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LOL, what are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:21 AM
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American women are better mate. Leave it as a fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 01:57 AM
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Edited the post to clarify. This is honestly a true story. Apologies for the poor wording.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:09 AM
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Hey. I added an edit to the original post. Sorry for the confusion. My original wording did look odd, I admit.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:09 AM
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LOL, you are saying this having never seen me. I am 67kg of pure cycling lean power. But yeah, totally agree with you on the big hairy guy look. I am not into all that and dress well, spend decent money on my clothes and look slim and stylish. I don't think 'alpha' means big and rugged looking. Surely it is more about making the most of your frame and being optimum weight, etc. slim male model with muscle, versus body builder.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 08:55 AM
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Ha, it seems that the women here are about to make the shift to fat acceptance too... http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-25745999 From my own observations, they are definitely getting a lot fatter here. When I first got here, honestly, the cliche was true; they were pretty much all slim and in good shape. Now, nope.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:00 AM
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Well yeah, but I have actual experience of Japan, and thought people might want to know what I had seen first hand.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 12:15 AM
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Yeah that is it. People shy away from generalising for fear of being called racist or whatever, but China, Korea and Japan are all extremely similar with this kind of shit. That guy you worked with is living my idea of utter hell. Fucking jesus christ. Married into that with no escape! If I ever somehow got trapped into that, I would kill myself. Haha, and yeah, I know what you mean about the women being unattractive. Honestly, once you get over the whole Asian thing, which I did have for a whil…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 12:14 AM
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Pantomime. This is the same every single fucking time. It is like it is hard coded into their dull fucking brains. Meet girl. She acts all child-like and does things like feigning shock and awe to the point where it is fucking hilarious at everything you say. Example; Me; I am from England. Her; Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehhhhh!, Amazing!! (anyone in Japan will be able to understand that sound they make. Fucking lame) Me; Whatever. She will then ask you a pathetic list of the shittest questions ever …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 12:07 AM
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Don't you all end up as GAP and ZARA models?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:40 PM
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Not bothered if you believe me or not mate. I know what I have seen, and where I have been. I know you might not want to believe it, as it doesn't mesh with what you hoped it would be like, but it is like that. I am not saying that it is impossible for alphas to get laid here; quite the opposite in fact, and I have myself ploughed through dozens and dozens during my time here, just that I noticed the more alpha my behaviour and appearance, the less success I had (wasn't down to zero though,of co…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:53 AM
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Fuck knows. Giving up the fight, essentially. The guys who I have seen do this have invariably been the kind of wetworks who have assimilated by generally being a pussy, so it isn't that much of a surprise that this happens. Sad to see though, given that it is a full on life sentence, which they had no idea awaited them when they got on that plane.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:47 AM
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Women trapping a guy into marriage and then giving him an allowance pre-dates the internet... But yeah, this feminine ideal that seems to be the standard here is pure cringe. No argument from there there.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:44 AM
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Well yeah fair enough. I was just writing of my experiences here as I thought it could be interesting. Turns out it is, as the number of comments and upvotes indicates. Agree with you on your points.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:43 AM
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Who wants a fucking unicorn anyway? That would mean you reached the end of the game, and where is the fun in that?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:39 AM
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This is an interesting question. I am sure there has been a lot written on this before, but speaking of my experiences with Japanese women, which has been echoed by others in this thread, I honestly think that for the most part, they don't enjoy sex that much. Physically, compared to girls from the UK (my only other area of 'extensive research' (haha)), they are pretty shit in bed. They just lay there, and don't take the lead at all. I really think they are so conditioned by their society, to th…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:38 AM
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Been all over mate. The core behaviour remains.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:30 AM
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Yeah, that allowance thing is hilarious. My mate at work yesterday told me he couldn't come out for Ramen for lunch with me, as his wife had not given him enough money. He is 38 years old, from England. I felt like slapping some sense into his. Absolutely insane behaviour to accept this complete bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:26 AM
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Yeah, I really think it must be an Asian thing (old fashioned family values etc.)
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:02 AM
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Meet in group social gathering to validate yourself to the woman. Get her LINE. Chat up via messaging. Arrange to meet just the two of you. Go to Izakaya or whatever. Suggest a walk in the park after that. Bingo.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:29 AM
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Replace 'wrong' with 'false' for more lols.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 12:15 AM
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Well yeah. But I do hold that they are duped into the situation where this becomes the only option. Or they are living such a massive fantasy of self denial they ignore all the signals and get whacked straight in the face despite constant warnings. But yeah, I have no fucking sympathy whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 02:33 PM
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LOL. Enjoyed the bleakness of that.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 02:19 PM
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Do you also deal with high end athletes? Need some help fine tuning a few things.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 02:11 PM
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Trust me mate, they are anything but honourable. The odd one or two are OK, but they are mainly snivelling, back stabbing beta males who hate anything non-Japanese because in their beta-dom, they have allowed themselves to be brainwashed by the self-serving culture which needs to hypnotise them into thinking they are special and unique to protect their island from the 'invasion' of far superior stock, from East Asia and further afield.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 01:51 PM
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Very good question. I suppose it partially comes down to the taste of the male; if he is into curvy glamour girls who strut around like peacocks, then no way in hell is he going to get a non-insane LTR, no matter who he is. Those kind of women are considered low class and slaggy, rather than high level, because... they are. And we all know what happens there. I certainly know that it is possible to be dominant in a relationship, even marriage here, from spoken accounts, but always when I have se…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 01:17 PM
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They might be unicorns when you meet them, but as you confirm, they turn all that off hard once they have ensnared their victim. I mean, man.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 01:03 PM
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Making long term friends with Japanese men, as a foreigner, is basically impossible. I have attempted it a lot, especially in my early years. They just don't want to know, and are the most insular people in the world. People will disagree with this, but it is the cold hard truth. My friends here are other foreigners. Mistreated; where to start! Actively blocked from entering establishments, blocked from renting apartments, spat at in the street, constantly grumbled at by old men, occassionally v…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 01:00 PM
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They do, but honestly I think it is less than done than in the west. LOL, I can picture that guy right now. Haha.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:49 PM
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Haha, no I learned it to just live day to day. Actually kick started it when I had to go to hospital. Not knowing how to communicate stuff in there was really hard, so after that experience, I got down to learning. Game; not entirely sure how that all works, and just did it my own way, but yeah, compared to the UK, it was similar, but more of a set pattern of activities you go through. In the UK I could meet a bird at a party and be banging in less than an hour. Here, it is all a bit more dull a…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:48 PM
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Indeed. Be very very careful.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:45 PM
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Definitely. The earning possibilities for women are a lot lower than men too, meaning they kind of have to do what they do to survive. It is grim!
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:39 PM
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Mate, I was not up for writing a massive essay. Will get into the detail in the comments section. Your quoted post is cool and all, but not really on topic, as this is a forum dedicated to RP, rather than international dating advice. No hate or anything though mate, and I agree on the points you made in your posts to an extent.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:38 PM
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Fucking A. Very nice to make your acquaintance mate. Completely agree.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:33 PM
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Nice one cheers. Experience of women is extensive. Ostracized by women? Hardly at all. By the men; daily. Compared to my beta mates, I get it harder from them too. Makes sense. Yes, I speak Japanese, but really that doesn't help with getting women. Sometimes the opposite, as it reduces your 'exoticness'. Agree with your second point totally.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:28 PM
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Yeah they do want LTRs. There is pretty much nothing like a hook-up scene, or at least they don't talk about it. All the girls want a boyfriend, instantly. Why did I come here; had nothing much going in the UK, and got a job offer for much more money that I was on at the time. Was 25, and seeking adventure I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:26 PM
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"the most alpha dude in the country" LOL, cheers! Haha. Not an American mate. Yeah, when I first got here, I pretty much hammered it and racked up a crazy number of women; one night stands, short term relationships, etc. Always had at least 3 on the go. Was mad doing stuff like ripping the sheets off my bed, putting a new one on, wiping up all the long black hairs then running off to the train station to meet another one. It was every young mans dream, I suppose. As I got older though, and I sta…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:10 PM
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LINE is the standard here, basically. They all use it.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:00 PM
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Sound advice indeed. For me though, I am personally not interested at all the local women at all, and frankly I find their behaviour terrifying, especially given what I have witnessed.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 11:51 AM
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You have sort of answered your own question a bit; your alternative makes absolute sense, but the culture of getting married is perpetuated by women for the very negative to the male reasons you highlight. Weddings are fucking hilariously pathetic here. All western style with the bride dressed in white, but with some dickhead shouting instructions on what to do and where to go to everyone with a mega-phone. I shit you not. And they carry out this shambles in a fake plastic looking fairy tale cas…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 11:31 AM
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That stuff does go on a bit, I suppose, but it is wildly over hyped for sure. It is mainly done over LINE. I could investigate if you wanted. For science.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 11:28 AM
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I am an alcoholic and drug addict. I have not consumed any alcohol or drugs since November 18th 2012 and have completely turned my life around. I also realise and accept that I am fully red pill. These two things are extremely similar in terms of there being a strong desire, especially when getting clean / accepting your red pill nature, to convert all those you see as suffering from the same conditions you previously let crush you. But you can't. Because people just dont want to hear it. With s…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:38 AM
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Hahhahaahha. No. You are literally just getting started. The main thing for you to realise is that at 24 you have a hell of a lot of time left, so be extremely careful not to do anything stupid like getting married or having a baby. That will hardcore ruin you at 24.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 09:29 PM
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Yeah, this is the standard vicarious experience that exists in all media; porn is the big one of course, but so is all this cute super hero bollocks, and stuff like Breaking Bad, Mad Men, etc.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 04:56 AM
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To be fair, I pretty much break bones every time I crash my bike, and my bones are regular ones as far as I know. A simple guide to which sport is best; just look at the bodies the pros of each sport get. Swimming and cycling are objectively the most balanced and lean, with loads of muscle. Get into these and you will be a GOD.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 12:00 AM
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What is the bone condition? Climbing and running are possibly out, but cycling might be ok and your can turn yourself into an absolute gladiator on a road bike. It is the most effective exercise on the planet bar none, when you train to race (even if you don't end up racing)
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 03:37 PM
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Assuming this refers to porn and wanking. You need a demanding physical hobby. Get into road cycling or climbing or something like that. Something which requires taking your body to the very edge.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 08:22 AM
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I reckon this is case by case. The real problem is that while you can separate low class people from their shit friends, their family will remain and you will always have to deal with them. Unless you absolutely ex-communicate them. Which lets be honest, is pretty much impossible in these cases, especially when they sniff out your status through her.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:32 AM
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Exactly right. It is shocking how predictable it becomes when you know what to look for.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:17 AM
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Fucking right. It realistically only takes about a year to totally transform yourself physically and financially. Behaviour takes a bit longer to cement but it starts working immediately if you know what to do and say and have some decent rules and theory to follow.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:17 AM
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I completely sorted myself out at 33 years of age. Quit drinking and taking drugs (that was very hard), got extremely physically fit, sorted out my clothes, general appearance, money, etc., and figured out maintaining frame and standing my ground. 3 years later, at 36, I am still extremely fit, and look and dress even better than I did 2 years ago. Mate, 30 is NOTHING. If you were asking the same question at 60 years old, then yeah, maybe late but never impossible. At 30, you have a whole SHIT F…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 11:18 PM
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I see this a lot. I was red pill since my early 20s in behaviour and outlook, but it took me until my early 30s to really sort out my appearance, athleticism, diet, and money. Once I did that, I was flying. And now, since I have stepped it up a gear, I am seeing a LOT more resentment and disassociation from previous beta friends. I have been outright blocked by a few of them, to the point where it is extremely clear what is going on. It is jealousy and resentment at me because I am displaying al…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 11:11 PM
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This is pretty much true, and to add to this, Japanese women are hyper aware of the wall to the point where they openly talk about it. They also completely shut down any sexual activity after getting LTR or marriage. The culture is way out of date.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 10:42 PM
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To be honest mate, you are fucking lucky. Just look on your Facebook page at all the married chumps you went to school with.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:02 PM
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Fucking right. That ain't mentioned enough I reckon. A lot of blokes I know act like women when it comes to friendships. Holding grudges and not being direct with each other. More needs to be said about this on this subreddit I reckon.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 09:16 AM
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Fuck yes. A monster of a reply.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 09:09 AM
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Fair enough mate. No beef intended at all.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 01:43 AM
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I am not interested in bulking up and getting more muscular than I am already. As I mentioned elsewhere, I am an elite level competition road cyclist and extremely fit. I have achieved this doing exactly as i say, to great effect. Sounds like you are obsessing over calorie limits there mate, which ain't good. 'Can manage'; alright, if you want to get into some proper exercise talk... if a person is bringing themselves up to fitness, they should not be doing intervals to overload. Once they are u…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:33 AM
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Come off it. Skipping meals is not cool and is pointless. Eating the right stuff, in the right amount and doing as much exercise as you can manage, and as hard as you can go, is the way it should be done. Bombing gallons of protein shake and eating loads of meat and dairy, to bulk up, then cutting down is about as unhealthy as it gets. Being fit for life and powering your multi-decade long balanced training programs of endurance and strength on the other hand is perfect and will give you the ult…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:13 AM
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Lol. Mate, if I didn't eat breakfast, I would not be able to train like I do. If you are sitting around doing fuck all, then you will be able to not eat it and just caffeine your way through to lunch. Start doing anything approaching a heavy training program of endurance work and breakfast is vital.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 12:07 AM
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I hate to do this, but the photo the guy posted is not exactly what I would call a good advert for any of this kind of eating behaviour. It leads to rebounds and doesn't make you lean.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 11:43 PM
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By hammering out at least 100km a day on my bike and double that on weekends, my friend
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 11:42 PM
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Erm, two years of skipping breakfast. That ain't normal mate. We are all here to support each other so no hate from me, please understand
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:19 PM
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Have read all of this and all the comments. Sorry lads, but there is a LOT of bullshit spoken in here. I am willing to put my money where my mouth is here. I am 36, 150lb, 6% body fat, 177cm tall, elite level cyclist. Can post pics of my body if required. If you want to lose weight and get a body that is most effective for carrying your alpha mindset, you need to get lean, with strong but not excessive, defined muscle. This is what drives all women the most crazy and can therefore be used to you…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:53 PM
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Sounds like an eating disorder lurking in the shadows mate.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:45 PM
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I eat well over 1kg of steamed brown rice a day and I am healthier than pretty much anyone I know. And much fitter too If the grains are kept to brown rice, this is perfect. Once they start taking the form of bread and pasta, it is game over.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:43 PM
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I am with ru crazy on this one If I eat refined sugar or drink milk, I wake up the next day feeling like I have a hangover, it is that bad for me. Totally bloats my intestines too and leaves me full of twisted gas and running to the toilet every ten minutes Brown rice, watermelon, tuna, tomatoes, broccoli and water pretty power me these days, and have fuelled some monster Strava KOM destruction in my local mountains
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:41 PM
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When you start increasing the intensity of your riding, to doing things like 130km in 4 hours, a high carb diet of clean natural carbs from brown rice and fruit, plus some fish protein is where it is at. You can technically eat whatever you want, but you won't get the most out of your body if you eat loads of proteins and fats. The Tour de France guys don't eat hamburgers and steaks. They drink loads of water and get huge amounts of carbs from clean fruit and rice.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 02:29 PM
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The whole 'bodybuilding' world seems obsessed with protein. Guzzling milk, beef, protein shakes,eggs, etc. It all bloats you out and shags up your metabolism. If you want to get really fit, eat a load of fruit and rice, with basic protein from fish. You will get super lean and will be able to hammer out huge bike rides / runs, etc. You will be a lot healthier too, without all that heavy animal based protein weighing down your guts.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:17 AM
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Yeah, except if you want to actually do any endurance activity (running, rowing, cycling, etc), which gives the best overall physique without needing to lift weights in the gym, and gives you insane levels of fitness, you pretty much need to do the opposite of everything in this post.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:38 AM
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Exactly. There is so much good logical sense in this thread. It is extremely refreshing
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 03:59 AM
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Absolutely fantastic response.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 10:09 PM
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Nail on the fucking head. It is enabling of shit lifestyles and all that they lead to, physically. These cunts CAN get bodies like the one in the advert. Any human can. You just have to exercise as hard as fuck all the time and eat extremely well. Like you should be anyway. These fat twats can't get their heads around that though and like you say, try to remove anything that highlights how fucking disgusting they are.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:34 PM
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Come to Japan mate, you will change your mind instantly. Literally every women is massively out for beta bucks, and goes at it SO hard it is not even funny. Well, it is funny to me, as I have been RP since day one. Watching my mates here get married and then the predictable no sex frumpiness kick in is hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 04:18 AM
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Yeah mate I know what you mean but gyms are cool. I hate every cunt but gym is alright. The good guys there are genuinely really good. Best lads I ever met were in gyms.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 09:12 AM
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I read this post and every single line could apply to myself. Excellent and I agree with your every word. Great.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:31 PM
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Haha yeah, who the fuck wants a ltr with a high school girl, which would limit the fuck out of your late teens and early 20s. Madness. When I went to uni, there were a few lads who turned up with their ltr girls from school. What a fucking insane beta move. Their dads should have hardcore stomped on that bullshit for them.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:16 AM
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Nah trust me, women around the world all behave basically the same, just with whatever mask their society allows them to wear
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:07 PM
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That's really good. Nice work indeed. You have inspired me. Definitely hear you on not letting momentary increases in income throw you into a spending binge Good stuff and thanks for the info. Will be following your path for sure.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:55 PM
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That is a very good emergency fund you got there. 30 months! I have mine sitting at about 3. Haha. Continuing to build it though. How long did 30 months take you to build?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:34 PM
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