Oddishbestpkmn Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
225	First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!! he like INSISTED even after I told him the spot was a 2 min drive from my place. I know you said you didn't tell him where you live but this is too much information... He basically did find out where you live/general area/could have easily figured it out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 12:23 AM
22	Beware of men who say stuff like "I used to respect you, until you did X" or "I would have more respect for you if you did Y" Its taken me a while to realize but this is part of a broader pattern of their negging/grooming behavior. Guys do it early and often. "I like a girl who is ladylike." (Submissive) "I love a chill girl." (No boundaries, wont complain) "I need an ambitious partner." (Needs to make a lot of $$) "I respect a girl who pays her way" (goes 50/50) I recognize that when my ex and I were discussing what we wanted in a relationship, due to conditioning I was trying to adjust how I was gonna be to match wha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 06:33 PM