OhMissFortune Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
526	Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PR	LEVEL UP	OhMissFortune	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 09:50 PM
379	Men Caught Catcalling Their Mothers in Disguise. Y'all ever doubted?	SCROTES MAD	OhMissFortune	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/20 08:44 PM
97	If you ever find yourself suppressing your need to make gifts...	REMINDER 👑	OhMissFortune	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 07:17 AM
18	FDS, I need tips how to stay safe when I break up with my stbx boyfriend	SEEKING ADVICE	OhMissFortune	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 12:34 PM
1	A man dresses as a woman in Egypt to experience sexual harassment. This went exactly as you think it went. Catcallers don't care who you are	LEVEL UP BRO!	OhMissFortune	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/20 08:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	My boyfriend (31) says he wants to move in with me so he can “save” and is not talking about going half on bills. How can I tell him that I expect him to pay bills if he moves in with me ? Would you do the same if roles were reversed? I bet not. The dude's leeching off of you and sleeps peacefully. Do you want a man like that in your life? FDS handbook is in the "about" section. Read it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/22 05:22 PM
109	I ended my relationship - A cautionary tale to ALWAYS VET and ALWAYS FOLLOW FDS STANDARDS Yeah, unfortunately you have to operate assuming this person does not have your best interests at heart and is probably malicious. A genuinely good, emotionally mature man will pass this test without even realising that there is a test going on, but those kinds of POS will probably trip on every step I really empathize with you, it's hard for women out there and even harder being childfree. Take care, sis. We're rooting for you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/22 09:39 PM
255	I ended my relationship - A cautionary tale to ALWAYS VET and ALWAYS FOLLOW FDS STANDARDS About childfree - the main sub has a great vetting strategy in FAQ, which I found really helpful. With this kind of stuff it's unfortunately hit or miss. If they know your stance before you know theirs - you'll never know if theirs is true unless they provide papers for a vasectomy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/22 08:46 PM
10	They know. I just realized I do the same thing, but with my surroundings. I wonder if describing the stressor specifically will help. Thank you, I'll try it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/22 09:12 AM
43	They know. That book changed my life. I thought I already knew most of the tactics men use for their gain. Well, turns out I didn't and it was a lot of them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/22 09:06 AM
127	Hot Take: Marvel/DC Superhero culture is doing to men and boys what Disney did to women and girls They’re the fast food of movies. That is a great way to frame it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/22 08:19 PM
95	Update on my most recent post. Digging into OP’s comment history only confirmed to me what I already thought; he isn’t a good partner to her & she deserves better. I seriously doubt she doesn’t fake cum with him because she sounds v turned off. He asked some1 what a clitoris is. Is this April fools? Why incels came to be: misogynistic and patriarchal views that make men disregard that women are humans, only to see women as fleshlights for their own pleasure that they feel entitled to Why FDS came to be: misogynistic and patriarchal views that make men disregard that women are humans, only to see women as fleshlights for their own pleasure that they feel entitled to	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 11:18 AM
26	My boyfriend shared a funny video that i didn't find funny You absolutely did the right thing. Also, good call on coming here to ask. This will cement your opinion. Slay, queen!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 08:45 AM
46	My boyfriend shared a funny video that i didn't find funny yeah can you imagine how shitty it is when she has been faithful and supportive to his broke ass, and he replaces her when he gets rich How did he answer?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 08:30 AM
159	My boyfriend shared a funny video that i didn't find funny Be careful OP, if you try and ask openly he will backpedal and convince you they're not really his beliefs. This will only prolong the inevitable He can't have different beliefs and find this funny at the same time When someone shows you who they are, believe them	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 08:28 AM
10	The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss. I feel like this comment deserves it's own post, very important information!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/22 11:26 PM
6	War on Women vs War on Men Sorry, I'm in an agitated state due to the situation. Of course you also are, probably much more than me, and I sympathize with you. My friend from there keeps updating us and it's rough, I don't have the words to describe the guilt and sorrow I feel for you all. Much love I've been to Kiyv, Cherkassy, Vinnitsya and other places I may not remember the names of, time period between 2000s and ~2020. I'd say Ukraine is definitely much more liberal than Russia, but I guess I was more comparing to Eu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/22 03:22 PM
7	War on Women vs War on Men I've literally lived in Ukraine for prolonged periods of time, and this is my experience. I had a close bond with families from there and have close ones there right now. And I've heard the quote used by different ukrainians several times. I am fully aware that russian and ukrainian cultures are different, but you can't deny that they still have things in common. Again, sorry if I offended you or others, sorry if I assumed somewhere. Not sorry about sharing my own lived experience and I don't ap…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/22 02:28 PM
34	How HVM deal with Pickmes/LVW and LVM I'd like to add "And doesn't expect nice guy points from you for doing the bare minimum" to that first one	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/22 01:03 PM
308	War on Women vs War on Men Edit: I would like to apologize, I made it seem like it's all Ukraine is. It's definitely not. It is also a much more open-minded and free place than Russia and I genuinely enjoyed spending time there. Ukrainians are welcoming and caring people and I genuinely love that country. I'll leave this comment be like I wrote it though Ukraine is poor, orthodox and patriarchal. During the Soviet era women were "liberated" due to the economy being in shambles so they'll have more working hands. Still, th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/22 03:42 AM
41	Therapy lines that are used for manipulation When I got upset at something he did - used the term "microaggression" to refer to my upsetness. Also, just using your tears, unhappiness and boundaries as a way to "prove" that you're aggressive towards him	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/22 03:50 PM
4	Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PR I had instructions to IKEA furniture (obviously lmao), but with the fan I figured it out by myself which was hella rewarding!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 06:50 AM
11	Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PR I have no idea how level with a laser works but I'll look it up, thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 11:18 PM
15	Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PR That is totally okay too! First batch of furniture was huge and I figured it would be much easier to just call in a professional so he spends all day doing it instead of me Calling a professional because it's just convenient is legit and I support it all the way	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 11:15 PM
15	Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PR I don't know yet tbh, everything seems fun and exciting. I think I wanna put together a piece of furniture from scratch, maybe a decorative flower pot for starters because I already need one. So maybe a square wooden crate for a pot with my cactus to fit in, then paint it white&green I actually have a relative with a wholeass workshop so when this pandemic eases up a little I'll ask him to teach me as much as possible Is super glue something that you use often or are nails and screws more reliab…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 11:04 PM
70	Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PR I know right??? I've always had this belief that "male field" was this unattainable and complex thing with different knowledge involved When I first fixed a plumbing problem and it was SO EASY I almost felt bamboozled, a feeling similar to when you miss the last step. "Wait, that's it?"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 10:52 PM
22	Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PR Gosh, thank you so much! I already have half of those, and now I got motivation to get the rest and start doing stuff! Today I realized that this is a dream I had since I was a kid (didn't really think about it before), so you just made my day TwT	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 10:41 PM
16	Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PR I wish to be like you when the time comes, to care for someone so deeply. Good to hear your parents recognize this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 10:35 PM
44	Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PR THANK YOU! I've been meaning to get a power tool for myself and you just saved me a lot of time and, possibly, money. Lady I appreciate you so much rn ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 10:24 PM
7	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In This will do you so much good, imagine all the stuff you will be able to do! Do it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 08:41 AM
5	Am I (20F) ignoring a gut feeling? It's not about you tho. Not vibes, not "what if she plays with me". Look at the raw actions - do you see it? His childish behavior and nothing more?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/20 09:28 PM
7	I got married, queens! ❤ You go girl!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 11:42 PM
6	If you ever find yourself suppressing your need to make gifts... Aww honey, I'm so sorry. This sounds messed up. Glad to hear you're free now!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 04:54 PM
17	If you ever find yourself suppressing your need to make gifts... This sounds straight up awful. Good for you for leaving, sis	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 01:57 PM
20	If you ever find yourself suppressing your need to make gifts... Damn I need this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 12:59 PM
8	Boyfriend Broke Up With Me, Now I Realize He Did Me A Favor I've commented on your original post on the CF sub and I'm so happy you came here, sis! Good riddance!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 10:45 AM
1	The sex subreddit is a dumpster fire. More in the comments. Please put a trigger warning. Thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 01:07 PM
3	To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process.... I found myself rushing to the phone, yet when I see his name letting my phone ring just for a few more seconds. With texts, you let them sit in your inbox more, yet you are completely free and you may even text with friends while his message, although harmless, sits unopened. Did I answer your question?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/20 05:58 PM
7	To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process.... You will wish for your freedom back when you take her back into your life, will give anything to breathe a little. Right now you have the power not to do this. Take care, sis	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 05:16 PM
39	To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process.... I'll make one, don't worry	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 02:39 PM
151	To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process.... Look at their actions. Talk, write it out, have friends to talk to openly about them. Trust your gut, be the devil's advocate. Perspective helps. Loving yourself helps IF you see those signs in him or yourself - run: You leave out some details of your relationship, or alter them, when talking to your friends about something he did You do not talk to him about certain topics not to trigger his anger/mocking/other sort of negativity You feel drained after talking to him If he texts/calls you - you…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 02:14 PM