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Liking sex is not this unique trait you are making it out to be, almost everyone likes sex, nature designed it that way to ensure reproduction. It’s like saying when discussing fat people: Or get this, some people just like food. Yeah no shit Sherlock, I like donuts and pizza too but I don’t indulge in them because I don’t want to be a fatass. We are evolved to like sweet, fatty foods because for the entirety of human and pre-human history, such food were not easily accessible and were a calorie…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:58 AM
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I meant linen actually but I was under the impression that linen is a fancy word for cotton.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:46 PM
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To be fair, I do not consider crop tops to be scandalous as I do tight booty shorts because those have no purpose but to sexualize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:42 PM
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I also have some lovely form-fitting winter dresses with a turtleneck but I ain't wearing those in 40 degree heat. Don't you think it's a bit disingenuous statement because nobody is expecting you to wear turtleneck in summers? A loose fitting cotton T-shirt is better at keeping a person cool than staying almost topless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:31 PM
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As a man from an actual hot country, it is also a cap that you have to be almost naked to stay cool. Nobody, including men dress like that in actual hot countries, what you ideally want to wear is loose cotton fabrics so that it can: Protect you from sun. Heat insulation. Especially when you have sweated earlier. Counterintuitive as it may sound but having some barrier in between heat and your skin is better, especially when that barrier can also get soaked in sweat. Hygiene. Imagine all the dir…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:28 PM
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I guess this piece is written to quash the hopes/dreams older guys might be harboring of dating a young hot woman, because if it is not written with nefarious intentions then it is a quite an irrelevant piece because it is dealing in generalities. Generalities like "most women don't find this man attractive but he does something for this particular woman, hence she is dating him". It is however interestingly doing one thing which women on the internet are often seen pushing against: "women are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:01 PM
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Lmao, this is absolutely not how most women behave. Their indifference to dating comes from privilege/abundance not this level of self regulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:49 AM
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I am not sure if this video was a satire but if it was not then good fucking luck. You people don’t even know the fundamentals of what it takes to make a relationship work and are expecting perfection at the start and this expectation and constant evaluation of the other person relative to your wants and needs would ultimately lead to a point where they no longer fulfil them and then that would be the time to leave, rinse and repeat. Red Pill’s mantra of "She’s not yours, it’s only your turn" so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:15 PM
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I think the pain of rejections is cumulative. While individual rejections may hurt less and less going forward but the combined weight keeps increasing until you reach the "final straw that broke camel’s back". I have experienced it, now when I entertain the thought of approaching any woman, all the previous experiences just flash before my eyes and I conclude that it would be futile just like the previous ones. But this is something those who have never done it can relate to. It is well beyond …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:52 AM
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Fuck this shit, it's like talking to ChatGPT which has no capacity for original thought just the capacity to regurgitate the same thing in so many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:35 PM
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Because you the one pretending to help Ukraine out of morality, hence I question your morals about aligning with a country with the blood of millions of innocents on its hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:26 PM
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Funny you didn't address any of the points where I highlighted your own inconsistent application of morality. I wonder if it is "we support everything that is right" or "everything that we support is right", seems like latter to me, which in itself is hallmark of narcissism. But ultimately, it's all mental gymnastics and I don't expect resolution. Just karmic justice for you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:19 PM
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You are supporting Ukraine under the pretext that it is wrong to invade a country and the invader must pay for their misadventures. Then I ask you, what did you do about America invading other countries? Which sanctions did you impose? Which assets did you freeze? How many weapons did you deliver to the invaded country? I see that you did none of that and it was always business as usual. Now Russia invades Ukraine. And that's obviously so much more worse than what America has done in Middle East…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:02 PM
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My only point is simply highlighting the current need to continue helping Ukraine, as opposed to the original comment about them being unworthy of protection. You are helping Ukraine die. If you really wanted to help Ukraine then you would have helped them avoid this mess altogether. Bit paradoxical that they wanted to join NATO to prevent Russian invasion and this ambition is what led to Russian invasion. They had the choice to maintain good, friendly relationship with their brother country ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:51 PM
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whataboutism bahaha, I had a stopwatch on to see when you will employ the crowd favorite when escaping accountability is the objective. However, I would implore you to learn what it truly means so that you can discern between what amounts to whataboutery and what is a legitimate argument about hypocrisy and inconsistencies. If you have a court, the judge and the jury are guilty of the same crime they are trying you for, do they have the moral right to do so? Especially when they faced no punishm…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:41 PM
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Didn't you invade Iraq to get rid of WMDs? Didn't you invade Afghanistan to get rid of Taliban? Didn't you invade Vietnam to prevent spread of communism. Didn't you bomb weddings in Pakistan? Didn't you kill an Iranian general? Didn't you... well the list is long of examples of you not giving a flying fuck about the very ideals and principles which you are basing your support on for Ukraine. The fact is that you have strategic interests first and foremost, a weakened Russia and more business for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:11 PM
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Ukraine was part of the USSR prior to the dissolution though, it wasn’t foreign Yeah, just like many other states. And yeah sure, US/UK can help Ukraine if they want to but let's not pretend that US/UK or rest of the world would have been okay with 3 new nuclear states emerging out of nowhere with no track record and no direction for the future. It was deal Ukraine, Belarus, Kazakhstan had to accept else those nukes would have been taken away with force. But now everyone likes to pretend that it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:57 AM
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exchange for which Ukraine gave up its nuclear weapons JFC peak /r/confidentallyincorrect moment. You know who else gave up "its" nuclear weapons? Belarus and Kazakhstan. They were not Ukrainian nukes, they were not Belarussian nukes, they were not Kazakh nukes. They were Soviet nukes and Russia being the successor state, Russian nukes with complete command and control over them. And fun fact for ignorant Americans, it was America who persuaded Ukraine to dismantle its massive bomber fleet and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:39 AM
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I agree with you, however being 6’3" is an immutable trait and that guy can get his act together and cash his chips.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:34 PM
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These scales are logarithmic, the difference in results for a 6 and a 9 are not 50% more success, more like 500x more success.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:27 PM
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It would indeed be smarter to not rationalize your preferences, in fact peak smartness would be to not say it at all but enforce them silently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:49 PM
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And those rationalizations open them to scrutiny and moralizing, whereas people would be very careful at meddling with the principles of free will because then it can be applied to them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:16 PM
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I want to or I don't want to are the most bulletproof answers one can give.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:01 PM
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This is how I formulate my aversion to promiscuity. Women justify certain preferences like height based on what they biologically respond to even though it's not functionally required. Similarly, men's aversion to promiscuity cannot be hand-waved away just because has science has allowed us to hack the biology to prevent pregnancies and treat STDs. It can't be that you act prisoner to your biological instincts and expect men to suppress theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:02 PM
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The best is when the argument is "I want to feel safe and protected" A) It is in a way placing gendered expectations. B) Does the threat a random woman faces is relative to her size? A 5' woman can feel safe with a 5'10" man, but a 5'10" woman would need a 6'2" man to feel safe. The hypothetical aggressor would be like, since I am 6'2", I should only assault women 5'10" and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:54 PM
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libgen.rs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:31 PM
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A lot of people say that you should put yourself out there and not be afraid or too bothered by rejection. After being there and done that, here's what I learnt. Occasional successes interspersed with failures can keep you going for very long. This is essentially the principle of intermittent reinforcement. A streak of rejections can make individual rejection less bothersome but their effect is cumulative and you will reach a breaking point. That breaking point is where you become convinced that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:30 PM
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Sillysheila, I want to bounce off this thought with you. There is literally nothing wrong with being attracted to tall men, but the statement "I want to feel small, feminine and protected" screams of insecurity in your own feminine identity and it gets glossed over so easy. But if a man says its analogous "I want to date a shorter woman to feel masculine and protector" then he would get trolled endlessly for having fragile, insecure masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:07 PM
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What I have learnt is that a woman breaks up with a man long before she actually tells him. This time span allows her to grieve and resolve most of the feelings surrounding the breakup as she not only have the security of the relationship, she can also keep accumulating reasons for breakup and internally justify it. Therefore when she serves you the notice, she has already done all the necessary exit work. Therefore men should really consider not begging or pleading to save it. It's as futile as…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:48 AM
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Instead, you have TV and Movies and the like constantly telling you that a youth full of casual sexual adventures is an essential right of passage for any 'normal' male. This is honestly the hardest part. To put it in context, joining military mattered a lot to me but I couldn't, but it's easier to deal with that sense of failure because I am not surrounded by academy guys all day long. But long term romantic aspirations not coming true and being reminded of if fairly regularly is quite painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:58 PM
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I see, putting you through an emotional rollercoster is a classic tactic to maintain an upper hand in the relationship. I am glad you got out of it, going forward do not tolerate any blatant disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:14 AM
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I feel like this kind of nagging is more of an indicator that she doesn’t like you anymore than actual issues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:53 AM
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Like Arab and Asian cultures? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:12 AM
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I want to pet your pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:45 PM
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until she admits she cheated That's enough information to bounce, which I will immediately. If she chooses to birth the child and claims me as a father then I would obviously demand a paternity test before signing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:10 PM
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There is a post by the title: Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" I had the following exchange with my friend: https://imgur.com/NR9SiKK
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:03 PM
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There is a post by the title: Women on this sub really need to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" I had the following exchange with my friend: https://imgur.com/NR9SiKK
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:01 PM
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What is that app called?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:31 PM
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I think if a guy is lean and have a high-ish beard line, along with good hair density then the beard would look good on him. But I see too many younger guys rocking these juvenile looking beards and they look awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:32 PM
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I think a shadow is what I would consider “make up" for men. Not a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:16 PM
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I agree, I have seen very few people pull it off properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:16 PM
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Don’t women like to be told that they are beautiful? As a man I don’t see why I shouldn’t tell a woman that she is beautiful, however, I do know that it is not appropriate to delve too much on it, say it and move on. Also I think there was nothing inherently negative about how the whole conversation went such that it would prevent me from saying Hi to her next time I see her at the gym/uni/club
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:10 AM
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but then rest of our conversation was me getting to know her. I believe in being honest. I approached her because I found her beautiful and I told her so early on but I didn’t bring it up again and instead focused on getting to know her and I think I did that really well. How well I controlled the flow of the conversation after popping from nowhere might have overwhelmed/intimidated her, or she was simply not interested in anything more than a friendly, flattering conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:57 AM
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There is a girl I have seen many times at the campus and I think she is very beautiful, so today I finally decided to go an speak to her when I saw her at the student nightclub and our eyes had met a few times. She was standing by the bar with two of her friends and I went and said excuse me, I shook hands with one of her friends and then her, I asked for her name, made some light banter about it, and then proceeded to talk for about 15 minutes. Very early on I told her that I thought I came to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:48 AM
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That I hope I didn’t hurt her and she’s doing fine and hopefully finds what she is looking for, it was just that I couldn’t give it to her. I feel the same about women who have rejected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:20 PM
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Men deliberately seeking considerably younger women is problematic for sure, but it seems like umbrella judgements are passed when the man is more than a few years older without knowing their unique dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:56 PM
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What I understand is that the older man through his more finely tuned reasoning and persuasion skills might want the woman to do things to his liking, he can coerce her by making her financially dependent, or make appeals based on maturity. I do concede this is a possibility, but I also take issue with this prejudice that he will try to influence her in ways detrimental to her. The young woman has power over the older man in the sense that she is dating him out of free will despite having pletho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:44 PM
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Intelligence more intrinsic than age, it is the experience we gain through the years. I don't feel smarter than my 18 yo self at 30, but I sure do know a lot more things and have experienced things. So if at any point the younger party feels like they don't want this anymore, I wonder what stops them from walking out as free citizens of a free country.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:29 PM
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Exactly, because their exercising is so natural and normal that it doesn't feel any special. It's like people with normal hearing can't truly fathom their privilege relative to someone who is deaf. They can intellectually try it but never get there. You might have seen videos of people moving to tears when they get an implant and are able to hear things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:23 PM
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in irrelevant ones funny you say that. For the woman who can date anyone but can't pay her rent, money is very important. For the guy who has all the money he needs and some more but nobody to come home to, that's what matters to him a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:22 PM
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are you genuinely confused Apparently. Tell me if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:20 PM
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If older man has power imbalance because of his money and life experience, doesn't the dating opportunities of younger woman which are order of magnitude more than that of man's balances that? They both have powers, but in different areas of life. One can replace the other by afternoon, other can pay his bills and perhaps hers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:10 PM
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You are just retarded, I was going to reply to other post but now I think it would be waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:12 PM
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I was highlighting a point that women simultaneously claim that there is nothing sexual about breasts yet there is a multi billion dollar business around selling pictures of breasts. Male chest and female chest are false equivalents as far as the acceptability of their public exposure goes. Most women wouldn't raise eyebrows if their man's bare chest is seen by other women, but most men wouldn't be okay if their wife/gf is flashing her tits to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:05 PM
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Chris Hemsworth is too shirtless, he's a slut yeah? men's chest is not sexualised like women's and if you think there is nothing sexual about tits then send me a picture of yours
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:58 PM
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Dress slutty -> sleep around -> become a single mother There's some strange notion that dicks "ruin" women This strange notion arises from biology where the dicks get women pregnant and since we have managed to hack the biology with birthcontrol, abortions, it has allowed you to pretend dicks are these sterile pleasure objects like glass dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:56 PM
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I have done that extensively and the thought that the woman I love and who could be potentially mother of my children was out there hooking up with randos and doing all these intimate acts is deeply unsettling for me and I cannot reconcile with it. Therefore my choice is not to get emotionally involved with such women, however, I neither have the power nor desire to forbid them from engaging in any activities they deem fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:38 PM
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Should a man dress modestly as well? I think I have a reasonably good physique as well but I don't feel compelled to show it off. And let's admit it, guys who are actually in good shape don't need to dress lightly to get the point across, you can tell immediately. So I usually wear long pants and half sleeve t shirts to the gym. Then there are a few guys in the gym who do actually dress like you described and I think they are vain just like women who dress lightly for the gym. But I am actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:31 PM
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What matters to someone is their own decision to make. Please dictating it for other people, and I do not say this to you specifically OP but people moralizing what should or should not matter. Because that opens the whole can of preferences up for debate. Height, race, education, income, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:15 PM
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all about daily cliff jumping That 100s of thousands of survival instinct driving the fear of height is the one to blame. I believe aversion to promiscuity has similar roots, take away the artificial means of preventing pregnancies and treating STDs and then tell me how "natural" casual sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:30 PM
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Not wanting to jump off a cliff is not puritanical just because parachutes allow you do it safely. With the birth control methods coming into play in the last half century or so, everyone is behaving that fucking with dozens and dozens of people is totally normal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:59 PM
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Although I have given up masturbation for a few months now, I came across the video you shared some time ago and it solidified my resolve to not masturbate. Especially that "open loop" concept drilled it home. The emptiness he talked about was indeed the case and I almost always felt worse after nutting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:58 PM
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From the monkey brain perspective, sex = pregnancy. Her having sex with the chad and dating the average guy is a textbook example of alpha fucks beta bucks, that is, secure genetic material from the chad and raise those kids with the average joe. Ideally she would have wanted to date the Chad too but he is not available.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:29 PM
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guys I meet IRL are okay with a sub-average lifetime n count number (4-7) That seems quite normal and acceptable to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:46 PM
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Sorry, I still don’t understand, can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:41 PM
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Maladaptive in what sense? There is a guy in my gym who is there when I arrive and he is still there when i leave, and I already spend way too much time at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:49 PM
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To be big and strong. My long term goals are to OHP 100 kg and do one arm pull ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:40 PM
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Precisely, there are a host of other questions people answer when they get to know each other, technically none of them are anyone's business but they still answer those questions to get a holistic view of someone's personality and values. If you believe that you did nothing wrong and the other person would be stupid for judging you then it's even more of a reason to be transparent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:25 PM
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I know but it's like eating candy for breakfast. I think it's a very bad choice considering the insulin spike they would cause
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:19 PM
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I hope you salt them at least. There is an indian seasoning called "Chaat Masala", it would elevate your boiled eggs to a new level.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:12 PM
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Lol true, fatties won't be fatties if they counted calories. I think a good start for them would be to start logging everything they eat and then start eliminating one thing at a time to bring it below maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:09 PM
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I would allow it if it's espresso or lungo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:07 PM
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Signs you are an American
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:06 PM
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a fresh omelette It turns out to be work of art being cooked at low heat in a cast iron skillet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:02 PM
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I am bulking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:55 PM
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Idk man, Brits have milk in their tea as well. The Indian and Sri-lankan tea is typically served with milk in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:54 PM
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It's not pre-workout per se, I have this 4 hrs before the workout to load the tank, then right before workout I have a 600 calorie smoothie. Tiny meal like fruit and coffee would cause my head to start spinning after like 45 minutes. I know a lot of people can't train for an hour or two after a major caloric intake, but for me personally, I can't train with high intensity if there is such a gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:51 PM
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No, I like to get tons of calories in before I go to the gym because I train for 2+ hrs and this allows me to keep the intensity high throughout.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:43 PM
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Brah, all of Middle East and South Asia have milk in their black tea. I like a dash of oat milk in coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:42 PM
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Breakfast of the champions: 3 eggs omelette 2 buttered toasts 4 slices of port salut 1 apple 1 cup black tea with milk 250 gm greek yogurt blended with 100 gm of frozen berries and fruits (blueberry, raspberry, strawberry, mango). About 1100 calories, 65+ gm protein, 62 gm carbs, 65 gm fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:34 PM
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What do you want to talk? I consume like half kg every day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:27 PM
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I don't agree with that line of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:55 AM
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Are you new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:47 PM
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they think that men are saying that being promiscuous lowers their value as a human being
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:36 PM
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One thing women get wrong about the N count discourse is that they think that men are saying that being promiscuous lowers their value as a human being, which is definitely not the case, what some men are saying is that being promiscuous is a deal-breaker for them when considering having a romantic relationship with that woman. Her having engaged in consensual sex with other people doesn't have any bearing on her value as a person. Just like being fat, fit, tall, short, black/white/brown etc doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:15 PM
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Therefore, ultimately it's opinion of people involved which matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:59 PM
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If anything, I find Selena Gomez very average and her BF is her looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:15 PM
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I see your point and it is true that banging hot women exist outside of fashion magazines too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:02 PM
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I rate more globally, so if I call someone a 10 then she would stand shoulder to shoulder with the global 10s. And they are EXTREMELY rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:56 PM
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10s like Monica Bellucci level 10s or local 10s?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:34 PM
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10s like Monica Bellucci level 10s or local 10s?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:34 PM
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On one hand you had someone who lacked certain social skills and later gained them, on the other hand you have someone who did something for years and now doesn’t. So it’s intangible vs tangible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:31 AM
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While I don't believe it's Chad or bust, the thing is that a person lower in attractiveness has to make up for massively in terms of high quality social interactions to find the one that he has such great personal chemistry with that it can make up for his lack in being physically arousing. And such social interactions nearly always have a huge element of luck involved. Being attractive makes even strangers receptive to what you have to say, being average/below average requires you being stuck o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:24 PM
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What do I need to do to be your disciple and learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:18 PM
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OP is his own type.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:24 PM
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Yes, it is quite heavily generalised, let's put it at 85% and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:01 PM
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All trashy people are not on apps, but all people on apps are trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:53 PM
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Which is why they sell 3, 6, 12 month subscription bundles. Like those who buy them are the ones for whom the app fundamentally doesn't work. Attractive people get plenty of likes and matches without paying a dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:47 PM
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Indeed, it was stint at dating apps which made me realize how important it is to be self dependent for happiness and fulfillment in complete absence of any external validation. I really really hope that I never get to a point where I feel compelled to sign up on these apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:45 PM
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Dating apps are trash and people on dating apps are trashy at some level. The whole dynamics on dating apps is about objectifying and commercialization. It's more similar to interviewing candidates for a job position than finding a romantic partner. Put a job posting (make a profile), field 100s of resumes (matches), dozens of candidates called for 1st round of interview (dates), few move to meetings with the manager (sex), job offer extended to the top candidate and if they refuse then second b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:12 PM
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They don't bother me one bit on hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:08 PM
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Cool, at the end of the day we both will believe in what we want to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:32 PM
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However, you can look at many posts on /r/Tinder of women posting their swiping stats, their right swipe rates usually are less than 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:27 PM
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How much do you weigh? You also have to account for your activity levels and Thermic effect of the food (it takes energy to digest food). Like I am 176 cm and around 76 kg, I work out 3 times a week and bike 5 km almost every day, my TDEE is 2800
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:23 AM
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TEETH, I WAS TALKING ABOUT
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:34 PM
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who choose to be single also choose celibacy, Having a choice is a privilege in itself. Please don't mistake me for an incel, I have slept with a number of women, but I am also intimately familiar with the hopelessness of having nobody. Someone having spent decades dating and sleeping around and then quitting that scene is VERY different from someone having spent decades struggling and getting scrapes. It's like one person has been inside the nightclub since 10:00 PM and exiting the club at 2:00…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:07 PM
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I don't recall seeing it but it's likely for different reasons, like suffering from success sorta thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:01 PM
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what would be a good answer that might satisfy you? Looksmaxx, social skill maxx and pray to God.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:41 PM
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Women can be happy single, why can't you. The source of woes of many single men are lack of physical and emotional intimacy, also a lack of history is weighing on them sometimes. This is not the same as someone who has access to physical intimacy and an extensive dating history. This group of people taking a break from dating is like a recently gluttonous person lecturing someone starving about how there's more to life than food.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:33 PM
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I personally won't be caught complaining but I can empathize with those who do because they are hoping to find solutions and think that perhaps they are missing something that is very obvious to other people. Then they come up with the dumbest bullshit like have you been showering and treating women like people and then that person feels like they made a mistake by asking because instead of getting help, they are being accused of being a filthy misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:58 PM
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Smoothie blender, I drink three smoothies per day and eat 1 cooked meal, so that has saved me tons of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:55 PM
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have you seen the evolution? Have you been showering? -> Have you been treating women like people? -> Have you gone to therapy?.... next up... Have you attained nirvana? Yes? Then you wouldn't be complaining, go attain Nirvana. No? That Nirvana won't attain itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:48 PM
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I think C is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:25 PM
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Vote for: Brushing A) Before shower B) During shower C) After shower
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:22 PM
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Okay MAN, how else do you acquire a 1000 dollar bag without purchasing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:15 PM
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Still don't see how that makes my argument invalid because the caveat covers for what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:00 PM
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is pretty much invisible in society No. The point I was trying to make was that approaching someone is a risky endeavor, so people do it for big prize. But that doesn't mean that average women are not desirable, but if the man has to approach two women and the chances of rejections are unknown in both cases, wouldn't he approach the hotter one instead? But if the mid girl approaches him, they hit it off then good things can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:59 PM
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A) It was not me. B) If it's a freebie then the entire discussion is moot because the question was about the choice "Why do you go for the $1000 one."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:56 PM
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https://media.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTc5MGI3NjExYm9yeTZtYm90ajB1eGx6aHdyNGZzMzd5aW9mbDA4ZXJ5dmVvcHV5ZyZlcD12MV9naWZzX3NlYXJjaCZjdD1n/5DtKdXHrW4MAE/giphy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:45 PM
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it is very unusual for used things to go at purchase price unless they are exclusive in some way. AirTightArguments
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:41 PM
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The $1000 one can be resold for $1000 dollars, Girl Math. You need to spend $1000 first and it is very unusual for used things to go at purchase price unless they are exclusive in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:33 PM
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Whether you are a man or a woman, you need to cross a threshold of excitation for the other party to make first move. In simpler words that means being very handsome for men, and being a bit above average as a woman. If you are not past that threshold then you have to make the effort to put yourself out there and express interest in others. So the 5'8" slim beautiful blonde cross threshold comfortably for most men, while the 400 lb refrigerator is putting herself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:23 PM
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The Western discourse surrounding Russia is baffling to me. Nobody can conjure any coherent reason why Russia would attack NATO countries knowing full well the grave consequences of it and how woefully depleted they are from fighting in Ukraine. Like be logical for a second and tell me the how's and why's of Russia attacking NATO. I think it is fear-mongering so that sheeps don't question the ongoing proxy war too much. It's like "Ow ow ow, big bad Russian bear is coming to eat your kids, and br…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:21 PM
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She swipes on 10% men, matches with 20% of the ones she swiped on, chats with 30% of the ones she matched with, goes on dates with 4% of them, and sleeps with 80% of the ones she goes on date with. These would be stats for a top 5% dude. I know a girl like that, very heavy, heavily tatted, fake eyelashes and honestly looks scary and she has no problems getting laid. While on one hand it speaks about the ease with which women can get laid, it doesn't speak highly of the men who are willing to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:58 PM
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Quite interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:54 PM
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You are saying that being taller than 176 cm makes someone more likely to be in a relationship? BTW I am 176 cm as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:51 PM
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the poophole loophole strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:25 PM
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she’s unattractive I said average, I can show 10 girls prettier than her on my college campus in 15 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:24 PM
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PIV sex So anal it is....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:21 PM
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Some of my partners were surprised when I kissed them head to toe, others commented that I know how to touch a woman, so it all comes from deep appreciation for their bodies. However, I want to be made love to the same way but most girls just focus on the mouth and the dick
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:59 PM
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Selena Gomez She's very average, even with her fame and professional stylist, she is no more than a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:54 PM
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In bed I have sniffed armpits as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:49 PM
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It still is, but less than a flat stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:47 PM
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A flat stomach is hot but some flub is acceptable too. But I really have a thing for gym rats now after seeing so many very beautiful and very fit girls at my gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:45 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:43 PM
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Caveat being when their BMI in the range of 19-23.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:42 PM
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That's me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:35 PM
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I can't think of a part of woman's body that doesn't enthrall me. Heck even nice slender fingers can do it for me, and long shapely legs? OMG.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:34 PM
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You seem to have answered a question that wasn’t asked. You answered "if you are fucking a guy on the side, would you fuck me as as well if we went on the date?" which is different from what was asked "are you fucking a guy on the side while you also go on dates to find a partner?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:47 AM
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I always thought that 0.5 was a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:03 PM
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So having the freedom of putting the desirable goods on display motivates those desirous of them to supplicate in order to possess them, thus positioning the displayer in a relative position of power. So as I said before it's a subtle power play which loses its power by admission.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:55 PM
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He still didn't put it directly. Also look at the difference in uniform of male and female track and field athletes. Male pole vaulters wear mid thigh tights and tank tops, but female pole vaulters wear briefs and crop tops. Does that have any performance benefits? Or is it to titillate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:45 PM
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I once got in discussion with ChatGPT about this, but knowing how it is designed to be extremely politically correct in its responses I framed my argument generally. Like this: There are two groups of people, group A and B, both are engaged in same activity. However, group B does something that does not improve their performance in the said activity but greatly improves their standing in the eyes of group A. I make the claim that it does not improve performance in the said activity because if it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:29 PM
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Do you think that deep down they acknowledge the true purpose of their dressing choices but willfully mislead in order to achieve the objective they made those choices for? Like saying butt separating booty shorts have any measurable performance benefits is the biggest load of bullshit. I don't see any of the 405+ lb squatter men (or any men for that matter) wearing anything remotely like that but all the 135 lb squatting women are very much concerned about how good the fabric is wicking the swe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:18 PM
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The validation, even if just imagined as she is alone at home or with family. It all matters. It makes them feel good. It props up self-esteem. Precisely, even if I am at home sitting in a t shirt flattering my chest and arms, I would feel good because I know that if a woman happens to see it she would like it too. That self-validation and satisfaction always comes by first framing an imaginary entity (a woman in this case) and looking good to it. Ultimately it's a power struggle to rise on soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:02 PM
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everything becomes sexualized and creates a breeding ground for deluded views about life and one's self. Can you elaborate? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:47 PM
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Dressing lightly is form of a soft power which is potent as long as the true intentions are concealed. An admission along the lines of "I want to look sexy" would make it quite ineffective. Instead they relegate the responsibility to external factors like cultural trends, availability, and lastly comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:31 PM
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bro you botched what could have caused a good discussion by including that Youtube short because half of the comments are focusing on it instead of the overall claim of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:18 PM
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It was in your mom's mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:41 PM
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I was entering the uni building, I pulled the door to enter and at the same time a girl was exiting, and for some reason while passing each other we held the gaze into each other's eyes longer than usual and exchanged a slight smile, and boy in that moment it felt good, she was really pretty and her eyes were blue like sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:38 PM
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you need to lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:28 AM
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Teen boys in gyms are often mocked and sometimes you see why. There is this guy who walks around with an angry face, he has decent physique. One day I walk into the gym and see him doing some partial reps of pull ups with 45 kg around his waist (100 lb), and I gave him the benefit of doubt thinking that maybe he is doing the partials to exhaust his muscles even more and he did full reps before I came. Then another day I see him starting to load the weights and I was like, let's see what he does.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:49 PM
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Sure, my mom, who is a very traditional Indian woman votes independent of who my father is voting for and so do me and my siblings, so it is not a big deal in our family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:33 PM
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It applies more so to men because they are polygamous by nature Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks makes perfect sense naturally, each woman carrying the genes of the best guy and raising those kids with the help of beta providers. You seem to take issue with it. This whole discourse surrounding promiscuity will go nowhere if men think that they should be sleeping around and women shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:13 PM
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So you follow cultural norms when it suits you and reject it when it doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:10 PM
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Every man with a high body count who decides to enter a monogamous relationship is voluntarily limiting his already existing and vast sexual access which is showing restraint by default, The same could be said about women across the board, high or low n-count. So by that logic being a high n-count man don't make you better suited for a LTR than a high n-count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:00 PM
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I personally wouldn't do it but if someone else want to do it then go ahead. I don't want to be fucked in the ass either so I don't understand the appeal of it, but if other men want to and it's legal then go ahead and enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:43 PM
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More than 2 at 18. More than 5 at 24. More than 6-7 thereafter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:34 PM
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A 17 year old dating a 23 year old is still gonna toss red flags. Your argument style is just dishonest and I am not digging it. So let's just put a stop to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:32 PM
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Good point. It is still an empirical formula that constraints the age gap discourse to moderate age-gaps because when debating against age gap relationships, people love to argue from the position of extremes like how wrong it is for a 40 yo to be dating an 18 yo, well duh of course it's an order of magnitude more extreme than that man dating a 27 yo woman. This formula constraints it to a more realistic and practical range.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:30 PM
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I was pointing out that “socially acceptable age ranges” change with age. Was that anywhere included or relevant to my original statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:22 PM
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Well said. Statement: Don't judge the relationship of 25 yo man and a 19 yo woman. Counter: The 25 yo is a pedo and would date below 18 if it was legal. Imagine going around calling people pedo willy nilly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:21 PM
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1 added one to point out the “outside range” and how it changes. No, being near the vicinity of half + 7 rule AND being of legal age are necessary conditions in my argument, you can't remove one condition at will to refute my point. A 19 year old dating a 26 year old will still raise a lot of eyebrows even “if it’s legal”. Now that's what I was talking about. Yes, it raises eyebrows because it assigns all sorts of nefarious intentions on the part of 26 yo without knowing them and their intention…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:17 PM
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a sports bra and leggings or shorts are considered appropriate gym wear It's considered appropriate because any critique of it is shut down very fast, so IRL men have decided to just shut up and enjoy the view. There are no performance gains from dressing as little as possible, but it sure does show off the physique and gets attention which can feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:10 PM
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when I say moderate, I mean teetering on the edge of half + 7 rule, and both parties being of legal age .. But a 22 year old chasing a 14 year old? It’s not hard to see what’s wrong with that. Yeah it's criminal, but I wonder why you brought that up when my original argument explicitly made it clear that both parties are of legal age AND are very close to the half+7 rule? So the discussion is about 22 yo and 18 yo, or a 30 yo and a 21 yo, or a 34 yo and a 22 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:04 PM
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The critique of moderate age gap relationships have some merit, when I say moderate, I mean teetering on the edge of half + 7 rule, and both parties being of legal age. However, making sweeping generalizations like the older party will abuse the younger party is plain wrong and comes from a place of malice than legitimate concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:20 PM
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What’s the problem there? If the guy nuts early then he can use his mouth or hands. Or better yet, make her cum first and then you can cum whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:15 PM
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I think men should really stop obsessing about if they are good enough in the bedroom for the modern woman who samples dozens of dicks in her lifetime. There will ALWAYS be someone bigger/better than you. Therefore your task is as follows: Develop the ability to acquire sexual partners, so if one leaves, you can get another one. Sex is what you do together and not to woman. So focus on enjoying yourself and pleasuring your partner as best as you can. Don’t worry beyond that. You may not have a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:40 PM
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Let’s have mandated paternity testing at birth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:27 PM
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here that men want women to be forced into looks matched relationships and that women shouldn’t get a say in that. To see men actively pushing for women to lose their freewill is definitely a call for concern Sorry. I call bullshit on that. Talking about wealth inequality is not saying "eat the rich".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:25 PM
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ou are going down on a woman for the first time, and during receiving pleasure she says something like "Omg, you are REALLY good at that, I have to thank all the girls before who taught you" or "You really know your way around ... that is SO good" or anything to the effect of complimenting your unknown sexual history with women as to why you are so good at cunnilingus? yep, happened to me as well. She complemented me and that was the last time we smashed. She did invite me over though many month…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:41 PM
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Hypergamy in India is not even frowned upon, it's considered logical. However, what they usually don't do is "reaching", like if the girl is 5'2" then it's not like 6' or bust, usually she will be married to someone 5'6" or less. Tall men are for tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:06 PM
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No, I am in Sweden but I am Indian
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:02 PM
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Bit random, but being 5'9" in India is like being 6'3.5" in Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:14 PM
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Honestly it's tragic, I find Russia and their culture quite fascinating and wanted to travel through the country some day. I once tried learning Russia but damn it's hard. I hope in the long run they will be alright again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:19 PM
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Are you kidding? Her requirements are so numerous that I doubt many men would fit them AND want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:15 PM
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“how do I make myself more datable/fuckable/desirable?” To HER I think a man should rather grow in the direction that personally appeals to HIM and makes him proud and content with himself instead of trying to fit mold a woman he desires have. Then wait for the woman who likes him the way he is and he likes her as well. But self improvement goes on forever. Like a little example, i was trying to cut down bodyfat to look lean and hence more attractive, as a result my OHP was stalled like a mother…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:12 PM
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People can end up dating people who in the eyes of outsiders might not be looks match for the reasons that they make their partner feel a certain way, the way they have always wanted to feel and others have failed to, and that in their partners eyes they are attractive for they are their "type"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:06 PM
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Yes, that is true, which is why I said it's difficult and not impossible. It's possible only because of the factors you mentioned. So that 8/10 who could date anyone from 0-9 could choose a 7/10 if he makes her feel a certain way..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:02 PM
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It doesn't even imply, she has said that herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:58 PM
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I am an engineering student so I can't help but use math to describe reality as much as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:53 PM
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You seem to be taking the interpretation of unconditional to extreme. Unconditional in this context means very human failings not decimating the partner's attraction for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:52 PM
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I am an ambitious man therefore I consider 1 point above me a suitable match. However, it is difficult because the opportunities scale logarithmically. So an 8/10 girl would have 10x more suitors than a 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:48 PM
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Do you think that there was a real possibility of Putin getting ousted had there not been a war?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:03 AM
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I do not think that Putin thought that it would be a war, he thought it would be Crimea 2.0 instead it's turning out to be Afghanistan 2.0
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:07 AM
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I don't like the idea of running romantic partnerships like a commercial enterprise where expenses and tasks performed are tracked and meticulously balanced at 50-50. I believe in each partner doing their best and being kind towards their partner. The flip side of this is that one partner might start taking advantage of the kindness of the other, but then it's no longer a relationship of love but of convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:41 PM
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I am an Indian and I highly doubt that. I think we'll stay #3 unless something goes horribly wrong with USA or China.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:06 PM
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It's like when you are hungry all you can think about is food and that greasy pizza looks like the best thing in the world and after having gorged it down, you are disgusted by the sight of pizza for a week. It's hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:04 PM
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That pretty much sums it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:46 PM
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Thus exposing Western hypocrisy and perhaps in the long run Russia earning many fold dividends on that money for they are forced to use it in a growing economy with a young population. In the short term sure they don't get so much money to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:51 PM
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I don't know who needs who more, but India didn't seem to have faced any repercussions for buying russian crude oil, refining it and selling it to EU.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:25 PM
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I see she would enjoy BDSM
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:22 PM
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I think it's you who needs to think about currencies and their relative values are not a great indicator, GBP used to be (and still is) more expensive compared to dollar, didn't mean that UK had/has stronger economy than USA. India won't need to do either/or, they have played their cards smartly and can do both. They are in an ethically non-monogamous relationship ;) About Ukraine. That argument never ceases to amaze me. The collective might of NATO is bankrolling their war effort by providing s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:02 PM
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Russia is now what Mcain said they were: a gas station pretending to be a country haha Lord McCain and his gospel truths. I guess the same could be said for Norway, most of the middle east, Venezuala. And what would that make America? A shopping mall pretending to be country? As far other points, you are regurgitating the popular reddit talking points and they are so ignorant that it's a waste of time engaging with them. Like your ruble comment is a testament to that. Indian rupee is also approx…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:43 PM
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I hope he is okay and continue to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:28 PM
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Where? Russia or Ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:25 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/UkmI1BHAr8I
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:10 PM
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For your kind reference: https://www.reddit.com/r/UkraineRussiaReport/comments/195qw1y/ru_pov_ukrainian_soldier_said_that_he_went_to_buy/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:07 PM
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Is she break-your-dick-thicc?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:48 PM
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I see it as a win for India, China, Russia. If Russia has a lot of money tied up in India and China then while it means that they don't have immediate access to it, but if they use it to set up manufacturing in India and China then it's almost like they were mandated to participate in two of the world's largest markets. I don't see a downside to it. Heck you could see many Russian electronics, automobile, and consumer brands arising due to this phenomenon. Russian economy has bounced back to pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:42 PM
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It's their decision to make. I do empathize with them, it's their motherland and they are fighting for it and it's the most honorable deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:30 PM
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Well, Russia could always set up manufacturing in India and using the cheap labor produce whatever they want and take it back to Russia, and since India is not sanctioned, they get access to Western tech through India. Now the question is, who is going to sanction India and China? 1/3rd of world's population. Let's see, Ukraine can't pay for salaries of their troops without being bankrolled by the West. It can't produce any weaponry except cheap drones, any attempts to create substantial industr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:17 PM
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Feminism is good but I feel like movements like these have no end for their objectives are so loosely defined that they can go on for eternity. They would perennially keep finding something to be slighted about to remain in relevance. At some point people being dick to people has nothing to do with the genders involved but one of them generally being a dick. But that can always be used as an evidence that inequality, injustice exist. Just head over to TwoX, there is a woman there feeling slighte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:06 PM
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Oh I think your mask fell off, comrade. That's peak reddit moment. Any dissenting voice is a Russian bot. But joke is on you, I am Indian. Russia thought they could take Ukraine. That was a mistake. Since their ego can’t admit they messed up they will continue to lose insane amounts of men and equipment. I do really hope that they don't give up and keep taking more and more until Ukrainians themselves decide that they have suffered enough. I mean the "counter-offensive" didn't go so well, they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:01 PM
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Don't they have a law where a person can say no to the orders of mobilization and pay a modest fine? But anyway, let's just accept that Russia forcefully sent some men to the front. Okay, so? Russia hasn't been saintly in this war and neither did I claim. They have indeed hurt themselves in a lot of ways. They took an action hoping for it to go a certain way, it went the other way, and they couldn't backtrack and had to pay a heavy price. I am pretty sure that Russian intention on 24th Feb wasn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:57 PM
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but they also know they would be losing way more lives without the wests help They would have lost exactly ZERO lives if they didn't act like Western lapdog. The ideals of sovereignty, free will, morality, justice are all human constructs, the strength is objective and when you antagonize your neighbor by playing up the made up stuff like that then don't be surprised when the reckoning with objective reality comes. Russia already attacked them in 2014 How many Ukrainians died in 2014? Now USA is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:50 PM
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I said they did however call up reservists Your claim is Russia announced "mobilization" in 2022 and the very first line says: Russia declared a partial mobilization of military reservists. Do you realize that what was supposed to be counter is actually supporting what I had already said? They also have catchers to enlist young men for conscription...suspiciously enough lots of these men end up in the war So far I have not heard of Russia sending people to the frontlines against their will unlik…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:42 PM
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the west is very ok with continuing the war. Honestly, this sentiment is nauseating to me. Ukrainians are dying fighting your war, losing their homes and getting their cities turned to rubble and you see it as merely expenditure of old junk. Lovely. I know what's coming next. "oh Russia could just go back home", but it doesn't work like that with nation states. It's not neighborhood altercation where you just walk back in after exchanging a fuel expletives. Imagine losing 100s of thousands of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:38 PM
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I don't recall Russia having a draft, they did however call up reservists and lured others with larger salaries but they certainly didn't have meatcatchers picking up willing men from the streets like in Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:28 PM
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Russia invaded Ukraine thinking it would roll over Russia invaded Ukraine thinking they would force Ukraine to negotiation table and get themselves a deal about never joining NATO, however Ukraine resisted, but then Russia didn't have the choice of turning back because that would speed run Ukraine into NATO, so now we have a protracted war on our hands. I don't see Ukraine's fault in it. They were invaded and its their right to choose whether to fight or surrender, but it's the West which seems …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:15 PM
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Yeah, I hope people wake up to the realities of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:48 PM
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Yeah if there wasn't this chemical cocktail in the brain then it would be so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:14 PM
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Brah the thing is because of constricting third spaces to meet women, social circle and dating apps are the two main avenues. Now if you are not in the Uni anymore then the social circle option is severely limited, like how many dateable single women would one have in their social circle? That leaves dating apps the main avenue to meet people and if that doesn't work either then where else would they meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:02 PM
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A lot of the news reports floating in the western hemisphere concerning Russo-Ukraine war seem straight out of a propaganda factory. "Russia fired 40 missiles, no people were hurt, a dog was killed" is like tailor made for the western audience. or "2 Ukrainian girls killed 46 Russians by feeding them rat poison, arsenic. Were on the run. Few days later they got in a firefight with the police, killed three officers and escaped in a car." Like that's straight up Hollywood shit. Or the Schrodinger'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:53 PM
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All my crushes had been because I found her hot/cute/beautiful. But then there is a girl in my hallway. I think if you just go by appearance there is nothing special but her personality, it's just adorable. So she's my only personality crush ever. But I don't see it as a bad thing, consider how often do I find a male best friend? Not that often, and I talk to a lot more men than women. So liking someone for their personality is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:09 PM
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It’s not much but it’s honest work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:13 AM
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I think we were talking about short term. The behavioural factors that make a guy viscerally attractive are often not conducive to LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:12 AM
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Standing at attention immaculately groomed, waiting for orders to shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:55 AM
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Damn she's cute. I could fix her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:52 AM
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Spot on. The horniness is very good at overriding social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:49 AM
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I think it stems from misunderstanding or lack of understanding. Consider a Thug and a Navy SEAL Officer, both are badass, latter probably peak badass. The kind of confidence, self-assuredness, assertiveness the SEAL would exhibit would be similar to the thug, but in addition to that he would also have great social acumen, charm, charisma, competence, accomplishment, and admiration of other high caliber men, that is what the thug would likely be missing. So women want the SEAL officer but someti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:47 AM
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That's true, however, it is also true when you were pretty sure that girl was expressing interest and you were feigning ignorance deliberately hoping for her to go away and she eventually did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:39 AM
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Yeah I suppose but not giving yourself an option for relieving sexual energy with porn and masturbation means that you have to go after women with more focus and determination. Earlier when I was regularly beating my meat and also in somewhat depressed state, when a girl would show signs of interest at the club, I was like, what do you want me to do? This is not the right place to get to know each and set a date. I was behaving so Beta even with my FWB. Totally different man. Now I know what's u…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:35 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:26 AM
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It doesn't have literal magical powers. It's simple law of conservation of energy. If you expend sexual energy in the bathroom sink then you don't have much left when interacting with women, if you have been accumulating a lot of it over a period of time then it's bursting out of your pores and compels you to take action because it is borderline uncomfortable state. Like a musth. And women can probably sense it because you are acting more like a virile man who will fuck her if she lets him and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:24 AM
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Nofap has been magical for me. The mythical confidence that people talk about? I feel my head buzzing with it. Earlier when it was shrouded with a lot of self limiting beliefs like how I am not good enough or it is inappropriate to be forward with women. But all that horniness is overriding it and I am fundamentally like " I am man, you are a woman, I find you hot, if you find me hot enough then it would be an amazing idea to fuck" Sadly I am stuck at the Uni this weekend but next weekend is goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:12 AM
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Bro you expect kids to know all that? Which is why the role of society is so important. If the society now tells to start fucking as soon as they can then that's exactly what they do, it is in the hindsight that many feel that it was not the right way to go about it. I have a girl-friend, she was lamenting on the same thing, how casual sex is glorified and promoted, so in her teens she slept with a dozen guy and now in mid 20s she regret it all and feel like dumb kids are encouraged to participa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:47 PM
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Sex feels good and our hormones compel us to have it, which is why the avg marriage age in traditional societies was in teens. Get married and boink as much as you please. But then people started marrying later and later, what to do in the meantime? And also the birth control, condoms, modern medicine took away the biological burden of sex. So now we have hacked the biology and removed the social checks and balances. Result is the hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:36 PM
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true, not by the traditional definition of the word. However, we do agree that people shouldn't be calling their coworkers they get along with as work-wife/husband. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:33 PM
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What are we arguing about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:45 PM
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Think of it like this: oh he's like my brother. That's brozoning. Analogous is: Oh he's my work husband. That's husband zoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:42 PM
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No in this context I meant calling random guys their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:37 PM
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Oh that guy? He's like older/younger brother to me. how are you getting husband-zoned by a woman who already has a husband? By getting called work-husband, which has the word husband in it. I know it's said in jest but I believe fidelity is not to be joked about because husband/wife is the most intimate relationship people have. You don't go around calling people husbands and wifes jokingly. I got no chill about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:30 PM
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Yeah, and instead of bro-zoning him, they husband-zone him, which is super weird. I don't find it funny at all, it's a clear admission of getting too emotionally intimate with a person of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:48 PM
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What the fuck is a work husband? Maybe I am too uptight but why would a person get so chummy with a colleague of opposite sex at the workplace and on top of that start calling them work "husband", what the actual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:43 PM
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I am 5'9" and you are good tall, wedding when?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:15 PM
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There are some really fit women at my gym, mainly because it's on a University campus so the cohort is young. How many can you do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:05 PM
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Tell me more about it, OHP and Pull ups are the bread and butter of my training. There are a few women at my gym who can knock out like 10
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:34 PM
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they will settle for it given other good qualities? Or acceptable means height doesn't matter one bit for the 20-30% You can club both to make the 20-30%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:23 PM
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Preferring short women seems like an American phenomenon. I like them tall with legs for days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:21 PM
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It's my personal estimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:19 PM
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5'8" for women is tall and sexy. Ideal height for women in my eyes is 5'8"-5'10"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:09 PM
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Suggested height bands for men: <= 5'3": Way too short 5'4"-5'5": Too short for most 5'6"-5'8": Acceptable to 20-30% of opposite sex 5'9"-5'11": Acceptable medium 6'-6'2": Good tall 6'3"-6'5": Universal tall 6'6"-6'9": Quite tall 6'9"+: Freakishly tall Suggested height bands for women: <= 4'10": Way too short 4'11"-5'1": Too short for most 5'2"-5'3": Acceptable to 20-30% of opposite sex 5'4"-5'6": Acceptable medium 5'7"-5'10": Good tall 5'11"-6'1": Universal tall 6'2"-6'4": Quite tall 6'5"+: Fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:06 PM
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it is short What is short? 5'8"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:57 PM
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You are expecting women to either find a suitable lifelong partner in first try or to stick with whatever they have selected, what if they get dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:19 PM
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Yeah I mean it's human to feel a bit bummed out for a short while. But overall I see it a net positive, now you can stop thinking about this particular woman for she has said no. On to the next one. Maybe one day I would get lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:32 PM
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I recently came across this quote which I am paraphrasing "Asking out a hot woman is like scratching a free lottery ticket, sure you won't win most of the times but you definitely won't win if you don't scratch, plus it's free" The only cost imo is emotional, if one could learn to disassociate from the rejection and view it like lottery scratch then it would be a lot of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:20 PM
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Why would I not date someone super hot even if it was for a short period of time? I would live every day like it was my last with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:17 PM
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Grace Yep. I have come across a bunch of such Youtube channels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:15 PM
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I used to come across youtube shorts of this chick playing golf in very deep cut top and shorts with particular slo mo emphasis on her boob jiggle, and it had me questioning, am I a pervert (I am) or this video is intentionally sexualised. Then I opened her profile and there it was. Link to her OnlyFans. I must say it's a very effective marketing strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:36 PM
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Their match rate is <2% and 80% of their matches don't reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:39 PM
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For completely different reasons though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:35 PM
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Love this quote
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:19 PM
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dating app non-profit I have been thinking about it, but my sad conclusion is that Tinder works just too well for women so a more equal app would not be attractive to them. Imagine being having 3-4 men for each woman in a space, and the most attractive of those men are shown to you first and there is 50% chance of matching with them. On the other hand if there is platform that enforces near equal male and female numbers and there is no ranking system based on attractiveness then women would have…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:08 PM
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Yeah, that's one way to sweep it under the rug. Akchually. You are neither average nor nice. I don't know you but I am pretty sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:45 PM
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And I think it's one of the least irrational requirements women can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:34 PM
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I always ask people to answer these questions by reversing clock just a century, a blip in human history. For entirety of human history a woman wanting to have sex with a man meant to the man that she's willing to carry his child. Pretty fucking big compliment if you ask me. And it did indeed altered woman's life circumstances in meaningful ways, which can also be as "damaged her value". Now because she can sleep with 200 men without getting pregnant doesn't mean that our lizard brain doesn't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:08 PM
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It was a general commentary, if a man wants to date a woman with mutual attraction, good compatibility, no history of promiscuity, [insert any other mandatory requirement] then he might have to wait a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:46 PM
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Sounds like a solid advice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:03 PM
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I think most people these days have the earbuds/headphones on these days, so the only people people speak to are the ones they already know. But personally for me, I have headphones on to enjoy the music, it doesn't mean that I don't want to speak to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:56 PM
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There is this mad cute girl at the gym, I have never spoken to her but when I was outside filling my water bottle, she came there as well, I said "those were nice pull ups" and she totally ignored, she had her earpods in and she wasn't looking at me when I said that but I was embarrassed nevertheless. When stuff like that happens, you don't know if you were purposefully ignored or she genuinely didn't know that something was being said to her, anyway, saying anything else again in the future goe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:43 PM
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I agree, context is very important. But then every guy has his own internal scale for what accounts as high.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:56 PM
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visceral disgust at having too many past partners Yes. she puts out relatively fast What are the chances of her doing that only for me? Very low. But still, if she puts out fast for me and has not done that before or not more than a couple of times then it would be validation pro max ultra.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:44 PM
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I think instead of trying to influence women's behaviors and life choice, the more sustainable way for men is to learn to be okay alone. This is a standard practice for women owing to good social life and lower sex drive. Easier said than done though because the horniness is not that much of a choice for a healthy man as it is closely tied to hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:42 PM
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I have talked about how we would feel about including the things they do into our marriage and he is strongly opposed to an open marriage Did you suggest open marriage of MMF threesomes to your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:45 PM
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if she says you smell good I was once at a house party and there was this girl who said to me to me the same thing, I didn't know it was flirting. Then the girl sitting next to me said that I think she likes you. I laughed it off. Can't be too sure. Then couple of weeks later I saw her at the club and she straight up asked if I wanted to make out, and we did, as well as smashed a few weeks later. I have been told "you smell good" a number of times but I don't register it as flirting, I am like o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:16 PM
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you're telling me if you met a woman who completely checked all your boxes, is totally into you, and wants to commit to you 100%, but she happens to have slept with 15 guys before you, you'd stay single instead? Why? you're telling me if you met a man who completely checked all your boxes, is totally into you, and wants to commit to you 100%, but he happens to be shorter than you in heels or heaven forbid; a couple of inches shorted than you, you'd stay single instead? Why? I am not even asking …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:13 PM
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So if a guy actually believes it and won't be approaching anyone else that night then it's an okay thing to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:07 PM
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Would you suggest disclosing the intentions for approaching her early on in the interaction? (I think you are very beautiful so I had to speak to you)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:03 PM
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Alright, what is your advice for a guy wanting to approach a girl at the club. I will rewrite the dialogue incorporating your suggestions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:58 PM
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Do you think a hot guy delivering the original "autistic" dialogue would turn a yes into a no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:54 PM
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I think it's hilarious when said in person with a cheeky shit eating grin, not so much when you read it on the screen without any non-verbal cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:53 PM
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But that's the point, if he is hot to her then the original autistic approach would work and so would your approach and everything in between. So our debate over the method is pointless imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:51 PM
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Yeah hot guy with a smile could get this to work. I mean sure, I could kill a bear, if I have a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:47 PM
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Okay in that case perhaps it's my own inexperience and being a late bloomer that I find such insinuations scandalous, however, I am willing to learn if you could teach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:33 PM
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Okay i have personally directly asked 2 times, turned down both times, could be for other reasons. 3 other times it was indirect, and it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:30 PM
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Okay, let's just conclude this argument because we have fundamentally different way of approaching it. Perhaps your stripper background has something to do it, and I most certainly don't mean it in insulting manner, but that you have worked in sexually explicit and charged environments so perhaps that kind of directness sounds okay to you, but wouldn't work so well with 20 something students.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:28 PM
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In my defense, when asking a girl to come home with you, you don't want to make her feel like a slut, and a tongue in cheek statement like that gets the point across in a humorous manner while she still understands what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:25 PM
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I think you might be missing additional context here. They were not complete strangers in a city bar. They were in a student bar populated by people of the same Uni, they are bound to run into each other again at the same bar or at the Uni/gym. Also, I do agree that telling someone that they are really beautiful is perhaps a sterile way of flirting and would not evoke any emotions unless the guy captures their interest in some other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:22 PM
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Yeah? Which is why I said it's polarizing. Such insinuation will either get shut down real quick or would go the way you suggested. I am not sure what kind of woman flirts like that with a man she didn't know existed 2 minutes ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:16 PM
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It's not asking her to leave with you or fuck you I don't know chief. "Let me buy you breakfast" has the "... in the morning after having slept together" is left unsaid and implied, it clearly expresses desire to sleep with them that very night. All I am saying is that yes, I agree that asking out should follow mutual flirting. But straight up insinuating sex is not flirting. Don't you ladies screech all the time that you don't want to be seen as sex objects? Now when a guy is actually wanting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:09 PM
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I see your point, however, it is a very strong and polarizing insinuation, "do you want to fuck?". I agree that it's ideal to ask someone out after some flirty banter but I don't agree that asking strangers if they want to fuck is exactly flirting. I mean if I have been talking to a girl for half an hour or so and getting all touchy-feely then I could say, "why don't you come and help me fold laundry?" A cheeky way to ask her to come home with me. But asking a girl who I have been speaking to fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:53 PM
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Second, I will find a decent woman to marry but the dividends it will pay off in professional world would be enormous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:32 PM
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Which is why I asked you for the alternative approach and you said that he should tell her that she's hot and asking if he can buy her breakfast. Which is blunt, forward, doesn't read the room (they had no established chemistry or rapport until that point), and crass (asking complete strangers if they would like to boink).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:30 PM
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No let's get back to the part where it was autistic. I think it was perhaps very direct but the character that dialogue is based on is characterized by directness, honesty and authenticity. That approach working or not is secondary to him staying true to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:23 PM
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Okay hear me out. He knows nothing about the girl, except she's beautiful, which is why he approached her and is honest about it instead of relying on the age old tactic of saying some random shit and squirrel his way into a conversation. He doesn't want to immediately sleep with her either, neither is that environment conducive for elaborate conversations, so he directly expresses interest and asks her out. You are welcome to suggest an alternative approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:16 PM
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Why not Norway when it's next door?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:12 PM
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What is autistic about it? I am genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:09 PM
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Just accept the premise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:39 PM
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I forgot to mention, it was student bar, so everyone there was a student, studying at the same Uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:35 PM
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Fair enough, if you could rewrite your version of it, it will be insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:32 PM
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yikes. Why do you think it's autistic? Sure it's not the most enticing convo but I don't conversations taking place in real life are enticing like in movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:29 PM
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Why is everyone calling it an AI generated work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:25 PM
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That means that you find the interaction somewhat interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:24 PM
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wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:21 PM
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Rate this guy's game: Scene: A bar+nightclub. Guy sees the girl he has seen a number of times before but this time he decides to go and talk to her. Guy: "Hi, how are you doing?" Girl: (taken aback a bit by the suddeness of the approach) "I am good, how are you?" Guy: "Pretty good, I decided to come and speak to you because I have seen you a few times here and I think you are one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen" Girl: "Oh haha thanks" Guy: "However, that's nearly not enough, and I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:17 PM
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I am a foreigner in a foreign land, and I think that there is indeed stigma attached to it, and it's social before racial. Social as in, he/she is an individual unit in the country, no support system, no deep/long term roots, prolly doesn't speak the language, doesn't know the culture etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:39 PM
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My “hoe phase” lasted years and in that time I slept with like five people. Damn girl you sucked at it, here there are women having perfect weeks (a different guy every day of the week). I think we are converging to the same conclusions, that attitudes surrounding sex are important and 5-15 is a range still generous enough to accommodate a few mistakes, beyond that it starts to tell story of a different attitude. I don’t want to use women for sex and I don’t want women who have used men for sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:34 PM
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I don’t see how one gets to complain about the problem they themselves contribute to perpetuating. Yeah it’s harder for men to get laid. But if the assertion is that women are not exercising self control by sleeping with whoever they fancy then neither are you when you are sleeping with everyone you have the opportunity to do so with. And this bullshit about the biological imperative to spread the seed, how many women did you get pregnant? None I suppose? And the sword cuts both ways, it is in w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:27 PM
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I slept with like 4 women in the span of 7 months and then stopped. It all felt empty and soulless. Therefore I know first hand the mental and physical mechanics of it, which is why I am even more against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:21 PM
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Preferably yes. But I have instated the rule that I will not sleep with anyone I can’t see myself dating so I would like to know all the potentially ruling-out details before I sleep with someone, it would be a major major dick move to sleep with a woman and then reject her for having been with too many men. In the past when I had casual sex, I didn’t bother asking because I knew I wasn’t going to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:15 PM
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it’s not exactly the nicest question to ask Here’s how it will go. You get to know someone over the weeks, you like them, then you learn they have been with 3 dozen men, then you make a decision how much their qualities offset this parameter, if it’s not offsetted enough then you start the exit procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:01 PM
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I wish dating apps had that filter but unfortunately there isn’t and let’s be real, it’s not exactly the nicest question to ask. It’s like asking how big is your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:46 PM
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I am 30, my preferred age range is 22-27, in that age range I would be less accepting of 10-15, beyond 27, I think I can handle 10-15. I am accepting of what can be considered a normal dating and relationship experience with no hoe phase, that means a few LTRs, a couple of STRs, a hookup or two. But if someone spent their youth just being on tinder and sleeping around then they are not the person for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:42 PM
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I agree, it is very age dependent. 15 guys at 18 yo is a massive red flag, not so much at 36. If a guy has issue with it then do you think that he deserves to make an informed decision regarding something that is important to him? Disclose the number and leave it to him what he does with it because you think you did nothing wrong, so if he rejects you then he is the stupid one. It also has possessiveness part to it. That’s the dark side of male sexuality and masculinity. The instinct to protect …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:37 PM
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Oh shit, I misread, I stand corrected. But I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:10 PM
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It’s oral "sex” so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:06 PM
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Nah, I see it as a lack of discernment or affinity for casual encounters on her part more than lack on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:00 PM
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If I feel like the guy I’m seeing will be bent out of shape about it. Projection and prediction. a guy that thinks sex ruins people but then still wants to have sex with me Projection and prediction. You are acting all high and mighty by projecting the reasons and predicting his behaviour. In reality you are rejecting him before he could reject you. Let’s say you are on second date with me, you have already counted 5 BF at the age of 23, I ask, "Hey BTW, how many guys have you been with?" You sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:56 PM
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Jealous? Yes. I would also like to add the disgusted part. I have no affinity to dicks, I would not like that the love of my life has taken dozens of them. And I’m flabbergasted that all these men think that every woman who has had multiple partners before them, who chooses to date them, is somehow settling for them. Oh the classic, she slept with 100 men but chose you. You are the special one. lol. I would rather not be that special one. I see ZERO value in her commitment to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:47 PM
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so why bother keeping score Some of us like statistics. /r/dataisbeautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:38 PM
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I don’t know, you all act very touchy when someone tries to find out that info. N-count is a good indicator for that, but apparently you will reject any man who asks that question. And I think you are doing them a favour, for this action is also clearly rooted in judgement, prejudice and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:26 PM
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Alright, I think now you are making up too much stuff instead of demonstrating with Math how it was possible. I get a sense that you think that I am excusing male promiscuity while penalising female, let me make it clear that is not the case. I find both reprehensible. Because one cannot exist without the other. BTW, if casual sex is a norm then the beneficiaries would be top % of men and 50% of women. But 100 women can’t marry 20 men, so entering 30s we will have a large number of women with do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:22 PM
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I get wanting partner on your level: like sex is special to you and you want someone that feels the same. But saying “I want a low n-count woman because I can’t help but picture her with her past partners” is kinda wild. Your conclusion is wild. I want a low n-count woman because she treats sex as something special she shares with a man she finds worthy, not as a means to scratch the itch and any presentable man would do. That shit didn’t work for entirety of human history as she would be stuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:05 PM
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Do the math, how is it mathematically possible that in a society there are 50 men, 50 women, and the 50 men are apparently having mistresses and visiting prostitutes and the 50 women are forced into chastity. You are probably generalising the behaviour of the elites on to the commoners. My claim is that someone who has engaged in casual sex extensively have trained their brains to disassociate sex with feelings by actively repressing them. And hence they are not a good candidate for forming a LT…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:56 PM
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It shouldn’t matter Of course, isn’t it fun to spend the 20s sleeping with all sorts of men and then playing house in 30s and then jumping ship 50% of the time and reliving the 20s? It sounds like a lot of fun. I wouldn’t want any consequences for having fun. I actually agree with you on two counts: there is no need for virginal women, and that men happily fuck sluts but may not want to give them provisioning/commitment. And I stand by my statement: if n count was really that big of an indicator…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:47 PM
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A lot of people disagree with the claim that the disgust to promiscuity is innate, instead they say that it’s a learned behaviour. But I ask, how practical was the similar promiscuous lifestyle for women pre-pill era? Or pre-Condom era? Or pre-anti biotics/virals era? Or pre access to safe abortions? I would say entiriety of human history sans last few decades. Sex always carried a great cost which is why societies created a framework of monogamy around it. It’s not like women’s sexuality was re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:36 PM
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Who could blame you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:15 PM
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I don’t have "the wall" revenge fantasy, I don’t think women are unattractive beyond 30, they can be unattractive at 20 if they are fat and very attractive at 35 if they had been leading a good lifestyle. But now that you put this way, I have to agree to the following: a deep fear that they’ll one day simp for a high n count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:14 PM
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No, for me it’s 5 is the number I wouldn’t react negatively to, 10 is really pushing it, 10-15 she has to stand out like one in a million way, after 15 it’s a complete lost cause, I can’t think of any woman no matter how beautiful and how great she is who has been with that many men that I would commit to her. But hey, it’s my loss, I am sure she would be able to find someone even better by the evening but just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:10 PM
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It’s very different than going out on multiple dates with someone, getting to know them, feeling connected and then dropping them because they slept with too many people. If people were walking around with a number over their heads (equivalent to being able to gauge the height straightaway) then I argue that it won’t get that far just like it doesn’t get that far with women and short men because people are able to find out a dealbreaker right away. And I think women innately know that men don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:07 PM
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Wrong again on describing the reasons why many of us don’t want to partner up with a woman of colourful past. It disgusts us 🤮 Gives us an ick. That she has sucked so many dicks. 🤢 Would you date a man who has been assfucked by 50 men? Or sucked 50 dicks? All these women who claim that sexual past doesn’t matter should first answer this question. I am personally not worried about her leaving or cheating, people break up all the time and cheaters are douchebags first and foremost. I am also not w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:15 PM
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Sheesh, lemme fix it. “So all these women going about how men in real life don't care, actually, more men care then they think but they don’t go around publicising it. A lot of time it’s silent next, or simply pigeonholing to a fuckbuddy with no way to get promoted." Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:06 PM
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Where did I say all men? I said, "a lot of men". Besides, I could flip it back to you, how are you so sure that it does not matter to most men? Have you spoken to majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:51 PM
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Grapefruit makes a claim, opposition asks to prove it, grapefruit proceeds to repeat the claim and smugly signs off with "hence proved". LOL. Also when it is to certain men, I doubt women and myself included would feel much of a loss there It has a very, "you can’t fire me, I quit" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:50 PM
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You pick a small subset of people who prefer/do something and then you generalise it to the whole population. I don’t know if it stems from disingenuousness or this is how you by default reason. When talking about humans, we talk in general trends. If the claim is that women like tall men then it is not negated by a small subset of women who are okay with men shorter than them. It simply gets adjusted as: Women in general like tall men, all else being equal, they would prefer someone tall/taller…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:44 PM
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I know for a fact that there is non zero % of women who don’t care that much about height, but vast majority of them do. If your argument is centered around a small subset of women that don’t care about height then I can invalidate your argument by saying that yeah, a small subset of men don’t care if their partner slept around a lot. That doesn’t counter the argument based on broader trends, that women care about height and men care about their partner not being a reformed hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:35 PM
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Such inconsistencies are not present in conservative cultures like Arabic and Indian. Men are neither encouraged nor appreciated for sleeping around. It bears a lot of risk for them to do so and very few men do it. My father certainly won’t pat me on the back if he learns about the number of women I have been with. And indeed, men can and do spread STDs and I personally don’t think too highly of promiscuous men either. Fucking anyone willing is no great achievement. Yeah I see this argument bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:30 PM
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A lot of men like to suck dick as well. A lot of men are cucks as well. A lot of men are okay with getting their girl railed by another man in MMF threesomes as well. A lot of men lack spine to stand by and practice what they truly believe in as well. What’s the point? I am a man, I have spoken to men about this topic, in my experience it matters. But you won’t hear about it from men you meet in day to day life because it’s a socially unacceptable thing to say, heck I would try to put it as nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:17 PM
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If you hypothetically found the perfect woman for you and you have an undeniable and special connection with, but you find out she slept with 20 people in here life are you gonna just drop her ? Yeah? Like women do all the time with shorter men. Like they can’t overlook the fact that he is shorter than her or shorter than average so she is willing to throw it all away or not give him a chance in the first place because she can’t get over it. Same thing with men and promiscuous women. If it’s a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:08 PM
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You all pretend like sex is neurosurgery that one must acquire extensive experience through operating on vast variety of patients and conditions, and that it’s a matter of life and death if you are nothing less than spectacular. Give me two enthusiastic individuals willing to learn and communicate and they will figure out pretty quick how to please each other and no, they won’t die in the process when they are less than perfect first few times. It’s ideals of hedonic society that pursuit of plea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:04 PM
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The ick part was snarky for sure, but I wanted to speak the terminology women are intimately familiar with. Ick is often a superfluous reason to reject a person and people just laugh at it as if it’s funny, and a guy says that he doesn’t want to date a hoe then all hell breaks loose. So he should just say that it gives him ick, to make it relatable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:00 PM
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where this ick regarding women sexuality comes from Let's roll back the clock 80 years, just a blip in the history of humanity spanning 100s of thousands of years. What did having sex meant throught human history? Pregnancy and/or STDs. Casual sex at the scale we engage in now would have caused widespread STDs and no paternal investment for they don't know whose kid is that. For the entirety of human history men didn't have to deal with contending with marrying a woman who had slept with 8 dozen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:59 AM
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I have posed this question to many guys over the years, they all said that they care. So all these women going about how men in real life don't care, they care, but it's like they are not opting to look at the kitchen where their food was prepared for they might throw up if they saw the state of it and they have heard the rumors that increasingly many of them are filthy. But the man gotta eat too. So he chooses the path of "ignorance is a bliss". Then more often than not they get food poisoning …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:51 AM
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I immediately lose interest in a man when he asks anything about it Your rejection based on assumptions, projections, judgements and therefore I wouldn't consider it a major loss. Stand strong in solidarity with your hoe sisters. I have had casual sex and found that it was not for me and it also gave me first hand experience of what it takes mentally to regularly engage in it, and that it disgusts me and would not trust a person in relationship setting who has done it extensively. However, someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:39 AM
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man with mildly conservative attitudes about dating That is very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:37 PM
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i do "don't show me posts like this" when aggressively sexualized posts show up I am going to do that more from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:37 AM
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Yeah and it's midnight so no dodging required.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:56 PM
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I love winter cycling Why why why
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:47 PM
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There is plenty and only my front brake works, so any emergency braking is going to be dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:46 PM
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MF it's -13 deg C (8.6 deg F) outside and I have to bike home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:36 PM
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I decided to give up porn and haven't watched in 5 weeks, however, I realized that social media is chokeful of thirst traps and whatever dopamine addiction resolution, or re-sensitization you were hoping for, it won't happen or very slow. I remember as a kid, I was aroused looking at pictures of bikini clad women in newspapers, now its everywhere, you can't scroll Snapchat/youtube shorts/instagram without some scantily clad woman doing some shenanigans. The only way would be to stop using these …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:59 PM
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However, I have noticed that in the gym a lot of girls dress about the same (dark legging with white socks on top is a classic) whereas I haven't observed such patterns in male attire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:01 PM
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But what's US thing eventually becomes a global thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:13 PM
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I have been using PPD continuously for 3 years and recently have more or less stopped using considering that it was negatively affecting my mental health. But I pop in sometimes to see if there are any good takes but when I scroll down it doesn't take long to be reminded why I started to hate this place in the first place. If you are a man, and haven't succeeded according the traditional template, that is, date and have sex in HS, college, 20s, settle down in late 20s, early 30s, then something …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:17 PM
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How much do you all overhead press?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:52 PM
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