veil misogyny, but they are unable to…	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/22 07:35 PM
1	The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill I am sorry about your friend. Nothing one could say to explain a suicide. All I know is that it takes a great amount of pain for a person to decide. I've been close but never crossed the line. Loneliness is a slow but steady killer, that I can tell. And there are people left behind, who feel the pain and the loss. Losing someone close makes you feel kinda "outside", like you watch people living their lives and cannot even imagine joining them, being a part of human society, because grief makes y…	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/22 10:20 PM
1	Do women have it easier than men? The answer is YES, but you arrived at it from spurious and/or simplistic reasoning (deduced it from a faulty RedPill belief system). It is like you gave a correct solution to a math problem by accident (or cheating). You also seem to imply that "having it easier" equals "having better and more fulfilled life". Living under a bell jar may be easy, but is it fun? If you listen closely to what women say, you will realize how painful such an existence is. Take note especially when they try to talk t…	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/22 09:49 PM
1	Trying to understand what is so appealing about RP to men and if some men are more susceptible to it Sorry for the delay. What you wrote was quite eye-opening. I felt disconnected, because my country did not even exist before >1960s. And the men and women were the same pitiful, postwar people >who could barely survive. We did not go through women could not own >properties or women could not vote, because we were colonized. No >native of any gender could own properties safely let alone vote. That is what I feel when I watch some developments on the left in western sphere. My country was also col…	/r/ExRedPill	12/05/22 04:22 PM
2	You guys come here with your very redpill thoughts.. to an ex redpill forum…. And then argue and gaslight people that make sense… but are opposing of your STILL redpill views. you want advice but then when someone’s got a response that isn’t “awe poor >baby it’s okay to be short or it’s okay to be whatever your insecurity is” …. >When people aren’t coddling you…. You get defensive. Which again…. Is your >insecurity attacking the truth. You don’t want advice or you’d be open to all >of it. You want coddling. You don’t want the solutions people offer, you want >a pity party and self loathing and you wanna argue. I, personally, am glad for every young man who still has i…	/r/ExRedPill	12/05/22 03:15 PM
1	Trying to understand what is so appealing about RP to men and if some men are more susceptible to it I didn’t think I would come across as being on a high horse. You probably won't come across as that for most people. Some people are just more sensitive to some things. I saw the Elliot Rodger massacre and read bits of his manifesto I remember watching a YT video about it once where a psychologist or someone analysed whole pages of those ramblings. To be honest there was nothing there I could relate to personally. It was uncanny valley, like someone took some relatable experiences and just showe…	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/22 12:54 PM
1	Trying to understand what is so appealing about RP to men and if some men are more susceptible to it "I have always wondered how ..red/black pillers or manosphere crowds who chose to be in the lefty space actually fare. " Tbh better than right-wing guys imho. At least I know how to separate emotions and ethics. They seem to be disguising their strong emotions with a thin layer of facts & logic. I know that when I'm angry - I'm angry. No need to build a philosophy or political program around it. That is a one less shackle. " I am not exactly in righty sphere (I support LGBTQA+ too much for that)…	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/22 11:05 AM
3	Trying to understand what is so appealing about RP to men and if some men are more susceptible to it New to Reddit. Male in his 30s. Long time lurker. This is my first post here so I don't know if anybody will see it or care. Everyone is different but maybe my story will help someone understand this. Sorry for wall of text. Do with it what you will. Up till about age 26 I was at the bottom. Small-town trash in a big city, jobless, trouble finishing my studies, needed help from my not-that-well-off family and depressed to the point of constant and intrusive suicide ideation (basically imagining …	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/22 07:53 PM