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| 0 | Cold hard truth - Height play a Major Factor than CharismaI’m not saying game isn’t important . I’m telling you that if you were sitting down and minding your business and your 6’4 friend went to go talk to girls, the girls are not gonna go out of their way to pivot attention to you unless your friend is a creep. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Cold hard truth - Height play a Major Factor than CharismaSo if the tall guy went to approach the shorter one stayed back - the girls would go give the nonchalant shorter one attention ? It’s a lose lose. The only way the short one wins here is if the tall one wings man the crap out of the short one and comes off too pushy/no game. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.“He’s too short for me” vs “She’s too chubby for me” I think the chubby statement is going to considered more shallow even though it’s something that could be changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 07:08 AM |
| 7 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richCarrying most of the risks for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 09:34 AM |
| 2 | cmv: I think dating multiple people at once is not only morally awful, and but also effectively awful.It’s a numbers thing. There is a higher chance of women going out with multiple men than a man going out with multiple women. Whenever I date a girl, and I know she’s off a relationship, I know forsure I’m competing against someone else or the ex. There’s a higher chance of dudes asking this girl out than me getting confirmed dates. Obviously it depends on the chemistry. If I’m getting texts/calls/acceptance (she’s revolving her schedule around me) than I will match that energy. If I get really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessI think people are equating passenger princess = 1 person doing the work while a person tags along lol. I’m a dude but I hate driving as well but I realize I can’t ever say that in front of my dates. My ex expected me to always drive to her (1 hour) and drive her around in her area. I found it pretty consistent that most girls don’t like driving. If I ever complained about it, it signals that I’m a complainer and can’t do something that most guys would aha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do women expect men to not be insecure? We are human beings not robots.That’s a pretty rough generalization. Some men just see women as nothing but a piece of meat to bang ? whole history of women actually being treated as an unrealized person. Now, men on this page are upset that some women have more options? And have more power in dating at certain points of their lives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 01:20 AM |
| 7 | Why do women expect men to not be insecure? We are human beings not robots.Bcuz on average women go through these invulnerabilities more often and since it’s already so accepted that women are more emotional, some of them feel more comfortable expressing these emotions. For men, expressing insecurities early is a turn off bcuz for a heterosexual women bcuz they believe these invulnerabilities are weak and have gone through emotional breakdowns enough to not want to carry extra baggage. And honestly it will depend on the attractiveness of the girl relative to you and ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 08:34 AM |
| 12 | As a guy you should never tell women your intentions directly.“I’m only talking to you” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 06:17 AM |
| 7 | What is the male version of showing skin to boost attractiveness?If we’re taking about appearance, Women have a lot of different combinations of things to appear more attractive. Combination of clothes/makeup/accessories is much more complicated than Men. Women can hide flaws with certain outfits and makeup. Therefore, every item that a man wears has a bigger weight. Flaunting a good style of nicely fitted clothes is probably the best baseline. Having brand items, being slimmer, and more fit would improve your baseline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4W who have cheated on a partner; why and how did you do it?Interesting. Do you think if you had broken up with the beta guy too soon, the ex would’ve been turned off by this ? Like why not just end it earlier ? Or were you just unsure and needed a bare minimum of someone providing other forms of attention and needs, and you can experiment until you realize where and what you wanted in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Ned Fulmer cheated on his wife- Final nail in the coffin for the 'Pick Better' narrativeYou’re free to not date men if you think all men will eventually cheat if given options. How come we’re not shaming the girl that he cheated with ? She’s also in a marriage and she’s not a fraction of a close famous - she’s way more representative of a typical average girl than Ned. His net worth is in the tens of millions. I can conclude that most women, when given the chance to cheat “upward” and improve their means, they would do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 11:18 PM |
| 5 | Mamas boys are easily the least datable personality type of man imaginable, and it's not talked about nearly enoughThis has to be a cultural thing. I’m 26. Moved back with my mom after college. I have two properties for rental and make six figures. My mom (60) still works almost 50 hours a week bcuz she loves working. Since she doesn’t speak English - I’ve driven her to everything she needs help with - hospital/dentist appointments/check ups, I translate and take care of all insurance paperwork and her taxes. I WFH so I manage to find time to do chores and make dinner for us when she gets home. She’s done a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 02:18 AM |
| 3 | It’s significantly easier to be an attractive woman than it is to be an attractive manA Harry style that is not famous and tries to dress/act like one will not pull compared to your typical groomed 6’1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?I think there’s different level of friend zoning. A more extreme friendzoning would be a girl always talking about her significant/ dating preferences/ dating history. Always hang out in groups and the hangouts are really often. Being called brother somehow lol. I think if you experience this - take the fat hint and stop wasting money and time thinking about how you’ll win her over. It will have a very very low chance of happening. A less extreme friendzoning - is a catch up once in a while - so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?It’s funny - I have some attractive friends that don’t do the obvious flirting but are super friendly and touchy and never bring up their significant other. They’re all really great girls and def don’t do any quick hookups but some of them seems to like that attention for personal reasons or just like to have a variety of social circles available to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How are women finding dates in 2022?I don’t understand the DM approach. Are they adding mutuals and then just casually dming or are they commment and liking stories ? Like idk , it feels weird if I try to introduce myself through someone through IG. Fear being left on read and then I potentially meet this person irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you consider a red flag if your GF goes on a girls trip to Miami?Ok we can end there. It’s just circles at this point. I never said Miami = cheat btw. I mean we did leave a lot of important factors out. A routinely trip like the video OP posted, is a red flag to me. Btw you must have a great long relationship if you two can take vacations like that without any hesitation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Do you consider a red flag if your GF goes on a girls trip to Miami?I mean are you gonna tell me that Miami Isn’t lustful? I’m pretty these memes are all fake then and that Miami is just a joke ? I know what you’re saying but single men and women travel there and Vegas to party for a reason. And no strip club you literally don’t need to, it’s just naked women dancing and asking for your consent if you want to participate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Do you consider a red flag if your GF goes on a girls trip to Miami?A lot of men don’t mind their significant going to visit family/ attending something important/ hanging out with personal friends but when vacation plans are made to exclude you to go to a place that attracts lustful people, you think there should be no hesitation? Like if a guy you’re dating told you he’s going to vegas strip club for a guy trip with his guy friends and he’s says he’s just there for his friends, are you not hesitating on that? I mean I would a majority of people would not be th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 06:45 AM |
| 5 | Do you consider a red flag if your GF goes on a girls trip to Miami?I’m not saying what you said it’s wrong. I’m just explaining the rationality of why men would be concern with their significants going away. There’s an illusion of less oversight - you can’t physically know what’s happening and this is what most men project. It’s not that they think women will instantly cheat, it’s that they will meet a potentially better partner from somewhere without your transparency. People are more likely to throw themselves at you in these type of scenarios bcuz they don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Do you consider a red flag if your GF goes on a girls trip to Miami?I think it’s more of the mentality behind going there. You’re gonna be surrounded by people that wants to bang you or actually get to know you (nothing too wrong there) Majority of time - girls will be at clubs/beach/pool parties and Guys will buy the girls drink and some small talk will happen. I personally don’t think most women will actively cheat on these trips but I do think most women do keep a list of other potential partners that they just small talk with or even worse, string along some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | I pretty much only get a chance at fat women online. How do I upgrade?I think you dislike how it’s worded but it’s practically how preferences are worded in general? He doesn’t want to say “I prefer women less fat” as that is body shaming but women always prefer guys to be taller ? So would you have prefer him to say “I like skinnier girls than the ones I’m matched with” | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | What advice do you give to below 6' guys to vote in the Modern dating world?I’m not gonna deny that bumble will disclose data like that. But the reasoning behind the whole height badge and filter is that women do prefer a taller average height. Idk what your root argument is. I’m not saying all men under 6ft are hopeless and won’t find anything but I’m pretty sure we can agree that most women will prefer to date men in the higher height range especially through apps since you can filter. I mean it is something that men can’t control. I’m 5’7 and will never download a da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 08:35 PM |
| 2 | What advice do you give to below 6' guys to vote in the Modern dating world?A whole forum of women being outrage when they took away height filter : https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/bumble-took-away-their-height-filters-and-im-already-being-bombarded-with-56-men.4769727/ But the height filter should be there since it’s bumble? The whole point is women choosing men. So it’s their preferences ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Women saying they wear make up, get plastic surgery, and dress sexy for themselves and not for attention or to attract men?Skin care is on the same spectrum as fitness. We do it to maintain our body for a functional purpose. The question is more phrase as to why women wear make up or get implants and that most women say it’s for themselves but really it’s to be an eye candy for men. Even if people say it’s for “confidence” - the confidence stems from the origin of knowing that men are looking at you more sexually appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Maybe you’ve been numb to it? Imagine not even feeling desired? I mean obviously it’s way better to be infinitely loved by someone you desire . But for a guy, the best way to get the feeling of being desired, is to enter a relationship. Whereas, I think most women can get by, being single and filtering for the best man that could suit them and can hold out for longer bcuz they have plenty of people filing their validations already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?It’s not always sex. Some people feel good about the attention/validation they receive from others. I’d say most people are like this? And I’d say on average, women are more likely to gain this by just popping open their dating apps or frequently posting on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Taller woman, shorter man dynamic is underrated and should be normalizedBcuz women are not blamed for in having their personal preferences. It’s understandable - women are the ones that choose in the dating market. In most sports (not saying all) the tallest players are usually the best. Most CEO positions are filled by tall people. There’s a higher percentage of making more money when you’re taller. Based on others judgements - your pictures are more romanticized. It is unfortunate but it’s how we are. I don’t blame women for choosing the taller people but there’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 07:29 PM |
| 2 | cmv: men get more attached after sex than women.I feel like that’s bias towards the demand and supply of women to men. Most men have a harder time getting into a relationship/sex with women in general. While most women have at least some backup options or people courting the women pretty often. Harder to appeal to women than women filtering for the right guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 06:33 PM |
| 15 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?Honestly That’s bcuz penises are low value. Women put up a lot more to the table, in terms of risk to satisfaction ratio, especially it comes to short term relationship and sex. Also supply and demand. Most guys will literally stick their penises in any vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you think they are certain men who just shouldn't use dating apps?Men under 5’6 or overweight- I think the apps would destroy your confidence and waste your time more than anything. You can definitely try to hit the 1 in 100 or significantly lower your standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Do women need to have a hoe phaseCongrats - maybe you score well. I personally don’t think a majority of hook ups is in favor of women. But to each and their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Do women need to have a hoe phasePatriarchy is the reason why Women having high N count looks worse on a women. But you’re right - if they want to they could. However, in terms of value, having a high N - count for women is different with Men. Dick is low value (based on supply and demand) so when women chase for this, it seems like they want to be pool with low value. The odds of a guy satisfying a women on a hookup is low. Chasing high N count is just a terrible risk/reward ratio for women. Women risk the pregnancy/rape/unpro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 07:58 PM |
| 3 | do women envy men in dating?Hot girls will never date a broke hot guy unless he’s acting/faking Rich. A hot guy has a high chance of dating hot girls with no money or with money. But I do agree with your list! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?We’re talking in circles. I understand your points and i believe your view on your preferences but they’re not applicable/real for the majority. For build preferences - dating apps stop using this bcuz it’s highly complaint that no one knows where to categorize themselves .You’re telling me if I told a women that I prefer them at 5’3 to be 110-115, it shouldn’t be rude bcuz it’s my preference ? we’ve all been accustomed that this is shallow. Especially with weight, Hence the movement of fat sham… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?No one asks Weight bcuz it universally comes off as rude as I’ve been describing above. Women generally don’t like talking about their weight or showing their weight number. You can say you don’t care about it as much as you want but I can confidently say a majority of women are sensitive about exposing their weight . Like I said, it is cater to women bcuz that’s the strongest marketing tool to attract men. More women joining the app = more men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?It seems like you’re talking from a minority standpoint. If we’re talking Anecdotally, I’ve been asked for height all the time. I know women tell me all the time that they need men to be a certain height over them. It’s a preference. I’m okay with it - we all have our preference. yet somehow if people have preference for certain weight relative to their height, it’s deemed as shaming when height is gifted based on genetics and even though there is some genetics in weight, it’s not permanent as h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?I’m not saying an accurate weight. Like I said a band of weight along with a preferred height. Some women weigh 150 but are able to conceal it through makeup/super high waisted jeans. Also women/men post pictures of wayy back then when they were much lighter - all the time. It seems like a simple ask yet you’re defending it like it wouldn’t make a difference. You just put a number. So let me ask you, what’s the point of dating apps having a height option or women asking “how tall are you?” Bcuz … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?Idk what ID or passport you have but in the states they all have weight. I see - you’re talking like physical attraction doesn’t weigh as much as people think. Weight is sentimental to women. Why do you think so many shows make it a joke - “it’s rude to ask a women their weight”. You can continue with what you believe in. I personally think if you’re allowed to filter on height, you should be able to filter on weight but obviously dating sites won’t do that as many women would not be thrill to p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?The whole point of online dating is to filter as much as fast as possible. I’m arguing that if you’re allowed to filter Height, I don’t understand why you can’t filter weight. For some people height is a deal breaker yet they still use it. In fact, it’s prob one of the most important component with the profile picture, from a first glance. It’s straight up on the first page. Your ID/passport has weight. Obviously women are more sentimental in announcing weight. Yes some people don’t look their w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?You won’t bcuz people wouldn’t know how to categorize themselves. Also BMI is a terrible indicator. You would have a higher BMI becuz you’re stronger but heavier. There’s nothing subjective about weight. It’s a number. It’s on your ID/drivers license. Yes you might gain or lose 5 lbs but it’s an approximation. if it’s something drastic just update it? It’s literally simple. You think a majority of people lose or gain 5 lbs in a week? Just like most women prefer men over a certain height, I don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?I’m really not ? They can literally add a range feature ? “Prefer men/women 120-140”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Do you think modern dating is fair for men? Why?I don’t think so. For apps, it’s mainly about catering to how they can attract more women to sign up for the apps. Every women that makes an account would increase the amount of men making an account. Weight filter would discourage women from using the app. Height filter would encourage women as the trend is that women are more likely to filter height than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 11:48 PM |
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