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Oh_Debussy/r/seduction23/12/18 09:08 PM
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Oh_Debussy/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:36 AM
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Seems logical but we all know interactions between men and women aren’t governed by logic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:54 PM
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Put yourself out there. It’s hard at first but you’d be surprised how many people would actually want to be in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:14 AM
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I’m a moderately attractive guy who’s trying to quit porn and no longer involve myself with certain types of women I’ve spent my 20s building my self-esteem to what I now consider a good level but I’ve still got work to do. I definitely have unattractive qualities: my indecisiveness and inability to commit to anything but I’m also working on that. My ex told me I need therapy and she might have a point. I was abused a lot as a child (emotionally, sexually and physically) and looking back I defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:02 AM
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Drew Afualo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:38 AM
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I normally side with opinions of most men here but this is not just true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:14 AM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:57 AM
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Bro you’re doing great. The most important thing is that you’re not lying on your ass doing nothing. Everyone has their own race to run
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:26 AM
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Yeah man I’m 28. I’ve just seen a pattern from past dealings with women and from observing myself that everyone is in relationships to satisfy something within them. Maybe true love comes when both parties acknowledge that they are both self-centred
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:27 PM
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I missed my chances. When I was younger and more innocent, I could have been fooled into falling in love but now I know that humans are inherently selfish and all relationships are transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:34 AM
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From the right person it is. If not, I get repulsed. If a girl I’m already into takes charge and initiates the flirting etc, she might own me forever
/r/seduction14/06/23 03:48 PM
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Everything human beings do is subconsciously geared towards attracting the opposite sex. How do you expect not to attract attention when you go in the gym dressed attractively? Also no one is sexualising anyone at the gym.. we’re not working out thinking “damn I wanna rail this girl once she’s done using those dumbbells”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:36 AM
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Not me. I still lurk around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:27 AM
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Nice one
/r/seduction30/10/22 01:03 PM
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Hurts but it is what it is
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:44 PM
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I don’t know how many times I’ve been rejected but I remember all of them
/r/seduction20/10/22 06:20 PM
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You probably have a lot of inner calmness. People can sense that and it’s always nice to be around
/r/seduction08/10/22 07:50 AM
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OP wants to take things further but his date might not. Maybe she had a bad day but if she really was interested, she would put in some effort to make something happen. EDIT: Spelling
/r/seduction25/09/22 07:07 AM
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Let her ask you out
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:08 AM
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They’re just looking
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:42 PM
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Did you mind getting approached at the gym?
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:49 AM
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Do you sometimes avoid eye contact too if you’re attracted to a guy but feel a bit shy?
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:06 AM
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some guys can be really smooth with it, and the girl will follow along This is very true. At the end of the day it’s not really what you say that matters but how you say it
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:12 PM
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This. She’s made it clear they’re friends so he’s not bound to her and can talk to whoever he wants at the wedding
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:49 AM
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That’s just the way it goes. Men have to initiate but if we play our cards right, it pays off in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:48 AM
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Teach me
/r/seduction28/07/22 03:37 AM
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Just find a style that works for you.. even if you feel you don’t have the confidence to pull it off just try it out and you’ll grow into it
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:45 PM
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I also reaffirm that men are the gas pedal and women are the brakes. Wow i never thought about it this way.
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:18 PM
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Everyone is terrible man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:52 PM
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Being a virgin doesn’t stop you from developing good character. A good woman won’t care much about your sexual experience if you show her your true self.. of course not everyone will like you but don’t think that being a virgin is some kind of stain on you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:55 PM
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*than date a guy she’s not attracted to. Big difference there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:02 AM
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A breath of fresh air
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:12 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:27 AM
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Good job
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:24 PM
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Incapable is the word. This has happened to me countless times and like you, the women usually initiated.. it’s like all the signs are there but I just can’t pull the trigger
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:17 PM
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You’re still 19 tho
/r/seduction31/05/22 09:57 PM
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This is not a relationship. 9 months?? She’s keeping him around as an orbiter but he can’t see it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:32 PM
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Equal in what sense?
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:59 AM
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Oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:37 PM
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It still boils down to entitlement at the end of the day.. Regardless of of how much you feel her ego is inflated, she can still choose to do whatever with whomever she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:06 AM
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Story of my damn life. Just take it easy though
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:54 PM
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I suffer from this too.. once it gets to texts I lose my humour and personality. I think it’s a confidence thing and expecting texts to be the same as in person convos but they just can’t
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:51 AM
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It happened for you though didn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:58 AM
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If she preferred her ex then why is she with you and not with him.. she’s actively trying to keep you happy by keeping her past a secret to you… everyone has a past and the best you can do is enjoy what life gives you today
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:41 PM
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Bro stop asking questions you don’t want answers to. She’s with you now that’s what’s important
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:14 AM
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Makeup is a lie they tell
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:11 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:26 PM
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Same here. I’ve been boxing for roughly two years now and there are few things more humiliating than getting punched straight in the face. We all need to be knocked down a peg once in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:35 PM
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Women like a guy who doesn’t care what she thinks about him and does what he wants. This doesn’t necessarily mean he disrespects her, the man just does what he wants. Nice guys are always trying to please their woman and nobody respects a people-pleaser.. I don’t even respect women who always want to be in my good side, I just use them for what I want but a girl who has something of a backbone is always someone I see a future with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:41 AM
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I’d feel more manly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:33 PM
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Not necessarily gotten my heart broken but I’ve been played so many times by women. I have serious trust issues now with women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:27 AM
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Discipline is key but don’t be hard on yourself. When you’re trying to quit, count each smoke-free day as a win
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:07 AM
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Gonna save this
/r/seduction21/01/22 11:45 PM
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You broke her. Just keep doing what you're doing
/r/seduction11/06/21 06:32 AM
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I'm kinda the same but I'm slowly learning to live with it. It's hard seeing my mates get girls and get done with them so quickly but I've come to realize that it's just who I am. I kinda get jealous when my friends tell me of their escapades like how do you guys do it? I read a lot of content on here but at the end of the day it's just not who I am to "play" girls. Maybe it's because I'm too honest with women and don't try to play them they see me as a safe option but I don't mind. I am who I a…
/r/seduction10/06/21 10:47 PM
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I have this same problem. I have zero issues talking or even flirting but for some absurd reason, I have this feeling that I'll come across as creepy if I let a woman know how I feel about her. This is my single biggest challenge. It did this most recently at a party on Saturday. I approached a particular girl three times and after some small talk I just froze and kept looking at her and couldn't just say what was on my mind
/r/seduction10/06/21 10:39 PM
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Lol bro I'm Nigerian living in Germany and all I've seen is that marriage in the western world is basically a slave contract for 90% of men
/r/MGTOW10/06/21 09:42 AM
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Actually my dream car. Nice one!
/r/MGTOW08/06/21 08:25 PM
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I made the mistake last time I got a number. I thought she was way out of my league and kept texting her even though she had already agreed to go out with me. I overtexted till I stopped getting replies. Thankfully I learnt a lesson. EDIT: grammar, typo
/r/seduction29/05/21 09:50 PM
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I missed one today too and I've been beating myself up because of it. But you're right man slowly but surely.
/r/seduction28/05/21 08:07 PM
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Good job mate.
/r/seduction28/05/21 07:57 PM
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This describes my situation a lot. I get looks from girls literally everywhere I go but I'm either to much of a pussy to approach or when I talk to one girl, she smells the Beta in me within 5 seconds
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:02 AM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:05 PM
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This describes me. Hopefully not for long.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:36 AM
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Sadly true. My mum is very naturally beautiful and still has the same physique she had when she gave birth to me 25 years ago but she never wears makeup and her fashion choices are not the best. Till today i still get initially intimidated by women who dress very sexy.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:48 AM
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Well done!
/r/seduction18/06/20 07:25 AM
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This is gold.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:38 PM
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In the UK a woman cannot legally rape a man. That should tell inform you of their attitude towards the issue.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:39 AM
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Ugh shit. I was already feeling very proud of him till I read this. No matter how much of a frustrated Virgin anyone is, you gotta respect your fellow human beings and their bodies.
/r/seduction11/05/20 10:27 AM
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Best response
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:20 PM
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Awww shit... Too late
/r/seduction25/03/20 06:38 PM
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Wow do we work in the same place?
/r/seduction24/03/20 06:15 AM
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Facts
/r/seduction22/03/20 08:09 PM
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Gotta be straight with you bro, if you're truly about your shit, they won't lose interest instead they will distance themselves from the cockblocker. DISCLAIMER: I didn't read the original story. It was taken down.
/r/seduction10/01/20 11:02 AM
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Thanks for this
/r/seduction06/01/20 09:15 AM
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Man I thought I was the only one. We just gotta learn to be in the moment and occupy our minds with other things. Overthinking is a bitch.
/r/seduction31/12/19 11:54 AM
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Thank you so much. I really needed this.
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:17 AM
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Only halfway through but this is really good. Some stuff here I've used and are proven especially telling the girl that she looks nice but has a naughty side.
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:11 PM
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Happy Cake Day
/r/MGTOW14/08/19 07:15 AM
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Neat
/r/seduction27/07/19 09:21 PM
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Nice
/r/seduction27/07/19 06:08 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/seduction26/07/19 03:22 AM
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I just noticed I do most of these when I'm genuinely attracted to a girl. Like it's a subconscious/automatic thing lol. Edit: checked out your YouTube channel. Subscribed.
/r/seduction30/08/18 01:20 PM
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Typical. She wants to eat her cake and have it. She wants you to cave in so that she knows she has you wrapped around her finger. This is the time where your frame will need to be at the strongest it's ever been... ... Unless you really do love her and want to get back with her, then follow your heart.
/r/seduction29/08/18 09:15 PM
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Fucking hell man. That was a sad ending. I'm proud AF of you for being persistent and taking charge of the whole situation. Even when problems arose (the Lyft and the resistance from the girl), you still powered your way through. I think porn fucks with all of us man. I too get anxious when I'm in situations like that. It's almost like I'm trying to act out a script from Hollywood or something and it just starts to feel awkward and then the whole mood dies. Hopefully you'll learn from this and n…
/r/seduction19/08/18 05:09 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction19/08/18 04:54 PM
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Wow. I've followed you. Can't wait for the crazier part lol.
/r/seduction17/08/18 04:58 AM
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Must have been bloody exciting
/r/seduction15/08/18 09:47 AM
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This is good. Thanks
/r/seduction03/07/18 02:36 AM
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Man I have this same fucking problem too. I hope someone helps us out with this shit
/r/seduction19/06/18 06:13 PM
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Great advice. I'll try this out.
/r/seduction25/04/18 01:31 AM
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Lol I wanna be like you when I grow up.
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:24 AM
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King of sarcasm lol
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:13 AM
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If she agreed to a FWB situation then she was already kinda attracted to him... She was just waiting for him to make a move.
/r/seduction16/04/18 06:18 PM
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Wow. That's interesting. Do you have any experiences with sharing TRP with a bro?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 04:16 PM
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2! = 2
/r/seduction10/04/18 07:04 PM
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You're both introverted? Guess I gotta find another introverted friend to game with lol.
/r/seduction07/04/18 05:58 PM
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Try this https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8a53ul/how_to_challenge_girls_to_kiss_you_huge_succes/?utm_source=reddit-android
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:05 AM
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This is quite good
/r/seduction28/03/18 04:45 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction28/03/18 03:06 PM
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Wow from the very beginning of the video it was clear she was super into the dude.
/r/seduction27/03/18 01:54 PM
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Wow dude. You just experienced the power of being straightforward
/r/seduction26/03/18 06:29 PM
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Good read. Good game. Learnt a lot from your technique.
/r/seduction26/03/18 09:12 AM
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That's what matters... "The moment"
/r/seduction26/03/18 09:11 AM
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Wow congrats man. I discovered this sub about a month ago and this your post has really encouraged me.
/r/seduction26/03/18 03:25 AM
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Hahaha. I'm black but I'd rather die than fuck a fat girl
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 02:36 AM
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Wow thanks
/r/seduction23/03/18 02:34 AM
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I'm also kinda going through this. Whenever she starts acting stupid I just ignore her till she comes back to me. I've fallen for that shit too many times in the past. I ain't got time for games.
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:05 PM
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Sure helps when you're rich and famous. Still lots to learn from this though.
/r/seduction22/03/18 05:02 PM
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Pornography, Masturbation, Orgasm.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 04:11 PM
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She wants to evaluate your SMV and see if you're capable of pulling chicks.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 03:57 PM
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Prostitutes will probably help you develop your skills in bed but that's it. Your ability to attract women will stay the same because the whore is attracted to your wallet.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 03:55 PM
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If she eventually oversteps her boundary, make sure you aggressively put her in her place and then continue to behave like you normally did. Kinda like how a Lion roars at his cubs when they get too annoying while playing with him.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 05:00 AM
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I relate to this a lot too. I've messed up at escalating things at the right time too. When dealing with women, timing and momentum are very important.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 12:57 AM
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