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| 1 | Women Have it Easier in Dating Than Men.I believe this. All my friends in my friend group are dating women who are way dumber and straight up less likable than they are. I was having a long-term relationship with a quite stupid girl who believed in astrology and that she was autistic, with ADHD, and depression. I still liked her a lot and enjoyed our conversations. Women are just way more likely to be neurotic, have anxiety disorders, and overall mental illnesses than men. It's just something we accept when dating women. It may seem h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:03 PM |
| 5 | Increasing the female/male sex ratio at birth (more women born) would help fix the dating market.This idea doesn't work because of the inelastic demand in dating. There are studies in areas of great gender ratios after wars. The bottom 10% of men get only marginally more sex, even if they have an advantageous ratio; basically, you only give more power to average men and above, who then behave worse because of their advantage. The only solution to incel is to make them more attractive, particularly focusing on autism, social skills, preventing bad genetics, preventing disability (big predict… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Would you date asexual person?The ratio of asexual men to women can be as high as 1:4. Let’s say 1:3. If u are a straight woman you have a 25-33% chance of getting in a good long term relationship and a much higher chance of ending up in a relationship with a desperate non asexual man who won’t be able to stay long term. I think it also depends on if you are not restricted to monogamy or you allow for particular non sexual fetishes? Are there fetishes a sex repulsed asexual person can enjoy? However, for short term relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Would you date asexual person?The ratio of asexual men to women can be as high as 1:4. Let’s say 1:3. If u are a straight woman you have a 25-33% chance of getting in a good long term relationship and a much higher chance of ending up in a relationship with a desperate non asexual man who won’t be able to stay long term. I think it also depends on if you are not restricted to monogamy or you allow for particular non sexual fetishes? Are there fetishes a sex repulsed asexual person can enjoy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Would you date asexual person?The ratio of asexual men to women can be as high as 1:4. Let’s say 1:3. If u are a straight woman you have a 25-33% chance of getting in a good long term relationship and a much higher chance of ending up in a relationship with a desperate non asexual man who won’t be able to stay long term. I think it also depends on if you are not restricted to monogamy or you allow for particular non sexual fetishes? Are there fetishes a sex repulsed asexual person can enjoy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsI am not even advocating for changing it. I simply despise people like you who are ideologically predisposed to push against any form of progressivism without even trying to argue against it. You just mumble ideas of naturalism, of dogmatism (only market value exists, you can't change it). You fool yourselves into believing that it is just and righteous. Worst you are so confidently dumb you don't even realize why other people are here. To discuss a problem, analyse it and look for solutions. To… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsWho said anything about indian methods?? You two said the market is what it is, and you can't change it. "You don't like what you don't like". I said there are many factors that you can change to influence the market. If you don't believe we can shape what people want in a positive way, your opinion is useless to progress and deserves as little entertaining as possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsThat's the point! You have modeled a system and incentives. You can then find the results: an increase in psychopathic tendencies in society. Is this something desirable? No? Then you build a controller to disincentivise those traits. "You can't tell women to like what they don't like". Now you fucking model how much standards can be shaped. You find that a lot of standards and what we find attractive can be socially engineered. Porn creates unrealistic standards? You regulate porn. Women don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsSorry what? Values do not exist. We define them to analyze reality. Is being healthy intrinsically valuable? Is it being smart? What if a mentally ill person has more market value than a sane one? The point is that people try to analyse reality to find solutions to problems. You get a partial and simplistic view of reality if you don't consider that things are more than their market value. If people don't want you, they don't want you. This is worth less than the time it took to write it down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsMarkets do not dictate someone's value, lmao. Markets dictate MARKET VALUE. People possess an underlying intrinsic value that is a function of personality, how hard they work, etc. The whole point of saying the market is unbalanced is that the market value is overinflated, and the reason is mostly men having higher libido and not being taught ways to fulfill emotional needs. You are playing with words and definitions to hide the true heart of the matter. Women can be worse by any metric, even lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill Means You Pull the Wool Over Your Eyes About Women to Protect Your Own EgoThat extremely famous study was found to be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | The dating market does not suck for womenDa fuck it means? I am not blaming her. I hope that you can spot someone who’s going to tell he watches bestiality on the first date lol. Like how can you not filter someone like this out with a week of texting? But in the end I am not blaming women, it’s just unfortunate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 10:57 PM |
| – | The dating market does not suck for womenI thought they were tinder dates. I immagine it would be easy to see someone asking immediately sexual questions while messaging for example. I’ve had to message girls for days before having a chance at a date. For blind dates it’s just bad luck. I feel empathy for people who have such bad dates. I am not red pill. Choose who you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 03:15 PM |
| – | The dating market does not suck for womenI want to give the perspective of a guy who would never do anything even close to this. I am a good guy, but I've been ghosted, rejected, and simply not selected by women for very superficial reasons. From my point of view, I'd think that it's a problem with many women being very bad at selecting a partner. I know I have to put more work to be desirable and I know it's my fault if I am single. What annoys me is seeing women complaining about very bad choices they made. I know many guys who would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | At point would you acknowledge a man's efforts are sufficient and the environment he is in is the issue?Let’s be honest you have it 10 times easier than this guy in dating being a woman. You should have a bit of empathy for a guy who clearly tried a lot. It’s like when my grandma used to tell me how to repair things while she never touched a screwdriver in her life. It always look easy from the outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 01:47 AM |
| 1 | At point would you acknowledge a man's efforts are sufficient and the environment he is in is the issue?I am not even close to red pilled but you are clearly brain dead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 01:02 AM |
| 3 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?Thank you! Yeah, I have to find some female friends. This is the answer, it's just hard to accomplish! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 01:48 PM |
| 3 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?I am very happy for you. May I ask where you find the women you are dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Men, on dating apps, should to be more open to women not seen as conventionally attractive.It is a hidden “score” similar to the ELO system. I agree with all your points, thank you for your answers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Men, on dating apps, should to be more open to women not seen as conventionally attractive.I am just writing this to give hope to women like some women gave hope to me. I know it’s hard to not be cynical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Men, on dating apps, should to be more open to women not seen as conventionally attractive.Now dating apps lower your “score” if you swipe too often so nobody does it anymore. It is an old strategy but maybe men keep doing it anyway. I can assure you she still has a lot of good options. I just want to say to women who feel “ugly” or worthless to give it a try, it works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Men, on dating apps, should to be more open to women not seen as conventionally attractive.Well, I trust your experience, but every guy I know is on dating apps and they’re all looking for long term relationships. I guess I select likeminded friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 02:45 PM |
| 8 | Men, on dating apps, should to be more open to women not seen as conventionally attractive.I am sorry you feel this way. Feel free to vent, it’s a perfectly reasonable fear, to believe people don’t want you for what you are but for your body. I don’t want to invalidate your experience, but where I live the vast majority of men aren’t like that, and many of them are single. There is an enormous supply of those men. Way more than there is demand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Men, on dating apps, should to be more open to women not seen as conventionally attractive.I agree, the point I wanted to make is it's not men who have to be more open about dating ulgy women. It's just that those women need to take the time to vet their options. I honestly don't understand what problem women would have? They can have sex or long term relationships. Having a lot of options is just a great thing, talking as someone who has to approach women in real life. Wouldn't you agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Men, on dating apps, should to be more open to women not seen as conventionally attractive.I empathise with women's issues, but think about this. The ugliest girl I have EVER seen on dating app had 50 times more matches than me. Even if I consider myself good looking on dating apps I am still interested in ugly women because I care way more about personality, but they have more options in a week than I will ever have. I honestly think even the ugliest girl can go on dating apps and get enough matches to select a good long term partner. In my experience a very ugly woman just needs to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 12:35 PM |
| – | How would things be if women outnumbered men 70 - 30?"Interestingly it doesn't seem to help the incels as if the scene is a hook up culture then ugly guys are rejected even more." In the full study I have not seen a single piece of data that supports this. Can you show me where it's written? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.I am actually devastated that happened to you. Honestly don’t think you’re a bad person if you hate all men after many bad experiences. The pain and anger must flow to somewhere. Feel free to vent or insult us, I will only be understanding. I mean it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Would women date men who actually followed the advice of frequenting escorts?Oh I misunderstood. I am happy for you and jealous as well. Hopefully I’ll find the match to grow old with as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Would women date men who actually followed the advice of frequenting escorts?Well, I don't know if you want this information, but as a guy I don't find PIV interesting as well. I understand it's quite rare in men tho. Also I've had very positive experiences with bi women and switches (even tho I am only dominant). I find it sad that you'd be great for some guys, but it's hard to find eachother. However if those guys are half as flawed as me you're better of single lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 11:57 AM |
| -1 | Would women date men who actually followed the advice of frequenting escorts?May I ask what that niche sexuality is? I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existThis is not true at all. All the undesirable men I know are very kind and empathetic. Lmao girls bullied me and laughed at me but I even have trauma from it but I am still kind and empathetic. Just look at people for what they are. You will see a lot of desirable mysoginists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 12:16 PM |
| 5 | Actually, getting into a relationship DOES fix many problems for youYeah, and married men also make more money than single men. The reason however is because women tend to select healthier and wealthier men, as written in the study. It also shows men are less selective for health and money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Are women not getting approached anymore?How do you think I could find a girl like you? I was thinking about creating an app to help girls like you and guys like me. I've seen so many single girls who are extremely passive like you. If you had informatics knowledge and wanted to solve this problem what would you do? Would you try an app that you are sure would work? What stops you from trying dating apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.Thank you for the answer. I confused you with a different woman in another post, my bad. The idea is good, but similar apps have had a lot of problems becoming popular since they're not as straightforward. However, I will keep it in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.How do you think I could find a girl like you? I was thinking about creating an app to help girls like you, but the truth is you are so lazy you won't even waste 10 minutes to make a profile. I've seen so many single girls who are extremely passive like you. If you had informatics knowledge and wanted to solve this problem what would you do? Would you try an app that you are sure would work? What stops you from trying dating apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 09:59 PM |
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