OddWish4 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	Women move on too fast and it's destroying dating Real life. I’ve seen men do it as much as women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 08:33 AM
-1	Autistic males are treated worse than autistic females because alot of autistic males dont know how to behave and lack empathy. Fathers teach what type of behavior a daughter can expect from a man in a romantic relationship by modeling this behavior with the mother. Unfortunately it is often not done well these days, especially if the daughter witnesses fighting, alcoholism, etc. And so many parents now don’t even marry let alone stay together, so it is a broken system with the daughter then going on to think poor behavior on both sides is normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 01:52 AM
6	Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generations Only if she’s attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 08:50 PM
3	Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering. This is a human problem, not just a female problem. The number of men who fall for good looking BPD women proves it. Everyone knows a guy who’s dated a “don’t stick your dick in crazy” type.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 08:44 PM
2	Nobody cares about men’s problems. Someone sane lol. People here sometimes forget that men and women are the same species and a couple usually works toward the goal of an enjoyable life together, supporting the other when needed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 11:06 AM
1	Nobody cares about men’s problems. How did you want to be loved and why wouldn’t you get that from someone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 11:01 AM
4	Is Vetting Seen as a Red Flag Those are more like getting to know someone questions. If you haven’t met before, people tend to fill the silence with generic stuff like this. What kind of questions would you suggest she ask instead to get to know you deeper than surface level??	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 12:41 AM
6	Cheating on your partner sometimes without telling them is probably more sustainable than an open relationship You’d be ok with her sleeping with other men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 08:42 AM
6	Cheating on your partner sometimes without telling them is probably more sustainable than an open relationship Famous last words of many people haha ….. if the president of the United States and the king of England can get caught with all the money and power in the world to hide it, no chance an average person can do it long term in secret.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 08:40 AM
6	Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled. I would say the same except about my ex husband. I stayed loyal to him and never even thought of wanting other men both when he had a lot of success and also when he was unemployed. I thought he hung the moon and stars and all that. Unfortunately he decided to have sex with other women so I could no longer trust him and I refuse to live being suspicious of a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 09:18 PM
1	Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market? What is this link? It’s not working	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 10:59 AM
-2	The hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance a lot of progressive women have make it super easy for red-pillers to slam dunk on them. This is my thinking as well. I do find gay men hot. (Actually gay men tend to be better looking than straight ones to me, because they usually put more effort in.) I would also be upset if my partner was doing overnight trips with a woman like you mentioned or was super close emotionally with a female friend. To have to worry about him hanging out with men too is just not how I want to live. I don’t like to live stressed out or to have to check up on anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 10:38 AM
1	When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously. Yes to all three. They’re all taking steroids. They’re probably also taking some drug stack on top of the steroids themselves like furosemide, synthroid, vyvanse, and tretinoin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 05:34 AM
1	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care He agrees to it by having sex with the woman. It’s the risk both parties assume, regardless of using protection. Nothing is going to guarantee there will not be a pregnancy, other than not having sex. The baby didn’t make itself, nor did the mother create it without his assistance. Both parties by default agree pregnancy is a risk they are willing to take, especially now that abortion is illegal in many places.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 07:49 AM
1	Would a man 30-40 who dresses, lives and (in some ways) looks like 25 be attractive or unattractive, particularly to men/women 20-30? Could you please post a clear photo? This ones got weird lighting and zoomed in/blurry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 08:36 PM
–	Women want high earners. But here’s why I think hypergamy should be about net worth potential instead of gross income. Agree on this	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 08:34 AM
4	The availability of legal sex work challenges whether “incel” is still a meaningful term. They have traditional marriages, but think it’s ok for each other to sleep with sex workers? Isn’t that the opposite of a traditional marriage?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 07:22 AM
1	The man paying for the date is a status symbol to women I think this is just your social circle, or perhaps the country/area you live in. It might be generational too. I say that because no women I know say this to each other. Where I come from, a woman paying her own way signals that she’s not interested in going home with him or going on a second date, and is imo kind of a shaming technique. Like if he goes to pay and she says “ no, we’ll take separate checks”. If she’s into him and wants to go out again let him pay for it, and she can get the bill…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 07:10 AM
5	Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commit What’s that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 06:37 AM
2	A lot of women don't want emotional intelligence from men, they want emotional validation from men. Using stoicism to withhold emotion puts you on the same level as the person trying to manipulate, because you are now both manipulators. Emotional intelligence works through communication, including being clear with your partner if you feel they’re acting in a way that comes off as manipulative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 11:06 PM
–	The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability. A baby is made by two people. Anyone not wanting a baby can choose to use protection and ensure it’s used properly, choose to have sex with women(or men) who aren’t the type to baby trap, or avoid PIV sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 10:09 AM
3	Men don't have instant beauty tricks and it makes it harder for them! Men can wear makeup every day. A lot of men who are stereotypically good looking are wearing concealer on thier under eye area. He was mentioned above, but JD Vance isn’t wearing eyeliner for on camera, he does it for everyday. Many men also get a spray tan, which is basically whole body foundation/concealer that lasts for a week.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 09:53 AM
4	Men don't have instant beauty tricks and it makes it harder for them! No way. It is possible. It just costs money, time, effort, and many people do not want to invest those things. I posted a couple of links to huge male glow ups on another comment on this thread that are worth looking at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 09:50 AM
2	Men don't have instant beauty tricks and it makes it harder for them! Yes they do, look at every short on this page. These guys have done a huge glow up in hours. example 1 example 2	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 09:46 AM
11	Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date? Usually it’s men who are physically good looking, but have personality flaws.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 02:54 AM
0	The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs. It’s actually not this, and that’s a mindset that not all humans hold. It would be worth speaking with a counsellor to find out where this idea stems from inside you, because it’s definitely from something as you grew up. The reason women don’t like to date bi men is because women (especially younger women) think they’re more likely to cheat due to the fact everyone is an option. Think about how girlfriends are cool with guys having boys night but don’t like him hanging out with other women. It …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/25 03:52 PM
–	Why do you feel pressured to pursue women? Sounds like you have been with at least one woman with BPD. Look into this if you haven’t heard of it before. It might be worth watching for in a potential partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 06:50 PM
-1	The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is. Short term sex to women means he’s not good enough to commit to or to quit other men for, or that she’d be embarrassed to actually date him and introduce him to her family and friends. I don’t really understand why anyone thinks that would be a measure of attractiveness or even make them feel good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 06:03 PM
–	Women's ostensible attraction to "badboys" may just be misattribution of fear-based arousal This is correct	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 05:11 AM
2	The mass hysteria around Trump is ridiculous I do have to say that no one enjoys these things more than Donald Trump, and that makes me think he will not ban them. As if The Donald has not made use of the benefits of abortion and birth control, and we all know he loves pornstars (which is his, and everyone else’s right).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 12:01 AM
3	Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women? Vibtators in bed make it more fun. The guys who are threatened by adding in sex toys are ones you don’t want to sleep with	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 12:24 AM
3	Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women? It’s true. Many men think that porn is how women want to be touched in bed, and who can blame them? It’s not like there are many examples out there or someone to teach them. Most women have to get themselves off during sex. I’m in my 30s and I’ve only met one man in my entire life who knew how to make it as good for me as for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 11:53 PM
–	The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laid Am I living under a rock? What’s the 4B movement?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 11:52 PM
1	Older Women Who Didn’t Hit The Wall Are The Hardest To Get Even better, ozempic	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 03:42 AM
0	Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated? Hahaha I love Bo Burnham	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 09:08 AM
1	Women do not have high standards. They just look for someone who is better than themselves and a lot of women are doing better nowadays than men. That only leaves a small amount of men for them to choose from. This is a really good video on the scientific reasons behind dating out of your league in an online dating environment. It’s actually really interesting to learn the psychology behind it. I think this will answer a lot. https://youtu.be/DmMNhdP0IjI?si=FbxYkKk1MKTx5I3J	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 02:26 PM
1	Why are men unwilling to date single moms Once you’re in your 30s everyone has some sort of baggage, because having no dating history by this age is as big a red flag as being divorced or widowed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 02:14 PM
0	Why are men unwilling to date single moms axiomatic door mountainous thought political innocent tidy serious domineering ask This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 02:08 PM
83	Women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to him Men do this to attractive women as well, it’s a proven phenomenon that attractive people are given lighter sentences, deemed smarter, more likely to get hired for a job etc. If members of either opposite sex find you attractive your life is much easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 03:04 AM
3	As far as dress sense and outfits go, what is your favourite type of clothes on your man or on men in general? A well fitting suit! That’s like the equivalent of women in lingerie with garters and heels in regards to turning on the opposite sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 12:44 AM
2	As a Gen-Z young feminist man, Here is what I think about men's movements. I’d date a guy who describes himself as a male feminist over one who describes himself as red pill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 12:07 AM
1	What age are you willing to date? In your relationship what is the age gap? Same here, I’m in my 30s, and I prefer men probably about 10-15 years older than me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 10:38 AM
1	Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop them You could take almost any behavior, and if a woman is attracted to the man performing it, it’ll be seen as charming or cute or maybe even eccentric, but if she’s not attracted to him, it’ll be seen as weird, frightening, or creepy. I don’t mean attraction just based on looks, but if she’s attracted to the man’s complete vibe and demeanor. Women like to vet men out first, so if he’s not got looks going on she’s got to be attracted in some other way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 08:15 AM
0	It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than women To me this means a man that we don’t want to sleep with. Whenever women I know have said “he’s a fuckboy” it’s the equivalent of saying “he’s a loser/time waster/scammer”	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 10:35 PM
1	Q4W: Would you rather reach your 40s alone or being a single mother to 2 severely autistic kids? Alone! I love living by myself, and have never wanted kids. I have been married before and would like to meet someone again though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 10:27 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman I think what’s missing from this theory is that younger women will want to be a mistress to an older man who likely has kids and hasn’t yet left his wife. Unless the man has significant means and is keeping himself in shape, he probably wont have a ton of appeal to younger women. What would be the benefit to the younger woman to date him? He is also competing with the younger men in the community, who the young women are naturally attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 10:22 PM
–	If a man was wrongfully castrated, what would you support for him ? Correct, I don’t think anywhere does it physically. That wouldn’t help with the mental issues of being aroused by inappropriate things, which is why it’s done as far as I understand, not as a punishment but to prevent reoffending.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 07:10 AM
1	If a man was wrongfully castrated, what would you support for him ? You have to be an SO as far as I know. But it is California, Georgia, Iowa, Louisiana, Montana, Oregon, Texas, and Wisconsin. Kind of interesting as you don’t think about these countries doing something like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 09:19 PM
1	If a man was wrongfully castrated, what would you support for him ? America, Canada, UK, Germany, Poland, Russia, South Korea	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 09:32 PM
1	Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ? Because gaming is just another addiction, and it’s created to hijack the dopamine system. I think gambling might be seen as more attractive because it’s social? Addiction to anything isn’t great in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 10:06 PM
9	Just slept with another woman again and ended up crying in my bathroom Im a woman, but I understand the hurt you’re going through. I relate so hard. In my experience, spending some time without hookups or dating is healing. You need to learn to love your own company and heal your wounds so you can move forward in your life. Unhealed emotional wounds cause people to continually pick the same partner and relive the same issues again and again. If you can’t love being in your own presence, how can anyone else? Learn to love being in your own company and let your head …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 09:00 PM
1	If sex is the universal "carrot on a stick" for women, what would the male equivalent be? I was just talking about this today with some people I work with, and it’s that he controls his wallet. I feel that many guys who simp over women don’t realize there is a lot of power in being the holder of the funds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 07:42 AM
–	How problematic would it be for a 37 man to have braces? Get Invisalign!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 07:38 AM
2	Women are not entitled to anything from men What about that mother whose little sons were in the car when it was stolen and she was killed trying to save them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 07:35 AM
1	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? No, I love men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 09:18 PM
1	Is a man who is lovey-dovey/affectionate seen as feminine or unattractive? I love it when I’m into the guy or we are in a relationship. It is creepy if it’s from an unwanted source though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 09:18 PM
0	CMV women care about a man's money a lot and more than vice versa This is in every country, it’s part of human biology. Men want to have the best genes passed down to their offspring, thus preferring women with youth and beauty, and since women aren’t able to get another mate easily once pregnant, it is vital the current one be able to provide for her and her baby. I don’t think any men here would say they would choose a mate who’s described as ugly and obese over a young, beautiful woman, nor would any women say they pick someone broke and lazy over a man who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 09:16 PM
0	Women DO fashion for themselves. Human male’s beard isn’t something that makes a woman want to have sex with him, really it’s usually a detractor in his attractiveness if it isn’t properly groomed and styled. Also, I always hear from men that they prefer hair extensions, makeup, heels, and nails/lashes done vs not doing them. I have heard it from every single man I’ve dated now that I think about it. I think I they prefer those things as much as other women do, just in a different way? What the OP said about nose rings and bagg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 03:05 PM
1	If women wanted marriage and commitment only I think the problem is that fuckboys lie to women that they want the same thing, they want long term etc. I don’t do casual sex but from other women they tend to have this story again and again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 07:49 PM
1	A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here say “The Blue Pillers here say that men are delusional for even thinking that they can date a younger woman because younger women are repulsed by older men.” I can say it’s true in a relative way. The idea of an older man being attractive is depending on what age the woman is. For example, when I was in my teens I liked teen boys my age to 2 years older, then early 20s the ideal man would be 1-5 years older. Now in my early 30s I like men age 40-55. Younger men (2 or more years younger) have always …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 07:44 PM
0	Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners. This is the answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 01:35 AM
1	Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup. Thanks for the reply, your tag fits! Monica is a star for a reason, no one gets to look like that. I do think going to work without makeup is saying “I don’t care enough to put in any effort” and is unprofessional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 05:23 PM
1	Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup. If you have a tan it looks great to go no makeup, but in a professional environment no makeup seems to say “I don’t care enough about myself to put in any effort”	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 05:21 PM
1	Why Do Women Demand Equality But Then Want Men Who Are Superior to them? This video explains it all from a scientific point of view, especially the science and psychology in people wanting long term relationships and meeting via online dating. The science of why each sex what they want in in a partner. The science behind wanting to date someone superior or out of thier league	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 11:42 PM
1	Women or Men who are 25 years of age or older should be able to date anyone of same age or older without discrimination I’m in my 30s and prefer men 40-55. Ive heard from a few older men (irl) that they stick to that rule of half your age plus 7 when dating younger women. Justifications I hear are: being socially acceptable as a couple a partner who isn’t going to drive them crazy with immaturity, or having immature interests like clubbing decreasing the chances of someone only being with you out of hypergamy don’t want kids (or more kids) It does make sense to me though, like if you look at the men who are rich …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 11:34 PM
3	Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup. The days we wear no makeup all the men are the first to ask “Are you sick?” lol. Think of day you saw a woman you know come to work or school looking like she’s sick, that’s no makeup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 10:32 PM
0	Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith? Sad to say, but the world is only on easy mode for conventionally beautiful women. Regardless of that, why do men think women are mentally like children because they don’t have the same struggles as men? Genuine question	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/24 06:52 PM
1	Are men not also hypergamous? Men reach above themselves with looks, women with money or social status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 11:51 AM
–	Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying. Then why did you say you were big?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 03:27 AM
1	Q4M: What would you change about this woman's personality in order to date her? What does ridiculous head game mean? I’m not an American woman (I assume this is something from the US?) or obese so haven’t heard of this before. Is this something smaller sized women could employ that would increase our appeal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/24 12:13 AM
1	Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying. 5’10 and about 150 lbs, did I not convert that right? A man that weight and height would be borderline underweight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 10:45 PM
1	Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying. Yeah this is true. The ends justify the means. So she takes medication for her disease, it’s not something to be embarrassed about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 10:41 PM
1	Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying. Who cares how they get there? The end result of not being obese is what matters. If someone suffering obesity has the means to afford the medication to reverse their disease, they would be insane not to do it. Semaglutide is also prescribed as an anti addiction medication, including to those addicted to sugar. Telling an addict to just get some self discipline and stop using by willpower alone is either being rude or ignorant, whether it’s heroin or sugar or booze or gambling. Say you wake up an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 10:34 PM
–	A lot of the discussions here are trash because people can't differentiate between the pills Wait, does RP consider men and women to be opponents or is that your personal view? Don’t most single people here want to find a member of the opposite sex as a mate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 06:00 PM
–	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement Face and frame are both editable. You can lose or gain weight/muscle or get surgery/botox/juvederm/ortho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 01:06 AM
1	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement Other than height and age, what hurdles are not overcomeable in terms of making yourself more attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 12:09 AM
0	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement The bar is on the floor doesn’t exist for either gender imo. Every human has preferred traits when looking for a partner they want to mate with, it’s just a biological fact. I think that taking the phrase at its literal meaning is what is causing the issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 10:01 PM
2	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement Well I can only speak from my experience, and I hate that society doesn’t care if people are treated like humans or not. Everyone has that basic right imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 09:56 PM
2	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement You as well! Have a great rest of your day!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 07:49 PM
1	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement Ahhh gotcha! I do agree with that being wrong. No one has a bar on the floor when it comes to attraction imo. It’s just human biology to want to mate with people with certain traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 07:33 PM
5	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement It has happened to me. Going from being overweight to conventionally beautiful. When you’re big, people don’t even notice your existence. Then all of a sudden people start treating you like a human, holding the door, offering to help carry your groceries, even saying things like please and thank you more often. Smiling at you when you walk into the room. People overlook your mistakes when they wouldn’t have before. I think the closest comparison for guys would be going from a life of poverty to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 07:05 PM
1	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement It’s the same with women though. A woman who’s considered beautiful by western standards could have a terrible personality and will still be treated better and pursued by more people than an unattractive woman with a great personality. Isn’t this the exact same thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 06:53 PM
3	The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statement Same for women, men will overlook many faults for a woman who’s beautiful, and won’t even notice the presence of an obese woman. Edit: spelling	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 06:44 PM
1	Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you? No, other way around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 09:58 AM
-1	What is creepy? If you want to know about the psychology of coming across creepy and how to come across less creepy, this is a fantastic video… I think this would answer questions for many people on this sub, both men and women. How to appear less creepy	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 09:51 AM
3	Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a man? Least important is height and style. Most important would be ambition or kindness, I suppose, though there’s more to being attractive than just being ambitious or just being kind. It’s a combination of all those factors together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 07:19 PM
2	Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a man? Ambition, success (no matter what his field, even something lower earning, I want to see he has some wins in life), kindness, humor, taller than me (5’5). I also like men who put in effort to style themselves, like a good haircut and clothes that aren’t baggy. Being faithful to their partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 06:56 PM
2	Question for attractive women; What could an average or below average looking man do for you to genuinely desire him? The sexiest man I’ve ever met was someone I was not into physically at first. He ended up being super romantic and generous with me, which made me want to go on more dates. I knew he was a military officer and I found that impressive too. He was really patient and fun with me, but also not a pushover. He was fantastic in bed too, in that he knew a woman’s brain is the most important sex organ. A lot of men don’t get this, so the ones that do are soooo good. That’s an easy way for any guy who wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 06:52 PM
1	I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date. I’ll start this by saying I am and always have been into older men, so take what you will from that. But what are you going to have in common with a 20 year old as a 35 year old? Chatting about celebrities like Hayley Bieber? Hitting the club with her and her college friends? It’s different if the man were 50 and dating a 30 something year old woman, since you both are in closer stages of life. For anyone who doesn’t know, the rule for a socially acceptable age gap is: (Your age / 2) + 7 = The l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 01:44 AM
–	Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege. Amen	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 12:18 AM
–	Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege. It just means your husband has room for improvement in bed	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 12:18 AM
1	It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds? Faces can absolutely be changed. For a few examples: Dental Implants and Orthodontics will correct your jawline Botox will lift or lower anywhere on your face or neck, including giving you more or less hooded eyelids. It can even make your face as a whole wider/slimmer by causing you to work or atrophy selected muscles Hair plugs can be used to change your hairline I’m curious what you mean by negative traits outside of looks has never been a deterrent for getting laid. Can you give me some exam…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 08:36 AM
1	I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest group I think you could look at it the same way as a bachelor being happy living that way. I think marriage to the right person would be much better than being single, but marriage to someone who’s not right for you would make life suck so much worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 11:30 PM
1	It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds? It’s a woman’s fault if she can’t attract men as well. It’s nothing to do with gender, and all about your own traits as an individual human. I personally believe almost every negative trait can be overcome if people are willing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 01:02 AM
-2	CMV: There are arguable equal number of women who hate men as men who hate women I think there is more hate from women towards other women than women towards men or men towards women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/24 09:28 PM
0	What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill? Not being cock blocked	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 10:10 AM
1	Height/Weight/Status/Income do not really matter that much! It’s not true, take a look around the next time you’re at the grocery store at all the married couples around you. Probably the majority of the men aren’t taller than average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 02:18 AM
2	Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating. I think what you’re saying is that western women are angry about men leaving the US/Canada and living/dating elsewhere, because this means they can’t be controlled by the women back home. Can you clarify if I’ve got this right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 02:11 AM
–	Changes post “I do” I am by not dating men who treat women the way you do	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 05:55 PM
–	Changes post “I do” Sounds like you aren’t going to stay with anything, so why would a partner want to try?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 03:35 PM