Of_Monads_and_Nomads Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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15	Hating men is fundamentally a conservative attitude Oddly they don’t understand some of their own ideas. Stop me if you’ve heard this one before, as Morrissey said, but the sociologist who named the concept & phenom of “micro aggressions” came out to clear the air on her intent. She never wanted people to take it to HR every time, but to use them as “teachable moments” for the more privileged to learn about experiences outside their own bubble and gain more empathy	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/01/25 01:20 AM
1	Queer men also suffer from men’s issues I have been tempted to go full Commie because the mainline left outside of Bernie and suchlike, can get almost as viciously classist as country club republicans.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/01/25 11:22 PM
1	Queer men also suffer from men’s issues I’d imagine so. I have heard that certain parts of the gay community obsess and nitpick over the body types they demand of a partner, to the point that some men will get anorexia or “bigorexia” from getting too stuck in their heads over it all.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/01/25 11:17 PM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread What did they do? Honestly asking, not being rhetorical or dismissive	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 05:08 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I’m only answering what you asked. Trying to help you from falling into the same maudlin trap of self imposed misery I spent age 19-25 or so in. Don’t lash out at people who talk to you with the best of intentions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 05:02 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Some even get more women than me (I’m more or less average build)—and they’re not even Ron Jeremy equipped. They are, however, loud and outgoing; an obvious overcompensation but these women fall for it anyway. Not that I even want anyone that impressionable. Ok I’m done with the perplexed venting and sour grapes lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 04:59 AM
3	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I’m an American, and we have shitty pickings For mental health resources. You’re absolutely right to point that out. I think many incels are undiagnosed autism and/or anxiety cases	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 04:54 AM
0	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread It’s not about what I think. I’m a guy. Think about which of your pursuits might be considered intriguing to women, which of your personality traits could be spun into something sexy. If you’ve lived as challenging a life as you claim there has to be something to work with. For all I know you may have received cues Of interest that you didn’t notice	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 04:52 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread But they do. What else turned them into chads in the first place? And don’t say genetics. That’s more complicated than people say it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/20 04:50 AM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread It’s not martyrdom when there’s something in it for you too. And unrestrained sex, even with the restraints you mention, is only harmless on the surface. I’ll let you figure out the answers/specifics on these	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 07:38 PM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread And the damnedest thing is, you’re most intriguing to women when you’re deeply aware of your inner nature and do things for your own purposes, not theirs. So, the people who run after every crumb they can get are invariably seen as creeps, fuckboys, taken to bed as mere walking dildos once etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 07:35 PM
4	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread That’s a major “it depends” from me. Of course both sexes need their independent spaces to bond and experience growth in ways only others of their kind can give. Gotta be diligent and discerning about which these are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 07:32 PM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread So many preconceptions. Doesn’t reality and experience show that both sexes have sexual desire?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 01:26 PM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread You seem to be seeing it in an all or nothing way. Let go of certain preconceptions and think about it some more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 01:11 PM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread True, but why are we assuming that this is all Basic instinct? Are you sure some of this is culturally conditioned and some is basic instinct?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 11:36 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread One more for tonight: FDS? I’m all for it! Many of these ladies are approaching it as a return to sanity and self-respect, and some have gone so far into feminism that they’ve circled back around to—-(something like) traditional morality!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 04:45 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I think that we should eliminate certain sexual double standards but not in the way you think: we should value sexual restraint in men too. We should also eliminate aesthetic double standards by holding men to standards of fitness and dieting too. I mean, we do anyway, but we should do it more transparently. I’d have been more of a success and less of a late bloomer if I were told upfront that overweight = no dates . Anyone else agree?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 04:25 AM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I find most incels would be a 7/10 or more if they just worked out and didn’t eat like gluttonous 6 year olds. And if they led lives that actually made them Interesting. This means challenging themselves and getting to know themselves because of it. What I’m driving at is, I think a lot of the problem is coddling and a form of “affluenza,” that shelters them from all the experiences that make a person interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 04:19 AM
3	What what do you guys think of the Beta Bucks ? Do you guys think that it happens often? Nah. I’m a mid- to higher-end beta male and I’ve had most of my girlfriends pay for us both or go Dutch on a good half of our dates. Then again, the women I date tend to fancy themselves alpha females.	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/20 04:12 AM