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Overpaid marketing account managers, HR assistants
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:05 PM
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No. U
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:04 PM
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They should be eliminated. Disgusting animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:29 PM
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So many women are just absorbing all the calories in the world. Like leave some for the rest of us normal people. Fucking whales.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:26 PM
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Morning, 7 eggs, 2 pieces of toast, a bunch of ham. Yogurt lunch. 2x Mcdonalds + cottage cheese first dinner: lean cuisine bullshit second dinner: Trader joes orange chicken. And a bunch of snacks throughout the day like granola, popcorn, chocolate, power bars, glazed donuts, DAILY.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:25 PM
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I fucking hate women who eat like 8,000 calories a day as if they were Erling Haaland. Bitch, you sit on your ass 8 hours at work, 1 hour in the car, and another couple hours watching Saltburn. You're not fucking doing anything. Eat to your lifestyle. Eat a fucking carrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:21 PM
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Yes, yes. All this has been covered by Leil Downdes book "Undercover Sex Signals".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:31 PM
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No, it doesn't. RP tries to beat self improvement and trying to get total novices to read cues of interest as well as a veteran.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:30 PM
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My take. Blue pill: "Willful, blissful ignorance. Unwilling, or unable, to comprehend the truth and it's consequences. Uninterested in disturbing the status quo" Red pill: "Intensely curious about learning socially disruptive truths, upon discovery wishes to share and have conversations about knock on effects of said truths" Purple pill: "Acknowledges there are disruptive truths but minimizes it's importance and impact, has no interest in spreading the truth and is uninterested in disrupting oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:20 PM
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To Adam he said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You must not eat from it,’ “Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat food from it all the days of your life. It will produce thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the plants of the field. By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return.” Praise…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:49 PM
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You mean as an unsuccessful guy, what age is the tipping point in which the lack of dating success solidifies into dating/mating/arrested development? Anything past 22 marks some sort of irreversible social/romantic/developmental regression, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:24 PM
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Kink inequity. How charming lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:08 AM
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Not just this worth diminishing thing that suddenly just breaks people and it's weird to think of it like that. Look, like it or not, it changes you. That's a fact. Most are ok with that. A good portion of men aren't. It's to me the difference between fast food/a Michelin star eating experience.. both are awesome. I disagree. Both are not awesome. The Michelin star one is. I have never eaten Taco Bell, and the one time I ate at White Castle I threw up. And so with sex, most middle to normal girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:01 PM
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Also how is sex so transformative for women but not so for men? It is transformative, but in a different way. Ultimately I'm willing to bet the answer is "hormones", but I think it's our differing mindset, tolerances, motivation and agenda. A man can love a woman, have sex with 100 women after, and have no change in love for that first woman. Imagine a woman who loves a man. But then she gets penetrated by 100 other men. Her feelings will change magnitudes more than a similarly experienced man. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:43 PM
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Not to mention their infallible, special to them only "intuition".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:28 PM
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What resource is ran out? This is the deep question that many men try to answer honestly, and women get offended by. It's something like "you". Your selectiveness and discernment. Every time you fuck a guy, every time, it leaves behind a fingerprint. A few fingerprints on something someone values, no big deal. So many as to mar and transform what you were before you engaged in so much activity, you no longer are the "you" you once were before the experiences. Your internal sense of sex before a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:27 PM
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the group of women involved in hookup culture are drunk No they often aren't. In my experience, they are often horny and looking for a roll in the sack and will invite you to their bedroom if you communicate the right things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:18 PM
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Man here. Dumbass question. I've encountered pussy that can fit a literal bowling ball. Met one in which my pinky finger was too big. And everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:17 PM
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If they start doing it to you, it's 99% they just want to vent and for you to listen. They are not looking to hear that you also feel similarly because x,y, and z. They don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:48 PM
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In my old age, I'm of two minds about it. 90% grind grind grind and make that bag. But 10% you have to go out and see what the normal/dumb/popular/socially loved people are doing and try to be a part of the scene, or at least observe it in person. A guy has to learn to be "fun" like that if it doesn't come naturally. Not doing it in your 20s is like trying to learn a second language for the first time in your 50s. It will always sound beginner, unnatural, childlike.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:20 PM
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I don't believe this place is toxic. I don't think most hold delusional and wishful thinking views of what the situation is, boots on the ground, in the dating and mating game in 1st tier, US cities. I also believe most women don't know (and honestly don't care), the sexuality distribution of men between at all demographics. They seem to take a hard stance of, it's none of your business, mind your business, don't compare. That dismissive and conversation killing attitude really enrages sexually/…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:11 PM
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100% agree. I wasted a lot of time in my 20s. I can give you a rundown today of the women I encountered then. None of them were it for me. Many have fucked up lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:09 PM
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It's not that once you have some bulge in your wallet "getting chicks will be easy". It's that the work that goes from having no/little money to a good amount of money requires a journey of learning new skills, maturing, dealing with other people (many of which have zero interest in helping you achieve your agenda). The hope is that this maturation process changes you, for the better. And once you are "better" and have a good amount of money, you'll use that money to do "fun" things with. You wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:08 PM
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Or matcha green flags depending on your agenda = )
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:01 PM
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LOL. No one wants to be a sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:00 PM
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lol. You jest but for the amount of info per person, it really is a lot. And it's extremely telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:50 PM
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The West Elm Caleb type. Not too threatening by working a very middle of the road job. Is productive but "living life" too. In my neck of the woods, this guy is account manager, tall and lanky. He likes to think of himself as artistic. In appearance, he looks like what the next step of 2010 hipster children were supposed to look like. Anything ironic is gone, it's mostly earnest living now. Everything is intentional, everything in their lives ought to be "in alignment" now. They have the reasoni…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:37 PM
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It means plenty, and they do. You guys haven't figured it out. If you're waiting for the day to have everything confirmed by perfect data collection and massive pool sizes, life is going to pass you by. To be effective in life, you have to realize that a lot of this dating and mating tracks like economics. And that leads to the second point; there are two types of people. Those that can accurately extrapolate from incomplete data sets and ... If you believe the above to be incorrect, I'm fascina…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:00 PM
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But it's not garbage in. I didn't make up what women have done, they chose what they chose. The proof is in the pudding, it is self evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:17 PM
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You’ve simply taken the type of woman you go for and incorrectly extrapolated that onto all women. No I haven't. I've taken demographics and types of women WELL outside what "I go for". These are my personal experiences as well as the experiences of many first hand friends. Let’s not pretend you were running a peer reviewed, controlled experiment here to extrapolate data from. Let's not pretend my observations and the things I have unearthed have no validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:08 PM
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These TikTok’s y’all watch and then project onto an entire population are trapping you in cycles of toxicity. That are ultimately to your own detriment not ours. I have never downloaded Tic Tacs. Look, what I know spans decades. And I made sure I was as objective as I can be throughout the years, always going back and re examining how things went down, to be better dispassionate about how people's decisions played a part on how things transpired. My approach has been the opposite of immature, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:07 PM
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Women are stating they aren't a monolith. I'm saying they functionally are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:22 PM
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This is the fallacy. What you describe is a type of women, not the entire population of women. You chase/are shown women of a certain type and obviously you think "they're all like that". Some days I wish it were. But it's not. Outside my own first hand experiences, of all kinds, with women, I have detailed info and my friends, and my guy's friend's personal experiences. Said simply, my sample pool of women is rather large and complex. An outlier, fine maybe not. But a minority in the current me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:21 PM
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No, but I can produce dozens of real world examples, complete with many details like names, places, times, things said/txt/ recorded media, email chains, and so much more. On many women, of diverse ethnic/socioeconomic strata. Taking a step back, it's alarming how many lives I could blow up with just a few attachments and hitting send.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:19 PM
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Thoughts? Poor women need to outsource their vetting process, refusing to recognize that every time they let an outside entity (especially the government) meddle in their personal lives, it's another level of inefficient waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:08 PM
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Women aren’t monoliths, But that's just the rub. You may not be monolith's, but you gals aren't as unique and special as you think you are. Meaning, even with subtle to gross variations of intelligence and temperament, the majority of y'all's behavior is still within a narrow band, and knowing a modicum of superficial details about you, your behavior can be predicted; are you then not functionally a monolith? It's funny this OP post came up as I was thinking about this in the shower. Women see m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:59 PM
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... ... ... More than ever, we are all our own individual gods. The issue is that the large majority don't know how to wield that power, and to wield it responsibly. Worse, a great many would prefer to be servant than a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:29 PM
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No, it won't. The world will continue to be dominated by people who are emotionally maladjusted outbreeding those that are better emotionally adjusted but aren't Machiavellian enough to not be taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:10 PM
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LOL. Are you always this charming? smiley face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:04 PM
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But I want you to wear red gorgeous = )
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:03 PM
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It's purple. And Royal Blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:59 PM
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Totally grape. One did not agree to a sexual encounter with something they did not want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:46 PM
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and women aren't nearly as adept conversationally as they think they are. Say this louder so that the women in the back can hear. They are not more "natural conversationalists" as so many like to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:18 PM
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Yes this is on Bumble. Nothing in my profile relates to my work, I made sure the Bio, my pictures, or any "likes" have nothing to do with work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:17 PM
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If that's true, I usually follow up with "Im a part time chicken fryer".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:06 PM
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Ok , you don't like the color question, how about "What are you currently passionate about? ".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:03 PM
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How dare they ask that before asking anything more personal about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:02 PM
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Imagine being this triggered by a question anyone anywhere tends to ask when they just met you. I know on this surface it seems like an innocuous, but I urge you to think a little deeper. Why this question above things more telling, more vibrant and more interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:55 PM
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LOL as if a man has any control on which women choose to match with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:54 PM
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These women just can't help it. Literally unable to ask interesting questions, like what my favorite color is, what I think about the Roman Empire, what music I like, it's "what do you do for pay/work/career". What a fucking turn off. Asking me that on literally the first few messages, bitch, you're near a perfect stranger to me. What makes you think I'm going to gab about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:35 PM
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Conversations like this lose a lot of meaning when you consider the fact that there is a sizeable group of reasonable, rational, well educated and informed men that will have very different ideas of how they'd like things to look like that well be extremely divergent from your/this take.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:22 PM
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Or ass burgers. Or emotionally underdeveloped, thanks in large part to emotionally distant, neglectful and/or immature guardians.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:25 PM
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Think about it. She has probably dropped little comments here and there throughout the relationship. Unpack what her internal world is, what her priorities appear to be, what her motivations are, how emotionally mature and developed she is and what kind of dynamic emerged from her because of the way she was raised, educated and indoctrinated. The answer is in front of you, you'll just have to take a minute to uncover it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:24 PM
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lol. If only self made correlated with dating success. There are tons of men who are financial successes in their own right that are hopelessly clueless about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:22 PM
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Money means a lot of things. But if one really starts to believe money is often a reward for having "achieved" anything, one is in for a world of hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:16 PM
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You'd be surprised what kind of guys frequent this subreddit, if assets, the number on the bank accounts and people that can be called up for a favor are points to be taken account. I promise you my number is greater than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:14 PM
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It becomes funny when you dump money and wealth onto a woman who was born and raised without it. Their life decisions after having money is truly fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:59 PM
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and luck. A whole heaping load of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:58 PM
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Money is often a reward for having achieved significant status. You need to be really careful with this type of reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:58 PM
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After deep diving into so much RP and RP adjacent material, looking back on all my romantic/sexual relationships and some highlight rejections; so much made sense. My internal emotional and lived experience is rarely pertinent to whether a woman will feel similarly. One is alone in their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:45 PM
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I agree it will not change them. But it will disabuse everyone from the idea that somehow women's preferences and selection criteria is somehow more virtuous or morally superior to men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:18 PM
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wow. And for doing what, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:14 PM
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As an old geezer I often regret the things not taken rather than the ones that I did but didn't work out. Keep swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:49 PM
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Catch a bipolar girl in her manic phase, after drinking one good scotch, and you remember why life is good and fun! God, they are so GAME.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:10 PM
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they complain about loss of money, options, time and control over their kids All legitimate and tangible complaints. The loss of love and romance are funny; women can wake up 10 years later and completely change their minds about their alleged "love". A man, in service to this "love", sacrifices his optionality, usually at the peak window of his attractiveness and value to other women, for this flimsy feeling from a single particular woman. You must admit, it sounds like a really bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:11 PM
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The importance of social skills is I think appropriately rated in the current times. All one has to do is see how many content creators there are, a lot of knowledge isn't new or groundbreaking, it's just presented with personality and individual charm. The creators who have that "it" gain a following. I can't speak to Andrew Tate, never seen or heard any of his content . At first glance tho, I don't see anything special. Like, what has he done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:19 PM
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I would go a step further. Look at women who are famous, financially secure and wealthy, look at the men they chase/select for relationships. That tells you 99% of what you need to know, when a woman is secure and the world is her playground.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:57 PM
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And yet you sure all do behave similarly, to such an extent that it's almost predictable. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:53 PM
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It may be. But it isn't reasonable. Humans are, afterall, a social and feel-y species. Also yes you can "unsee" something with enough secular introspection and meditation. God, you people are so fucking delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:25 PM
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It happens more frequently than you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:24 PM
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Wise words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:16 PM
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No. I had hundreds of rejections pre windows 98.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:16 PM
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Yeah. I agree with you. But it hits different for those that have had dozens, hundreds, thousands of rejections of all sizes, for years and years. You're asking for rejected men to have incredibly thick skins. Super human skin. Everyone has an ego that can only take so many punches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:12 PM
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Because you get to do "stuff" with pretty girls, then they call up someone else to go fill their hole that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:06 PM
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Or their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:04 PM
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nor do they want guys that want casual sex. That's false. The small windows of times that women usually don't want casual sex, but then suddenly do, they indulge. They fuck to their hearts content, whether its one time or for a decade. Is a sexually/romantically unsuccessful guy, one that has been unsuccessful for a long time, is he supposed to be all smiley and act like it doesn't bother him? Is he supposed to stick his head in the ground? What has been seen can't be unseen, why do women have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:02 PM
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PPD, and women at large, have over complicated sex and relationships. Every interested man that approaches is fundamentally asking the same two questions. "What is your price/obstacle to fucking" and "What is your price/obstacle to an on going relationship". That's it. That's all it ever is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:58 PM
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I really wonder what will fill up that power vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:38 PM
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"any acceptable". Would you believe that many women seem acceptable to most men. There's nothing "desperate" about that, it's most women being good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:15 PM
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That's like toe dipping in a pool. When you're ready to wade in the ocean, go search on youtube Dr. Orion Taraban.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:32 PM
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I have to agree. It all starts with mental stimulation and ends in delivering the goods at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:30 PM
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women seem to sense desperation a man's desire for something serious with any acceptable woman from average men and are often turned off by it. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:45 PM
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Luck. Or lack of it. Sometimes momentum can play a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:36 PM
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You haven't been to Nashville recently, have you? EDIT: Also, look at how the mainstream uses soft language used by the CEO of Hinge to talk about this issue in the NY Post. I chuckle with "it's a lack of 'reciprocation' ". Lol, that's one way of putting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:29 PM
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My Take On PPD: No One Is Innocent Blameless FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:26 PM
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I think the answer to this is easy. Bottom line, a woman has to feel, on her own, organically, that she is over the moon with you AND AS SUCH is willing to entertain things she wouldn't otherwise entertain to make the guy happy and/or is excited to do things with the current guy. Failure to be in that state confirms that the relationship is tenuous at best because it is built on something other than "i'm just so crazy about you and I will at least try to do things that please you".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:50 PM
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This. A thousand times this. Women make up all these rules, lists, boxes a man needs to check off but it's all bullshit. Women have overcomplicated sex. It simply is... Right place, right time. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:46 PM
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cishetmale As a fooking wat? Just say man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:30 PM
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It must be miserable waking up being a woman. They do all this shit, and think they have done nothing wrong. What a bizarre, primitive way of observing life around you. Honestly don't know how women can look themselves in the mirror and not melt with guilt. Regret. Shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:47 PM
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My guess is 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:35 PM
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Lol i know. He's such a plodder, but the women out here make him look as graceful as princess Odette in swan lake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:14 PM
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Log in yourself! They are BIG. Like fuckkkk, it would be supremely embarrassing to be seen out and about with them. How do they live with themselves like that? If they would just put the fucking fork down, you don't have to eat every fucking cheese curd on the table Jen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:07 PM
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Another round of swiping on Bumble. You know what really gets my fucking goat. These women with such abrasive Bios, and you look at their listed 5'5" height, and then you look at the photos and realize she probably outweighs most goal line plunge, NFL running backs. Like yes I'm horny and love women, but it feels terrible messaging a girl who is heavier than D'onta Foreman. And I bet her yards per carry sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:03 PM
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Deep dive into the topic of Narcissism. After that, look at women again. Pause and think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:52 PM
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May I suggest this book.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:47 PM
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Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:46 PM
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I'm not quiet. I read that and laughed out loud at how stupid that guy is. Which is a poor reflection on this woman's sexual selectivity. She really knew how to choose a childish man to fuck. Good job her...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:42 PM
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Who cares more about sex? The majority of men and a small subset of women. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:38 PM
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Because I value novelty and newness. Also, many women's sexual window of being open to exciting and different things quickly closes, so to keep my window of enjoying experimental things open for as long as possible, it requires multiple women. If one is not available because of life, obligations, health, etc, the others might be open and ready to enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:31 PM
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The conquistadors of old, the American frontier pioneers have demonstrated this fact hundreds of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:35 PM
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I disagree. At it's root, the RP is about freedom in it's many forms. Chiefly, avoiding having to pay for other people's unsustainable way of life, through taxation and state power to inflict negative consequences if the common man does not adhere to the ever changing society narrative of things, that happens to change as often as the wind does. As to your part of As I touched on before, I suspect this talk about bodycounts, cock carousels and "the wall" is in part a rejection of a woman's auton…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:59 PM
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boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:32 PM
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Honestly, we’re at a point now where the bar is so low for most men that women being out of shape or sluts doesnt even matter to them anymore Because they are the only ones left that are willing to "play ball". You can't blame men for the pool of women open to anything. That's on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:14 PM
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It could be for a million reasons not related to wanting to be with "you". Maybe her longtime fWb she was hoping to commit, finally ends it. Maybe she's tired of being alone and you are a "safe" choice. She likes the idea of the lifestyle you can provide her without her liking you. She's finally ready to check off the monogamous relationship box and you are the first one she sees. There's a million and one reasons why women select the beta bux the way they do. Ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:06 PM
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Yeah it rambled and went the way of a RPG type game of stats. But I get the gist of it. This "min-maxing" idea isn't new. I liken it very much like the depiction shown in the movie "The Great Gatsby" starred by Leonardo Dicaprio. It only pops up 2 or 3 times in the film but Gatsby writes in a daily journal. The idea that if a man can just be 1% better today than he was yesterday, and be 1% better the next day, over time the changes are exponential. Being 1% better for 30 days straight means you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:03 PM
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The problem with latching on to the first "hot" woman that likes you is that the guy is horribly underdeveloped, extremely inexperienced with women in general while that hot women has had a wealth of experiences with men in a variety of contexts. The " intersexual social power/social understanding" dynamic is too imbalanced. And most women don't enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:51 PM
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This only becomes a "problem" to the majority of women when a few men, who were previously unsuccessful with women for much of their lives, chance upon a window of time when they get the opportunity to exercise some sexual options. Women will shriek "grow up" or "that's so immature" which men will point to as the height of hypocrisy as those very same women enjoyed that environment when they were younger, and it never happened at all for those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:49 PM
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Loved that one. Before I was able to really articulate when I was young, I was able to catch when a woman had a crush/had sex with a guy without them having officially dated or anything known socially to the group. And it happened in the episode, and I thought it was acted to perfection. It's that laugh. Once you hear it, you can't un-hear it. It's when a woman does that laugh that makes no sense, it's preceded after a guy says something but what he says isn't a joke, it was intended to be funny…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:22 PM
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I don't think it is a good answer. In fact it's a worse answer now that we have witnessed the aggregated data of first hand experience from many men. In the old days, if man had the nerve to ask about another man's dating experience, he was limited to a few trusted sources. Oftentimes those sources themselves were limited to men who were most likely similar to himself. "That's the way it is" would look very different in that group compared to a more varied group of men. Once of the greatest thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:02 PM
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Why all the whining that it’s not forced upon you by daddy government? I think it's more the "openness" of revealing bad actors. It's socially more damaging to the reputation, it's not something you can squirm your way out of, or talk your way into making it look alright and not a big deal. A test like that confirming you were fucking around when you aren't "supposed" to is a nail in the coffin. There's no talk that can undo that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:51 PM
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I was thinking more: The entire history of you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:47 PM
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This is a dangerous and incorrect line of thinking. I remember in my 20s meeting a Taiwanese girl who came to the states to learn English. I worked at the school, she was gorgeous! She had the body of a brazilian girl, and it made no sense at all as all I ever saw were other taiwanese girls being stick thin. I befriended her and discovered she had REALLY poor self perception/self esteem about her big butt and large tits and curly-ish hair. She shared with me how things were difficult for her as …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:45 PM
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This reminds me of that Black Mirror episode where a man finds out his girlfriend/wife? has been cheating on him by going through her memory device. Also in the remake movie "Girl with the Dragon tattoo" with Daniel Craig, his character has an ongoing sexual relationship with his boss?, a married woman whose husband seems aware of the situation. I think the future will be of women more openly being married and having sexual side pieces be more socially open ( instead of the "downlow" as it has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:37 PM
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This reminds me of that episode in "Black Mirror" in which a woman's boyfriend (husband) dies and she receives a robot modeled after him. Superiorly so. It is unsurprisingly that women will select robots that most closely resemble the men they want most, or who made the most lasting impact in their lives. A woman's desire is always limited to what could've been vs what could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:33 PM
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It definitely leaves these type of men ignorant to how women behave sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:01 PM
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It doesn't get "better". You are left with a pool of women who have mental health problems, lots of baggage, were the type of women who never would consider you for anything romantic/sexual in their 20s, are poor or woefully unprepared for even older age, somehow have MORE demands and "standards" at an older age vs when they were younger, Simply put, it's a terrible deal. If you were a wallflower/late bloomer and do manage to make something of yourself; meaning you are top % in multiple hierarch…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:34 PM
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He was up until that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:28 PM
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Completely agree. It took a classically educated therapist with on field experience, and plenty of clinical practical experience, to be so well versed in the subject matter and atmosphere to fully shut up the most fervent of deniers and detractors. Women simply cannot deny the truth and knowledge in the way he presents because they would then have to formulate a compelling alternative explanation. And that would be a TALL task.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:28 PM
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It's worse than that. Doing something "not right"(according to you) doesn't even exclude him from being rewarded. Women incentivize men. Like monkeys, we see the behaviors and consequences of those behaviors of others. Why can't women understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:23 PM
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Next level insight. It's as if he is taking a therapist based approach into all the old "redpill" truths and demonstrating it through more accepted language with a lot less jargon while also highlighting the need for more male therapists addressing uniquely male problems. It is incredible! The arguments and statements are so well presented and above reproach in tone and vocabulary, that I have not seen A SINGLE woman be able to refute any of his content. And he has quite a bit of content to scru…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:19 PM
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Clearly basic kindness is not necessary to start a sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:07 PM
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That's one path.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:13 PM
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Perhaps the silver lining to women's extreme/contradictory mate selection MO; it's made man think deeply, truly deeply, about the meaning of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:10 PM
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The last woman who claimed to be demisexual sent me a flood of nude/completely wide open sexually photos the next day we txted and we had never physically met. Women just use words and they use them in the way those words are intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:01 PM
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Why does a man have to tippy toe with women? Aren't women so fierce and strong? One would think they can handle things being direct and not sugar coated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:59 PM
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Completely agree with you, but it's remarkable that men have to reach such a high level of legalese to deal with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:56 PM
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I would tweak your statement to "It's better to not be so eagerly forthright with women rather than lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:55 PM
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But we generally are the same. No, we generally are not. Our sex drives, motivations, agendas, our wants, what we desire, our drives and schedule of mating and dating couldn't be more different. And all the knock on effects from those things further divide our experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:43 PM
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No. Our realities are greatly colored by the hormones that flood our biological systems. Men's and women's hormone profiles couldn't be more different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:20 PM
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No. Short answer: Read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:19 PM
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He's trying to describe a social atmosphere when everyone takes the stance of "i don't owe you anything". It creates a negative social environment in which everyone is out for themselves. Socially speaking, society can go very down, very fast if everyone adopts that stance. There is no warmth, or conversation, everyone becomes ruthlessly efficient, or do not survive (financially, socially, alliances). It's a social "The walking dead" scneario.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:45 PM
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It's either one of two things; We're all humans, so the core requirement ought to be the same across the board or; The cat decides what milk is good, not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:25 PM
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It really should boil down to those 3 things, but the majority of women overcomplicate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:24 PM
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Forget reproduce. They can live and die without ever having experienced sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:01 PM
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There’s a difference between “we were friends and then I developed feelings” and “I wanted to fuck from the beginning so I became friends to try to worm my way in.” Can women really tell the difference between the two scenarios in real time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:01 PM
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I'll have to stop you right there. I have fucked a few Drs and nurses in Mount Sinai, Columbia Pres. New York Pres, St. Luke's Roosevelt hospitals... I still remember all the little secret spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:34 PM
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While I am not a doctor, I have been inside enough of them, and nurses and PAs, to attest to the wacky world of medical peoples. The high stress, shit schedules, shit prestige, ego masturbation, it's all there. It may sound sexist, but I don't fucking trust a young female surgeon for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:32 PM
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No. The RP praxeology gives the unsuccessful man a roadmap and clear lens towards understanding all the rejections and his sexual/unromantic ineffectiveness he has endured in life. All the soft/coded language, all the social lies, low energy rejections and ignored behavior. It all comes into focus. Clueless, naïve and ignorant men do go through an anger phase ( and make no mistake, this phase is mostly legitimate ). But it dissipates with the passage of time and more understanding in how women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:07 PM
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I disagree, the great majority of men are incredibly myopic and don't try to put their best foot forward while using time tested techniques and strategies to become more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:28 PM
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Jean-Luc got real uppity when he was a shown an alternate life in which he was a low level, subservient man leading a life with no passion nor imagination! Interesting how one's views change abruptly with the changing of life position.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:26 PM
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Men should always work to better themselves, because life is hard and they are going to have to meet it head on, with or without a woman. But I have also become deeply pessimistic about the prospects for most sexless men. I honestly believe that for most of them, there is probably no actionable solution. Reading this reminds me that maybe I should soften my stance on these guys who spend 40,ooo USD on insta girls just because they like them. There's no way in hell these types of guys who throw m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:25 PM
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It's magical "The Secret" wishful type of fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:36 PM
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Has anyone figured out what the end game scam is of matching with women on bumble, they eager to get to talking on whatsapp, sending suggestive photos, but then disappearing out of thin air? It's now happened 3 times within a month. I don't get the angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:52 PM
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That face is straight up scary. Real " I was once Beyonce now I'm trying to look like Kim Kardashian" vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:33 PM
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Exactly. This subreddit is the complaining part of it. Also the complaint after putting in all the work and realizing it didn't move the needle much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:30 PM
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It gets even more depressing in your 40s. So many nail technicians/estheticians, part time cashiers, low libido women. Or super high libido Reiki practitioners. Occasionally you'll see a great gal, but they happen to live in 2nd and 3rd tier cities that are at least 75+ miles away. It feels extra great when you realize you worked on yourself so much that you are genuinely a great catch, but the pool of women who are available and interested in you never would have been interested in you years ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:50 PM
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Yes your missing the bigger point. The society we live in today is one in which technology has put woman's natural selectiveness and horny pursuit of select men into EXTREME overdrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:07 PM
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They really don't. And even a blind man can see the complaints regular men have been having, where legitimate psychologists are chiming in on the current atmosphere of men failing with women. You can look up all of Dr. Orion Taraban content on youtube. After watching plenty of it, I can vouch that everything I have seen is so 100% above board.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:48 PM
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tell that to all my shortish fWbs/exes with plain to below average faces, but incredibly big and perfect tits and bodies. I'm talking comically big for the rest of their proportions, F cup + on dress size 4-12 size bodies. Always hovering around 5'2"~5'5"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:42 PM
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most guys do well with women That is demonstrably not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:39 PM
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Men push back on Swifties and astrology, oh who wants to hang with those guys who feel the need to speak up about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:39 PM
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Women don't want to be challenged about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:26 PM
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You're right. But you really prefer to hang with guys who don't question or challenge obviously stupid things, or to hold strong opinions about things, just being a shell of a man, going with the flow and not speaking his mind? That's incredibly ... dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:26 PM
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Women value fame over anything else. She became the fame monster. While I didn't love Stefani Germanotta initially, the girl can sing. There's talent in her voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:24 PM
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Bryan Adams > Swift any day of the fucking week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:22 PM
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The cat decides which milk is best. Not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:53 PM
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Agreed. And yet many women on PPD include the workplace as a potential arena for a man to romantically/sexually get women. I'm a firm believer of "don't shit where you eat". I don't give a fuck if I'm "no fun" at work, I'm not jeopardizing my bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:06 PM
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Trick question. They never are. I think you have to go into commiting to a singular woman in a similar way to purchasing your first piece of property. You don't do it because it's a good move (99% it's not) and you don't try to convince yourself that it is a smart financial decision (99% of the time it isn't); you go into because you simply want to. It isn't because of her. You do it for you to live out whatever little fantasy you have in your head about love or making her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:04 PM
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There is no way he could've known it was welcome when he said that. Totally a go big or go home risk move.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:59 PM
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I wanted to share one of my most embarrassing moments. When I was a teen, my cousin was involved in model/pageantry type events and they were big. Reluctantly I was dragged to them and I saw a girl I crushed on HEAVILY. She wasn't the sexiest, but she was the most beautiful in my eyes. AND she was all smart and shit. At first glance it appeared she was interested in me too, asking things about myself, suggesting that I go talk to her mom about getting her phone number ( apparently her mom had he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:13 PM
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No. Social media platforms enabled all women, from the ugly to the stunning, to have more potential access to limitless men that would otherwise not be possible through conventional means of physical proximity. It has confused most women into thinking that they have legitimate relationship access to men they really fancy at a gut level. Funnily enough they are mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:53 PM
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There's going to be an intermediate period of a lot of friction in the META. Men are going to splinter even harder into two camps, to get the bag, get fame, build body, focus on everything but women, and a second group that will resolutely give up, either out loud or quietly. They will retreat to games, gambling, drink, drugs, entertainment and anything that can numb existence, they will do the minimum to survive. Of course there will be the smaller group of men that do well with women, and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:45 PM
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After viewing yet another Orion Taraban video on youtube, I can definitively say that he is the final word on PPD of what's going on in the dating world today. He basically answers all the questions PPD regularly posts. Interestingly enough, even though it appears he himself is not a RP type of guy, nearly all his conclusions are thoughts that were chessed out by the RP community years ago. The thought experiment has been completed, and we are witnessing the proof in real time. The conversation …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:37 PM
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When the D is permanently swollen everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:33 PM
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Heard. Lately I am very impressed with the psychologist Orion Taraban (plenty of videos on his insights on youtube) for the practical psychology of women and men-women dynamics. His videos are so tight, none of his points can be denied or countered convincingly. I'm also impressed through the maturation and sharing of Real Social Dynamics Todd. His insights into the practical MO of real life in person behavior is second to none. He knows what he's talking about and is able to articulate all of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:25 PM
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You don't date them. They get called up late night when your vibrator has run out of juice and don't have any batteries left.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:19 PM
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Don't be obtuse. Of course if you start talking to regular normal people who aren't well versed in ANY subject and start throwing out specialized jargon, they are going to think you are talking nonsense. Just because they think it's nonsense doesn't make it so... It's not about communicating any of this to the commoner. 99% They haven't even thought of any of this. But go to a family court, a divorced man, a sexually and romantically unsuccessful guy after graduating college, get him to open up …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:06 PM
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There's a saying that when the student is ready, the master will finally appear. They are no students or people interested in what the patterns are now, just parroting nonsensical bullshit, or asking extremely basic questions that have been answered already. Not only answered but dissected to the nth levels, with various underpinnings already explained. This is just tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:58 PM
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What so you can dye your hair blue, move to New Orleans and fuck every tourist in the french quarter, while living a miserable high crime, low income existence? Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:45 PM
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It's a difference with little distinction. Why don't you all get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:43 PM
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I don't know about classic, but from my own first hand dick experience... I have fucked married women, both on the downlow and with hubby being a knowing cuck. I have had encounters with women who have claimed to be monogamous and never cheat, love their boyfriends... have sex with me. A married woman wanted me to breed her with the thought that she would raise our child with her husband. I am the one that got nervous and didn't fully go through with it. I have known 2nd hand with reliable recor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:43 PM
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No I am not married... never have. Normal you say? I do wonder what the private sex lives of these normal people in your group indulge in. I have a suspicion that would be quite eye opening for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:29 PM
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It's the societal norm that matters. Let's not kid ourselves, there's the low intelligent garbage, and the real educated intelligentsia that moves the norms at the highest levels. That latter is the one that most here are interested, not La-sha twerking at a Dollar General parking lot in Indiana.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:28 PM
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LOL for what? To pool the wool over my eyes again, living in ignorance , a mind too feeble for passion and imagination? You can stay in that gray, suboptimal life. I have seen colors, I won't go back to that low key communist bullshit, fascist ******s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:24 PM
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They are the norm in select circles, highly educated, decent income, living in major metropolitan cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:22 PM
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PS1. Tomb Raider, Resident Evil, FF7, Tony Hawk ProSkater. PS1 is a fucking legend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:20 PM
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I think I'm about to leave PPD soon. Apparently the RP are only boys under the age of 15. Apparently all the documented, and lived experiences of so many men, in so many socioeconomic strata of society, don't count. I just can't anymore. A lot of you all are like legit sexual Trumpers, denying reproducible fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:19 PM
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They are very real. I have encountered them in all sorts of manner, in many different cities, big and small, around the western world. I have met their friends and circles. They are as real as birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:17 PM
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Bored, horny. She's mad at her bf. Sometimes you get lucky without ever knowing the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:12 PM
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You get called that either way irrespective of approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:58 PM
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Hookup culture is a great idea for the individual, spoiled by the majority of people who do not know, or understand, how to wield and positively experience sexual power. On the societal level it is a terrible signal. It is the canary in the coal mine that the current society is on the whole in a decline. There was a great recent episode on the show "Julia" (HBO) which depicts the life of Julia Child as she hit stardom with her cooking show (Strong recommend, it's a fun little show). In an effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:58 PM
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"single despite best efforts not to be" I love this!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:46 PM
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I have to agree. I know the first statement may sound like a bit of defeatism, or maybe an inherent lack of quality that your younger self had. While that may be true for most guys, and you do manage once you are older, you'll realize while it feels amazing in the moment; that window of times that you would've appreciated it more has passed. Without any motivated incentives, women are the final arbiters of which guy is sexually appealing enough for them to want to engage in it with. In that resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:10 PM
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No. Apparently being too direct can make a woman, who would otherwise be open to a sexual encounter, reject a man for being so outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:57 PM
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Everywhere. At school, at work, major urban metropolitan cities, small podunk towns of population 60,000 or less. I agree everyone has control over whether continuing associating with suboptimal social circles, but I disagree with the coded premise that people have control of what social circles exist in their proximity. Participation or not, what's in your vicinity, is in your vicinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:53 PM
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Good looking men in comparison don’t need to go through as much effort. Whatever it is you're smoking, I want some! You are really off base. Consider Cristiano Ronaldo, a very famous footballer. He had to recontruct his whole mouth (teeth alignment, gums) and have CHEEK and other device implants into his face and he is quite handsome. George Clooney needed a surgical procedure near his eye to get rid of excess skin, a highly dangerous area to cut, especially back when he had it done. Consider th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:25 PM
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Getting into my old age, I feel that the above quote is incomplete and missing something very critical. I believe it's the type of thing that goes over the head of sexually/romantically unsuccessful guys. Not only do you watch what they do and not what they say, one must never bring up their discrepancy of thoughts and actions into focus. It never brings anything positive. One would think it would be constructive, or at least a funny detail to poke fun at girls with, but they really lose their s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:59 PM
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Some guy with a big dick fucking other people's wives is going to be pretty lonely. This reminds me of a guy I befriended in Washington DC a long time ago. Lonely is not the word I'd use to describe his life. It's been COLORFUL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:52 PM
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Even the world's handsomest man experience in life pales in comparison to a regular woman who is fit, has a little booty and and smallish boobs. The world is her oyster! He still has to put in the work, daily, day after day week after week, month after month.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:52 PM
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Seeing another post with the platitude "Treat women like people" I have to ask: Q4W who parrot the above quote, What does a man getting romantically/sexually involved with you look like. Like how does an encounter escalate from a guy not being sexually/romantically involved with you to being that whilst treating you like a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:57 AM
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appeal to the uterus LOl. Does it even?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:20 PM
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I'm sorry I have to ask, do you live in fucking Dayton Ohio or what.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:06 PM
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LOL they aren't my circle, they are my fWb's.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:57 PM
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Thank you. I'm amazed some people get tripped up with errors so early into their sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:53 PM
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if there are kids in the pic that aren't his (although I'm not that strict) What? God forbid some of us have nephews, appropriately blocked out faces on the kids of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:43 PM
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are you incredibly out of touch and naïve? I was just with a group of girls who brunch every week (the group includes some fun gays ) and they were all about spilling the beans on who and what they did earlier in the week. Get real, women are indulging to their hearts content.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:35 PM
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Depending on how bad the name is, it's an investment that pays immediate dividends. Worth it, not only professionally but also emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:26 PM
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... They can help turning 18 and never changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:16 PM
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Yes, why don't we medicate men into a completely numb stupor. That will make life so much more vibrant, full, with explosive rays of happiness and sunshine... You fucking asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:15 PM
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I actually like that. They have a sense of humor. They laugh, a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:01 PM
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Q4M: After reexamining my swipe rules on Bumble, what are some of yours? I''ll share a few of mine: Low effort (one photo up, no blue verification dot, all photos black and white, no bio, no work details or living in, originally from cities, different photos but all are her in the same pose) is instant left. Stupid spellings to already established names, terribly old fashioned names, male names (Britttanie, Maude, Maureen, Traci, Toni, Chrissy) Curious choice of photo permutations, (photos are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:57 PM
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Men and women aren't that different psychologically... Yes they are. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:41 PM
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People grow up and priorities and responsibilities change. That's a euphemism for women sucking and fucking at the peak of their beauty, but once age related declines happen, suddening priorities and responsibilities change. That's extremely convenient. The underlying assumption is that if there was no age decline in a woman's beauty, she never reaches that level of "maturation" because time doesn't necessitate her to do it. Said a different way, if her beauty never fades, most women would conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:40 PM
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From the women that continue to match with me years later, they got fucked and chucked. Or they entered a relationship which dissolved years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:09 PM
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Yes his mom really is homophobic and judgemental. I'm not. I do see what he went through, his father isn't present. He saw a terrible father/mother relationship disintegrate. He saw his mom run off to live the single life on her own. It's tough anyway you slice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:13 PM
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Small minds. Consider this, let's say for sake of argument, you have an IQ of 100. Normal and not exceptional. Half the people you encounter will be lower than you. That's a lot of people. The uncomfortable truth. It's more than half. Men in particular more often occupy the extremes, and more often in the lower extremes. Add to the fact that stupid align more intensely to tribalism and , voilà, current situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:15 PM
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I have a mix of feelings about this topic. A saw a friend come out well after college, avoiding all the real hardship and backlash that others gays I know had when they came out in early high school. Those gay men have been the most well adjusted and successful in life. From my POV, it was a calculated move, they were popular with the ladies from high school through college. Another thing that comes to mind is my sister's bestie, she married her high school sweetheart and had two kids, a boy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:01 PM
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Tell that to my fWb. Which is infinitely more B than F
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:54 PM
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I suspect many are in their teens and 20s, judging from the quality of their questions and reasoning and understanding. We do comprehend it. There's not a lot anyone can do about it. I believe it's the Argentine situation, the current paradigm is producing ugly results but everyone is debating whether it really is, and debating whether it really is ugly, and giving ignorant and bad advice to the younger generation. Maybe out of malice. Certainly parroting the same old status quo. The great major…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:54 PM
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It does for me. I would only consider such a woman as just a good time and nothing serious. Consider she engages in OF and makes little to no money, how little she sold herself for. She'd be a loser, and I don't like to associate with loser women. If she hits it big, she has successfully monetized her image for money. Kuddos to her, but then she is no better than a Capuchin monkey. She has successfully whored herself out for financial gain, catering to the masses. She has perverted the money inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:49 PM
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No. Romance is a wild cocktail of sex, lust and want. Arguably friendship never enters the equation if we are strictly just speaking about romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:44 PM
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I'm copying and pasting a perfect reply to the title. "But the “gender wars” is a symptom of late stage capitalism and forty years of failed neoliberal ideology which has sought to marketise and commodify every aspect of life, including dating and relationships - women are taught that they can have their cake and eat it and that hypergamy is their divine right; men are taught that being themselves is not good enough and that only by following a stringent fitness regime and Social Darwinist caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:43 PM
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This is a perfect summation, worthy of being recognized in the archives of PPD forever!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:41 PM
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Who is the arbiter, what is the measure of a man nowadays? If it's tables and charts of standardization, that's easy enough to meet and beat. But when it's things pertaining to emotional complexity and warmth, who is to say what's below average, average and superior when we all have different beliefs, views, objectives and agendas. It just becomes a battle of who can conceal their true intentions and self vs. their effectiveness with others in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:56 PM
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It's funny cause my fWb once admitted that she only had sex with a guy because he paid attention to her and was trying his best to make her laugh and feel sexy. She was feeling low on herself and that's all it took that day for that guy to seal the deal. I try to wrap my head around that one. She didn't even like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:53 PM
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No. It really isn't ok. While free will and choice are all good, the majority of women wield a power they don't fully understand, have had no training or guidance on, subject to only her desires and whims without regard to her future self. That is fucking far from "ok".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:50 PM
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No. Technology has only amplified what was already there. It took all our behaviors, men's desires and women's selectivity, and amped them up to a billion. Human minds, feelings and beliefs were only geared toward tribes of 100, we were just beginning to get used to millions in dense urban areas. Technology just gave us the ability to interact with near unlimited number of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:48 PM
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The movies Her, Gattaca, Minority Report
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:01 PM
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This question has already been addressed before. I would argue that it signals maladjustment and not normal development if a man is a virgin to this after the sage of 22 (Presumably this means he would have been dateless all through high school AND notably college. To go dateless and sexless throughout 4 years of college signals social arrested development and a strong suspicion that something is "wrong" with him). So my final answer is age 22. 20 can be arguable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:55 PM
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Peer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:52 PM
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Ew what
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:21 PM
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You're missing the bigger point. It's that dick that you were interested in. Like it or not, our past choices shape us. You are not who you think you are, you are what you've done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:17 PM
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And the women see NO discrepancy! It's like words have both no meaning and every meaning. But all the meanings are vague and subject to change to suit her needs in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:08 PM
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I can’t imagine any future boyfriends actually want to hear about that. You'd be wrong. I certainly would love to know everything about a woman I'd be open to being very serious with. Sucks that your short ex was too much of a pussy to handle the truth. I wouldn't mind your truth. It's expected, and rather tame. I can handle the truth about my reality, I'm not near 7 ( and wouldn't wish to be ) and have a very normalish cock. While it would be cool if it was longer, I'm generally happy with it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:07 PM
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I disagree. Anything and everything in this world is open to conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:52 PM
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I'm not. I support the guys who do, but no I have not personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:51 PM
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What many men think is malice, I'm starting to think it's just women's minds... the majority of women have not integrated the "light" side and "dark" side of their personalities/desires. Women rarely reconcile on a conscious level their arousal and attraction. Hence, anything she posits before being fully aware of herself is incomplete and inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:51 PM
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Just old. Had few partners til I was 35, then it shot up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:41 PM
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Crude? You sound incredibly sex negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:41 PM
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Why. It's the mark of a true adult to be able to talk about sensitive subjects in a real, honest, transparent way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:36 PM
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Wrong. As a man with well over 100, I abhor hard drugs and have 1 social drink for someone bday, christmas and new years. The rest of my life is strictly in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:35 PM
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I especially chuckle that the sex that is allegedly more mature, and talk a big game, have absolute shit conversation skills in real life, and conversation killing txt game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:33 PM
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I just watch the very first episode of the new season Part 1 of "The Crown". Your statement reminds me of the relationship portrayed by Mohamed Al-Fayed and his then wife Heini Wathén-Fayed. I reject your premise that women who willfully enter these sorts of ... arrangements are the ones complaining about being treated as they present themselves to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:31 PM
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"Kind" is simply too loaded and vague a word now. It needs to be put to rest. Do you mean agreeable and amiable?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:56 PM
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The foxnews of the RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:15 PM
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False. It was this way prior to the blackberry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:37 PM
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Agreed. Thinking of the extremes, the loosest I ever got to play with, was STUPID loose. Like I was able to ball up both of my fists and go near elbow deep. It was hot/embarrassing how much she can fit. I kept thinking, there is no man's natural organic dick that can ever satisfy this girl. She really set the bar as that was my 3rd sexual partner, little did I understand how far outside the normal she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:16 PM
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No, I have felt over 150+ different pussies in my life. ALL felt different, and loose is NOT the most common I have experienced. I will admit the stupid impossibly tight is a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:27 PM
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I haven’t had sex in 5+ yrs & don’t care if I ever do again. You really need to get a holistic checkup with a legitimate doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:10 PM
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No, they are purposely trying to monetize. The knock on effects are secondary. ( Meaning it isn't their intention to "make people miserable". It just so happens that the pursuit of profits often makes the majority of people worse off, benefitting a select few on top. Which funnily enough, doesn't THAT like a sound similar situation ...)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:08 PM
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Because dating has a low ceiling in which to improve. At it's core, it's all the other skills that a man needs to improve on for "dating" to become more fruitful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:45 PM
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You misunderstand. I don't mean the scenario in which those sharks are posing for something serious, it's allegedly LTR only minded women go on a dry enough spell and then fuck those sharks purposely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:07 PM
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Perhaps for a relationship, but when you've been waiting for long enough, and you finally get horny enough, the majority of women will indulge in a quick fuck with some guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:17 PM
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Yes! What gets lost is that a select few of men and the majority of women can indulge on both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:33 PM
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lol if you want to know my first line methodology, google, reverse image searching, insta. Insta basically gives me everything, even if the profile is set to private.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:43 PM
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That's fair. I feel that I make sure to look up more as I've grown older. So many have lied about their marital status, and I like to have a general idea of how they lived their lives, especially financially. I am in a much different position now than I was decades ago, and I feel it's part of my vetting process that is harmless ( she doesn't know, I don't normally volunteer unless she asks directly, and then I honesty share ). I do find it as a "challenge" when a woman uses a cover like google …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:42 PM
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LOL funny characterization, but I didn't put that I smirked, I AM amused at how little regular people realize that their personal info is easily accessible. Yeah, I am fucking regular person that did light detective work years ago. Big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:36 PM
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LOL, I totally know what you mean. In a different life, I was working as a light version of a "P.I." My research skills I thought were just simply "ok" is light years ahead of what women I match with can conceive. If shared, 99% get really weirded out real quick but I laugh and tell them that if they want to be have less information about themselves online, they have to be proactive and do x,y,z. I like to think some listen, but they are still to head in deer lights when I can tell them all thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:26 PM
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Thank you for your post. I feel it's critically important that all statements be 100% proofed and above board, to not allow women to catch any stray thread that could unravel all your valid points and arguments. Marketisation of Dating As soon as dating was marketised, this was inevitable due to the following factors: Women are biologicallyhave consistently shown to be extremely selective for several reasons, primarily that their reproductive material is rarer, and, therefore, more valuable than…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:49 PM
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I find it pretty productive by way of seeing reading the POVs and takes by the most delusional of women here. From a RP lens, I find it humorous. The objections, denials, obfuscations, silence when a great male point is made elegantly, is extremely telling. What I think a lot of women haven't figured out is that this discourse has been had ages ago, the game theory and eventual conclusion has already been mapped out by minds greater than theirs. Women have this special arrogance and hubris that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:42 PM
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Whatever it is she is smoking, drinking or injecting, I definitely want some. That is some seriously out of touch statement, it makes me question whether it's real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:37 PM
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It's funny reading this title as it immediately reminded me of the Tom Cruise movie "Minority Report". My memory is hazy but I believe there is a scene,very briefly, when the protagonist is visiting a shady, black market, services venue. People are hooked up to some sort of machine that allows them to experience whatever is on their mind. There is a heavily muscled, tattooed guy sitting in a chair hooked up to the machine, and the audience is able to see what is going on in his mind, ... he is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:02 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Yours reminded me of an interview of an american journalist getting a british soldier's thoughts during a war. I forget the names, but what stuck was the soldier stating simply "One gets the sugar, the other eats the shit. In the end though, we both end up in the same place don't we?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:27 PM
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The red pill is a set of ideas perpetuated by grifters in order to sell coaching schemes and other scams. A large part of the grift is getting men to treat women in such a disrespectful manner that no woman would want to date them, thus creating a viscous cycle where the victims return to the grifters for more advice. It’s sickening. praxeology of sexual behaviors between men and women, with the focus being how to become better at attracting and becoming romantically/sexually successful with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:30 PM
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This makes me think of how jesus spoke of the pharisees. Even if a man is 100% a harcore feminist, he should keep the secret, hidden, but his support in tangible actions and moving influence if he so fervently believes in the cause. You keep that shit quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:29 PM
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Do you believe the men that approach you in real life don't want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:39 PM
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His dating life in college was a lot different when height became more of a factor. How do you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:14 PM
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lol. I'm serious. I'd love to visually see and hear about their personalities, what makes them just soooo great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:17 PM
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You do need to get fit, you don't need steroids to get there. In addition to getting fit, it's important you also dedicate just as much time/even more time being at parties and boisterous fun bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:08 PM
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Sometimes I wonder about the women who talk such a big game here on PPD. I wonder about the men you all select. Who are they. How successful were they with women before you met them. How many romantic and sexual failures did they experience before being so lucky meeting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:05 PM
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I notice the term used by a black British guy, it appeared he had a gentle personality so I assumed his partner to be another man. My brain had a bit of a pause when his partner was a gorgeous woman. I remember back in business law 101 that introducing someone as your partner was a higher level stake of association and it meant something. I felt that was a reason why lawyers were quick to correct someone introducing them as a "good friend" or "trusted partner" or something else more leading. Bus…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:27 PM
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“I have a headache” just comes off as “I don’t feel comfortable just telling you no and giving the real reason why” and the lack of sincere communication can be triggering for some. is indicative of something being off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:10 PM
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The cat decides what milk is good. You may feel that a certain milk is superior, because it's organic or that it's been intentionally created to be the milkiest milk that ever milked, but it's for the cat to decide if that's the milk it prefers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:14 PM
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Look, women's sexual selection criteria is incredibly mercurial and arbitrary. Men's isn't by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:30 PM
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lol I'm wrong just because you say so. Real strong argument. And what ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:18 PM
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... What do you think are the top selling women's erotica genres?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:16 PM
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No... it means men have a broader range of women they deem to be a romantic and sexual fit, that isn't filtered by random bullshit that really doesn't matter at the end of the day or imaginative fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:15 PM
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I can't speak for every guy, but I'm "mad" that women are so incredibly dishonest about the way they select men to fuck. And they often like to hide who it is that they did fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:14 PM
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You're level of understanding and thinking is incredibly low. But sure, I'll try to make it simpler. Sexual love does not equal romantic love. In practice, sexual love can lead to romantic love. Arguably romantic love should be the precursor to sexual love, but we know that isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:13 PM
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lol, what? No it doesn't, women need something extra or more, often those signals are faked. Often, it doesn't even matter to a woman if they were true or not. What's more important is the fantasy in her head. That infinitely makes a woman look bad, to be so easily fooled, and to care more about imagination than what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:10 PM
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Is English your primary language?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:09 PM
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I think you're missing the point. He's right about women's sexual erotic archetypes. Men don't need to fantasize about a beautiful woman being a billionaire, or the undead, or anything extra. The women is the sexual fantasy. Women are the ones that need something extra or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:08 PM
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You're missing the bigger points, but it can be. It can be different. The point is women require this, men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:02 PM
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TLDR: Women demand context to fuck a guy. A guy doesn't require context to fuck a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:02 PM
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Ok... that doesn't dismiss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:01 PM
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Finally someone that can engage at a higher level! It might be argued that women needing the context means they are more attracted to the person. Except often times women are attracted to the context (often an erroneous assumption on her part ) MORE than the reality of who the guy is. I believe this video by Dr. Taraban touches on this "fantasy" aspect in his video "How most men blow the first date". After digesting this line of thinking, I almost, ALMOST understand why these low income guys in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:57 PM
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Simply not true. I've been turned on by age appropriate women, before they have opened their mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:52 PM
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Love, fuck, both. Women can't. They need some sort of ... narrative in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:18 PM
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I think Cristiano fits with the billionaire playboy archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:17 PM
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You're discounting what he said because he's an addict, and not because this has been demonstrably proven true? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:17 PM
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And women getting pregnant really necessitates all this world building, imagination and fantasy? Come on, there's something else at play
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:16 PM
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Thought on the commute to work today. Women really aren't attracted to men the way most men can be attracted to most women. Listening to JP, he humorously touches on this in a number of videos on youtube. The gist is that you what the 5 archetypes of guys women read as romantically/sexually titillating and it's vampire, billionaire, surgeon, werewolf, pirate. Women just cannot get "hard" for men simply being just a man, they need context to be attracted to man. Men, as many can attest to, do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:42 PM
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That one bad date is a drop in the bucket to the stories I can point to women behaving atrociously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:01 PM
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Ahum. Well for the purposes of romantic and sexual interest in the other sex, your experiences are not relevant to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:53 PM
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They're not out with Chad? Curious, when you get the itch to fuck, who do you select?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:10 PM
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Holy shit you need me to munch on and feed it to you like a baby bird? Premeditation is understood to be worse because it is deliberately planned out in advance. The first is worse as there is intention to do something "not good", and following through with the plan to do "not good". It's "Malice as a forethought". The later springs up organically as a consequence of new information.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:01 PM
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How awful the common woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:30 PM
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Ok if you want to legal it, it's the difference between negative premeditation and intention, vs honest intention and consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:30 PM
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Yeah, no it's not photographic, but it's pretty exceptional. You call it stewing, but it's more like... a long list of proof of the ways women who I've been interested in have behaved. That story doesn't even scratch the surface, I "stew" ( the word I'd use is 'ruminate' ) about much bigger things than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:19 PM
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She came in knowing there was no possibility for a romantic/sexual connection in which my behavior, my very asking her out was implicit and explicitly about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:13 PM
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Me having a great ability to recall and remember things is not strange. It's fucking normal to have working memory, I didn't fucking wake and bake my brain cells to death like many people I grew up with. Yeah, I had the one model prefer the first flip phone, it was a brick. In blue. I remember it being free with the plan. It wasn't that expensive. It had a flashing light on the top left of the unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:09 PM
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Not at all. At least both people came in to having a fun, consensual sexual experience together, and one party doesn't wish to continue. Who's at fault here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:06 PM
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Am I not suppose to? It was pretty shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:01 PM
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Am man. It's despicable. Fortunately I only had this happen to me once. I no longer do any initial "food" date with a woman ever since. And if new woman suggests it, I strongly put her in the "only good enough for a fuck" category, if she makes it that far. My slip up was way back in the late 90s, this girl was gorgeous. Perfect curvaceous body. Pretty face. Studied at NYU. I was proud of myself for having the boldness to connect with her and ask her out. That she said yes immediately made me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:50 PM
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First of all, never go out anywhere with the sole intention of picking up women. They will smell it on you from miles away. This is so wild to read. As if a man having the intention of looking for a romantic/sexual connection with a woman is such a bad thing. When women are horny, or want to go out expressly with the intention to find a guy, that is ok. Talk about fucked up double standards...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:55 PM
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fascinating. So not even in the minority of being a sex worker, but being into a smaller minority in that minority. You of course can appreciate that you speaking from your personal experience is going to hit wildly different to a great majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:29 PM
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I wouldn't go as far as to say invalid, but definitely in the minority. I particularly appreciate it because I have my very own "scientific method" to reach my own conclusions about things. In short, it's to consider the question from the bellcurves of extremes, and compare the extreme version of something to it's median experience. If you remove the difference between the two, you get to the truth. Or at least closer to it. You're experience is pumping high volume of sexually motivated men, usi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:15 PM
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This one's not my cup of tea, but displaying signs of monkey branching. Gauging your interest and then complaining about her relationship, looking to be persuaded to leave. That's not 100% green enough. She could just be looking to vent with no other intentions. The other two, yeah I can see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:11 PM
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Yeah there's no rhyme nor reason most times. It leaves the larger group of unsuccessful men really confused and self doubting. I think I've just mentally checked it off as woman being random and incoherent. It's the only way to make sense of "why him and not me". Otherwise it's years of rumination.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:50 PM
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You're underselling it. We guys eat shit sandwiches every day since we've been alive, and we're expected to smile and go "mmmmm" and not complain loudly about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:29 PM
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Thanks for contributing. I always suspected that women sex workers have a very unique perspective to sex, attraction and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:18 PM
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Yes! Although I've had a hurtful story about this flag. I was 16 years old once, and my cousin was visiting from a different country. He was 14. We went to a a super large mixed party and a girl caught my eye, also 16. We're all talking and my cousin leaves, and the girl turns to her other girls and loudly says "i want to suck his (my younger cousins) dick". I felt so low, and sick to my stomach, I turned away and walked out of the party. Stuck to being outside just shaking my head. My younger c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:11 PM
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Trick or treat suckers. I woke up this morning wanting to do more of a treat post after seeing so many ugly post titles with awful comments on PPD that I wanted to shift gears today a bit. Women have over complicated and obfuscated the conversation of attraction, sex, and love. I'm loving the refocus of nailing down what behavior, or pattern of behavior, definitely signal a woman's romantic/sexual interest in a man. Too many times guys have confused smiling, flirting, light touch, and hanging ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:40 PM
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Agreed. Your best bet is to focus on the profiles that are tagged as "new"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:27 PM
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Bingo. Women are not our emotional equals. Even if they somehow were, they don't want to be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:47 PM
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I intend to elaborate later, busy now. But wow your simple takes aren't cutting it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:35 PM
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Yeah, it really is. The socio economic, education, and life experience discrepancy between the sexes cannot be understated or dismissed. It is materially impacting dating and fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:31 PM
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I don't want to be normal? Wtf are you talking about. I hung out with old friends. Met new people. I people watched. I observed. What you're reading on PPD is the real life POVs men have observed. Don't get it twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:23 PM
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It's a lot more nuanced than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:21 PM
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Agreed. From the originals like Mystery, all the way to Roosh, there is a crisis and break from their own wisdom and content. I attribute this to highly intelligent and architect minded men, who were unsuccessful with women and then learned to become successful with them, "breaks" their inner soul and they cannot confront the truth they learned. It would be a moment of existential crisis precipitated by "the truth" (the knowledge) and time (their own mortality/advancing age/approaching physical …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:17 PM
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Mostly agree, but the scene has mutated into something truly ugly. The wealth inequality, which was always there lurking the in the background, is omnipresent and inescapable! And it goes beyond fashion, recreation, and hobbies. The gap is monstrously large. Literally a handful at the top, and everyone else servicing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:04 PM
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At the risk of doxxing myself, fun fact. I was born and raised in manhattan, and lived in brooklyn for many years. And fuck no, Jersey is the garbage state, not part of NYC. Also Staten Island, no one is crossing the Verrazano for nasty republican pussy, and Bronx arguably shouldn't count. A whole lot of garbage there. When I say NYC, I mean the city, Brooklyn, Queens, and the hotties from CT that come down from the metro north.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:57 PM
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What an enlightened take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:43 PM
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I love people who not only are familiar with the bible, understand the contexts surrounding it. But these feeble minded sheeple don't have the faculty, nor the attention span, to fully understand wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:43 PM
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Just came back from a weekend trip to NYC. What. a. shitshow. I didn't know how bad the dating and mating environment was there, but it left me mouth wide open. It's so fucked. Want to post in detail, but a bit strapped for time this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:39 PM
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You're so paternity-negative. A better reframe is, I want to be certain that our child is ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:04 PM
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about $55 USD. I'd gladly pay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:04 PM
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it's going to be way lower for the general population Not necessarily. After receiving some eye opening results, there seemed to be a strong "don't ask/don't tell" policy generations ago. Women got away with A LOT. It was in there best interest to take secrets to the grave. In other words, women are reluctant about being transparent about paternity, more recently evidenced by the popular reddit post. Cavaet Emptor, gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:03 PM
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I disagree. Paternity verification should be able to be done at any time, place, context. Point blank.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:59 PM
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A very elaborated response, thank you. It'd like to add the cherry on top that as fickle and mercurial a woman's sex drive is, it gets problematic when that same woman starts to demand higher levels time,attention,resources,commitment or some other ephemeral value need to progress a relationship into something sexual when she in her past was all to willing, and eager, to fuck far substandard men that didn't have to jump through any hoops just because she was horny. It's an insult to the man she …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:58 PM
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It's chilling. The masses are starting to wake up. We can't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:53 PM
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LOL the ministry of speech deems the conversation about looks to be "out of bounds" as it relates to attraction. How chilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:52 PM
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Jada Pinkett's "entanglement" You mean how her son's friend's cock got randomly entangled in her mouth? LOL. Your CMV does bring up the interesting question. Imagine a world in which all men were to be made fully aware of any woman's past, context and all. How drastic would the mass narrative shift? Would we finally be closer to truly seeing a woman's machinations, how would that change society? I venture to say, quite a bit. Women guard their proclivities so tightly to their chest. I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:49 PM
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Yes you're talking about "anchoring" a woman in a very heightened state. The only thing "dark" about it is that it is a subset of intentional manipulation that, honestly, is a waste of time and effort on most women. It's the type of imagination building Casanova would engage in, but that is SO much work and effort, that you really need to have high level of skills in deception, intrigue, mis and disinformation. That level of effort is wasted on the common woman. Arguably you use it on "high valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:44 PM
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What you wrote reminds me of this interesting quirk with women; When a woman likes you, you can do no wrong. When a woman doesn't like you, nothing you do is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:39 PM
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If the fat comes with a DDD+ tits, i can make myself get hard for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:36 PM
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I think you're trying to speak to the point that there is a concerted effort, by many entities, to discourage men from trying to initiate sexual/romantic attention towards unknown women outside. Yes that part is true. What I don't believe to be true is the concept of verbal consent. Human spoken language is, at worst, 150,000 years old. Humans, and our human like ancestors have been walking the earth for millions of years. Are you telling me that ALL sexual encounters prior to language were unwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:22 PM
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No. It's a sad appeal to try and shake low libido, women supremely disinterested in the majority of men to change their ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:26 PM
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No. Just that her face in that video. It's how the majority of women walk about town. It's understood to be "don't bother me".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:47 PM
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It already is normal. A large portion of the older single women I match with on Bumble and Hinge are proud to be single, independant, with their golden boy/cat(s). Thing is they have men 10+ years younger for when they want to fuck and want to feel their hole filled on their phone at the ready. Let me tell you it feels really great going on dates with these kinds of women. Yup, real prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:43 PM
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sigh. Yeah her face says it all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:41 PM
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literally yes. I have witnessed, experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:37 PM
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completely made up LOL, just sit on the redline every morning to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:31 PM
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Sure that's the low hanging fruit. The part we haven't resolved is how women claim it's these extra things that swings the pendulum for them to select a man for sex, yet those very same men are ... lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:41 PM
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Yeah. It sounds like most women do not have the same mechanism of attraction to most men. Or at least, not like how my sexual attraction and desire has been for me throughout life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:36 PM
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I'm a year away from being 50. Arguably I've already lived 3 distinct lives. Young and in NYC, middle aged and traveling and living in Paris, London, Madrid for a hot second. And now, living in the most passive aggressive part of the US. I can't say I "chased" forever. What I can say is I've tried to "chase" understanding. A unifying understanding, and trying to communicate that understanding to others. Unfortunately, it often is communicating to others that don't want to hear it, don't care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:32 PM
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Yes... the first thought is "wonder if we are compatible". It's interesting how many women claim this thought, and that you all prefer not to fuck men who are cheaters, republicans, are conspiracy nuts, and are all around not normal, good, kind, well adjusted people... yet its exactly those kinds of men that I have observed, for almost a full lifetime, have a disproportionate amount of sexual and romantic success over someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:14 PM
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I'm doing my part, I already do. Currently my own path for finding potential sexual/romantic interests comes from online dating platforms. I have to say it's made regular day to day life really unfun and cold. But hey, that's what y'all wanted, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:00 PM
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One possible solution? Honest and frank conversations about women's sexual selection process. Even if it's just "teehee, I just fuck when I feel like it, guy happened to be at the right place, at the right time". It drops this vague idea that women have a higher morality or code of ethics when it comes to choosing the guy they end up fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:45 PM
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But what we shouldn’t support is delusions. If you know deep down in your heart of hearts, that the kind of partner you want would not want to date a person like you, I think that’s the right time to re-evaluate your standards. I love everything you said but I would rephrase this as "If you know deep down in your heart of hearts have experienced that the kind of partner you want wouldhas not want to date a person like you, while you have slept with him, I think that’s the right time to re-evalua…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:42 PM
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This basically confirms that men do in fact see women - particularly sexually desirable women - as objects they can acquire and use. That's not the final conclusion I'd arrive to. I look at sexually desirable women and think, yes, she is sexually arousing and I'd love to have sex with her and have a good and fun time. I have to ask you; you see a sexually desirable man, is your first thought really, "gee, I wonder how he treats his ex girlfriends, does he like guinea pigs? I wonder what his favo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:40 PM
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That's curious because the way it looks like the majority of women treat the majority of men is to look away when they pass by the street, school, and basically ignore them, or softly sigh as if men's physical presence is an inconvenience in their day. Q4W: Should men mirror this behavior under the umbrella of treating women "as human beings" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:37 PM
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As someone who experienced the dating landscape pre social media/pre smartphone... it was definitely different and arguably better for the normal guy. A man was battling a handful of other guys in proximity to the girl he liked. Now? He's battling the every real, and imaginary, male option for a girl within a 50 mile radius. Plus Saudi oil money, east coast investment banker bros, West Coast guys in the Hollywood industry and/or stupid ass Disc Jockeys from Miami/their moms garage. I remember it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:36 PM
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You can wife a hoe, but you're going to be sorry you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:22 PM
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There are many reasons, but if I had to pick the main one it's this: Most men are emotionally and socially stunted and did not develop in the expected neurotypical way from ages 0-12. The problem then compounded with extremely mixed mixed messaging coming from family, friends, school, religion, and mass media. Boys were given no framework in which to understand the world through a dispassionate, objective lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:21 PM
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The typical, middle of the bellcurve heterosexual men is getting laid and has a girlfriend/wife. “he has experienced hundreds, thousands, tens of thousands of rejections, throughout his formative life” is not normal because most Western guys get laid by age 16. You’re already talking about extreme cases. You're out of touch. Are you not on PPD? Look around you. Most western guys are not getting laid by age 16. I recognize I was a late bloomer, my first sexual experience was at 20. And I was the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:13 PM
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Let’s look at some popular incels: Elliot Rodger, Chris Chan, and Yandere Dev. Popular? Elliot Rodger was back in 2014. That's almost ten years ago. He was a short loser with entitlement issues, agreed. his parents did him no favors by being emotionally neglectful and papering over "love" with money. I have no idea who Chris Chan is, initial google searches keep referring to her, when it's very clearly a him. My initial impression is that this reads as an EXTREME outlier, Norman Bates level weir…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:48 PM
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Welcome to universe 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:23 PM
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If these guys would get their lives together and stop thinking about pussy for once, they would probably get a love life too. That's simply not true. Worse boys and men, males in their age peer group that fall far short of being holistically complete humans get to experience relationships/sex. This idea that if they only "worked on themselves more, they are clearly the obstacle getting in the way of "success"" needs to stop. No, they probably wouldn't get a love life if they "improved", the fran…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:17 PM
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It's more than that. Women not having empathy for men is their right. It's becoming problematic when women complain about unsuccessful men and offer NO remedies or solutions, nor do they talk about sex, love and attraction in a unifying theme of it's workings. It's making fun of a captain lost out in sea, who was pushed out of his home country by indifferent and neglectful parents, laughing at his misery and lack of success without him having a map or a clue and then saying "aw, poor baby, you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:04 PM
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I agree that they have a legitimate concern of "fucking things up" by their severe lack of experience. It's social/emotional arrested development. The older a man is without experience, the more it impacts his life negatively in many areas of life. Also, I am thirsty for you AF, PM me dammnit. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:01 PM
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Speaking from experience, a funny thing happens after a couple hundred rejections both big and small. A man begins to notice that women lie. They lie so much. That begins to not matter, but what does begin to matter is that a woman's feelings are so mercurial and random, one moment they can be wailing an inconsolable cry as if the universe and all of creation were about to end and then literally the next moment smile and laugh as if nothing happened and all is well, like the garden of eden has r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:59 PM
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My god, reading some of PPD's most recent posts makes me seriously question y'all's critical thinking and reading skills. God damn on so many points. Women have truly overcomplicated the conversation about sex, love, and attraction. One thing that really stands out to me is how the women on PPD expect sexually/romantically unsuccessful men to be chill and normal after he has experienced hundreds, thousands, tens of thousands of rejections, throughout his formative life, and expect him to be rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:48 PM
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Close enough brother! im you, but introverted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:42 PM
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That's some real INTJ energy you giving off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:38 PM
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Got it. Yeah it's 50-50. Just ask directly if you can smash at hers or have a beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:05 PM
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Are you actually trying to fuck on first meeting?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:37 PM
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You know it. I just watched a youtube video of this knees over toes guy and I have to say I'm impressed with his work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:36 PM
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Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a woman Incorrect. While it may seem as if there are no universal signals as the social norms of a place and era dictate what's appropriate for a woman to signal, there are in fact universal signals that have transcended time and history. You can read up on what those specific signals are by Leil Lowndes seminal book "Undercover Sex Signals...". I strongly recommend you read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:35 PM
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We are the outlier rats in the utopia experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:08 PM
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I too am still trying to figure out why Taylor Swift is such a big deal. I just don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:55 PM
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I believe sex is an integral part of a having a happy, healthy and fulfilling life. It has been a revelation to me reading some of the women on PPD describe how little importance they find attraction, chemistry and sex. It leads me to believe that the old adage that "there's millions of fish in the sea" is misleading. There is not an abundance of sexually open, sexually desirable women for men. In fact it's just the opposite. Sex positive women are limited, in short supply, the window to catch a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:47 PM
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No, of course not. But I do think there needs to be a consistency of behavior, a rationale, or at least an internal "code" that she lives by and is able to articulate. Because if there isn't any, or a weak one at that, it devolves society. It devolves society because if women aren't be held "accountable" for their behavior, more men will start adopting that kind of selfish, narcissistic behavior unchecked, it becomes a palpable dangerous societal atmosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:33 PM
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Speaking from personal experience, I do believe that men that are sexually unsuccessful with women around their own age, but their first romantic/sexual experiences happen to be with significantly older women, develop a more "real" (grounded, rational) sense of the current dating/sexual marketplace. At the same time, I do believe it solidifies a certain sadness and cheerlessness in men who go through this that I'm not sure is ever shaken off in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:25 PM
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We know already, it's not a single signal but clusters of it. And even then it can be a "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:52 PM
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how others feel about you. What many people feel about something doesn't make it true. Humans have such a poor way of feeling things out, prone to disinformation and awful in their first impression, quick cold reads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:49 PM
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maybe a more accurate #2 is 2 No matter how much women deny it, most women want the optionality of being able to get married without shame or judgement or questions about her sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:47 PM
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I love reading this. Sometimes I wonder if interest "intensity" is wildly different between man and woman. Woman seem to be perfectly content with their interest being unfulfilled, and move on from it in a seconds notice. Woman's interest doesn't seem to carry a lot of power or "weight" behind it. Feels flimsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:03 PM
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So you think just brute force, raw exposure is going to improve results. From personal experience through social media platforms and dating apps... for a regular guy, it doesn't work that way. A guy has to chew through hundreds of thousands to make about 50 legitimately ok options. The volume is simply too much for the mental and emotional psyche for already rejected men. What you're suggesting is emotionally exhausting to the nth degree. I know, because I've done it for many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:22 PM
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Do…do you want to attract the type of girl who likes serial killers? I think it's getting to the point of most sexually unsuccessful men to be like "Whelp, who I am isn't working with the normal part of the bellcurve. If I want to change my luck, I need to start looking well outside of it. " I can't blame the rationale.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:07 PM
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I know what you're trying to say. Recently saw a post on popular about a 23 year old female teacher get convicted for raping a 13 year old boy. Keep in mind that she was married with two children. The teacher is attractive. There is no way in hell a 13 year old has any masculine adult features, game, status, financial power, emotional or mental power to project to attract. It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:06 PM
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Then I'm a fucking goat, cuz when I'm hungry, I am hungry. I can stomach a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:22 PM
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When you're starving, even bad pizza is good pizza, sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:44 PM
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It's more than that. What most men are trying to sell, women aren't buying. Men have to improve the product, themselves, first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:38 PM
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It's unrealistic for everyone to get laid regularly outside of a steady relationship, in general. It's unrealistic for everyone regular to below median men to get laid regularly outside of a steady relationship, in general. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:37 PM
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In this day and age, no teen or preteen have blinders on anymore. They know the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:46 PM
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Ah, the arrogance of youth. We'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:40 PM
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is a delusion stems from a glaring lack of statistical understanding and rash generalizations from limited real-life observations. No. I am almost 50 years old, and I have kept all manner of second hand accounts, many confirmed first hand, about how woman have dated and mated, across the whole socioeconomic spectrum. I also have a unique point of view of having witnessed the transition from pure analog to the current era, across many large metropolitan cities, both here in the US and abroad. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:27 PM
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I get your PSA, but remembering being a young guy myself, and weighing the risks and rewards I was extremely black and white back then and went firmly no. Knowing what I know now, I'm not so sure. There is a strong case to be made that the candle that twice as fast at least burns twice as bright. Every boy and man needs to look himself in the mirror and think real hard about whether it's worth it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:24 PM
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There is a large, and ever increasing amount of young men, and former young men transitioning into older age, who are sexually and romantically unsuccessful for years. For many, their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:19 PM
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Absolutely. Like in the movie "Her", Ai can have a great capacity to be a neutral observer and "reflect" a man's emotions back to him as he is progressing through it. Arguably, it would develop more emotionally mature men. That may be too much for a normal woman to handle though. Yes, women complain. I think their most compelling argument of always hating men approaching, complimenting and trying to escalate on them is because men find them sexually desirable. And most women seem to agree to loa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:01 PM
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The blind leading the blind. My friend group when i was in my teens had zero clue. Today: there are literal living TOMES of knowledge, bourne out of so much firsthand experience and deep insights by notable thinkers and master of the craft of seduction. 35 years ago, all we had, if you were lucky, were the old tales and book about Casanova. And one had to mine like a motherfucker to tease out the bigger truths embedded in the stories. I'll admit, it has been fun going back to the early seduction…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:54 PM
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It's insane. What I think the crux of the issue is, what men and women can't find a common unifying answer is... what does sex mean to you and what it means to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:39 PM
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This is like the rat utopia experiment, final stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:32 PM
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sigh. That just simply isn't true, on multiple levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:32 PM
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I'm glad you used the word misogynist. Can you believe that comment section of that post about a woman sharing her past sexual experience, then getting all upset because the guy pulled away because of it. He just didn't want to get serious with a woman who has participated sexually in that way. That's his prerogative. But no, according to most women, that's misogyny. It's fucking wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:31 PM
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Absolutely. If AI can ever get to a point of logic/rationalization sophistication like what was portrayed in the movie "Her", I definitely can see sexually/romantically unsuccessful men ( men with these difficulties, I'd argue, are either a whole lot less "social" and/or are very in their heads, intelligent but not emotionally connecting) LOVE AI for it's ability to intellectually connect with him AND be able to elaborate sexual realities in which the other party can never get hurt. And for wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:21 PM
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A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands. ​ When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance: "You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! ​ There are 6 floors and the value of the products increase as you ascend the flights. ​ You may choose any item from a particular floor or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you CANNOT go back down except to exit the building!" ​ So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. ​ Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:07 PM
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Agreed. It's posts like these that just demonstrate how out of touch the common woman is to the common man. While it's true on the woman's side, it's tone deaf to the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:05 PM
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exactly. And if she is high libido, and is open to a lot of casual sex, what is a woman's internal "brake" stopping her from fucking all the attractive guys she feels like doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:01 PM
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Just when I was beginning to have lost hope in gleaning something new, lately I feel like the posts here on PPD and a certain double chromosomal ones have brought up some interesting ideas to talk about. I'm sorry at work but to jot some things down quickly, there is the threesome post, lately a book im reading called 60 years of challenge, (an alleged) woman's take on what is a better escalation ladder for men. Most men, even the sexually successful I have seen, have a rough unsophisticated pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:47 PM
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Do what you feel like is natural to you. I get what you mean, but no. Many men do not know what is the natural progression of things, so doing what is "natural" to them doesn't work/isn't effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:24 PM
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Until the current dating landscape irrevocably damages the current culture enough to allow a foreign culture (which is usually more strich/heavy handed) to take over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:06 PM
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Exactly proving my point. If you are that averse to a small physical gesture, you would be absolutely no fun in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:03 PM
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Cool, then you would absolutely not be compatible in the bedroom if you get repelled by such a small act.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:34 PM
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I don't get why this concept is hard to grasp. It isn't. But what's the in person filter that a woman isn't attracted to you. What does that physically look like to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:58 PM
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Falling silent, looking at her with desire, reaching out and holding her hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:56 PM
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I remember reading a story about a longterm girlfriend discovering she had a terminal illness, and having her final months of life in the hospital. Her boyfriend tried his best to be there for her whilst trying to handle the immediate stressors of having to pass important school exams. This boyfriend loved, and cared for her. One day he walks in to her room and she isn't there. She is curled up in another bed, embracing another guy in his room down the hall, who also had a terminal illness. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:52 PM
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Probably one of the biggest truths that women obfuscate... For a man, there is NO set predefined amount of time you need to "wait" before making a move on a woman. It can be as fast as the first 10 seconds, you don't need to be waiting 25 minutes, thinking you're warming her up to be attracted to you. She either is or isn't at a snap. And if you do encounter a woman that tries to rationalize that you need to wait, or be more patient, I PROMISE you it is 100% not worth that wait. She's trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:44 PM
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I'd say 5'11", thickly built, about 13%bf, not roided. Face was nothing special, but what the fuck do I know. Women have surprised me with which men they accept as sexual lovers and which they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:05 PM
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Yes, because all men who are born are given the manual on how to seduce women from day 1. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:26 PM
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Equal rights, equal lefts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:19 PM
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I would argue it’s still the same. It's not. Those guys that she never would have come across pre social platforms, those that are between 10~75 miles away are just local enough to come drive and bang her and global enough to see they are higher options than the potential 15-20 new guys she would come across living her normal daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:06 PM
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And despite this reality, women really expect men to take this all in stride and to behave normally, confidently, without a care in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:01 PM
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I think this woman is very representative of the modern, white collar, overeducated, disaffected, regularly attractive white cohort aged 35~50. She can be single or married once. Maybe with a boyfriend. Her life revolves being "sporty" (whether gym, or more likely jogging/running, wearing the local football team jersey/tennis outfit to look cute ). She is eager to be with her close group of girlfriends, brunching and drinking and partying whenever possible. Uploading on insta often, with either …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:56 PM
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No. She divorced him after basically prepping and monkey branching to her unrequited college crush. I do know she was a big time lurker on various dating discussion subs, and some select fun subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:20 PM
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It gets better. After getting really fit and having a couple of surgical enhancements, she reached out to the man she truly "loved", a college sweetheart who visually and socially is a total Chad. I do not believe Chad knows the type of cheating and posts she used to do ( I do believe she stopped, but unsure if she still lurks on reddit). I'd love to say more, but that would really out her, and ultimately me. My point is that the modern american woman's behavior with love and sex is just so ... …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:02 PM
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I want to agree with you, but can't. I specifically know of a married psychologist who was living the basic ass white girl, kansas city lifestyle. What her husband didn't know was that she was showing off her butthole on reddit, sending nudes on insta (for free), and allowing her personal fitness trainer at the local gym near the light district to fuck her in the ass ( I think she said it was the Genesis club? ) . Despite not initially being a fit, or in the world, she was indeed attracted to mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:44 PM
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How can a woman find having sex with a man they find attractive not appealing? How does that even work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:32 PM
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Can you say that louder for the women in the back that insist Tinder is for serious relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:28 PM
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And many failings uniquely to being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:21 PM
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Women only have sex with a man if she's in love with him. L-O-L.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:19 PM
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Mhmm. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:09 PM
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Skimming over XX, and hilariously read a post in which an attractive woman complains about her inability to date. The suggestions poured out are exactly what most RP would advise guys to do. Consider changing locales, get fitter, etc. What's good for the goose, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:02 PM
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A woman is not entitled to know everything about your personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:53 PM
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Maybe. Maybe not. The fact that you blame your own inadequacies and/or struggles on all women is insane. Of course not. If I had to narrow it down, it's against women who are sexually open but rejected me (often times me knowing that they had sex with other men far "worse" than I) and/or when they lie that they are not "that kind of girl" (when I know for certain, or come to find out that yes, they are indeed that kind of girl). But the current dating game dynamic is more a result of women havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:52 PM
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I have to agree. I hooked up with a 30 something year old virgin Taiwanese woman. She was religious, but more than that, she was considered "ugly" by her culture, ( she actually had tits and ass when apparently the ideal back in Taiwan is super thin and delicate ). I appreciated her coming from my own culture and personal tastes, and she appreciated that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:19 PM
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Real Social Dynamics (Todd) and most recently Stirling Cooper ( who purportedly was a straight male escort for women. ) I believe his unique insight to women can give basic men a framework in which to build around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:10 PM
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My personality was a lot softer, gentle and thoughtful younger. Made no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:46 PM
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I've been to therapy. I'm no stranger to everyone has a problem, no one is perfect. Maybe I've been rejected too many times, too harshly, by too many small people that I defiantly resist any suggestion that I'm not enough. I was starved and believed more blue pilled ideas when I was younger, woefully ignorant about the truth and the women's attraction process ( or at least, what more often than not is successful for having sex with women ) to try and make myself small and ineffectual again for p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:39 PM
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False. Many men, like me, have gone on countless self improvement cycles of health, wealth and meditation. Because I have done so many of these cycles, as apparently I was not "good enough" for dating and mating, I am far above the median and above average woman as she is to the average man. And somehow despite this, I'm still not enough and deemed "average"? Don't make me laugh, my bank account, the fitness of my body says otherwise. If I account for age, I am the top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:40 PM
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Talk about subverting expectations, LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:19 PM
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Funny you mention INTJ, because I've gotten that a lot. Is that a type that has a lot of challenges with dating and mating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:28 PM
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He was also my best friend for years before dating and we always shared our hobbies Does that mean he witnessed you dating some other guy(s)?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:23 PM
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You are exactly the woman I try to avoid, a pure blooded narcissist. You may have your boundaries ( or lack thereof in your youth ) but you should respect other people's boundaries. To try and circumvent it because it would be more beneficial to you shows a tremendous lack of integrity. Your lack of shame at suggesting just omitting something that was a part of yourself in the past shows how small you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:28 PM
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Id rather you check your PMs 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:43 PM
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Maybe. But no one can say that I didn't post quality insights into the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:53 PM
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I'm halfway through this video on youtube "Turning Boys into Men: How to master power, sex, Psychology to stop feeling...". It really resonated in me. Yes it's 3 hours long. Halfway through I believe the conversation these two men is the 2 sides of the coin every man argues with himself internally. For women interested in seeing the META and internal conversation man faces everyday he wakes up in life, this is it. While I respect the Tom's position and the way he reasons, he gets exposed as bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:48 PM
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YUP. And the women on PPD will deny and reject the idea that they fuck like that. It just weakens their arguments, can't take them seriously. Not because they are women, but because of the denial of observed patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:31 PM
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Yes, this seems to be the current META. In my opinion, this is the best way for a man to approach the current dating environment. You don't know what (or who) she's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:08 PM
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This needs to be injected to more men's veins. Women reveal themselves through their actions, it's why the mere suggestion that they should be judged by what they do sends most women into a hysterical frenzy. Men are more honor bound by what they have done in the past. We don't deny reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:07 PM
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I feel so, so bad for that guy. Pining since high school for a girl that has to go through hardships in life like that for her to finally submit to life and finally consider him a romantic option. Life already is hard and harsh. I don't understand men who willingly walk into relationships like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:05 PM
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The majority don't, until they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:02 PM
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Chemistry is not the ability to talk in depth with a girl about deep subjects or share an interest in something niche. It’s not even making each other laugh the entire night. And yet the majority of women, a majority that is sexually ignorant on how attraction works, insist that is what is necessary before sexual attraction and interest can take place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:01 PM
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All sorts of premises are wrong in this post. Almost no woman actually wants sex for the sake of it That's patently false. One only needs to look at the short term casual partners women select for when they want a man to just stick it in. they need an emotional attraction to a man (or woman) to feel sexual attraction. No. Women have consistently proven throughout time that emotional attraction is not a firm requirement to engage in sex. If you look at the gay male subcultures, they can have extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:25 PM
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Exactly. Plus I don't want a redhead prostitute, I want a redhead... a dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:35 PM
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My stance has soften considerably with age, starting off with a 100% hard no, never. Now, I recognize that if I want to experience specific things with a women, that has specific physical and/or mental attributes, an exchange of money is the fastest (and often the only way) for me to achieve my desired outcome. Some traits are rare enough that even in a major city of about 2,000,000 people, perhaps only 18,000 fit my criteria. I'm under no delusion, trying to charm a beautiful natural redhead wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:08 PM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:05 PM
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Gotta go the Messi route. never touch or be with a foreign woman without eyewitnesses present.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:03 PM
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How does one prove they did not do something. There's no good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:00 PM
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LOL. What a fetishization, on something that isn't even earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:14 PM
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I do believe there is a utility curve on everything. And there's diminishing returns on almost everything, we are finite beings afterall. But isn't it wild? Man ponders this deeply, to be more attractive to women. Can you honestly say women do so in the same degree and fervor that man does?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:02 PM
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The blue pill is a made up, straw man counter argument to the red pill. No it really isn't. The blue pill, as I understand it, is the large group of people that deny/reject the RP praxeology. Blue pillers have other explanations or denial about what most RP sees as self evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:49 PM
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And yet TRP claims you have to be exceptional to succeed (which doesn’t work, because if everyone becomes exceptional you merely shift the definition of what exceptional is, so that top 20% are still the top tier pick and eventually it comes down to stuff you can’t fix) Reading this reminds me of that scene in the movie "Gattaca" when a woman was blowing a guy, and took the cumm in her mouth to test his "fitness"/I think there was an attempt to baby trap him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:45 PM
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One wouldn't think so with the way they talk about it on XX and here. And basically anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:43 PM
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Never, but the thought has crossed my mind. It is illegal where I currently reside.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:22 PM
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For me personally, to be pleasant, fun, and not seriously,directly, competitive with me. I don't even need full on submissiveness, just playfulness. Women, across all socioeconomic strata and age groups, are just not playful. There was a time between 2000-2009 that they were, and 1994-1998.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:34 PM
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I've just shortened my response to half smiling, and just softly grunting, "mmm huh"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:30 PM
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Another week, another couple of matches on Bumble. The quality tho... leaves a lot to be desired. 40+ nail technicians, live in home aids, community college drop outs,or it's 55+ women divorced from their long term (20+) marriages with all the uptightness of a prude ,but without any of the sexual vigor. Jesus it's bad. Q4M: To you older guys living in major metropolitan cities, how are your run of the mill matches looking for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:28 PM
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I noticed this as well. The irony is that the queer spaces are excellent about dropping the façade and getting to the point that it's about great sexual chemistry, but their odd and overly considerate, round about interactions appear, at first glance, to be both stiff and childish, lacking a lot of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:23 PM
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horizontal scars on wrists. women with a bodyfat% that is greater than 10+ my own. says "like" a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:29 PM
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It's more than social skills, asking directly demonstrates poor body language reading skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:53 PM
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It's posts like these that demonstrate how many people on PPD theorycraft but have never put in the grind of practice in the real world. It reads ok on paper, but this is not effective in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:30 PM
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Stop the gaslighting. It would bring much needed serenity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:22 PM
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The priest. God damn the priest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:01 PM
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The priest was a 70 year old virgin with sexual hangups, living vicariously through a woman's sexual storytelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:01 PM
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The movie series "Nymphomaniac" weren't works of arts, they were social commentary on what the median man's experience with women will be like, through the POV of the priest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:10 PM
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I hear you. I've had some experiences in this realm. It's not so bad if the person adjacent has became their own financial success.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:29 PM
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If everyone is special, then no one is special.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:38 PM
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Seems straightforward to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:26 PM
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I believe their internal emotional experience about "the one that got away" hits different. From what I've heard and observed first hand, it's more of a competitive thing. Like, that guy's current SO "took away" or "stole" what is rightfully hers. It's not like, "oh man, I was really in love with him and only him". It's more like "those are supposed to be my children, and he belongs to me, and (probably the biggest priority), that's MY lifestyle that SHE is enjoying. " It has little to do with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:26 PM
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Just when I was about to call it quits on Bumble, it sucked me back in again. I've been having a truly horrible dry spell, but a match actually showed enthusiasm and is putting energy into the conversation. And she has a body of a pornstar, it's killer! I'm excited to find out what her red flags are, she's mid 40s, single, owns her own company and is the sister of a B level hollywood star apparently. I seriously can't wait for the weekend. Just hope John Mayer hasn't hit it, that would be a deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:22 PM
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And they seem happy, so it’s all good. That's what gets me about women. You, them, it's all a wash anyway. So there is nothing special about you having committed to any one of them. Ergo, the whole idea of women selecting a long term spouse as something uniquely special is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:12 PM
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It's a romantic idea, no doubt germinated from a mind of a romantically frustrated man. What is comical, and a tragedy, is that 99.99% of the time, that woman a man pines for, thinks about, wonders ... she doesn't even know he exists. He is nothing to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:11 PM
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Disagree. If the veil would be fully pulled back, there would be a great deal of serenity as the gaslighting and denial of many men's lived experiences would be validated. That would be a big change for sexually unsuccessful men (basically the majority), and the world over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:41 PM
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I disagree. The way non rpillers talk about it, it's highly unique, case by case, and sort of just "magical", with all data and experiences from your past, and other people's experiences not being worth analyzing because there is ZERO correlation with future success. That's my biggest issue with that belief structure, that there is zero correlation with other peoples lived experiences. I call bullshit on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:39 PM
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The post question remind me of the ending of the movie "Nymphomaniac Vol II". The priest, having heard all of her sexual stories with a curious sympathetic ear, whips his dick out and wants some, surely after everything she shared she wouldn't oppose? And she turns a gun on him, a vicious act that she hadn't committed to any of the men in her past. He says, in fear and confusion "but ... You've had sex with thousands of men?!" , and a shot is heard and she flees. It is not the fairness or unfair…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:09 PM
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It's a hyper simplification. A quick heuristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:49 PM
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Sigh. This "primal nature" is better elucidated in this video on youtube. Pay special attention to the "looks" and "masculinity" portion of this, this is the focal point of PPD disagreement between men and women. All the back and forth and misunderstandings stem from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:36 PM
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Women go along with it because they prefer to keep the peace over their own needs. Disgusting. Repulsive. What an awful and self limiting way to live life. Masochists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:33 PM
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They are less likely to "do" anything about it. A man? I bet men would actively dump relationships if they were made aware of their partners past sexual history. I'll bet any kind of money on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:21 PM
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Yes, but to a much lesser extent. We already know that if a woman is already ok with a man with a wandering eye if he keeps quiet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:15 PM
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This is a good take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:58 PM
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One last thing - you're in fucking L.A - you're competing with Leo for the same girls, get the fuck outta there. Honestly, that's anywhere worth a damn. You're in direct competition with investment banking bros, mogul monsters in NYC, models and promoters in Miami, you're fighting with old money Polish dickheads and suburban money in Chicago, Tech assholes in the usual locations, big hat wearing motherfuckers in Dallas and Houston. You're always competing with rivals that are always younger, old…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:57 PM
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That and this particular dynamic is that the guy is mellow and chill, never demands, or expects, more from her because she is stunted and her personal development has been arrested. With an alcoholic, there is not fear that he would challenge her to live life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:50 PM
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Most normal people understand that their partner had a sex life before they met and just don’t want to hear the details. I think that's the crux of it. Most normal men would be repulsed and awed at the context of the sexual history of their current partner. It would cause a lot of reevaluation. Ultimately, a reevaluation I think is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:36 PM
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red pillers will try act as though modern civilization still operates on the law of the jungle. No. We point out that women's attraction to men still operates on a primal level. You can ignore all the technological progress, and women's increased financial independence. It obfuscates that primal fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:34 PM
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Youtube "hoe math" His most recent videos fully encapsulate both men's and women's dynamics in a fun, engaging and accurate way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:32 PM
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Do you mean median man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:06 PM
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What a time to be alive. It used to be that every man had Handgela and Palmela. But all these toys are AMAZING.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:05 PM
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Massive dealbreaker. I would say ok, but quietly file it in the back of my mind that this woman is only good for sex, she's not a serious person to have a LTR with because of our sexual incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:03 PM
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Because knowledge and experience trumps ignorance and naïveté, forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:40 PM
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oof. It hurts to even think about. I really don't know what's wrong with Will Smith, a person who has been so successful ina cutthroat industry. Either it's an extremely long con, or he ... is just so lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:00 PM
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I know the default answer will be “these men are blue pilled” Have you seen or heard Russell Wilson behave/talk? There's something really not ok with the way his brain works. He is living in his own little world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:58 PM
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Settling is usually used to express the situation when you're dating or are in a relationship with someone you're not physically attracted to. Yes AND. I think there's an additional element of bot you're not totally physically attracted to the person and they aren't totally "kind" or "nice" people. Like their raw likability isn't enough to cover their social niceties deficiency.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:57 PM
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I like this thinking. Mother nature, "common sense", the invisible hand are all MISOGYNISTIC. Whatever "patriarchy" exists is man's reasonable way to defend against an eternal, cosmic assault on his very being.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:49 PM
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I have already seen the first cohort of stubbornly single attractive women hit 40+. I'm currently seeing the second cohort getting past 40+ single. The first group is having a bit of hard time with it, but the second wave is better equipped. That latter group has already had their fill of hot passionate wild sex in their youth, they have long been focusing on interpersonal family and friend relationships and living life gardening, knitting, traveling (with and without the fling at the destinatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:31 PM
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Pretty much. The women who are available in the end are the same women you wanted, only now she has a lot more baggage. Children, first (and second) failed marriages, or her husband died in a freak accident/illness. But somehow you as man have to be MORE understanding about getting less of her time, attention, lust and sexuality because ... You aren't high on her priority list. And I'm like, I worked hard and made myself into something for that? So I smile and laugh. I say no. I get called immat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:27 PM
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I challenge the ascertain that men want power. I was born, I was a child, I didn't desire nor pursue power. I didn't have an interest in accumulating wealth or dominating other men. It is women's insatiable lust for men who have power that instills this desire in men who want to be successful with them. Women are truly disgusting when they desire masculine power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:44 PM
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Yes. Funny you mention this as there was a youtube video I saw recently that talked about a high profile social media japanese woman who kept her budding relationship with a japanese tennis star secret. It turned into a whole thing. But the incentive primarily was to keep her golden goose going as to appear "attainable" to the poor saps sending her money and giving her attention. EDIT, clarification, she isn't even a pornstar or onlyfans creator, I believe she might just simply be a WEATHERGIRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:18 PM
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No SARMS goblins?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:04 PM
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A real lunchpail kind of guy. High motor. First one in, last one out of the building.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:02 PM
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Yeah. Maybe I can sum it up this way; we are what we achieve not what we intend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:19 PM
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I have never had a year in my life in which my w-2 was over 80k.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:06 PM
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I dont know about that. It took for me to get into I need to be wealthy mode to get my act right and live life everyday as it were my last.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:03 PM
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Yes. I think different things at certain milestone numbers. 5,000; 10,000; 100k; 1Mil
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:01 PM
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Agreed. I find it so bizarre, even if it is that rare hetero man that will attend and actively do feminist things with ZERO intent on having a sexual agenda, he must understand that every woman will treat him with that suspicion. It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:59 PM
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I'm not totally sure about all that, and I regularly read it. What I'm most amazed about is how they bash sexually unsuccessful men, denigrating them, yet these very same women who do participate in casual sexual relationships then admit that their fuckbuddies were awful men in the next breath. It's like... um... HELLO. You are the aribitar of who enters and who does not, and by your own admission you pick really bad. It never occurs to them. Even the sex positive, poly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:57 PM
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I do on a daily basis. The sad part is that the economic machine is 3/4 of the part of why men are very unsuccessful with women. It's not even the daily argument of paying for the first date, it's infinitely deeper than that. A man has to build his kingdom first before becoming as successful with women as he'd wish it were. What really sucks is that for the majority of men, if they ever get to the finish line, you're already a late middle aged man that missed being sexually successful with women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:47 PM
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Thanks for the protip, but everything is fucking cringe. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:56 PM
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stares out my work window, breathing deeply. Maybe I just never crossed paths with a silly girl who was attracted to me. That must feel nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:38 PM
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Ok. couldn't see the image
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:28 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:23 PM
2

If you don't mind sharing, what was your opening DM specifically? Was it hi, hey, hello whatever or something else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:07 PM
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I'm nearing my end here, but reading all of women's points and arguments, I can't help but think: Q4W: Say a man wants to have a rich, positive and fulfilling sex/romantic life. How does it look like to you? How does it fit in your mind as "acceptable" behavior? I'm talking from beginning to end: from the initial stages of meeting, to going "steady" (is it dating one woman at a time singularly or is a man free to pursue multiple women concurrently? ), to things getting "more serious", and beyond…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:23 PM
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I'm basically at the "end" of countless self improvement cycles (spanning a wide and diverse spectrum of health, wealth, social skill and tribe, hobbies, etc) My general feeling was best expressed by the Thespian Apocalypse, from the old X men series, when a regular human exclaimed that he was a mutant, in shock, after discovering he was not human. "I am as far beyond mutants, as they are beyond you." "For I am the rocks of the eternal shore, crash against me, and BE BROKEN!". But maybe he said …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:56 PM
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3.5%, that apparently is reasonable. I would never throw a serious bet at 3.5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:46 PM
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Fucked up views? Maybe unflattering views, but is that so bad? I know what you mean, there's no need to reinvent the wheel as it pertains to sociability. But its the Machiavellian skills that are sorely lacking by today's young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:58 PM
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For me personally, I believe it's sharpened my social interactions with women. Fluidity and smoothness with topics, being more comfortable leaving things unsaid, transitional topics. A whole host of improvements.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:24 PM
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This content just makes men harbour more resentment for women, which in turn makes them unhappier and worsen their odds of finding sex, love etc. I have a deep appreciation for when an obscured truth is trumpeted loudly, so those deaf in the back can hear. I also am impressed with the depth and scale of so much grassroots research has been conducted, from the normal to the neurodivergent takes, and everything in-between. The quantity and quality of anecdotes and comparing notes is unparalleled i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:11 PM
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Hard disagree. I think they was a beautiful golden era of dating and fucking from 1980-1989. Pre internet, social skills were there, knowing how to be attractive was a skill known only to a handful of guys in NYC. It was like being Steph Curry playing the day after the 3 point line was instituted. No contest. A man who knew his shit was untouchable. AND things were good for the regular guys who had blue pill game and were prosocial in their niche. Music, games, fashion, whatever. You were only c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:39 PM
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No, it's worse than that. Unless your parent started a trust fund for you before you were born, you are already behind. So behind in fact that, unless you can time striking it 7 digit option deal rich in your late teens, you're in for a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:08 PM
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LOL. I'm not talking about it in the biblical sense, but yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:49 PM
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I think you're side stepping the fact that the skills and knowledge required to become attractive to women needs to be communicated from someone who fully knows and understand to a younger person that doesn't know what they don't know. Empathy alone doesn't cover that gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:46 PM
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If it is not your parent's job to create an environment for their own flesh and blood to flourish in this world, than whose is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:42 PM
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You really think an empathetic father is all that's needed for a young man to become successful with women? lol, who is using garbage vocabulary now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:40 PM
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I disagree. There has been a concerted effort, by many (chiefly women, and structured society at large), for a whole host of varying reasons and agendas, to keep a large portion of straight men in the dark about how to be more romantic and sexually more effective with women. If you are unable to see that, I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:26 PM
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Like, do you think there's some secret that other people are taught that you weren't? I do believe there is an art of sex and seduction that exists and is obviously real, but is downplayed, hidden, denied, obfuscated, ridiculed and denigrated by the majority of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:14 PM
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Agreed. If sex is a young man's goal, the first base case would be to have a sexually successful father WHO IS ABLE TO articulate what made him sexually successful. Absent that, I believe the second best teacher is an older woman who takes a sexual interest in the young man and takes him under her wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:12 PM
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Disagree. I have many friends who were raised with fathers. I would say 99% of these fathers HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO CLUE in the arts of seduction and the ONLY reason they lucked out having wives was... just dumb luck. Humanity has always denied, hidden, downplayed and kept secret the arts of seduction. The old tomes of the past, kamra sutra, writings of Casanova, any and all the ancient philanders has been scrubbed because of various agendas. Bottom line: most societies cannot function like they do …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:05 PM
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What the jibitty glibitty, gobbledly gook fuck did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:13 PM
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A very underrated post, you SEE that right? It's not the woman being this super awesome powerful being but the man. How... subservient, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:53 PM
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Jordan Peterson has covered this already. It's rich, werewolf, pirate, vampire, doctor. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:51 PM
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James Bond's traumatic past is having a troubled childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:50 PM
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I've never lost my wallet. Almost 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:04 PM
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Soothing the soft egos of maladjusted, overly sensitive to criticism, parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:49 PM
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Enabling ingratitude. And this is being expressed by the boy to the entity that is eternally giving, imagine the boys attitude when he went out into the world and behaved this way with being much less selfless. It breeds all sorts of antisocial behavior and maladjustment with the rest of the world. Entitlement, rage, antipathy etc. In short, acting like the tree encourages a long list of negatives for a young one, and sets them up for FAILURE in life. Financial, emotional, spiritual. If you unab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:48 PM
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The former is incredibly toxic. It's enabling. With no conditions. You want to know what a problematic child raised without any conditions grows up to look like? It isn't pretty. I believe that anyone that proudly proclaims to be of the former interpretation, you are not well adjusted and in dire need of therapy. You have no spine and are open to being taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:29 PM
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what if I told you that there are people in world who has never left their country, city, or even their town but are satisfied with their life? That doesn't surprise me. I can tell you that I grew up knowing many of those people. Hell, many of my childhood friends continue to live a life like that. There will always be a (large) subset of people who are timid, meek, lazy, remarkably uncurious, uncultured, stupid, unimaginative, stolid, feeble in body and mind, pathetic in the world. Unfortunatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:28 PM
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Reading post after post, comment after comment on PPD makes me realize there are two types of people. If you were to read the children's book "The giving tree"; you either believe it's a parable about about the virtues of being selfless and giving, or, it's an illustration about cognitive dissonance and the tragedy of a one sided narcissistic relationship. And the repulsiveness is the former NEVER reaching the awareness to see the later. The reward is NOT the selfish taking or the selfless givin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:19 PM
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In my almost 50 years of life. Once, sorta.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:00 PM
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He's a scammer/con-artist who has done some unethical shit to get that type of money He came from a wealthy family He one of VERY few men in the single digit percentage that lucked out in tech, crypto, fame, sports, etc. You forgot Investment banking. But you know what? That's okay. There's absolutely nothing wrong with living within your means, there's nothing wrong with living in mediocrity, No. It is not ok to live a life of mediocrity. You have such a short glimpse on being in this blue pear…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:58 PM
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YES I immediately saw this. I grew up broke ass fuck and gained a lot of money later in life. I sometimes eat Eggo waffles AND I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT YOU SAY WILLOW. Go suck a dick for 3 hours, I'm going to enjoy my waffle with honey drizzled on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:12 PM
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Here's a different take from women's preferences skewing more masculine as they get older. Many women have MAJOR sexual hangups, most commonly through family, religion, culture, etc. A girl that was really into me when we were teens shared with me that she was into a type of japanese novel romances called Yaoi. Even though she was straight, and starting to become very interested in sex, she had a hard time thinking about it because of how scary and intimidating classic male sexuality is often po…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:36 PM
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I literally posted [this video, a psychologist breaking this down.](Orion breaking down what men don't understand about women's sexual selection. I recommend setting the playback speed to 1.25 to get through it faster. As an older guy who has peaked out in a couple of tangible domains, it's what I continue to grapple with. I have become so much better than the great majority of my peer age women, and they carry so much more baggage than I do, I'm priced myself out of the dating/mating market in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:24 PM
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Men have to stop spinning in circles trying to understand women. They either don't know themselves and/or are actively deceiving you. Either way, same result, they are full of shit. Women are full of shit. Men, at midnight light a candle in the bathroom, with the lights off. Stare into the mirror and repeat out loud "Women are full of shit". Say it as many times as necessary until it sinks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:37 PM
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Women don't want to hear men blurt out... almost anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:45 PM
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It's just that priorities change. At 16 you weren't into the same things as when you were 6. At 26 you cringe over the things you raved about when you were 16. At 36 you realize that even though you thought you knew it all at 26, you were wrong. It's just that priorities change. Sure, that's all well and good, but when women climb their high horses and talk down on men for playing the field in older age (especially men who were unsuccessful earlier in life), a field that they themselves enjoyed …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:30 PM
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NYC, it didn't seem to make an impression. I would seriously judge you hard for an all gold Rollie. That shit signals, "I have some money, but like to watch my gf/wife get blow by BBC". And I'll wonder why you didn't just bite the bullet and go AP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:07 PM
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Rules for thee, but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:23 PM
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ass-to-mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:01 PM
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A two for one today: I really enjoyed this video by Todd expounding on the current "dating crisis". I felt it really accurate and balanced.. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:38 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Sagittarius. This girl has a sad problem. Often tom boyish, never totally comfortable being a women or being feminine, she carries it about like a male cat. Clunky, goofy, ungraceful. But the big problem with love and sex with this woman is this: She confuses friendship for love, and love for friendship. She really ought to just pair off with her male besty, god knows he would be thrilled with the idea. Whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:13 PM
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Mhmm. We have arrived full circle. This society experiment has ended. It was be amusing to see what will fill the vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:50 PM
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check my post history: )
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:32 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Scorpio. The scorpion. She often isn’t the most beautiful, or the prettiest, or the cutest. But somehow, someway, she is the sexiest out of all of them. She cares and is actively interested in sex. She has desire, fire and drive to fuck! She’s the dream come true for the man who has a healthy libido. So what’s the catch? Her inner emotional life has been hurt. Whether through neglectful parents, bad first b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:29 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. We move on to Libra. The only zodiac sign that is not represented by a living, breathing animal but rather a concept. This is apropos. The scales, balance. Funnily enough many Libras fall far short of it in their lives. They often have tumultuous, messy love lives. I try to give these women some credit, they do loudly proclaim to want and chase true love. In practice, they easily and knowingly get involved with unavailab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:03 PM
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“don’t ask a fish how to catch fish” may aswell be “don’t ask a customer how to con them” No, it's more like asking Schrödinger's cat if it is alive or not in the box, and it responding "Yes.".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:47 PM
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I'll be doing them in chronological order daily! = )
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:08 PM
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For the majority of my life I was against it. I thought any man that has to pay is pathetic, and he is forced into a hard money exchange for sex because he was incapable of meeting a woman who would agree to have casual sex with him. I likened it to junk food, for the sexually poor men who can't afford to buy a steak, they need to eat junk chips to get by. As i've become older, and significantly richer, my stance has softened a lot. If you're paying for specific rare traits ( young big tittied r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:04 PM
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I know. Women need to just stop and admit that all the outside virtues are virtually meaningless for attraction/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:59 PM
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I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. Let's start with the most fantastic long term fuck buddies. Virgo. It's comical. Often thought of with Aphrodite, the sex and fertility goddess, these women are anything but. The only thing they share in common with the ancient deity is that they liked to get fucked, but somehow miraculously are born again virgins they next morning. Women born under this sign are super peculiar. It's as if you told a computer what a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:57 PM
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Who says I haven't? They looked like they could use the extra protein lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:41 PM
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men often think that we give away sex as a sort of reward in the hopes that they will commit to us. Men often think that the majority of women gatekeep sex hard. If women do actually enjoy sex in and of itself, one would think they'd make things easier to make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:21 PM
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You're not even the product. The "concept" of you is the product.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:58 PM
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or the feeble minded, or the horribly inflexible...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:58 PM
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Why do women always say no when propositioned for sex by a stranger? Why are most all, allegedly hetereosexual, women so easily turned off to sex by the slightest of missteps by a potential sexual partner? Women's sex drives are incredibly low and broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:26 PM
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I disagree with the premise that men's sex drives are "high". They are the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:07 PM
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Economic output throughout the ages would be SEVERELY regressed. We could honestly still be living in mudshit shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:05 PM
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Cunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:56 PM
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I believe she is, but that dismisses all other women too easily as if they aren't sexual beings and have their own desires. But man, the way most alleged women talk about women's sexuality on PPD, you would think they absolutely hate it, are incredibly sex negative, and feel that it should only be doled out to men who "commit" to them. first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:56 PM
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Sure it does. I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:54 PM
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It feels wrong to think about it if they don't feel the same way imo. You need to get over your Catholic/upbringing guilt around sex. Thinking about sex should never feel wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:52 PM
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And thus a negative feedback loop is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:47 PM
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A few things this morning. I fear for this new generation of men. It's like their critical thinking and deductive skills have been shot to shit. Seeing post after post on PPD about how OLD has ruined men's chances because somehow the evil is OLD. Like, hello, no. OLD is a force multiplier to women's ALREADY INNATE selectiveness/sexual choosiness! All OLD is put that primal selection process on steroids. Look, the genie is out of the bottle, OLD and connecting over social media, the internet is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:47 PM
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The problem with online dating is women's selectiveness, not the ratio of men to women Half wrong. Women's choosiness certainly has ramped up to sky high levels, and that doesn't help men's chances. But in the book "Mate, become the man women want" by Tucker Max and Geoffrey Miller; the ratio of men and women DIRECTLY and TANGIBLY affect the dating/mating environment. You need to read more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:39 PM
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There has been tons of research looking into all the negative impacts self masturbation is for men, especially when watching sexual images and videos. Yes, it kills the drive for almost all men to sexually/romantically pursue women. It definitely kills my energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:36 PM
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LTR maybe. Propose? Hell no, it's bizarre to bring that up before any rapport, dating, or connection has been established.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:27 PM
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Define "seriously date"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:14 PM
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Or, like what happened to me a decade ago, he got real busy with health, wealth and fitness. All that takes up many hours of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:10 PM
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I think we have a confusion of descriptive words. Women are so trigger happy to call any interest from men as "desperate", most of what I've seen, read, done myself ... I would simply call eager, keen, with a sense of some urgency. Women have next to ZERO urgency in making anything happen with a man. So I guess the question is, why do women feel/show no exigency in attraction/sex with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:39 PM
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Agreed. It's the min/maxing of stats and strategy in games.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:32 PM
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It's disgusting that men even has to feel the need to "commit" in order to sleep with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:31 PM
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Women aren't entitled to anything. See ladies, guys can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:30 PM
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Exactly! Women are super allowed to be mercurial and change their minds, about anything, in milliseconds. Ladies, are men not allowed to change their minds as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:29 PM
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LOL love this breakdown. Thing is, there is nothing I see in this telling that suggests he lied or "tricked" her into sex. He said he's open to it, needs to know a woman better. He then proceeds to get to know her. Maybe during getting to know her he has to reevaluate. He's open to hanging out more. Please point out to me where he's purposely tricking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:28 PM
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Two separate thoughts this morning. Something men really need to understand, and for some reason many women deny... when a man gets fit, the world spreads it's legs. Coach Greg always cracks me up. This is his new video about the nightclubs being dead. It's a bit long, but I like to set the play speed at 1.25x, seems like the sweet spot. I was never really a part of the nightclub game, but I did witness it in the 90s and early 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:17 PM
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Women are infinitely more context/atmosphere dependant when being open to socialization and perhaps being open to sex than men are. Ask women why they are so awkward that they need a made up social convention in order to socialize with sexually interested men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:31 PM
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Heterosexual attraction and mating is one of the most simple concepts in the world? LOL. You must be truly regarded. It's the stuff that's been complained about the human condition since time immemorial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:02 PM
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Some guys lifted some guys picked up the guitar in high school. Is there supposed to be a takeaway in this sentence. You're inexperience/youth/limited mental faculty is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:52 PM
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It was a mixed bag. Which is it, take women at their words, or not? Back then, the skinny, poor artist guys were getting traction. Let me tell you, they were certainly not in shape... nor did they have any money ( almost always spent on alcohol, drugs, gear ). Seeing that, what was one really supposed to figure out from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:39 PM
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The importance of money was extremely downplayed 30 years ago, and working out was a mixed bag, especially when you consider that the majority of women did not work out the way they do now. They were coasting on their youth. And they were denying any attraction to built men. We were stupid, for listening to what women were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:17 PM
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I am. On a scale of 1-10, before I came to learn and understand all the RP material of the time, my sexual success was a 2/20. Nowadays I'm told from people on the outside looking in that it's a 8/10, but I feel it's more like a ~7/10. Not perfect, but far from terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:14 PM
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I gained a deep and thorough, practical understanding on how to put my best foot forward in attracting, and identifying selecting cues from interested women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:10 PM
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I'm not so sure about that. Many proudly proclaim how they are much happier with their smutty novels, cats/dogs and red wine (to help swallow the daily Prozac) .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:28 PM
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2 is big.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:05 PM
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there is some direct genetic drive for family and children that isn't channeled entirely through sex drive. Yes, I'm afraid that's not totally true. Little did we know that the movie "Idiocracy" was not, in fact, a fun turn your brain off comedy but rather a prophecy. I think the events at Union Sq. in NYC supports that. Can you believe we went from banding together after 9/11 to that? Boggles the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:04 PM
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To a woman who has everything material and financial, what good is a man to her? An abstraction of love or want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:54 PM
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-as material need for men trends towards zero. The future is going to be really exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:46 PM
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The dude banging the girl you're crushing on isn't Chad. He's just some guy. He's not rich let's be real, he's not that good looking. But that's just it. This guy wasn't anything special yet she chose to fuck him AND not *you*. So what's the takeaway for the rejected man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:32 PM
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It's true for me. I've had to make my peace with it. I've had to really refine my focus when meeting a girl and imagine if she would have chosen me when I/she was younger or it's only because of negative "life experiences" that she's attempting to do a 180 from the usual men she used to date/fuck. I feel that men that experience this progression, we sort of become judge and arbiter of a woman's real intention, and are skeptical of the capacity of the women to be good/love you because of such bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:30 PM
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Yet Lauren, is heavily investing in her looks. I mean she's investing in it like she's transitioning from he -> her. I would not say looks are her strength... she must have WILD bedroom game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:32 PM
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It makes perfect sense. Imagine handing a hedonistic 10 year old child all the money in the world to buy ice cream. Imagine that child is you. What would you do with unlimited wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:30 PM
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I won't deny it's all on a spectrum. For the majority of them though, I'm the last really good resort, like fantasy football, the next guy they'd try to replace me with is an undeniable tier lower. Widowers, children, baby momas, cramped schedules, baggage, unfulfilled life/low income/low education/incompatible lifestyles and personality. I carry appreciably low baggage for my age and lifestyle. The younger women, I'm totally a time-filler/I'm just a niche filler. I am 99% certain the ones that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:00 PM
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Nah it's a mixed bag. The women I want are the absolute freaks in bed, either never want to marry, 0 people at a wedding or over 1,000+. No inbetween.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:05 PM
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Either be a confortmist or pariah. Figure out which you’d be comfortable. Except you and I know most people will not. They will straddle the fence, thinking they are clever, and perhaps they are at times, as to not be open targets. The loud and overly opinionated, especially when that opinion runs contrary to prevailing thought, are the first to be attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:55 PM
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Taking a decidedly oppositional stance to living life. No doubt it has impacted other things in your life, unless you're wonderfully a trust fund baby/other financial windfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:53 PM
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Absolutely. But going further than our mere one on one compatibility, I'd argue your setting yourself up, unnecessarily, for more friction and hardship than is needed. It is in my view that life already is so awful, raw, ugly and dangerous. There's no need to make a hard situation worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:50 PM
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You must be in the minority of women. I'm sure you've realized on your many years on earth that you are at the end of the bell curve on other things most women generally agree with. Is that fair to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:28 PM
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I don't care for hipsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:27 PM
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This will be the strangest I disagree, but secretly agree with you moment. I’m just so tired of watching myself and every single other woman tie herself into knots so that people will like us….” Simple solution: STOP BEING A PEOPLE PLEASER. This part I agree with, but by agreeing with you, we are signalling our outgroup status to the ingroup of society. We can argue if it's nature or nurture, but the truth of the matter is that man (and woman), humans are, at our base, tribal. With that there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:02 PM
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Also David’s bridal was trash. It was the “wall mart” of wedding places with wall mart quality but huge markups I agree. But what do you think the purchasing power of most Americans is? It's funny I just saw a video this morning talking about the business model of Primark, a british fashion retailer with zero online shopping presence. At first glance it appears like what GAP used to be in the 1990s but with Old Navy pricing of the early 2000s. Every fucking poor American shops at places like tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:57 PM
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I'm not convinced. David's Bridal, which accounted for 25% of wedding dresses in the US filed for bankruptcy recently, showing definite irrefutable downward trend for weddings (the accepted precursor to marriages). And take into account, women want a wedding day not actually the marriage. Bottom line: Marriage was always the economic equivalent of a man pointing a loaded 12 gauge shotgun to his dick with his new bride's finger on the trigger and him PRAYING that she never decides to pull it in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:41 PM
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Fancy words for an evolved ape. Never forget that we are a barbaric, child like, savage ape race. Don't fall so in love with your cognitive functions that you forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:23 PM
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Nature always gives us a way to have entertainment. It's like watching a lessor life form, like a fly, fly right into fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:27 PM
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I especially love the concept that if you only loved yourself unconditionally, magically other people are going to positively respond to this deep, newfound sense of "centeredness" ... and somehow women are going to respond romantically, sexually to that? Jesus. He drank the kool aid hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:20 PM
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Reading this I couldn't help but think of the character Q in the tv series "Star Trek" What is the purpose of this pedantic psychobabble? There are a lot of things women are drawn to. There's more than one way to skin a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:18 PM
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Nobody asked, but yeah sure = ).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:10 PM
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If that's the imagery you got, that's more on you than on how I describe it. It's more like I hangout, have fun and fuck the women I like. She does the same with me. Then I go off live life, and hangout with other women. She goes off and hangs out with friends and family, or takes care of her nephew, or watches shows, or works on her side hustle, or does a million and one other things. I don't have the "expectation" that she sit at home and wait for me. I do have the expectation that all my wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:56 PM
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In a good relationship, Yeah I don't need all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:27 PM
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She couldn't handle it becoming more known and public. Most women do not care as long as it's kept very hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:06 PM
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Disagree. Even as I am vehemently against marriage for my own life, it still serves a few purposes for others. Most all of them have to do with children and health proxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:06 PM
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That does not mean most women would be amenable to that. I find that more and more women are seeing the writing on the wall and are becoming more and more amenable to it. They are seeing the dearth of eligible men to meet their needs (and all their needs are varied and not entirely sex based). The "market" for male services has been splintered to holy hell. Do they sleep with other men? two do, but the majority do not. I would not be with a man who expected monogamy from me but was sleeping with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:58 PM
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I wouldn't call it an obsession, more of logical deductions playing out to a reasonable endgame. Women do learn to share a man. Case in point, all my ladyfriends are aware that I sleep with other women. Some know more than others, depending on their individual level of interest/asking questions. The most attached have asked whether I would be open to more formazilling a sort of mormon-esque structure in which I clearly already have a woman I step out to in the social world (open dates, people se…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:35 PM
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Like in the Buu saga of DragonBall Z, they were all blown to millions of tiny Buu's and all congealed to form LilithofBabylon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:29 PM
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It's useful. When women say touch grass as an easy dismissal, my brain just translates it to "touch barbell. Lift"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:27 PM
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I answered this question just yesterday already. It will be Gattaca, on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:24 PM
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The irrational fantasy for a man, is being with a woman who says no to every guy, but yes to him on the first night, because he's so charming and so amazing that a woman who always says no couldn't hold back her desire for him. This is false. Even when I was 100% sexually/romantically unsuccessful with women, I didn't feel this. What I did want is a woman that primarily says no to most men, but that would say yes to a handful of men who were decent (meaning not a thug, drugdealer, instantly awfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:22 PM
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Q4W: Why are you so obsessed with commitment that you feel entitled to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:20 PM
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Have to agree. The reason is immaterial. Most people aren't clairvoyant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:15 PM
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You took the barbie pill. I get it. You might be overthinking it. The Endgame of all this is, the power dynamics will never change. The plain janes up to the most beautiful will have all the sexual power throughout the majority of their life cycle. Ages 17-50 ( depending on how well they take care of themselves/genetics ). There has been so much advancement thanks to "vampire bro" Bryan Johnson ( he's going for lifespan AND healthspan extension ) and continuing improvements in the fields of plas…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:03 PM
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After having observed the backlash that happened with Jonah Hill, the boundary issue is this. My boundary is I won't have a lover/SO party and have fun with other men. It's toxic when I try to impose my boundary on another when I tell them "my boundary is this, I don't want YOU seeing other men while you're seeing me". It's non toxic when either A) I don't verbalize my boundary, she crosses it, and I softly ghost her because of it. She can either ignore that I ghosted her which means she was rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:34 PM
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Oh lord. You need a complete thinking and belief overhaul. You point a gun to my head right now and demanded to know what to get started with, my honest recommendation would be to read, in this order. No more Mr. Niceguy by Glover I believe, 3% man by Corey Wayne, Undercover Sex signals by Leil Downdes, The book of pook last to tie it all together in a playful way. That should be a good core to get your started.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:44 PM
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Sounds like you're proud of being transparently naïve and earnest, you wear it as a badge of honor despite your negative dating results. You're going to have to make a choice. Continue being the person you are, or change. It's up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:31 PM
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In my late teens and throughout my 20s, I would have been THRILLED to have the first 2 average women examples. I would have been highly opened to marrying and building a life with such a woman. Now, at age 49? You couldn't pay me to. My financial power is increasing at such an exponential rate, there's no reason to. I don't need women for virtually 99% of anything in life. So what does a woman bring to my table that I would be interested in? Their company, beauty. And their hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:29 PM
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Disagree strongly. Better Bachelor posted a good video just yesterday about this. It's a bit long, but in short, men greatly want women for their youth, femininity, beauty and their sexuality. We want this from women exponentially higher than whatever it is most women want from men. Here's the rub, what women want from men is varied and all over the place, and whatever it happens to be, they value it significantly less as to be ok never finding it. The even bigger rub is that as women grow i soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:23 PM
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I do whatever the fuck I want, whenever I want. With no one, or thing able to stop me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:27 PM
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I love that. The passage of time is "maturity". They only "matured" because time has pushed them out of the casino. That's not true maturity, that's being kicked out and adjusting to a new reality. Real maturity would be knowing that and behaving differently, younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:26 PM
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took decades and thousands of rejections. Want to know what the reward is? an anxious avoidant divorcee an anxious avoidant bipolar off her meds a young, affluent, former college athlete that fucks whoever the hell she feels like cuz she's hot and she knows it. I am only like 5th on her list to call. a lonely high libido autistic woman with no real friends. It really doesn't feel like I'm winning. My only consolation prize is their big tits and high sex drives, but everything else makes me feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:57 PM
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but there is also a sweet spot where people care without being insecure. Honestly, I don't think so. Women will look at a man being in that "sweet" spot and think he cares. I would argue it's that the man has finally succumbed to be emotionally exhausted and doesn't care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:35 PM
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No fantasy. Can supply proof as needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:27 PM
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Look, you're missing the bigger point. This isn't an anomaly out in the dating world, this is the norm. This is what's out there, available for the average man. This is it. These are the only women who look attractive, have white collar jobs, are educated with multiple degrees, this is what their private life looks like. The way women talk on PPD make it seem like they believe they are superior to men. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, they're not! But when a man finally achieves serenity, de…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:24 PM
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You must live under a rock/a very rural, red state or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:59 PM
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I have a rotation of four women currently. It's not "just her". They are all like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:57 PM
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If you think its only broken/avoidant women who behave like this ... I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:55 PM
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Serial relationships aren't normal? Than the majority of people aren't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:38 PM
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I’m not really sure how a man decides he loves a woman he’s not even with Look, when a man is hanging out with a woman regularly and fucking her, feelings happen. From a woman’s perspective a man’s love is total bullshit given how it can change when said man doesn’t get their way and how so many guys say the same thing to the same women. Maybe. But that proves my point. A man that can be indifferent to whether the woman leaves him or not "wins". That's not love, that's a contest of who can care …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:37 PM
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I get what you're saying. But when will it be when we can all admit, women have their sexual prerogative. And that prerogative is so convoluted, reactionary, mercurial, and so far removed from genuine "love" to be even considered close to it? When can we finally agree that the way the majority of women conduct themselves in love and sex is just so ... frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:26 PM
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They were serial.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:20 PM
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This same woman was loyal in a monogamous, committed 15 year marriage. If you believe that married woman are fundamentally different from unmarried woman, you might want to dry the water on the back of your ear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:19 PM
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But that's just it. She isnt high N count in my opinion, given age, context, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:16 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:15 PM
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This reminds me of an episode of "Mating Grounds" with Max Tucker and Dr. whatever the fuck his name was. In the middle of the episode, Max goes on an autistic, unhinged rant expressing his "ick" for men that remember specific details about women they are sexually seeing. I find that it so bizarre that the majority of women, and some men, would find it weird that a guy who is exchanging sexual fluids with, he isn't allowed to jote things down about. Sex really is just supposed to be momentary, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:15 PM
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You would think that, but you would be wrong. In this case she comes from a stable household, both mom and dad are in their 35th anniversary, and one in which she herself was married for 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:09 PM
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This literally proves the pareto principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:07 PM
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"I'm not like that" L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:06 PM
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They show zero understanding of what men want too, No, they understand. They just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:04 PM
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My longterm fWb said something that made me think. Out of nowhere she thanked me. When I asked her what for, she thanked me because I was patient with her a number of years ago. I didn't understand. She went on to explain that when she asked for some time to herself to sort out her feelings and whether she wanted to continue seeing me, I had said ok and didn't txt or call her. She then went on to explain that the four men before she met me, at varying points of seeing them, she asked for an inde…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:58 PM
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Dating is not logical. It’s not scientific. Whole heartedly disagree. Once only needs to read the book "Undercover sex signals" by Leil Lowndes to see that the courtship/mating dance is logical, highly predictable, testable with signals, tells, progression. It is a skillset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:38 PM
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In my experience, it's been Jen, Jenny and Jennifers that are the biggest hoebags. Not surprising given the etiology of the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:05 PM
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No. Women can directly go up to the guy they want, and more often than not get them. Men aren't afforded that luxury because we have to wait and be vigilant about observing a woman's "choosing signals" to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:55 PM
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Q4A: Why do the most promiscuous, sexually open and fun women usually speak with vocal fry? It's like become the biggest signal to me that she's usually DTF Also, why are "Jen"'s the biggest sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:52 PM
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You don't enjoy donuts as much as I do, because if you did, you wouldn't be satisfied with just 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:50 PM
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all the time. You don't get to choose which want you. You can only choose whether you say yes or no to the ones that show interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:47 PM
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To this day, I will never know. This was after she romantically/sexually rejected me and intimated that she "wasn't that kind of girl". LOL. There's a lot I am ashamed of that i've done/not done in this world. But even before RP, before knowing anything about anything, once I learned about what she did, I never spoke to, called, beeped, txt or emailed her ever again in my life. Best thing I ever did. The experience really left me questioning everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:12 PM
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No and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:07 PM
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If men as a whole were more selective with who they slept with women would probably No they wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:43 PM
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My oneitis having anal sex with five random, gay men. My next door neighbor finding out a week before his wedding that his high school sweetheart, fiancée, was fucking one of her close male friends throughout their relationship without his knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:40 PM
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LOL. To be fair, I don't know if I have sex radar or whatever, but you can cold read a guy and gauge how much sex he is having.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:30 PM
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Ah, the wonderful all the shit choices I make gets swept neatly under the rug with "People change". "I was young". "I was having fun". I was young too. I wanted to have fun too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:52 PM
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I get that. But I do question what men women ultimately do throw their bodies at. It's not much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:43 PM
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Arguable. So many that have cultivated that long con have sprung awful surprises on their wives. eh. I am more loner than not, and I do not expect any lady friends to be the sole source of my entertainment, but more importantly, my happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:29 PM
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My "rp journey" really started in seriousness with the fun book of pook. As mildly effective as it was, it was extremely light on the "why" and more like "just do this".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:23 PM
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In my lifetime, in the US circa 1990s, I'd say it was Ross Jeffries. Historically, I would say it's Casanova.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:22 PM
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Why is "social circle" game so damn important to most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:42 PM
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I agree it's not even close. Women are so terrible, they are many standard of deviations worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:09 PM
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Women are disproportionately more terrible than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:51 PM
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Women don't deny that they require physical attraction. I think women greatly deny the importance of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:43 PM
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I'm not even sure that's totally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:42 PM
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That's the unspoken truth... the great majority of women are terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:42 PM
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It's not. I've written at length about it here on PPD numerous times. And nah, I assure you, these dudes were major losers. Still are actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:36 PM
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Why wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:05 PM
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If women want to have casual sex they can get it from guys way above their league. Yes, but also at their level and then, in many facets and in my opinion, these very same women were all to happy to fuck men below my level while rejecting me. Granted, some could be argued a toss up, it being very subjective and debateable. But fuck man, 5 gay men? That's just random. And yet at the same time, it's to be expected as women are not honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:02 PM
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But I have in the past and then the man takes it as an excuse to sexualize me Oh, the horror...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:37 PM
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Yes every woman is different... Women only had sex with men they were in love with Emily told me this early on. She told me that is how she was leading her life. She then went on to have a lot of unprotected sex with strange and random men, while inebriated, in college and regular life. I held her to her own standard... Women only have sex with guys they like Amanda was adamant that she didn't like fucks boys. Actually detested them. Fucked a couple of fuck boys after her bf found out she was ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:25 PM
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Ok here's the thing, growing up it was : Women only had sex with men they were in love with; that was wrong Women only have sex with guys they like; that was wrong ok, Women only have sex with guys who are considerate and respectful ... that was wrong. Ok ok, women only have sex with men she is interested in dating "seriously", only if it's leading towards a committed monogamous long term relationship with ... that was wrong too. So women have sex with men... at random. And so, men have to be ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:51 PM
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Sure. 99% it's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:24 PM
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It's more nuanced than that. I don't like the idea of meeting a woman who claims she's "not like that" only to discover later that yes, she is indeed like that. It's a waste of time. Women are rarely upfront and honest about what their situation is. And the truth is, they are always in a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:15 PM
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Not going to lie, IRL, I get demotivated from approaching knowing that this girl is low key banging a fWb for years, yet I have to put in in sort of "work" getting to know her. It's lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:15 PM
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Personally, it has worked a whopping one time in thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:47 PM
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The ones that get fit and boob jobs can milk an additional 10 years in Miami nightclubs. What I think a lot of men don't understand about the COCK carousel and the idea about the wall is that, for 99% of women, they get to decide when they feel like getting off the ride. Not men, not time, not failures of "life teaching them the hard way". They decide when they want off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:52 PM
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pics, for research purposes of course lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:47 PM
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After witnessing this first hand a few times,( girl got on herbalife, lost a bunch of weight/gained muscle mass, paid for a breast augmentation surgery) I would feel that the girl is taking active steps to become more attractive in order to attract more/a higher level of man. Basically, the current relationship will not last much longer in it's current form.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:43 PM
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Disagree. Women as a whole set the tone of the current dating/sexual environment. Pussy is the motivator and sets the stage. Penis has nowhere near the demand to set the conditions for what women as a whole do for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:39 PM
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No they do not feel they are going crazy. Many are not looking for a committed long term relationship. One of my girls has freely shared that after she broke up a LTR that lasted over a decade, she became open to fucking guys that were in complicated/ethically non monogamous relationships. She wasn't interested in dating them for a LTR, just good enough to fuck. I do find it pretty remarkable that women who they are only interested in LTR and won't entertain anything else, often have very differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:38 PM
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Don't have paragraph long diatribes of emotional wordy bullshit. Txts are just to communicate a quick hellos, funny gifs, and setting a time and place to hangout. Bigger scope, men need to learn how to love and enjoy women without attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:29 PM
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Repeat on Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:54 PM
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My mid to late 30s were a vast improvement over ages 15-34. 40s have been better than 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:00 PM
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No. In my opinion, while not perfect, Wheat waffle's formula for calculating a man's SMV is probably the closest approximation a man is going to have to have an honest assessment for his mass appeal to women. It is weighted, and skews more for height than for face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:59 PM
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Go to SE Asia, mexico and ask yourself again if whether the focus on male height is an American thing only...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:26 PM
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Yeah it was reading between the lines on some of her replies to JH ages ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:57 PM
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I'm not absolving Jonah Hill, I know people I trust in the business and all of them unequivocally state he's a fucking asshole. This chick made it clear that she was getting some on the side with randoms/fWbs. This guy walked into it eyes wide open. I don't know if he thought that his fame would make her go gaga over only him or what, but she maintained who she was and he couldn't deal with it. I am sure once everything is accurately fleshed out there will be a lot to learn from this from a fame…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:35 PM
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bingo, the PR scrubbing was almost instantaneous. Impressive, dare I say premeditated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:27 PM
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This question has already been answered by a woman (Leil Lowndes) in her book "Undercover sex signals". The answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:19 PM
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Because for many tall women in my history, I was good enough to fuck but not good enough to be seen out in public. That shit was on them, I love me tall women. Tall women are too weak internally, they care too much about stranger's opinions on them. It's extremely pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:54 PM
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There's a lot of girls that don't partake in hookup culture either. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hahahahahaahahahahaah. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:23 PM
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Surgeon, billionaire, pirate, werewolf and vampire aren't types.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:30 PM
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Repulsive. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:28 PM
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Suffering without complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:27 PM
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I think you're missing the point that this current rise of manospherian thought is a reasonable counter reaction to the current dating meta, selected for by the majority of desirable women, in the overdeveloped world, chiefly the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:24 PM
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The more you try to vilify it, the more power it gains. You are right that there is a plague going on, but it is not the manosphere influencers...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:56 PM
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LOL That's a wrap. Yes, it's because they are sexy AF, fun, smiley and down for a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:17 PM
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Every normal, socially adjusted man who reads it, understands... And there in lies the rub. There are so few neurotypical, socially well adjusted men. That has been on the decline for a long, long time now. EVERYONE knows it, One only needs to look at the manosphere space to see that no, not everyone knows it. And honestly, the way you talk about is belittling and unnecessary. It's the equivalent of just saying "you should just "get" it because you should just "get" it.". It's unhelpful, circula…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:11 PM
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fuck if I know, there's just so much noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:44 PM
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People are allowed to not like you No shit. But when women, across all social-economic strata continually choose men, who don't measure up, for casual fucking, don't cry about the broader repercussions of incentivizing shitty people later in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:40 PM
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Comprehensive ... really? All I'm seeing is that it just boils down to the common man being entitled, and nice being his only selling point. That's incredibly reductive, which would be ok if it fully answers the question. But it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:31 PM
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TRP is common sense explained to autistic men - CMV Ok. This one seems easy to refute. Webster's defines common sense as "sound and prudent judgment based on a simple perception of the situation or facts." Now, one would think that a neurotypical person would be able to come to these "sound judgements" using their own faculties. But sound judgements these are not... what we are describing is not simple, linear sound judgments but complex, multifaceted, pro-socialization that is supposed to be in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:14 PM
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Reading your CMV reminded me of Radicalizing the Romanceless To this day, I have not heard from a woman comment on this exposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:03 PM
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Because they are walking petri dishes of the most vile, virulent and mutated STIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:31 PM
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If you're some regular guy looking to get with some relatively attractive member of the opposite sex, you are in direct competition with 35 year old tech millionaires on steroids and unlimited willpower to make up for lost time 6'5" 4th generation football quarterback genetic lottery legacies Instagram model fitness influencers in town for the month with 8 Tinder boosts on standby It's much worse than that... Recently my long time FwB opened up to me during pillow talk about the men she was ente…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:34 PM
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It's case by case. You notice what she's wearing and ask her where she got it. Earrings, necklace, w/e, does it hold a special meaning or just something cool? She mentions she soup kitchens, how did she get into that? Hardest challenge? She has sick/aging parents? Man, I wish they had a manual on what to do and how to process that. How are you handling that? She loves to travel, ask her favorite place so far, which place is on her list next? It's endless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:16 PM
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You don't try to. One of the primary goals should be to say as little as possible, and ask her meaningful questions so that the woman does 80% of the talking. If it feels like it's 50-50, you fucked up. It'll feel "too equal", no doubt you would have said plenty to disabuse a woman from her imagination of who you are, and she'll be left not feeling a "spark". The spark is simply a woman's initial interest in you, allowed to grow because you didn't say, or do, anything to mess up her illusion of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:36 PM
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This is the economic "invisible hand" at work. Sex, for men, is life's greatest motivator. Man's greatest challenge. Man's deepest test.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:23 PM
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You gotta just have fun and treat it as one big joke I believe I replied right under with the statement that "Girls just want to have fun". I think you're close to the truth, but "treating it as a joke" misses the mark, and it's an important distinction. The following video How men mess up the first date better encapsulates the premise. In short, when a woman agrees and shows up on a first date with you, she knows little/nothing about you. So she showed up on the HER idea of who you are. It's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:21 PM
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What's the cringe or weird? He went out with a woman that was cool with it. He took her back to his, she was cool with it. He was eating her pussy out, she was cool with it. The moment it came for her to reciprocate and suck some dick, suddenly not cool with it...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:45 PM
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That's what really stood out to me. Go on a date, cool. Come back to his, cool. This dude is eating her pussy out? Cool... the moment to reciprocate ? Suddenly, not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:33 PM
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So, did PPD come to final determination about what to call the Aziz Ansari date gone awry?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:12 PM
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Have to agree. I don't care how many oil rich, towel wearing motherfuckers shit down her throat, i still want to bone Lindsey Blowhan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:08 PM
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You gotta just have fun and treat it as one big joke This is literally it. Girls just want to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:24 PM
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Enough anecdotes are data, and my experiences, and the great many experiences of those on TRP corroborate reality on the ground, granted, for those living in the US/major urban metropolitan cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:46 PM
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immediately jumped to harping about your emotional agenda. Emotional agenda? LOL. Son, I'm telling you from my first hand experience, and second hand experiences with close friends and loved ones, while living three and a half decades of being sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:42 PM
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Hookup culture does exist but it's a tiny microcosm and by no means ubiquitous. It exists. The wool had been pulled over my eyes but I have seen. And I have participated. It is not tiny. It is large and it is ever increasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:13 PM
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Be Civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:19 AM
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Why shouldn’t there be “losers” in the dating market? Why is it wrong a lot of men will lose out? Because it destabilizes society in so many ways, often to its collapse if left completely unchecked. And the aftermath of a breakdown of society is always ugly, dangerous, and makes humans revert back to base, primitive instincts. The killing, pillaging and raping starts again and/or a much "stronger" society installs itself. I'll say the quiet part outloud, there will always be romantic/sexually un…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:32 PM
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In what ways could both sexes come to a better understanding? On the societal macro level; men and women give the same opportunity to be financially independent borne out of their own efforts while society relentlessly dismantling any legal advantages women have in the criminal/familial justice system. For men, additional resources and care during their most formative years to help develop them pro socially ( ages 0-13 ) will help. Also, drill the message to young boys to be physically fit and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:29 PM
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As a woman, I don't even think we're capable of organizing men into levels of attractiveness ourselves; Disagree. Women go on and on about staying in one's "league". Clearly this shows the ability of women knowing how to identify and categorize men into different boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:24 PM
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Since man first laid eyes on women and evaluated her as fuckable or not. So... since time immemorial?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:34 PM
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To me, it looks like two debate teams. It's one side, terribly inexperienced and naïve about the macro environment, arguing about how things should be. On the other side, it's the much maligned and ridiculed, but earnestly comparing notes and refining a belief structure based on first hand experiences and those of similar others, arguing about how things are. What I find really repulsive is how the camp that denies RP things in totality, arguing how things ought to be don't acknowledge and/or do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:29 PM
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Too far. Even in college, women were more interested in recent graduates than their classmates. Now I'm finally older, it's "my" turn, and the velvet rope is being pulled in front of me because ... what? Fuck that noise. I worked hard. I will enjoy what I want to enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:13 PM
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Sure... sounds like sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:52 PM
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I find allegedly hetero women's take on penis does not appeal hilarious. Like literally the biggest point of difference between our sexes. Like, imagine a man saying" god, boobies are ugly, misshapen, boobies just do not appeal..." and being taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:10 PM
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My main gripe is that these very same women... I bet you they themselves benefitted from age gap dalliances in their youth. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:06 PM
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Women cheat for a million and one reasons. For fun, diversion, big dick, just different experience, resentment, to get back at their husbands infidelity (real or perceived), on vacation, the list goes on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:15 PM
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LOL. These married women cheated with me 7+ years into their marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:11 PM
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Again, that's been my lived experience. I did it first hand. I heard the stories these married women talked about their friends during pillow talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:05 PM
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A good majority do. I have personally been the young guy for a number of married women when I was in my 20s and 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:03 PM
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That she stay in the streets, where she belongs. Among the feral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:59 PM
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Heard. Meghan filling in that mommy void somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:58 PM
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No, they just fuck them on the side, in secret. Ask me how I know. = )
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:46 PM
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Exactly! Like comparing our financial conditions, it's better to search for the median experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:23 PM
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The average man is so pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:19 PM
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"Have you ever been vacuum sealed?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:12 PM
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And you really think his fiancé would have opened up and told the truth about it? Are you really that green?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:12 PM
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Bruv. The decline did happen. I've been "aware" since the Ross Jeffrey days. The dating landscape has devolved greatly since then. I'm telling you it will continue the trend to devolve further. Will it get to the japanese herbivore men? I don't know. But everything old is new again. The renewed interest in traveling to other countries for girlfriends/wives, and a new rebranding of "Passport bros", the meta argument of the current dating atmosphere... it's all been done before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:00 PM
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Bruh, “the great majority don’t have these compounding negative affects. Lots? Yes. The majority? Not even close. Bro, I'm telling you, it's frighteningly the majority. The next 10-20 years are going to be eye opening, when you see the maturation of the young cohort of men in the US/UK struggle sexually and romantically in a way they have never struggled before in human history. Just wait and see. = )
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:49 PM
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Red pill is probably helping non pilled men, because it reduces the demand for normal women. Red pill tactics by definition only work on some women, RP techniques work on all women because the techniques are rooted in context, comfort, excitement, rapport, and a whole host of socialization meta. It is the whole framework of how to identify and succeed with women who find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:43 PM
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I agree but Most people don’t need to “study and observe” they just go out and do and learn the social cues Yes, ALL people do need to "study and observe". It's just that it isn't usually so formalized. This normal socialization is suppose to happen during the most formative years of life, ages 2-13. Unfortunately, the great majority of people have arrested social development AND the negative compounds with each passing year that someone is behind the curve. And this is not even taking into acco…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:38 PM
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There is one, and only one single element that black pill gets right but, unfortunately, catastrophizes it. The first factor that women, who are sexually interested in men, select for when considering a casual sexual experience with a new man is that man's height. That is a MAJOR trait, almost to the exclusion of all other traits, that women throw themselves willfully, gladly for. We can debate the why. Men may never fully come to a satisfactory "why" out of women. I do hate that the redpill dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:34 PM
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Except, no, it is not that this shit only exists in the internet. I have personally witnessed the selection process, the pre selection, the preening, the primitive wait 3 days to call/txt her things growing up in NYC. The internet was just an excellent platform for men to compare notes. And to many men's surprise, many sexually desirable women behave in fairly predictable ways. The varied stimulus was ridiculous, but over and over again the same results were observed!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:29 PM
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Stop being disingenuous. The art of seduction is alluring to many women, and yes for men interested in having sexual relations with desirable women, it is geared towards them specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:25 PM
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And just like that, the point goes over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:23 PM
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Are men too far gone? Because of the manosphere, I'm going to stop you right there. It's not "because of the manosphere" it's because an increasing number of men are wizening up to how hypocritical, and disgusting, women are in selecting sexual and romantic mates. The veil has been lifted. The cats out of the bag. Pandora's box has been opened. You can't "uneat" from the apple of wisdom. Men cannot be in the dark about the harsh truths of the world any longer. Men's counter reaction cannot be st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:58 PM
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A negative externality is something that impacts a person or people who are uninvolved in a situation. For example, if a woman has a child , and the father doesn't financially support it, society starts to impose higher and higher taxes on all to help her. This comes at a negative cost for all as we are all get to keep less of our hard earned money, to do with it as we please (consume,save,invest) in order to help fund the woman's poor sexual/life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:08 PM
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No different to what happened when the poors started getting TVs in their homes and realized how the well off were doing. OLD has just allowed the sexually naïve and normal see how the sexually rich and abundant live. The lived experiences are a universe apart. The other extra that happened is that it revealed to the romantically/sexually unsuccessful man AND the majority of median women how many options regular women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:39 PM
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Women get what Axioms are. They just don't care. Wait I'll go further, it insults their sensibilities and find painting in broad strokes repulsive for ... reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:32 PM
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LOL yes. That 9 inch cock isn't really inside her. Got it boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:25 PM
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I always wondered if the heterosexual guys who give micro blowjobs to over enlarged clit's make them gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:23 PM
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Hollywood isn't different than the rest of the world weirdo. As someone who dabbled in the industry, you ... simply don't know what the fuck you're talking about. Hollywood is, indeed, a really weird and creepy place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:22 PM
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It's the most vanilla thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:21 PM
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I know. It's like having a porn star girlfriend and seeing media of her take cocks in her mouth, pussy and asshole, simultaneously. It's just a corn video, it's fake obviously. ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:20 PM
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I'm currently living it. About 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:19 PM
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Ding ding ding. All the benefits of a tribe working in your favor, none of the burdens that come from those benefits. Privatizing benefits, socializing negative externalizes. I applaud women, the first capitalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:17 PM
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Conflict avoidance. Do that for enough years and you'll begin to think that anyone that has a problem with you is toxic. It's self preservation of the ego. I agree that ghosting is generally awful for the more well adjusted, but so few people are well adjusted. Also again, the medium is the message. Why do men do it? Well, I've done it when I didn't think it was worth it to expend any effort to what amounts to a complete total stranger that has zero impact in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:20 PM
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I disagree. Women understand. They just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:09 PM
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Men's excessive desire and lack of self respect is the problem I would argue, it's men's extreme socio-sexual underdevelopment during their formative years (ages 0-12) that is the greater problem. Also, I would go as far to say that the men who are the most romantically/sexually successful have MANY similarities in the way they behave as the women who are deemed the most desirable. Really makes you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:04 PM
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"Acceptable" Is there a cosmic being keeping tally of what you do? Do you mean it being du jour for third parties? Who cares. But if you want to know whether I find it acceptable, I've come to embrace that the medium is the message. That's the point. Women intuitively know it, and men have to learn it. Putting aside women's crutch excuse of "safety" and all things tangent to that, ghosting seems to be more deeply tethered to women's apparent, innate, need of having everyone like them or, at leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:59 PM
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What’s the value in engaging in absolutism creating heuristics to quickly organize your world? FTFY. Well, it saves time. Unfortunately we all have a limited amount of time here on Earth. As you grow older, you start to feel how small your window is. It would be an incredible waste of time to treat everyone so uniquely special and different when realize that approx. 45% of people voted for orange man, and the other 55% have varying foibles. massive assumptions and sweeping generalisations. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:24 PM
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Exactly. And I love the work analogy. You worked hard and slaved away for 15 years. You are amazing and great at what you do, only to be talked down to by an interviewer who is a decade younger, and FAR less experienced and savvy. It's comical. It's insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:04 PM
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Live a little. Be adventurous. Take the D in the A = )
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:00 PM
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I think you missed a critical point. " ... and even if men reach being amazing in all facets of life, it does NOT mean a man gets to bypass a woman's initial filtering process. The frustration there is that men who are this awesome START IN THE SAME PLACE AS MEN who HAVE NOT reached being amazing in all facets of life. In fact, the man that is not that amazing, but has learned how to seduce women, (i.e. learning how to behave and express himself in "charming" and "attractive" ways) is infinitely…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:54 PM
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Hot. I think you need to DM your details so that we can, uh, compare notes and deep dive further = )
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:34 PM
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what spurred it? Turn on for you or was it to please him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:27 PM
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Today's thoughts: I believe this short video hits many great points that men understand and women seem to have trouble grasping. I think his intro doesn't go far enough for the men complaining in this era. You young guys, thanks to the internet/ message forums like this/ books by the various coaches/ old men comparing notes with decades of experience... YOU have been afforded a uniquely privileged position of understanding women's dating and mating behavior more clearly and precisely than EVER b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:25 PM
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I think at the core, when it comes to heterosexual relationships, is women's great propensity to obfuscate, redirect, omit, and outright lie about the contexts of their previous sexual encounters. To what end? Apparently there are thousands of reasons, but it really doesn't matter what reason a woman rationalizes to why it's ok to do. To me, and I think to a lot of men, women who do this, we seriously question why we are to be expected to have to be the forthright, with super clear intentions, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:08 PM
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I disagree. No one, and no "virtue" can be earned in that manner. In fact it isn't "earned" at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:49 PM
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If my apple pancakes started tasting like pumpkin pancakes, my breakfast habits would substantially change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:13 PM
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Sure, I think the ethics there depend on the transparency But that's the rub. Women en masse shriek that men are not entitled to anything from them. Because of this, i strongly feel that strangers/potential sexual/romantic partners are not entitled to my truth/transparency in the initial stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:19 PM
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LOL with the implication that a future potential sexual/romantic partner that occurs after him will be "worthy" your time and attention. LOL. Let's be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:16 PM
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The whole premise of this post pretty much argues that non monogamy is preferred cause…. insecurity? Malinvestment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:14 PM
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The first advice was from my mother. I wanted to buy a red rose for a girl i really liked in 1st grade. I asked my mom for some money, she asked what I wanted it for. I told her, and she laughed and said "no, don't do that". I said "ok, I like her, how do I get her to like me back?" My mother was unable to articulate how. And moments like that throughout my teenage years. She was excellent about what NOT to do, but just couldn't find the words to explain what to PROACTIVELY do. And so I flounder…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:49 PM
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That may be, but then we're all children til age 25, at least. Socially speaking, the lines have been drawn, and to infantilizing adolescents delegitimizes and removes their agency. Don't do that. Their actions have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:19 PM
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(because 16-year-olds are children) The word you're looking for is adolescents. 16 is not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:08 PM
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From the US, I have noticed that (R) girls are outwardly portray as being such a "boss bitch" and being independently financially secure, and being brash and annoying but in the bedroom... are really sweet and submissive. What shocks me sometimes is that the (D) girls, and particularly the really left wing girls... they are flithy AtM, want to be choked AF, slapped, be fuck "aggressively". It's as if they are internally numb and need HIGH levels of stimulation/aggression to "feel" anything anymo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:06 PM
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It's only decline and moral rot because the majority of people's MO is incredibly destructive, with outsized destructiveness to others. If it was simply limited to oneself, most wouldn't care as much. Even fewer would complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:59 PM
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Disagree, free will should be the norm and human nature should have some internal and external restraints to minimize and ameliorate, as much as possible, all the negative externalities inflicted on other peoples of an individuals selfish/self serving/short sighted behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:31 PM
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Even if Female Nature is true, there's no benefit being mad at it and we must accept it for what it is It is true. The crux of it is that this truth of the female psyche needs to be refined, distilled to a core message that is 100% true and irrefutable, and then widely disseminated (with a special emphasis on adolescents and young men. ). All this so that they may be better equipped to manage the women in their lives. I think even talking about it disabuses many a naïve and inexperienced man's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:25 PM
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Why do you even date people that you actually believe will leave you if you make any mistake? Because it's either that or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:52 PM
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It doesn't happen often, but there was a profile on Bumble that made me smile. It is an older 30s international woman here in the states. She is obviously kinda ugly in the face, but with a great and fit body, and stylish/cute dressing sense in her photos with a bio that reads "I'm funnier than your ex, and hotter than your next". There is something kinda charming when a woman low key recognizes she's plainer than plain Jane but has the confidence to address it directly and subvert it. I actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:51 PM
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because we find stereotyping to be stupid and lazy, especially when its based on a singular train like gender or race. I think I can agree that when a heuristic is using only a single variable, it is lazy and low reach, with almost no thought behind it. But that's not what I, and many men beaten with first hand experience over their heads, operate. It's many, intricate variables that have been formulated into pretty sophisticated heuristics, elaborate shortcuts to avoid cognitive overload. In sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:07 PM
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In an ideal world, perhaps. But we live in an imperfect one, with extremely limited time being on the planet, and even less time living in the prime of our lives. If you want to get bogged down by everyone's individuality, I'm telling you it is a colossal waste of time, but more importantly it's simply an ineffective way of navigating life. To borrow from stock chart "readers", admittedly the astrologists of economics, "patterns and trends are your friends" and "don't fight the Fed (an entity th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:25 PM
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“Men and women are different” is just an excuse to rationalize hypocrisy. No. "Men and women are different" is a direct, succinct statement that encompasses a mountain of differences between the sexes, from motivations, thinking, feeling, socializations, indoctrinations, hormones, agendas, and many other factors AT differing points and phases of our life cycles, and the lifecycles of our parents/caretakers and of our progeny. To deny this truth screams of naivety, a feeble mind, or a deep lack o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:11 PM
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It's just that in the latter case there's a mismatch between the person's self perception and the way they are perceived by everyone else around them. This is the core of a lot of the conversation here. Most women refuse to understand this point... self perception DOES NOT EQUAL reality. Your feelings are not the way everyone else feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:06 PM
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I know EXACTLY how you feel, and have observed a similar effect with a cousin of mine that fell welllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll short in my estimation. Despite that, he did infinitely better than me in attracting women, and that added so much confusion, bewilderment, anger. Unfortunately, women will not receive this message as intended. They will only hear in their heads "what's wrong with YOU" vs "what is your younger brother doing right?" Or maybe better said, the sexually and socially undev…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:04 PM
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Nope. This was my morning today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:03 PM
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Heading to work today, I saw a sight I haven't seen in a long, long time and it made me happy, and ashamed that it has been so long. A thin, tall woman in a Theory pencil skirt and white cotton blouse top, walking towards the train. The way she was taking her long strides, the movement of her hips swaying, in a hypnotic rhythm, it has been YEARS since I've seen that. And it's because the majority of my time living in the midwest. These fucking women, even when they are "fit" and lean, they walk …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:50 PM
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Example 1: The infamous 80/20 "rule" Generally true statement: 80% of the outcome is caused by 20% of the causes. This is the Pareto Principle. Slow drift toward absurdityGenerally true statement: 80% of women are only attracted to 20% of men. (This has been demonstrated in the OLD results of who women were sending first messages/replying to. Absurdity Extrapolating above generally true statement, continuing trend : If we're being honest it's more like 99% of women are all chasing the top 1% of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:32 PM
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raises hand
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:09 PM
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There's no hypocrisy on our part. I want a hot, sexy, young woman who sucks D like a champion and loves and gets off having anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:08 PM
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Seems to be the case. But my god, a man hasn't truly lived until he dates an attractive woman who is wealthy. Different ball game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:23 PM
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Except if like attracts like, I should've attracted romantics before... lol, that did NOT happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:00 PM
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Was already the case before going down the path. So what difference does it make
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:55 PM
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LOL that's the rub, there are no "decent" ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:49 PM
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I think this is a tight summation of how "nice guys" become more sexually and romantically successful with women. It definitely resonated with me, does it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:31 PM
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The EDM scene for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:39 PM
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A quick way for man to reach deeper peace in this plane of existence is to ignore what women say. It is women's shrieking hard on to say that women do not need men. Take a moment and reflect fellow men; why doth she protest too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:39 PM
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I've always said it, and I'll repeat it. The "invisible hand" of working hard in men is directly related to being more attractive to women. We are now seeing the interesting effects of diminishing the value of a man who "works hard". I will argue that this reveals women's true behavioral nature to all. The cat's out of the bag, and there's no turning back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:09 PM
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Cool. I reject your premise that many men do complain about the risks of it. That would be a tiny, backwards, minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:25 PM
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I don't complain about the risks of casual sex. I complain about women, who engage in casual sex, being duplicitous and disingenuous about their contradictory morals and views about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:15 PM
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Why do so many men here want casual sex? Because fucking beautiful attractive women is fun and amazing. What kind of regarded question is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:08 PM
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Anyways from the outside there is a huge overlap between red pill and incels. But I see some of you who definitely have sex still identifying as red pill Your premise is off about the redpill if you group Incels with it. My opinion? The great majority of incels are tragic losers. Raised by guardians that may have provided adequate shelter, food and water but starved them of any emotional/social growth in their key developmental years. They carried this maladjustment through later formative years…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:07 PM
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The belgium player?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:13 PM
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Not even, you belong in the ALLEY
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:12 PM
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49, M, one sided open relationship with a bottom, mid, and top bitch. Just like butters from South Park. My impression of this group is that many lack critical reading skills and really lack emotional logic, with a special void of emotional foresight. There's a lot I wish the younger guys knew, that's why I'm here to impart my experiences and knowledge. Although it feels like I'm yelling into the wind, I believe I have helped at least 1 person out here, and that'll make the difference for me. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:31 PM
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everything becomes commoditized. Congratulations, a boring dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:20 PM
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In my experience, they start off like that but god forbid it's the other way around. Too many times have I witnessed a couple in which the woman has bariatric surgery/gets on Ozempic/Herbalife kick, gets thin and becomes more attractive, and she quickly dumps her bf to indulge in tons of casual sex, chase a Chad. If I'm not mistaken, on the bariatric brochures it states (in very politically correct language) the life "changes" than can occur for women following successful surgery LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:17 PM
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and mostly working-class adults. Exactly, who the fuck aspires to be a normal, wageslave poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:14 PM
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LOL. You get it. The reading comprehension skills are lacking with everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:12 PM
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"he had sex 20 hours after meeting you and I had sex 21 hours after meeting you" That's not my issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:12 PM
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EXACTLY. And yet so called reasonable women will deny this very fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:43 PM
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(abortion bans a good start) While I think you agree with me on the distastefulness of the current atmosphere, uh no. That's not the solve. You missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:42 PM
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LOL. What do you think most women are, or yearn to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:38 PM
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Here's another gem from within reddit, apparently the title is a BF who checked his phone during sex with his gf. The following is a reply in the thread. Years ago, I had a FWB who would come over to my place and talk about how hot my friends or other girls were, to me, with me knowing we were going to be having sex later. I took it as a challenge and, unfortunately due to my family background, I felt it was something to take on to show how tough I was rather than call it out. (I have luckily le…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:35 PM
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I'll admit it's a niche that's growing, albeit very slowly. With the current state of affairs, more and more men are getting pacified and numbing themselves with other diversions. Unmasculine men is on the rise, and they will be attracted to more "assertive" women. But I do not believe assertive women are on the rise, that number is running stable. So... More and more men are being diverting to two paths, becoming more pussy or a strong counter reaction and are (trying) to become even more mascu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:05 PM
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What’s the clumsy part? I’m outright saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:56 PM
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Exactly. What makes women's MO more virtuous or superior to man's? It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:43 PM
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They just want to fuck. That’s not flattering because that doesn’t make the woman special, just a means to an end for the guy’s desires. Do you really believe a man pursuing a relationship with you, without desiring sex from you, is more "special"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:37 PM
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You're lying to yourself. A relationship with a girl, without the sex, is just a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:44 PM
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I don't care about s3x Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:41 PM
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Has someone defined what "incelish" views actually are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:35 PM
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I'll do one step further, one of my more deranged FwBs loved to watch porn in which there was one women, tied up and blind folded, and fucked by like 50 strange men in a dark room. All unprotected, unloading all their semen into her pussy. Thats what she secretly wanted to do in real life, but couldn't reconcile her desire with the VERY real risk of contracting an STD ( and honestly, probably the whole dictionary of them ) I love women, but even I, in my near 50 years of age, don't fantasize of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:34 PM
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1:100 1% 1:200 .5% 1:300 .25? There was a study once that even top tier, hollywood men have a "success rate" ( and success here means just meeting up for a romantic date ) to be ~7%. Son if you are going to be discouraged about not having sexual success in 300 tries, you need A LOT more volume before you throw in the towel. You need A LOT more intestinal fortitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:32 PM
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No they're not. I am deathly afraid of high heights. I have never turned it into something sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:29 PM
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When long term relationship seeking men become more sexually exciting and adventurous and less judgmental and insecure, this will probably change. I'll save you the wondering your entire life, it won't change. Because no, even if somehow LTR seeking men were to become exciting and adventurous and less judgemental and "insecure", women will still decide to prefer to fuck the more popular, less genuine, less analytical types of guys. It's funny. If you boil down all our words, and get to the crux …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:27 PM
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Which is debatably fine. But then they have to nerve to whine "why are men like this". Like, are you fucking stupid?! You (women) directly had a hand in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:19 PM
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I think this is the point that's lost on most women, and men understand intuitively. There should be very real, hard, harsh negative consequences to repulsive actions. Like the poorly trained dogs in Chicago, they are never disciplined for poor behavior, and often unintentionally rewarded for it, thus, they often behave very poorly. They do not know, or can conceive, any other way to act. This is the fault of the owner and not the dog, because a dog will not self correct it's own actions without…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:16 PM
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LOL. Son, you are so far behind, I think it best if you shut your pie hole and get to work. You don't even know what you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:05 PM
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They are, it has less to do whether they were the hot party girl or not, and more to do that they have aged out of their sexual career. They gained weight, got old, got lazy and thus they don't attract to types of guys they liked to have sex with. Instead of going on a physical self improvement journey, they find it easier and more comfortable to just go with the flow and give up the attraction game. They just retire from their sexual career. Hot girl included.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:48 PM
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Women are so inured with the modern state of things that the majority of them cannot, or will not, self motivate to get out of their self inflicted stupor. As is the case, women are lazy and expect men to lead and take charge and say or do anything to shock them out of their pathetic internal existence. Arguably, it doesn't matter whether it's positive or negative. If it's pro, great, life is more exciting and heading into a good direction. If negative, great too, at least it's going somewhere a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:28 PM
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Men's obsession with the sexual purity and virginity of women harms young men I challenge your premise that men are obsessed with sexual purity from women. I have long accepted the fact that sex positive, sexually desirable women, who are sexually interested in men, have sex with many partners. Men's behavior is in reaction to women's attraction modus operandi. Thus; what harms men most is WOMEN'S behavior, chiefly two points. Point 1; Women's obsession with long term relationships. Because of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:24 PM
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Ding ding ding. It's a feature not a bug. The motivation since before biblical times was to "coerce", but better said incentivize the average, regular man to work in surplus for society. But women have their own equal or greater wealth, they'll just timeshare the attractive men of their fancy. NO DIFFERENT then when a wealthy man pays prostitutes directly. Women are the John's in this current era.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:04 PM
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Women cannot fathom things beyond their self centeredness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:15 PM
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The social contract is just inertia at this point. Great point. We are in a transitional period.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:13 PM
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Pay attention to how she treats people "lower" than her. The homeless, the hurt/injured/maimed, waitstaff, "innocent" (small, weak, cuddly) animals. This will reveal a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:26 PM
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Humans being mammals doesn’t take away the fact that we’ve grown to be civilized LOL. Look at eastern europe, large parts of africa, large swaths of the middle east, and china. No, humanity is not more civilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:27 PM
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I think what they mean is that they don't give them the inherent dignity they imagine they give other people, and they imagine men give each other. Well put. But that's just it. We don't give "equal" dignity to all peoples in equal measure. The dirty, face tattooed, meth head? You don't give a fuck about them. Put together person in their 30s/40s, rightfully give some measure of dignity. Or maybe it means they feel like they're mostly seen as a sex object? And men are largely known to be disposa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:18 PM
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... that they're wrong. They don't know what their talking about. They're losers. They are not high and mighty. That most of their bullshit positions and stances would change in a heartbeat. They don't "stand" firmly for anything. Arguably, for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:13 PM
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Correction. Rebuttal. Counter arguing. Teaching them a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:10 PM
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Always. It's just so... tiring to hear their endless cycle of mental drivel. It's offputting, disgusting, tone deaf, just so many negatives. No one bothers to enlighten them, or at the very least put them in their place. Why? Because she's got great bouncy double D's?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:09 PM
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What does "well adjusted" mean? At what age is a human "well adjusted"? Neurotypical. Successful in having a well organized mind and effective prosocial organization of one's own feelings and the ability and full facilities in identifying, and influencing, said construct in others. As you can deduce from this, it's not age. Come on, you can't expect to have everyone spoonfed you all knowledge and wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:06 PM
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Look, you either believe that you are "above" the primal motivations of being an animal, in essence that basic biology has zero effect on your higher functions, or you correctly acknowledge that you carrying a mountain of coded information in the fiber of your very being AND that this coded information has an outsized impact of who you are, how you think, the way in which you think and feel AND that this coded information has been passed down for millenia. It's really is as clear cut as you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:02 PM
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but men are in kind treated as disposable. We are. We know. We feel it in our bones since before puberty. It's this truth that seems to escape the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:55 PM
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A little human needs to be "socialized" and "indoctrinated" in their prime learning years. Socialized and indoctrinated in millions of different "acceptable" ways, meaning that these acceptable ways are 99.99% ARBITRARY. It's made up. It's wishful thinking and dreaming, placing weight on demands, hopes dreams aspirations, but fears darkness and the occult onto a blank slate of a human. Arguably, the blank slate is not even a blank slate but a canvass that has been lightly tinted by the colors of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:55 PM
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Well adjusted ones for starters. But it doesn't have to be that high a level. Merely clever and determined ones over non.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:52 PM
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Women should accept that we are animals first, humans second. Everything, everything on earth flows in that direction. To say it flows in reverse is wrong, ineffective and creates innumerable friction points that extend far beyond dating and mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:51 PM
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Guys; name one issue you have with women that really grinds your gears that women say? I'll start. It really, really grinds my gears when women say/write that men don't treat them like "humans". What is the hell is that supposed to mean? We all are humans. Some humans are more important than others. On first glance, we are animals before we are humans. It's as if women are repulsed or allergic in acknowledging that we are animals first, humans second.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:43 PM
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4th I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:19 PM
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It's too convenient/given the especially polarizing stance he had prior to this new ... enlightenment. I'm willing to bet the truth is, he was aging out. It shifted goals. He got the golden goose, so anything after is for his own personal pleasure. There's a weird folly that I've notice happen to older people in which they revert to their childhood wants and dreams. He plugged back in, in the most "accetaple" ( the most palatable path given the curse of knowledge, eating the forbidden apple) he …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:18 PM
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lol its worse. The good looking girls in the honors classes chose older guys to date and fuck, or went full savage and started fucking the basketball/football stars who were profoundly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:50 AM
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this is a great post, agreed. On top of what you said I want to add two more wrinkles, in addition a lot of these guys had very poor to in existent pro socialization ages 0-9 AND feel “different “ and detached/disconnected from the rest of humanity. I know i felt that way growing up, and i recognize and can articulate the reasons why now; all i hD back then was the vague feeling that … i was too different and that there was a chance that i don’t belong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:48 AM
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In my teens there was a beautiful and smart girl that portrayed herself as being very wholesome. I was smitten and wanted her as a girlfriend, at the very least sleep with her. She rejected me romantically, but had the audacity to put me down when I suggested something sexual as "she wasn't that kind of girl". I say audacity because I discovered weeks later that she had unprotected anal sex with 5 presumably gay, much older, men in a lower east side apartment in nyc. It made me so, so, so sick t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:55 PM
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dead serious LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:08 PM
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So emotional lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:21 PM
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Cool. What's your sign lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:09 PM
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I think women are doomed to be unsatisfied with men for this reason. I'll tell you a little universal secret. Women are doomed to be unsatisfied until the day they draw their final breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:08 PM
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It will be raw physical strength/appeal and popularity/notoriety.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:07 PM
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You're totally an Aquarius aren't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:01 PM
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The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. As an old man that remembers the days of SoSuave.com and before, I have to disagree with you. If anything, RP content has never been more widespread and talked about en masse in it's history! But now I see a lot of clowns with YT channels, tiktoks and podcast than have distorted the message completely. Guys like Fresh & Fit and Andrew Tate amongst others are basically telling men that they are worthless (specially Tate) unless they get int…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:56 PM
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Your wild oats should be sown by now. You're 35. Grow TF up already! Pure solipsism. Maybe YOUR wild oats were sown ages 19-29, but I can assure you the majority of men's haven't been. It's not about "growing up" already, it's men and women accessing the candy store at different phases of our lives. The real sigh is you clearly not knowing our patterns and schedules of mating, pretty well outlined by Rollo Tomassi in his seminal work "The Rational Male".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:27 PM
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They talked about anal, rimming, and other things. Having a woman lick my asshole was a hard no for me for a lonnnnnnnnnnnng time. Let me tell, you're missing out! Feels fucking amazing, I honestly should've said yes when I was younger. It's a joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:22 PM
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We used to have a word for that. Acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:33 PM
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3rd spaces have been on the decline for some time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:33 PM
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LOL. And so many of us men tie ourselves up in knots over it. It's not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:51 PM
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I already do! !
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:51 PM
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Amazing. And we men worry and care so much about women's love for us, and I laugh why. It's so flimsy and transient.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:28 PM
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That MO can be manufactured. Basically all that needs to be done is imagine a loved one behaving in distasteful, disgusting, repulsive ways, ways that insult my sensibilities and would disrespect my sense of self if I continued associating with them. That's the switch. Real or imagined doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:25 PM
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It definitely would be snuffed out, effectively switching it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:14 PM
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Interesting. How mercurial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:10 PM
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I don't know, they might be able to. Like if I "loved" a woman, but to my surprise I discover that she was a past junkie, who loved another drug addict, and fucked for money and drugs, I know for a fact my "love" would evaporate in a second. They would become just another person to me, or really worse, my disgust and repulsion would know no limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:05 PM
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It's an interesting phenomenon, women are so dishonest about so many things, makeup, photos(filtering), what they say and what they really feel, that after so many years I venture to say they don't really know who they are. And crazier still, most aren't perturbed by that fact. Men, there's an element that we know we have to hide many aspects of ourselves, either out of necessity or genuinely want some privacy. But even when a man has his façade for the world on, his behavior, knowing looks, mic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:02 PM
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That is definitely a word that came up. Even being head over heels, they said they can "re prioritize"their emotional energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:52 PM
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About controlling it, they feeling it with me, or what
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:51 PM
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Plenty of the women I'm involved with are much smarter than I am. I love it! So then: how does this "men should be dominant" heuristic work if the woman is just much more intelligent than the man? The way it works for me is multi fold, but it basically boils down to : I'm smart, yes they are smarter. But what good is their smartness, tangibly? Are they richer than me, financially? Are they more dominant than I? More and more interesting experiences than I have? Are they more bold than I? Does th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:50 PM
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He was more fun before the beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:41 PM
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Interesting development last night. Two of the women have sexual relationships mentioned that they love me, and they knew it, but are able to control if the "allow" themselves to fall deeply in love with a man. Both basically intimated that they can switch it "on or off like a light switch"/can make themselves "snap out of it" if they wanted to. Q4W: Are you able to "control" your love in this way? You know you're falling for a man, but for whatever reason, you don't want to. Can you just simply…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:38 PM
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ok fine, the great majority lol. I was being civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:28 PM
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Or how about this... some women, and I don't say this with malice or ill intent, they are only good for one thing and don't "deserve" anything more than casual dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:09 PM
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Exactly. The top and bottom are too heavy and honestly are not applicable to the norm, the middle part of the bell curve of most people's experiences. I am not an oil sheikh who can shit down Sydney Sweeney's throat whenever the fuck I feel like, nor am I a drug addicted useless waste of space.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:03 PM
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Ok fine. The great majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:27 PM
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Q4M: Which OLD "tells" have been a signal that the girl you swipe right on is a better than average chance of a great sexual/romantic encounter ? I'll share a few of mine, if she: Is slightly "uglier" than I would hope. If she happens to be from Polish, Irish, Mexican descent. If she admits she likes to drink beer non-socially. If she lists she's an entrepreneur/she lists that she "founded" her own company. These women are sexual, forward, more decisive in my experience. What are some tells you …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:12 PM
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But most women's path is lined in gold, while most men's is knee deep in shit and used syringes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:35 PM
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You chase after dimes and thots with big booty's rather than deal with women that aren't as good looking but have better personalities. Personally, I'm more of a big tits man, so wrong there. Women with better personalities? There are none. These women with "better" personalities would be the same as the hot girls, it's just that their shortcomings prevent them from garnering the same attention. So not only are they less desirable physically, they are often resentful. And men are seriously suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:14 PM
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lol the insecurity got the better of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:02 PM
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I'll tell you a benefit. The more promiscuous woman, through her history of engaging sexually with more men, signals that sex is something she desires and is interested in and is positive about. In my experience, a woman like also goes hand in hand with being open to/enjoying more "depraved" sexual acts. A woman openly being nasty, eagerly sucking my dick out in public, loving anal, engaging sexually with multiple simultaneously, let me tell you, that appeals to me more than some sexually repres…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:00 PM
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I'm on the fence about this recently. On the surface it's obvious, but I hate giving skinnyfat women validation for being "not fat" as opposed to fit. At least with fit, you know she is expending energy in building muscle, and that deserves more attention and "praise", sexual interest, what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:55 PM
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I know many men don't have a nuanced understanding about women being at certain bodyfat, a girl just eating salad and being skinnyfat isn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:08 PM
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I too have gained and lost weight for sports, making certain weight classes. Simply not eating, and shrinking like that, you lose way too much muscle mass and strength. Way too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:07 PM
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To lose weight requires... Literally nothing. If you do nothing, you will lose weight. You literally have no idea how to get fit and attractive. It takes more than just "not eating". You don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:25 PM
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No contest, overweight woman. As a fit, wealthy man, money is easy come easy go, so that's not a problem. But trying to get healthy after decades of being a disgusting fat slob. AND having a hormonal profile that actively resists getting into great shape. It requires a full life overhaul and attitude adjustment. And we know, generally speaking, how many women are keen on eagerly taking on physically difficult endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:58 PM
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Right now? Sydney Sweeney and Alessandra D'darrio. One is a bad, bad girl that needs to be punished. Hard. And the other I want to fuck the coldness out of her eyes and wake her the fuck up. She's gorgeous but there is an eerie, unfeeling, "dead eyes" look to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:55 PM
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How should they learn it? I would propose a multi vector approach, at the very least men should; Ignore women's "leagues". While we intuitively know they exist, it is unhelpful for a man starting out to place much importance on it. It should focus on going after the women that strike his fancy. To approach with directness, but not use sexually based compliments. Believe it or not, hot desireable attractive women are people too, and there's way to have fun and great conversations with them. An in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:52 PM
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I'll take that as a compliment = )
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:16 PM
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That's a great question. Not sure how to fully answer. In person, out in the wild, from a plain jane to a super hottie? I try to follow Leil Downdes book "Undercover Sex Signals" for some sort of interest from the woman. What's success? A pleasant interaction or convo, or nothing short of sticking it in counts as success? Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:15 PM
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That's a legitimate wrinkle. Again, going back to the book "Date-o-nomics" ratios matter, and if a man is looking to maximize his overall chances for sex and love, he NEEDS to move to a major metropolitan city. There's no way around it, otherwise you're dealing with the bottom of the barrel, backwards as fuck, 2nd, 3rd and worse "tiers" of women. One life, aim for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:12 PM
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When a woman sleeps with me i know she's interested in the person i am and Are you so sure, tho? Could it be that your just the dick to help her get over an ex, she's bored, she's horny irrespective of you, there's a thousand and one reasons why a woman would sleep with you that aren't "she's interested in who I am". food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:10 PM
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That's a legitimate wrinkle. Again, going back to the book "Date-o-nomics" ratios matter, and if a man is looking to maximize his overall chances for sex and love, he NEEDS to move to a major metropolitan city. There's no way around it, otherwise you're dealing with the bottom of the barrel, backwards as fuck, 2nd, 3rd and worse "tiers" of women. One life, aim for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:09 PM
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Hoarding? These women are not my property and can leave me at any moment. But yes I do. If I can positively affect one man's life, then it was all worth it. With your surly replies, I wonder how much good you've done in this world compared to me. That would be interesting to measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:59 PM
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Thank you for sharing your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:56 PM
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That's great. The great majority of sexually unsuccessful men don't even know how to execute, nor identify, attractive and reciprocal body language behavior. They are at level -1 when it comes to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:54 PM
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Who hurt you. Be civil LOL. While it is true that I am "single" as in not married, I currently have sexual relationships with 6 women currently. I will speak up when I see posts guiding men in the wrong direction. I've been unsuccessful, I know what it feels like. The struggle. What I'm saying works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:53 PM
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Congratulations. I agree, a man should not be direct with words. But in action and intent, it should be crystal clear that the interaction is man to women, and not friendly platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:41 PM
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As an almost 50 year old, more sexually successful man later in life, I feel very qualified to offer a rebuttal. Be accurate about your level and the level you are pursuing. Young, fit, cute is the top 2% of women in North America and men from 18-65 are pursuing them. If you are not in the top tier of men, do not waste your time. They get approached many, many times a day and have no patience for it. Source, I’m old now, but I was young, fit, and cute once upon a time. I got fed up with it happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:34 PM
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Some are faking the vibe only to fuck while having no respect for me. Can you please define what "having respect for you" looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:23 PM
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The medium is the message. Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:18 PM
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I'll do you one more impactful: Missing out on positive, neurotypical, prosocial behavior with similarly aged others from ages 2-11 is hugely detrimental in forming mutually beneficial friendships AND connecting with women for relationships AND casual encounters. The problem starts earlier than most men realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:57 PM
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But honestly, if you're trying to get a genuine relationship, simply approaching women you've never met before and know nothing about and asking them out is a colossal waste of time. I disagree. One of the most special and genuinely sexually satisfying relationships I've ever had was when I approached a married woman when she was working at a store. If I didn't approach, she 100% would not have pursued me, and if that happened, we wouldn't have had the connection we had. It is not dumb and a was…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:37 PM
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I don't care about the average person's wealth, height, length, etc. Give me the median, preferably in age brackets. That will tell me infinitely more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:31 PM
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male. One of the greatest relationships I had was one in which I "broke" all the rules. I hit on a service staff woman, with no signals that she was interested, and I was WITH a girlfriend at the time (which she saw and was introduced to), and the staff member had a wedding ring on. I bet you all the women here would say "ew" "gross" "read the room" and "ew, when a woman says she's married and waves her wedding ring in front of your face, you have zero chance" . And I'm here to tell you men that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:40 PM
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False. Corgis. They are little shits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:35 PM
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Not arrested, but me flirting with the wrong woman set off a chain of events that ultimately forced me to quit my job or get fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:26 PM
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The genie is out of the bottle. And you can't put it back in. Much like the widespread use of the Teevee gave the poor masses a glimpse of the lifestyles of the rich, social dating platforms gave the sexually naïve a glimpse of how abundant and different the sexually successful live life. It didn't cause a divide, it accelerated the differences between high and low. Between the successful and the not successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:49 PM
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Welcome, to the desert, of the real.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:43 PM
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Yes. I too embarked on my physical development journey to help me attract more/sexier women after having been rejected hundreds of times in my late teens-mid 20s. Men, how much time do you spend in the gym and are you motivated by positive or negative thoughts? How's it turning out for you? I am now well past the midpoint of my life, probably in the tail end of my "prime" sexual career. I try for at least 5 hours of gym time per week. At least. And no juicy (no Clen, Tren, HGH, Anabolics, no enh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:27 PM
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Son, you over thought it. I appreciate a good analytical write up, but you missed the big reason why women "identify" as "Sapiosexual"... it's both to appear more evolved in their sexual selection and to dissuade high sex drive-low effort men to pursue them. It's a filter. Your write up reminds me of someone I matched with on OKstupid years ago. She said she was sapiosexual, (that is- finding intelligence sexually attractive or arousing.) and that the physical did nothing for her, and that she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:16 PM
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True. I guess you'd have to trust her honesty and trustworthiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:18 PM
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Maybe if women stopped fucking diseased dicks things would be ok. I'm happy to open up my health chart and provide my most recent STI screenings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:25 PM
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Yep, agreed. Also there is typically less repercussions for men when they have casual sex vs women. Less repercussions? You're kidding right? Ever since I became sexual active, if I was about to stick it into a new girl I am ALWAYS worried about what godforsaken STI she could be carrying, and knowing my luck, her pussy or cervix is carrying a rare, new evolution of an incurable STI that will kill me quickly. Only god knows how many infected nasty dicks she has allowed to penetrate her. Thankfull…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:21 PM
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It's peer, not pier. I don't care how many seagulls have reviewed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:05 PM
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CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on dates Oh this is an easy CMV. I'm a man, I'm not okay waiting to have sex. It's not because I'm "scared" of being friendzoned, it's because if I go see a woman with any romantic intentions, it's because i want to ram my cock inside her pussy/ass/mouth and fuck her into the next dimension.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:03 PM
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Real truth. I found that to be the case too. I remember reading somewhere that: If you had little money, Cartagena Colombia is the place to be If you have some money, Vietnam and SE Asia is the place to go, If you have good amount money, Miami, a bit more? NYC, Multimillions? Beverly Hills. Saudi Prince, global wealth fund money? The world is your oyster and you can shit down Sydney Sweeney's throat and she'll say "yum daddy, can I have some more please?".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:48 PM
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about 70k
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:45 PM
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This has been a wild week. I slept with two new women, both originally from Ukraine. This war and it's effects are going to be studied for decades after! Guys, you have to give up on Amy, Sara, Jen. You need to be seeing the influx of Yuliya and Ekatarina. They are young, incredibly sexy women. AND they are interesting after, they are just so damn feminine and intelligent, instead of the current pink hair freaks with their clits numb from their furious hitachi wands, overweight on vegetarian cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:30 PM
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I believe those people that can get real human relationships will dabble in "virtual experiences".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:51 PM
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I would toss in Minority Report (The movie) to the mix. Also Gattaca. I believe convincing virtual "experiences" will be a true mindfuck for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:50 PM
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I'll dare say it, I believe women think ChatbotAi paragraphs are meaningful and insightful. Lots of words, signifying nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:05 PM
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LOL, I hate replies that sound balanced, sitting on the fence, overly "thoughtful" and doesn't take a position. I automatically thinking Chatbot when all the gibberish written doesn't take a side in a convincing manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:55 PM
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Are you a ChatAi bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:49 PM
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The World Health Organization states "Overweight and obesity are defined as abnormal or excessive fat accumulation that presents a risk to health. A body mass index (BMI) over 25 is considered overweight, and over 30 is obese. The issue has grown to epidemic proportions, with over 4 million people dying each year as a result of being overweight or obese in 2017 according to the global burden of disease." It is regrettable that the WHO, an important and oft used resource the world over, uses BMI …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:19 PM
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Well I'll be. I guess there's a lid for every pot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:03 PM
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That resentment could be real, but often it's imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:03 PM
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You poor summer child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:58 PM
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and the sexual expression and behavior of male humans has relatively stayed the same throughout human history. That's demonstrably false. From the Amazonian tribes to Medieval times to pre biblical times... it's been wildly different in custom, tradition, expression, elucidation. If you think it's been the same since time immemorial, you're profoundly off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:57 PM
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Let's say you're right. I disagree, but let's go along with it. Do you not see the parallels of the decline and maladaptive behaviors in male rats to that of current men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:34 PM
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Your conclusion doesn't make any sense. The animals stopped mating all together, thus there was no "successful" male. There were sexually successful males leading up to the extinction end. Animals held in captivity with the inability to behave and engage with their environment The first rats introduced to the experiment did have experience with "outside", but the next couple of generations born in captivity did find initial success. became engulfed with neurological deterioration that eventually…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:19 PM
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In Dr. Calhoun's infamous "Rat Utopia" experiment, several interesting phenomena started to develop. In the famous "Universe 25", population peaked at 2,200 mice and thereafter exhibited a variety of abnormal, often destructive, behaviors including refusal to engage in courtship, females abandoning their young. By the 600th day, the population was on its way to extinction. Though physically able to reproduce, the mice had lost the social skills required to mate. This has a great synopsis of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:30 PM
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No it's the arrogance. Too many time in my life have I exposed an arrogant big mouth and put them in their place/exposed their shortcomings, whether it be financial or physical feats. The women get shocked for about 5 mins, and then it's as if their bfs/husbands being exposed as weak/unable to back up his words don't register in her head anymore. It's not the (presumed) competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:09 PM
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49. 22-35.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:04 PM
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NO CHILL. Incorrect statements MUST BE STAMPED OUT LIKE NAZIS if we are to have real, productive discussions and debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:58 PM
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LOL I know you're waiting with bated breath. You'll just have to put your dildo vibrator in your mouth and wait just a bit longer. Go sit on a washer = P
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:25 PM
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Well whatever love men feel, it compels them to express it much more grandly than women do. Exactly! WOMEN, name one monument, one grand gesture, building, work of art that a woman has created to show her love for a man... THERE ARE NONE!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:23 PM
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A woman definitely chooses to be with a man because she loves him. Right up until the moment that you're in Cancun and Matt is glancing your way, and you feel all warm and tingly and 15 mins into saying hello he wants to take you back to his room and show you the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:22 PM
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Women are incredibly disingenuous, weak willed, feeble minded, conflict avoidant and not nearly as competitive as a regular man, never mind an elite one. Women are decidedly not "fierce", nor independent as they may believe, nor strong, nor gracious, nor disciplined, nor good natured, nor magnanimous... And it's a really ridiculous when women firmly believe that they are. Read this women, and reflect: "What a piece of work is man! how noble in reason! how infinite in faculty! in form and moving …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:19 PM
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It's not very appealing to refute something so hyperbolic. Who said I was speaking in hyperbole? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:07 PM
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finally someone gets it! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:02 PM
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LOL yes that completely refutes it. Here's a lollipop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:01 PM
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LOL, ok that was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:54 PM
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A-cup energy. So sad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:54 PM
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happy bday = )
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:30 PM
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Sure, and a woman's expectations changes as quickly as the weather does in Milwaukee. How tiring to be trying to match a woman's mercurial whims.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:16 PM
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hope on 23andme and ancestry.com. I'm willing to bet money on the line that the conservative number is 10% and, if we ever got an honest report on this topic, the real number would be closer to 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:46 PM
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A woman's "love" is so short and fleeting. It is contingent on a man being on his A+ game, always, but worse than that, on her ability to attract the man she "wants" AND her ability to capitalize on it. Men are the true romantics of the world, women are just empty vessels inside, a void that can never be filled, screeching for oblivion. How sad. How pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:44 PM
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and yet you're here on PPD. Schadenfreude much?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:59 PM
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I still think hes right on this part " that the standard of passes as a attractive looking male face is a lot more unforgiving and narrowly defined" ding sding ding ding ding! We got a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:57 PM
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LOL. What kool aid report are you getting this from. Rates of false paternity are jaw droppingly high.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:54 PM
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Look if you're taking advice from the guy who played "Elf" you're gonna have a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:12 AM
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I girl I went on a date with admitted that she had a threesome with a long time friend of hers and his wife. It's not that the guy friend is actively trying to smash, but he's there. Lying in wait. He won't say no if the opportunity for smashing comes up. So if there is a "passive" yes, is the friendship null and void?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:10 AM
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It's almost as if men and women have ... different standards. L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:06 AM
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Can confirm. I grew up in the pre smart phone, even pre internet era. While I agree this technology has made certain things more difficult, it isn't the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:51 PM
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As a straight man, being hit on by gay men is what it must feel like to be a woman being hit on all the time by men you're not attracted to I've been hit on by gay men before and it made me uncomfortable because I didn't like the feeling of being seen that way by someone I am not sexually attracted to. I've been hit on gay men and I was alright with it. Maybe you should reflect on why you got so uncomfortable bruv LOL, maybe there's something there for you to discover. Only once I was annoyed by…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:17 PM
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Strange, she had some solidly big tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:12 PM
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Simple misunderstanding. One needs to cultivate an aura of fear so that enemies don't think you're a pushover. Also, we don't shame kink lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:03 PM
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Asking your partner to wear less revealing clothes: controlling or boundaries? It's a request. If she acquiesces, her desire to be in a relationship is worth more to her than the request. When a woman cares about your happiness and feelings towards her, there's little she won't do for you. If she declines, that is your opportunity to smile and say " well, it was nice knowing you" and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:02 PM
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Yeah sure but Anne belonged TO THE STREETS! Vlad just wanted to defeat his enemies, no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:58 PM
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“When more than two females collaborate [to fight] males, 100% of the time, females win,” he says. I reckon I can take on 5 women single handedly without worry. Realistic maximum? Maybe ... 9 depending on size
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:52 PM
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Anne Boleyn deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:51 PM
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The implication is that if he speaks up, she will leave him. He is grown, that's why he sees the writing on the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:10 PM
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Exactly. But women insist that men want to be friends with them. Gotta be honest and ask yourself, as woman, if you gained a lot of weight, got a whole lot less sexually appealing, would he still want to be your friend? You know the answer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:53 PM
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to one of them or both developing feelings. Or you mean the guy is bidding his time, keeping her in contact with him until she chooses to reach out to him to fuck (best case scenario, it's her own volition ) or he waiting for his opportunity to strike when she is vulnerable/unable to give consent (she's passed out on the couch drunk, he unzips and puts his cock in her mouth)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:12 PM
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I know. But I have seen it. Most men can go a full life and never truly know that women do not experience regret the same way we do. They do not experience love or fucking the way that we men do. They are incapable of it. It is beyond them. It is unsatisfying, I've witnessed their revelations at the end of life, and it's not what one would expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:21 PM
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Not my fight, I'm not a poor anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:00 PM
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I think it's fair to say that when we are talking about romance, attraction and sexual interactions between men and women here, we aren't talking about the poors. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:42 PM
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man-woman, if she were 400 lbs, he would not be her friend LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:27 PM
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And women will deny all this, but are reticent about being transparent about their sexual and romantic past, who they personally selected to fuck and have relationships with. Curious, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:26 PM
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It's so important to women because women are insatiable... there is nothing in reality that can fill the void in their empty souls. Not the biggest cock on the planet, not being richer than Bezos, Musk, and Gates combined, women have a black hole inside them so large I fear there isn't anything in the universe that can fill it. They are eternally unhappy until moments before they die. Only then does it appear that the surrendering to death brings them peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:24 PM
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All women are hoes and desire to get fucked like nasty sluts... by other men and NOT you. What really puts things in perspective is that I like to think I have a higher than median/average count for most men, and definitely most men my age. A plain jane, 20 year old girl in college, if she felt like it, can comfortably reach my number in 7 months ... 7 months would be all it takes for her to reach that number of sexual partners, and it's experience, and it's knowledge and wisdom that comes with …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:14 PM
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double trust me, that 8-10/10 looks woman who is that needy will find a scummier guy that will convince her that he, and not you, is her true love of her life, and will turn off the fucking tap/will make a quick 180 from you when you cease to serve her purposes. Needy women are just normal hypergamous women... but the hypergamy is dialed to a thousand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:08 PM
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Great post. Want to add to this, why is needy men repulsive to women? I think if you boil it down, women cannot trust a man that is needy. Neediness seems to signal all sorts of weakness in a man, physical, needs someone "stronger" to help negotiate threatening situations, emotional, a woman is DEEPLY averse to having to emotionally assuage and support a man, women are extremely allergic to feeling an onus placed on her of emotional responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:06 PM
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big true. A sexually unsuccessful friend of mine verbalized this to me when I asked him why he didn't try to "communicate" better with his partner. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:01 PM
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I'll do you one better. You bring up Alpha fux, beta buxx or Madonna-Whore, but it's WOMEN en masse that started this. THEY are the ones that divorced the guy they care/love/want to be with "forever" vs the guy they just want to fuck. Funnily enough, since time immemorial, it has been women who have been responsible and direct the behavior of that kinds of men she selects for to fuck, and the ones she hopes to have long term relationships with. ALL of women's selected men, in aggregate, shows ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:59 PM
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BIG Weird. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:07 PM
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Happens when regular vanilla sex just doesn't cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:59 PM
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Big truth. Swinging is the current dating market ON STEROIDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:58 PM
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We need to talk more about women ages 35+ who are REALLY into Disney, like always taking solo vacations to the theme park, shelves full of "collectibles" . They are fucking CRAZY ... and crazy in bed too! LOL. I love the ones that are wayy into tinkerbelle and Jasmine. They are so nasty in bed. Worst has been Ariel, too "vanilla".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:55 PM
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The amount of economically kind, emotionally sexy, & physically well adjusted viable available women interested in casual sex AND long term relationships in society is declining at an all time low. How do we change this? FTFY. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:32 PM
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I am not familiar with Adin Ross, but just going with what you posted, he fucked up. Not because he took the red pill, but because of his uncalibrated behavior after. It could be by design to stir controversy and gain followers, but more likely, he fucked up his own good situation and went too public/loud and aggressive with his new beliefs that he fucked up his own gravy train. Men have to understand that if you're successfully sucking on the tit of mainstream popularity, you don't pull a 180 f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:52 PM
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They get it... they just don't care. You're trying to functionally speak to 2 different sexual groups of heterosexual women. One group of women desire masculine men. They aren't keen in jumping into sexual relations fast. They prefer one sexual partner at a time. They take on a significantly more passive role in selecting sexual partners. The second group are a bit like bonobos. Very socially active, pretty open sexually with a wide variety of men. Occasionally women, or at least the thought of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:18 PM
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That's cool, you can think that. Anyone is allowed to think whatever. But you shouldn't infringe upon the right to do whatever the hell you want to do with your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:26 PM
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Wow. WTF. Chilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:23 PM
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I can't speak to that, but just read the book. Even Issac Newton was wrong about a great many things, doesn't mean he didn't stumble on great achievements.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:09 PM
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This was what bumble was supposed to be. So now there's just a middle man for wealth extraction, have a middle man, or go straight to onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:52 PM
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It's definitely filled with people I want to stick my genoa salami into. It's like it knows my "type"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:49 PM
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