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| 2 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayThis is the issue I have with this debate. Are we talking about asshole in the vein that they hit, demean and emotionally/verbally abuse the woman? Or Are we conflating negative personality traits with confidence. Next time you think a guy is a jerk or an asshole ask yourself "has he actually done anything?" Like are their bruises on your friend that are not with consentl? They said something mean "are they teasing or are they making fun". My point being you could think someone is an asshole, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Men who can't stand the degeneracy of westernized women why don't you move to a more traditional country?Idk, I wouldn't be able to stand someone like that. The whole "50's" woman motif. That just seems like a boring person. I mean don't get me wrong if you want that and you are both consenting adults fine. But as a guy myself, I find indepency and strength way more sexy. Not to mention realisticly I would never be able to afford a single income household my life time. So a stay at home...whatever is out of the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 03:12 AM |
| 2 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!That's, that's just daunting looking. No wonder aesthetics are so important you just like blend if your average. Sorry im honestly not bitter or mad, it's just like damn and they say don't give a shit about stuff I see that and it's like how do I even get noticed. No wonder everyone says delete the apps. I would have a heart attack if my inbox looked like that. | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Being a nice guy isn't the problem, the problem is being boring. Too many genuine nice guys are not interesting enough for a woman to want to get to know you more.While I agree, that's like a fantasy level of hope. At best you make a male friend that agrees to hang out with you every once in awhile. I think what a lot of people on Reddit don't understand is that most of us are average people with average lives looking for other average people. Not these magazine people with deeply diverse and active friend groups or want to be in said friend groups. It's probably a reality that if you try that you might have a higher chance of making friends. But in reali… | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Being a nice guy isn't the problem, the problem is being boring. Too many genuine nice guys are not interesting enough for a woman to want to get to know you more.There might be some truth but as I said there is an entire thread on either the dating subreddit or the rant sub Reddit of a woman who is pleaing with men not to bother them while at activities. There were a bunch of agreed comments along with "I can't do x anymore cause it's over ran with nice guys". Which means doing these things isn't an answer but a good way of just getting out but unlikely to lead to anything. So I dont think it's good dating advice rather good socializing advice | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Being a nice guy isn't the problem, the problem is being boring. Too many genuine nice guys are not interesting enough for a woman to want to get to know you more.Never understood the whole hobbies and fun activities advice. It just seems more disengenious. Cause honestly I know I need to get out more, but there isn't a lot of classes and what not I find interesting. So if I tried joining them it would show and would just lead to more rejection on the basis I'm not there because I'm interested in the subject it's an outlet to meet new people which then people will hate and end up leaving over There is literally an entire thread on this in the dating subre… | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | At age 30, these are my gems of knowledge, along with tips for guys my age trying to re-enter the dating world during the Post-Millenial EraDamn I really feel like i need to delete this account now and just re-hermit myself until I am better lol. But then I feel like that goes against most of this post. But this is honestly good advice. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Women will laugh with a happy man, they will comfort an upset man, but they will run away from a bitter man.No it's not serve. I do have anger issues but I see a therapist. It's more like just average ups and downs of life. I'm just personally frustrated with the dating fame such that I literally can be anyone but myself. It feels like at least. I have to work out as nasseum and diet where I feel sick some days. No I'm not over doing it I watch everything like a hawk. I work like hell on my personality and really what's left of who I actually am. Who are they dating me or this ideal version that I wen… | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 01:13 PM |
| 122 | Women will laugh with a happy man, they will comfort an upset man, but they will run away from a bitter man.I'm trying to work on this myself. There are times I'm happy as fuck and then my job or family brings me low. Idk it's tough to figure out. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 08:53 AM |
| 2 | How I overcame approach anxietyFellow obese man. Nice! I just don't have that many opportunities to approach women like that on the daily. Kudos to you. Hey when she eventually want to do the dirty are you gonna tell her? | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 01:50 AM |
| 2 | My Golden Rule of pickup and how it helped me overcome approach anxiety.My current mindset is, hey at least I made a friend. I also keep my intentions out in the open. Because here is a harsh truth if 90% of my day is spent talking to you and I am starting to detract from others, I don't think it's wrong to assume that there is more than friendly banter. However, if it's not communicated I feel it makes us guys look somewhat desperate cause we are trying to fool or deceive as to what we are trying. But if I get rejected hey someone to drink with and shoot the shit w… | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Is it worth trying to pick up girls if I don’t have my own place?Practice makes perfect. Try befriending women. Actually become more social and start with baby steps. I live my parents and in the past two years I have been laid twice. Once a month ago. I also just started sexting someone. However, it is a huge plus to have your own apartment from a post I made. I think the greatest any one piece of advice I have received is that don't sexualize women. The fact that they are people too. Acknowledging that puts you super far ahead and then it's really just a wa… | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 06:00 PM |
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