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| 11 | "Swingers" (1996). A highly recommended film. In less than 30 min. you see how the confident man gets the girl | OhMyGoat | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 02:55 AM |
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| 3 | How to deal with texting on a date?That's pathetic. You're bending yourself to her ways. You're begging for her attention. An alpha wouldn't do that. You have to stand your ground. | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 09:13 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with texting on a date?I would try a cocky-funny line. "Man I would love to see what you're doing on your phone because if it's more interesting than our date I HAVE to see it" If she has half a brain, and you've been interesting the whole date, she will pick up on that comment. If this happens a lot to you, then you may be boring. Only you can know that. Another thing, if she keeps texting and texting, without it being really serious, then SHE has killed the mood. You're not being a prick by calling her out on it sin… | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Listen to No More Mr.Nice Guy, audio here 6h40minutesUpvote for posting an audiobook. Love those things! And such a good book too! | /r/seduction | 14/12/13 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Lady here: i have a question about approaching men in "unapproachable" situationsI myself am serious about bodybuilding, so the less chit-chat I encounter when I'm working out, the better. That being said, one of the ways you could get close enough to a guy to get to know him better is to ask for his help with a certain exercise. I see girls (and guys) working out with bad form all the time, I sometimes intervine, I sometimes just ignore it, but I've found that a good way to break the ice with someone is to help them with their workout. Do that, and if the guy likes you, you… | /r/seduction | 05/12/13 09:15 PM |
| 1 | What's some good music you listen to to cure a temporary state of one-its?Is there a specific kind of music that usually helps you with this? List a genre at least. If you want to feel bad-ass and don't want to give a fuck about anything, "Icky Thump" by the White Stripes, some Black Keys (not Lonely Boy), and of that sort! | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 05:28 PM |
| 2 | All you ever need to know about flakingI'm with you on this, brother. Hate it when they just ignore you. I do the same as you, remove them from my life. Why waste my time and feed her ego at the same time? | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 05:46 PM |
| 7 | The art of losing interestShh guys, this is old news. Move on to other things! Don't be clingy. | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 12:08 PM |
| 3 | The art of losing interestVery interesting read. Will definitely keep it in mind. | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 09:24 PM |
| 1 | [Inner Game] I've overlooked this for far too long, and you shouldn't either!Very enjoyable read. I am currently working on inner game. Learning some outer game techniques too, but focusing on inner game. After all, it's the only thing that works for every aspect of life. Self-confidence, and the ability to perceive situations in a positive way. | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 07:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How I opened and botched a girl in 6 weeks!Damn, you were consistent. Props for that, I honestly would've given up probably by the third excuse. No need to waste my time, and creep her out. It's good too see that it didn't affected you in any way. Seems like you really are outcome independent. I guess being consistent doesn't harm, as long as you are not outcome dependent, have other girls, and don't get too creepy. I think you stretched this one a little bit too far, though. You need to work on your signal catching. But congrats for kee… | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 10:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] # and K-close, now I have a bit of moral QuandryIt seems like you already know what you want to do, so do it. No need to be warned or encouraged by any strangers. | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 10:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Just do it. Thanks seddit.Congrats man! It all comes down to being comfortable. And you can't be comfortable if you're playing a character. Always be yourself. No way every girl is going to reject you. You have to approach a ton of them, of course. For the text follow-up? Just tell her that because you had a great time talking to her at the Halloween party, you want to see her again. Ask her out that way! | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 01:22 PM |
| 2 | The 20 Lessons to Learn in Your 20s About Women and Dating or Be Single ForeverI look great and still suffer in game. Still learning and improving though. | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 02:08 PM |
| 1 | The book "No more Mr. Nice" guy may have just changed meWoah. I am reading the book at the moment, and I have to say I can understand what he's writing about but fortunately, do not relate. Wasn't raised that way and I am happy to have found that out; regardless I am planning to finish it and I'm excited to see what I get from it. What you wrote is simply awesome. | /r/seduction | 12/10/13 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Language game: Use the imperative form when making plansI think the three of them can work. It can depend on the relationship you have with the woman, but more so it depends on the mood and situation you're in. Just go with what you feel is right would be my advice :) | /r/seduction | 12/09/13 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no gameI can confirm this. I'm a six feet tall bodybuilder with a great education, charming voice, a very decent dress style and a resemblance to Clark Kent (more than 40+ people have told me so) but I still have to push myself to talk to women and yes, IoIs are very easy to notice but I still have old habits that chain me. Every fucking girl I walk next to is, in my brain, a lost opportunity, and I work outside in one of the busiests streets in Buenos Aires. It's tough for everyone. | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 04:36 PM |
| 2 | I'm proud of myself.Good on ya. It must have taken you a great deal of courage to actually ask her out, and you did just fine. Having the balls to actually tell her to join you to an uncomfortable place to have a conversation is already a grand achievement, especially if you were intimidated by her. I'm struggling in that situation myself. Two incredible hot girls at places I visit during work have shown a great deal of attraction to me but I'm still inside my head and staying in my confort zone when it comes the t… | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 12:34 PM |
| 1 | How to go from 'social group' friends to 1 on 1 type of friends.This. If it's the latter, I'd just go about it casually. Text one of them or in the next group hangout, approach one and tell her that since you two never hang out together you wanna take her somewhere. Like the mall or some shit. Somewhere you can talk and get to know each other a little bit better :) | /r/seduction | 04/09/13 12:23 PM |
| 1 | 20 y.o. male, going on my first date ever. Nervous as all hell. How should I go about this?Date should be fun. And as some people pointed out, it's you who is responsible for picking the place. So pick one that's fun for YOU. Don't try to make it a romantic "movie" date. An example could be what I like, which is something outdoorsy, with lots of talking, walking around and maybe a picnic (if you're willing to bring some food you've prepared yourself) or grabbing something fast. I feel that dinner dates are more couple-ly. Make it casual, with lots of room for conversation and well of … | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 11:12 PM |
| 1 | At what point do you cut off a text conversation?When you have to start to think of things to say. If you have to try extra hard, then finish the conversation. But make sure you've arranged to meer her before you do that. | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 10:57 PM |
| 1 | "What if...(she says/does/asks this specific thing)?" -- A better way to plan so you're prepared for anything without preparing for everythingLoved the article. Loved what you wrote and I already incorporated into my life. It works fantastic. It lets me have an idea of what I'd like to do, plan it, but not like a step-by-step thing. Because you never know what could go wrong in the process. The end result is what I should focus on. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 02:38 AM |
| 2 | [FR]#2 - First daygame approach, completely bombed, but still learned something and left happy.I definitely think that's a good idea. Next time, try to spend a little less time inside your head, and a little more in the moment. Otherwise, you'll miss out! | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 12:41 AM |
| 2 | [FR]#2 - First daygame approach, completely bombed, but still learned something and left happy.Well, she did ask you to come back to her, right? and continue to talk? I think she was actually interested in you, man! Otherwise, why would she ask you to come back? No one is that nice. | /r/seduction | 09/08/13 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you maintain eye contact for so long?This has helped me a great deal. I only do it with women, obviously. It has given me the ability to just mantain serious eye contact with whoever and not be uncomfortable. Because that's just who I am now, and what I do! | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Is commenting on the (good) looks of another man a common shit test?Hahahaha, well that can turn out to be kind of weird. But if the girl's got at tiny bit of sense of humour, then the "I'd fuck him!" line could totally work. | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Is commenting on the (good) looks of another man a common shit test?It probably is. If I feel it's appropiate and we have a good vibe, I always respond with "Definitely! I'd fuck him!" Makes them laugh everytime. | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 12:45 AM |
| 5 | You often need less game than you think.I'm pretty sure he meant walking in smiling, and confident. That's half the game. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 05:50 PM |
| 1 | "Swingers" (1996). A highly recommended film. In less than 30 min. you see how the confident man gets the girlLol. Come on, the movie is streaming on netflix. You can watch it there. If you haven't, I recommend that you do. If you're smart, you'll know why. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 05:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - "I'm afraid of oral herpes, but I think you're super cute and would totally make out with you."Sounds like it had nothing to do with you, and that the girl was in fact into you. Maybe she had a friend who got herpes from a stranger, and scared the crap out of her. Who knows? I really don't see what the problem is here. I think you're already aware that it wasn't your fault! Some people have all sorts of worries and troubles. There's no need to sweat over it :) | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 04:36 PM |
| 1 | My painful experience with one-itisGreat post. It's always good to be reminded of this kind of thing and how painful it can be. I myself have been becoming good friends with a girl that I find attractive and interesting - but she has a boyfriend . I've been keeping a birds eye-view on this ever since it hit me that I'm vulnerable to having one-itis, as are all men. I too think it would've been better in offmychest, but I still appreciate the fact that I saw it here. I probably wouldn't have in that sub. You keep being strong, dud… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.I will do my very best to do exactly that!! I will never stagnate or settle for anything less than the very best I can get or do. And I expect you to do the same! Have a great life. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Extremely valuable lessons I learned tonight.Oh my god. Your comment absolutely blew me away. I think about what I will get to teach my kids, or nephew all the time. I want to help them and prepare them for different aspects in life. I'm 19 and I'm learning as I go and I like to experience everything for that particular reason. Not only to grow and be a better, wiser human being, but to also pass along the knowledge I've earned throughout my lifetime. There's nothing I admire more, than having knowledge and skills. But I just started seddi… | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 10:25 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with rejection ?"Your loss", "Oh, that's too bad!" "Okay, have a good one!" What else can you say? Just be as polite as you can, and don't take it personal! Smile and move on. Have fun. Live, experience. Bad situations can bring a lot of learning experience and thus making you even stronger! No pain no gain, right? haha. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 10:38 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with getting ignored?I agree, you really shouldn't care about the fact that she's ignoring you. If she does, move on to another one. There are plenty of them out there. If we're talking about a crush, moving on can be difficult, but it may be the only choice... | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 07:15 PM |
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