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Liking sex is not this unique trait you are making it out to be, almost everyone likes sex, nature designed it that way to ensure reproduction. It’s like saying when discussing fat people: Or get this, some people just like food. Yeah no shit Sherlock, I like donuts and pizza too but I don’t indulge in them because I don’t want to be a fatass. We are evolved to like sweet, fatty foods because for the entirety of human and pre-human history, such food were not easily accessible and were a calorie…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:58 AM
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I think the pain of rejections is cumulative. While individual rejections may hurt less and less going forward but the combined weight keeps increasing until you reach the "final straw that broke camel’s back". I have experienced it, now when I entertain the thought of approaching any woman, all the previous experiences just flash before my eyes and I conclude that it would be futile just like the previous ones. But this is something those who have never done it can relate to. It is well beyond …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:52 AM
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My only point is simply highlighting the current need to continue helping Ukraine, as opposed to the original comment about them being unworthy of protection. You are helping Ukraine die. If you really wanted to help Ukraine then you would have helped them avoid this mess altogether. Bit paradoxical that they wanted to join NATO to prevent Russian invasion and this ambition is what led to Russian invasion. They had the choice to maintain good, friendly relationship with their brother country ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:51 PM
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whataboutism bahaha, I had a stopwatch on to see when you will employ the crowd favorite when escaping accountability is the objective. However, I would implore you to learn what it truly means so that you can discern between what amounts to whataboutery and what is a legitimate argument about hypocrisy and inconsistencies. If you have a court, the judge and the jury are guilty of the same crime they are trying you for, do they have the moral right to do so? Especially when they faced no punishm…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:41 PM
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Didn't you invade Iraq to get rid of WMDs? Didn't you invade Afghanistan to get rid of Taliban? Didn't you invade Vietnam to prevent spread of communism. Didn't you bomb weddings in Pakistan? Didn't you kill an Iranian general? Didn't you... well the list is long of examples of you not giving a flying fuck about the very ideals and principles which you are basing your support on for Ukraine. The fact is that you have strategic interests first and foremost, a weakened Russia and more business for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:11 PM
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Ukraine was part of the USSR prior to the dissolution though, it wasn’t foreign Yeah, just like many other states. And yeah sure, US/UK can help Ukraine if they want to but let's not pretend that US/UK or rest of the world would have been okay with 3 new nuclear states emerging out of nowhere with no track record and no direction for the future. It was deal Ukraine, Belarus, Kazakhstan had to accept else those nukes would have been taken away with force. But now everyone likes to pretend that it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:57 AM
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exchange for which Ukraine gave up its nuclear weapons JFC peak /r/confidentallyincorrect moment. You know who else gave up "its" nuclear weapons? Belarus and Kazakhstan. They were not Ukrainian nukes, they were not Belarussian nukes, they were not Kazakh nukes. They were Soviet nukes and Russia being the successor state, Russian nukes with complete command and control over them. And fun fact for ignorant Americans, it was America who persuaded Ukraine to dismantle its massive bomber fleet and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:39 AM
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The best is when the argument is "I want to feel safe and protected" A) It is in a way placing gendered expectations. B) Does the threat a random woman faces is relative to her size? A 5' woman can feel safe with a 5'10" man, but a 5'10" woman would need a 6'2" man to feel safe. The hypothetical aggressor would be like, since I am 6'2", I should only assault women 5'10" and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:54 PM
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libgen.rs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:31 PM
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A lot of people say that you should put yourself out there and not be afraid or too bothered by rejection. After being there and done that, here's what I learnt. Occasional successes interspersed with failures can keep you going for very long. This is essentially the principle of intermittent reinforcement. A streak of rejections can make individual rejection less bothersome but their effect is cumulative and you will reach a breaking point. That breaking point is where you become convinced that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:30 PM
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Sillysheila, I want to bounce off this thought with you. There is literally nothing wrong with being attracted to tall men, but the statement "I want to feel small, feminine and protected" screams of insecurity in your own feminine identity and it gets glossed over so easy. But if a man says its analogous "I want to date a shorter woman to feel masculine and protector" then he would get trolled endlessly for having fragile, insecure masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:07 PM
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What is that app called?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:31 PM
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That I hope I didn’t hurt her and she’s doing fine and hopefully finds what she is looking for, it was just that I couldn’t give it to her. I feel the same about women who have rejected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:20 PM
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I was highlighting a point that women simultaneously claim that there is nothing sexual about breasts yet there is a multi billion dollar business around selling pictures of breasts. Male chest and female chest are false equivalents as far as the acceptability of their public exposure goes. Most women wouldn't raise eyebrows if their man's bare chest is seen by other women, but most men wouldn't be okay if their wife/gf is flashing her tits to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:05 PM
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Chris Hemsworth is too shirtless, he's a slut yeah? men's chest is not sexualised like women's and if you think there is nothing sexual about tits then send me a picture of yours
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:58 PM
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Dress slutty -> sleep around -> become a single mother There's some strange notion that dicks "ruin" women This strange notion arises from biology where the dicks get women pregnant and since we have managed to hack the biology with birthcontrol, abortions, it has allowed you to pretend dicks are these sterile pleasure objects like glass dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:56 PM
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I have done that extensively and the thought that the woman I love and who could be potentially mother of my children was out there hooking up with randos and doing all these intimate acts is deeply unsettling for me and I cannot reconcile with it. Therefore my choice is not to get emotionally involved with such women, however, I neither have the power nor desire to forbid them from engaging in any activities they deem fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:38 PM
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Should a man dress modestly as well? I think I have a reasonably good physique as well but I don't feel compelled to show it off. And let's admit it, guys who are actually in good shape don't need to dress lightly to get the point across, you can tell immediately. So I usually wear long pants and half sleeve t shirts to the gym. Then there are a few guys in the gym who do actually dress like you described and I think they are vain just like women who dress lightly for the gym. But I am actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:31 PM
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What matters to someone is their own decision to make. Please dictating it for other people, and I do not say this to you specifically OP but people moralizing what should or should not matter. Because that opens the whole can of preferences up for debate. Height, race, education, income, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:15 PM
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Although I have given up masturbation for a few months now, I came across the video you shared some time ago and it solidified my resolve to not masturbate. Especially that "open loop" concept drilled it home. The emptiness he talked about was indeed the case and I almost always felt worse after nutting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:58 PM
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guys I meet IRL are okay with a sub-average lifetime n count number (4-7) That seems quite normal and acceptable to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:46 PM
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Precisely, there are a host of other questions people answer when they get to know each other, technically none of them are anyone's business but they still answer those questions to get a holistic view of someone's personality and values. If you believe that you did nothing wrong and the other person would be stupid for judging you then it's even more of a reason to be transparent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:25 PM
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What do you want to talk? I consume like half kg every day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:27 PM
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I don't agree with that line of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:55 AM
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Are you new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:47 PM
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they think that men are saying that being promiscuous lowers their value as a human being
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:36 PM
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One thing women get wrong about the N count discourse is that they think that men are saying that being promiscuous lowers their value as a human being, which is definitely not the case, what some men are saying is that being promiscuous is a deal-breaker for them when considering having a romantic relationship with that woman. Her having engaged in consensual sex with other people doesn't have any bearing on her value as a person. Just like being fat, fit, tall, short, black/white/brown etc doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:15 PM
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Therefore, ultimately it's opinion of people involved which matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:59 PM
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If anything, I find Selena Gomez very average and her BF is her looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:15 PM
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I see your point and it is true that banging hot women exist outside of fashion magazines too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:02 PM
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I rate more globally, so if I call someone a 10 then she would stand shoulder to shoulder with the global 10s. And they are EXTREMELY rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:56 PM
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10s like Monica Bellucci level 10s or local 10s?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:34 PM
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On one hand you had someone who lacked certain social skills and later gained them, on the other hand you have someone who did something for years and now doesn’t. So it’s intangible vs tangible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:31 AM
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While I don't believe it's Chad or bust, the thing is that a person lower in attractiveness has to make up for massively in terms of high quality social interactions to find the one that he has such great personal chemistry with that it can make up for his lack in being physically arousing. And such social interactions nearly always have a huge element of luck involved. Being attractive makes even strangers receptive to what you have to say, being average/below average requires you being stuck o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:24 PM
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OP is his own type.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:24 PM
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They don't bother me one bit on hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:08 PM
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Cool, at the end of the day we both will believe in what we want to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:32 PM
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However, you can look at many posts on /r/Tinder of women posting their swiping stats, their right swipe rates usually are less than 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:27 PM
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How much do you weigh? You also have to account for your activity levels and Thermic effect of the food (it takes energy to digest food). Like I am 176 cm and around 76 kg, I work out 3 times a week and bike 5 km almost every day, my TDEE is 2800
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:23 AM
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who choose to be single also choose celibacy, Having a choice is a privilege in itself. Please don't mistake me for an incel, I have slept with a number of women, but I am also intimately familiar with the hopelessness of having nobody. Someone having spent decades dating and sleeping around and then quitting that scene is VERY different from someone having spent decades struggling and getting scrapes. It's like one person has been inside the nightclub since 10:00 PM and exiting the club at 2:00…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:07 PM
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I don't recall seeing it but it's likely for different reasons, like suffering from success sorta thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:01 PM
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Women can be happy single, why can't you. The source of woes of many single men are lack of physical and emotional intimacy, also a lack of history is weighing on them sometimes. This is not the same as someone who has access to physical intimacy and an extensive dating history. This group of people taking a break from dating is like a recently gluttonous person lecturing someone starving about how there's more to life than food.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:33 PM
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have you seen the evolution? Have you been showering? -> Have you been treating women like people? -> Have you gone to therapy?.... next up... Have you attained nirvana? Yes? Then you wouldn't be complaining, go attain Nirvana. No? That Nirvana won't attain itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:48 PM
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she’s unattractive I said average, I can show 10 girls prettier than her on my college campus in 15 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:24 PM
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Selena Gomez She's very average, even with her fame and professional stylist, she is no more than a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:54 PM
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I always thought that 0.5 was a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:03 PM
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He still didn't put it directly. Also look at the difference in uniform of male and female track and field athletes. Male pole vaulters wear mid thigh tights and tank tops, but female pole vaulters wear briefs and crop tops. Does that have any performance benefits? Or is it to titillate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:45 PM
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I once got in discussion with ChatGPT about this, but knowing how it is designed to be extremely politically correct in its responses I framed my argument generally. Like this: There are two groups of people, group A and B, both are engaged in same activity. However, group B does something that does not improve their performance in the said activity but greatly improves their standing in the eyes of group A. I make the claim that it does not improve performance in the said activity because if it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:29 PM
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Do you think that deep down they acknowledge the true purpose of their dressing choices but willfully mislead in order to achieve the objective they made those choices for? Like saying butt separating booty shorts have any measurable performance benefits is the biggest load of bullshit. I don't see any of the 405+ lb squatter men (or any men for that matter) wearing anything remotely like that but all the 135 lb squatting women are very much concerned about how good the fabric is wicking the swe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:18 PM
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The validation, even if just imagined as she is alone at home or with family. It all matters. It makes them feel good. It props up self-esteem. Precisely, even if I am at home sitting in a t shirt flattering my chest and arms, I would feel good because I know that if a woman happens to see it she would like it too. That self-validation and satisfaction always comes by first framing an imaginary entity (a woman in this case) and looking good to it. Ultimately it's a power struggle to rise on soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:02 PM
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everything becomes sexualized and creates a breeding ground for deluded views about life and one's self. Can you elaborate? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:47 PM
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Dressing lightly is form of a soft power which is potent as long as the true intentions are concealed. An admission along the lines of "I want to look sexy" would make it quite ineffective. Instead they relegate the responsibility to external factors like cultural trends, availability, and lastly comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:31 PM
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bro you botched what could have caused a good discussion by including that Youtube short because half of the comments are focusing on it instead of the overall claim of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:18 PM
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you need to lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:28 AM
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It applies more so to men because they are polygamous by nature Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks makes perfect sense naturally, each woman carrying the genes of the best guy and raising those kids with the help of beta providers. You seem to take issue with it. This whole discourse surrounding promiscuity will go nowhere if men think that they should be sleeping around and women shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:13 PM
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Every man with a high body count who decides to enter a monogamous relationship is voluntarily limiting his already existing and vast sexual access which is showing restraint by default, The same could be said about women across the board, high or low n-count. So by that logic being a high n-count man don't make you better suited for a LTR than a high n-count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:00 PM
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I personally wouldn't do it but if someone else want to do it then go ahead. I don't want to be fucked in the ass either so I don't understand the appeal of it, but if other men want to and it's legal then go ahead and enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:43 PM
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More than 2 at 18. More than 5 at 24. More than 6-7 thereafter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:34 PM
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A 17 year old dating a 23 year old is still gonna toss red flags. Your argument style is just dishonest and I am not digging it. So let's just put a stop to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:32 PM
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Good point. It is still an empirical formula that constraints the age gap discourse to moderate age-gaps because when debating against age gap relationships, people love to argue from the position of extremes like how wrong it is for a 40 yo to be dating an 18 yo, well duh of course it's an order of magnitude more extreme than that man dating a 27 yo woman. This formula constraints it to a more realistic and practical range.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:30 PM
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I was pointing out that “socially acceptable age ranges” change with age. Was that anywhere included or relevant to my original statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:22 PM
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Well said. Statement: Don't judge the relationship of 25 yo man and a 19 yo woman. Counter: The 25 yo is a pedo and would date below 18 if it was legal. Imagine going around calling people pedo willy nilly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:21 PM
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1 added one to point out the “outside range” and how it changes. No, being near the vicinity of half + 7 rule AND being of legal age are necessary conditions in my argument, you can't remove one condition at will to refute my point. A 19 year old dating a 26 year old will still raise a lot of eyebrows even “if it’s legal”. Now that's what I was talking about. Yes, it raises eyebrows because it assigns all sorts of nefarious intentions on the part of 26 yo without knowing them and their intention…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:17 PM
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a sports bra and leggings or shorts are considered appropriate gym wear It's considered appropriate because any critique of it is shut down very fast, so IRL men have decided to just shut up and enjoy the view. There are no performance gains from dressing as little as possible, but it sure does show off the physique and gets attention which can feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:10 PM
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when I say moderate, I mean teetering on the edge of half + 7 rule, and both parties being of legal age .. But a 22 year old chasing a 14 year old? It’s not hard to see what’s wrong with that. Yeah it's criminal, but I wonder why you brought that up when my original argument explicitly made it clear that both parties are of legal age AND are very close to the half+7 rule? So the discussion is about 22 yo and 18 yo, or a 30 yo and a 21 yo, or a 34 yo and a 22 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:04 PM
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The critique of moderate age gap relationships have some merit, when I say moderate, I mean teetering on the edge of half + 7 rule, and both parties being of legal age. However, making sweeping generalizations like the older party will abuse the younger party is plain wrong and comes from a place of malice than legitimate concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:20 PM
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What’s the problem there? If the guy nuts early then he can use his mouth or hands. Or better yet, make her cum first and then you can cum whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:15 PM
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I think men should really stop obsessing about if they are good enough in the bedroom for the modern woman who samples dozens of dicks in her lifetime. There will ALWAYS be someone bigger/better than you. Therefore your task is as follows: Develop the ability to acquire sexual partners, so if one leaves, you can get another one. Sex is what you do together and not to woman. So focus on enjoying yourself and pleasuring your partner as best as you can. Don’t worry beyond that. You may not have a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:40 PM
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Let’s have mandated paternity testing at birth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:27 PM
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here that men want women to be forced into looks matched relationships and that women shouldn’t get a say in that. To see men actively pushing for women to lose their freewill is definitely a call for concern Sorry. I call bullshit on that. Talking about wealth inequality is not saying "eat the rich".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:25 PM
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Bit random, but being 5'9" in India is like being 6'3.5" in Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:14 PM
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It's like when you are hungry all you can think about is food and that greasy pizza looks like the best thing in the world and after having gorged it down, you are disgusted by the sight of pizza for a week. It's hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:04 PM
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Feminism is good but I feel like movements like these have no end for their objectives are so loosely defined that they can go on for eternity. They would perennially keep finding something to be slighted about to remain in relevance. At some point people being dick to people has nothing to do with the genders involved but one of them generally being a dick. But that can always be used as an evidence that inequality, injustice exist. Just head over to TwoX, there is a woman there feeling slighte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:06 PM
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Yeah if there wasn't this chemical cocktail in the brain then it would be so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:14 PM
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Brah the thing is because of constricting third spaces to meet women, social circle and dating apps are the two main avenues. Now if you are not in the Uni anymore then the social circle option is severely limited, like how many dateable single women would one have in their social circle? That leaves dating apps the main avenue to meet people and if that doesn't work either then where else would they meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:02 PM
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A lot of the news reports floating in the western hemisphere concerning Russo-Ukraine war seem straight out of a propaganda factory. "Russia fired 40 missiles, no people were hurt, a dog was killed" is like tailor made for the western audience. or "2 Ukrainian girls killed 46 Russians by feeding them rat poison, arsenic. Were on the run. Few days later they got in a firefight with the police, killed three officers and escaped in a car." Like that's straight up Hollywood shit. Or the Schrodinger'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:53 PM
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All my crushes had been because I found her hot/cute/beautiful. But then there is a girl in my hallway. I think if you just go by appearance there is nothing special but her personality, it's just adorable. So she's my only personality crush ever. But I don't see it as a bad thing, consider how often do I find a male best friend? Not that often, and I talk to a lot more men than women. So liking someone for their personality is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:09 PM
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Bro you expect kids to know all that? Which is why the role of society is so important. If the society now tells to start fucking as soon as they can then that's exactly what they do, it is in the hindsight that many feel that it was not the right way to go about it. I have a girl-friend, she was lamenting on the same thing, how casual sex is glorified and promoted, so in her teens she slept with a dozen guy and now in mid 20s she regret it all and feel like dumb kids are encouraged to participa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:47 PM
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Sex feels good and our hormones compel us to have it, which is why the avg marriage age in traditional societies was in teens. Get married and boink as much as you please. But then people started marrying later and later, what to do in the meantime? And also the birth control, condoms, modern medicine took away the biological burden of sex. So now we have hacked the biology and removed the social checks and balances. Result is the hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:36 PM
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You are expecting women to either find a suitable lifelong partner in first try or to stick with whatever they have selected, what if they get dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:19 PM
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Love this quote
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:19 PM
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Yeah, that's one way to sweep it under the rug. Akchually. You are neither average nor nice. I don't know you but I am pretty sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:45 PM
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And I think it's one of the least irrational requirements women can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:34 PM
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I always ask people to answer these questions by reversing clock just a century, a blip in human history. For entirety of human history a woman wanting to have sex with a man meant to the man that she's willing to carry his child. Pretty fucking big compliment if you ask me. And it did indeed altered woman's life circumstances in meaningful ways, which can also be as "damaged her value". Now because she can sleep with 200 men without getting pregnant doesn't mean that our lizard brain doesn't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:08 PM
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It was a general commentary, if a man wants to date a woman with mutual attraction, good compatibility, no history of promiscuity, [insert any other mandatory requirement] then he might have to wait a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:46 PM
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Sounds like a solid advice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:03 PM
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I think most people these days have the earbuds/headphones on these days, so the only people people speak to are the ones they already know. But personally for me, I have headphones on to enjoy the music, it doesn't mean that I don't want to speak to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:56 PM
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There is this mad cute girl at the gym, I have never spoken to her but when I was outside filling my water bottle, she came there as well, I said "those were nice pull ups" and she totally ignored, she had her earpods in and she wasn't looking at me when I said that but I was embarrassed nevertheless. When stuff like that happens, you don't know if you were purposefully ignored or she genuinely didn't know that something was being said to her, anyway, saying anything else again in the future goe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:43 PM
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I agree, context is very important. But then every guy has his own internal scale for what accounts as high.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:56 PM
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visceral disgust at having too many past partners Yes. she puts out relatively fast What are the chances of her doing that only for me? Very low. But still, if she puts out fast for me and has not done that before or not more than a couple of times then it would be validation pro max ultra.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:44 PM
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I think instead of trying to influence women's behaviors and life choice, the more sustainable way for men is to learn to be okay alone. This is a standard practice for women owing to good social life and lower sex drive. Easier said than done though because the horniness is not that much of a choice for a healthy man as it is closely tied to hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:42 PM
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I have talked about how we would feel about including the things they do into our marriage and he is strongly opposed to an open marriage Did you suggest open marriage of MMF threesomes to your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:45 PM
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if she says you smell good I was once at a house party and there was this girl who said to me to me the same thing, I didn't know it was flirting. Then the girl sitting next to me said that I think she likes you. I laughed it off. Can't be too sure. Then couple of weeks later I saw her at the club and she straight up asked if I wanted to make out, and we did, as well as smashed a few weeks later. I have been told "you smell good" a number of times but I don't register it as flirting, I am like o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:16 PM
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you're telling me if you met a woman who completely checked all your boxes, is totally into you, and wants to commit to you 100%, but she happens to have slept with 15 guys before you, you'd stay single instead? Why? you're telling me if you met a man who completely checked all your boxes, is totally into you, and wants to commit to you 100%, but he happens to be shorter than you in heels or heaven forbid; a couple of inches shorted than you, you'd stay single instead? Why? I am not even asking …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:13 PM
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Oh shit, I misread, I stand corrected. But I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:10 PM
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It’s oral "sex” so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:06 PM
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so why bother keeping score Some of us like statistics. /r/dataisbeautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:38 PM
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I get wanting partner on your level: like sex is special to you and you want someone that feels the same. But saying “I want a low n-count woman because I can’t help but picture her with her past partners” is kinda wild. Your conclusion is wild. I want a low n-count woman because she treats sex as something special she shares with a man she finds worthy, not as a means to scratch the itch and any presentable man would do. That shit didn’t work for entirety of human history as she would be stuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:05 PM
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It shouldn’t matter Of course, isn’t it fun to spend the 20s sleeping with all sorts of men and then playing house in 30s and then jumping ship 50% of the time and reliving the 20s? It sounds like a lot of fun. I wouldn’t want any consequences for having fun. I actually agree with you on two counts: there is no need for virginal women, and that men happily fuck sluts but may not want to give them provisioning/commitment. And I stand by my statement: if n count was really that big of an indicator…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:47 PM
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Who could blame you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:15 PM
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I don’t have "the wall" revenge fantasy, I don’t think women are unattractive beyond 30, they can be unattractive at 20 if they are fat and very attractive at 35 if they had been leading a good lifestyle. But now that you put this way, I have to agree to the following: a deep fear that they’ll one day simp for a high n count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:14 PM
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It’s very different than going out on multiple dates with someone, getting to know them, feeling connected and then dropping them because they slept with too many people. If people were walking around with a number over their heads (equivalent to being able to gauge the height straightaway) then I argue that it won’t get that far just like it doesn’t get that far with women and short men because people are able to find out a dealbreaker right away. And I think women innately know that men don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:07 PM
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Wrong again on describing the reasons why many of us don’t want to partner up with a woman of colourful past. It disgusts us 🤮 Gives us an ick. That she has sucked so many dicks. 🤢 Would you date a man who has been assfucked by 50 men? Or sucked 50 dicks? All these women who claim that sexual past doesn’t matter should first answer this question. I am personally not worried about her leaving or cheating, people break up all the time and cheaters are douchebags first and foremost. I am also not w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:15 PM
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Sheesh, lemme fix it. “So all these women going about how men in real life don't care, actually, more men care then they think but they don’t go around publicising it. A lot of time it’s silent next, or simply pigeonholing to a fuckbuddy with no way to get promoted." Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:06 PM
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Where did I say all men? I said, "a lot of men". Besides, I could flip it back to you, how are you so sure that it does not matter to most men? Have you spoken to majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:51 PM
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Grapefruit makes a claim, opposition asks to prove it, grapefruit proceeds to repeat the claim and smugly signs off with "hence proved". LOL. Also when it is to certain men, I doubt women and myself included would feel much of a loss there It has a very, "you can’t fire me, I quit" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:50 PM
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You pick a small subset of people who prefer/do something and then you generalise it to the whole population. I don’t know if it stems from disingenuousness or this is how you by default reason. When talking about humans, we talk in general trends. If the claim is that women like tall men then it is not negated by a small subset of women who are okay with men shorter than them. It simply gets adjusted as: Women in general like tall men, all else being equal, they would prefer someone tall/taller…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:44 PM
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I know for a fact that there is non zero % of women who don’t care that much about height, but vast majority of them do. If your argument is centered around a small subset of women that don’t care about height then I can invalidate your argument by saying that yeah, a small subset of men don’t care if their partner slept around a lot. That doesn’t counter the argument based on broader trends, that women care about height and men care about their partner not being a reformed hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:35 PM
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A lot of men like to suck dick as well. A lot of men are cucks as well. A lot of men are okay with getting their girl railed by another man in MMF threesomes as well. A lot of men lack spine to stand by and practice what they truly believe in as well. What’s the point? I am a man, I have spoken to men about this topic, in my experience it matters. But you won’t hear about it from men you meet in day to day life because it’s a socially unacceptable thing to say, heck I would try to put it as nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:17 PM
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If you hypothetically found the perfect woman for you and you have an undeniable and special connection with, but you find out she slept with 20 people in here life are you gonna just drop her ? Yeah? Like women do all the time with shorter men. Like they can’t overlook the fact that he is shorter than her or shorter than average so she is willing to throw it all away or not give him a chance in the first place because she can’t get over it. Same thing with men and promiscuous women. If it’s a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:08 PM
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You all pretend like sex is neurosurgery that one must acquire extensive experience through operating on vast variety of patients and conditions, and that it’s a matter of life and death if you are nothing less than spectacular. Give me two enthusiastic individuals willing to learn and communicate and they will figure out pretty quick how to please each other and no, they won’t die in the process when they are less than perfect first few times. It’s ideals of hedonic society that pursuit of plea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:04 PM
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The ick part was snarky for sure, but I wanted to speak the terminology women are intimately familiar with. Ick is often a superfluous reason to reject a person and people just laugh at it as if it’s funny, and a guy says that he doesn’t want to date a hoe then all hell breaks loose. So he should just say that it gives him ick, to make it relatable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:00 PM
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I have posed this question to many guys over the years, they all said that they care. So all these women going about how men in real life don't care, they care, but it's like they are not opting to look at the kitchen where their food was prepared for they might throw up if they saw the state of it and they have heard the rumors that increasingly many of them are filthy. But the man gotta eat too. So he chooses the path of "ignorance is a bliss". Then more often than not they get food poisoning …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:51 AM
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I immediately lose interest in a man when he asks anything about it Your rejection based on assumptions, projections, judgements and therefore I wouldn't consider it a major loss. Stand strong in solidarity with your hoe sisters. I have had casual sex and found that it was not for me and it also gave me first hand experience of what it takes mentally to regularly engage in it, and that it disgusts me and would not trust a person in relationship setting who has done it extensively. However, someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:39 AM
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I decided to give up porn and haven't watched in 5 weeks, however, I realized that social media is chokeful of thirst traps and whatever dopamine addiction resolution, or re-sensitization you were hoping for, it won't happen or very slow. I remember as a kid, I was aroused looking at pictures of bikini clad women in newspapers, now its everywhere, you can't scroll Snapchat/youtube shorts/instagram without some scantily clad woman doing some shenanigans. The only way would be to stop using these …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:59 PM
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