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OhZee/r/Divorce_Men15/09/22 04:58 AM
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OhZee/r/Divorce_Men18/11/21 06:13 PM
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Honestly, as atrocious as my story is, it’s short-lived and I got the best possible outcome from it. I’m just venting my spleen because I feel bad. I’m on the way back up, and just having some kid-steps along the way. Thanks for your story, I appreciate the perspective massively. It helps to hear about the light at the end of the tunnel. Maybe I’ll sack up and go talk to that cute Aussie I met at the gym the other week…
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/22 11:08 PM
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✊
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/22 09:26 PM
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👤
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/22 09:26 PM
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I let myself go for a good bit before this, hard to get hold of my shit. Thank you for the kindness.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/22 09:25 PM
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Thanks. I was. Wrote this December of last year. We’re almost there ;)
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/22 09:24 PM
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I feel this so much. I’ve been trying to distract myself so hard, now the crying just blurts out. I’m trying to allow myself the relief of the stoic principles, but I can’t be dealing with this anymore. The pain just hits so hard. I fucking hate this.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 10:10 PM
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I feel very similarly to how this guy does. I have a great deal of sexual desire still for my ex, but I feel like since the last time would be on my terms, with my knowledge that it’s over…I dunno, the healing a good hatefuck can bring me is usually pretty relieving.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/22 02:28 AM
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I was in this place most of the last 6 weeks. So long as you’re there with her, cohabitating, you WILL NOT BE ABLE TO MOVE ON OR HEAL FROM THIS. Figure out a way to carve out some space and time for yourself, whatever you can find. Then start planning your exit strategy. Figure out when you’re going to be able to get away from her. Figure out how you’re going to be a good father, and where you’re going to spend time with your kid (mine is 5ish as well). Start looking forward to being on your own…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/22 01:32 AM
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I’m on day 7. One week. Good for you man.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/21 01:43 AM
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I’m dreading this. Ex and I have been cohabitating since the divorce for almost a year, but I had to move out. I hate thinking about what this conversation is going to sound like. I know I can’t trash my ex to my kid, but I wanted to be together, and she absolutely did not. It’s going to be hard, and I hope I can find a way through in time.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/21 02:57 PM
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The unmet expectations…the barest fucking minimum. The things I used to do to help her, to put her success before mine, to show her that I could take care of my family in whatever they desired…and for her to fucking fail me in EVERY GOD DAMN RESPECT to meet those most minimal of expectations. I fully expect either a full blown meltdown tries to move back East or back in with me in 6 months.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 02:00 PM
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Good for you on building yourself back up, that’s fucking inspirational man. I think I’m gonna take up fishing when I move out west. That’s on the list of things to teach my kid, along with starting a fire and driving a stick.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 02:03 AM
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I think I’ve been watching your responses for over a year now…bought the books. I’ll start on Saturday.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 01:10 AM
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I like it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 01:10 AM
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I’m in.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 12:35 AM
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Agreed.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 01:13 AM
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When trying to explain to a 5 year old how to interact with other humans in this existence, no, they don’t. Sexual attraction and sexual intercourse are not a prerequisite for human interaction. I don’t care what’s between your legs if I’m solely having a conversation with you. My personal desires for a physical partner should have no bearing on whether or not I can speak to someone as another human being.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 01:11 AM
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Additionally, I feel like if your kid has a question, they’ll bring it up when they’re ready. If you force the issue, it might make them uncomfortable, or create questions for them you’re not ready to respond to completely. I’ve talked a lot about death with my kid, because she’s experienced a lot of death in the family in her short life unfortunately, and she’s had a lot of questions. But letting her bring up the subjects allows her to direct the conversation in a way she can understand and pro…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 09:55 PM
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People are just people man. The bits in your pants don’t matter. Categorizing people based on what is in their drawers is wrong, I feel, and the need to try and define people based on whatever they are is as detrimental as trying to deny that they are who they say they are. I’m pretty liberal myself, and my 5 year old has asked questions about gay couples we know, and I’ve always just brought it back to people are just people and love is love (not getting into consent yet) and if you aren’t a pa…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 09:47 PM
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Brand new truck. After I sold my house to pay everything off, I used my new debt-free credit score to buy myself my dream truck.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/21 01:07 PM
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I feel this. I’m still living with my ex. The sacrifices we have to make for our kids sometimes…. There’s a light though…it’s coming. Freedom. One day. The amount of therapy I’m going to need is staggering….
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/21 12:30 PM
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I hate that shit…”I’m having a baby, what are you going to do about it???” Bitch wtf are YOU gonna do about it??
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/21 10:45 AM
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Gotta keep the sentiment in the right place, I feel. Less about hating the other person in our life, more about trying to help each other find our way through the wilderness. It’s understandable that the emotion will run high, and if you’re all anything like me, the tendency to lash out is strong and wild, but we need to be able to focus and redirect that vicious side to something productive. Learn something new. Let it drive a new passion. Find a way to take that rage and turn it into an engine…
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/21 10:11 PM
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God this sounds like my childhood…minus the fetal alcohol business and the masters. Good on you for keeping your focus and goals. I feel like the most persistent quality of successful people is the ability to keep grinding it out until they get through their struggles. 👊
/r/MGTOW213/06/21 10:05 AM
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For me it's a lack of what used to feel like a total connection. I feel there's always a reserved part of myself that no one else gets. Affords me a unique position in all negotiations and exchanges with the opposite sex.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 12:23 AM
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My ex gave me the "I think I'm pregnant" bs every time I tried to leave...I knew she was full of it when I sat her down in the clinic and told her we were getting her a legit test. The moment the tech started taking blood, she started sobbing...I knew at that moment that nothing she had ever said to me was worth two shits. They'll do anything to get what they want and keep it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/13 09:49 PM
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*mein country. Careful, it's slippery down here...
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 05:14 AM
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THESE are proper "dude" responses. Well played, gentleman...well played indeed.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 09:21 AM
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Too often I read about how this sub is vilified by the rest of reddit, and the rest of the Internet, for its oft misinterpreted views on women and relationships. I firmly believe that the power we recover when we allow these novel perspectives into our lives is what the true drive of the movement is. I'm in agreement with the other commenters here when they say the red pill is more about getting a fucking handle on your life and learning how to shape your world for you, which most men will try t…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 09:12 AM
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